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Two women trying to navigate the sandwich generation - being stuck in the middle of a bunch of people who ask way too much of us and still come out possessing a sense of self and purpose.

Diahn Ott and Melinda Owens

  • Oct 29, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
  • every other week NEW EPISODES
  • 1h 1m AVG DURATION
  • 24 EPISODES


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2.6 A True Jam

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2020 51:13


Melinda and Diahn have a jam session about Covid life, election stress, and podcasting lessons learned. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

Vulnerability, dammit

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2020 70:42


Melinda and Diahn finally decide to broach the subject they’ve been avoiding all year. Vulnerability. Brene Brown Resources referenced in this podcast: Books Wholehearted Inventory --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

2.4 Knowing your Damn Value

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 61:16


Melinda and Diahn discuss the topic of self-esteem and self-worth, how they differ, how they correlate, and how we perceive our value in business, creativity, and relationships. Show Notes: Self Esteem v. Self Worth Stuart Smalley --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

2.3 Introversion

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2020 59:19


Diahn and Melinda discuss what life feels like as introverts in a world that values extroversion. They examine the ways they tried to fit into a culture where extroverts are considered the gold standard and how they learned to appreciate the personality traits that make them unique. Find them on Instagram Send an email to thisbe@this-be.com Show Notes: The Maker City Creating Mindfulness Psychology Today Definition of Introversion Psychology Today Extroversion Introversion Test Extrovert, Introvert, Ambivert Test Quiet, by Susan Cain --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

2.2 Passive Aggressive

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2020 60:47


Melinda and Diahn break down the ways we deal with and dish out that sweet, sweet passive aggression. Is it ever appropriate? Do we handle it appropriately? Do we even know when we are using it as a defense mechanism? Find them on Instagram Send an email to thisbe@this-be.com Recommendations for the week: Gloria Steinem - My Life on the Road Small Doses with Amanda Seales - Side Effects of White Women --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

2.1 Season Two

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2020 77:21


Melinda and Diahn are back after a nice, relaxing summer pandemic hiatus. They discuss what's been going on since May and how the break helped them process so many of the topics they covered in Season One. Find them on Instagram: @thisbepod Email: thisbe@this-be.com Recommendations: Falling Upward by Richard Rohr A Beautifully Foolish Endeavor by Hank Green A Good Hard Look by Anne Napolitano Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinem Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life by Jon Kabat-Zinn --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

17. Prime Time

Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2020 61:57


Melinda and Diahn recap their first season of podcasting in this season-finale episode. They discuss what they learned, what made them uncomfortable, what made them proud, and what podcasting has changed in their personal lives. Here are some quick recommendations for books to read while you're waiting for them to come back... Untamed by Glennon Doyle Daring Greatly by Brene Brown The Book of Longings by Sue Monk Kidd The Martian by Andy Weir You can always find them on Instagram, too - look for live stories from Florida over the next week! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

16. Boundaries

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2020 71:21


Diahn and Melinda explore the idea of boundaries in interpersonal relationships. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

15. Retail Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2020 81:39


Melinda and Diahn discuss how the pandemic has changed their retail therapy habits, what they've learned from the restrictions on their shopping patterns, and what kinds of changes are needed to carry forward into the new world order. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

14. Creativity

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2020 68:23


Diahn and Melinda tackle the unexpectedly difficult topic of creativity. What is creativity? Do you have to be a painter or musician to be considered creative? Where does it come from? Is it nature or nurture? Listen in as we dig deep into the topic with surprising results... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

13. What it Be

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2020 67:23


Diahn and Melinda discuss how their original plan for the podcast has evolved into what it has become over the past 13 weeks, how implementing a daily intention check-in with each other has changed their weekly routines and why Diahn gets so fidgety when talking about her feelings. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

12. the Reset

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 85:43


Three weeks into the pandemic, life starts to look less like a crisis and more like an opportunity to delve into what really matters and how to hit the reset button on some of the bad habits we've developed over the years. How can we effectively change and move toward the best versions of ourselves? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

11. the Pandemic

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2020 42:11


Melinda and Diahn discuss life in the midst of the COVid-19 pandemic - how they are handling the stress and anxiety associated with being on safer-at-home regulations and the things that are bringing them joy and peace in the middle of the weirdest month ever. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

10. the Tribe

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 93:26


Melinda and Diahn chat about the importance of the female friendships in their lives, how their own mothers modeled having friendships and how their own friendships have changed as they've aged. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

9. Self Care (part 2 of 2)

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2020 78:32


Melinda and Diahn break down their self-care habits and make goals to improve their overall mental and physical well-being. Apparently, there's more to self-care than just hot baths, mani-pedis and massages! Who knew? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

8. Self Care (part 1 of 2)

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 84:19


Diahn and Melinda dig deep and discuss their struggles with practicing good self-care habits. This episode gets a little long but it's filled with good insight and information into how women often view self-care in various ways... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

7. the Personality Crisis

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2020 65:59


Melinda and Diahn explore their Enneagram Personality numbers to try and determine how their personalities affect their relationships with all the people they care about and what they can do to make those relationships even stronger. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

6. the Good, the Bad and the Ugly of Middle Age

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2020 50:58


Melinda and Diahn break down the joys of aging in today's culture by examining what's really going on all up in here. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

5. Us

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 60:49


In this episode, we talk about how we met and became life long friends - we also share a few of our favorite things! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

4. the Parenting Mistakes, Part 2

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2020 54:53


Diahn and Melinda explore the parenting skills their parents passed along to them that they chose to change with their own children. This is part 2 of a two-part episode. Yeet Juggalos --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

3. the Parenting Mistakes, Part 1

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2020 33:36


In this episode, Melinda and Diahn tackle the question of what happens when the parenting skills you inherit from your own parents were the wrong things to pass along to your own children. This is part 1 of a two-part episode. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

2. the Balancing Act

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2020 48:42


Diahn and Melinda discuss the various loads we carry as women - children, grandchildren, parents, marriage, health - and the ways they try to balance all the different pieces without dropping everything entirely. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

1. the Beginning

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2020 30:25


Diahn and Melinda talk about what their families and what the podcast is going to be about - about the two slices of bread on either side of this sandwich generation. Let us hear from you! Send an email to thisbe@this-be.com Find us on Instagram @thisbepod Check out our website at www.this-be.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

This Be the Intro

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2020 3:23


We are part of what is known as the sandwich generation - basically, two best friends trying to muddle our way through middle age. So, we hope you’ll join us weekly, starting January 16, as we try to navigate this sandwich generation bullshit of being stuck in the middle of a bunch of people who ask way too much of us and come out still possessing a sense of self and purpose. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thisbe/message

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