The joys and curses of finding intimacy (or lack thereof) in a world blinded by social media interactions, gratifications, desires, and attention.
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World . That question that is somewhere, whether it be the back or front of our minds, that we’ve all at some time or another asked ourselves… "Am I Good Enough"? I definitely ask myself this. Especially when I am left to my own devices. . Question Time: 1. Do guys actually know what they want? 2. ARE women valuable to men anymore (besides the fact that we bare the children)? Do you hold us in such esteem as you once did? 3. How are you dealing with your confidence? How are you equaling out to being good enough? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answer! . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World . Description: These motivational post can sometimes motivate people in the wrong direction... AWAY from what they really want! . Question Time: Do you find those post-it note motivations motivating? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answer!) . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World . You search and search and think about someone for years, but then when you reconnect out of the blue, years later, he still does the same things, only now, YOU'RE older, mature and since you know yourself, you ain' t 'bout that bull anymore. Deuces! . Question Time: Do men really get wiser and mature as they get older? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answer!) . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World . There are AT LEAST 7 lesson that one can learn from being single. Some things in life are invaluable and these lessons for me, certainly are. Some were painful as HECK!!!!! But I'm making it though. One ouch as a time LMBO. I wonder if what I’ve learned, others have learned as well? . Question Time: 1.To the single fellas… do y’all go to the movies alone? 2. What have you learned during your time of being single? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answer!) . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . Wanting me is a JOY in and of itself. Having me... the ULTIMATE prize! I'm not an easy chick, but I'm not a runner either. Unless I just really don't like you. I'm willing to give you a chance, but how does that good ol' saying go... "if you're gonna come, come correct!" And here's a another... "go hard, or go home." And a third... "work hard, play harder." And a last... "ANYTHING WORTH HAVING, IS WORTH FIGHT FOR." Also, there ARE ways that he can make little ol' ME feel like a lady! . Question Time: What's the craziest thing you've done to get someone's attention? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!) . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . It's all about the right place at the right time. Being in that specific position at the exact moment in time, or in my case, being online at the right moment in time. Nothing happens by chance, so I had to look at some numbers. Reflect on my choices. Think about if I wanted to think about thinking about moving to a place where my chances of my him finding me... would find me. . Question Time: How far would you move if it would increase your chances by 50% to find your forever? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!) . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . I really never stoped to ask myself this question... in relation to the subject and center of this podcast. It's crazy. I feel like... "well um Brandy... this should have prolly been your first episode, sweetie." But lo and behold, it's number 7. Lucky number 7!!! Maybe the man that encompasses all of these things will listen and be like... "I'm your him giiiiiiiiirl!"... Right. But, you never know. But I had a few people come to me, inbox me, text me, just reach out to me and ask... "Why are you single?" I was like... perhaps I should explain for everyone. Again, it is what this podcast is all about. The single life. No? So... here are the reasons why I'm single. For the most part... LMBO!!!!! . Question Time: 1. If YOU are single... why are you single? 2. Do you believe you will find, or be found by, the exact picture you've painted for a mate/partner? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!) . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . Shots have been fired, y'all!!! And I can sincerely admit, I could have done a better job. I could have used a better gun with strong bullets. However, it was ya girl's first time firing this weapon. And, yep, I'm glad I did it. I said I would and I keeps my word! Can I just say... I am proud of myself! Now... will I ever do it again? That's the question. . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant . Question Time: Most romantic thing your boyfriend or girl friend has ever done for you? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!)
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . When reality hits that you reeeeeally can't talk crap about a community that you, yourself, are the VP of. Check these numbers out!!! Being single has is highs and lows, but it doesn't define you as a person. Perhaps your boo thang is dropping bread crumbs RIGHT NOW, you just haven't gotten yourself to the right spot to start following them yet. Perhaps, God's still working on you. "And the number ain't lying' this time!!!" . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant . Question Time: Most romantic thing your boyfriend or girl friend has ever done for you? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!)
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . Leave the house. Everything is just where you placed it. You are smiling. Happy. Nobody is there to bother you. Get back home. Everything is just where you left it. You're in tears. Frustrated. Nobody is there to comfort you. . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant . Question Time: What are some of the negatives of being single? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!)
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . For me, being single and not wanting to be forever, it is very valuable to know the thoughts of men. Whether he be my man, someone else's or no one else's, his mind, his way of thinking, the way he moves through the world, is valuable. I asked a few men on facebook to give me relationship advice. Here are, in my opinion, the best advice received. Follow me on facebook (https://www.facebook.com/thebrandygrant) to contribute your answers to future QUESTION TIME postings!!! . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant . Question Time: 1. Fellas- what advice would you give a woman about men? 2. Ladies- What advice have you gotten from a man that you felt was GOLDEN! (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!)
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . As promised... The Worse Relationship I Have Ever! Been In. I give you some backstory and then the testimony Blessings to you all. Ca't want to here your comments. . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant . Question Time: What's the bet method for surviving being single in a social media world? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!)
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . Some of us appreciate everything that comes from having access to the entire world. Its's great for commerce, personal growth, motivations, workout ideas, etc. But what about the access we have to each other? TO our friends, out family, our colleagues... our exes... their currents. We have complete access to everything. Darn you google. Thank you google! It's a blessing AND a curse. We just have to make it what we want it to be! . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant . Question Time: Why do you not block our exes? If things didn’t end well… why, in some form or fashion, i.e. social media, do you keep them around by allowing them to still be a part of your life, your world? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!)
Raw News No Fluff presents: Being Single in a Social Media World. . The struggle is real and being a GOOD in this race is not always... rewarding. As a self-proclaimed... and male-proclaimed... good girl, it can get me some trouble. Do we hinder ourselves? Can we switch over to the bad side? Do we even want to? What's the difference and who wins in the end? DO the good finish last? . Welcome to the first episode of Being Single in a Social Media World with your host: Brandy Grant! . Instagram: @BrandyLGrant . Question Time: 1. What is finishing last? 2. What makes a person a good guy/nice girl? 3. How to identify a bad person and does it even change anything? 4. Who really loses in the end? (Go to Raw News No Fluff on youtube to submit your answers!)