Many are ashamed of their identity as a sexual being. We will help you identify and overcome your sexual hurts and hang-ups because you deserve to feel sexy and empowered. Ex-pastor turned amateur adult filmmaker Karl Idlewylde talks about sexual hurts, hang-ups, and health. Every week Karl and his partner Rene Ocean will talk to real people about what it’s like to embrace a collaborative and realistic approach to sex and sexuality. As a child and as a pastor Karl felt ashamed of his sex and sex drive and always said, “if I wasn’t a Christian I’d do adult films.” During the COVID-19 quarantine he and his girlfriend, Rene Ocean, decided to pursue that dream, but they want to be more than just two people on screen having sex. Too much of what we see on screen is staged, acted, and lacks the intimacy and foibles that occur in bedrooms all across America. You’re invited to climb under the covers, and behind the camera, with Karl and Rene give you an intimate look inside a sex life defined byenthusiastic consent.
Oh yes, you read that right, this week we talk about the dreaded limp noodle, and what to do about it. **Spoiler alert** It happens to everyone! This week we sit down and talk to Cam Fraser, Cam is just *#@% amazing!!! We cover so much from flaccidity to fun new ways to talk about orgasms to how men can experience full body pleasure. Fear not, this is not just for those with penises. The reality is, fear of the flaccid impacts men and women alike, men feel horrible when they can't get hard and women feel like they're the reason that men can't get hard, it's just a vicious cycle, so let's break it.Check out Cam's website an new program, "Outperform A Po*n Star* https://www.cam-fraser.com/As always you can reach out to us on IG @enthusiastic_consent_podcast (just search it) or email us at podcast@enthusiasticconsent.net
Joining us this week is Carly Zien. Carly is a Los Angeles based actress and intimacy coordinator. Have you ever wondered what happens before an intimate scene is shot on a movie? Are the actors wearing clothes? How do you navigate around male "vascular reactions?" Do the actors know what they're going to do before the scene is shot? (spoiler alert, before #metoo a lot of times women were not told about what they were going to be doing for the sake of "authenticity.")Check out Carly's website: https://www.carlyzien.com/For more on intimacy coordinating: https://www.idcprofessionals.com/Find her on IG: @carlyzienFollow us on IG @enthusiastic_consent_podcastSign up to be a guest on the show: https://www.enthusiasticconsent.net/
Prepare yourself for an incredible journey! This week Karl and Rene talk to Andrew. They talk about lost virginity, hot tub jets, and what it's like to pursue relationships outside the norm!Send us your questions! podcast@enthusiasticconsent.net or DM us on Instagram.To find the condom that's right for you visit: https://www.myonecondoms.com/You can follow us on instagram @enthusiastic_consent_podcastTo be in a video or to tell your story visit https://www.enthusiasticconsent.net/Interested in being in a men's group or women's group? Email us podcast@enthusiasticconsent.net and tell us what you'd like.
This week Karl and Rene talk to Rose. Rose's family didn't really talk too much about sex but she did find some fascinating videos her father liked to watch! Although Rose has overcome a lot of shame, she's still working on figuring out what she enjoys. If you feel alone because you're not sure what you like Rose's story will definitely uplift you.Karl and Rene open the show talking about some tips for condom use. While condoms aren't always the most pleasurable contraception to use there are many ways to make the experience more stimulating, size does matter! Listen to find out how.To find the condom that's right for you visit: https://www.myonecondoms.com/You can follow us on instagram @enthusiastic_consent_podcastTo be in a video or to tell your story visit https://www.enthusiasticconsent.net/Interested in being in a men's group or women's group? Email us podcast@enthusiasticconsent.net and tell us what you'd like.
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