Everything flies around in a more blunt, less planned way here. Definitely more personal. My weak side fairly exposed.
Is your future self watching over you at the playground?
How do you define Adventure? My definition might be less standard.
What does having your shit together actually mean?
Anytime anything borders on escapism it is too much for me. (30 minute)
If we basically spend all day hoping for magic to happen in various ways, why do we refuse to believe in magic?
If we aren't supposed to be attached to the outcome, can we at least be attached to what happens on the inside? (12 minutes)
Is it true that you can't unless someone has shown you how? (21 min)
Even if our life gets weird...which it always does, can we find it perversely comforting? (9 minutes)
We are drawn to love and laughter...but what about truth? Are we drawn to that too? (17 minutes)
Certainty isn't real, right? Why do we still go for it? (27 minutes)
Is the title family a birthright or something that should be earned? (24 minutes)
Why do people have such different definitions of unconditional love? (15 min)
Does the idea of personal growth make us feel incomplete or broken? (15 minutes)
Is the person who needs the least really the most wealthy? (17 minutes)
Do you see a difference between Fun and Happy? (16 minutes)
Are you wise if you have lived the same year for 80 years? (12 minutes)
Is meeting a person's request the same as giving over control? (14 minutes)
Should the ending of a relationship always be on the table? (12 minutes)
Would it be more clear to see yourself as the archetype of your partner's heart?
Reality is what you are willing to do
When will I ever learn that NO is a complete sentence? (9 minutes)
What does it take to be genuinely curious about someone? (15 minutes)
Is seriousness a form of fear? Or is that too extreme? (10 minutes)
Have you ever had a person that you didn't like for no real reason? I have something for you to try (22 minutes)
Do you jump straight to interpreting when a feeling shows up? (10 minutes)
What is acceptable to actual put on your online profile? (9 minutes)
What I wish I had responded when a guy asked me how I felt about surrender. (19 minutes)
Isn't relationship still the end goal for most of us? Or is it no longer the ultimate validation? (18 minutes)
Is there any part of you that enjoys hearing that all of you is welcome here? (12 minutes)
Do you say too many yes' or too many no's? Or an equal amount of both? (23 minutes)
14 minutes calling myself out on a subtle fear of others' boundaries
13 minutes admitting when someone called me on masking managing of my own discomfort as simply care and concern for the other person.
8 minutes on how the fun is in the back and forth, and the answer isn't just on one side or the other
26 minutes on when we think that being strong doesn't equate with needing or giving compassion
10 minutes expressing the edits I wish I had made before taking a therapist's advice
8 minutes asking whether it is too cold and removed when we don't take things personally
24 minutes on if all inner problems boil down to relationship skills
33 minutes refuting an old psychologist's popular article about his generation
10 minutes asking whether things that are contributed to being old might simply be more body awareness
15 minutes on being relieved instead of burdened by your opposite
5 minutes on what it would take for non verbal communication to be real communication
6 minutes on whether your people are simply the ones who value you
25 minutes on why I thought resolution and understanding would be all I needed in a relationship
8 minutes exploring whether everyone is actually dying to be weird
7 minutes on calling people crazy as a way to write them off
13 minutes questioning whether what we are feeling is anxiety or just being human
26 minutes on committing to each other instead of fearing missing out on independence