Tossed Salads & Scrambled Eggs

Pretty self-explanatory. A re-hash of self-care and an added perspective. Gone till December at least so be well and take care of yourselves while I’m away.

I’ll keep it short and sweet. This week, I discuss the awesomeness that is WAP (aka Wet Ass Pussy) and the stealers of joy called the Fun Police who had all their think pieces about it. ENJOY! DROWN IN IT!!!!!!

In different ways and instances, people will come to you or to a group of people (friends, family, lovers) with some pure tomfoolery. Some foolishness they know they shouldn't be walking in with. In this week's episode, we talk about some of those different things such as threesomes, interracial dating, and ya grandpappy having fiddy-eleven families! Enjoy!

Should everyone have a fair opportunity at romantic happiness? Is there a such thing as being worthy of love? Is it too damn hot outside? Should your raggedy ass be wearing a mask if outside? These questions and more all answered, next time on Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs!

Yeah I wasn't really sure what I wanted to discuss this week so the first half is a mix of different things that were on my mind at the moment and the second half is about the joys of phone sex. Enjoy!

As much as people as a whole discuss sex and sexuality, we don't often discuss when people decide they do not want to have sex. If we do, it's usually more so in a shaming way. The truth is sometimes for one reason or another, sex just may not be of interest to you. In this episode, we talk about abstinence vs celibacy, some guidance if you are trying to avoid sex if you're only abstaining for a certain period of time, and sexual performance anxiety as the icing on the cake. Enjoy!

With all the new ways we have to communicate in this day and age that our parents and grandparents may not have access to, it's surprising how people more often use it to avoid direct communication altogether. This week we discuss the newly coined terms people use when it comes to dating that would make our parents' heads spin and the fine art of thirst trapping. Enjoy!!!!

This week, we over some more gender roles material, some new and some possibly a rehash, how Boosie is a raggedy (which is nothing new) and how it's OK to live and let live. Everything is not for everybody and it doesn't have to be. Hope yall are being safe out there and enjoy this episode!

Rona has folks (predominantly heterosexual men) acting UP so we go over some basic engagement rules for connecting with the opposite sex. Also, I have a new job after years at the same company and ironically enough, many of the positive life lessons I gained from that time also apply to romantic, sexual, as well as many other types of connections. 

So in all the craziness going on in the world, I somehow ended up watching Love is Blind, the Netflix series, and BOY do I have an opinion about this living train wreck. Listen as I sound off about these wild ass folk and just everything I felt was off about the whole shabang.

This week, we talk about the many nuances of bisexuality. When I say nuances, I am referring to the misinformation out there, the societal double standard, and the commotion in the news in regards to it. I also discuss how men are not the only population that hold up the power structures that keep men with more power as well as uphold areas of what people classify as toxic masculinity.

Just as often as sex comes up in the conversation of dating, money will also be a never ending conversation. This week's episode has me relating to the different aspects and opinions regarding money's role in dating and even a bit in sex. I end the episode discussing pet peeves in the bedroom.

This week's episode is in regards to the tiniest of terrors: children. Not so much them directly as more so in regards to the experience of dating through the scope of those who have children from previous relationships and encounters.  My experience is limited since I don't have any of my own at present but that certainly doesn't stop me from at least attempting to address the topic from my viewpoint

I was asked how I approach women. After taking a good chuckle, I said honestly I don't necessarily have a go to per se. I think that depending on the environment, your approach is going to be different per the situation. After all, Not every avenue of approach will work in every circumstance. In this week's episode we go over some of the general do's and don't's for a man approaching a woman romantically or even sexually

This week, we have our first guest from the field of sex work: Miss Estelle Angelique! She is an escort who currently lives right here in Austin who has had many life experiences. Listen in as I interview her and we converse on a number of interesting topics as the conversation flows. Trust me you don't  want to miss this one! I am super excited to share this one with you all! Be sure to follow Miss Angelique aka Sweet Throat on social media as well as support her in her work Twitter: _EAngelique Instagram: sweetthroat69 OnlyFans: Onlyfans.com/SweetThroat Site and blog: estelleangeliquevip.com

Welcome back to a new season of Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs! Did you miss me? If not, I'm still here anyways. I start off this season with how one may go about transitioning from a mindset of a single person to an individual sharing a relationship with someone. I also go into setting boundaries and the importance of telling these muthafuckas no! 

As a child, you speak and think like a child. However, when you become an adult, they don't give you a manual or anything. You're just kinda thrust into the world as if you know everything in existence and that you will figure it all out. So many different forms of tomfooloery and jackassery we end up discovering on our own through the roughest teacher there is, experience.

I hope you all had a great Turkey Day with family and/or friends!!!! I decided to have a fun episode this week. I have mostly retired from going out as fa as clubs go. I might attend a party or kickback under the right circumstances but I haven't in quite some time. So many interesting mannerisms, behaviors, and hilarity go on at parties and similar social events and I break it down in only the way that I can!

Here  for you listening pleasure, we discuss some treasures in this world that are free to use, yet heavily underutilized. This week, we will examine aspects of life that are in my eyes "lost arts", or those keys to making life so much better that tend to be ignored or bypassed even though they hold high levels of importance for a better smoother life

There are more than a few topics in the world that fall under the umbrella of awkward conversations. As a an aspiring therapist, I am big on approaching the elephants in the room. After all, it's not like not discussing them make them disappear. They just sit in the corner waiting for someone to address them. They know someone will eventually have to. This week, we dive into a few of those.

People love making up shit and spreading misinformation. Remember that episode of Moesha when Myles thought he got ol girl pregnant because they slow danced? As we all know, unless they was doin the slow horizontal mambo naked, she's 100% not pregnant! Things like that are the inspiration for this week's episode. This week, I go over a few myths and facts regarding sex

Body image is something I believe most of us struggle with at some point in life. How you feel about the body you have and the individual parts you were given to work with is not always pleasant and happy in a world that constantly has opinions about this, that, and all the others in regards to  what is or isn't "ok" or "normal" or attractive/sexy/beautiful/handsome/whatever. I give some time specifically for the weight end of body image as well as go over some of the different parts of the body women and men have to deal with as far as body shaming goes

It would not be responsible to have open and frank discussions about sexuality if we are not going to talk about the importance of safe sex. In this episode, we discuss the basic facts of STDs/STIs as well the stigma behind this topic and prevention methods. So much information is available yet underutilized and sometimes even used improperly.

Everybody has those things that ,above all others that may be on the list, are most important when out in these dating streets. That list is also malleable. It changes, shifts around, and evolves depending on your life circumstances, your culture, and you as an individual. This week, I go over some of the traits I believe would be on most peoples' lists as well as what my own personal answer to this would be.

In this episode, I explore one of my favorite discoveries since embarking on this journey to becoming a couples counselor and sex therapist: an actual created map of human sexuality! I run down as much of the poster as I can, discussing all the many fetishes and kinks on the map as well as define quite a few of them.

Yes, you do want to grow up and be a different kind of Toys R Us adult (R.I.P. to the real Toys R Us. So many cherished memories!) ! The toys discussed in this episode are definitely not for kinds. Listen as I explore some of the many options we all have when it comes to bring toys into the bedroom or wherever it is you decide to engage in sexual pleasure, bet it solo or with others.

In this episode, I discuss some of the different things I've personally learned along the way as well as some things others have experienced that have come to be things that ,if you plan on dating successfully, you probably should avoid doing.

This week, we are in the realm of guilt, shame, embarrassment, and how these constructs/concepts relate to general life, relationships of all kinds, as well as sexuality.

This week's episode is all about entitlement. That arrogant brash prideful feeling many of us deal with at one point or another that we are due or owed something by virtue of existing or doing the bare minimum. I discuss it in general terms as well as some of the ways it manifests in dating and sex.

This week, it's all about sex! Yes, you read that right! In this episode I discuss sexuality in terms of how little talking directly and out loud we actually do especially if we are talking about sex education. As with all information, when the facts are not talked about often over the course of life due to embarrassment, shame, and guilt around the topic, it becomes easier to spread misinformation as well as myths. I discuss some of these myths as well as share from my own experiences what happens.

On this episode, I tackle two more topics I feel are things in our lives that we will all deal with until the day we die: honesty and consistency in regards to the connections we make. I talk about why I feel they are important, different types of lies, and the consequences being dishonest and/or inconsistent can have on your life. 

This episode focuses on the many ways and instances where men try to impose rules and regulations in regards to what a woman does and does not do with her body as well as discuss other related areas such as respectability politics. This episode was inspired by a segment done in another podcast that I listen to called Drunk Luv Confessions called Kevin Gates Is NOT a Gynecologist! Enjoy!

This was something I decided to do in honor of my late big brother, may he rest in peace. Just a small rant and P.S.A advocating for black men to take care of their physical health as you should with all forms of your health.

This week, I discuss from my current knowledge base and point of view some of the occupations and jobs within the realms of or related to sexuality. I make this a baseline for myself as there are so many others I may have missed as well as a wealth of experiences that I personally have not had yet. I hope as the years progress, I learn and experience much more to be able to pass on to the masses!

This week, I discuss self care. In the general sense and yes in the figurative sense as well. From telling muthafuckas no and meaning it to knowing and loving your own body to satisfaction nd for pleasure, I discuss my views on self care and why I believe it is such an important issue.

This week, I talk about as many facets of how we communicate as I can as well as how we as a people suck quite bad at it as a whole and some communication no-nos. No one is perfect at it even the best communicators in life have missteps and it's all about getting better at it each and every day!

I been gone for a minute so I’m back with the jumpoff! Ok so maybe I’m not back with a jumpoff but I am back with a new episode and I figured if you going to come, I may as well come correct so this episode is about love. What it means to me and my experiences with it, romantic and otherwise.

When folks get bored in these Twitta streets, some topics end up on the timeline over and over again. There is no avoiding them. This week, I discuss some of the more known ones from past to present.

This episode tries to tackle the question of what each sex wishes the opposite knew in regards to understanding them.

This episode touches on topics among which are changing the dynamics of a relationship, should you in those particular situations, and finding out who’s down with O.P.P.

This week’s episode is about vanilla sex. What has changed in music and the times as far as what is “standard” in the bedroom as well as discussing some of the core acts such as foreplay, positions and toys.

This week I'm talking about having a hotation, threesomes, and more. Probably not in the way you would imagine

On this week's episode, I talk about dealbeakers of all kinds......that's about the best way I can sum it up! Enjoy!

This episode. I'll be discussing intimacy and things related to intimacy such as sex not necessarily equaling intimacy and vice versa as well as things I believe you can not avoid if you are trying to create an intimate space with someone.

This week's episode is around the topic of online dating! Listen as I talk about things such as: Different site expeiences Catfishing in all its forms Getting flewed out Being safe on these online streets

1st content episode! I try my best to tackle the monster topic that is toxic masculinity. I hope I did a decent job at trying to begin a true dialogue about this topic.

Just an introduction to me and the podcast itself. Getting use to talking solo and this podcasting thing. Be gentle!