Touraine Shaffer's Podcast

  At this time in our lives, we're  witnesses to many global events that  will continue to affect each one of us. It's amazing how much rhetoric as  opposed to solutions we seem to get  from those who CAN change things. We hear promises repeated only to find out they are or were just words. We find ourselves asking a repeated question "Will it ever end?" Only to come to the same conclusion it goes On And On.  

Help Love Live On When you love someone you SHOULD be willing to go out of your way to show them. You may ask “Why should I have to go out of my way? No one is saying you have to it only simply shows your love is unconditional which is what TRUE love is suppose to be right? Men are less likely to be willing to compromise. Giving up the sports channel on Saturday to give way to a love drama on the Life Channel just doesn’t cut it. But fellas every now and then offering a love drama during quality time can work wonders but make sure you do it from the heart, they can sense a faker from miles away, and they will watch your reaction during the show. It probably wouldn’t be bad to take mental notes in case there’s a Q & A during or after the show. I’m just saying! Ladies, have you ever thought about sending him a dozen roses? Look at it this way, chances are he doesn’t know how to take care of them anyway so you’re bound to get them back as caretaker but it is a nice gesture. Now we all know times are not always rosy. We have those trying moments and in some cases situations get a little tensed, Okay! Sometimes when it hits the fan and results are not happily ever after, this is when you need to breathe. I know easier said than done but it has to start here. Once you catch your breath take two and think things through. Do you really want it to end this way? Well you shouldn’t, relationships are mostly works in progress. How do couples stay together 40, 50, or more years? They compromised, worked through problems, made sacrifices, this is the recipe case closed. When you and yours have that big one you know the one where feelings are hurt, think about the consequences that will result if you don’t try to work things out. When the dust settles(and I would suggest waiting until then :-)), take each others hand, look into each others eyes( now this is only if at all possible), wipe the tears away and say I Don’t Want Our Love To Die