Podcasts about intimacy

In this episode let's discuss a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world: How long should sex last? | “The goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly—it's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever time you have together.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2651: Mindful dating, as explored by Ira Israel, invites us to move beyond superficial swipes and scripted encounters to build genuine, compassionate connections. By recognizing our own attachment patterns, projections, and facades, we can approach relationships with greater authenticity, integrity, and patience. Listeners will gain insights into how to cultivate intimacy in today's fast-paced, tech-driven dating culture. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://iraisrael.com/mindful-dating/ Quotes to ponder: “Some people feel as if technology is helping them connect but it can also be argued that Facebook and Twitter delude people into believing they are interacting when they actually are not receiving the tactile affection they crave.” “The problem is as follows: the most propitious tools for making relationships succeed - authenticity and authentic communications, may not be the most alluring traits when dating.” Episode references: The Newsroom (Season 1): https://www.hbo.com/the-newsroom We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love: https://www.amazon.com/We-Understanding-Psychology-Romantic-Love/dp/0062504363 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever asked yourself: "Why does sex feel confusing or frustrating in my long-term relationship?" "How do I deal with mismatched desire or feelings of rejection?" "Is there a way to bring passion back into our marriage beyond tricks or performance?" If sex and intimacy have become a perplexing part of your long-term relationship, get ready for a revolutionary reframe that will change how you approach connection. Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, a renowned somatic sex therapist, creator of the transformational Pleasure Keys Retreats, and host of the popular Sex Talk Café Podcast.  She has helped hundreds of couples deepen intimate connection and create mutually satisfying sex and intimacy for the long term, and she's here to challenge the myth that passion is just about performance or "finding the right move." Susan Morgan Taylor reveals that true intimacy begins with presence: showing up, tuning in, and being fully responsible for your own pleasure and desires. She explains that when there's been a "drift" in your marriage, it's critical to slow down, get curious, and ask not just what you want, but who it's for.  So many couples mistakenly go through the motions, assuming they know what pleases the other and settling for mediocre connection. The profound truth? Each partner is wired uniquely—and without ongoing, honest conversation, you can drift miles apart. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this revolutionary conversation, we dig into: Presence Over Performance: Why true intimacy starts with showing up, tuning in, and owning your own pleasure, moving beyond tricks or external validation. The Danger of the "Drift": How couples unknowingly settle for mediocre connection by assuming they know what pleases their partner without ongoing, honest conversation. Safety as the Ultimate Aphrodisiac: Why creating an environment where your partner can relax—free from pressure, kids bursting in, or a million distractions—is crucial for their willingness to lean in. Beyond Abs or Grand Gestures: The profound truth that genuine trust and moment-to-moment presence are the real keys to opening both her heart and body. Playful, Spacious, Non-Transactional Connection: How to bring curiosity, experimentation, and ownership back into your intimate relationship, even in uncomfortable moments. If you're ready to become not just a better lover, but a better man, this episode is your playbook for ditching resentment, reigniting real desire, and creating a marriage that's thriving, not just surviving. Here's what research and observation highlight about sexual intimacy in long-term relationships: Couples who prioritize emotional safety and open communication about sex report a 35% higher level of sexual satisfaction. Mismatched desire is a common challenge impacting over 30% of couples, but effective communication strategies can significantly improve outcomes. The consistent practice of mindful presence during intimate moments is linked to a 25% increase in shared pleasure and deeper connection. www.thedadedge.com/534 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/25questions Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn www.pathwaytopleasure.com FREE Pleasure Keys PDF → www.pleasurekeys.com

We have to work and deal with our internal and early trauma. This can be more difficult to see and process without a reliable, trustworthy “other” in our lives. Sometimes it even takes an expert who can walk us through that journey in order for us to get to that safe space for healing and recovery.Today, Duane talks with Andrew Susskind about his book, It's Not About the Sex: Moving from Isolation to Intimacy after Sexual Addiction. They go into depth about attachment, emotional regulation, the need for reliable people to heal your traumatic wounds, and how we can do that when we're in recovery and still struggling with internal chaos. Andrew is a licensed clinical social worker, a Somatic Experiencing practitioner, a Brainspotting practitioner, and a certified group psychotherapist. The book is Andrew's passion project where he wrote about themes that have been on his mind for three decades now. Since then, so much has changed in the mental health field as well as the addiction and trauma world. Andrew's book reflects many of those changes. Andrew not only leans on the experiences of his clients but on his personal experience as well. In 1994, Andrew went to his first SCA meeting, which stands for Sexual Compulsives Anonymous. In the therapy room, he noticed that people were learning how to stop their addictive behaviors. However, that's just the starting gate. His book covers some themes and different areas of healing that can happen beyond stopping destructive behavior.In this episode, you will hear:Somatic Experiencing and BrainspottingThe mechanism behind our nervous system regulationThe concept of upregulation vs. downregulationWhy it's not just about sexHaving reliable relationships as a platform for healingKey Quotes:[06:57] - “Somatic Experiencing and Brainspotting are both trauma healing modalities that focus on Nervous System regulation.”[07:40] - “One of the keys to regulating the nervous system is knowing when we're dysregulated.”[08:29] - “Someone who feels most comfortable in their skin feels calm, peaceful, grounded, and hopefully feels resourceful, resilient, and buoyant.”[11:51] - “Even though it looks like compulsive sexual behavior, on the surface, once we scratch the surface, it's really about broken-heartedness.”[14:20] - “When someone is trying to regulate themselves, it's actually an attempt to feel better.”[17:49] - “If you scratch the surface on anyone who's sexually compulsive, you're going to find some kind of avoidant attachment within that.”[23:08] - “If we're connected within and to one another, and to something greater than ourselves, that's going to create a platform for healing.”Subscribe and ReviewHave you subscribed to our podcast? We'd love for you to subscribe if you haven't yet. We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review,” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second, and it helps spread the word about the podcast.If you really enjoyed this episode, we've created a PDF that has all of the key information for you from the episode. Just fill in your information below to download it.Supporting Resources:www.westsidetherapist.comIt's Not About the Sex: Moving from Isolation to Intimacy after Sexual Addiction by Andrew Susskindwww.Brainspotting.comEpisode CreditsIf you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at ⁠https://emeraldcitypro.com⁠ Let them know we sent you.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the often underestimated realm of intellectual intimacy. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, Brianne explores what it truly means to connect on a mental level, emphasizing the importance of meaningful conversations that extend beyond surface-level interactions.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares her insights gained from working with a client focused on enhancing his relational skills, particularly in the area of intellectual intimacy. She breaks down practical ways to cultivate a deeper connection through shared learning experiences, stimulating discussions, and mutual exploration of interests. From discussing favorite songs and their meanings to exploring new hobbies, Brianne illustrates how these interactions can significantly enrich relationships.Listeners will discover actionable strategies for fostering intellectual intimacy, such as asking thoughtful questions, sharing educational experiences, and engaging in healthy debates. Brianne stresses that true connection goes beyond physical attraction, highlighting the power of emotional and intellectual bonds in creating a fulfilling partnership. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that promises to inspire you to deepen your connections and embrace the beauty of shared intellectual pursuits.

Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."   **Transcription of original episode**  227. Resolving Conflict in Marriage with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo   As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.   One Extraordinary Marriage Website One Extraordinary Marriage Show   Questions We Discuss: For couples who are not in destructive and abusive marriages, what are typical conflict styles and cycles? What conflict have you had recently and how did you process through it? What are common issues couples fight about?   Thank You to Our Sponsor: The Homeschool Printing Company   Other Episode Mentioned from The Savvy Sauce: 146 Biblical Response to Emotionally Destructive Relationships with Leslie Vernick 190 Sex Series: Six Pillars of Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo 205 Power of Movement with Alisa Keeton (Revelation Wellness)   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Stopping divorce often begins with a willingness to pause, reflect, and reconnect. Many couples drift apart not from a lack of love, but from unresolved hurt, unmet needs, or poor communication. To stop divorce, both partners must commit to rebuilding trust and emotional safety. That means listening with empathy, owning mistakes without defensiveness, and learning how to speak each other's emotional language. Seek help—through counseling or coaching—to break harmful patterns and learn new tools. Reignite connection by spending intentional time together, even if it feels awkward at first. Small acts of kindness, appreciation, and physical touch can slowly rebuild the bond. Most importantly, shift from blame to teamwork. Instead of seeing each other as opponents, unite around the goal of healing the relationship. With effort, humility, and support, many couples discover a new chapter of love they never thought possible. Divorce isn't always inevitable—change is.Have a question? Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to it on the next podcast episode! 

This week, I sat down with the radiant Whitni Miller, also known as BDEmoves on Instagram, a queer sex educator and pleasure coach who's changing the game when it comes to how we talk about sex, desire, and embodiment, especially in the queer community. Together, we explored what it really means to be embodied in midlife and why so many of us still struggle to feel sexually safe—not just physically, but emotionally and relationally. Whitni brings a trauma-informed lens to her work, helping people unpack shame, regulate their nervous systems, and come back home to themselves. We talked about: Why safety (not spontaneity) is the foundation of good sex How queer and same-sex couples deal with libido differences What late bloomers can teach us about authenticity and desire The power of non-sexual touch in long-term relationships How responsive desire isn't broken—it's just misunderstood The absolute joy of reclaiming play and pleasure at any age Whitni also got real about what it takes to share accurate, pleasure-centered sex ed online in the face of constant censorship. Hint: It's hard, it's frustrating, and it's absolutely necessary. She's a fierce advocate for creating digital and real-life spaces where people—especially queer folks—can learn, explore, and thrive. If you've ever wondered, What can we learn from the queer community about sex, intimacy, and communication?—this episode is for you. Whitni's work is bold, honest, and full of compassion. Follow her @bdemoves and check out her offerings for late bloomers, folks navigating WLW relationships, and anyone looking to deepen their connection with themselves and their partners. Takeaways: ✨ Sexual safety is foundational to desire—not optional. ✨ Queer relationships offer a refreshing reframe of intimacy and play. ✨ Scheduling sex is not unsexy—it's smart, respectful, and hot. ✨ Responsive desire is normal, especially in midlife and long-term partnerships. ✨ Pleasure-first education challenges societal norms that prioritize performance. ✨ We need more trauma-informed, inclusive sex ed—and we need it now. https://www.instagram.com/bde.moves/ Want more honest, empowering conversations like this one?⁠⁠Preorder my Next Book⁠⁠ share this episode, and leave a review to help others find this important work. Let's stop leaving women out of the conversation—especially when it comes to sex, health, and healing. Listen to my Tedx Talk: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Why we need adult sex ed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Take my Adult Sex Ed Master Class:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Interested in my sexual health and hormone clinic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Waitlist is open⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Explore and expand pleasure with resources, advice, and the most exciting pleasure products with Good Vibes, and save 10% with coupon code NOTBROKEN10 at goodvibes.com/menopause Thanks to our sponsor ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Midi Women's Health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Designed by midlife experts, delivered by experienced clinicians, covered by insurance.Midi is the first virtual care clinic made exclusively for women 40+. Evidence-based treatments. Personalized midlife care.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.joinmidi.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you believe that God is good? That He really has your best interests in mind? In this special message guest speaker, Ryan Ingram, addresses this vital topic as he interviews his mom Theresa. She shares her inspiring testimony of becoming a Christian, and how she navigated through painful circumstances by trusting in the unfailing goodness of God.Main PointsFrom Despair to Deliverance:Theresa's early life was marked by loneliness and a dysfunctional family. Her dreams were shattered when her husband abandoned her and their twin infant sons. Feeling "left with nothing," she found hope through a godly boss and, at 25, accepted Jesus as her Savior.Finding Refuge and Intimacy in Christ:Supported by others, Theresa learned to love God's Word and prayer. She experienced God's consistent presence through unexpected help and answered prayers, including her marriage to Chip. Ryan highlights his mother's deep devotion to prayer, an intimacy born from desperation. Theresa's life serves as a testament to Romans 8:28, proving that God works all things for good.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Additional Resource Mentions"Precious in His Sight" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003About Theresa IngramTheresa Ingram has a passion to see women transformed as they learn to see themselves as Christ sees them. Theresa has taught and mentored women in the local church for over 25 years. She is a graduate of Fairmont State University, the mother of four grown children & 12 grandchildren, and resides in San Jose, California, with her husband Chip.About Ryan IngramRyan Ingram is the pastor of Awakening Church, founded in September 2012 with a passion to awaken this generation to new life in Jesus. He is a graduate of Moody Bible Institute in Chicago and has pursued additional study at Moody Theological Seminary. Ryan and his wife, Jenny, have three children and live in California.

Are you ready to rediscover the spark of intimacy in midlife? Ever wondered how societal norms might be holding you back from fully embracing your desires? Join us as we delve into the secrets of fulfilling connections with Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, creators of the transformative Somatica Method. What if the changes you face in midlife were an invitation to something deeper? How can open communication revolutionize your relationships? In this episode, we tackle these questions head-on, offering fresh perspectives on reclaiming sensual pleasure and breaking free from repressive sexual norms. Could understanding your desires be the key to confidence and clarity in your intimate connections? We explore how embracing vulnerability can transform your sexual relationships, particularly during midlife transitions. Tune in for practical advice and empowering insights! In this episode, we uncover: How hormonal changes impact desire and connection in midlife. Why open communication is crucial for satisfying sexual experiences. How to challenge misconceptions about women's sexual desires. The importance of cultivating erotic sensuality in everyday life. Why sexual education for teens is essential for future relationships. Take advantage of this chance to elevate your intimate life and redefine your relationships. Listen now to empower yourself with the knowledge to embrace your desires and transform your connections!     Join the Self-Paced Virtual Classes at somatica.com and use promo code SPARK50 for 50% off all self-paced single classes (bundle packages excluded). July 3–5 only. Follow Somatica on Instagram. Follow Celeste & Danielle on Instagram. Follow Celeste & Danielle on TikTok.   Sponsors Order your Lemonade LMNT electrolytes today and get a FREE 8 pack of samples! Plus try it risk free, they have a no-questions-asked refund policy – you don't even have to send it back! Get 40% off your Cozy Earth Bed Sheet with coupon code HORMONES.     Are you in peri or post menopause and looking to optimize your hormones and health? At Hormone Solutions, we offer telemedicine services and can prescribe in every U.S. state, as well as in British Columbia, Alberta, and Ontario in Canada.   Visit karenmartel.com to explore our comprehensive programs: Bioidentical Hormone Replacement Therapy Individualized Weight Loss Programs  Peptide Therapy for weight loss    Interested in our NEW Peptide Weight Loss Program? Join today and get all the details here.   Join our Women's Peri and Post Menopause Group Coaching Program, OnTrack, TODAY!   To our nursing audience members, our podcasts qualify for nursing CE @ RNegade.pro. Provide # CEP17654.   Your host: Karen Martel Certified Hormone Specialist, Transformational Nutrition Coach, & Weight Loss Expert   Karen's Facebook Karen's Instagram

Do you believe that God is good? That He really has your best interests in mind? In this special message guest speaker, Ryan Ingram, addresses this vital topic as he interviews his mom Theresa. She shares her inspiring testimony of becoming a Christian, and how she navigated through painful circumstances by trusting in the unfailing goodness of God.Main PointsFrom Despair to Deliverance:Theresa's early life was marked by loneliness and a dysfunctional family. Her dreams were shattered when her husband abandoned her and their twin infant sons. Feeling "left with nothing," she found hope through a godly boss and, at 25, accepted Jesus as her Savior.Finding Refuge and Intimacy in Christ:Supported by others, Theresa learned to love God's Word and prayer. She experienced God's consistent presence through unexpected help and answered prayers, including her marriage to Chip. Ryan highlights his mother's deep devotion to prayer, an intimacy born from desperation. Theresa's life serves as a testament to Romans 8:28, proving that God works all things for good.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Additional Resource Mentions"Precious in His Sight" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003About Theresa IngramTheresa Ingram has a passion to see women transformed as they learn to see themselves as Christ sees them. Theresa has taught and mentored women in the local church for over 25 years. She is a graduate of Fairmont State University, the mother of four grown children & 12 grandchildren, and resides in San Jose, California, with her husband Chip.About Ryan IngramRyan Ingram is the pastor of Awakening Church, founded in September 2012 with a passion to awaken this generation to new life in Jesus. He is a graduate of Moody Bible Institute in Chicago and has pursued additional study at Moody Theological Seminary. Ryan and his wife, Jenny, have three children and live in California.

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we're getting intimate—literally—with certified sex and intimacy coach, Court Vox. Court is the founder of The Body Vox , a somatic sex educator and has been featured in Vogue, Men's Health, Allure, The New York Post, and more.  He's worked with individuals and couples all over the world, helping them build deeper awareness in their bodies, relationships, and erotic selves. In today's conversation, we're exploring what intimacy really looks like—beyond just the physical—including emotional, intellectual, and even spiritual forms of connection. Court walks us through tools to build somatic awareness and helps us understand how to build intimacy in a way that feels safe, grounded, and honest. From breathwork to intentional touch, vulnerability to building trust, we'll talk about the practices and barriers that shape our ability to truly connect. We'll also tackle some of your burning questions—like: Should you have sex on a first date? Is texting killing the vibe or helping you build connection? Where does attraction really come from? And is attachment really such a bad thing? (Spoiler: it's not. And Court's going to tell us why.) If you've ever struggled with mixed signals, perfectionism, hookup fatigue, or fear of intimacy, this one's going to reframe the way you think about dating and connection. So, whether you're craving more closeness, working through fear, or just curious how to build stronger connections in your next relationship or casual connection, this one's for you! Let's do the Flirties, and meet Court! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Court Vox is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Coach, Surrogate Partner, and the Founder of The BodyVox. Through his courses, workshops, retreats, and private immersions, he helps clients overcome limitations and shame, fostering deeper intimacy and connection with their whole selves. At The BodyVox, Court Vox offers 1:1 sessions, workshops, and retreats worldwide, including specialized programs for GBTQ men. His online course and community, Invitations to Intimacy, provides a framework for erotic embodiment alongside a supportive network of like-minded individuals. He is also part of the celebrated program for women, Back to the Body, where he collaborates with an elite team of sex educators to guide transformative experiences for women.  Certified through governing organizations such as the Somatic Sex Education Association (SSEA), the Association of Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB), the International Professional Surrogate Association (IPSA), and Urban Tantra, he combines his certifications with ongoing studies in rope bondage, modern hypnotherapy, breathwork, and movement practices.  As a sex educator, Vox has worked with clients of all sexualities and genders. His work has been featured in The New York Times, Men's Health, Out Magazine, Vogue, AskMen, Cosmopolitan, Well & Good and more.  For more information, visit www.thebodyvox.com. About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage. Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self. His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, and Yoga Journal. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Thank you to our sponsors! Visit calroy.com/drg and save over $50 and get a free Canister of 2-in-1 Nitric Oxide Test Strips with a 3-Pack Bundle Purchase Visit cornbreadhemp.com/drg and use code DRG for 30% OFF your first order Sign up for our newsletter! - drchristiangonzalez.com/newsletter What if shame is the #1 block to pleasure, intimacy, and authentic connection? In this groundbreaking episode, I welcome Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, founders of the revolutionary Somatica Method, to explore how pleasure, embodiment, and emotional expression can transform your sexual experiences and relationships. We dive deep into why performance-based sexuality kills intimacy, how shame disconnects us from our bodies, and why pleasure can be a powerful entry point for healing trauma. Discover why many people don't know what they want sexually, how kinks and fantasies can become tools for emotional liberation, and practical techniques using breath, sound, and body awareness to unlock blocked energy.  Whether you're struggling with intimacy, recovering from sexual trauma, or simply want to deepen your connection with pleasure and your partner, this episode offers a compassionate, body-based approach to sexual healing that goes far beyond traditional therapy. Be sure to like and subscribe to #HealThySelf  Hosted by Doctor Christian Gonzalez N.D. Follow Doctor G on Instagram @doctor.gonzalez https://www.instagram.com/doctor.gonzalez/ Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction - Why Sexual Healing Changes Everything 2:40 - The Biggest Misconception: Starting with Trauma vs. Pleasure 5:26 - Shame: The #1 Block to Sexual Pleasure & Intimacy 9:12 - How to Slow Down Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom 18:30 - Understanding Your Sexual Desires as a Path to Healing 25:04 - Exploring Kinks & How Trauma Can Be Healthy Expression 29:15 - Common Blocks Men Face in Sexual Expression 34:02 - Breaking the Ice: When You Can't Feel Pleasure Anymore 43:25 - Why Women Can't Orgasm & Taking Ownership of Your Pleasure 48:10 - Technology, Porn & The Crisis of Real Intimacy 56:55 - Following Pleasure as Your Life & Business Guide 1:01:09 - Their Method, Training & Virgin Island TV Show

I loved interviewing longtime friend, Bryan Reeves—a former Air Force captain turned relationship coach, author, and speaker—about deep themes of love, grief, surrender, and conscious partnership. Bryan shared his and his wife's experience of enduring 18 major life challenges in five years, many of these were ambiguous losses—grief over things never fully materialized. We've both been Inspired by Michael Singer's Surrender Experiment and Bryan reflected on surrendering to life's challenges without giving up, choosing instead to fully engage with each moment, seeing surrender as the ultimate form of freedom. I love learning about the complex dynamics of partnership with his wife, Silvy—balancing personal truths, holding space for differences, and learning how to share power in a relationship rather than dominate or withdraw. In this deeply connected reunion of sorts in person in Austin, we also discussed... -How much Bryan loves Silva! I asked him to describe qualities he appreciates about her—he lit up! He spoke of her warmth, humor, depth, and emotional availability—and three things that turn him on, from her sensuality to her emotional support. -How Bryan openly owns his shortcomings—like struggling to offer the depth of emotional connection Silvy craves—and apologizes for past choices that unintentionally hurt her, including the decision to leave LA. -How we both emphasized that true love and partnership are not about perfection, but about willingness to stay present in the messiness. We explored how real intimacy requires patience, compassion, and truth-telling. -How Bryan's guiding principle in his partnership with his wife is serving love, rather than ego. -How I vulnerably opened up about my own struggles with being single, practicing self-care, and asking my staff for loving accountability—showing that intimacy begins with ourselves. -This nearly yearly podcast swap between old friends ends with mutual appreciation, humor, and heartfelt acknowledgment of the growth they've witnessed in each other over 15 years. -I'm so grateful for the depth and realness of our shared journey and we invite listeners to reflect and take meaningful action in their own lives… tiny hinges swing big door… you'd be amazed what consistent aligned action will create for your intimate relationships. ➡️ Go check out patreon.com/allanapratt for Exclusive content! About Bryan Reeves:   A former US Air Force Captain, Bryan is now an international coach and blogger who's blogs, videos, online courses, and books have been experienced by over 30 million people in every country in the world (except North Korea apparently). He's worked and studied with the top spiritual teachers of our time, including Marianne Williamson, David Deida, Byron Katie, Eckhart Tolle, and others. With a Masters Degree in Human Relations, he now coaches men and women to creating thriving lives and relationships. Check out his amazing podcast, Men this Way! and his NEW BOOK: Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her) Website: https://bryanreeves.com/ Facebook URL https://www.facebook.com/bryanreevesofficial Twitter URL: https://twitter.com/thebryanreeves Instagram URL https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/ YouTube URL ​https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjeDDgvGtFmYq2bTfSzSutg Gift or Product Link Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her) https://bryanreeves.com/book/   Schedule your Intimacy Breakthrough Experience with me today https://allanapratt.com/connect Scholarship Code: READYNOW ________________________________________________________ ❤️ Finding the One is Bullsh*t. Becoming the One is brilliant and beautiful, and ironically the key to attracting your ideal partner. Move beyond the fear of getting hurt again. Register for Become the One Introductory Program. http://allanapratt.com/becomeintro Use Code: BTO22 to get over 40% off ________________________________________________________ ❤️ We're thrilled to partner with Magic Mind for this episode. Go to https://magicmind.com/INTIMATECONVERSATIONS40 to avail exciting offers! ________________________________________________________ ❤️ Let's stay connected: Exclusive Video Newsletter: http://allanapratt.com/newsletter Instagram - @allanapratt [ / allanapratt ] Facebook - @coachallanapratt [ / coachallanapratt ]

We cover it all—church hurt, hidden struggles, the necessary sacrifices of real discipleship, and even the concern of orphaned disciples.Tim Ross doesn't hold back. From confronting porn and anger to naming the need for therapy and breaking the stigma around Christian counseling, this episode gets real. Toward the end, we lean into what it looks like to actually upset the world like Jesus did—not by being loud, but by being deeply formed.Tim's a speaker, preacher, author, and the voice behind multiple faith-centered podcasts. He and his wife also lead Upset the World, a digital movement helping people fully surrender their lives to Jesus.It's a raw, needed conversation. We hope it challenges you to not just process these topics—but to live them out.Ordinary Movement is a discipleship platform that equips men and women to be disciples who make disciples. Our focus is on supporting small groups led by ordinary/everyday Christians. We have specialized discipleship tracks that center around Intimacy with Jesus, Intentional Relationships, and Multiplication. Groups are designed for individuals to easily engage in leading groups.Ready to be a disciple who makes disciples?If so, come and join us!Visit ordinarymovement.com to learn more!#discipleship #disciplemaking #disciple

Sam Jolman says, “The realm of evil hates your sexuality… [and] tries to, as quickly and as early as possible, join shame to your sexual story.”As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, therapist and author Sam Jolman joins us to talk about sex in marriage. Shame wreaks havoc on intimacy and relational connection, keeping us isolated and feeling alone.It was never intended to be this way. Author of The Sex Talk You Never Got, Sam offers a refreshing, pure, and healing perspective on how to discuss, heal, and redeem intimacy with your spouse.Time Stamps:0:00 Introduction2:39 Sam Jolman joins the show6:04 Shame and the assault on sex13:09 The human body created for pleasure19:54 Song of Songs and the deep “knowing” that is the bedrock for intimacy24:17 How to have the conversation of sex with your spouse32:33 The role of kindness and compassion in the healing of your story37:51 Talking about playfulness, safety, and sex with your spouseShow Notes: Get Sam Jolman's book The Sex Talk You Never Got: https://amzn.to/4kflULX If you're interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage Register now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome

What matters most when we show up to worship?In “Relationships Matter to God,” we’re reminded that unresolved conflict—especially in our closest relationships—matters deeply to God. In fact, Jesus said we should press pause on worship if we know someone has something against us. Why? Because our hearts, our humility, and our willingness to seek reconciliation are acts of worship too. One woman shares how God softened her heart during years of marriage struggles, leading her from resentment to grace—and from pride to peace. Key Takeaways: God prioritizes reconciliation over religious ritual We can’t truly worship when bitterness is brewing Conflict often becomes destructive when left unprocessed Christ calls us to deal with our emotions before they harden into contempt Forgiveness is a gift we give to others and ourselves

What if deeper intimacy begins by facing the emotions you've been avoiding? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why avoiding emotional pain is blocking you from true pleasure. Discover how emotional numbness doesn't just protect you from hurt—it also dulls your capacity for joy, passion, and connection.  Learn what it really means to embrace Uncompromising Intimacy and why the courage to feel it all is the key to a more vibrant, emotionally rich relationship.   This episode breaks down how: Avoiding pain also blocks pleasure and connection. Uncompromising Intimacy means truth over compromise. Discomfort can lead to deeper intimacy. Growth requires feeling, not numbing. Real connection starts with authenticity.     Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Initiating sex can feel vulnerable, awkward, or even downright scary—especially if you were socialized to anticipate everyone else's needs before your own. This week, DB is joined by the one and only Whitni Miller (aka BDE Moves), queer couples intimacy coach, to break down what gets in the way, how to build confidence, and why getting turned down doesn't have to be a bad thing. We're talking perfectionism, eroticism, pleasure, and how to get out of your head and into your body. Let's get into it! GUEST DETAILSWhitni Miller is a queer couples intimacy coach helping people build deeper connection, playful pleasure, and authentic desire. Follow @bde.moves on Instagram for tips, real talk, and tools to transform your intimate life. ABOUT SEASON 12 Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 12 SPONSORS Lion's Den, Uberlube, & Magic Wand Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 12 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer: Sadie Lidji (she/her) Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen (she/her) Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa and Soul Trap by Ketsa

In Part 2 of her episode, Shannon opens up about the next chapter of her story. After meeting her husband, she eagerly took the lead in their relationship—from their first kiss to exploring intimacy together. Remaining a virgin until marriage was deeply important to her, so they waited until their wedding night to have intercourse.But the moment she had waited for her entire life turned out to be excruciatingly painful—and the pain didn't go away. For two years, Shannon silently endured, until she was finally diagnosed with vulvodynia, a chronic condition causing pain around the vulva. What was supposed to be a joyful part of marriage became a painful obligation. She was overwhelmed with guilt and shame, feeling as though she had failed as a wife.Eventually, she found an incredible pelvic floor specialist who helped relieve much of the physical pain—but the emotional and sexual disconnection lingered. Despite her efforts, she still didn't feel desire. Over the next 20 years, they struggled. A sex therapist left Shannon feeling blamed and broken. They even tried visiting sex clubs, hoping that new experiences might reignite her interest. Nothing worked, and Shannon sank into depression.Then she found Janna.For the first time, Shannon felt truly seen, heard, and understood. With Janna's support, her relationship has completely transformed. Now, Shannon looks forward to the next 20 years with her husband—hopeful, empowered, and finally at peace.Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Join the waitlist for the Oct./Nov. 2025 round of Doing It Together here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

Tommy and Desnekka Taylor are the esteemed founders of an internationally acclaimed online marriage coaching practice and the visionary creators behind the premier marriage program, Marriage 2.0   Their journey has been one of profound transformation and resilience, navigating the most tumultuous of marital challenges with unwavering courage—surpassing the trials that many could endure in a lifetime.   Their relationship endured immense hardship, manifesting in an array of obstacles:   - Numerous instances of infidelity, both physical and emotional - Various addictions - The complexities of physical, mental, and verbal abuse - The intricacies of rebuilding trust - Challenges in effective communication - Financial discord - Intimacy barriers - Crisis in identity - Overwhelming anxiety - Depression - The depths of suicidal contemplations  - A multitude of emotional triggers   Through relentless dedication and growth, Tommy and Desnekka have emerged as the top experts in the field of marriage enrichment, inspiring countless couples to rediscover the beauty and strength within their own relationships.   They went on to build a global marriage coaching empire helping inspire to empower couples and individuals to save their marriages when everyone else told them to end it.   They have given thousands hope and their program marriage 2.0 has impacted hundreds of people around the world.   God called them to use their testimony and knowledge to help other couples save their marriages, create generational change, but most importantly build an army for God's kingdom.     This is their passion and mission to change the world forever!    They committed an impressive investment of $150,000 into exploring every available avenue to resolve the challenges.   Out of this endeavor, they crafted a distinguished global marriage coaching empire, dedicated to inspiring and empowering couples and individuals to save their relationships, even when conventional methods suggested giving up.   Their transformative program, Marriage 2.0, has touched countless lives, offering hope to thousands and leaving a lasting impact on hundreds of families across the globe.   As high school sweethearts with 20 years together and 18 of those in marriage, their journey is a testament to enduring love and commitment.   Answering a divine calling, they have dedicated their knowledge and personal testimony to guide other couples towards saving their marriages, fostering generational change, and most profoundly, building a devoted community for God's kingdom.   This is not just their passion; it is their mission & calling to leave an indelible mark on the world for god.    And for all our fans out there! If you've gotten any value from this podcast, don't forget to go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianmarriagecoaching to get over 30 Plus Hours Of Free Marriage Training Content! We're giving away bonus training and programs if you join the facebook group.      Don't forget…  We only spread our message when you share this knowledge with others that need it, so if you enjoy this episode, please share it on your social and tag @tommyanddesnekka, and don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on iTunes and give us a 5-star rating, so you don't miss any other great episodes.   ONE STOP LINK TO CONNECT WITH Tommy and Desnekka:  https://linktr.ee/tommyanddesnekka   To book a free 15 min Marriage Clarity Call to see if we can help and it's a good fit, go to:  https://calendly.com/d/dk5-dz5-ssv/marriage-clarity-call    Trevor Lee is the artist who designed the intro and outro.  Labeled as a leader in Houston music by Ky Meyer of Muzik Houston https://www.trevorleemusic.com/ Tommy and Desnekka Taylor are the founders of Purpose Driven Coaching, a global online marriage coaching practice, creators of the number one marriage program - Marriage 2.0 After they went through everything there was to go through quadruple times over in their marriage they went on to build a global marriage coaching empire helping inspire and empower couples and individuals  to save their marriages when everyone else told them to end it.    They have been featured on top level podcasts and shows and their training's impact thousands of people around the world. You don't want to miss this episode!   And for all our fans out there! If you've gotten any value from this podcast, don't forget to go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianmarriagecoaching to get over 30 Plus Hours Of Free Marriage Training Content! We're giving away bonus training and programs if you join the facebook group.      Don't forget…  We only spread our message when you share this knowledge with others that need it, so if you enjoy this episode, please share it on your social and tag @tommyanddesnekka, and don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on iTunes and give us a 5-star rating, so you don't miss any other great episodes.   ONE STOP LINK TO CONNECT WITH Tommy and Desnekka:  https://linktr.ee/tommyanddesnekka   To book a free 15 min Marriage Clarity Call to see if we can help and it's a good fit, go to:  https://calendly.com/d/dk5-dz5-ssv/marriage-clarity-call    Trevor Lee is the artist who designed the intro and outro.  Labeled as a leader in Houston music by Ky Meyer of Muzik Houston https://www.trevorleemusic.com/ 

Ever looked around at your life and thought, “I should be happy… so why do I feel so empty?”If you've been the good wife, the perfect mom, the woman who does it all — but something still feels missing — this conversation is for you.In this powerful and intimate episode, I sit down with Tantra teacher and relationship coach Kimberly Coffin to explore what it really means to choose yourself unapologetically—and how that choice changes everything.You'll hear:— Kimberly's raw story of reclaiming her body, voice, and truth after trauma— How to recognize when a relationship is holding you back (even if it “looks perfect”)— The inner work that paves the way for sacred, soul-level partnership— How to stop performing and start receiving in love, sex, and lifeWhether you're in the messy middle of healing or just starting to explore your desires, this episode will remind you: your power lies in choosing you.

Learn what happens when you've been pretending to be someone you're not in your marriage, and how exhausting that becomes over time. | “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.” —Brene Brown Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: Bo's Cafe: Novel Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Natalie Crawford and Dr. Shieva Ghofrany dive into the often-unspoken world of women's sexual health. From hormonal changes to relationship dynamics, this episode breaks down the science and stigma surrounding libido, offering candid insights and empowering advice for women at every life stage. Key Topics: 1. Hormones and Sex Drive - The role of testosterone, estrogen, and cortisol - How hormonal changes impact intimacy 2. Perimenopause and Sexual Health - Recognizing hormonal transitions  - Managing libido changes 3. Medical Insights - Contraception and sexual side effects - Vaginal health and non-hormonal options 4. Empowerment and Self-Care  - Breaking down shame and stigma  - Loving your body through different life stages Follow Dr. Shieva Ghofrany on Instagram ⁠@drshievag⁠ Check out her website to learn more about Dr. Shieva Ghofrany and her practice. h⁠ttps://www.drshievag.com/⁠ Want to receive my weekly newsletter? Sign up at ⁠⁠⁠⁠nataliecrawfordmd.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ to receive updates, Q&A, special content and freebies. If you haven't already, please rate, review, and follow the podcast to be notified of new episodes every Tuesday. Plus, be sure to follow along on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠@nataliecrawfordmd,⁠⁠⁠⁠ check out Natalie's YouTube channel Natalie Crawford MD⁠⁠⁠⁠, and if you're interested in becoming a patient, check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠Fora Fertility. Join the Learn at Pinnacle app ⁠to earn FREE CE Credit for listening to this episode! This episode is brought to you by The Pinnacle Podcast Network! Learn more about Pinnacle at learnatpinnacle.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just because something is common in marriage doesn't mean it's healthy. We've heard countless couples ask: “Is this just a hard season… or is something actually wrong?” “Are we still okay, even though this feels hard?” In this episode, we unpack those questions using anonymous submissions from real couples. You'll hear what challenges are normal in long-term relationships—and what behavior or dynamics cross the line into unhealthy territory. We cover emotional disconnection, mismatched intimacy, recurring conflict, parenting stress, and more. Plus, we share clear next steps for how to handle each one. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or just want clarity, this conversation will leave you feeling validated, informed, and ready to make meaningful change.

The Daily Collective for July 1st, 2025 pulled no punches—this one's for the fellas in their feelings. Spirit exposed a man dealing with a dry spell in his relationship and his first move? Not communication, not introspection… but cheating.

Forgiveness in marriage can be blocked by several powerful emotional and psychological barriers. Deep hurt, betrayal, and unresolved pain often create walls that are hard to tear down. Pride and ego can keep someone from admitting fault or extending grace. Holding onto anger or resentment can feel like self-protection, especially when trust has been broken. A lack of empathy or understanding for the other person's perspective makes forgiveness harder. Sometimes, the offense feels too great or repeated, making reconciliation seem impossible. Finally, fear of being hurt again can keep people stuck in cycles of bitterness, preventing the healing that forgiveness brings. In this episode I discuss the three steps needed for forgiveness in marriage to occur. 

We often avoid difficult conversations, but addressing conflicts directly leads to stronger relationships rather than allowing resentment to build and potentially emerge "sideways." Understanding that all relationships cycle through harmony, disharmony, and repair helps us recognize conflicts as opportunities for growth.• Lead with curiosity, not accusation: examine your triggers, consider others' intentions, and share your experience without blame• Say what you mean without being mean: describe situations objectively, own your interpretations, and express feelings clearly• Listen to understand the other person's reality: open your heart to their experience instead of listening defensively• The repair process is where trust forms and relationships become stronger and more resilient• Having difficult conversations builds relationship "muscles" through temporary vulnerability that leads to greater strengthIf you need help navigating difficult conversations, book a complimentary call with me at monicatanner.com/callSend us a text

Let's talk about something too many women suffer with silently: pain during intimacy. In this episode, I unpack the real connection between your pelvic floor, nervous system, and emotional safety — and why healing your core goes way beyond muscles and kegels. Whether you're experiencing discomfort with sex, numbness, or disconnection from your body — this is your invitation to reclaim pleasure through awareness, breath, and full-body healing. You are not broken. You are ready to reconnect. What You'll Learn: The top 3 reasons intimacy feels painful or shut down (and it's not your fault) How the nervous system + core tension play a bigger role than you think Why releasing shame is the first step to healing pelvic floor pain Simple awareness cues to start feeling safe and connected again How to go deeper with me inside RESTORE or The Empowered Core Resources Mentioned:

What does it mean to be a man, right now? This isn't about trying to fix you. It's about remembering who you are, lighting that fire within, and rising as the man you were meant to be. Get started or jump in wherever your soul needs it most…[00:00:41] – Manhood: Rambo… or Ross?Join David as he challenges all the stereotypes—do we have to be the tough action hero, the pleaser, the triggered one… or something entirely different? Get ready to pause and check your own definition.[00:02:04] – The Great Lie Men Were Sold  Ever feel like you did “everything right,” checked all the boxes…and still landed nowhere close to freedom or joy? You're not alone, and there's a reason.[00:03:22] – Chasing External Success vs. Internal Fulfillment  The millionaires' secret you're not hearing about—and why external achievements might leave you feeling emptier than you expected.[00:03:52] – A Father's Story (and a Son's Awakening)  David gets painfully honest about his dad, his upbringing, and the cost of buying into the old script. (If you've ever felt disconnected from your own father, this will hit home.)[00:05:31] – The Hidden Weight Men Are Carrying  Why do so many men push down their emotions and “shoulder the load”? David unpacks the silent epidemic of suppressed feelings and why it's costing more than anyone realizes.[00:07:00] – What Happens When Feelings Stay Buried  This segment goes deep where most men don't want to look (but holds the secret to liberation). David shares how pent-up emotions don't just fade—they manifest in surprising (and sometimes devastating) ways.[00:08:15] – Regrets… And the Power to Choose Differently  Hear the emotional story of David's final moments with his father, and the decision to break generational patterns—starting right now.[00:10:51] – So, What IS a Man? (David's Real Answer)  Skip the clichés. David spells out in powerful, practical terms what it really means to be a man today. How many of these ring true for you?[00:13:06] – Why the World Needs Masculine Leadership—Now  From relationships to the planet itself, David calls for men to rise and lead with their hearts.[00:14:54] – How to Activate…  Ready to fly? David offers powerful (but practical) steps to get fired up, step up, and surround yourself with brothers on the same journey.[00:15:46] – You're Not Broken But…  Tune in to wrap up with wisdom and a reminder: you're not broken, but you are….---Hit subscribe, share this with a brother, and let's rise—together.

What if the thing you're avoiding—being truly seen—is actually the key to healing?In this powerful episode, the speaker explores the contrast between isolation and intimacy, and how both can impact our relationships, our work, and our inner world. While isolation often feels like protection—especially in times of burnout, heartbreak, or exhaustion—it can eventually lead to loneliness and numbness. On the other hand, intimacy requires courage. It's about being vulnerable, open, and allowing yourself to be supported, not just in romantic relationships but in everyday life and professional spaces too.The episode blends neuroscience, yoga philosophy, and personal reflection. It touches on the role of the spiritual heart (hridaya), the healing power of physical and emotional connection, and the challenges of receiving support without guilt. Themes like overgiving vs. receptivity, self-care as a gateway to connection, and the need for balance are emphasized.Listeners are guided through reflective questions and even a gentle breath-based embodiment practice. The episode closes with a tender reminder: You are allowed to receive. You are not alone.—-------—-------—-Episode Chapters:00:00:00 Introduction  00:02:00 What is Isolation?  00:04:42 Defining Intimacy  00:06:15 Inner Narratives of Isolation  00:07:31 Yogic Lens: Hridaya & Bhakti  00:08:15 Acro Yoga & Building Trust  00:09:18 Science: Cortisol vs. Oxytocin  00:10:43 Intimacy with Yourself  00:13:09 Intimacy in Teaching  00:14:00 Entrepreneurship & Isolation  00:15:45 Overgiving vs. Receptivity  00:18:40 Self-Intimacy as a Foundation  00:22:30 Hatha Yoga & Balance  00:23:47 Why It's Hard to Receive  00:25:04 Story: Needing Help  00:27:27 Somatic Breath Practice  00:29:01 Reflective Questions  00:30:43 Closing Affirmations  —-------—-------—-

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Weaponized Intimacy: How Barry Morphew Allegedly Controlled Suzanne to Death Description: Behind every filtered family photo, there's a story you don't see—and sometimes, that story is deadly. In this episode, we explore how intimacy can become a weapon, and how psychological abuse hides in plain sight. Barry Morphew appeared to be the ideal husband: churchgoing, outdoorsy, a father of two. But beneath the surface, prosecutors allege he used subtle, psychological control to dominate his wife, Suzanne—until the day she tried to leave him. Three days after sending Barry a text saying “I'm done,” Suzanne vanished. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott helps us unpack the dynamic of weaponized love—how affection, attention, and manipulation can work together to trap a person emotionally long before any physical violence occurs. From financial monitoring to gaslighting and digital surveillance, we explore how Barry may have used intimacy not as connection—but as control. This is the uncomfortable truth of many abusive relationships: the abuse doesn't always look like rage. Sometimes it looks like affection. And when that control is threatened, it can turn deadly. If you want to understand how coercive control operates behind closed doors, this episode lays it bare. Hashtags: #WeaponizedIntimacy #BarryMorphew #SuzanneMorphew #CoerciveControl #EmotionalAbuse #TrueCrimePsychology #HiddenKillers #TraumaBonding #ForensicPsychology #NarcissisticRelationships    Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872 

Weaponized Intimacy: How Barry Morphew Allegedly Controlled Suzanne to Death Description: Behind every filtered family photo, there's a story you don't see—and sometimes, that story is deadly. In this episode, we explore how intimacy can become a weapon, and how psychological abuse hides in plain sight. Barry Morphew appeared to be the ideal husband: churchgoing, outdoorsy, a father of two. But beneath the surface, prosecutors allege he used subtle, psychological control to dominate his wife, Suzanne—until the day she tried to leave him. Three days after sending Barry a text saying “I'm done,” Suzanne vanished. Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott helps us unpack the dynamic of weaponized love—how affection, attention, and manipulation can work together to trap a person emotionally long before any physical violence occurs. From financial monitoring to gaslighting and digital surveillance, we explore how Barry may have used intimacy not as connection—but as control. This is the uncomfortable truth of many abusive relationships: the abuse doesn't always look like rage. Sometimes it looks like affection. And when that control is threatened, it can turn deadly. If you want to understand how coercive control operates behind closed doors, this episode lays it bare. Hashtags: #WeaponizedIntimacy #BarryMorphew #SuzanneMorphew #CoerciveControl #EmotionalAbuse #TrueCrimePsychology #HiddenKillers #TraumaBonding #ForensicPsychology #NarcissisticRelationships    Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872 

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Proximity Isn't Intimacy—Ankle Deep, Knee Deep, or Fully Submerged? Just because you're close to God doesn't mean you're going deep with Him. In this episode, we unpack the sobering truth that depth with God is a choice, not an automatic result of church attendance, gifting, or ministry. Using Ezekiel's vision of rising waters (Ezekiel 47) as our framework, we explore the stages of intimacy with God—ankle-deep, knee-deep, waist-deep, and fully submerged—and challenge you to evaluate where you are right now.  

Intimacy is one of the most powerful and vulnerable aspects of the human experience—yet it's often the least talked about when it comes to negotiation. We negotiate in boardrooms, at kitchen tables, and in everyday conversations, but rarely do we consider how negotiation plays a role in our most private connections.   In this deeply resonant episode, we invite you to pause and reflect on how your needs, desires, and boundaries are communicated—and heard—within your intimate relationships. Get ready for another powerful and thought-provoking episode as Cindy Watson sits down with Dr. Diane Mueller to explore a topic that's too often overlooked yet deeply impactful—Negotiation Around Intimacy. As a renowned naturopathic doctor, bestselling health author, international speaker, and host of The Libido Lounge podcast, Dr. Diane brings a unique lens to the conversation. With her signature blend of science, empathy, and empowerment, she helps couples reclaim their vitality, navigate challenges around connection, and reignite their intimate lives. In this episode, Cindy and Diane dive into how honest communication, boundary-setting, and mutual understanding can transform the way we negotiate intimacy—not just in the bedroom, but in every aspect of our relationships.   In this episode, we will discover:   What are the mindset problems that interfere with intimacy in relationships. What can help heal shame around sex. How to communicate about sex without hurting your partner's ego. Three threats in conflict. What role doest effective communication plays in keeping passion alive for couples. Root causes for low libido. What are unique libido codes? How do they come into play in negotiating enhanced intimacy? And many more!   Get to know more Dr. Diane Mueller:   Links:  Hot And Modern Monogamy Club: modernmonogamyclub.com My Podcast "Libido Lounge": mylibidodoc.com/podcast Website: MyLibidoDoc.com   Social Media:   Youtube: Youtube.com/@mylibidodoc Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.practicingwithpurpose.org  if that sounds interesting to you. Get Cindy's book here:   Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1   EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1   Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ (X) Twitter:  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email:cindy@womenonpurpose.ca

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Dr. Pebble Kranz, MD, FECSM, IF, joins Natasha on this episode of the Natasha Helfer Podcast to discuss sexual health and intimacy during cancer care.   Dr. Kranz is a family physician and sexual medicine specialist, graduated from Brown University's Medical School in 2007 and completed residency with the University of Rochester Family Medicine Residency Program in 2011 with a focus on psychosocial aspects of primary care. After serving as residency faculty and a primary care doctor for the University of Rochester, Dr. Kranz pursued additional training in sexual medicine and gender medicine, earning fellowships from the European Committee on Sexual Medicine and the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health. She is founder and medical director for The Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness, providing comprehensive care for sexual, relational, and gender concerns in Western New York. She serves on the board of the Scientific Network on Female Sexual Health and Cancer. Dr. Kranz is committed to educating healthcare professionals at all levels and the community on medical care for sexual concerns.    Some resources she recommends are:   The Scientific Network on Female Sexual Health and Cancer Society of Medicine, North America   To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com.  The information shared on this program is informational and should not be considered therapy. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services. There are also several upcoming workshops. Visit natashahelfer.com or symcounseling.com to find out more.  

In this weekly Sex and Intimacy Q&A, Dr. Rob and Tami address the facts about forgiveness, trust, connection and peace, both in the early days of recovery as well as years down the road. They offer strategies for effective in-house separation, call out the warning signs of gaslighting, and get serious about setting feelings aside to start facing the facts.    TAKEAWAYS: [1:30] How can I find an accountability partner for filtering software? [7:20] Is it a slip or a relapse?  [9:20] What are appropriate time frames and factors for recovery?  [14:45] Healing, peace and connection after betrayal.  [19:21] How can I intimately connect with my spouse after my betrayal?  [25:47] I caught my husband in the middle of his lies. Now what?  [33:24] Are there options for inpatient treatment for betrayed partners?  [38:20] Strategies for effective in-house separation. [39:45] My husband wants to leave to find external validation, I want him to stay. What do I do?  [44:53] Is my betraying partner gaslighting me through recovery too? [50:19] Is it normal for the betraying spouse to be terrified of formal disclosure?  [54:17] How can we stay together without trust? [58:15] It's been 5 years since D-day and I'm finally ready to move out. How can I stay strong in my decision?    RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES “Life is full of triggers. What is it that you're going to do about your triggers?” “You will never trust in the same way again. But to be at peace is a whole different thing.”  “Intimacy is revealing yourself emotionally, and ultimately, sexually as well.”  “Honesty is the crux of recovery. You cannot be in recovery and constantly lying about everything.”  “Feelings aren't facts. In recovery, your feelings are less relevant than the facts of what you're going through.”   

Have you ever asked yourself: "Why am I constantly chasing her attention, and feeling like it's never enough?" "What happened to the confident, purposeful man she first fell in love with?" "Can I truly reignite attraction in my marriage by focusing on myself?" If you're tired of needing her approval to feel solid, this episode is your wake-up call to reclaiming your most powerful magnet: self-respect. Welcome back to The Dad Edge Podcast. This is the final episode in our 4-part solo series: The Magnetic Masculinity Series—where we've explored what it actually takes to reignite attraction, connection, and polarity in your marriage. In Week 1, we exposed resentment and how it silently erodes intimacy. Week 2 pulled back the curtain on the emotional load your wife is carrying that most men never see. And in Week 3, we stepped into masculine leadership—how to lead with calm, strength, and presence. Now, in this powerful conclusion, we're bringing it home. Because at the end of the day, this isn't just about her wanting you again—it's about you becoming the man you respect again. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this empowering final episode, we dig into: Rediscover the Man She Said “Yes” To: Why most men lose their "edge" not because of marriage, but because they stop leading themselves and how to reclaim that energy, mission, and spark. Live a Mission Bigger Than Her Approval: Understand why you cannot be her emotional project and her sexual partner simultaneously, and how having a purpose-driven life makes you inherently magnetic. Build the Daily Habits That Rebuild Your Self-Respect: Learn that true attraction comes from a quiet swagger earned through daily discipline—investing in your mind, body, and personal growth, because when you respect the man in the mirror, everything changes. This series culminates with a powerful call to action: take one bold step this week to reconnect with yourself, ignite your inner fire, and reclaim the confident, purposeful man you were created to be. Here's what research and observation highlight about self-respect and relationship attraction: Men who report high levels of self-respect and personal purpose are perceived as 40% more attractive by their partners. Engaging in consistent daily habits for personal growth (e.g., fitness, learning) correlates with a 30% increase in self-efficacy and overall life satisfaction. Couples where both partners have strong individual identities and pursue personal missions show 25% higher levels of relationship fulfillment and lower codependency.  This is me when I was 35 years old vs 50 years old → www.tinyurl.com/larry35vs50 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/21days www.thedadedge.com/friday214 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind  

We welcome back former cohost and fan favorite Gaye Christmus to talk about fostering intimacy in your marriage during the summer months—both the challenges and the opportunities. Sponsor Does your husband want sex more than you do? Or are you the one who is more interested? Preorder Sexual Desire Differences: Understanding and Navigating a Mismatch in the Sheets now! The masterclass will arrive on or around July 1, 2025. From the Bible It was you who set all the boundaries of the earth; you made both summer and winter. Psalm 74:17 Resources The Healthy Life Toolbox - Gaye Christmus's active website 10 Ways to Actually Relax and Enjoy Your Summer Vacation | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 6 Simple Ways to Slow Down this Summer | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 7 Tips for Having Sex at the Parents' House - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Ways "Hotel Sex" Can Boost Your Marriage | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. 29 Fun and Sexy Things to Do with Your Spouse this Summer | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. SEX and the BEACH • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Portable Outdoor Blanket with Waterproof/Sandproof Bottom | Amazon 10 Ways to Keep Cool While Heating It Up This Summer - Hot, Holy & Humorous What Do Children Need This Summer (It May Not Be What You Think!) | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Worship the Lord. Make Love with Your Spouse. – Intimacy in Marriage (Julie Sibert) Men think they're doing their share of housework. They're not. | The Week DREAMCARE Bamboo Sheets Set | Amazon How to Feel Sexy this Summer - and Why It's Worth the Effort! | Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Strong Wives - Bonny Burns's website Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor's website Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker's website Gaye's Lipstick: Cover Girl 325 | Amazon Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives And if you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week, Jake and Bob are joined by John Eldredge, president of Wild at Heart, to discuss what authentic discipleship looks like in a distracted digital age. They explore the subtle ways constant connectivity and information overload can erode our spiritual focus, hinder intimacy with God, and ultimately fragment our souls. John also shares stories and insights from his own journey, highlights how unchecked busyness can mask deeper wounds or spiritual emptiness, and encourages listeners, with practical advice, to seek genuine communion with Jesus for true restoration.   Key Points: A true disciple is someone who has fallen in love with Jesus. This love sustains their commitment to following His commands The internet conditions people against intimacy with God. While the internet is not always be, it is important to recognize its impact on your spiritual life Intimacy with God requires intentionality and focus, especially when it comes to our phones and computers Mystery and wonder have been twisted into something negative. In reality, mystery and wonder are a beautiful part of spiritual life Jesus actively seeks to heal each fragmented part of yourself and continually invites you deeper into relationship with Him   Resources: Wild at Heart Website Wild at Heart by John Eldredge Experience Jesus. Really. by John Eldredge  The Sacred Romance by John Eldredge Beautiful Outlaw by John Eldredge A Full List of John Eldredge's Books The Pause App Pray As You Go App Healing the Whole Person Virtual Retreat (August 4-8th, 2025)   Connect with Restore the Glory:  Instagram: @restoretheglorypodcast  Twitter: @RestoreGloryPod Facebook: Restore the Glory Podcast   Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow in holiness by sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!

Do you feel stuck, dry, or disconnected in your prayer life—and don't know why? In this episode of Remnant Radio, Joshua Lewis and Michael Rowntree sit down with Jeremy Linneman, pastor and author of Pour Out Your Heart: Discovering Joy, Strength, and Intimacy with God through Prayer, to uncover the forgotten prayer practices that the modern church has left behind—and why we desperately need to recover them.Jeremy shares how his own church became a praying church, and how practices like lament, praying the Psalms, intercessory emotion, and even liturgical prayer have reshaped not only his community, but his own intimacy with God. We also explore how the Western church's pursuit of positivity has stripped prayer of honesty, grief, and depth, leaving believers spiritually malnourished.If your prayer life feels mechanical, emotionless, or shallow—this conversation could change everything.

What's a skill that can instantly improve your relationships, communication, and even your influence? In this episode, Yael talks with Caroline Fleck, a licensed psychologist and author of Validation, to unpack exactly that. Caroline explains what validation really is, how it's different from empathy or sympathy, and why it can be so powerful in both personal and professional relationships.  They walk you through how validation first gained traction in therapy, especially in dialectical behavior therapy, and Caroline shares simple techniques like attending, copying, and proposing that anyone can use. You'll get Caroline's take on the challenge of validating someone when you strongly disagree, the role of self-disclosure in connection, and how our understanding of emotions has shifted from classic microexpressions to a more nuanced view of emotional experience. If you're looking for practical ways to build better relationships and truly connect, this episode is full of insight. Listen and Learn:  What is validation? Why feeling truly seen and accepted is the key to deeper trust, love, and real connection in your life How invalidation can be toxic to your relationships and how empathy and validation actually heal them Can validation help you connect with someone even if you don't agree or relate to their situation? How accepting someone else's view first can actually boost your influence and get you heard more often The simple act of repeating exact words in conflict helps fights cool down and allows real conversations to happen Why messing up shows you're trying to truly understand, and how that keeps the connection real Why you don't have to agree with someone's whole view to validate it; just find the part that makes sense How to be open, but balanced, to create space for real connection and trust to grow Resources:  Validation: How the Skill Set That Revolutionized Psychology Will Transform Your Relationships, Increase Your Influence, and Change Your Life https://bookshop.org/a/30734/9780593541210 Visit Caroline's website: https://drcarolinefleck.com/ Connect with Caroline on social media:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolinefleck/ https://www.instagram.com/carolinefleckphd/ https://www.youtube.com/@Dr.CarolineFleck https://www.tiktok.com/@drcarolinefleck  Boogie Board Tablet on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/B551B3AA-1FD5-4BBA-AB25-58D0F67052FE?ingress=0&visitId=8be7808f-e257-437b-b72f-b8e79fd8fca9  Study on empathic effort versus accuracy How Emotions Are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett The Autistic Brain by Temple Grandin About Caroline Fleck:  Dr. Caroline Fleck is a licensed psychologist, writer, and corporate consultant who has served as a supervisor and consultant for some of the most rigorous training programs in the country, including Dr. Marsha Linehan's program at the University of Washington, the Department of Psychiatry at Stanford Medical Center, and the VA Palo Alto. She is a respected voice in psychology and has been featured in national media outlets, including The New York Times, Good Morning America, and The Huffington Post. Her new book, which we're here to discuss, is the first of its kind to make the specialized validation skills therapists master to get through to anyone available to everyone. Related Episodes: Episode 120: Use DBT Skills to Regulate Emotions and Be More Effective in Relationships with Matthew McKay Episode 241. Emotion Coaching Skills for Families with Mindy Solomon Episode 282. Toxic Positivity with Whitney Goodman Episode 397. The Mindful Path to Intimacy with James Cordova Episode 408. Connecting like a Hostage Negotiator with Gary Noesner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Learn how to have the conversations about sexual intimacy that most couples avoid and why asking the right questions can completely transform your connection in the bedroom. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning, without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today's episode: 19 Questions to Amazing Sex Marriage Guide Überlube Sexy Nightgown Lingerie Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Emily Kasriel reveals how to build powerful connections with anyone through her eight-step listening process.— YOU'LL LEARN — 1) Why every professional needs to master listening2) A demo of the listening approach3) How one question leads to deeper conversationsSubscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1069 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT EMILY — Emily Kasriel has had a distinguished career at the BBC for over two decades including roles as an award-winning journalist, editor and media executive. She developed the Deep Listening approach as a Senior Visiting Research Fellow at King's College Policy Institute in London, drawing on her experience as an accredited executive coach and workplace mediator. Previously, she's been a Visiting Fellow at Said Business School at Oxford University, and a Senior Advisor to the Skoll Foundation. An MA graduate of the University of Oxford and Syracuse University's Maxwell School of Citizenship and Public Affairs (as a Rotary International Fellow), she lives in London. An academic paper demonstrating the impact of Kasriel's Deep Listening approach has just been published (Feb 2025) by the Journal of Applied Social Psychology. • Book: Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends, and Foes―Transformational Communication, Listening, and Empathy Through an 8-Step Method • Research: “Deep Listening Training to Bridge Divides: Fostering Attitudinal Change through Intimacy and Self-Insight” with F. K. Tia Moin, Guy Itzchakov, and Netta Weinstein• LinkedIn: Emily Kasriel• Website: EmilyKasriel.com— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Research: “Silence is golden: Extended silence, deliberative mindset, and value creation in negotiation.” by Jared Curhan, et al. • Book: On Becoming A Person: A Therapist's View on Psychotherapy, Humanistic Psychology, and the Path to Personal Growth by Carl Rogers• Book: The Examined Life: How We Lose and Find Ourselves by Stephen Grosz• Book: Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman— THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Strawberry.me. Claim your $50 credit and build momentum in your career with Strawberry.me/Awesome• Quince. Get free shipping and 365-day returns on your order with Quince.com/Awesome• Plaud.ai. Use the code AWESOME and get a discount on your orderSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.