Cactus_Fleur

Thank you to everyone who has stuck with me through all this. 2020 has been a trying year but am super grateful to have had you on the journey with me. wishing you an Merry Christmas and a happy and prosperous new year --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In a world where Good always triumphs evil. what does it mean to be good? What is the cost of being good. When you build your identity around goodness how can you find yourself? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

What does it mean to be African? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

What does being Single look like? Is there a way of framing single hood beyond the narrative of it as a segway before something more? In this episode I share what my journey with singleness has been and how I am navigating it. Instagram: @cactus_fleur --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

Our lives can be broken down into a series of stories. The stories we tell ourselves about the world and the stories we tell other about ourselves. In these stories who gets to be the hero and who gets to be the villain? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

Inspired by Mark Manson's book the Subtle Art of not giving a F*ck, I discuss what exceptionalism means to me and how that has affected how I see myself and the world around me. "Most of us are pretty average at most things we do. Even if you're exceptional at one thing, chances are you're average or below average at most other things. That's just the nature of life. To become truly great at something, you have to dedicate shit-tons of time and energy to it. And because we all have limited time and energy, few of us ever become truly exceptional at more than one thing, if anything at all. We can then say that it's a statistical improbability that any single person will be an extraordinary performer in all areas of life, or even in many areas of their life" Thank you for joining me. Stay beautiful Follow me on Instagram @cactus_fleur Youtube Cactus_Fleur --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

When it comes to religion there are many divisive and unifying thoughts and beliefs. My journey with religion has been one that has led me to a place where I cannot completely identify with one faith but respect values entrenched in most. Thank you so much for listening. Please subscribe, like, comment and share. Let's connect on Instagram: @cactus_fleur Cactus Fleur Podcast: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1JxRMSg... Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Google Podcast: https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=... Anchor FM: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In the world of buzzwords, race politics and race identity often. Being black is reduced to a monolith and I find myself exploring the ways in which I exist and thrive in this identity. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

Feminism is one of those values that I stand by resolutely. In this episode I explore the nuances and dynamics that sometimes make up this expression of self for me. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

After 14 episodes of "Finding Myself" I am finally ready to close this chapter. In this episode I recap the journey and all the lessons I have learnt during this season of Finding. Thank you so much for listening . Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @cactus_Fleur --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

What does it mean to be feminine? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In a world with so much information how do we know what is true --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

What does a mother's love look like? IS it all natural or does it take work? That is the topic we will explore in today's episode. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In this episode we explore how to keep yourself accountable while taking real stock of your achievements. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

During these "unprecedented times" with so much changing and evolving, how does one find balance? This episode explores this question --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In this episode I explore the differences between having external vs interval validation systems. I discuss my journey to finding balance and what that looks like for me --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In this episode we explore the ways racism has shown up in friendship and dating --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

There are some topics that are difficult to navigate. But we all need to learn how to grieve and mourn because in there lies our ability to rebuild. I hope that as the journey starts you find authentic ways to show up for yourself. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

How does one find love? What does that look like? Let us continue the conversation on Instagram: @Cactus_fleur Music: https://www.bensound.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

What do you do when you feel like you have done all you were meant to do but somehow you are still not in the promised land? How do you learn a new way of living a new way of dreaming? How do you open up to new possibilities? In this week's episode I share my career path so far and questions and uncertainty I am facing. Let us continue the conversation on Instagram: @Cactus_fleur Music: https://www.bensound.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In this episode we explore the dynamics of creating and maintaining healthy adult friendships. We talk about intimacy and compatibility. Mel Robbins: The Psychology Of Compatibility https://youtu.be/W1hA4cKXU18 Nice Guy Trope: https://youtu.be/8JkZ55np3z8 BFF Trope: https://youtu.be/QQgmcQwbJew Music: https://www.bensound.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In this episode we deconstruct beauty. What does it mean to be beautiful? Why do we care? What can we do about it. To continue engaging in this conversation follow me on Instagram @cactus_fleur Music: https://www.bensound.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

In today's episode we will explore in more detail what this podcast is about as well as what my fitness journey has been like. What I have learnt from it and what I hope others can learn too. Music: https://www.bensound.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support

What is love? How do you define love? Why do you define it? This episode explores these topics --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cactus-fleur/support