Podcasts about subtle art

Mark Manson is the bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck* and Everything Is Fcked*, and host of The Mark Manson Podcast. He joins me for a powerful conversation that completely reframes confidence, purpose, and people pleasing.We unpack why modern confidence is so misunderstood, and how many of us are accidentally undermining it by chasing validation, praise and external accolades. Mark breaks down his actual formula for confidence: what truly builds it, what quietly erodes it and why you can't “affirmation” your way into feeling secure.We talk about the psychology at the core of people pleasing, why fear of rejection runs so deep and how to set personal rules that create strong boundaries without constant anxiety about disappointing others. We also get into how to properly audit your life, the problem with self-diagnosing in the age of TikTok therapy and why self awareness alone isn't enough.Finally, we dismantle the myths around purpose--why most people are searching for it in the wrong way--and the three components that actually create a meaningful life.If you've ever struggled with people pleasing, outsourced your worth, or felt pressure to “find your purpose,” this episode will give you a much more grounded, practical framework for becoming genuinely confident.This episode is brought to you by:Save 15% off my favorite Red Light Mask from BON CHARGE by using code BLONDE at www.boncharge.com.If you want clearer insight into your health, go to ForHers.com and schedule your labs today.Use code WELL and save 20% on your first order at https://justthrivehealth.com/WELL.Go to ro.co/blonde to see if you're eligible for the new GLP-1 pill on ro.Head to paleovalley.com/well or use code well at checkout for 15% off your first purchase. Visit ButcherBox.com/WELL for $20 off plus free shipping.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this engaging conversation, Patton Dodd, author of the recent book The Father You Get: And the Ones You Make, Believe In, and Become, shares his insights on fatherhood, personal growth, and the power of windshield time with your kids.Dodd reflects on his journey through the challenges of growing up with a removed and isolated father who created hurt and pain in most of his relationships and growing up to turn that into resolve. He emphasizes the significance of vulnerability and mere presence in building connections with his children, while also addressing his own insecurities. The discussion highlights the need for fathers to create safe spaces for open conversations and to rebel against the insecurities that can hinder their relationships with their kids.Order your copy of Patton's book here and be sure to leave a review: https://amzn.to/3ZvTrtk---------This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.comEach week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young menThis episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

Have you ever noticed you didn't explode out of your life… you just slowly turned the volume down?That's what giving up really looks like. It's not dramatic. It's subtle. It's quiet quitting on yourself.In this episode, I break down why we stop trying even when we still want more. I share how distraction, fear of rejection, delayed gratification, and shaky self-belief chip away at our ambition. I walk you through the three pillars of my Mountain Method: beliefs, actions, and habits. When those three are out of sync, you drift. When they align, you climb.If you've been staring at your next mountain thinking, “Nope. Too much,” this is your reset. You're not stuck. You're misaligned. And that can change.Key Takeaways:· How subtle quitting shows up in your daily life before you even notice it· Why distraction and fear of rejection quietly destroy confidence· The belief shift that keeps entrepreneurs' alive past year one· How decisive action replaces chaos and builds momentum· The six high performance habits that drive income, fulfillment, and prideAbout Rebecca:In 2008, I blew up my life in spectacular fashion. I left a cult, got divorced, and for a time, lost even the few people I had leaned on. I thought greener grasses awaited me. I was wrong. Despite building a wildly successful digital marketing business, remarrying and growing my family to four kids, I felt nothing but dread each morning.Then came what I now call Epiphany Town. It was that electric moment when I stopped defining my life by what happened to me and began building on purpose. That phase lit me up in a way I had never felt. Now I devote every ounce of my energy to guiding others through their own version of Epiphany Town. I help them find the barriers that are actually holding them back, finally let go of self-sabotaging stories, and leap into a life that is meaningful and deeply fulfilling.I believe each of us has a story to tell, a gift to offer, and a life worth waking up for. Whether your goal is to impact one person or a million, I am here to help you see your place, claim your voice, and live your life on your terms.https://rebeccamountain.ca/Thanks for listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the podcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcasts reviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

Inspired by The Subtle Art of Not Giving a..., this sleep hypnosis is designed for anyone who feels mentally exhausted from trying to manage everything at once. If your mind keeps replaying worries, responsibilities, or other people's problems at night, this experience helps you gently let go. With calming guidance, slow pacing, and deep relaxation, your nervous system learns that you don't have to carry it all to be a good person. As you sleep, mental noise softens, priorities become clearer, and you rest more deeply—so you wake up feeling lighter, calmer, and focused on what truly matters.

Description:  Jen revisits this fan favorite episode with Mel Robbins. Buckle up, listeners.  It was only a matter of time before our paths crossed with Mel Robbins, one of the most respected experts on change and motivation in the zeitgeist, and today is that day. Known for being the host of the #1 ranking education podcast in the world, bringing deeply relatable topics, tactical advice, tools, and compelling conversations to her audiences, Jen and Amy spend today's hour diving into Mel's “Let Them” theory, which is taking the world by storm, already delivering instant peace and freedom in the lives and relationships of people putting it into practice. Together, they discuss: The difference between “Let Them” and “Let Me” Learning to release the white-knuckle grip we hold over other people's behavior (and other things beyond our control) Reframing disappointment to view it as a gift (yes, it's possible!) Repositioning self-worth inward, rather than leaving it dependent on others' opinions. Thought-provoking Quotes: “For a lot of women, we spend so much time upstairs in our heads as people-pleasers and over-analyzers, over-thinking and ruminating, trying to get things perfect. That's the last place I should be, personally. I need to drop into my body and get out of my head.” – Mel Robbins “People reveal who they are and what they care about through their behavior. Ignore their words. Watch their behavior. Let people be who they are. Let them do what they're going to do. Focusing on them is not where your power is.” – Mel Robbins “The difference between ‘not my business' and ‘let them' is worlds apart. When you say, ‘not my business', you're scolding yourself. With, ‘let them', you're in the power position because you see what's happening and are choosing to allow it without allowing it. You're rising above it.” – Mel Robbins Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Demotivators - https://despair.com/collections/ Effin Birds on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/effinbirds/ Van Morrison - https://www.vanmorrison.com/ No Hard Feelings by the Avett Brothers - https://open.spotify.com/track/0bgQ1hQrpP6ScdBZlDfLE2 Foo Fighters - https://foofighters.com/ DePeche Mode - https://www.depechemode.com/ The Cure - https://www.thecure.com/ Taylor Swift - https://www.taylorswift.com/ The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage by Mel Robbins - https://amzn.to/427OHwu The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About by Mel Robbins - https://amzn.to/4hc53bE The Mel Robbins Podcast - https://www.melrobbins.com/podcast The Four Questions: For Henny Penny and Anybody with Stressful Thoughts by Byron Katie - https://amzn.to/3C7tKXT My Legacy Podcast - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-my-legacy-podcast-255793246/ Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl - https://amzn.to/4ajbyaz Dr. Stuart Ablon - https://www.stuartablon.com/ The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson - https://amzn.to/3PCqxmi Guest's Links: Website - https://www.melrobbins.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins Twitter - https://x.com/melrobbins Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@melrobbins Podcast - https://www.melrobbins.com/podcast/ Connect with Jen!Jen's Website - https://jenhatmaker.com/ Jen's Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmakerJen's Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ Jen's Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmakerJen's YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker The For the Love Podcast is presented by Audacy.  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I break down The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson — so you don't have to read it yourself.This isn't your typical self-help book. Instead of telling you to “think positive,” this book challenges everything we've been taught about happiness, success, and caring too much. I walk through the key lessons, biggest takeaways, and real-life applications of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck*, and explain what actually matters — and what doesn't.If you're overwhelmed, burned out, tired of toxic positivity, or just curious why this book went viral, this episode is for you.In this episode, we cover:The core message behind The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck*Why caring less can actually improve your mental healthWhat Mark Manson gets right (and what's overrated)How to choose what deserves your energyWho this book is actually for — and who can skip itThis is an honest book review and summary, designed to help you decide if this book is worth your time — without the fluff.Perfect for fans of:Self-help book summariesPersonal growth and mindset shiftsMental health and self-improvementBook review podcasts“I read this book so you don't have to” contentAnd that's the breakdown. I read the book so you didn't have to, but now I want to hear from you: What is one thing you're officially choosing to stop giving a f*ck about this week? > Drop your answer in the comments—I'll be jumping in to reply to as many as I can. If this deep dive saved you some time or gave you a new perspective, do me a huge favor: hit that subscribe button and tap the notification bell. It's the best way to support the show so I can keep doing the reading for you.

In this episode, Julian is joined by Asif, a recent computer science graduate and Advanced Python teaching assistant at Northern Arizona University, to talk about building AI that actually delivers real-world value. Asif shares how an early curiosity for automation grew into a passion for machine learning, AI agents, and end-to-end systems that solve real business problems. We explore the gap between training models and deploying useful solutions, including how Asif builds privacy-aware AI agents for things like chatbots, summaries, and business insights that non-technical users can actually understand and use.The conversation goes deep into what it really takes to move from classroom learning to production-ready AI: failing fast, grinding through technical barriers, thinking about deployment and data privacy early, and focusing on projects that recruiters and businesses can clearly see the value in.Reach out to Asif on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asif-p-056530232/Check out Asif's Portfolio (it's super cool!): https://asifflix.vercel.app/Follow Asif on Github: https://github.com/Asif-0209Books mentioned:The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck -https://pybitesbooks.com/books/yng_CwAAQBAJHope in Action - https://pybitesbooks.com/books/4XZEEQAAQBAJ___

Mark Manson joins Matt & Abby for a thoughtful, honest conversation about modern self-help, personal responsibility, and what actually leads to a meaningful life. They talk marriage as a “long conversation,” the dangers of toxic positivity, dating apps, friendship, death, and how Mark's thinking has evolved since writing The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck. This episode is sponsored by Cash App, Audible, Square & Nutrafol. Cash App: Download Cash App Today: [https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/kssum24w #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.Audible: Go to https://Audible.com/MessyLove to start listening today.Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/UNPLANNED! #squarepodNutrafol: Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to https://Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code UNPLANNEDPOD Chapters: 00:00 - Mark Manson 03:12 - Disappointment Panda 06:45 - Titling The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck 13:00 - sponsor: CashApp 14:37 - Religious influence 19:15 - Dangers of self help 21:59 - How my views have changed 23:50 - Personal responsibility 26:34 - sponsor: audible 27:44 - Children and purpose 34:41 - Importance of community 39:45 - sponsor: square 41:40 - Three factors of friendship 46:33 - Quality of Life 53:15 - sponsor: Nutrafol 56:25 - Death 1:00:16 - Marriage: the Long Conversation 1:03:19 - The trap of dating apps 1:07:53 - Keeping score in marriage 1:13:18 - Launching a new self help app Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mark Manson is a bestselling author, blogger, and cultural commentator known for his honest, no-nonsense take on personal growth. He first gained global recognition with Models, a practical guide to dating and authenticity, followed by the international bestseller The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck. His work challenges traditional self-help by emphasizing values, responsibility, and psychological realism. Mark also hosts the podcast SOLVED, where he explores life's hardest questions through science, philosophy, and candid conversation.In our conversation we discuss:(0:34) – Reinventing identity across career stages(4:31) – Advice for releasing outdated identities(8:29) – Letting go of former selves(10:55) – Effects of quitting alcohol(16:59) – Handling social stigma when not drinking(19:08) – Developing a healthy relationship with boredom(25:59) – Subtraction versus addition in personal growth(28:33) – Balancing self-acceptance and self-improvement(30:55) – Motivation without tying worth to success(33:44) – What deserves a scarcity mindset(36:49) – When suffering gives life meaning(41:40) – Finding a meaningful purpose to pursue(44:24) – Values grounded in personal control(47:13) – Identity tied to work in future societies(52:02) – How status changes when wealth declines(53:48) – Self-help as modern secular religion(59:32) – Will religion make a comeback(1:02:05) – Law of “fuck yes or no” explained(1:04:04) – Key questions to evaluate relationships(1:06:08) – Identifying non-negotiables in partners(1:09:16) – Why attraction feels uncontrollable(1:16:23) – Ending friendships that no longer serve(1:21:00) – Personal growth focus right nowWatch full episodes on: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@seankim⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect on IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/heyseankim

In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author Mark Manson - bestselling author, best known for The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and co-founder of Purpose, the world's first AI mentor specifically built for personal growth.  We have a  wide-ranging, grounded conversation about why New Year's resolutions don't work, what "not giving a f*ck" actually means, and why meaning—not happiness—is the real foundation of a fulfilling life. We also explore the surprising pros and cons of using AI as a therapist, the limits of mindset-only self-help, and where personal responsibility can turn into self-punishment if we're not careful. This conversation is honest, nuanced, and refreshingly free of spiritual bypass—perfect for anyone who's tired of self-improvement clichés and ready for real growth.

What if the pressure to be “special” is actually what's keeping you stuck? In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author Mark Manson to talk about why success doesn't cure anxiety, how your ego fights change, and why transformation feels long before it feels empowering. Mark shares the thinking behind The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F-bomb documentary, the personal stories that shaped it, and why realizing you're not unique in your struggles is actually liberating. Get ready to stop chasing perfection, release the pressure to be extraordinary, and find freedom in being human. In This Episode You Will Learn Why realizing you're NOT SPECIAL can actually set you FREE. Why GROWTH feels UNCOMFORTABLE and why that's a GOOD sign. How to stop tying your WORTH to OUTCOMES. How to break PATTERNS that keep repeating in relationships and work. How to LET GO of labels that trap your identity. Why AVOIDING PAIN creates more PROBLEMS than it solves. How to stop chasing PERFECT and start living with PURPOSE. Why confronting MORTALITY clarifies what actually matters. Check Out Our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Quince - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence Timeline - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree Resources + Links Get your copy of The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F*ck by Mark Manson HERE Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Mark on Instagram & LinkedIn

Headline: They don't scream. They don't brag. They just slowly break you down.Most people think they know what a narcissist looks like—someone loud, arrogant, and demanding the spotlight. But as a diagnosed self-aware narcissist, I'm here to tell you that the most dangerous ones are the ones you never see coming.In this Remix episode, we are diving deep into the "Quiet Narcissist." We explore why this type is so effective at keeping you trapped for years, often without you even realizing you're being manipulated. Instead of grandiose displays of power, the quiet narcissist uses silence, "victimhood," and passive-aggressive behavior to maintain total control. If you've ever felt like you were "losing your mind" in a relationship but couldn't point to any "big" blowups, this episode is for you.In this episode, we break down:The "Nice Guy/Girl" Mask: Why their outward humility is their greatest weapon.Passive-Aggressive Warfare: How they use "the cold shoulder" and subtle digs to punish you.The Professional Victim: Why they always make themselves the "underdog" to keep you in a "fixer" role.The Subtle Discard: How they withdraw affection to make you work harder for their approval.The Path to Clarity: How to stop doubting your reality and see the patterns for what they truly are.Stop looking for the "loud" red flags and start paying attention to the silence.Connect with Lee:My Courses: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.mentalhealness.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Healing Support Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mentalhealness.thinkific.com/products/communities/thementalhealers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠1-on-1 Coaching Calls: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mentalhealness1on1perspective.as.me/schedule/ec588030⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss

Today, I explore the concept of intuition, emphasizing that everyone possesses it but often struggles to trust it. I distinguish between intuition, anxiety, and ego, explaining how to recognize and differentiate these inner voices. I encourage you to reconnect with your intuition by starting with small, low-stakes decisions, and I emphasize the importance of slowing down to hear your inner guidance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I explore the concept of intuition, emphasizing that everyone possesses it but often struggles to trust it. I distinguish between intuition, anxiety, and ego, explaining how to recognize and differentiate these inner voices. I encourage you to reconnect with your intuition by starting with small, low-stakes decisions, and I emphasize the importance of slowing down to hear your inner guidance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a replay from The Existential Stoic library. Enjoy! Do you care too much? Do you struggle with anxiety or depression? In this episode, Danny and Randy discuss the subtle art of not giving a f*ck.Subscribe to ESP's YouTube Channel! Thanks for listening!  Do you have a question you want answered in a future episode? If so, send your question to: existentialstoic@protonmail.com

Mark Manson is the author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and host of the Solved podcast. Back for his third appearance (eps. 476, 882), we skip the backstory and pull questions from a fishbowl. We discuss vanity goals versus values-aligned goals, why procrastination is really about emotional avoidance, the trap of people-pleasing, how to distinguish intuition from impulse, and the delusion of passive manifestation. I also share my own shifting perspectives on positive thinking and the dissolution of self. Mark is the anti-guru. And this conversation is your New Year intervention. Enjoy! Show notes + MORE Watch on YouTube Newsletter Sign-Up Today's Sponsors: Seed: Use code RICHROLL20 for 20% OFF your first order

Mark Manson joins Gabby Reece to talk about responsibility, authenticity, relationships, and choosing the problems that actually matter. A grounded conversation on identity, commitment, and what it means to live well in a complicated modern world.ABOUT MARK MANSONMark Manson is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, and thinker best known for The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, Everything Is F*cked, and The Will Smith Memoir. His work blends psychology, philosophy, and cultural critique to help people live more honest, grounded, and meaningful lives.FOR MORE ON GABBYInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficialThe Gabby Reece Show on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReeceSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Robin Gill is a serial restaurateur who has built multiple, entirely different restaurant concepts — not chains, not repeats. In this episode, Robin breaks down why great hospitality isn't about big gestures or surface-level creativity — but about systems, discipline, and invisible details that customers feel without ever consciously noticing. Drawing on years of building restaurants from scratch, we explore what actually creates loyalty, repeat business, and long-term success — in hospitality and far beyond. ===============

#259: Learn how to pick the challenges in life that actually matter. We break down how to stop optimizing for the wrong things, why values trump goals in decision-making, practical strategies for building real friendships, and more. Mark Manson is the bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck (20M+ copies sold). He hosts the Solved podcast, writes the newsletter Your Next Breakthrough, and co-founded Purpose, an AI tool for exploring purpose and values. Link to Full Show Notes: https://chrishutchins.com/mark-manson-purpose-and-meaning Partner Deals Bilt Rewards: Earn the most valuable points when you pay rent Thrive Market: 30% off your first order of organic groceries + a free $60 gift Fabric: Affordable term life insurance for you and your family Copilot Money: Get 26% off my favorite personal finance app Vuori: 20% off the most comfortable performance apparel I've ever worn For all the deals, discounts and promo codes from our partners, go to: chrishutchins.com/deals Resources Mentioned Mark: Website | Newsletter | X The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck Solved Podcast Making Friends as an Adult, Solved Your Values, Solved Purpose App Full Show Notes (00:00) Introduction (00:47) What Most People Get Wrong About Living a Good Life (01:13) Why Struggle Is Inevitable and Necessary (02:18) Why Purpose Is Revealed, Not Found (04:34) Choosing the Right Metric To Optimize Your Life (06:26) The Three Ingredients of Meaningful Purpose (08:32) Why Purpose Doesn't Require Changing the World (12:33) Radical Honesty as the Starting Point for Meaning (14:32) What Happens After You Achieve Everything You Wanted (17:48) Why Other People Can See Your Purpose Before You Do (21:06) Why Honest Conversations Are So Hard (and So Necessary) (28:41) Why Adult Friendship Is Uniquely Difficult (32:29) How Work, Kids, and Technology Changed Friendship (33:27) Why “Shared Stakes” Matter More Than Shared Spaces in Adult Friendships (37:02) When Life Feels Hard and Why That's Normal (42:21) Making Better Decisions by Clarifying Your Values (43:57) How To Check In on Your Life Without Obsessing Over Goals (46:57) When Quitting a Goal Is the Right Decision (50:48) Why We Rarely Talk About Meaning With Friends (53:30) Building an AI To Ask Better Life Questions (55:04) How AI and Therapy Can Work Together (57:52) Is It Okay If Your Job Is Not Your Purpose? (01:00:07) The First Step Toward a More Meaningful Life (01:01:06) How To Define Value Beyond Status (01:02:08) Where To Find More From Mark Connect with Chris Newsletter | Membership | X | Instagram | LinkedIn Editor's Note: The content on this page is accurate as of the posting date; however, some of our partner offers may have expired. Opinions expressed here are the author's alone, not those of any bank, credit card issuer, hotel, airline, or other entity. This content has not been reviewed, approved or otherwise endorsed by any of the entities included within the post. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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On this episode we crack a bottle of Ardnahoe's Inaguarl Release while talking distillery pronunciations, wild episodes, passing by Ardnahoe on the way to Bunnahabhain, Scottish hug in your haggis, a pseudo epiphany, deep metaphors,  illustrating how we engage in new ideas, bubble paitings, the blending of pigments, arts and crafts to deep philosophies, saying the word bubble 75 times, how we move through knowledge and understanding, experiences shaping who you are, burden to gain the colors, the freeing message, Jake Gyllenhall and toothpasty bubble gum.  Support Us On Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/DrepandStone We'd love to hear from you! https://linktr.ee/DrepandStone Don't forget to subscribe! Music by @joakimkarudmusic Episode #325  

Mega-bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, Mark Manson joins Kelly to discuss sabotaging happiness, the key to long term relationships and quitting versus letting go. Mark breaks down a good man vs a nice man, when we should give a fuck, and asks what are you willing to be disliked for. A perfect Holiday season listen! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Every crisis creates the same instinct in people: go back to the wisdom that has outlasted everything else. In today's episode, Ryan and Mark Manson dive into why Stoicism keeps coming back during moments of crisis, why world leaders and big thinkers have leaned on it for centuries, and what its modern resurgence gets right and wrong.Check out Ryan's FULL episode on Solved with Mark Manson on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube Grab Mark's books: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k Journal, and Everything Is F***ked: A Book About Hope, at The Painted PorchFollow Mark on YouTube, and check out more of his work at https://markmanson.net/

Most people think confidence is about believing you'll succeed. Mark Manson knows better — it's about being comfortable with failure. After writing one of the best-selling nonfiction books of all time and spending nearly two decades studying human psychology, the author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck has cracked the code on why Gen Z is struggling with relationships, why therapy culture might be making us worse, and why your emotions are a system that needs managing just like your business. In this raw conversation, Mark breaks down the alarming statistics behind today's confidence crisis, why dating apps are optimizing for all the wrong things, and how adopting labels as identity actually amplifies your problems. We dive deep into the hidden costs of success, why the happiest country in the world has low expectations, and the brutal truth about why 20-25% of Gen Z has cut off at least one parent. He reveals why AI therapy is both promising and dangerous, the single question that exposes red flags on first dates, and why marrying well is the highest leverage decision of your entire life. But this isn't just about what's broken — it's about what actually works. Mark explains why failure is the only currency that matters, how to stop being a people pleaser without being a dick, and why your bank account reflects the difficult conversations you're willing to have. If you've ever felt like you're chasing happiness instead of meaning, or if you want to build real confidence that comes from action instead of affirmation, this episode will change how you think about success, relationships, and the problems you're willing to have in your life. Thanks to GoDaddy for sponsoring this video! Head to ⁠https://godaddy.com/codiesanchez⁠ to get started with GoDaddy Airo® today ___________ 00:00:00 Introduction 00:01:16 The Paradox of Being Likable 00:05:19 The Dating App Crisis and Modern Relationships 00:07:45 What Real Success Actually Means 00:09:16 The Happiest Country: Low Expectations in Finland 00:11:28 Social Skills: The 80/20 of Happiness 00:13:21 Confidence is Comfort with Failure 00:15:14 Building Failure Muscle: From Small to Big 00:24:07 The Post-Exit Existential Crisis 00:27:33 Stop Labeling Yourself: Identity and Mental Health 00:45:07 Emotions as a System to Manage 00:48:37 The Why Game: Peeling Back the Onion 00:49:45 Therapy Culture and Cutting Off Family 00:53:48 ChatGPT as Therapist: The Malignant Narcissist Problem 00:56:27 Building Purpose: AI That Challenges You 01:02:40 AI Limitations: Brilliant Idiots 01:06:21 Choosing a Life Partner: More Than Romance 01:09:37 The Best First Date Question 01:11:18 Everything Comes with Bullshit 01:12:17 What Pain Do You Want? ___________ MORE FROM BIGDEAL

▶️ Connect with Richard on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richardatherton-firsthuman/   What does it really mean to live in balance — not by escaping pain, but by transforming how we meet it? In this episode of Being Human, filmmaker and Tai Chi teacher George Thompson shares his journey from anxiety, self-doubt, and overthinking to presence, spaciousness, and embodied awareness. After travelling to the Wudang Mountains in China to study Tai Chi and Daoist philosophy, George discovered a radical shift: “To hurt is to be human. Balance is possible. Practice is the path.”   We explore how ancient wisdom meets modern life, and how spirituality becomes actionable, grounded, and deeply human.   We cover: - Turning up at the wrong temple - Scrolling Reddit on the Sacred Mountain - Materialism vs dualism vs panpsychism - The role of compassion and connection in leadership Oh, to have so much wisdom so early in life! George is a treat. Links: George's Website Taoist Wellness Online

Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennett, the dynamic duo behind the book This Is So Awkward: Modern Puberty Explained and the co-hosts of The Puberty Podcast, were on the show a few years ago when their book was first published, and so I was eager to have them back on for a deeper conversation about the often awkward but incredibly important stage of growing up called puberty and how parents can better support their kids through it, especially when neurodivergence adds an extra layer of complexity. In our conversation, we dive into the early onset of puberty, what's new in the updated paperback edition of This Is So Awkward, and their vision for a more comprehensive, affirming approach to health education. We also talk about the unique challenges for parents of neurodivergent kids and why all of us—parents, educators, and communities—need better tools and language to support young people through this pivotal time. Ultimately, we're talking about whole child development. Because every child no matter their age, race, socio economic status, brain wiring, will go through this stage of life. And as it turns out, what all kids need to emerge more seen and whole is the same thing. About Cara Natterson, MD Cara Natterson, MD, is a pediatrician, consultant, and New York Times bestselling author. She's also the co-founder and CEO of Order of Magnitude, a company dedicated to flipping puberty positive. Cara's books focus largely on puberty — some written for the kids going through it, and others for the adults helping them along the way. Her list of titles includes The Care and Keeping of You series with more than 7 million copies in print. While this reach is incredible, the written word is only one way to transform the experience of adolescence. About Vanessa Kroll Bennett Vanessa Kroll Bennett is a puberty educator and writer, a podcaster, and entrepreneur who helps adults navigate uncertainty while they support the kids they love. Vanessa is the co-host of The Puberty Podcast which is exactly what it sounds like and the founder of Dynamo Girl, a company focused on building kids' self-esteem through sports, puberty education and parent workshops. Vanessa consults with organizations, large and small, on how to authentically engage children in their communities.  Things you'll learn from this episode  How the average age of puberty is shifting earlier, beginning as young as 8 to 10 years old Why parents and educators need reliable, science-based information to navigate early puberty confidently How neurodivergent children may experience puberty differently and benefit from tailored support Why it's essential to include boys in open, ongoing conversations about puberty and development How empowering children with knowledge and advocacy can positively shape their growth and self-understanding Why collaboration between parents, educators, and experts leads to stronger, more inclusive health education Resources mentioned This is So Awkward: Modern Puberty Explained by Cara Natterson, MD and Vanessa Kroll Bennett Dr. Cara Natterson's website, the Worry-Proof MD This is So Awkward Dynamo Girl (Vanessa Bennett's website) Uncertain Parenting Newsletter Less Awkward on Instagram Vanessa on Instagram The Order of Magnitude Oomla The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls by Cara Natterson Decoding Boys: New Science Behind the Subtle Art of Raising Sons by Cara Natterson What You Need to Know About Modern-Day Puberty, with Cara Natterson & Vanessa Kroll Bennett (Tilt Parenting Podcast) Sex Education and Our Differently Wired Kids, with Amy Lang (Tilt Parenting podcast) Sex Educator Amy Lang Talks About Kids and Pornography (Tilt Parenting podcast) Amy Lang on How Having “The Talk” Can Help Keep Your Kids Safe Online (Tilt Parenting podcast) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Welcome to George's Self-Discovery Journey—a raw, real conversation inspired by the acclaimed movie, The Subtle Art of Losing Yourself. In this episode, George blazes a trail through the wild Scottish Highlands, bringing to life the core themes of his transformational film. If you're ready for something beyond the usual self-help chatter, this self-discovery Journey plunges you into discomfort and uncertainty—where letting go of control is the only way to discover your truth.George shares moments of falling apart and finding strength, trading comfort for courage. Be prepared for stories of surrender, of inner critics silenced in the mud and rain, and of what happens when you lose yourself to finally find what matters. No filters, no perfection—just the honesty of starting over, learning to cope, and the gritty reality of rediscovering yourself from the inside out. Whether you're struggling with burnout, searching for meaning, or daring to break old patterns, let The Subtle Art of Losing Yourself be your invitation to real personal change.Here is the Youtube link to he Subtle Art of Losing Yourself : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KArWcMldPMMore about George and his work here: https://www.youtube.com/@George-ThompsonFeeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. Looking for a great Speak or Coach - Jon Macaskill can help - learn more here:https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonmacaskill/More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters:00:00 – Introductions03:00 – How Film Mirrors Personal Discovery09:29 – Creativity, Presence, and the Filmmaking Flo15:43 – Parts Work Explained & Our Link to Nature24:09 – Staying Authentic While Creating Online28:38 – Leadership, Purpose, and a Shifting World29:32 – Finding Meaning in Service Through Social Platforms32:02 – Responding to Criticism with Self-Affirmation35:11 – The MMA Method for Daily Growth36:06 – Rewriting Self-Image Through Affirmations37:27 – Facing Fear with Presence and Mindfulness40:13 – The Practice of Returning to the Present41:51 – Nature, DNA, and Interconnected Life46:11 – Holding Unity in a Dualistic World48:27 – Personal Growth and Accepting the Self51:01 – Vulnerability, Openness, and Community ConnectionHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Join host Lisa Bilyeu as she sits down with New York Times bestselling author Mark Manson, whose book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" has empowered millions globally. Mark is here to dismantle the most manipulative dating advice women face, decode pickup artist tactics, and reveal the difference between toxic manipulation and genuine interest from men. Whether you're dating, building self-worth, or trying to avoid emotional traps, this episode delivers the raw truth—Mark's signature blend of irreverent honesty and practical insight. In part 1, Lisa and Mark unpack why manipulative dating tactics "work," what it means to be truly honest in relationships, how to spot negging, faux-confidence, and red flags behind power dynamics. They break down everyday dating scenarios and teach you how to reclaim your agency, build resilience, and recognize when your boundaries are being crossed. Buckle up for practical strategies and uncomfortable truths, designed to protect and empower you. SHOWNOTES Dishonest vs. Honest Dating, Why Manipulation Works  "Negging" Explained: Spotting Backhanded Compliments  How To Tell If He's Honest Or Manipulative Intention vs. Words: What Healthy Communication Looks Like  The "Fuck Yes or No" Principle for Modern Dating The Ambiguity Trap, Where Good Relationships Go Bad  How Pickup Artistry Preys on Vulnerable Women  Why These Manipulative Tactics Only Work On Insecure People Do You Attract What You Are? The People Pleaser/Narcissist Link  Why Women Are Attracted To Narcissists The "Deadbeat" Dynamic: Vulnerable Narcissists Explained Why Neediness Is A Turn-Off For Women But Not Men Thank you to our sponsors: True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Microperfumes: 60% Off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Follow Mark Manson: Website: https://markmanson.net  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markmanson  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IAmMarkManson  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's the point of achieving success if you're burned out, lonely, or exhausted? In today's episode, Ryan sits down with Mark Manson (bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k) to talk about how the habits that help you “make it” are usually the same ones that burn you out later. Mark talks about the moment he realized he couldn't keep living like a maniac, the changes he had to make in his 30s and 40s, and why he no longer trusts himself around certain decisions.Mark Manson is a bestselling author best known for The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k. In it, Mark looks at self-improvement not through avoiding problems or always being happy, but rather through improving amidst problems and learning to accept the occasional unhappiness. Grab Mark's books: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k Journal, and Everything Is F***ked: A Book About Hope, at The Painted Porch | https://www.thepaintedporch.com/Watch Ryan's episode on the Solved Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvEg37B4DU4Listen to the Solved Podcast with Mark Manson on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube Follow Mark on YouTube, and check out more of his work at https://markmanson.net/

This week, I talk with Mark Manson—best known for The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck—about what success really costs and why it often leaves us wanting more. Mark and I go deeper than I've heard him go before: we explore his upbringing, the complex role faith and community have played in his life, and how he's learned to follow his internal compass—even when it meant walking away from huge opportunities. After climbing to the top of the publishing world and getting a taste of Hollywood, Mark has returned to where he started: creating online for the joy of it. This conversation is about more than career moves—it's about identity, meaning, and the choices that define a thoughtful life. If you've ever achieved a big goal and asked, “Now what?”—this one's for you. Let's get to it. In this episode: (00:00) – Intro (02:32) – The golden egg mindset that changed Mark's career (04:49) – Lessons from a “high-volatility” childhood (09:46) – Mark's secret to depth (and viral hits) (13:51) – Losing faith—and what Mark misses most (17:58) – The loneliness no success can solve (28:09) – What real friendship looks like (31:19) – How to go deeper with the people who matter (36:51) – What happens after success? (41:47) – Chasing Hollywood—and hitting a wall (45:38) – Why Mark turned away from traditional media (49:23) – The lingering pull of prestige and the trap of status (50:48) – Why Mark is still in LA—and what he found there (51:40) – How to know what to say yes to (and what to walk away from) (56:27) – What Mark is optimizing for today (59:02) – The one thing Mark wants to be excellent at (01:02:35) – The “shit sandwich” Mark's happy to eat (01:03:58) – Turning down a seven-figure book deal (01:18:28) – YouTube vs writing (01:21:34) – How much thought goes into Mark's content (01:25:04) – Is the business sustainable? (01:27:03) – Reinventing the podcast—again (01:33:19) – Mark's most beautiful future (01:36:33) – Who Mark is becoming Key Takeaways Be the goose, not the egg hunter. Rather than chasing after “golden eggs” of success, become the kind of person who can generate them consistently. Mark's father taught him that real security and fulfillment come from developing your own capacity to create value again and again—not from trying to protect or hoard what you've already made. Choose depth over status when building community. Mark reflects on how true community—like that found in religious, family, or workplace settings—is built on commitment and shared legacy. Recreational groups and hobbies, while enjoyable, often lack the deeper sense of belonging. If you're feeling lonely or disconnected, consider what you're willing to commit to. Build a life that prioritizes fun over status. After years of high-profile projects and burnout, Mark realized that chasing prestige wasn't worth the cost. His new rule: if it's not fun, he doesn't do it. With success comes more invitations to chase status—but the most fulfilled people are those who stay grounded in what brings them joy and meaning. Don't confuse cultural clout with real impact. Despite already having a massive online audience, Mark admits being drawn to traditional media for its perceived prestige. He ultimately found that building directly with his audience—via his creator business and YouTube—was more rewarding and impactful. Recognition is nice, but it shouldn't dictate your creative choices. The best relationships are honest, non-transactional, and earned through time. Deep friendships grow through vulnerability, shared values, and a willingness to say the hard thing. In a world increasingly shaped by status, the relationships that matter most are built on trust, not utility. Get full show notes and links at https://GoodWorkShow.com. Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@barrettabrooks.

Are the people you spend time with making you better or holding you back? This episode examines Jim Rohn's famous idea that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Jake Thompson, a leadership performance coach and the Chief Encouragement Officer at Compete Every Day, joins the show to unpack this powerful concept. He has spent over a decade working with leaders at organisations like Deloitte and the Dallas Cowboys, helping them achieve better results. Jake started his brand, Compete Every Day, in 2011 by selling t-shirts from his car and has since impacted over 80,000 leaders and hosts a top 1% global podcast. In this conversation, Jake and Andy Lopata explore how to intentionally build a professional "starting lineup" while allowing personal relationships to grow organically. They discuss the critical difference between evaluating professional peers based on success and personal friends based on shared values and energy. Learn how to identify "drains" versus "radiators" in your life and the subtle art of the "slow fade"—distancing yourself from relationships that no longer serve your growth without confrontation. This episode is a masterclass in auditing your inner circle to ensure it aligns with the person you aspire to become. What we discussed: Your "Starting Five" Are the people you spend the most time with secretly holding you back, or are they the key to unlocking your future success? Values vs. Success: Should you judge your friends by their achievements or by something deeper? Discover the one quality that truly defines a valuable relationship. Drains vs. Radiators: Do you leave conversations feeling energised or exhausted? Learn the simple way to identify the "energy vampires" in your life. The "Slow Fade" Technique: Is it possible to end a draining friendship without a dramatic confrontation? Uncover the subtle art of "consciously uncoupling" from people who no longer fit in your life. The Power of Disagreement: Why surrounding yourself with people who only agree with you could be the biggest mistake you're making for your personal growth. SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube Connect with Jake Thompson: Website |LinkedIn | The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring

Do you struggle to navigate complex relationships and sensitive situations at work? Learn the subtle art of workplace diplomacy from executive coach, Dr. Grace Lee. Apply for her mentorship program here: https://masteryinsights.com/mentorship-pc Diplomacy is a critical skill for professionals to advance their careers and build strong relationships. However, striking the right balance between assertiveness and sensitivity can be difficult, especially in high-pressure situations. In this episode, Dr. Grace Lee shares real-world examples and practical tips on how to communicate effectively, manage conflicts, and build bridges in challenging situations. Don't miss this opportunity to elevate your communication skills and become a master of workplace diplomacy. Listen now and discover how to navigate complex relationships with grace and professionalism.   Show notes and free resources: https://CareerRevisionist.com/episode214 Do you want to move up in executive leadership? Want to elevate your communication skills, leadership abilities and influence in the world around you? If you're ready to start leveling up in your career and you want to develop all of the skills and professional acumen that will allow you to grow into senior executive positions with confidence, apply here: https://masteryinsights.com/mentorship-pc Answer a few questions to see if you qualify for Dr. Grace's executive coaching program, then book a time to speak with a member of our team. --------- Thank You for Listening! I am truly grateful that you have chosen to tune in. Visit my Youtube channel where I release new videos weekly on executive career growth, communication, increasing income, and professional development. Please share your thoughts! Leave questions or feedback in the comments below. Leave me a review on iTunes and share my podcast with your colleagues. With Love & Wisdom, Grace

George Thompson is a filmmaker, Tai Chi practitioner, and creator dedicated to inspiring balance for both people and planet. After experiencing anxiety and burnout, George embarked on a transformative journey that took him from the Wudang Mountains in China to the wilderness of Scotland. In this conversation, we explore: — Why discovering Tai Chi was a pivotal moment in his trajectory — How compassion naturally arises from true understanding — The power of investigating our thoughts and feelings as messengers of unmet needs — How to cultivate playfulness and sincerity without being serious — George's journey from atheism to panpsychism and how this shift changed his relationship with nature And more. You can learn more about George's work through his YouTube channel or his website: https://www.balanceispossible.com. --- George Thompson is a filmmaker, storyteller, and educator dedicated to making ancient wisdom practical for modern life. As the founder of Balance Is Possible!, he leads a global team sharing teachings on Tai Chi, Daoist philosophy, and the art of living in harmony with oneself and nature. After years of struggling with anxiety and disconnection, George travelled to China's Wudang Mountains, where he studied Tai Chi and Daoism under Master Gu. There, he discovered that balance isn't about perfection—but about learning to move with life's natural flow. Through his courses, films, and online community, George helps people reconnect to purpose, clarity, and inner peace. His unique teaching style blends humour, emotional honesty, and spiritual insight, making profound ideas accessible and engaging. Today, George's work reaches millions worldwide through films like The Subtle Art of Losing Yourself and the world's largest online Tai Chi school. Supported by mentors such as Chungliang Al Huang and Deng Ming Dao, he continues to inspire others to embrace their full potential and live with compassion, creativity, and balance. -- Interview Links: — George's website: https://www.balanceispossible.com/ — George's recommended books: https://bit.ly/472aEh7

Episode 270: How to Become the Main Character in Your Own Life | You don't have to keep living a storyline written by old beliefs, family expectations, or past relationships. In this empowering, free-flowing episode, Shayla invites you to step into authorship of your own life and claim the starring role you were always meant to play.Building on recent episodes like Anchor into Abundance, The Power of a Bliss List, and The Subtle Art of Staying in the Flow, Shayla shares how to recognize hidden narratives, trust divine timing, and welcome plot twists as part of your masterpiece. You'll hear personal stories, journaling insights, and practical ways to embody “main character energy” every day, without forcing or micromanaging the process.If you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start living your true story with confidence, presence, and joy, this episode will help you rewrite the script and shine as the lead in your own life.✨ For more tools to deepen your alignment, visit activatealignexpand.com✨ For exclusive bonus episodes and deeper chats with me, join my Patreon!Connect with Shayla✨ Aligned Access: Bonus Episodes & Exclusive Content on PatreonActivate Align Expand Guided Journal & PlannerActivate Align Expand ProgramActivate Align Expand Affirmation DeckInstagram: @shaylaquinn YouTube: www.youtube.com/shaylaquinn TikTok: @shayla.quinn Website: www.shaylaquinn.com Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/shaylaquinn Learn more about TYIL Program

Should we give a F**K or not? That is the question the author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**K answers. I just started this book, and I will be sharing some of the themes in the book and my thoughts. Enjoy.

Listen Ad-free & Get PDF, Infographic and Animated Summary / Free Audiobook / What if the secret to thriving in the face of adversity lies not in simply bouncing back, but in evolving into a stronger version of yourself? Join us as we explore the transformative insights from "Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy" by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant. In this enlightening episode of Best Book Summaries by StoryShots, we dive deep into the essential themes that illuminate the path to resilience, a crucial skill for navigating life's unpredictable challenges. Sheryl Sandberg's poignant personal journey following the sudden loss of her husband serves as a powerful backdrop for our discussion. We tackle the misconception that resilience is an innate trait, revealing instead that it can be cultivated like a muscle. Our hosts unpack the three Ps—personalization, pervasiveness, and permanence—that often hinder recovery, providing listeners with actionable strategies to overcome these hurdles. Discover how embracing post-traumatic growth can lead to profound personal transformation, and why building a strong community and support system is vital in the rebuilding process. Throughout this episode, we share practical tips for enhancing emotional resilience, from the significance of establishing rituals to the importance of fostering realistic optimism. We believe that resilience is not just about enduring hardship but thriving in the aftermath. Listeners will gain invaluable insights into self-improvement, as we discuss how to leverage the lessons from bestsellers like "Atomic Habits" and "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" to foster personal growth. This episode is a treasure trove for anyone interested in personal development audiobooks, offering key takeaways from bestsellers that can help you learn on your terms. Whether you're seeking to enhance your executive development or simply looking for self-care strategies as an entrepreneur, the insights shared here are sure to inspire and motivate. Tune in for a compelling exploration of resilience and discover how to turn life's challenges into opportunities for growth. Don't miss out on these self-improvement book insights that can reshape your perspective on adversity. Join us in this journey with StoryShots, where we bring you the best book summaries

Episode 268: The Subtle Art of Staying in the Flow | After you've broken through limiting beliefs and felt that first rush of alignment, what comes next? In this empowering episode, Shayla explores the often-overlooked practice of staying in the flow; holding your frequency steady without gripping so tightly that you block the magic.You'll learn how to recognize the difference between inspired action and forcing, why periods of stillness or “the void” are actually part of the creative process, and how to trust divine timing even when life feels quiet. Shayla shares micro-practices like morning energy check-ins, movement for clearing your channel, and cultivating a weekly Bliss List to keep joy alive as your natural compass.Through personal stories of big moves, unexpected clarity, and letting the universe reroute her plans, Shayla shows how to maintain momentum with ease and curiosity. This episode is filled with yoga-inspired wisdom and practical tools to help you stay aligned, receive with confidence, and let life unfold in perfect rhythm.✨ For more tools to deepen your alignment, visit activatealignexpand.com✨ For exclusive bonus episodes and deeper chats with me, join my Patreon!Connect with Shayla✨ Aligned Access: Bonus Episodes & Exclusive Content on PatreonActivate Align Expand Guided Journal & PlannerActivate Align Expand ProgramActivate Align Expand Affirmation DeckInstagram: @shaylaquinn YouTube: www.youtube.com/shaylaquinn TikTok: @shayla.quinn Website: www.shaylaquinn.com Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/shaylaquinn Learn more about TYIL Program

"I just started writing and next thing you know I have a manuscript in front of me." - Marianna Buffolino Today's featured award-winning author is a mom, wife, entrepreneur, and appellate paralegal, Marianna Buffolino. Marianna and I had a fun on a bun chat about her books, her writing process, balancing writing life with mom life, and more! Key Things You'll Learn: What inspired Marianna to become an author How her Italian heritage and other sources inspire her writings What major setback led to Marianna creating more success Marianna's advice for aspiring authors, especially romance novelists Marianna's Site: https://authormariannabuffolino.com/ Marianna's Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BPS45N7D/allbooks The opening track is titled "Money Trees" by the magnanimous chill-hop master, Marcus D (@marcusd). Be sure to visit his site and support his craft. https://marcusd.net/ Please support today's podcast to keep this content coming! CashApp: $DomBrightmon Donate on PayPal: @DBrightmon Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dombrightmon Get Going North T-Shirts, Stickers, and More: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/dom-brightmon You Might Also Like… Ep. 798 – Mixing Business with Pleasure to Publish Pleasurable Reads with Liv Arnold (@liv_au): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-798-mixing-business-with-pleasure-to-publish-pleasurable-reads-with-liv-arnold-liv_au/ Ep. 786 – Claim Your Inner Warrior Badass with Kate McKay (@Katemckay18): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-786-claim-your-inner-warrior-badass-with-kate-mckay-katemckay18/ Ep. 765 – Love Yourself to Health with Pam Sherman: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-765-love-yourself-to-health-with-pam-sherman/ Ep. 714 – "Drink Wine and Be Beautiful" with Kimberly Noel Sullivan (@KimberlyinRome): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-714-drink-wine-and-be-beautiful-with-kimberly-noel-sullivan-kimberlyinrome/ Ep. 769 – No More Faking It with Magda Kay: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-769-no-more-faking-it-with-magda-kay/ 348.5 - "Treasures of the Heart" with Lawna Mackie (@Lawnamackie): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/3485-treasures-of-the-heart-with-lawna-mackie-lawnamackie/ 291 – "Unleash the Goddess Within" with Diane Vich (@dianevich) #C2H: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/291-unleash-the-goddess-within-with-diane-vich-dianevich-c2h/ Ep. 382 – "Coming Out as Yourself" with Stephanie Lavigne (@stephlavigne): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-382-coming-out/ Ep. 452 – "Writing a Penetrating Tell-All Memoir" with Karin Freeland (@KarinFreeland): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-452-writing-a-tell-all-penetrating-memoir-with-karin-freeland-karinfreeland/ Ep. 569 - "The Other Goddess" With Dr. Joanna Kujawa (@JoannaKAuthor): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-569-the-other-goddess-with-dr-joanna-kujawa-joannakauthor/ Ep. 640 – "The Way of Inanna" with Seana Zelazo: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-640-the-way-of-inanna-with-seana-zelazo/ Ep. 526 – "The Subtle Art of Making Stuff Happen" with Griselda Beck, MBA: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-526-the-subtle-art-of-making-stuff-happen-with-griselda-beck-mba/ Ep. 318 – "Beautiful, Frightening and Silent" with Jennifer Anne Gordon (@JenniferAnneGo5): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-318-beautiful-frightening-and-silent-with-jennifer-anne-gordon-jenniferannego5/ Ep. 314.5 (Holiday Bonus) – "Turning Point" with Kristy Smith (@kristynotkirsty): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-3145-holiday-bonus-turning-point-with-kristy-smith-kristynotkirsty/

This is a fan fav episode. Why are most people struggling to get ahead? They're struggling to get ahead in their career, their business, their relationships, and even in the battle they have every day with themselves. If you're like most, you turn to the most popular books, courses, and communities that seem promising. You get pumped and feel like a freaking rockstar in the middle of it all, but the second you're back alone with yourself nothing f*cking changes! That is what we call spiritual entertainment. The problem isn't getting the information you need or access to better resources, the problem is that you're not effectively implementing the ideas you hear because your behavior never changes. What do you do when self-help isn't changing a damn thing in your life? Mark Manson, bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and the man that helped write Will Smith's memoir, Will has gone from struggling blogger to thought leader in self-help.  This episode is exactly what you need to stop being your own victim of self-help failures. Mark's 3 universal principles will help you break the spiritual entertainment cycle, stop feeling bad about where you are and start embracing the kind of action and validation that will actually get results. QUOTES: “How do we leverage the social pressure of the internet in a positive way instead of the negative way?” “Responsibility is so important because it empowers you psychologically.” “Many people may own my past but only I own my future. I need to explicitly take responsibility in making sure it's a good future.” “You don't stop feeling bad. You feel bad, you find a way to respond well despite feeling bad.” Follow Mark Manson: Website: ⁠https://markmanson.net/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@IAmMarkManson⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/Markmansonnet/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/markmanson/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are we becoming workplace jerks in our quest for self-care? This provocative question frames our candid conversation about a troubling trend in modern self-help literature.When bestsellers like "The Courage to Be Disliked" and "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" encourage readers to prioritize themselves, set rigid boundaries, and worry less about others' opinions, something valuable yet dangerous emerges. We unpack Emma Goldberg's thoughtful New York Times piece questioning whether these well-intentioned guides are fostering workplace selfishness.The balance is delicate. There's tremendous value in speaking your truth and refusing to be a "Get-Along Gary" who sacrifices authenticity for harmony. Your perspective matters - both for your wellbeing and your organization's success. Yet there's a profound difference between healthy boundary-setting and dismissive self-centeredness that can destroy workplace relationships.Perhaps most importantly, we explore the myth of solo success. Every one of us eventually needs support - whether during personal challenges or professional hurdles. If you've consistently prioritized only yourself, who will be there when you need help? As Tammy wisely observes, "None of us succeed on our own. We succeed because we're in a tribe."Ready to navigate this complex terrain? Join us for an honest exploration of how to honor your needs without becoming the office jerk. Subscribe now and share your thoughts on finding that sweet spot between self-advocacy and genuine collaboration!

Are you tired of pouring your energy into every little thing—only to end up exhausted, burned out, and questioning yourself? If you're a high achiever, chances are you've been conditioned to over-care about everything: the late-night email, the tiny detail no one notices, the calendar invite that wasn't urgent but still reshuffled your entire day. This episode dives into the subtle art of not giving a f**k—why protecting your energy is the ultimate form of self-care, and how to finally break free from perfectionism, fear of judgment, and hustle culture. By tuning in, you'll learn: Why over-caring keeps ambitious women stuck in the burnout cycle. How to calculate the ROI of your energy so you stop over-investing in stress that gives nothing back. Four practical strategies to care less about distractions and more about what actually fuels your career, your goals, and your peace of mind. Press play now to discover how to protect your energy, escape burnout, and start building a career and life that actually feel sustainable—and don't forget to take the Boss Babe Archetype Quiz at bossbabereset.com/test to uncover your unique self-care style and work-life balance superpower. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we're joined by Mark Manson, bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***. We start at the exact moment his book became a global bestseller.
Mark says that when it blew up he was the most depressed he'd been since his teens and explains why success did not fix him.Mark unpacks the hedonic treadmill and the cost of constant chasing and how your identity can get tangled with performance, sharing raw stories of burnout, grief, and the hard choices that forced him to stop ‘performing'.He offers simple practices he used to rebuild direction and meaning. Listen as Mark walks you through the fallout, the recovery, and the small actions that changed everything. You'll hear questions to test your own relationship with success.Heights

In today's episode, Howard Falco sits down to discuss his latest book, Invincible: The Mindset of Infinite Potential and the Secret to Inevitable Success. A self-empowerment expert, author, speaker, and spiritual teacher, Howard explores the groundbreaking power of the mind in shaping our life experiences. Through his work, he helps people uncover their true identity and connect with the source of their creative potential — guiding both individuals and athletes to unlock breakthroughs they once thought impossible… Invincible is a step-by-step guide that explores the process of mastery over the mind and creative experience. What's the goal of this book? To provide readers with mental clarity, the secret key to an empowered way of living, and the blueprint to manifesting successful results in any area of life. Jump in to discover: How Howard's lifelong existential quest for insight and understanding has been manifested.  Why conventional success often lacks happiness.  Where satisfaction and joy come from. How to listen to life as it talks to us. The importance of focusing on the infinite set of possibilities in front of us. Want to connect with Howard and his incredible work? Follow his Instagram @howardfalco or visit his website!

Today we discuss the number One best selling book Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fu*k: by Author Mark Manson #selfhelp #bestsellingbook #motivation

Join us in this episode as we chat with Gary Binkow, an award-winning producer and wellness entrepreneur with a passion for sharing his expertise with others on similar paths. Whether he's launching health brands like The Swell Score or coaching aspiring entrepreneurs, Gary knows how to create, distribute, and monetize content — and now, how to translate that success into wellness… After selling his media company, Gary pivoted into the health and wellness space, where he discovered a deep passion for regenerative farming and holistic living. Trading city life for the soil, he and his partner now cultivate their own land in California. What lessons has he uncovered in this new chapter? Tune in to hear his story firsthand! This conversation covers:  What regenerative farming is at its core. Why tilling and discing soil can be harmful for farmland. The role that pesticides can play in organic farming.  How rotating crops preserves soil health. Want to follow along with Gary and his farming efforts? Connect with his Instagram @root2risefarms!

You've read the books. You've done the morning routine. You've said the affirmations. So why do you still feel stuck? In this video, I'm exposing the truth about self-help culture and why it can never give you what your soul truly needs. From bestselling books like The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**,* Girl, Wash Your Face, The Miracle Morning, and more, we're breaking down the messages that promise transformation, but deliver spiritual exhaustion. ✨ Self-help says: “You are enough.”

In this episode, I touch on a cornerstone of good game–how to be subtle.Chapters:(00:00) Nonchalance explained(03:30) Overdoing it(06:15) It's the little things...(07:15) Honest signals(10:30) Simply don't quit.(15:00) What's my honest reaction to this?(20:20) You are the prize.(24:30) A story...Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast:Bootcamps and ImmersionsSubmit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

Welcome back to The Drum Panel! Featuring: Ben Hilzinger (me!), Joe Lana Jr. (@thecowboydrummer), and Eric Urrea (Marina City) Inside this episode: Why Creators Struggle to Accept Compliments The Trap of Overthinking Content Creation Balancing Comedy, Drumming, and Self-Worth Online When Do You Feel Like a Drummer vs. an Impostor? The Subtle Art of Playing Soft and Why Grip Debates Are Overrated --- Get Your Copy of the Drummers on Drumming Book Today!

Today, we sit down with Annie Tyson to discuss her work as a freelance paralegal professional. As the founder of Freelance Annie Paralegal Services, Annie brings more than 16 years of experience in Texas family law to assist solo attorneys, boutique firms, and overworked associates across the State.  From drafting and discovery to enforcement and litigation support, she's on a mission to help family lawyers work smarter – not harder… In this conversation, we cover: Why Annie chose to work as a paralegal.  How paralegals function in the legal field.  The various invaluable positions that exist within the structure of typical law firms.  What it's like dealing with local court procedures on a consistent basis. How AI is impacting legal work. Want to learn more about how paralegal professionals like Annie help Texas attorneys save time and maximize billable hours? Hit play now!  You can follow along with Annie and her work by visiting her LinkedIn!

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3621: Derek Sivers explores how hate and loss can serve as unexpected catalysts for self-discovery and personal clarity. By confronting what repels or devastates us, we uncover our deepest values and realign with what truly matters, sharpening our sense of purpose in the process. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://sive.rs/hate & https://sive.rs/loss Quotes to ponder: "I used to think hate was a negative emotion to be avoided. Now I see it as a useful alarm." "What you hate is a hint at what you value. What you hate shows what you believe should not be." "Loss feels like being stripped of everything, but then you realize what was underneath it all." Episode references: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: https://www.amazon.com/Subtle-Art-Not-Giving-Counterintuitive/dp/0062457713 Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/080701429X The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: https://www.amazon.com/Top-Five-Regrets-Dying-Transformed/dp/140194065X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices