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Welcome to Tossed Salads & Scrambled Eggs. Each week will bring a new topic in the realm of love, sexuality, relationships, dating and the like that I will bring my perspective to.

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  • Aug 28, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
  • every other week NEW EPISODES
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  • 47 EPISODES


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Episode 46: Worry Bout Yoself!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2020 63:02


Pretty self-explanatory. A re-hash of self-care and an added perspective. Gone till December at least so be well and take care of yourselves while I’m away.

Episode 45: WAP and the Fun Police

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2020 45:52


I’ll keep it short and sweet. This week, I discuss the awesomeness that is WAP (aka Wet Ass Pussy) and the stealers of joy called the Fun Police who had all their think pieces about it. ENJOY! DROWN IN IT!!!!!!

Episode 44: Don't Come In Here With That Bullshit!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2020 43:18


In different ways and instances, people will come to you or to a group of people (friends, family, lovers) with some pure tomfoolery. Some foolishness they know they shouldn't be walking in with. In this week's episode, we talk about some of those different things such as threesomes, interracial dating, and ya grandpappy having fiddy-eleven families! Enjoy!

Episode 43: Settling and Worthiness

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2020 59:19


Should everyone have a fair opportunity at romantic happiness? Is there a such thing as being worthy of love? Is it too damn hot outside? Should your raggedy ass be wearing a mask if outside? These questions and more all answered, next time on Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs!

Episode 42: Randomness and Phone Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2020 44:02


Yeah I wasn't really sure what I wanted to discuss this week so the first half is a mix of different things that were on my mind at the moment and the second half is about the joys of phone sex. Enjoy!

Episode 41: So You've Decided To Invoke The Opt Out Option to Clappin' Cheeks: What Now?

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2020 63:33


As much as people as a whole discuss sex and sexuality, we don't often discuss when people decide they do not want to have sex. If we do, it's usually more so in a shaming way. The truth is sometimes for one reason or another, sex just may not be of interest to you. In this episode, we talk about abstinence vs celibacy, some guidance if you are trying to avoid sex if you're only abstaining for a certain period of time, and sexual performance anxiety as the icing on the cake. Enjoy!

Episode 40: Dating & Sex Vocabulary and the Art of Thirst Trapping

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2020 84:42


With all the new ways we have to communicate in this day and age that our parents and grandparents may not have access to, it's surprising how people more often use it to avoid direct communication altogether. This week we discuss the newly coined terms people use when it comes to dating that would make our parents' heads spin and the fine art of thirst trapping. Enjoy!!!!

Episode 39: Gender Roles Stuff, Boosie and It's All Good

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2020 65:36


This week, we over some more gender roles material, some new and some possibly a rehash, how Boosie is a raggedy (which is nothing new) and how it's OK to live and let live. Everything is not for everybody and it doesn't have to be. Hope yall are being safe out there and enjoy this episode!

Episode 38: The Big Horny & Life Lessons From A Raggedy Ass Job

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2020 71:29


Rona has folks (predominantly heterosexual men) acting UP so we go over some basic engagement rules for connecting with the opposite sex. Also, I have a new job after years at the same company and ironically enough, many of the positive life lessons I gained from that time also apply to romantic, sexual, as well as many other types of connections. 

Episode 37: Is Love Blind?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2020 87:05


So in all the craziness going on in the world, I somehow ended up watching Love is Blind, the Netflix series, and BOY do I have an opinion about this living train wreck. Listen as I sound off about these wild ass folk and just everything I felt was off about the whole shabang.

Episode 36: Bisexuality and Upholding the Patriarchy

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2020 56:34


This week, we talk about the many nuances of bisexuality. When I say nuances, I am referring to the misinformation out there, the societal double standard, and the commotion in the news in regards to it. I also discuss how men are not the only population that hold up the power structures that keep men with more power as well as uphold areas of what people classify as toxic masculinity.

Episode 35: Where Dem Dollars at? & Pet Peeves of Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2020 61:53


Just as often as sex comes up in the conversation of dating, money will also be a never ending conversation. This week's episode has me relating to the different aspects and opinions regarding money's role in dating and even a bit in sex. I end the episode discussing pet peeves in the bedroom.

Episode 34: Fuck Dem Kids

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2020 60:50


This week's episode is in regards to the tiniest of terrors: children. Not so much them directly as more so in regards to the experience of dating through the scope of those who have children from previous relationships and encounters.  My experience is limited since I don't have any of my own at present but that certainly doesn't stop me from at least attempting to address the topic from my viewpoint

Episode 33: Approaching Women

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2020 59:33


I was asked how I approach women. After taking a good chuckle, I said honestly I don't necessarily have a go to per se. I think that depending on the environment, your approach is going to be different per the situation. After all, Not every avenue of approach will work in every circumstance. In this week's episode we go over some of the general do's and don't's for a man approaching a woman romantically or even sexually

Episode 32: Estelle Angelique

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2020 66:47


This week, we have our first guest from the field of sex work: Miss Estelle Angelique! She is an escort who currently lives right here in Austin who has had many life experiences. Listen in as I interview her and we converse on a number of interesting topics as the conversation flows. Trust me you don't  want to miss this one! I am super excited to share this one with you all! Be sure to follow Miss Angelique aka Sweet Throat on social media as well as support her in her work Twitter: _EAngelique Instagram: sweetthroat69 OnlyFans: Onlyfans.com/SweetThroat Site and blog: estelleangeliquevip.com

Episode 31: Learning Foreign Languages (We as well as óui) & The Year of No

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2020 68:39


Welcome back to a new season of Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs! Did you miss me? If not, I'm still here anyways. I start off this season with how one may go about transitioning from a mindset of a single person to an individual sharing a relationship with someone. I also go into setting boundaries and the importance of telling these muthafuckas no! 

Episode 30: Hobosexuals and Other Phenomena I Learned as an Adult

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2019 57:50


As a child, you speak and think like a child. However, when you become an adult, they don't give you a manual or anything. You're just kinda thrust into the world as if you know everything in existence and that you will figure it all out. So many different forms of tomfooloery and jackassery we end up discovering on our own through the roughest teacher there is, experience.

Episode 29: National Geographic: Clubs, Parties, and Kickbacks

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2019 87:06


I hope you all had a great Turkey Day with family and/or friends!!!! I decided to have a fun episode this week. I have mostly retired from going out as fa as clubs go. I might attend a party or kickback under the right circumstances but I haven't in quite some time. So many interesting mannerisms, behaviors, and hilarity go on at parties and similar social events and I break it down in only the way that I can!

Episode 28: Lost Arts

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2019 62:32


Here  for you listening pleasure, we discuss some treasures in this world that are free to use, yet heavily underutilized. This week, we will examine aspects of life that are in my eyes "lost arts", or those keys to making life so much better that tend to be ignored or bypassed even though they hold high levels of importance for a better smoother life

Episode 27: Infidelity, Sexual Coercion, and Proper Condom Usage

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2019 72:09


There are more than a few topics in the world that fall under the umbrella of awkward conversations. As a an aspiring therapist, I am big on approaching the elephants in the room. After all, it's not like not discussing them make them disappear. They just sit in the corner waiting for someone to address them. They know someone will eventually have to. This week, we dive into a few of those.

Episode 26: Sex Myths

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2019 82:59


People love making up shit and spreading misinformation. Remember that episode of Moesha when Myles thought he got ol girl pregnant because they slow danced? As we all know, unless they was doin the slow horizontal mambo naked, she's 100% not pregnant! Things like that are the inspiration for this week's episode. This week, I go over a few myths and facts regarding sex

Episode 25: Body Image/Body Shaming

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2019 104:18


Body image is something I believe most of us struggle with at some point in life. How you feel about the body you have and the individual parts you were given to work with is not always pleasant and happy in a world that constantly has opinions about this, that, and all the others in regards to  what is or isn't "ok" or "normal" or attractive/sexy/beautiful/handsome/whatever. I give some time specifically for the weight end of body image as well as go over some of the different parts of the body women and men have to deal with as far as body shaming goes

Episode 24: STDs/STIs

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2019 87:18


It would not be responsible to have open and frank discussions about sexuality if we are not going to talk about the importance of safe sex. In this episode, we discuss the basic facts of STDs/STIs as well the stigma behind this topic and prevention methods. So much information is available yet underutilized and sometimes even used improperly.

Episode 23: Top 5 & How Important Is Sex?

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2019 69:47


Everybody has those things that ,above all others that may be on the list, are most important when out in these dating streets. That list is also malleable. It changes, shifts around, and evolves depending on your life circumstances, your culture, and you as an individual. This week, I go over some of the traits I believe would be on most peoples' lists as well as what my own personal answer to this would be.

Episode 22: Working Out The Kinks

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2019 73:30


In this episode, I explore one of my favorite discoveries since embarking on this journey to becoming a couples counselor and sex therapist: an actual created map of human sexuality! I run down as much of the poster as I can, discussing all the many fetishes and kinks on the map as well as define quite a few of them.

Episode 21: Toys R Us

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2019 56:45


Yes, you do want to grow up and be a different kind of Toys R Us adult (R.I.P. to the real Toys R Us. So many cherished memories!) ! The toys discussed in this episode are definitely not for kinds. Listen as I explore some of the many options we all have when it comes to bring toys into the bedroom or wherever it is you decide to engage in sexual pleasure, bet it solo or with others.

Episode 20: Dating No No's

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2019 83:31


In this episode, I discuss some of the different things I've personally learned along the way as well as some things others have experienced that have come to be things that ,if you plan on dating successfully, you probably should avoid doing.

Episode 19: Guilt, Shame, and Embarrassment

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2019 77:58


This week, we are in the realm of guilt, shame, embarrassment, and how these constructs/concepts relate to general life, relationships of all kinds, as well as sexuality.

Episode 18: Entitlement

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2019 85:37


This week's episode is all about entitlement. That arrogant brash prideful feeling many of us deal with at one point or another that we are due or owed something by virtue of existing or doing the bare minimum. I discuss it in general terms as well as some of the ways it manifests in dating and sex.

Episode 17: Myths, Logistics, and How the Fuck Does This Actually Work Anyway?

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2019 87:24


This week, it's all about sex! Yes, you read that right! In this episode I discuss sexuality in terms of how little talking directly and out loud we actually do especially if we are talking about sex education. As with all information, when the facts are not talked about often over the course of life due to embarrassment, shame, and guilt around the topic, it becomes easier to spread misinformation as well as myths. I discuss some of these myths as well as share from my own experiences what happens.

Episode 16: Honesty and Consistency

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2019 89:33


On this episode, I tackle two more topics I feel are things in our lives that we will all deal with until the day we die: honesty and consistency in regards to the connections we make. I talk about why I feel they are important, different types of lies, and the consequences being dishonest and/or inconsistent can have on your life. 

Episode 15: Men Policing Women

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2019 54:56


This episode focuses on the many ways and instances where men try to impose rules and regulations in regards to what a woman does and does not do with her body as well as discuss other related areas such as respectability politics. This episode was inspired by a segment done in another podcast that I listen to called Drunk Luv Confessions called Kevin Gates Is NOT a Gynecologist! Enjoy!

Bonus Clip: R.I.P Big Bro

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2019 14:53


This was something I decided to do in honor of my late big brother, may he rest in peace. Just a small rant and P.S.A advocating for black men to take care of their physical health as you should with all forms of your health.

Episode 14: Career Paths in Sexuality

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2019 59:38


This week, I discuss from my current knowledge base and point of view some of the occupations and jobs within the realms of or related to sexuality. I make this a baseline for myself as there are so many others I may have missed as well as a wealth of experiences that I personally have not had yet. I hope as the years progress, I learn and experience much more to be able to pass on to the masses!

Episode 13: Self Care

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2019 77:07


This week, I discuss self care. In the general sense and yes in the figurative sense as well. From telling muthafuckas no and meaning it to knowing and loving your own body to satisfaction nd for pleasure, I discuss my views on self care and why I believe it is such an important issue.

Episode 12: Communication

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2019 82:41


This week, I talk about as many facets of how we communicate as I can as well as how we as a people suck quite bad at it as a whole and some communication no-nos. No one is perfect at it even the best communicators in life have missteps and it's all about getting better at it each and every day!

Episode 11: Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2019 75:13


I been gone for a minute so I’m back with the jumpoff! Ok so maybe I’m not back with a jumpoff but I am back with a new episode and I figured if you going to come, I may as well come correct so this episode is about love. What it means to me and my experiences with it, romantic and otherwise.

Episode 10: Rotating Twitter Topics

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2019 46:37


When folks get bored in these Twitta streets, some topics end up on the timeline over and over again. There is no avoiding them. This week, I discuss some of the more known ones from past to present.

Episode 9: What you Want? Maybe I Got It! (What Women and Men Want)

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2019 43:41


This episode tries to tackle the question of what each sex wishes the opposite knew in regards to understanding them.

Episode 8: Flipping the Script & The World of O.P.P

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2019 56:05


This episode touches on topics among which are changing the dynamics of a relationship, should you in those particular situations, and finding out who’s down with O.P.P.

Episode 7: Vanilla Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2019 56:59


This week’s episode is about vanilla sex. What has changed in music and the times as far as what is “standard” in the bedroom as well as discussing some of the core acts such as foreplay, positions and toys.

Episode 6: Multi-Partner Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2019 51:09


This week I'm talking about having a hotation, threesomes, and more. Probably not in the way you would imagine

Episode 5: Deal Breakers

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2019 44:26


On this week's episode, I talk about dealbeakers of all kinds......that's about the best way I can sum it up! Enjoy!

Episode 4: Intimacy

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2019 40:29


This episode. I'll be discussing intimacy and things related to intimacy such as sex not necessarily equaling intimacy and vice versa as well as things I believe you can not avoid if you are trying to create an intimate space with someone.

Episode 3: Online Dating

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2019 37:40


This week's episode is around the topic of online dating! Listen as I talk about things such as: Different site expeiences Catfishing in all its forms Getting flewed out Being safe on these online streets

Episode 2: Toxic Masculinity

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2019 47:21


1st content episode! I try my best to tackle the monster topic that is toxic masculinity. I hope I did a decent job at trying to begin a true dialogue about this topic.

Episode 1

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2019 30:38


Just an introduction to me and the podcast itself. Getting use to talking solo and this podcasting thing. Be gentle!

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