Are You Who You Are

What is the best way to motivate yourself to do what is necessary to become successful in whatever that means to you? Be it a successful business, marriage, friendship test taker Marco Polo player. I discuss this and the driving force behind the start of new friendships. Enjoy

Sometimes bad things happen and you can’t even imagine any good possibly coming out of it. I felt the same way 20 or so years ago when something pretty bad and embarrassing happened to me. It was only recently that I was able to see why it was so good that I actually went through it.

In this episode we pick up where we left off. Understanding that it’s ok to be in a how and we don’t always need to be feeling perfect all the time will help us feel more perfect more often.

Sometimes we all of a sudden realize that we just did something stupid. With all eyes on us we plunge into another level of being embarrassed because we feel stupid that we are embarrassed. In this episode I give a perspective that will help you avoid the 2nd round of embarrassment. This way the next time you are embarrassed your face will only be a light shade of red and not purple grape juice

This episode goes against conventional wisdom that says get the hardest thing over with by doing it first and getting it out if the way. I argue to use the hardest thing as motivation to do everything else. Take a listen and you’ll see what I mean

In this episode I share some of my insights in what it takes to become a great person over a lifetime. Much easier than people think. If people would realize how easy it is more people would do it.

If money doesn’t bring happiness so then what does? In this episode I share a fundamental exercise that leads to more appreciation and gratitude for what you already have. It’s all about perspective and focus. Listen up this episode is not an oldy but it most definitely is a goody. You get it? Because most people say it’s an oldy but a goody haha lol enjoy:) (awkward ending)

Many people spend their lives chasing illusions. One such illusion is the chase of money with the belief that it will make you happier and more content. In this episode I finally put this illusion and false notion to rest. Enjoy.

In this episode I fill you in on a life long struggle I have with anger. I don’t break dishes or anything but I do have a hard time not letting my emotions get to me. In this episode I share with you the insights I had along the way. The main one being how to not let anger get to you. If you don’t like this episode please don’t get angry

In this episode I discuss doing more leads to doing more. Being busy is one if the best things we can do for ourselves. Understanding why is key and I hope to hand over the key in this episode. I guess more like make a copy of the key for you. I still want to hold onto my key. ENJOY!

We all have moments where we don’t feel like we are doing as well as we’d like. Many times the reason has nothing to do with us. Though we have a hard time separating fact from fiction and we get down in ourselves which can unfortunately become a self fulfilling prophecy. In this episode I share with you a down I am currently going through due to a hectic schedule. I speak my thoughts on the struggle of having the right perspective and reverse the self fulfilling prophecy. Listen and learn the correct attitude on how to succeed despite the setbacks that come along every journey.

We spend our days hoping, wishing and convincing ourselves we want to change but decide that now it is too difficult. When things get easier then I will start living the life I want to live. In this episode I share the one problem you will always face. It has something to do with nothing.

After following through on a bad habit. Many times we find ourselves promising to never do it again. We mean it whole heartedly, yet find ourselves repeating the same old actions again. What should we do? How can we stop this awful repetitive bad behavior? Look no further than to King David himself. In one of the biggest showdowns in the entire history of the earth. David teaches us how to approach our bad habits and change them and make them history.

In this episode I share with you a new idea I had to change the way we look at failure. We all know failure is the pathway to success. How do we embrace it when it’s so painful? How do we get over the fear? I present to you my answer to this question.

For years I would ponder this question. Why does the idea of road rage exist? What happens on the road that gets people so angry? I spent much time over many years pondering this question. Until I finally cracked the answer. Here it is with all of its glory, and how understanding it can save lives.

When we are faced with a struggle that we don’t see a possible way to overcome. There are two ways that can lift you out of the funk. The motivator and the strategist. I discuss which one I think is more advantageous

In middle of the day I get a message that looks like this. “Im sorry I scratched the whole car up” with a picture of my brand new car all scratched up! In this episode I share with you my response, and what led me to responding the way I did.

When my car broke down, I almost went right with it. It is only because I developed a healthy habit that allowed me to deal with this stressful situation. In this episode I will share with you what that habit is and how you can develop it for yourself.

We all know so many people that have so many problems. I am also sure we all have great advice to give them. The question is, why don’t we have the answers for ourselves? In this episode I discuss the reason why it’s so easy to have advice for others while at the same time, not having any success in our own struggles.

In order to be the most effective person we can be. We must put the emphasis on the things we can change and stop worrying about things we can not.

I believe the journey of personal growth to become the best you can be is the fastest route to happiness. The first step is to be comfortable with who you are. In this episode I explain my journey to realizing who I really was.