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The Poco a Poco Podcast with the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal
Episode 275 - Peace, Mercy, and Vulnerability What if real peace only grows where we're willing to be vulnerable? In this episode, the friars reflect on "Blessed are the peacemakers" and "Blessed are the merciful", showing how both Beatitudes invite us to step toward others with honesty and humility. Making peace means entering hard conversations without defenses. Mercy means letting go of the "high ground" we hold over those who've hurt us. Both require lowering ourselves, just as Jesus does. They explore how vulnerability isn't weakness but the place where reconciliation becomes possible, where forgiveness takes root, and where the heart of Christ is revealed. Join us as we learn the courage to be vulnerable and the freedom that comes from choosing mercy and peace. The Poco a Poco podcast happens because of many generous donors, including recurring monthly donations of any amount. Thinking about helping out? You can give at https://spiritjuice.org/supportpoco. Thank you!
You might know the star of Rivals for his revealing role in the hit Disney+ show, but did you know about his dramatic allium allergy?! I thought not. Alex Hassell might be best known for his portrayal of the dashing bounder, Rupert Campbell-Black in the Emmy-Award winning TV adaptation of Jilly Cooper's Rivals but his career spans the Royal Shakespeare Company, a leading role opposite Anya Taylor-Joy in The Miniaturist, HBO's His Dark Materials and co-founding the pioneering Factory Theatre Company. In this conversation, Alex reflects on the role therapy and his marriage have played in weathering early-career rejection. We talk about his struggle with self-confidence, his unlikely 'failure' to get into trouble and the rebellious streak that defined his youth - including that time he took acid at Alton Towers. Plus: having to spray tan his own private parts. This episode was recorded live at the Barbican earlier this year. ✨ IN THIS EPISODE: 00:00 Intro 03:17 Season Two of Rivals 04:35 The Challenges of Acting 05:28 Therapy and Self-Reflection 11:17 Overcoming Self-Doubt 13:31 School Experiences and Bullying 20:13 The Factory Theater Company 23:31 Reflecting on Early Career Challenges 23:57 The Onion Allergy Struggle 28:16 Balancing Historical Accuracy and Sensitivity in 'Rivals' 29:30 The Pressure to Be Good 33:12 Family Influence and Personal Growth 40:57 The Actor's Vulnerability and Connection
In this powerful episode of Mindset Mastery Moments, Dr. Alisa Whyte sits down with Michael Coxen — entrepreneur, transformational coach, author, and host of The Mindful Agent — to explore the profound impact of vulnerability, resilience, and conscious self-leadership. Michael's life and career reflect a remarkable journey of confronting fear, embracing truth, and choosing growth over comfort.With a deep commitment to helping others unlock emotional clarity and personal freedom, Michael blends mindfulness, emotional intelligence, and practical strategy to guide individuals toward purpose-driven success. His message is both refreshing and relatable: real transformation begins when we courageously acknowledge our struggles and allow vulnerability to become a source of strength.Throughout this moving conversation, Michael opens up about the pivotal moments that reshaped his identity — the victories, the setbacks, and the internal battles that ultimately ignited his evolution. He and Dr. Alisa dive into the power of self-awareness, the importance of honoring your emotions, and why authenticity is essential for meaningful achievement.This episode invites listeners to explore the truth within themselves, break through limiting beliefs, and step boldly into lives of intention and resilience. Whether you're navigating personal challenges, building your mindset, or seeking deeper emotional growth, Michael's story will inspire you to rise with vulnerability — and claim victory on your own terms.
Friends, what if the healing we long for is waiting on the other side of letting others in? Today, author and teacher Toni Collier joins Stasi for a powerful conversation on her newest book, Don't Try This Alone. Toni shares her raw, redemptive story of betrayal, resilience, and the trusted community God used to restore her. This conversation is a tender look at vulnerability, friendship, and the God who redeems every story.…..SHOW NOTES:…..VERSES: Psalm 31:24 (NIV) – Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord.2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV) – But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.John 11:35–36 (NIV) – Jesus wept. Then the Jews said, ‘See how he loved him!'John 21:15–17 (NIV) – “When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?' ‘Yes, Lord,' he said, ‘you know that I love you.' Jesus said, ‘Feed my lambs.' Again Jesus said, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me?' He answered, ‘Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.' Jesus said, ‘Take care of my sheep.' The third time he said to him, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me?' Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, ‘Do you love me?' He said, ‘Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.' Jesus said, ‘Feed my sheep.'”…..GUESTToni CollierWebsite: https://www.tonijcollier.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonijcollier/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/colliertoniYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tonijcollierBIOToni Collier is the founder of a global women's organization called Broken Crayons Still Color and helps women process through brokenness and get to healing and hope. Toni is a speaker, host of the Still Coloring podcast, and author of several books: Don't Try This Alone, Brave Enough to be Broken, and a children's book, Broken Crayons Still Color. Toni is teaching people all over the globe that you can be broken and still worthy, or feel unqualified and still be called to do great things.Don't Try This Alone: How to Build Deep Community When You Want to Hide from Your Pain: https://a.co/d/iSwqL09…..Don't Miss Out on the Next Episode—Subscribe for FreeSubscribe using your favorite podcast app:YouTube: https://wahe.art/4h8DelLSpotify Podcasts – https://spoti.fi/42SsOipApple Podcasts – https://apple.co/42E0oZ1 Google Podcasts – http://wahe.art/3M81kxLAmazon Music & Audible – https://amzn.to/3M9u6hJ
Love Your People Well™ - Christian Marriage, Motherhood, and Family Life
Find a Christmas devotional or Advent calendar for yourself, and the whole family. Episode 279 // Our relationships have a LOT to do with the attitude of our hearts. With healthy, intimate, connected relationships, we grumble less. It's easier to be thankful, to notice the positive, to feel better. But… how do we get there? Today, I want to dive into the topic of marriage (and friendship too) and help us see how leaning in and being vulnerable can have a big impact on our gratitude and grumbling. We'll talk about WHY this is so valuable, 7 tips for strengthening this connection in your marriage, and some helpful encouragement for what to do if or when you feel uncomfortable or unable to be vulnerable in your marriage this way. Marriage is wildly important to God, and wildly important to our own mental health, heart attitude, and emotional wellness. So let's figure out how to make it as strong and wonderful as possible. Let's dive in, friends. Welcome to Part 6 of our series on Gratitude Over Grumbling. hugs & blessings, Jess RESOURCES FOR YOU FREE: Grab the Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet to boost communication today. DEVOTIONAL: Find a Christmas devotional or Advent calendar for yourself, and the whole family. RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Strengthening Your Christian Marriage In A Hard Season (EP 269) RELATED ON THE BLOG: Let's Have More FUN In Marriage Intimacy, Christian Wives! GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to behind-the-scenes family life encouragement. Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today! FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. MISSION Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days. Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
Master the "tone, intent, outcome" framework and build trust through vulnerability to navigate your most difficult conversations at work and become a better leader. You've mastered the fundamentals of negotiation in Women's Leadership Success 153 ( part I). Now it's time to tackle the conversations that keep you up at night: the confrontation with an angry stakeholder, the politically charged discussion dividing your team, the compensation negotiation where everything is on the line, or the feedback conversation that could make or break a critical relationship. This discussion former Scotland Yard negotiator Scott Walker reveals advanced strategies that separate good leaders from exceptional ones. These are the frameworks used when hostages' lives hung in the balance‚ adapted specifically for the high-stakes leadership challenges women executives face every day. Building on the Foundation Effective difficult conversations at work require mastering several core principles: reframing negotiation as a conversation with purpose, managing emotional hijacking through behavioral change indicators, listening at deeper levels to understand emotion and perspective, asking questions rather than making statements, preparing thoroughly using systematic frameworks, and seeking practice opportunities with challenging people. Now we build on that foundation with advanced strategies for the conversations that truly test your leadership capacity. Understanding Their World: The Foundation of Influence You Cannot Influence Someone You Don't Understand A principle that transforms how women leaders approach difficult conversations at work: You can't influence somebody unless you already know what influences them. You're wasting your time. It's the height of arrogance, and you're not really going to succeed long-term anyway. This isn't about manipulation‚ it's about genuine understanding. To truly influence someone, you must understand their beliefs and values, decision-making rules and criteria, primary emotional drivers, how they see the world and their place in it, and what human needs they're trying to meet. The Only Path to This Understanding: Deep Listening Most people think they're excellent listeners, yet often go through the motions without truly engaging. Being on the receiving end when someone is thinking about a million other things feels infuriating and dismissive. The Critical Truth About Listening in Difficult Conversations No one has ever listened themselves out of a job or a relationship. This simple truth carries profound implications for women leaders navigating difficult conversations at work. Deep listening doesn't diminish respect, authority, or influence‚ it amplifies all three. The 5 Levels of Listening for Difficult Conversations Levels 1-3: Surface Listening (Where Most Leaders Get Stuck) Level 1: Distracted Listening Nodding while mentally planning your rebuttal or thinking about other priorities. The other person immediately senses your lack of genuine engagement, trust erodes, resistance increases, and resolution becomes impossible. Level 2: Rebuttal Listening Waiting for them to finish so you can explain why they're wrong. You're not actually processing their perspective, just defending your own. Both parties dig into entrenched positions and the conversation becomes adversarial. Level 3: Logic-Only Listening Focusing solely on facts, data, and logical arguments while ignoring emotions. Most difficult conversations at work are driven by emotional needs, not logical disagreements. You address surface issues while core concerns remain unresolved. Levels 4-5: Transformational Listening Level 4: Listening for Emotion What emotions are driving this person's position? Fear? Frustration? Feeling undervalued? Anxiety about change? Notice emotional shifts and acknowledge them without judgment. Saying "It sounds like this situation is really frustrating for you..." creates connection. Level 5: Listening for Point of View Ask yourself: "Why is this person telling me these specific words RIGHT NOW?" Seek the underlying human needs and deeper motivations beneath the surface position. The presenting issue is rarely the real issue it's usually two to six levels deeper. The Real Issue is Never the Presenting Issue When dealing with kidnappers, they wanted money‚Äîbut it wasn't just about the money. They wanted to save face, to feel like they were in control, to feel significant. If negotiators had only focused on money while ignoring these deeper needs, hostages would have died. In corporate environments, 80% of time on kidnapping cases was spent dealing with internal politics‚Äîwhat's called "the crisis within the crisis." In difficult conversations at work, competing egos and siloed thinking often create more obstacles than the actual business challenge. When your team member asks for a raise, the real issue might be feeling undervalued compared to peers, concern about supporting their family, fear of falling behind in their career, desire for recognition of contributions, or worry that you don't see their potential. The Breakthrough Question: "Why is this person telling me this specific message right now? What underlying human need are they trying to meet?" This transforms you from a transactional negotiator into a strategic influencer. The "Tone, Intent, Outcome" Framework for Preparation Systematic Approach to Difficult Conversations Before any high-stakes conversation, explicitly define three elements. This framework transforms anxiety-inducing difficult conversations at work into strategic opportunities. Component 1: TONE What emotional atmosphere do you want to create? Your tone choice sets the entire trajectory. Consider whether you want collaborative versus confrontational, curious versus defensive, respectful versus dismissive, or calm versus urgent energy. Example scenarios: - Feedback conversation: Supportive, direct, developmental - Conflict resolution: Calm, curious, non-judgmental - Negotiation: Collaborative, firm, professional - Political discussion: Open, respectful, genuinely curious Component 2: INTENT What is your genuine purpose for this conversation? This must be your authentic intent, not a manipulative cover story. Genuine intent includes understanding their perspective fully before sharing yours, finding a solution that works for both parties, repairing a relationship while addressing the issue, setting clear boundaries while maintaining respect, or advocating for your needs without damaging connection. Research from Darden Business School shows that women who approach negotiations with clear, authentic intent focused on mutual benefit achieve better outcomes than those using aggressive tactics. Your genuine intent will show up in your words, tone, and body language. Component 3: OUTCOME What does success look like? Be specific about what needs to be different after this conversation, what specific agreements or commitments you need, what would represent a win-win scenario, and what's your walk-away point. The Power of This Framework: When you explicitly define Tone, Intent, and Outcome before difficult conversations at work, you reduce anxiety through clarity, avoid emotional hijacking by anchoring to your intention, recognize when you're off-track and can self-correct, and can evaluate afterward whether you achieved your goals. Practical Exercise Think about a challenging conversation you need to have this week. Write down your desired tone, authentic intent, and successful outcome. Evaluate whether your intended tone aligns with your authentic intent and whether your desired outcome reflects a win-win possibility. Building Trust Through Tactical Empathy The Paradox of Vulnerability in Leadership One of the most powerful techniques for difficult conversations at work seems counterintuitive: demonstrating vulnerability and acknowledging the other person's perspective even when you completely disagree. The Technique: Emotional Labeling + Paraphrasing This specific formula includes three steps: label the emotion you're observing using phrases like "It looks like..." "It sounds like..." "It feels like...", paraphrase their complete perspective as if the words were coming from their mouth, including their emotional state, concerns, and interpretation, then pause and wait for confirmation or correction. Example Application: "You seem really angry with my behavior in this deal. This is taking a long time, you feel like I haven't really delivered on what I said I was gonna do, you feel as if I'm just taking you for granted and your goodwill for granted here, and actually you probably don't have much trust left in me being able to follow through and completing this on time." Notice what's happening here: demonstrating complete understanding of their perspective without defending, justifying, or explaining, making their emotional experience visible and valid, and waiting for their response before proceeding. Why This Transforms Difficult Conversations at Work You might think they're completely wrong and seeing things from a misguided viewpoint. That doesn't matter at this point. When you accurately reflect someone's perspective, one of two responses occurs: Response A: "Yes! You've hit the nail on the head. That's exactly it." They feel seen and heard, defensive walls come down, and real conversation can begin. Response B: "No, no, no, that's not it. It's actually this..." You're getting better data about what's really going on, moving closer to the real issue. Either way, you're gaining valuable information while the other person feels understood. The Neuroscience Behind This Technique When someone feels genuinely understood, their amygdala (threat detection system) calms down, allowing the prefrontal cortex (rational thinking) to engage.
In this conversation, Phil and Leo explore the concept of connection, particularly in new environments, and how facilitators can foster deeper connections among participants. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, curiosity, and the role of tools like the 52 Fathoms deck in facilitating meaningful interactions. The conversation also touches on lessons learned from Leo's experience on Survivor, emphasizing the significance of observation and reflection in the facilitation process. Connection is a vital part of human interaction. Facilitators can guide deeper connections through thoughtful questions. Vulnerability can lead to more meaningful conversations. Using tools like 52 Fathoms can enhance group dynamics. Observation is key to understanding group interactions. Curiosity drives deeper engagement in conversations. Facilitators should adapt activities to fit their style. Conflict resolution can be learned from real-life experiences. Creating a safe space encourages openness among participants. Reflection on experiences enhances facilitation skills. Learn more about Fulcrum Adventures - https://fulcrumadventures.com/ Connect with the podcast; Email - podcast@high5adventure.org Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/verticalplaypen/ Support the podcast - verticalplaypen.org
In this episode of Grit, Grace, and Glitz, Erika and guest Megan Scott explore the themes of connection, authenticity, and personal growth in building true relationships. Expect to learn about the importance of lifting each other up, the role of vulnerability in leadership, and the need for self-awareness in creating meaningful connection. The conversation emphasizes the significance of choosing positive energy and the power of reconnecting with oneself to foster authentic connections with others - one of the many ways Megan shows us how to be audaciously uplifting.Connect with Megan Scott:https://www.linkedin.com/in/meganascott/Connect with your host, Erika:LinkedIn (primary)https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikarothenbergerIGhttps://www.instagram.com/erikalearothenberger?igsh=MmhjeTRhbnB1aXM2FBhttps://www.facebook.com/share/69wqEYVzFKKnci9u/?mibextid=LQQJ4d
In this episode, we're talking about the two lessons hidden inside every moment of vulnerability — what it teaches you about yourself and what it reveals about other people when they witness you in a real way.If this work speaks to you, start with the two prerequisite mini-programs that prepare you for what's coming next:Elevated EQ and The Threshold — available here: https://www.macierenae.com/mini-coaching-programs.htmlSupport the showVisit macierenae.com to learn more about Macie & her work!Interested in working with her? Schedule a FREE consult HERE.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @Macie Renae Coaching
Have you ever known a soul contract was ending but felt terrified to choose yourself?In this heartfelt episode of the Spiritual Journey podcast, Nimesh Radia and Stacey Brown are joined by artist and lightworker Sabrina Traversy for an intimate exploration of soul contracts, self worth, and spiritual rebirth.Sabrina shares her courageous journey of transformation — from recognising where she had abandoned herself, to rebuilding her life from the ground up, reconnecting to her identity, and stepping into her calling. She reflects on what it meant to start over, how nature became her safe space, and how mentorship supported her healing and spiritual expansion.Nimesh and Stacey deepen the conversation by discussing why soul contracts can be both beautiful and painful, how endings create space for new beginnings, and why choosing yourself is one of the most sacred acts of love. Stacey also speaks vulnerably about navigating her own relationship ending, bringing another powerful layer to the conversation.This episode invites listeners to reflect on their own relationships, the contracts they hold, and whether they are truly living in alignment with their soul. If you feel you are at a crossroads or afraid to choose yourself, this conversation may be the sign you needed.Key Themes✨ Soul contracts and spiritual timing
Why do some men prefer a fantasy to a woman in their lives?Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks, joins Aaron to discuss how emotional suppression affects men, the role of pornography as a coping tool, and why talk therapy often isn't enough. Connor breaks down what it means to process pain somatically, the importance of male friendships, and why breakdown can be essential to becoming free. A powerful conversation about what it means to be a man today.OUR GUESTConnor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an international organization focused on improving the lives, relationships, and leadership of men. Connor is also the author of the best selling book Men's Work, host of a top ranked podcast and works with men who are looking to lead themselves and their lives more effectively. Since founding ManTalks, Connor has spoken on stage at TEDx, with Lewis Howes, Gary Vaynerchuk, and has been featured on platforms like the United Nations, Forbes, Huffington Post, The Good Men Project, CBC and the National Post.CONNOR BEATON
Peter Crone is a leading voice in human potential and performance, known worldwide as “The Mind Architect.” He works with elite athletes, entertainers, and entrepreneurs to help them break free from subconscious limitations and reprogram the beliefs that shape their lives. Through his unique blend of psychology, spirituality, and practical wisdom, Peter empowers people to transform mental patterns, experience deeper freedom, and live with greater purpose and authenticity.In this conversation, Peter explores the deeper layers of human behavior and healingfrom creating a safe space for true vulnerability to understanding the architecture of the ego and the liberation found in admitting “I don't know.” He offers compassionate insight into topics such as surrender, death, and suicide, and highlights how forgiveness especially of the “villains” in our lives opens the door to genuine freedom. Peter also dives into the difference between therapy and healing, the importance of being seen, heard, and held, and the ways childhood guilt and inherited beliefs shape our adult lives. His reflections on parenting, authenticity, humility, and the quiet suffering behind people-pleasing provide a powerful framework for personal transformation.Beyond his one-on-one work, Peter is a sought-after speaker featured in major documentaries, top podcasts, and performance programs. His teachings offer practical tools for shifting from stress and limitation into clarity, possibility, and inner peace. His mission is simple yet profound: to elevate human consciousness by helping people create lives rooted in authenticity, expansion, and true freedom. 0:00 Intro3:46 Creating a safe space for vulnerability6:43 Peter's Story9:19 The structure of the Ego9:11 The freedom of admitting "I Don't Know"16:00 Suicide & Death19:22 Surrender vs. Seeking23:44 "You do care, you just stopped worrying"28:37 Forgiving the "villains" in your life32:55 The difference between Therapy and Healing33:31 Seen, Heard, Held37:41 Releasing childhood guilt41:48 Parenting and suffering48:07 Being "Nice" vs. Being Authentic48:12 Staying humble despite fame53:35 Rapid Fire Questions57:24 Closing
Chasing external success but hitting ND burnout walls? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April explores personal mastery for neurodivergent high achievers with Jerry Henderson, creator of The Personal Mastery Framework™, author/speaker/coach/Personal Mastery Podcast host. Trained at Harvard in human behavior/neuroanatomy/resilience/habits (MBA Global Business, Master's Psychology in progress), Jerry helps trauma survivors (like his own childhood/burnout/imposter journey) blend IFS/NLP/positive psych for emotional resilience, limiting belief rewiring, and whole life success—beyond grind to clarity/peace. Key insights: Mindset pillar: Reframe fixed to growth (stress mindset, CBT for shame-driven achieving). NLP for beliefs: Anchor positive states, disrupt emotional loops (e.g., "happy button" for anxiety/perfectionism). Whole life vs. high performance: Holistic (relationships/sleep/nervous system) for thriving, not survival. Trauma-informed: IFS parts work (protectors/exiles), curiosity over judgment for resilience (ACEs impact). Habit formation: Start small/stack (atomic habits), align with self-worth to avoid sabotage. Clarity/peace: Intrinsic motivation, self-acceptance—external wins without void-filling. Authentic connection: Vulnerability in safe relationships (one fully disclosing starts it). Burnout fix: Honest self-reflection, ask help; job hopping ignores root causes (toxic patterns follow). For autistic/ADHD high performers in imposter/shame cycles, Jerry's framework (post-$1B philanthropy) sustains growth. Free call/resource at jerryhenderson.org. Subscribe for ND personal mastery tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Instagram: @jerryahenderson. Linktree (Podbean/shop/socials). Holiday merch sale: 30% off tees/hoodies with code BLACK25 at adultingwithautism.shop—master your gear! #PersonalMasteryND #HighAchieverBurnout #TraumaHealingAutism #LimitingBeliefsADHD #EmotionalResilienceNeurodivergent #HabitFormationImposter #AdultingWithAutism #SustainableSuccessND #PodMatch #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #Podcasts #BTSARMY #BTS Neurodivergent #MentalHealth #OT #OTTips Episode: Personal Mastery for ND High Achievers with Jerry Henderson [00:00] Intro: ND Burnout in the Achievement Chase [00:30] Jerry's Story: Trauma to Personal Mastery Framework™ [02:00] Pillar 1: Mindset Reframing (Growth vs. Fixed, Stress Views) [05:00] NLP for Limiting Beliefs: Anchoring & Emotional Loops [08:00] Whole Life Success vs. High Performance Grind [11:00] Trauma-Informed: IFS for Anxiety/Perfectionism (Parts Work) [14:00] Emotional Mastery/Resilience: ACEs, Thriving vs. Survival [17:00] Habit Formation: Small Stacks, Self-Worth Alignment [20:00] Clarity/Peace: Intrinsic Motivation, Self-Acceptance [23:00] Core Beliefs: Symptoms to Roots, New Experiences [26:00] Authentic Connection: Vulnerability in Safe Relationships [29:00] Burnout Step: Honest Reflection, Ask Help (Job Hopping Trap) [32:00] Outro: Resources & CTAs Resources: Personal Mastery Framework™: jerryhenderson.org (coaching/podcast/book on self-love) Instagram: @jerryahenderson Linktree(Podbean/shop/socials) Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND mastery! Share your limiting belief win in comments. #NDHighAchievers #AutismPersonalMastery #ADHDRelilience #TraumaCoachingND #ImposterSyndromeHabits
Summary:The episode "The Quiet Yearning: Helping Men Heal, Grow, and Come Home to Themselves" features a deep conversation between Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., and Sean Harvey, Founder of the Warrior Compassion Institute and a leading voice on men, masculinity, and extremism. The episode explores the challenges and transformations men face in today's society, focusing on the need for deeper connections, authenticity, and personal growth. Sean Harvey shares his journey from high-pressure environments to founding the Warrior Compassion Institute, emphasizing the importance of creating spaces for men to express vulnerability and engage in meaningful dialogue.Keywords:men's healing, masculinity, personal growth, Warrior Compassion Institute, vulnerability, societal pressures, Sean Harvey, Tonya Harris CornileusTakeawaysMen yearn for deeper connections and authenticity.Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.Creating safe spaces for men to express themselves is crucial.Societal pressures often hinder men's personal growth.Sean Harvey's journey highlights the importance of compassion in leadership.The Warrior Compassion Institute focuses on healing and growth for men.Men's circles provide a supportive environment for personal exploration.Understanding 'dude psychology' is key to engaging men effectively.Personal growth should be integrated into professional development.Men are not broken; systems are often the issue.Systems are broken and broken systems wound men (people).Sound bites: "Men yearn for deeper connections." "Vulnerability is a strength." "Safe spaces are crucial for men." "Societal pressures hinder growth." "Compassion in leadership matters." "Men's circles support exploration." "Dude psychology is key." "Growth in professional development." "Men are not broken." "Healing men heals society."Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:03:00 Sean Harvey's Journey00:09:00 The Importance of Vulnerability00:15:00 Creating Safe Spaces for Men00:21:00 Understanding Societal Pressures00:27:00 Warrior Compassion Institute00:33:00 Men's Circles and Support00:39:00 Integrating Personal Growth00:45:00 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsTo learn more about Sean Harvey and the work he's doing to support men, go to www.warriorcompassion.com, get his book, Warrior Compassion: Unleashing the Healing Power of Men (you can find it on Amazon or ask for it at your indie bookstore), and follow him on his new substack: Dude Psychology. Thank you for listening and following Your Aha! Life - The Podcast. Please share this podcast, leave a review, and hit follow to help this podcast reach other listeners like you. To learn more about Your Aha! Life, go to my website at https://www.yourahalife.comXOXO, Tonya
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This powerful episode of the Compared to Who? podcast dives deep into the story of Cheri Garcia, a nationally recognized recovery advocate, entrepreneur, and the founder of Cornbread Hustle. Cheri joins Heather Creekmore to share her extraordinary journey through addiction, bulimia, and the relentless pursuit of approval and achievement. What You’ll Hear: Cheri’s Hidden Struggles: From a “typical” all-American upbringing to battling addiction, reveals how her father’s meth use triggered a desperate search for approval, leading her down her own path of substance abuse. She opens up about her history with meth, alcohol, and bulimia, as well as the shame that hid behind her achievements. Entrepreneurial Escape: Despite her addictions, Cheri became a successful entrepreneur, starting businesses—even while still in high school. Listen as she describes how workaholism became a new kind of drug, and why success could never satisfy her underlying wounds. Rock Bottom & Surrender: Cheri’s story takes a pivotal turn after a DWI arrest, propelling her toward sobriety. She shares the moment on Christmas Day when she chose to give herself the “gift of sobriety” and the spiritual awakening that followed, including a haunting worship song, a powerful Bible verse, and a deep confrontation with God. Breaking the Shame Cycle: The conversation explores the difference between guilt and shame, the importance of vulnerability vs. mere transparency, and why secrets keep us sick. Cheri explains how confessing your struggles—no matter how dark—can set you free. Mental Health and Medication: In a refreshingly honest discussion, Cheri talks about her journey with mental health and the complexities of accepting help, including medication, after years of trying to "pray harder" through her pain. Community & True Friendship: Hear how authentic community, especially among women in recovery, helped Cheri finally accept herself without needing to "offer" anything. Key Takeaways: Recovery is often a journey of switching unhealthy fixes for healthier, but sometimes still unsatisfying, ones. Healing from shame requires bringing secrets into the light and embracing community. Vulnerability—not just transparency—is where true transformation happens. Sometimes faith and mental health treatment go hand-in-hand, and there’s no shame in seeking help. You are worthy of love, friendship, and community, apart from your achievements. Resources & Links: Connect with Cheri on Instagram: @luminous_cheri Find out about We Share: weshare.org/heather A Note from Heather: If you find yourself struggling with addiction, body image, or feeling like you have to achieve to be worthy, let this episode remind you: You’re not alone. There is hope, healing, and community waiting for you. Listen & subscribe for more honest stories that help you stop comparing and start living! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
In this special crossover episode, we are republishing Joe's appearance on Charisma on Command with Charlie Houpert alongside Dr. Alok “Dr. K” Kanojia. They explore what charisma really is and why genuine presence and emotional awareness matter far more than polished performance.Charlie's opening question, “What is charisma?” unfolds into a deep exploration of authenticity, self-love, and emotional intelligence. Joe and Dr. K contrast performative charisma (built on control, manipulation, or validation-seeking) with true charisma, which arises from inner alignment, vulnerability, and purpose. The three of them discuss how self-acceptance, emotional integration, and listening reshape the way we connect and influence others.Check out more from Dr.K on the HealthyGamerGG Podcast on SpotifyTwitter @HealthyGamerGGhealthygamer.gghttps://www.tiktok.com/@healthygamer.gghttps://www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg/Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccompVisit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.comWe invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam intterviews Alex, a men's sex coach, about authenticity in male sexuality. Alex shares his personal journey and experiences with societal pressures that shaped his early sexual experiences, including performance anxiety and the influence of substance abuse. Cam and Alex discuss the transition towards a more genuine, shame-free sexual expression. They explore how societal messages and stereotypes impact not only their sex lives but also their broader relationships and mental health. They emphasise the importance of open communication, vulnerability, and self-exploration to understand one's unique sexual blueprint. By overcoming fear and anxiety, they advocate for embracing one's authentic sexual self. The episode also touches on the significance of nervous system regulation in dealing with sexual anxieties and the role of men's support groups in facilitating open conversations about these issues.Key points:00:00 Introduction and Opening Questions00:47 Defining Authentic Sexuality01:52 Societal Expectations and Masculinity03:05 Personal Struggles with Sexual Performance05:30 Journey to Sobriety and Self-Discovery07:23 Facing Shame and Embracing Authenticity15:33 Navigating Nervous System Responses17:22 Breathwork and Nervous System Regulation21:08 Communicating Sexual Desires with Partners25:10 The Importance of Vulnerability29:46 The Struggle of Asking for Help30:05 Acknowledging the Need for Help31:07 Vulnerability in Discussing Sexual Issues31:59 Exploring Sexuality and Self-Understanding33:20 The Power of Erotic Blueprints35:14 The Fluidity of Sexual Desires38:31 Breaking Free from Masturbation Habits40:39 Navigating Shame and Self-Pleasure42:29 The Anxiety Around Ejaculation49:10 The Importance of Vulnerability in Men's Groups50:16 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find More
“Great leadership starts with great self-leadership” is a mantra that lies at the heart of the Do Good to Lead Well podcast. This is why I am thrilled to share this episode, where I welcome Margaret C. Andrews, a seasoned executive and leadership expert, who shares the intriguing backstory behind her book, Manage Yourself to Lead Others, which was inspired by a pivotal moment when she was told she lacked self-awareness. This experience led her to explore the vital connection between understanding oneself and effective, sustainable leadership.Listen in as we guide you through an enlightening exercise to reflect on the traits of your best boss, revealing that a remarkable 85% of these qualities fall under the realm of soft skills or emotional intelligence. Margaret and I address a listener's question on self-awareness, offering methods like 360-degree feedback to gain a clearer understanding of one's impact. The episode continues to explore the challenges of addressing self-awareness and providing constructive feedback, using the SBI (Situation, Behavior, Impact) model to enhance clarity and constructiveness. Our discussion invites you to reconsider what truly makes a great leader and the critical role of empathy and effective communication in leadership.Enhancing team dynamics is also a focal point of our conversation, with insights into creating personal user manuals and team charters to foster effective teamwork. Margaret shares strategies for transitioning from a subject matter expert to leading a team, emphasizing the importance of intentional leadership. We explore managing up with a boss who lacks self-awareness, highlighting self-care and mental health as crucial components of professional success. As we conclude, we underscore the importance of self-awareness in how we perceive our intentions versus how others feel our impacts, advocating for a mindful approach to leadership that balances transparency and resilience.What You'll Learn- The power and importance of self-awareness in effective leadership.- How to enhance emotional intelligence for better team dynamics.- Leveraging 360-feedback for professional development.- Techniques for delivering impactful and constructive feedback.- Ways to align intentions with actions to foster trust within a team.- Methods to build resilience in personal and professional settings.Podcast Timestamps(00:00) – Manage Yourself to Lead Others(09:48) – Soft Skills Are the Heart of Great Leadership(16:55) – Navigating Feedback Conversations to Build Self-Awareness(25:04) – Managing Up(38:37) – Share Your User Manual(42:22) – The Power of Team Charters(47:15) – Vulnerability and Building Resilience(56:16) – Intentions Versus Impacts KEYWORDSPositive Leadership, Self-Awareness, Emotional Intelligence, Team Dynamics, Feedback, Personal Growth, Communication, Resilience, Soft Skills, Mental Health, Vulnerability, Transparency, Leading with Intention, Fostering Collaboration, User Manuals, Team Charters, CEO Success
Amberly Lago, a leading expert in resilience and transformation, a TEDx and internationally renowned motivational speaker, USA Today bestselling author, coach, and host of the globally top-ranked podcast, The Amberly Lago Show, joins me on this episode. Amberly has been featured in popular media outlets, including Forbes, USA Today, The Doctors, The Today Show, People, and many others.
Sarah Chauncey joins Let's Talk Memoir for a conversation about her many careers in writing, working on a memoir and deciding not to publish, framing the story we want to tell, experiencing ourselves as a part of living system, going deeper and becoming more vulnerable, taking responsibility for our wellbeing and mental health, not seeing oneself as a limited, pursuing inner peace, reading subtextual energy on the page, different forms of storytelling, patterns in memoir, searching for emotional transformation and change, and getting to the heart of spiritual and awakened memoir. Also in this episode: -the great mystery -no longer being a character -deciding not to be too public Books mentioned in this episode: -Working by Studs Terkel -The Situation and the Story by Vivian Gornick -Mariette in Ecstasy by Ron Hansen -Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg -The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown Sarah Chauncey is a veteran writer and developmental editor, as well as the author of P.S. I Love You More Than Tuna, the first gift book for adults grieving the loss of a pet. In the early part of her career, she wrote for VH1, Comedy Central and other TV outlets, as well as entertainment websites and music magazines. Later, she pivoted to storytelling for organizations including NASA, McAfee and Intel. Sarah writes the Resonant Storytelling Substack, which offers guidance on craft and process for creative nonfiction writers. She also writes The Counterintuitive Guide to Life, which helps readers develop mental health resilience by developing self-awareness; and More Than Tuna, which offers support for those grieving the loss of a pet. In recent years, she's written for Tiny Buddha, Lion's Roar, Modern Loss, Eckhart Tolle's website, Jane Friedman's blog and the Brevity blog. Connect with Sarah: Website: https://www.sarahchauncey.com/ Substack: https://substack.com/@sarahchauncey Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahkchauncey/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahchauncey/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sarah.k.chauncey – Ronit's writing has appeared in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, Poets & Writers, The Iowa Review, Hippocampus, The Washington Post, Writer's Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in the 2021 Housatonic Awards Awards, the 2021 Indie Excellence Awards, and was a 2021 Book Riot Best True Crime Book. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts' 2020 Eludia Award and the 2023 Page Turner Awards for Short Stories. She earned an MFA in Nonfiction Writing at Pacific University, is Creative Nonfiction Editor at The Citron Review, and teaches memoir through the University of Washington's Online Continuum Program and also independently. She launched Let's Talk Memoir in 2022, lives in Seattle with her family of people and dogs, and is at work on her next book. More about Ronit: https://ronitplank.com Subscribe to Ronit's Substack: https://substack.com/@ronitplank Follow Ronit: https://www.instagram.com/ronitplank/ https://www.facebook.com/RonitPlank https://bsky.app/profile/ronitplank.bsky.social Background photo credit: Photo by Patrick Tomasso on Unsplash Headshot photo credit: Sarah Anne Photography Theme music: Isaac Joel, Dead Moll's Fingers
Jada Samuel is an author, marketing-communications professional and the founder of a girl's nonprofit mentoring organization called iShapeMe. In 2023, she became the oldest and only the 4th Black woman to win the title of Miss South Carolina. Now, she's a pageant coach and professional speaker sharing messages about confidence, mentorship and sisterhood. In this engaging conversation, Miss South Carolina, Jada Samuel, shares her insights on fashion, confidence, and the journey of pageantry. She discusses the importance of authenticity, the challenges of public speaking, and the impact of vulnerability in a world that often demands perfection. Jada emphasizes the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals and the necessity of self-reflection and growth through adversity. Her journey through multiple pageant competitions highlights the importance of persistence and trusting the process, ultimately leading to her success. In this engaging conversation, Jada Samuel shares her journey through pageantry, self-care, and the importance of authenticity. She discusses the emotional challenges faced during her reign as Miss South Carolina, the significance of mentorship, and the evolving landscape of pageantry. Jada emphasizes the need for self-acceptance and the value of genuine connections, while also addressing the practical aspects of competing, including costs and preparation. Her insights into personal growth, community service, and inspiring the next generation through her nonprofit and children's book highlight her commitment to empowering young women.Find Jada here:https://www.instagram.com/jadamsamuel/ https://www.facebook.com/JadaMSamuel/ https://www.tiktok.com/@jadamsamuelhttps://www.instagram.com/positionedtowin/ https://www.positionedtowin.co/links Find more about pro dance @theprofessionalcheerleader on Instagram
In this Episode: Slow Down to Go Faster with Ralph Simone Episode Summary: In this episode, Mark and Theron sit down with Ralph Simone, a founding partner of Emergent and a veteran in leadership and organizational development with over 40 years of experience. Ralph breaks down his definition of leadership, "influencing and inspiring purposeful action" and discusses why the most effective way to speed up your results is actually to slow down your process. From the martial arts wisdom of Chuck Norris and Bruce Lee to practical habits for "Success Planning," Ralph shares actionable strategies to help you live and lead with intention. Key Takeaways: The Definition of Leadership: Why leadership isn't just about authority, but about the ability to influence purposeful action and remain open to learning. Vulnerability is Strength: Why the best leaders (and coaching clients) are those willing to say "I don't know" and be vulnerable enough to learn. Success Planning: Ralph's 35-year habit of weekly planning to move from being "reactive" to "proactive." Read for Application, Not Completion: A unique approach to reading books where you stop once you find an actionable idea, rather than grinding to the end of the book. The "Slow Down to Go Faster" Philosophy: The story of how advice from Chuck Norris to Bruce Lee inspired Ralph's book title, and how strategic pauses can skyrocket your productivity. 3 Immediate Actions: Create "White Space": Stop scheduling back-to-back meetings. Build in 5–10-minute buffers to breathe, reset, and set an intention for the next task. Audit Your Learning Style: Determine if you are a reader, a listener, or a doer, and curate your education (books vs. podcasts vs. travel) to match that style. The Weekly Success Plan: Dedicate time on the weekend to map out your "Big Rocks" for the next 2-3 weeks, rather than just filling your schedule with immediate tasks. Resources Mentioned: Book: Slow Down to Go Faster: Living and Leading Intentionally by Ralph Simone and Renny M Simone (Release date of 12/22/25) Website: Slowdowntogofaster.com www.getemergent.com Book Recommendation: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle Book Recommendation: Living in Flow by Sky Nelson-Isaacs Ralph Simone Bio: Ralph Simone has spent over a quarter of a century helping individuals and organizations transform themselves, raise their consciousness, and perform at their fullest potential. As a Black Belt in karate and an avid reader, Ralph understands the benefits of consistent practice and continuous learning as integral parts of leadership development. He received his B.B.A. from Siena College in 1979 with a major in accounting. He is a Certified Professional Coach, specializing in leadership and organizational effectiveness, and has amassed over 15,000 paid client coaching hours. An accomplished writer and sought-after speaker, Ralph is currently writing a book entitled Slow Down to Go Faster. He also published Making It Stick and The Daily Re-Tweet. See Ralph's TEDx talk here. Credentials and Certifications Myers-Briggs Type Indicator The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People – Facilitator Emotional and Social Competency Inventory Leadership Agility Leadership Development Framework E Performance Dynamics Specialist Leadership Circle Profile Special Skills Leadership Coaching Leadership Development Business Development and Marketing Relationship Management ARN Suggested Reading: Blessings In the Bullshit: A Guided Journal for Finding the BEST In Every Day – by Mark Cardone & Theron Feidt https://www.amazon.com/Blessings-Bullshit-Guided-Journal-Finding/dp/B09FP35ZXX/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=blessings+in+the+bullshit&qid=1632233840&sr=8-1 Full List of Recommended Books: https://www.achieveresultsnow.com/readers-are-leaders Questions: 1. Do you have a question you want answered in a future podcast? 2. Go to www.AchieveResultsNow.com to submit. Connect with Us: Get access to some of the great resources that we use at: www.AchieveResultsNow.com/success-store www.AchieveResultsNow.com www.facebook.com/achieveresultsnow www.twitter.com/nowachieve Thank you for listening to the Achieve Results NOW! Podcast. The podcast that gives you immediate actions you can take to start seeing life shifting results NOW!
Hello to our lovely coven, happy Wednesday! Today we are excited to have our friend Sergio from Sergio Talks Podcast on our couch for a candid, warm, and wide-ranging chat about gender dynamics, emotional growth, and the culture shocks of American masculinity. From the Red Pill rabbit hole to dating app etiquette, the group unpacks what it means to show up as a man who listens, cares, and learns in real time. Sergio shares how life in Canada has shaped his values, why positive masculinity is about accountability and softness, and how he and his friends embrace feminism, not as a buzzword, but as a baseline. Whether it's self-care routines, body count discourse, or just the art of being a decent guy—this episode is all about unlearning toxic scripts and reimagining what wholeness looks like, together, because growing and learning is DADDY. In need of something cute and cozy for the winter? Get yourself or whoever's on your daddy list a tee, hoodie, or beanie from our store! Please support our show and show off your love for Disrespectfully by repping our official gear :) K Love ya bye! Thank you to our sponsors! Osea: Use code DISRESPECTFULLY for 10% off your first order sitewide at https://OSEAMalibu.com Hero Bread: Get 10% off at https://hero.co and use code DISRESPECTFULLY10 at checkout Quince: Go to https://Quince.com/disrespectfully for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Rosetta Stone: Disrespectfully listeners can grab Rosetta Stone's LIFETIME Membership for 50% OFF! That's unlimited access to 25 language courses, for life! Visit https://www.rosettastone.com/disrespectfully to get started Shopify: Sign up for your $1 per month trial and start selling today at https://Shopify.com/disrespectfully Willie's Remedy: Order now at https://drinkwillies.com and use code DISRESPECTFULLY for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country Connect with the Coven! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1930451457469874 Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/disrespectfullypod/ Listen to us on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Listen to us on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0J6DW1KeDX6SpoVEuQpl7z?si=c35995a56b8d4038 Follow us on Social! Disrespectfully Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/disrespectfullypod Disrespectfully Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@disrespectfullypod Katie Maloney Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/musickillskate Dayna Kathan Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daynakathan Sergio Talks Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sergiotalks.podcast Leah Glouberman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leahgsilberstein Allison Klemes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisonklemes/ Buy our merch! https://disrespectfullypod.com/ Disrespectfully is an Envy Media Production.
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SmartTube Android App Compromise The key a developer used to sign the Android YouTube player SmartTube was compromised and used to publish a malicious version. https://github.com/yuliskov/SmartTube/issues/5131#issue-3670629826 https://github.com/yuliskov/SmartTube/releases/tag/notification Two Years, 17K Downloads: The NPM Malware That Tried to Gaslight Security Scanners Over the course of two years, a malicious NPM package was updated to evade detection and has now been identified, in part, due to its attempt to bypass AI scanners through prompt injection. https://www.koi.ai/blog/two-years-17k-downloads-the-npm-malware-that-tried-to-gaslight-security-scanners Stored XSS Vulnerability via SVG Animation, SVG URL, and MathML Attributes Angular fixed a store XSS vulnerability. https://github.com/angular/angular/security/advisories/GHSA-v4hv-rgfq-gp49
What makes a man strong today? Eric Bigger and Adisa Dempsey break down how vulnerability, mentorship, and community help modern men grow with more confidence, emotional strength, and real authenticity.About Adisa:William (Adisa) Dempsey is an author, mentor, and certified life coach with over twenty years of experience in youth and community development. He leads a thriving youth group focused on growth, resilience, and purpose, and uses his work as a speaker and facilitator to help people step into their potential.Website: https://www.ankh42coaching.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/actionfigureyoShop IYLA: https://iylia.com/Use promo code EB20 for IYLIA champagne, offering 20% off on orders up to $200Check out Miracle Season's collection: https://itsmiracleseason.co/collections/frontpageWork with me: https://www.ericbigger.com/workwithme?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=work_with_m...Connect with Simplified Impact: https://hubs.ly/Q02vvMJ90
‘Only a mind that is vulnerable is capable of affection and love, not a mind that is jealous, possessive or dominating.' This episode on Vulnerability has three sections. The first extract (2:46) is from the second public discussion in Saanen 1965, and is titled: Vulnerability & Sensitivity. The second extract (22:06) is from a direct recording in Ojai 1983, and is titled: We Lose Vulnerability in This World of Noise. The third and final extract (37:57) in this episode is from the sixth talk in Saanen 1966, and is titled: Pretension, Innocence & Vulnerability. The Krishnamurti Podcast features carefully selected extracts from Krishnamurti's recorded talks. Each episode highlights his different approaches to universal and timeless themes that affect our everyday lives, the state of the world and the future of humanity. This is a podcast from Krishnamurti Foundation Trust. Please visit our website at kfoundation.org, where you can find a popular collection of quotes, a variety of featured articles, along with a wide selection of curated material in the Index of Topics. This Index allows easy access to book, audio and video extracts. Our online store stocks the best of Krishnamurti's books and ships worldwide. We also offer free downloads, including a selection of booklets. You can also find our regular Krishnamurti quotes and videos on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook at Krishnamurti Foundation Trust. If you enjoy the podcast, please leave a review or rating on your podcast app.
Send us a textSpacemen, get ready for some honesty. Today, Matt, Mike, and Rob...but mostly Matt and Mike, because Rob keeps dropping out, talk about how much honesty is good in a relationship. Turns out, you don't have to say everything. But honesty still matters. Listen in and find out how much. Keywordshonesty, relationships, vulnerability, intimacy, communication, feedback, personal growth, emotional intelligence, self-awareness, interpersonal dynamicsTakeawaysHonesty is crucial in relationships, but it must be balanced with politeness.Not every thought needs to be shared; discernment is key.Vulnerability can lead to deeper intimacy, but it requires careful communication.Being blunt is not the same as being direct; clarity matters.Feedback should be constructive and aimed at improvement, not criticism.Understanding the impact of our words on others is essential for healthy relationships.Self-awareness helps in recognizing our own biases and perceptions.The way we deliver messages can significantly affect their reception.It's important to ask if our honesty is truly helpful to the other person.Building a foundation of trust allows for more honest and open communication.Sound Bites"Total honesty within a relationship.""Does it need to be said?""Is it true? Is it helpful?"Chapters00:00The Role of Honesty in Relationships03:59Navigating Communication: Blunt vs. Direct09:31Intimacy vs. Honesty: Understanding the Difference15:46Calling Up vs. Calling Out: A New Perspective21:28The Impact of Delivery in CommunicationSpread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!
In this episode, Julia speaks with Vijaya, a WE Explorer about her powerful reframing of vulnerability from weakness to strength. She was part of the Women Emerging expedition for women leading in India, in partnership with Buzz Women. Vijaya begins by reflecting on how she grew up believing that showing vulnerability made you unreliable, less capable, and easier to dismiss. As a founder and leader, this belief pushed her into toughness, especially during the crisis year of 2020, when her organisation hit zero revenue and she carried the weight of answers she didn't have. Through the Expedition's conversations, she realised that vulnerability is not the opposite of strength it is a form of strength. But it comes with boundaries. Her biggest insight: vulnerability should build trust, not become confession. She talks about how leaders can reveal enough to be relatable, human, and accessible without destabilising teams or exposing themselves in ways that create long-lasting, unhelpful impressions. She also shares what she's learned about leading across generations, and how every age group brings its own version of vulnerability to the workplace. This episode is a reminder that leading is not about having all the answers. It's about creating the space where honest conversations grounded, thoughtful, and human can happen. About the Guest: Vijaya Balaji – CEO and Managing Director, Toolbox India Foundation and Principal Founder at Social Lens Consulting is amongst the pioneers in advising Nonprofit organizations on organization development and strengthening requirements. In her diverse experience working in the Social Impact Sector, Vijaya has worked as an Impact and Capacity building and Organization development practitioner, she has coached organizations over 750 + organizations, designed diagnostic and assessment tools and toolkits, and technology enabled platforms for organizations. Her experience built over the last 14 years includes the conceptualization of the capacity enhancement and organization development at The GROW fund, The Better World Initiative, Parivartan, the Social Impact Optimization Program, Forbes Fellowship and the Value Circle at toolbox INDIA. Vijaya serves on the boards of 2 nonprofit organizations as part of steering them in the fulfillment of their strategic vision and goals. She is an evaluator at the Echoing Green fellowship, a past Advisory member of the India @75 – a CII Initiative and her podcast ‘covering ground ‘spotlights ground realities of social change making organizations. The Founder's Table hosted by her brings the stories and journeys of founders and their motivations and challenges in navigating driving social impact.
Kalene McGraner's life changed in two minutes—at 5:00 shehad a family, by 5:02 her marriage was over. In this raw conversation, the co-founder of Dallas's Ritual One wellness studio opens up about how childhood abandonment shaped her attachment patterns, why her divorce became the catalystfor building an extraordinary community space, and what she discovered through psychedelic therapy and intensive inner child work. We explore the loneliness that exists even in relationships, why going inward is terrifying butnecessary, and how the hot yoga room strips away identity to reveal our shared humanity. Kalene shares her journey from single mom raised by a single mom to creating a business in the middle of personal crisis, the difference betweenempathy and compassion, and why spiritual leakiness is real. This is a conversation about breaking patterns, finding agency, and learning that healing is never linear.
Welcome back to another episode of Grit Meets Growth. Today's a special one. We're pulling back the curtain on the brotherhood inside Built for More and inviting you into the room with us. Five months into this journey—and with most of the guys having just wrapped up a round of 75 Hard—we thought it was the perfect time to bring everyone together, share what this experience has looked like, and talk honestly about the growth, the challenges, and the wins. This one's going to be real, it's going to be raw, and it's definitely going to be fun. Let's jump in, meet the crew, and get this conversation rolling. Five Takeaways from this Episode:Brotherhood changes everything.When men get in a room together, drop the armor, and get real, transformation accelerates. You don't need everyone's backstory to build a brotherhood—you just need honesty, presence, and the willingness to show up for each other.Vulnerability isn't weakness—it's the doorway to strength.Every guy talked about leaving the macho at the door. That's where breakthroughs happened. Once the mask comes off, you finally get access to the conversations that actually move your life forward.Discipline creates momentum.75 Hard wasn't about workouts or water—it was about mental toughness. Honoring your promises to yourself, showing up when you don't feel like it, stacking small wins… that's what rebuilt confidence and shaped identity for the guys in this group.Personal growth spills into everything else.When a man gets his personal life aligned—mindset, habits, discipline—his work life, leadership, relationships, and energy all change. Every guy on the call saw the ripple effect.Iron sharpens iron.Being surrounded by high-character, high-effort men pulls you up. The group became a place to get challenged, encouraged, recalibrated, and reminded that there's more in the tank. Growth isn't a solo sport—and these men proved it. ONE TRUTH:A man becomes who he's meant to be when he stops trying to do life alone.
In this deeply human episode, Dr. Mark Bonta sits down with cardiac surgeon, scientist, and writer Dr. Paul Fedak for an honest look at the hidden cost of excellence in medicine. Dr. Fedak shares the story of the injury that forced him out of the operating room and into a profound reckoning with identity, purpose, and the culture of silence that surrounds clinician suffering.Drawing from years as Professor at the University of Calgary and Director of the Libin Cardiovascular Institute, he unpacks why perfectionism is so common in medical training, how surgeons learn to mask pain behind composure, and why emotional detachment has long been mistaken for professionalism. Together they explore the unseen burden clinicians carry, the pressure to perform without pause, and the moments when the mask finally cracks.Dr. Fedak speaks candidly about ego death, vulnerability, and rebuilding a life after losing the work that once defined him. He describes the colleagues who opened up only after he shared his own story, highlighting how connection and honesty can transform a profession built on quiet endurance.This episode examines the human side of medicine that rarely makes it into textbooks. Identity. Injury. Recovery. Presence. What it means to care for others while trying to stay whole yourself.A moving conversation for anyone in healthcare or anyone who has ever struggled with the weight of impossible expectations.Paul Fedak, MD, PhD's website : paulfedak.comEpisode Takeaways1. Surgeons are trained to push through pain, not acknowledge it.Medical culture rewards resilience and persistence, but that same conditioning prevents clinicians from recognizing and responding to their own injuries.2. Perfectionism is wired into medical training.Traits like list making, obsessive task completion, and performance under observation are common in medicine and often go unexamined despite their psychological cost.3. The mask of competence becomes automatic.Clinicians become so skilled at hiding distress that even close colleagues fail to notice warning signs. This silence leaves suffering invisible.4. Vulnerability creates connection and protects lives.When Dr. Fedak shared his story, dozens of peers came forward with their own hidden experiences. Openness is not weakness. It is safety.5. Ergonomic injuries in surgery are far more common than most people realize.The physical demands of operating are intense, yet surgeons lack the protections that other healthcare workers receive.6. Leadership shows the true burden physicians carry.Once in leadership roles, clinicians see the depth of burnout, fear, and quiet endurance happening behind the scenes.7. Losing the identity of “surgeon” creates an existential crisis.Stepping out of the operating room forced a complete reevaluation of purpose, ego, and self worth.8. Technical excellence is not the full measure of a doctor.Relational skill, empathy, presence, and human connection matter just as much as procedural skill.9. Medicine needs protected space for reflection.Without pause and presence, clinicians lose touch with themselves and the people they care for. Healing requires time, community, and grounding.10. System structures shape clinician wellbeing.The fee for service model rewards quantity over recovery, creating pressures that make self care feel impossible.11. Paying clinicians to care for themselves could change outcomes.If mental health visits, ergonomic care, and recovery time were compensated, more clinicians would seek help early.Episode Timestamps07:10 How one surgeon's work related injury forced a career pivot and a deeper conversation about wellbeing.08:25 The secret stories colleagues shared only after Paul opened up about his own suffering.10:30 Independent contractor status and why doctors lack the ergonomic protections nurses receive.13:00 The unseen emotional toll behind surgical careers and what leadership reveals about clinician suffering.16:00 Training teaches perseverance, but injury demands honesty. The conflict surgeons are never taught to navigate.17:28 Medical trainees and perfectionism. Why obsessive traits are six times more common in medicine.19:10 When the mask becomes permanent. How clinicians hide distress even from each other.20:00 Two tragic losses and the lessons Paul learned about checking in with colleagues.22:00 Vulnerability as leadership. Why sharing your story opens the door for others to heal.28:57 Did speaking out come with professional risks. What changed when Paul stopped protecting his own ego.31:55 Losing the identity of “surgeon.” The ego death that followed leaving the operating room.33:40 Beyond technical mastery. Why excellence must include human connection, empathy, and presence.34:46 How medicine can “create space” for reflection, grounding, and real conversations.37:50 The hidden financial pressures behind surgical work and how billing shapes clinician behavior.DISCLAMER >>>>>> The Ditch Lab Coat podcast serves solely for general informational purposes and does not serve as a substitute for professional medical services such as medicine or nursing. It does not establish a doctor/patient relationship, and the use of information from the podcast or linked materials is at the user's own risk. The content does not aim to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment, and users should promptly seek guidance from healthcare professionals for any medical conditions. >>>>>> The expressed opinions belong solely to the hosts and guests, and they do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the Hospitals, Clinics, Universities, or any other organization associated with the host or guests. Disclosures: Ditch The Lab Coat podcast is produced by (Podkind.co) and is independent of Dr. Bonta's teaching and research roles at McMaster University, Temerty Faculty of Medicine and Queens University.
I recently returned from a men's work retreat through the Island of Men: a transformative program designed to help men connect and heal.I left with two main takeaways.1: There is a tremendous male loneliness and meaning epidemic. Men feel alone and unsure of what they are doing, why they are doing it, and feel like they have no one to talk it through with.2: There is vulnerability within positivity and success.I was asked about my purpose and realized that I was already living it (a journey over destination kind of thing), and I chose to do an improve comedy workshop over the deep introspective darkness exploration and healing that I would usually explore.Why? Because doing so felt more expansive (scary) than not. I realized I am more than fine to share my pain and shadow, but not my light.This was revolutionary. I now realise that I need to explore and express all aspects of myself.Reminder: You are invited to join the December Self-Care challenge in the Art of Self-Connection community. Lets stay sane this festive season!
Dr. Becky talks with Joe Gonzales, founder of Brooklyn Stroll Club, about how searching for connection with other dads sparked an NYC movement. He shares how fatherhood is “re-raising parts of yourself,” why vulnerability is contagious, and what it means to play the long game in modern parenting.Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/4fSxbzkYour Good Inside membership might be eligible for HSA/FSA reimbursement! To learn more about how to get your membership reimbursed, check out the link here: https://www.goodinside.com/fsa-hsa-eligibility/Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterFor a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast.Thank you to our sponsor, Airbnb — because during the holidays, it's nice to love your family and have your own space. Find your getaway or host your home at airbnb.com/host.Thank you to our sponsor Skylight. Head to Skylight.com/BECKY for $30 off their 15-inch calendars. This offer expires December 31st of this year.Thank you to our sponsor Hot Wheels. Check out our full series with Hot Wheels at hotwheels.com/challengeaccepted.Thank you to our sponsor Sony. Get $700 off the Sony Alpha 7 IV camera at electronics.sony.com.This season, Good Inside is partnering with Welcome Baby, a nonprofit that provides essential supplies to new parents in need. From December 18th–22nd, 10% of every new membership will help fund Welcome Baby packages—giving parents the support they need during those first, beautiful, overwhelming weeks. Learn more at GoodInside.com. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this week's episode, we dive deep into Acts 10 and talk all about what it looks like to love people who are different from us. We're talking about real, Spirit-led community—the kind that crosses lines of comfort, culture, and even conviction. From Jewish-Gentile divides in the early church to our own hidden biases today, this story of Peter and Cornelius challenges us to open our homes and hearts wider. We laugh a lot, but we're also honest about how the Spirit gently convicts us to live differently. Whether it's choosing curiosity over judgment, or inviting someone new to your dinner table, this episode will inspire you to take your next step toward radical love. Let's be girls who live it out—who ask God to search our hearts and then act on what He reveals. In This Episode [04:00] Church Talk [08:00] What's Your Bible Study Personality? [13:30] Vulnerability, Overthinking, and Speaking Up [17:00] Introduction to Acts 10: The Story of Peter & Cornelius [21:00] A Vision, A Visitor, and a Shift in the Early Church [26:00] The Spirit Falls on the Gentiles—The Church Expands [30:00] The Gospel Isn't Just for People Like Us [35:00] How Hidden Bias Shows Up in Our Lives [40:00] Dinner Tables, Diversity, and Teaching Our Kids [45:00] Living This Out: Curiosity Over Judgment [50:00] Final Challenge: Ask God to Search You ORDER OUR NEW STUDY! This seven-week, verse-by-verse study through the book of Acts invites you to embrace the unpredictable, sometimes challenging adventure of Spirit-led living that characterized the early church. Thanks to Our Sponsors Operation Christmas Child: Operation Christmas Child, a project of Samaritan's Purse, partners with churches to collect and distribute gift-filled shoeboxes to millions of children around the world, telling them the Good News of Jesus Christ, God's Greatest Gift. NIV Application Study Bible - Grab your copy today! Winshape: Learn more or submit your application today! If you'd like to partner with For The Girl as a sponsor, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us!
Peterman Brothers' Andrew Hasty breaks down why most home service teams do not fail for lack of talent or opportunity, but because of dysfunction. Drawing from Patrick Lencioni's The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Andrew focuses on the base of the pyramid, the absence of trust, and why it quietly kills performance in HVAC, plumbing, and electrical businesses. Through stories from his own life and leadership journey, Andrew shows how perfectionism, fear of failure, and "old school toughness" create blame cultures, silos, and defensiveness on a team. He contrasts that with vulnerability-based trust, where leaders go first by admitting mistakes, asking for feedback, and letting others step into real responsibility. Andrew also challenges every leader to identify one strength and one honest weakness that may be holding their company back from its next level of growth. If you are leading techs, installers, or managers and you sense hidden tension, blame, or burnout on your team, this episode will help you build the kind of trust that makes growth inevitable. Take these conversations further inside The Arena, the free CSTG community for HVAC, plumbing, and electrical leaders who want to grow faster together: https://cantstopthegrowth.com/ Additional Resources: Connect with Chad on LinkedIn Chad Peterman | CEO | Author Learn more about the Peterman Brothers Follow PeopleForward Network on LinkedIn Learn more about PeopleForward Network
You don’t need to be the cheapest. Or the loudest. Or the most polished. What you do need? A business culture that reflects who you truly are—and communicates it clearly to your community. In this week’s episode, Stacey continues the Community Capital series with a powerful conversation on why your culture is your greatest marketing tool. Through real stories (hello, flash mobs and pull-up banners!), she unpacks how knowing what makes you unique can drive growth, build trust, and create raving fans without spending a cent on flashy advertising. You’ll learn: ✨ How Stacey’s values-driven culture helped her studio grow from zero to 100 students in one week✨ Why being “not like the others” helped her stand out during the height of Dance Moms culture✨ Practical ways to reflect your values through images, messaging, events, and collaborations✨ Why your ideal customer doesn’t care about perfection—they care about connection✨ How to turn your unique culture into a movement your community wants to be part of
“That's Your Fear Not Mine” Join me and my guest Randy Lyman (randylyman.com), who says he's been many things in his life, including a physicist, an engineer, and a serial entrepreneur behind multiple 8-figure businesses. Today, he's a speaker, podcaster, and the author of two upcoming books about humanity, potential, and the power of our emotional selves, what he calls the Third Element. As a self described Purpose-Driven Leader, he combines decades of business experience with a deep commitment to fostering emotional intelligence, spiritual grounding, and transformational leadership. His area of expertise is leading from a place of strength through vulnerability, creating cultures where authenticity and emotional connection drive high performance. SHOW NOTES SPONSORED BY: Power of You! Find out more at https://leader.blainebartlett.com/power-of-you Summary In this conversation, Blaine and Randy Lyman explore the significance of emotional intelligence in leadership. They discuss the concept of the 'third element' which integrates emotional awareness into business practices. Lyman shares his journey of embracing vulnerability and authenticity as a leader, emphasizing the importance of listening and emotional regulation in fostering effective teams. The discussion highlights practical tools for leaders, highlighted in his book The Third Element, to enhance their emotional intelligence and create a supportive work environment. Takeaways Emotional intelligence is crucial for effective leadership. Vulnerability can enhance a leader's authenticity. Listening is a key skill for leaders to develop. Emotional regulation is essential for team dynamics. Curiosity about oneself leads to deeper understanding. Leaders should create a safe space for emotional expression. Inspiration is more effective than motivation in leadership. The 'third element' integrates emotional awareness into business. Personal growth is a continuous journey for leaders. Building connections with team members fosters success. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How do we become more beautiful together? I speak with Julian Newman about just that. Julian is the author of Beautiful Together: How to Become a Better Leader & Bridge Builder. He's the founder, and CEO of Culture Creative and The FutureCast Foundation. He is an altMBA graduate and inaugural Anthem Award-winning Diversity & Inclusion Leader of the Year, along with Trevor Noah. His thought leadership has been featured in a range of media outlets including Forbes Magazine, Fox News, NPR and PBS affiliates. We discuss the importance of leadership, empathy, and vulnerability in building connections and fostering personal growth. We explore the transformative power of shared experiences, the necessity of stepping out of comfort zones, and the role of curiosity and competence in effective leadership. Julian shares personal anecdotes and insights on navigating emotions, the significance of real conversations, and the journey of self-discovery. Our discussion emphasizes the need for meaningful interactions and the courage to be vulnerable in order to create a more beautiful and connected world. Takeaways Listening is crucial for meaningful interactions. Stepping out of comfort zones leads to personal growth. Shared meals can create transformative experiences. Curiosity and competence are essential for leadership. Investing small efforts can lead to significant outcomes. Finding meaning in our actions is vital for fulfillment. Vulnerability fosters deeper connections with others. Real conversations are necessary for resolving conflicts. Empathy can bridge divides and foster understanding. Reuniting with our true selves is a journey worth taking. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Julian Newman and His Work 02:57 The Importance of Presence and Listening 06:03 Experiencing Culinary Adventures and Comfort Zones 08:59 The Role of Collaboration in Leadership 11:38 Transformative Experiences and Personal Growth 14:46 The Hero's Journey and Embracing the Unknown 17:44 Curiosity and Competence in Adventure 20:43 Investing in Small Steps Towards Goals 23:45 Finding Meaning and Purpose in Actions 26:36 Rekindling Wonder and Curiosity 29:46 Building Bridges Through Conversation 32:42 The Power of Connection and Understanding 38:04 The Importance of Face-to-Face Conversations 38:59 Digital Disconnection and Polarization 41:55 Empathy Through Understanding 44:43 Reunion with Our True Selves 50:34 Vulnerability as a Bridge 56:03 The Courage to Apologize 59:49 Finding the Essential in the Immediate
If you're curious as to whether you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your goals, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma QuizWhat is the thing that broke you down, is actually the process of building you up?This episode dives into the wild arc of a CFB season that went from devastating loss to an unstoppable surge. I walk through the emotional undercurrent of that turning point and the raw, uncomfortable honesty that cracked something open. No guests here, just a story pulled straight from lived experience and what unfolded inside a team I've followed for years.A strong foundation becomes the reason you don't collapse when everything hits at once. Responsibility forces a reckoning when pretending no longer works. Accountability turns into self-leadership the moment you're willing to say this isn't working and it's on me. Belief becomes non-negotiable when the ground moves and you need something bigger than your own effort to keep going.Press play and feel what shifts when resilience stops being theory and starts being lived.You'll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[03:14] Why one painful loss can expose the exact moment you've drifted from your core identity[05:47] How emotional awareness turns frustration into a deeper understanding of what's actually driving your reactions[07:32] The surprising shift that happens when belief and spirituality start strengthening the emotional fabric of a group[09:18] What erupts when honesty finally outweighs ego in a room full of people who can't afford to pretend anymore[10:41] The reason surrender becomes more powerful than strategy when control keeps collapsing on itself[12:26] How accountability reignites momentum after a setback that could've fractured everything[15:03] Why a brick-by-brick foundation becomes the thing that holds you steady when plans fall apart and pressure spikes[22:14] What happens inside your nervous system when resilience finally shows up the way it did for Christie[26:52] The reason self-leadership begins the moment you can say this isn't working and my part in it matters[28:47] How belief in yourself and a higher power becomes the anchor when life pushes you past your limitsFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:20 min Free Call | BookDr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool
This week, Pete Holmes returns to the studio for one of Working It Out's most joke-dense episodes ever. Mike and Pete work out jokes about strangers in hot tubs, why Jerry Seinfeld sounds like his own name, and how cool guys in movies swallow their pills without water. Plus, the comedy advice Pete wishes he knew when he was starting out.Want more of Mike and Pete? Subscribe to Working It Out's premium feed on Apple Podcasts to listen to their bonus episode together where they work out listener-submitted material! Please consider donating to Homeboy Industries Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryIn this heartfelt conversation, Tembi and Kimberly explore the profound themes of motherhood, loss, and identity. Tembi shares her journey through grief after losing her husband, the transformative experience of adopting her daughter, and the complexities of navigating life as a mother. They discuss the duality of joy and pain in parenting, the importance of embracing the present, and the significance of cultural identity. Tembi emphasizes the creativity inherent in motherhood and the need to honor all parts of one's journey, including the past. The conversation culminates in reflections on love, loss, and the beauty of re-nesting into oneself as children grow.Sponsors: LMNTOFFER: Right now, for my listeners LMNT is offering a free sample pack with any LMNT drink mix purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/FEELGOOD. That's 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT any LMNT drink mix purchase. This deal is only available through my link so. Also try the new LMNT Sparkling — a bold, 16-ounce can of sparkling electrolyte water.USE LINK: DrinkLMNT.com/FEELGOODANIMA MUNDIOFFER: To get THE PUREST, MOST DELICIOUS, benefit driven Herbal Teas, go to AnimaMundiHerbals.com and use code: KIMBERLY20 for 20% your entire purchase. USE LINK: Animamundiherbals.com and use code: KIM20 to get 20% off your purchase! Chapters00:00 The Power of Vulnerability and Change03:06 Embracing the Present: Lessons from Sicily05:53 Navigating Life and Death: The Cycle of Existence08:58 Unpacking Identity: Beyond Labels11:35 The Journey of Motherhood: Adoption and Attachment14:39 The Urgency of Parenthood: A Journey Through Cancer17:19 The Miraculous Connection: Adoption Story20:30 The Duality of Joy and Pain in Motherhood23:02 Returning to Roots: The Significance of Place25:52 The Grief of Growing Up: Navigating Change in Motherhood28:27 Navigating the Bitter and Sweet of Parenting28:56 Honoring the Journey of Transition29:58 Intentional Connections in the Re-Nesting Phase31:09 Reframing Emptiness as Spaciousness33:40 The Evolution of Relationships with Adult Children34:37 Grief and Curiosity in Parenting Transitions38:49 Opening the Heart to New Love43:41 The Complexity of Blended Families47:08 Redefining Creativity in Motherhood50:56 Embracing Multicultural IdentitiesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
I sit down with fertility specialist Gabriela Rosa for a blunt, science-driven conversation about what's really happening to our reproductive health. We get into why fertility challenges are rising, how men contribute fifty percent of the equation, and the lifestyle choices that quietly sabotage conception.I also explore the emotional and relational pressures couples face when trying to conceive, along with practical steps to improve fertility before pregnancy even begins. This is one of the most eye-opening fertility discussions I've had on the show.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Fertility As A Health Indicator03:20 Generational Impact Of Reproductive Health08:25 Fertility Rates vs Infertility Rates14:50 How Technology Shaped Modern Family Choices17:38 Why Sperm And Egg Quality Decline24:50 The Big Lifestyle Factors Hurting Fertility27:15 How Men Dramatically Improve Sperm Quality30:55 Why Everything Starts Pre-Conception36:13 Vulnerability, Masculinity And Fertility41:30 The Cost Of Delaying Testing48:53 What Men Should Stop And Start Doing58:15 Metabolic Health And Testosterone01:03:15 Emotional Toll And Seeking Support***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook |
Feeling isolated as a neurodivergent man? In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April talks modern masculinity for ND men with Josh Fineman, founder of Mensch—a North London community helping guys unplug from pressure and reconnect via men's circles, nature challenges, and 1:1 coaching. For autistic/ADHD young fathers (35-40s sweet spot), Josh addresses loneliness, purpose voids, and disconnection from self—blending ancient wisdom/modern tools for emotional courage and growth. Key insights: Core pressures: Ticking boxes (career/family) while losing self—loneliness from no village support. Men's circles magic: Safety (confidentiality/no fixing) + challenge (calling forward) for shared growth. Nature therapy anxiety: Grounding (feet on grass/breath), tree "waving" for ND calm. Unlocking purpose: Non-linear—trust instincts, small steps (follow curiosity, no one-fix pressure). Vulnerability wins: Brotherhood normalizes it; emerge via community, not solo. If you're an ND man battling isolation, burnout, or "proving" yourself (like Josh's zigzags to mentorship), this ep inspires action. Free call at bemoremensch.com—build your tribe! Subscribe for ND adulting/men's health tips! Rate/review on Podbean/Apple/Spotify. Follow Josh: bemoremensch.com | LinkedIn Joshua Fineman. #ModernMasculinityND #MensCirclesNeurodivergent #ADHDIsolationMen #PurposeYoungFathers #VulnerabilityAutismMen #AdultingWithAutism #NatureTherapyAnxiety Episode: Modern Masculinity for ND Men with Josh Fineman [00:00] Intro: ND Men's Isolation & Mensch Mission [00:30] Josh's Story: Career Zigzags to Men's Circles Founder [02:00] Pressures: Loneliness, Purpose Void, Self-Disconnection in 35-40s Fathers [05:00] Men's Circles: Safety + Challenge for Growth (No Fixing/Confidentiality) [08:00] Nature Rituals: Grounding Anxiety (Grass Feet/Tree Waving/Breath) [11:00] Unlocking Purpose: Non-Linear Instincts, Small Steps, Curiosity [14:00] Vulnerability Brotherhood: Normalize It Via Community (No Solo) [17:00] Outro: Takeaways & Call to Action Resources: Mensch: bemoremensch.com (circles/retreats/coaching—free 30-min call) LinkedIn: Joshua Fineman Contact: Via site form Subscribe on Podbean/YouTube for ND men's health! Share your isolation win in comments. #NDMensGroups #AutismMasculinity #ADHDVulnerability #MensPurpose #PodMatch #Podcasts #BTS #BTSNeurodivergent #Autism #AuDHD #OT #MentalHealth
In this heartfelt conversation, Lydia T. Blanco reflects on the complexities of the holiday season, sharing personal stories and insights on finding joy, building community, and practicing gratitude. She emphasizes the importance of planning, cherishing memories, and creating new experiences, while also encouraging listeners to engage in self-care and give back to others. Ultimately, Lydia inspires her audience to be their own source of joy and to appreciate the gift of connection during the holidays.Key TakeawaysThe holidays can be a mix of joy and challenges.Building community is essential during the holiday season.Planning can help avoid feelings of loneliness.Practicing gratitude can shift your perspective.Cherish the moments you have with loved ones.Creating new memories is essential for personal growth.Giving back to others can bring joy to your heart.Self-care is crucial, especially during busy times.Taking yourself out on a date can be empowering.Being your own joy is a powerful message for the holidays.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Vulnerability and the Holidays01:06 Finding Joy During the Holidays06:05 Building Community and Planning Ahead10:47 Creating New Memories and Practicing Gratitude18:44 Cherishing Relationships and Giving Back23:15 Self-Care and Being Your Own JoyStay ConnectedLifeWillBePod - LydiaTBlanco
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Keywordsmental health, empowerment, community, voice, trauma, music industry, creativity, authenticity, self-discovery, cultural identityLive EVENT at THE ASTER 11/13/2025 Host; TONI MENDOZA-GRATITUDE!TakeawaysDr. Paul shares his journey from law to therapy.Denise: The Lower East Side shaped cultural identities and experiences.Finding one's voice is crucial for empowerment.Donna: Power dynamics in the music industry can be exploitative.Trauma can be addressed through voice and expression.Community and connection are vital for personal growth.Self-understanding is key to navigating power struggles.Intentionality in creative spaces fosters collaboration.Personal stories can inspire and uplift others.Vulnerability and authenticity are essential for connection.TitlesEmpowering Voices: Navigating Identity and TraumaThe Journey of Self-Discovery in Creative SpacesSEE the Biographies of our PanelistsDonna Ross-Jones, CEO of Transition Music Corp. https://transitionmusic.com/Dr. Paul Hokemeyer, https://draysonmews.com/dr-paul/Denise Woods, #speak it clearly https://www.speakitclearly.com/and get their books ! THE POWER OF VOICE by Denise Woodsand FRAGILE POWER; Why Having Everything is Never Enoughand READ the Blogs, Posts and Educational Articles by Donna Ross-Jones on Autism, the inequities in the music industry and how to support artists and ownership of their music rights and earnings.
In this episode of the Be the Frequency Podcast, the host sits down with longtime friend Megan Yelaney to discuss the challenges and rewards of balancing entrepreneurship with motherhood. Megan shares her journey from feeling lost postpartum to finding her distinctive edge in her business. The conversation delves into the importance of authenticity, the transition to an interest-based social media landscape, and the significance of letting go of societal expectations to create a fulfilling life and business. Megan also offers actionable advice on embodying the qualities and mindset of successful individuals to achieve one's goals. This episode is filled with valuable insights for anyone looking to harmonize personal and professional life while staying true to oneself.00:00 Introduction and Friendship01:29 Authenticity in the Digital Age03:35 The Distinctive Edge Framework04:04 Balancing Motherhood and Entrepreneurship06:45 Finding Your Unique Voice09:35 Navigating Business and Personal Identity12:05 The Reality of Entrepreneurship18:35 Seasonal Work-Life Balance25:18 The Importance of Consistency in Creativity26:01 Building a Reliable Content Framework26:37 Handling Marketing Breaks and Audience Perception26:55 Dealing with Online Criticism30:41 Sharing Personal Stories to Grow Your Brand32:47 The Power of Vulnerability in Business39:10 Navigating Social Media Trends44:16 Balancing Personal Life and Business45:57 Embodying Success and Mindset Shifts48:45 Final Thoughts and Farewellwebsite:www.meganyelaney.comBusiness Story BluePrint: https://meganyelaney.com/business-story-blueprintAscension Manual: A 90 Day Guide to a Higher Vibrational Living on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3tUwOm1Take the "Which Chakra is Your Super Power in Business?" Quiz:https://chakraquiz.shalanec.com/quizBook a session with Dr. Shalane:https://spinalenergetics.shalanec.com/inperson-spinal-energetic-session418043
Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next.The suit fits, the numbers look great, and the applause is loud—so why does it still feel off inside? We sit down with leadership guide and speaker Chad Brignac to explore the uncomfortable gap between external performance and internal peace. Chad opens up about the tragedies that shattered his autopilot—losing his first wife and later becoming a full-time caregiver after his wife's stroke—and how those moments exposed a “broken legacy” built on results over relationships.What follows is a candid road map for men who lead at work but feel like strangers at home. Chad redefines emotional intelligence as clarity, not suppression: notice the trigger, pause, ask why, and deal with the roots—fear, pride, old vows—rather than the surface behaviour. You'll hear practical frameworks you can use today. Calibrate your people compass so success doesn't come at the expense of relationships. Learn how blind spots show up like lane changes. If your legacy feels “off,” this conversation offers a way to rebuild from the inside out and measure success by inner peace, not just titles.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs the reset, and leave a quick review to help others find these conversations. Your support helps us champion leadership with impact and integrity.Key moments in this episode:02:24 Guest Introduction: Chad Brina's Journey03:26 Facing Personal Tragedy and Transformation06:32 Discovering Inward Alignment10:04 The Power of Vulnerability and Emotional Intelligence12:20 Blend Don't Break: Leadership Lessons19:36 Recognizing Blind Spots and Growth32:22 The Greenhouse Effect: Creating a Healthy Environment34:50 Conclusion and Final Thoughts How to reach Chad:Website: https://chadmbrignac.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chadmbrignacInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/chadmbrignac/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@chadmbrignac?feature=sharedLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mark-collins-freedom-for-lifeX: https://x.com/ChadMBrignacLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/chadmbrignac/aboutSupport the showThanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life.
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