Podcast appearances and mentions of cam fraser

In this powerful and honest episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa Hadley Barrett speaks with Dave and his partner Jen about their journey dealing with premature ejaculation (PE) — a common but often misunderstood sexual health condition affecting many men and couples.  Dave opens up about his experience living with PE since adolescence, the impact it had on his confidence and relationship, and how alcohol became a coping mechanism. With courage and persistence, Dave eventually found the right healthcare support, the right SSRI medication, and a path forward that improved both his sexual function and emotional connection with his partner.  Together, Melissa, Dave and Jen dive deep into the emotional, psychological, and physical sides of premature ejaculation — offering valuable insights for men, couples, and practitioners alike.  In This Episode, We Cover:  What premature ejaculation really is – and what it isn't  The difference between primary and secondary PE  Why many men are misinformed or dismissed by health professionals  The impact of PE on relationships, communication, and self-esteem  Dave's journey through trial-and-error with various SSRIs: Priligy (Dapoxetine), Paroxetine, Fluoxetine and Escitalopram (Lexapro)  The hidden cost of online treatment platforms – and why cheaper, more ethical options exist  How the right treatment changed everything – from sex drive to emotional closeness  Jen's reflections as a partner and the importance of support, understanding and touch  How couples can reconnect through small changes, time together, and deeper conversations  Melissa's recommendation: Sanctuary of Ananda for Tantra-based relationship connection workshops  Key Takeaways:    Premature ejaculation is more common than you think – and it's treatable  Not all SSRIs are the same. Personalised treatment matters.  The emotional and relational impacts of PE are real – and deserve attention  There's no shame in asking for help. Support is available, affordable, and effective.  Sexual health is about more than performance – it's about connection, confidence, and communication  Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett:  “If PE is affecting your confidence, relationship or sex life – there is help. You don't need to suffer in silence. With the right support, treatment can be simple, effective, and affordable.”  Resources & Links:  Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic  Learn more about Sanctuary of Ananda – Tantra and connection workshops for couples  Listen to Cam Fraser's podcast on modern masculinity and sexual wellness  For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au   Listen & Subscribe  If you found this episode helpful, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.  Connect With Us  Have questions or want to share your story?  Email: admin@melissahadleybarrett.com  Website: www.rshealth.com.au  Websites:  https://rshealth.com.au/  All genders  https://makehardeasy.com.au   https://melissahadleybarrett.com   http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/  http://prost.com.au/     Facebook:  https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814    Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/  https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/  TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett  YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett  Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/   TEDX  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA 

Red Rock Relationships - Season 9 EP 003 - 11-1-24 - Introspection - Cam Fraser

In this episode of "Concerts That Made Us," Brian sits down with Cam Fraser from Boulder Fields to delve into the intricacies of his debut album, "With All the Other Ghosts." Cam opens up about his artistic journey, detailing his transition from the high-energy world of punk bands to the more introspective realm of acoustic music, a shift that was catalyzed by the global lockdown. He provides an in-depth look at the creative process behind his album, sharing how the isolation period allowed him to explore new musical landscapes and refine his sound.Cam also highlights the invaluable contributions of his collaborators, including Aly Barr, whose harmonies add a haunting beauty to the tracks, Suzy Cargill, whose instrumental prowess brings a rich texture to the music, and Jamie Watson, whose production skills helped shape the final sound of the album. Each collaboration is a testament to the synergy and shared vision that brought "With All the Other Ghosts" to life.Throughout the interview, Cam reflects on the emotional depth of his songs, which are deeply inspired by his personal experiences and the complexities of life. He speaks candidly about the themes of love, loss, and introspection that permeate his music, offering listeners a glimpse into the raw and vulnerable aspects of his songwriting.The conversation also revisits Cam's past in the music industry, where he shares anecdotes from memorable concerts including touring the UK with Nirvana and pivotal moments that have shaped his career. He recounts the highs and lows of his musical journey, providing a comprehensive view of his evolution as an artist.Looking ahead, Cam discusses his future plans with enthusiasm, hinting at upcoming live performances that promise to bring his acoustic sound to a wider audience. He also teases potential new releases, indicating that his creative well is far from dry.This episode of "Concerts That Made Us" not only showcases Cam Fraser's passion and dedication to his craft but also offers an intimate portrait of an artist who continues to evolve and inspire through his music.Find Boulder Fields here: https://boulderfields.bandcamp.com/Find CTMU hereLinktreeNewsletter: https://concertsthatmadeus.aweb.page/p/f065707b-2e34-4268-8e73-94f12bd2e938Save 10% on Band Builder Academy membership by following this link https://bandbuilderacademy.com/Brian_Concerts/join and using promo code "concerts" at signup Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/concerts-that-made-us. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wanted to shorten your refractory period?Men's sex coach Cam Fraser teaches us how. Plus, we learn how to have an orgasm without ejaculating (yes ghost loads are  possible!!!)

From the solo episode #69 with Cam Fraser. More from that episode: - The stigmatization of male sex toys - Celebrating men's self-pleasuring - Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Couples Vibrator - We-Vibe X Lovehoney Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator - Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Warming Pulsating Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Real Feel Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Blow Job Real Feel Vibrating Suction Male Masturbator - Desire Luxury Male Vibator - Desire Luxury Vibrating Prostate Massager - Kinky Confessions Card Game

Edinburgh-based folk-rock troubadour Boulder Fields presents 'Horse In a Sling', a wise tale about life's troubles and resistance to surrender. Lifted from his debut album ‘With All The Other Ghosts', newly released via Scottish indie imprint Let There Be Numbers, this is a testament to the notion that life's greatest affirmations can emanate from the most humble songsmiths. Boulder Fields revolves around Scottish singer-songwriter Cam Fraser, formerly of Borrowed Books and 80s punk legends The Cateran, who came to reach a wider audience by touring with Nirvana on the 1989 UK tour that led to the American grunge legends' big break. Between his two bands, Cam Fraser has toured or performed with The Proclaimers, Tad and Grant Hart (Husker Du), Decades spent weaving folk, Americana and indie rock into the fabric of his music have cemented him as a voice of the people. This engaging, stirring tapestry found on this album is largely acoustics, these 11 thoughtful tracks featuring endearing minimalistic arrangements. Yet the fierce intensity of his performance recalls Fraser's punk history. #Music #Interviews #Nirvana #PostPunk #Folk #AltRock

Main Topics: Consent, Sex, Intimacy, Communication, relationships, Boundaries, Sex Ed For kids, Gender Roles  Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Being a former Tantric Yoga Teacher, his work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. Key topics include:  ⭐️ The Importance of Sex Education, Teaching Consent And Boundaries In School ⭐️ Recognizing "No": Understanding The Verbal & Nonverbal Cues ⭐️ The Fears And Insecurities We Have Around Saying “No” to Sex ⭐️ How To Gracefully Give And Receive A “No” ⭐️ How To Say No And Stay Connected To Your Partner ⭐️ Bringing The Social Ideas of Feminism Into Sex  ⭐️ Why Men Say “Yes” to Sex When They Want To Say “No” ⭐️ Thinking Beyond The No And Celebrating All Varieties of Pleasure ⭐️ Different Ways To Bond And Connect With Our Partner Beyond The Bedroom ⭐️ How We Can Help Meet The Need For Intensity Without Having Sex  ⭐️ What We Can Do When Our Partner Says “No” Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe  Avoidant Man's Programme Waitlist: https://forms.gle/DLfjJpiyTukddjUM9    Connect With Cam Fraser: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/ Website: https://www.cam-fraser.com/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/77KwvB1o9g0QuRmul2359O?si=4T2utHvHSXuzeuOBy31cpw&nd=1

Tired of everyone assuming that ALL you want is sex?   This week, tune in for world-renowned sexologist Cam Fraser joins the show to share the myths that are destroying your sex life and what you can do to change it all.    Cam and Kirsten discuss the role of testosterone on your sex drive, testosterone replacement therapy, adjusting how you view sexual experiences, arousal versus consent, what to do when you aren't in the mood for sex and so much more!  Key Topics: 00:10 Decoding Masculinity and Sexuality 00:46 Busting Myths Around Male Sexuality 03:29 The Complex Relationship Between Testosterone and Libido 16:16 Understanding Arousal and Consent 25:13 Addressing Male Sexual Dysfunction Beyond Medication 31:12 Unpacking the Complexities of Male Sexual Health 32:28 Navigating Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation 34:04 The Psychological Underpinnings of Sexual Performance 40:24 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Performance 45:01 Practical Advice for Enhancing Sexual Experiences Resources: Not Always in the Mood by Sarah Murray   Connect with Cam Fraser https://cam-fraser.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/?hl=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   Ready to explore your desires? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/bdsm-checklist and get your FREE Kink/BDSM checklist.   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Try Foria Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner's arousal and pleasure.    

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I discuss and debunk some of the major claims made by semen retention practitioners. I also share some opinions about semen retention as well as my own personal experiences and the approach I take with clients. Key Points: - Testosterone - Depression - Zinc - Nutrition - The body - Premature aging Relevant links: Cam's blog: https://cam-fraser.com/blog/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message

If you tear, break or snap your penile frenulum (aka the banjo string) it can be a big painful bloody mess, so here's everything you need to know with triple j's Dave Woodhead and sex coach Cam Fraser. (And yes we will be chatting about blood and pain and breaking your penis in this ep so if you get queasy you've been warned).

If you tear, break or snap your penile frenulum (aka the banjo string) it can be a big painful bloody mess, so here's everything you need to know with triple j's Dave Woodhead and sex coach Cam Fraser. (And yes we will be chatting about blood and pain and breaking your penis in this ep so if you get queasy you've been warned).

From episode #52, a solo episode with just Cam. More from that episode: Introduction to and intentions for the conversation I understand the harm some porn has caused Anti-Porn vs Pro-Porn vs Anti-Anti-Porn What is porn? The problem with definitions The problem with the “porn is a drug” analogy Thought experiment: Where do you draw the line Operation Spanner and private sex groups Mainstream vs Ethical (Feminist) porn Messages, escalation, addiction, exploitation --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message

Are anal play and pegging are safe (and okay to enjoy)? This week on Get Naked with Dr. Kate, Australia's leading men's sex coach Cam Fraser joins the podcast to discuss all things anal play, and to help shed some of the stigma surrounding it within male spaces. Together, they unpack: • Myths around male sexuality and masculinity • Why some men may fear anal play, and why they may be curious about it • How prostate orgasms can be achieved (and what sets them apart) • Tips for getting started with pegging and anal play in solo/partnered sex And so much more. We hope that this episode can help to dispel myths around anal play, masculinity, and what it means about one's sexuality, so that individuals can feel free to explore what feels safe and pleasurable for them. Cam Fraser is a Professional Sex Coach, certified with the World Association of Sex Coaches, as well as a Sexologist, and the current Deputy Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists. His work aims to help men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. You can learn more about Cam by visiting his website. A very special thank you to this episode's sponsor, FACTOR MEALS! Head to FACTORMEALS.com/getnaked50 and use code "getnaked50" to get 50% off. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I share an audio recording of one of my sexuality seminars. The title of this sexuality seminar is, "Presence and Masculine Sexuality. If you're interested in learning more, head to my website and check out what else I have on offer. Key points: - Who am I? - What do I mean by "presence"? - Practical tools for being more present - What does "masculine sexuality" mean? - Practical tools for embodying your masculinity - An invitation to explore more Relevant links: Cam's website: www.cam-fraser.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message

One of the most popular tropes that you're bound to encounter in writings about human sexuality is that men are simple, while women are complex. There's a pervasive belief out there that sex is just easy for men in general because they're always in the mood and sex is mostly a physical (not emotional) thing for them. The reality of male sexuality, however, is far more complicated, and we're not doing anyone any favors by oversimplifying it. So in today's show, we're going to dive into common myths about male sexuality. I am joined once again by Cam Fraser, who is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. Some of the topics we explore include: Why is the idea of male sexuality as "simple" a myth? How do beauty standards affect men, and what are the implications of this for sex, dating, and relationships? What do men who are anxious about their penis size need to know? Are men always supposed to be turned on and ready for sex? To what degree is sex emotional vs. physical for men? You can visit Cam's website to learn more about his work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you'll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

A lot of men feel insecure about their bodies and sexual performance despite the fact that they fall clearly within the normal range. It's easy for them to feel like there's something wrong when they've never really been taught what "normal" even means. In today's show, we're going to discuss common things people get wrong about men's bodies and how penises function, as well as things that men and their partners should know when it comes to sexual pleasure. I am joined by Cam Fraser, who is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. Some of the topics we explore include: Is an erection always a sign of sexual arousal and interest? Are orgasm and ejaculation one and the same, or are they different things? Can men experience multiple orgasms? What do men need to know about sex toys and prostate stimulation? What does it really mean to have premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction? You can visit Cam's website to learn more about his work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology *** Thank you to our sponsors!  The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. It's a new year, and I'm excited to announce a new edition of my textbook, The Psychology of Human Sexuality! This is the third edition of the book, and it's the biggest and best version yet. The Psychology of Human Sexuality is a comprehensive guide to the major theories and perspectives on sexuality and the vast diversity in sexual attitudes and behaviors that exist around the world. You can check it out here. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men?In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'll hear how we both got to be where we are today.You'll also learn about his new sex coach certification training (with tons of great guest instructors) for people who want to become professional sex coaches that specifically work with men.I've looked through the syllabus, and it looks pretty awesome. I'm going to actually take one part of the training too: the SAR (described in the episode).If you're interested, check out the links below:

Dr. Liz hangs out with Cam Fraser, Australia's Leading Men's Sex Coach, to chat all about performance anxiety in the bedroom. Dr. Liz and Cam explore the multitude of reasons that individuals experience performance anxiety when it comes to sex, as well as how this impedes upon the enjoyment of intimacy. They also discuss ways to work through this type of anxiety in order to shift the focus to pleasure over performance. You won't want to miss this very relatable episode all about the very common sexual insecurities that so many of us face… And practical tools to help overcome this!   Connect with Dr. Liz: https://linktr.ee/drelizabethfedrick Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drelizabethfedrick TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drelizabethfedrick YouTube: @drelizabethfedrick Website: https://www.drelizabethfedrick.com/ drelizabethfedrick #purityculture #relatable Disclaimer: Nothing found on Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick's social media pages, YouTube channels, Podcasts, interviews with any media outlet, or any websites, is intended to substitute for any type of professional diagnosis or treatment, medical care, therapeutic service, or clinical guidance. Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, Relatable, and Evolve Counseling & Behavioral Health Services assumes no liability, responsibility, or risk for any use of this information, any diagnosis, treatment, decisions made, or action taken in reliance upon information contained in social media pages, YouTube, Podcast, website, or any other internet sites linked to Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, Relatable, and Evolve Counseling in any way.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Cam Fraser back to chat about the over-pathologisation and over-medicalisation of men's sexuality and sexual health, how this came about, who it actually benefits, and how it impacts men (and indeed all of us) in the bedroom!We delve into a wide range of topics surrounding male sexuality, from the impact of over-using medication or interventions like Viagra to the cultural attitudes and stigmas that surround issues like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.Throughout the episode, Cam challenges the notion that medication should be the first solution for sexual challenges and questions the influence of pharmaceutical companies in shaping our understanding of male sexual health. We explore the psychological factors that can play a significant role in sexual function and talk about the concerning overdiagnosis and inflated prevalence rates of erectile challenges. Aaaaand we talk about the fear of soft cocks that's so widespread!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Follow Cam's work here: https://cam-fraser.com/Join the Facey group to get the link to the video Cam talked about at the end there for further info!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Cam joins us from Australia . Connect with Cam : https://cam-fraser.com/about/ 0:00 intro 0:15 Your Journey 1:00 mental health issues 1:30 sexuality issues 2:45 crying in pilates class 2:55 uprising emotions 3:10 Narrative therapy 3:45 I stopped caring what my friend thought 4:25 what turns you on 5:50 sexual performance 6:24 Change maker 6:47 what is semen retention 7:02 intentional decision 7:47 take a break from ejaculation 8:44 the goal of masterbation 9:47 what else can I experience 10:34 Do they feel a difference 11:36 sperm optimisation 11:40 3-8 days 12:17 testosterone peaked 13:00 treat it as an experiment 14:42 when is it over 15:15 Did he enjoy himself 15:40 stories of self worth and self esteem 17:00 experimentation 17:46 semen retention 17:55 A couples practice 18:34 internal shift 19:05 communicate 19:47 Pandoras box 19:56 spontaneous and creative 20:12 flacid penis 20:37 subjective Arousal 21:05 Arousal non concordance 21:32 anxious and tense 21:45 mental anxiety and stress 22:05 tongue and fingers 22:27 more in his body 23:10 you need to be relaxed 23:19 parasympathetic nervous system 23:38 fight or flight response 24:09 What is a prostate orgasm 25:05 Pelvic nerve 25:22 Prostate ejaculation 27:40 ejaculate and not orgasm 28:23 peak state of pleasure 28:40 self pleasure practice 29:15 slow down brother 29:45 bypass buildup sensation 30:22 Lived experience 31:08 relying too much on a toy 31:52 nerve damage 3342 vibrators 33:35 a habitual way 35:08 a pathway of pleasure 35:32 Suction toys 37:36 why do you need toys 38:36 what is a suction toy 40:30 raving reviews 41:02 favourite book 42:27 offering advice 43:40 mask off 44:32 the cube exercise 44:57 kokology 45:38 Be curious 49:55 Community 50:17 It can feel lonely 51:20 Betty Martins 53:30 it's not easy

In this episode, men's sex coach Cam Fraser shares how to move away from goal- and performance-oriented sex and masturbation, and towards exploratory sexual experiences. You'll learn how to overcome shame around self-pleasure, ways of releasing toxic masculinity narratives and find freedom in your sex life, the difference between self-pleasure and masturbation, and 5 masturbation techniques you probably haven't tried before!  About Cam Fraser Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Being a former Tantric Yoga Teacher, his work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. Website: https://cam-fraser.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/?hl=en Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/thecamfraser/ Offer: Sign up for Cam's Mailing list to receive a free copy of his Ebook, The New Male Sexuality. About Me  I'm George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.  Yet, my gay dating life since hasn't always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can't Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠https://georgelizos.com/ Connect With Me  Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠   Website: ⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠   TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠   Facebook Group: ⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠  My Books Be The Guru: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠   Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠   Protect Your Light: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠ 

When it comes to masculinity, we've all heard the surface-level locker room talk centered around gratification and penis size. After experiencing this himself in his early 20s, Cam Fraser knew that there needed to be deeper conversations around male sexuality. Now as a professional sex coach and certified sexologist, Cam helps men go beyond surface-level sex into full-bodied sexual experiences. If you're curious about the deeper side of men's sexuality, this episode will open your eyes to the discussions we need to be having and how it's not as straightforward as we've been led to believe. We explore the lack of education around non-concordance, the importance of ethical porn, and how to shift into pleasure-oriented masculinity.  Both men and women can benefit from this week's episode so make sure to listen in! In this week's episode, we discuss: [01:40] About Cam Fraser [02:32] How Cam's college experience impacted his decision to become a sex coach and sexologist [19:39] Performance-oriented vs. pleasure-oriented masculinity  [26:02] How to communicate your emotions by connecting with your body [29:19] Where does the obsession with penis size come from? [41:10] The importance of representation in porn [45:00] Sexual dysfunction and anxiety [49:02] Exploring men's sexuality on a deeper level [57:39] Cam's favorite date   Connect with Cam Fraser: Website   Instagram   Outperform A Porn Star   Man Myths: Understanding Male Sexuality

La sexualité masculine comprend l'ensemble des aspects physiologiques, psychologiques et comportementaux de la sexualité des hommes. Que vivent les hommes rééllement dans leur sexualité ? Quels sont leurs questionnements ? Leurs attentes ?Avec mon invité Jordy du compte instagram Misterose, nous allons vous partager nos différentes expériences, pour ma part : les retours que j'ai en cabinet de sexologie pour Jordy les témoignages qu'ils reçoient de ces hommes dans ces DM. Jordy est Ancien animateur et journaliste radio. Aujourd'hui il est créateur de contenus sexo.Dans cet épisode, vous allez nous entendre parler :Des 4 questions et croyances qui revient le plus souvent Est-ce que c'est grave de se masturber tous les jours (suis je un obsédé) ?Mon partenaire (couple gay) veut essayer l'anal sur moi, mais je ne suis pas prêt, que faire ?J'aime être pénétré (hétéro), mais je n'ose pas en parler à ma partenaire, car j'ai peur qu'elle se moque de moi ou me jugeMa partenaire a moins de désir que moi. Est-ce normal ? Que faire pour lui donner plus envie ?---------------------La dimension du plaisir dans la masturbationOuvrir son couple, une option ?Les “bonnes” raisons de se mettre en couple librePour retrouver mon invité :https://www.misterose.frhttps://www.instagram.com/mister.oseLe Sexe dans la vraie vie: Le guide sexo non censuré pour se défaire de ses idées reçues en matière de cul Ressources pour aller plus loin :# 9 Understanding Men's sexuality avec Cam Fraser 17/10/22L'Homme pénétré: Repenser notre intimité de Martin Py Mon compte instagram : @camilleparlesexe -/- mon site internet : www.camillebataillon.com-------------------------

In this episode we talk to Australia's Leading Men's Sex Coach, Cam Fraser. We discuss Purity Culture, Sex Eduction & Stepping away from Toxic Masculinity.https://cam-fraser.com/Australia's leading Men's Sex Coach, current Deputy Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists, and one of Lovehoney's resident Sexperts, Cam is a Sex Coach, Relationship Counsellor, Sexologist and Tantric Yoga Teacher.Cam hosts a weekly men's health podcast called Men, Sex & Pleasure and has a contributed to numerous print and digital publications as an expert on sexuality and masculinity.https://cam-fraser.com/podcast/To get in contact reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com

Sex coach Cam Fraser returns for part two of our conversation about men and sex. We cover erections, ejaculation, and how men can experience multiple orgasms. Find out Cam's communication tip for women partnered with men, and why men need more permission to explore their bodies for pleasure and fulfilling intimacy.Learn more about Cam's workVisit our episode sponsor UBERLUBE and use CINDY for 15% offJOIN my Newsletter Community.FOLLOW on Instagram.VISIT my Website.CALL or TEXT to submit a question: 1-714- 455-9149

Cam Fraser, a therapist and licensed sex coach says the script men learn: “Get it up. Get it in. Get it off.” is ruining sex lives. He shares his story and the ways he learned to reframe his own approach to pleasure. We discuss the sex ed men and their partners need to get out of the box that says sex has to look a certain way and to move toward more fulfilling intimacy.  Learn more about Cam's workVisit our episode sponsor UBERLUBE and use CINDY for 15% offLearn more about these topics:Guide to LubeDesire StylesBoys & Sex Book ReviewErectile Dissatisfaction vs Erectile DysfunctionJOIN my Newsletter Community.FOLLOW on Instagram.VISIT my Website.CALL or TEXT to submit a question: 1-714- 455-9149

Did you know you can actually cum from a flaccid penis?!There's SO much emphasis on hard and erect cocks (hello porn) that not a lot of people play with and embrace a dick when it's soft. It's something a lot of you told us you feel awkward about.So here's how to feel more comfortable around them, some practical tips for solo and partnered sex, and how to orgasm without an erection. 

Did you know you can actually cum from a flaccid penis?!There's SO much emphasis on hard and erect cocks (hello porn) that not a lot of people play with and embrace a dick when it's soft. It's something a lot of you told us you feel awkward about.So here's how to feel more comfortable around them, some practical tips for solo and partnered sex, and how to orgasm without an erection. 

Did you know you can actually cum from a flaccid penis?! There's SO much emphasis on hard and erect cocks (hello porn) that not a lot of people play with and embrace a dick when it's soft. It's something a lot of you told us you feel awkward about. So here's how to feel more comfortable around them, some practical tips for solo and partnered sex, and how to orgasm without an erection. 

Did you know you can actually cum from a flaccid penis?! There's SO much emphasis on hard and erect cocks (hello porn) that not a lot of people play with and embrace a dick when it's soft. It's something a lot of you told us you feel awkward about. So here's how to feel more comfortable around them, some practical tips for solo and partnered sex, and how to orgasm without an erection. 

Join Gen Xer CeeCee and Millennial Emmy D as they welcome Cam Fraser, Australia's leading men's sexuality coach as they chat about penis size anxiety, performative penis-centric sex, the “be a man” box, communicating with your male sex partners, and so much more. You aren't going to want to miss a second of this one.  Grab a banana, it's gonna get juicy! Cam can be found on his Instagram @thecamfraser or on his website, www.cam-fraser.comCeeCee and Emmy D can be found on Instagram @wyp_pod or online at www.wyppod.com

If you've struggled to get hard or ‘get it up' it might be because you're stressed or anxious about being good in bed.And so many of you told us you have so much shame around erectile dysfunction. In this ep, we find out what performance anxiety is, how to cope, and how to best help as a partner. 

If you've struggled to get hard or ‘get it up' it might be because you're stressed or anxious about being good in bed. And so many of you told us you have so much shame around erectile dysfunction.  In this ep, we find out what performance anxiety is, how to cope, and how to best help as a partner. 

If you've struggled to get hard or ‘get it up' it might be because you're stressed or anxious about being good in bed.And so many of you told us you have so much shame around erectile dysfunction. In this ep, we find out what performance anxiety is, how to cope, and how to best help as a partner. 

If you've struggled to get hard or ‘get it up' it might be because you're stressed or anxious about being good in bed. And so many of you told us you have so much shame around erectile dysfunction.  In this ep, we find out what performance anxiety is, how to cope, and how to best help as a partner. 

For this episode of the Sex series, we're getting some adult sex education we wished we had learned when we were younger. Specifically around messages young men received around sex, and how this now manifests with toxic masculinity which unfortunately, seeps into the bedroom. Our guest today helps us find ways we can change these sexual narratives. While not all of us are in sexual relationships with men, the reality is that the way in which men perceive their status in the bedroom affects their roles outside of the bedroom. And when toxic masculinity is driving that inner monologue, we all lose. So today we're addressing the ways this can affect us all, not only the cis hetero men in our lives.    A licensed sex coach and therapist, Cam Fraser teaches sex education for cis hetero men and their partners. As someone who has been hurt by unhealthy masculine culture, he's passionate about changing toxic masculine narratives that affect us all, and freeing men up to be the fully realized humans they are longing to be (whether they know it or not).     In this episode, Cam and Jen discuss: Ideas on how to start conversations with your partner about sex Desire discrepancies in relationships and the difference between responsive and spontaneous libido Taking responsibility for your own arousal The spectrum of intimacy inside and outside the bedroom Unhealthy sexual narratives that feed toxic masculinity * * * Thank you to our sponsors! Betterhelp | Visit BetterHelp.com/ForTheLove to get 10% off your first month Thirdlove | Visit ThirdLove.com/forthelove and get 20% off your first order   Thought-Provoking Quotes "I think that it is a very detrimental story we are telling each other as men--that men's libido is high and unwavering and it's just purely physical, there's no emotions attached to it--men just want sex all the time. And women are telling men that too because we all got that same story."  - Cam Fraser “Overall we see a lot of over-pathologizing, over-medicalizing of male sexuality. I think that's a real issue, but one of the major ones I see is, "Oh, I'm not man enough because I don't want sex all the time," or, "I'm not jumping my partner every five minutes, so I must be broken.” - Cam Fraser “It's important to understand. There's a difference between physical arousal and mental subjective arousal.” - Cam Fraser “I think we live in quite a sex and pleasure negative society. And so conversations around sex are still, even though we're pushing for them to be more mainstream, they're still considered quite taboo.” - Cam Fraser “Conversations around sex can be really charged. If you're able to take some of the intensity out of those conversations and take some of the seriousness out of those conversations and keep it a little bit more playful, keep it a little bit more curious and lighthearted, then that's going to serve you well.” - Cam Fraser “There is a need for men to diversify their intimacy in terms of how they get their intimacy needs met.” - Cam Fraser “It's super important to have intimacy needs met in a diverse amount of ways. Because if you don't and then you get into a relationship and your partner is the only person that you can do that with, you're putting a lot of pressure and responsibility on your own as well and that can be detrimental to a relationship.” - Cam Fraser   Cam's Links Cam's Instagram - @thecamfraser Cam's TikTok - @thecamfraser2.0 Cam's Website   Books & Resources Mentioned in This Episode Dan Savage Website  Brené Brown's episode with Jen Hatmaker Trevor Noah on Lack of Male Intimacy   Connect with Jen! Jen's Website Jen's Instagram Jen's Twitter Jen's Facebook Jen's YouTube  

This is another solo episode of #mensexpleasure. In this episode, I share my thoughts about erectile dysfunction. I thought it might be interesting and useful to have an entire podcast episode dedicated to erectile dysfunction so that it could potentially be used as a resource for others. Feel free to share this around if you have someone asking about erection issues. Key Points: Welcome back Defining erectile dysfunction Unrealistic expectations Difficulty getting an erection Arousal non-concordance Safety and masturbation patterns Viagra and ED medication Can we trust prevalence rates? Emotional erections Relevant links: Cam's Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser Cam's YouTube video about ED: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_WsxyIb6Jg

This is another solo episode of #mensexpleasure, where I share my thoughts about premature ejaculation. I thought it might be interesting and useful to have an entire podcast episode dedicated to premature ejaculation so that it could potentially be used as a resource for others. Feel free to share this around if you have someone asking about premature ejaculation issues. Key Points: Welcome Defining Premature Ejaculation Intravaginal Ejaculation Latency Time (IELT) Premature ejaculation in the media Ejaculation as a survival response Sympathetic nervous system The sponge analogy Stop-start method and other practices Relevant links: Cam's Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser

Certified Professional Sex Coach and Sexologist, and host of men, sex, pleasure podcast, Cam Fraser joins me to talk all things sex, masculinity + pleasure. Cam + I highlight the cultural assumptions that form our internal models of how masculinity + pleasure ”should” be… We also speak on how authentic masculinity can also include a touch of sensuality, play + pleasure. It's so good. I am buzzing for you to hear it. In this episode, you'll hear: The cultural narrative + normativity we place on gender + sex in our society Sex toys and demonizing solo play, stigma and taboo around men + sex toys The vulnerabilities + benefits of playfulness within a task-oriented world The challenges that are presented from the Masculine/ Feminine polarity coaching communities The ramifications of powerful leaders narrowing the definition of what masculinity means The gendered expectations within relationships Sensually expressed men... Will women be attracted to them? Advice on how to explore a multilayered masculinity that is authentic for you. Men's shame around sex or their bodies, penises, + pleasure Heteroflexibility -- men exploring with other men if interested? And more! THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. www.instagram.com/thecamfraser www.tiktok.com/@thecamfraser2.0 www.twitter.com/thecamfraser www.youtube.com/channel/UCKn_mdnURk5OeFf9vUAtClQ WANT MORE? If you've been desiring to experience orgasm for yourself, embody the archetype of the seductress, reach transcendent states in sex, + develop a deep devotion to your own body + inner landscape-- My 6 week Erotically Undone course is for you. Good sex + cultivating those skills takes time + devotion. Take this course at your own pace. https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/EroticallyUndone --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sexlovepsychedelics/message

Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. We talked about separating insecurities regarding prostate stimulation and how men can reach towards a more fulfilling orgasm(s). Cam deepens this conversation by acknowledging most people have not explored every part of their body and by doing so allows you to explore your sexual needs and wants through pleasure mapping. Exploring your body and observing newfound pleasures is an experience to be shared so we discuss some advice on how to discuss these pleasures with your partner. We ended with a rapid round of “10 quickies with Dr. Tara '' Listen and learn my luvs…oh and have an orgasmic day! In this episode: + Understanding the depths of Prostate Stimulation play + Exploring your needs and wants using pleasure mapping + Observing fears, anxiety and misguided beliefs of the Prostate + Debunking the myths of pegging among men + Advice on Pegging & safely bringing the topic up to your partner +How to have multiple orgasms including prostate orgasms + Learning about erogenous zones for men Links: https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecamfraser2.0?lang=en https://cam-fraser.com/ Giddy Health-Supplements https://giddyhealth.com/libido Use Code: GIDDY10 for 10% off Pulse-Luxury Lube Dispenser and Lubricants https://lovemypulse.com/ Use Code: TARA10 for $10 off *All Rights Reserved. Dr Tara International Inc

If you've been doing a bit of butt play and loving it, you might be keen to take it up a level. Well strap in, because in this ep, we've got everything you need to know about pegging.

If you've been doing a bit of butt play and loving it, you might be keen to take it up a level.Well strap in, because in this ep, we've got everything you need to know about pegging.

If you've been doing a bit of butt play and loving it, you might be keen to take it up a level. Well strap in, because in this ep, we've got everything you need to know about pegging.

If you've been doing a bit of butt play and loving it, you might be keen to take it up a level.Well strap in, because in this ep, we've got everything you need to know about pegging.

Cam Fraser is a Men's Sex Coach who teaches men how to have better sex. I mean, he literally teaches a course called “Out Perform a Porn Star.” But not surprisingly, learning better sex has nothing to do with the typical male metrics of penis size and sexual duration. Instead, Cam's sex coaching comes down to increasing pleasure and deepening the physical and emotional relationship men have with their partner.   Because believe it or not, men statistically want better sex, whether they talk about it with their buddies or not.   By the way, this episode is as much for women as it is for men. We dive deep into communication, exploration and vulnerability before, during and after sex, which involves both partners equally. As you'll learn, those are truly the keys to better sex. Cam is here to teach us how.  In this episode, we're talking about:   The myths about male sexuality Why orgasm is often the end of sex The difference between sexual pleasure and gratification How porn and masturbation affect sex life The importance of foreplay and cuddling How to have more meaningful sex How you can still have sex with erectile dysfunction How men can improve and lengthen sexual performance   Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions.    Man or woman - I'd love to know how Cam's wisdom and coaching lands with you. What was one thing you learned in this episode? Message me, and please share and leave a review!    REFERENCES:   www.cam-fraser.com  www.instagram.com/thecamfraser  www.tiktok.com/@thecamfraser  www.facebook.com/thecamfraser  www.twitter.com/thecamfraser  www.youtube.com/c/camfrasersexcoach Book: Not Always In The Mood By Sarah Hunter Murray   Episode 288 | Tantra, Polarity, Pleasure & The Strong Independent Woman With Sophie Josephina    Episode 266 | Not All Men, But Almost Always With Traver Boehm Of Man Uncivilized   Episode 280 | Choosing Relentless Courage, Facing Death & Challenging Societal Norms With Traver Boehm Of Man Uncivilized, Part 2   Episode 203 | Insecurities, Redefining Masculinity & Overcoming Pornography Addiction With Kieran Hedley   Episode 196 | Sex, Single Life & Social Distancing: Managing Trust Issues & Boundaries With Steph Connolly

It's men's health month and Cam Fraser joins us to talk about male sexuality. Does porn impact sexual performance? Does size actually matter? In this episode, we dive into ways to help support our male partners in the bedroom. Check out Cam Fraser on IG @thecamfraser and on his website.  How is your sex life? Is it good but could be better? Is it medicore? Get the Sex You Desire is where women are uncovering their desires so they can start having more sex according to their desires. We are currently enrolling  - Register HERE! Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram. Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com Cam-fraser.com  

Ejaculation issues, stamina, performance anxiety, aggression and shame, learn from Australia's leading male sexologist Cam Fraser on how to have a better and more ethical sex life.3:00 - why do this episode?7:30 “every hole is a goal” - mentality 8:00 pilates and yoga fixed his spine and mind13:00 challenging narratives about masculinity15:00 common erectile issues18:00 elle teaches sex to partners20:00 communication has to come from both sides25:00 examples of men's issues30:00 vulnerability is hot and powerful35:00 why prostate orgasms feel different 40:00 SSRI advice and resources45:00 lube advice50:00 asexuality in one partner54:00 pausing or stopping during sex is a human right 1:00:00 stop putting it in my butt without asking!1:04:00 faster vs harder

On episode 295, I invite Cam Fraser back on Disability After Dark to talk about my own experiences with premature ejaculation and disability. We take a deep dive into my shame around it, experiences of it where ableism was a factor and Cam offers me some possible tips and tricks to stop the shame and so much more. This was an important episode. Enjoy! You can follow and support Cam Fraser here: https://linktr.ee/camfraser400 Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

On episode 294, I sit down with Australia's Leading Men's Sex Coach Cam Fraser to let him ask me questions about sex and disability.  We explore language, how to make Cam's coaching practice more accessible, Cam interrogates some of his own ableism and so much more.  Enjoy!       You can follow and support Cam Fraser here: https://linktr.ee/camfraser400     Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafterdarkpod@gmail.com or going to this link:   https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark  Pre-order your Bump'n Joystick RIGHT NOW, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com  Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing kristen.williams10@gmail.com  You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE.