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Learning to communicate well is the cornerstone to a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, we're not taught how to communicate well and therefore make many mistakes, often without realizing it. In this new episode I discuss the top 8 communication mistakes to avoid.
In this episode, Ali speaks with Dr. James A. Simon, a leading OB-GYN and "Menopause Whisperer," about his pioneering work in sexual medicine and menopause care. Dr. Simon discusses the challenges and importance of addressing sexual health in gynecology, the evolution of hormone therapy, and the cultural barriers that often prevent open conversations about menopause and women's sexuality.The episode highlights the need for more holistic, individualized care for women, the impact of hormones on health and wellbeing, and the progress still needed in medical education and societal attitudes. Listeners will come away with a deeper understanding of menopause, hormone therapy, and the value of compassionate, open dialogue about women's health and aging.Topics also include how aging has changed over generations, why people got scared of Hormone Replacement Therapy, the prevalence and benefits of testosterone in women, the politics of hysterectomies, how Viagra was happened upon, and how GLP-1s work. FOR MORE ALI MEZEY:ALI - WebsiteALI - LinkTreeFOR MORE JAMES:IntimMedicine Website: https://intimmedicine.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@intimmedicinespecialists5815/videosFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/IntimMedicineRestore Yourself: A Woman's Guide to Reviving Her Sexual Desire and Passion for LifeBook by Dr. James A. Simon.JAMES BIO:James A. Simon, MD, CCD, MSCP, IF, FACOGDr. James A. Simon is a board-certified Ob/Gyn, and reproductive endocrinologist. He is Clinical Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at The George Washington University School of Medicine in Washington, DC. Dr. Simon also holds certifications as an AASECT-Certified Sexuality Counsellor, an ISCD-Certified Clinical Bone Densitometrist, and a Menopause Society-Certified menopause specialist. He has an active private practice, IntimMedicine Specialists® in Washington, DC focused on complicated gynecology, sexual medicine for both men and women, and menopause. Dr. Simon has received numerous awards including: “Top Washington Physicians,” “America's Top Obstetricians and Gynecologists,” “Super Doctors of Washington DC-Baltimore-Northern Virginia,” and “The Best Doctors in America.” He is the only physician to serve as President of both The Menopause Society and the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health. Nicknamed “The Menopause Whisperer,” by Washingtonian Magazine, Dr. Simon is an established researcher and author--completing more than 450 research trials, and more than 800 published articles, abstracts, chapters, and the paperback book: Restore Yourself: A Woman's Guide to Reviving Her Sexual Desire and Passion for Life. Dr. Simon loves riding the best rollercoasters in the world, collecting fountain pens and wristwatches, and freshwater fishing. He is a five-time Master Angler of Canada.hiker, dog trainer, and lover of nature.OTHER RESOURCES, LINKS AND INSPIRATIONS: ASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists)A professional organization for sexuality educators, counselors, and therapists.ISCD (International Society for Clinical Densitometry)Organization focused on bone density and skeletal health.Menopause SocietyFormerly known as the North American Menopause Society (NAMS), dedicated to promoting the health and quality of life of women through an understanding of menopause.International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH)Multidisciplinary, academic, and scientific organization dedicated to women's sexual health.Washingtonian Magazine ArticleRegional magazine that dubbed Dr. Simon "The Menopause Whisperer."Sexual Health AllianceOrganization and conference for sexual health professionals.Women's Health Initiative Hormone StudiesLandmark studies on hormone therapy in women.Menopause MeetingsAnnual conferences for menopause specialists.PremarinEstrogen medication derived from pregnant mares' urine, historically used in hormone therapy.Viagra (Sildenafil)Medication for erectile dysfunction, originally developed for high blood pressure.GLP-1 Receptor AgonistsClass of injectable medications for diabetes and weight loss (e.g., Ozempic, Wegovy).Dr. Dympna RenshawSouth African psychiatrist and pioneer in sexual medicine, especially in the context of trauma and dysfunction.Halle Berry, Kate WinsletCelebrities mentioned for their advocacy and openness about menopause.Contraception Marches (late 1960s)Historical reference to activism for access to contraception.[From time to time, a word or phrase goes wonky. Please forgive my wandering wifi.]
Relationships feel easy when things are going well—when we feel understood and everything between us feels steady. They're much harder when we're frustrated, disappointed, or misunderstood. Yet it's in those moments of friction and honest conflict that we're invited to grow—to become wiser, more grounded, and more capable of real love. In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Monica Tanner to share insights from That We Might Have Joy and explore how conflict in marriage isn't a sign that something's gone wrong, but part of the very process through which deeper intimacy and peace take shape.
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the importance of understanding Jesus as the standard for believers, particularly in relation to temptation and sin. He emphasizes that while Jesus was without sin, he experienced temptation, and this distinction is crucial for personal growth. Sathiya encourages listeners to view temptations as opportunities for self-discovery and growth, rather than sources of shame. He shares practical tips for building intimacy with God, which he believes is essential for overcoming sin and living a fulfilling life. COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY) Watch This Content In Video Format Coach Sathiya Sam Youtube Chanel Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Content (01:24) Understanding Jesus as the Standard (03:00) The Nature of Temptation vs. Sin (06:00) The Role of Temptation in Personal Growth (09:09) Jesus' Example of Intimacy with God (11:59) Practical Tips for Building Intimacy with God
In this episode of the Man on Fire podcast, David Mehler challenges high-achieving men to confront the pain they've been avoiding. He argues that what we're really running from isn't failure or success—it's suffering itself.The conversation reveals how pain management strategies like porn, food, alcohol and overwork keep us stuck and how turning toward discomfort can unlock freedom, purpose and even joy.David draws on a lesson from India, childhood wisdom and decades of working with men to illustrate why avoiding emotions prolongs them and why our deepest wounds often hide our greatest gifts.
In the journey toward healing, survivors often find that intentional practices like sober sex foster a deeper emotional and physical intimacy, essential for their trauma recovery. This emphasis on connection stands in stark contrast to much mainstream sexual messaging, which frequently excludes the necessary emotional components for true sexual well-being. Development of safe relationships is threatened when media and politics overstep their bounds, making autonomous sexual expression and recovery a constant social and personal endeavor.*This episode explores human sexuality and is intended for mature listeners.. To lay the foundation for how intimacy is the cornerstone of sexual wellbeing, Harvesting Happiness Podcast Host Lisa Cypers Kamen speaks with two authors and experts in trauma and sexuality, Dr. Stephanie Covington and Dr. Vanessa Carlisle. Discussing their co-authored book, Awaken Your Sexuality: A Guide to Connection and Intimacy after Addiction and Trauma, Dr. Covington and Dr. Carlisle explore its core principles from various viewpoints. In the book, they examine the diverse facets of human sexuality, including the issues of entitlement and control that frequently surround it. This episode is proudly sponsored by:CB Distillery—Offers natural and convenient CBD gummies and other plant-powered remedies. Visit http://cbdistillery.com/ and use promo code HHTR to get 25% off your order.and OneSkin—Offers longevity-focused skincare products designed to target skin health at the cellular level. Visit http://oneskin.cond use promo code HHTR to get 15% off your order. Like what you're hearing?WANT MORE SOUND IDEAS FOR DEEPER THINKING? Check out More Mental Fitness by Harvesting Happiness bonus content available exclusively on Substack and Medium.
Is your relationship simply surviving, or is it evolving with the woman you're becoming? In this episode, we explore how to build deeper intimacy in midlife love through clarity, courage, compassion, and shared vision. You'll learn why real intimacy requires more than just time together, how to see this time as an invitation to thrive in your romantic relationship, and learn some practical steps you can start using now to bring more connection, honesty, and play into your relationships. Tune in for wisdom, strategies, and a fresh perspective on rewriting love in midlife.
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Understanding Attachment Theory & Its Impact on Relationships and Sexuality In this episode, host Eve welcomes Bev Mitelman , an expert in attachment theory, to discuss how our childhood experiences shape our attachment styles and influence our romantic relationships, sexuality, and even our workplace dynamics. The conversation covers: The basics of attachment theory The four main attachment styles (secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, fearful-avoidant) How these styles develop and can change over time The impact of attachment on emotional regulation, communication, and intimacy Breaking generational trauma and fostering secure attachment in children Guest Contact Details: Bev Mitelman Instagram : https://instagram.com/securelyloved Website : https://securelyloved.com/ Connect with Eve & Explore More Join the Community on Patreon Get exclusive content, early episode access, and the chance to ask Eve your burning questions. https://www.patreon.com/c/PleaseMePodcast Check Out Eve's Award-Nominated Website Explore resources, coaching, podcast episodes, and more. https://pleaseme.online/ Read Eve's Sex & Intimacy Column in ASN Lifestyle Magazine Smart, sexy, and real talk—every month. https://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com/subscribe Subscribe to the Weekly Turn Ons Newsletter Your dose of pleasure-focused, shame-free sex education—straight to your inbox. https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Book a Session with Eve (Coaching or Pelvic Health PT) Let's work together—virtually or in person. https://calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/coaching-virtual-session Talk Directly with Eve on the OWWLL App Need quick advice or a real-time convo? Use code EH576472 for a free call! Download the Owwll app on your phone and call. Special Note: A magnitude 6.9 earthquake recently shook Cebu, Philippines, causing significant damage in North Cebu, which has now been declared a state of calamity. Please consider supporting the affected communities: Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/AngatCebuBPO Email : angatcebubpo@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
You know that feeling when a simple conversation spirals into the same fight you've had a hundred times before.It's not about the dishes or the money. It's about safety, disconnection, and your nervous system trying to protect you.In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open up about how to recognize when your nervous systems are running the show and how to repair and reconnect when it happens. What You'll Hear in This Episode:What is the real reason behind recurring fights, and why it's rarely about what you thinkHow the nervous system drives reactivity, defensiveness, and shutdown in moments of conflictWhat is the hidden cost of unresolved arguments, and how do they quietly erode intimacy and trustHow does the shift from blame to curiosity look like, and how does that one change transform conflict into connectionWhat are the practical tools for regulation and repair so you can anchor yourself and your partner in safetyWhy retreats work when nothing else has and how new environments accelerate healing and intimacy If you're ready to stop fighting the same fight and start feeling safe, seen, and connected again, this episode is your roadmap back to love. REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP COUPLE RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.Here's what you'll experience:Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasurePractices that make sex less about performance and more about playSpace to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own wayThe safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expandsThis isn't about adding “spice.” It's about remembering how good it feels to choose each other… body, heart, and soul.Only 5 couples. Rooms are filling first-come, first-served (GeoDomes or cottage).
Beloved, No doubt. We all long for INTIMACY. We long for something we often can't name or even identify. We look at our communities and family and it's a painful reminders of humanity's tendency to drift toward division and having to be right.TO SEE WITH SPIRITS EYES - the most robust and incredible breath of life is having a beginners mind. Today - I open a gateway for feeling that longing of love we long for.Space with a beginners mind and to be inspired to reclaim self empowerment.The Light Between Oracle (STEP by STEP TUTORIAL) is HERE.
Learn about how adventures beyond the bedroom, new locations, can strengthen your pillars of intimacy and create lasting memories. | “Adventure is worthwhile in itself.” —Amelia Earhart Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What do you do when intimacy and connection in your marriage start to fade? How can you rekindle the spark, or better yet, keep it burning strong? In this episode, we talk about practical and biblical ways to nurture intimacy in all its forms. When you intentionally protect and prioritize closeness with your spouse, you not only build a marriage you truly enjoy, but you also guard your relationship against the dangers of emotional affairs. Episode Highlights: Identify the different types of intimacy shared within marriage. The wholeness of your marriage matters. All forms of intimacy must be invested in. Boundaries keep your marriage protected. Quotes from this episode: Your sex life is a thermometer, not a thermostat—it reflects the health of your relationship, but it can't set it. When couples neglect emotional and spiritual intimacy, their physical relationship becomes hollow—a beautiful house with no foundation. Sooner or later, the cracks will show. Without emotional intimacy, sex loses its power to truly bond you together. Without spiritual intimacy, you miss God's vision for marriage—a reflection of Christ and the Church. If you wouldn't say, do, or share it with your spouse present, don't do it. That's your boundary—protect it fiercely. If you have nothing to hide, living transparently should be easy—openness is the glue of trust in marriage. Couple's Conversation Guide: When you think about intimacy in your marriage, which type (physical, emotional, spiritual, or relational closeness) feels the strongest right now? Which could use more attention? How do you personally feel most connected to me—through words, actions, time together, or something else? What boundaries do we need to set (personally and as a couple) to guard our marriage against the threat of emotional affairs? What's one thing you'd love for us to do together that would bring more joy, fun, or connection into our marriage? Mentioned in this Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! This month's resource targets all the major pain points of communication: Fix Communication Breakdowns Bundle Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Fight the chaos of culture and keep your marriage grounded in Biblical truth. Check out 4 Days to Growing Gratitude in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our Fix Communication Breakdowns Bundle
In this two-part series, Dr. Alexandra will be taking you through how to take care of yourself and your relationship when your partner is struggling. Perhaps your partner is struggling with a job loss, a health diagnosis, a mental health challenge, the loss of a loved one, family drama, co-parenting with an ex, or something else entirely. Whatever it is, the theme is that there is some scenario that is taking up more of your partner's bandwidth than usual, leaving less bandwidth for you and your relationship.In this first part, Dr. Alexandra is going to be contextualizing this scenario and providing lots of validation for the struggle that comes with having a struggling partner. She is also going to discuss factors that shape how your partner's struggle impacts you. Hard things are just hard, but the ways you're getting activated in the wake of your partner's struggle also have a lot to do with your specific wounds, as well as the role you played in your family of origin. The insights shared in this episode lay the groundwork for a two-part series designed to equip you with effective coping strategies to maintain your well-being while fostering intimacy and connection, even in challenging times.You'll come away with this conversation with:A deeper understanding of what Dr. Alexandra calls the Recursive Relational Framework (RRF) and its impact on your relationship and the problem affecting the relationship.Research examples that demonstrate that your partner's struggles affect you and that how you respond can influence their outcome.Strategies for recognizing and managing your emotional triggers in response to a partner's distress.Practical tips for fostering personal growth while supporting a partner through their challenges. Resources worth mentioning from the episode:Get the FREE Family of Origin Roles Workbook: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/rolesworkbook/Family of Origin Series Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/58WZg044gbmGsL6iPNxXJy?si=bajzkF-kRxG3WL76yJL-qwTake the Family of Origin Role Quiz: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/rolesquiz/Managing Back to School Stress on MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/backtoschoolContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
It's no secret that marital intimacy in the midlife season can be challenging. Fatigue levels are high, hormones are wonky and you are spending all of your energy on your career and others. Leaving your husband and especially yourself, with the leftovers... aka... foggy fumes. If your hormonal changes are creating a chasm in the bedroom or even in those intimate conversations with your hubby... If your chronic exhaustion is keeping you from enjoying your marriage the way you want to... this episode is a must listen. No topic is ever off limits on the Treasured Wellness show and this conversation is no exception. Today, I have my friend Michelle Castro on the podcast for some real talk about marriage, intimacy and high functioning fatigue and hormonal symptoms that keep women like you exhausted and frustrated. Laugh along with us as we talk about some of the details of marital intimacy, God's design for the marriage bed and how you can be your own best advocate for your hormonal health in this midlife season. I pray this episode encourages you today! XO, Michelle Get rid of your stress induced fatigue, brain fog and belly fat in 12 weeks without dieting, deprivation and disappointment! So that you can wake feeling refreshed, have a clear mind for your day and have the energy to be fully present with your family in the evening. Book your Fatigue Freedom Breakthrough Call today! Online Supplement Dispensary Info: https://us.fullscript.com/welcome/michelle-mccoywellness ***Join our community, Fight FATIGUE over 40 with FAITH & Holistic Health, to be supported, encouraged and educated as you take back your health WITH God at the center. **Catch the Treasured Wellness Podcast on https://christianmix106.com/ AND YouTube ***DISCLAIMER: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others. Contact your own physician for any medical concerns you have. This entire disclaimer also applies to any guests or contributors to the podcast. Under no circumstances shall Treasured Wellness, LLC, guests or contributors be responsible for damages arising from the use of this podcast.
What if the fastest way to a stronger marriage isn't compromise, but better teamwork? After celebrating a number-one Amazon launch, I took a hard look at what actually helped us get there—clear roles, honest communication, and a shared commitment to play the same game on the same side. The result is a practical, story-rich guide to treating marriage like the ultimate team sport, with four moves you can use tonight.I start by reframing “opposites” as assets: the planner and the risk-taker, the night owl and the early bird, the introvert and the extrovert. Instead of fighting to be the same, I show how to deploy differences like positions on the field so your team covers more ground with less friction. Then I talk about offense and defence, who pushes the ball forward in finances, fun, and intimacy, and who protects the goal with boundaries, savings, and rest, so you can balance initiative with stability without making it personal.From there, I dig into communication that actually works: daily 20-minute huddles to align priorities, weekly date nights for team bonding, and a yearly strategy getaway to recalibrate goals. I dismantle the mind-reading myth with real scripts for clear asks, and break down why keeping score breeds rivalry while an us-vs-problem mindset restores momentum. You'll hear candid examples, from celebrating wins to handling those “seams” where balls drop and leave with a simple weekly challenge to spot, name, and thank each other's strengths.If you're ready to stop arguing about who's right and start winning together, this episode gives you the plays, the language, and the mindset to build a championship marriage. Bad Marriage Advice is now an Amazon #1 Best Seller. If you haven't gotten your copy yet, go get your copy here: https://a.co/d/4XaHmA5.And if you've gotten your copy and had a chance to look through it, do me a huge solid and go back to Amazon and leave a review here: https://www.amazon.com/review/create-review/?&asin=B0FQ46HG3S.Send us a text
In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik is joined by Dr. Kelly Casperson to candidly discuss societal perceptions and medical realities around topics such as penile size, sexual augmentation, squirting, and masturbation. Together, they debunk common myths, emphasize the importance of healthy and pleasurable sexual experiences, and highlight the value of evidence-based practices and body positivity. Listeners will gain insightful perspectives on optimizing sexual health, enhancing intimacy, and making informed choices about their bodies. Become a Member to Receive Exclusive Content: renamalik.supercast.com Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00 Penile Size Myths00:01 Injections and Augmentation00:04 Who Should Perform Procedures00:06 Medical Gatekeeping and Evidence00:09 Genital Body Image Concerns00:11 Squirting and Orgasm Diversity00:20 Improving Erections Naturally00:23 Medications vs. Supplements00:23 Masturbation and Sexual Wellbeing00:26 Intimacy, Desire, and Communication Don't forget to check out Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode Mariska and I explore the dilemma of patience with the desire for intimacy with a partner that his healing. How long must you wait and how can you support the healing, especially when they are not open to therapy?
The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic - Diamond Host What are the little things we do—often without realizing—that can completely ruin intimacy in our relationships? From skipping foreplay to bringing stress into the bedroom, there are certain habits that slowly ruin intimacy instead of building deeper connection and pleasure. Even with the best intentions, behaviors like faking orgasms, avoiding honest conversations, or focusing only on performance can ultimately ruin intimacy and leave both partners feeling disconnected. In this episode of The Pleasure Zone, Milica Jelenic explores the 10 Sexual Don'ts That Ruin Intimacy—the subtle and not-so-subtle mistakes that can derail desire and passion. You'll discover why presence is more erotic than performance, how foreplay and afterplay are just as important as “the main event,” and why consent and communication are non-negotiable if you want thriving intimacy. We'll also dive into how stress and cortisol sabotage your erotic energy, why comparing your sex life to porn or past partners is a connection killer, and the surprising ways ignoring your own body can distance you from both pleasure and your partner. Each “don't” is paired with an invitation to shift into greater awareness, playfulness, and embodied pleasure. If you've ever wondered why intimacy fades, what drains erotic energy, or how to rekindle passion in your relationship, this conversation offers both gentle truths and practical tools you can use right away. Join Milica Jelenic, Sex & Intimacy Coach, and Holistic Health Practitioner on this candid, playful, and deeply insightful episode of The Pleasure Zone as she uncovers the top "10 Sexual Don'ts That Ruin Intimacy". Grab your Yes, No, Maybe list - all about Playful Tips for Pleasure here Light From The Shadows: Enriching The Lives Of Others Inspired Choices Network Hosts Author Milica Jelenic Amazon.com – https://www.amazon.com/dp/1738249417 Amazon.ca – https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1738249417 ~ More About The Pleasure Zone ~ Milica Jelenic is a Sex & Intimacy Coach. What is pleasure? Have you ever noticed that what is pleasing to one body is not necessarily pleasing to all bodies? What if our bodies like to be pleasing and to gift pleasure to others and to receive pleasure? In this show we will explore the world of pleasure. If your body was sensing pleasure more often would your life have more ease? We start out with magical little bodies that turn on everybody. Babies are always having people come up to them and compliment them on their beauty and get really excited to be in their presence. What would the world be like if we stopped judging ourselves, our bodies and others? How much more fun, joy and pleasure is possible on this planet if we choose to be explorers? Whose ready for an adventure??? Milica Jelenic is an advocate for pleasure. In her private practice she invites clients to create life and lifestyle that offers more pleasure and vitality. Milica's intuitive ability to sense where change is possible and to question what is stuck in the target area creates a very dynamic session that promotes choice, possibility and change. Milica has impacted the lives and health of individuals both in Canada and abroad with her humor, kindness, gentleness, potency and intensity. Milica's approach is playful, fun and direct. Milica is willing to be whatever energy and space is required for the change you desire. If you are interested in receiving Milica' monthly newsletter about events, classes and information on booking private sessions send and e-mail through her website. www.milicajelenic.com/ To get more of The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic, be sure to visit the podcast page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/the-pleasure-zone-milica-jelenic/
What does a healthy relationship look and function like? That's the focus of this 7-part series. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy. In this episode, you'll learn the sixth component of healthy intimacy: Appreciation. In great relationships, appreciation is not just felt, it's verbally spoken. But it's more than saying “thank you” or “I appreciate you.” It's seeing beyond a person's mere actions, to seeing the heart, intention and motivation that produced those actions. To truly see a person and then find the words to express what you see is a profound skill that must be learned and mastered if we want great relationships. This is a very important and complicated issue, so don't miss this episode! Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show: Roy's Website: https://coachingwithroy.com Roy's Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/ Roy's 4 Books: · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K Roy's Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/ Roy's Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387. The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.
In this candid conversation, couples and sex therapist Dr. Nicole Van Ness, LMFT joins Dr. Marianne to explore how developmental trauma shapes attachment styles, body image, sexual desire, and day-to-day intimacy. Nicole explains what developmental trauma is, how it differs from or overlaps with complex PTSD, and why chronic misattunement in childhood can echo through adult relationships, stress responses, and self-regulation. You will hear practical, compassionate strategies to rebuild safety, agency, and connection in your body and with your partner. What You'll Learn Developmental trauma 101: How repeated misattunement and lack of repair in childhood influence trust, safety, and the nervous system in adulthood. Attachment and sex: How anxious and avoidant patterns can create desire pursuer–withdrawer cycles, sensitivity to rejection, and misaligned invitations for sex. Body image and pleasure: Why self-loathing, dissociation, and low interoceptive awareness can shift sex from pleasure to performance and how to return to embodied enjoyment. Masturbation as self-care: Ways self-pleasure can restore agency, support trauma recovery, and improve partnered intimacy through curiosity, consent, and pacing. Desire discrepancy: How to reframe a declined invitation as information rather than personal rejection and how to stay connected when desire levels differ. Pelvic and sexual pain: How chronic stress and hypervigilance can contribute to issues like vaginismus and pelvic floor tension and why relaxation and safety matter. Neurodivergence and RSD: Tools for identifying rejection sensitive dysphoria in the moment and naming it with your partner to reduce spirals and repair faster. Eroticism and aliveness: Gentle, stepwise practices that rebuild embodiment and pleasure, from sensing music and movement to sharing desire with a partner. Key Takeaways Trauma adaptations are creative survival strategies. They deserve respect while you learn new options that fit your current life. Pleasure requires enough safety, agency, and self-worth to receive and enjoy it. These ingredients can be rebuilt. Honest conversations about boundaries, pacing, and permission support intimacy more than duty or performance. Small, consistent body-based practices help restore interoception, reduce hypervigilance, and widen your window of tolerance during sex and affection. Gentle Practices to Try Name your nervous system state: Am I keyed up, shut down, or settled. Choose regulation first. Solo exploration with care: Treat self-pleasure like self-nurture. Slow it down. Focus on sensation, comfort, and curiosity. Low-stakes embodiment: Sway to a favorite song, notice breath, enjoy soft fabrics, or feel grass under your feet. Build from neutral to pleasant sensations. Clear invitations and exits: Ask for what you want. Offer options. Affirm that no is welcome. Agree on easy ways to pause or change course. Rejection reframe: A no is information about timing or capacity, not your worth. Validate disappointment and stay connected. Terms and Resources Mentioned Developmental Model of Couples Therapy by Pete Pearson and Ellyn Bader Complex PTSD conversations influenced by Bessel van der Kolk Codependency concepts associated with Pia Mellody Cultural touchpoints about sexuality education and agency referenced in feminist media history About Our Guest Dr. Nicole Van Ness, LMFT is a couples and sex therapist who practices virtually in Texas, California, and Florida. She integrates attachment science, nervous system education, differentiation, and sexuality counseling to help clients cultivate secure intimacy and erotic connection. She works affirmatively with diverse relationship structures and identities. Connect with Nicole: connected-couples.com Apple & Spotify. Sex & Body Image (Part 2) with Sex Therapist Dr. Nicole Van Ness, LMFT on Apple & Spotify. Work With Dr. Marianne If you want trauma-informed, neurodivergent-affirming support for eating concerns, body image, or intimacy challenges, you can work with me in therapy in California, Texas, and Washington, D.C. Learn more and schedule a free consult at drmariannemiller.com. Share the Episode If this conversation helped you, rate and review the show, share it with a friend, and subscribe so you never miss an episode.
On today's show, I discuss what it really means to be met by someone instead of simply being seen by them. This episode concludes the Intimacy vs Exposure series, exploring how fear, hunger, and repair shape the way we love, connect, and reveal ourselves. We look at the psychology of mutual risk, the balance between safety and openness, and how real intimacy becomes a living practice rather than a performance.Whether in kink or in everyday life, this conversation is about learning to stay present without losing yourself, to build connection through honesty, and to find steadiness in the spaces between.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Intimacy #Risk
In this call in podcast I respond to two fellas who were calling in for different reasons. The first one wanted help with how to work through the trauma their relationship went through. The second just wanted some guidance on how to keep learning about marriage and relationships.
In this episode, Dr. Carolyn Moyers joins Andy from TIMM Medical to talk about the real-life challenges women face with sexual desire and intimacy during perimenopause and menopause—and how partners can be supportive through it all. At TIMM Medical, they support and empower men with effective, non-surgical solutions designed to aid sexual performance—because they believe in helping couples put the spark back in their sex life.We cover:How hormonal, physical, and emotional changes affect desireWhy intimacy isn't just about sex—and how partners can show love in everyday waysHow to approach intimacy changes as a team instead of a “her” problemWhat role a partner can play in medical care or therapyPractical, pressure-free ways to stay connectedIf you've ever wondered how to help your partner understand what you're going through—or you're a man who wants to show up better for the woman you love—this is a must-listen.
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Healing isn't just about the mind or spirit, intimacy is part of the journey too. In this episode, I explore the deep connection between healing, the body, and pleasure.We'll talk about:✨ How trauma, stress, or postpartum changes can disconnect us from intimacy✨ Why body awareness through yoga and movement transforms how we experience connection✨ The power of emotional safety and communication in creating true intimacy✨ Skin-to-skin closeness as a grounding, therapeutic way to feel safe and loved✨ How embracing pleasure in and out of the bedroom becomes medicine for the soulHealing doesn't mean shutting down your desire or your connection to your partner. It means learning to embrace intimacy again, slowly, without shame and honoring your body every step of the way.
I Self Isolate ~ I don't want to get close to anyone except my husband and child. Listen to caller's personal dramas four times each week as Dr. Kenner takes your calls and questions on parenting, romance, love, family, marriage, divorce, hobbies, career, mental health - any personal issue! Call anytime, toll free 877-Dr-Kenner. Visit www.drkenner.com for more information about the show (where you can also download free chapter one of her serious relationships guidebook).
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In this Fan Mail Friday episode, recorded during our 36th-anniversary trip to Kona, Jay and I dive into your candid questions about marriage—intimacy after babies, navigating NFP, dating on a budget, perimenopause and HRT, staying close in busy seasons, and why Christ at the center changes everything. It's honest, practical, and hope-filled (heads-up: rated “M” for Marriage). Show up for your marriage—you'll be encouraged.Prime Sponsor: No matter where you live, visit the Functional Medical Institute online today to connect with Drs Mark and Michele Sherwood. Go to homeschoolhealth.com to get connected and see some of my favorites items. Use coupon code HEIDI for 20% off!Lifestone Ministries | Lifestoneministries.com/heidiShow mentions: heidistjohn.com/mentionsWebsite | heidistjohn.comSupport the show! | donorbox.org/donation-827Rumble | rumble.com/user/HeidiStJohnYoutube | youtube.com/@HeidiStJohnPodcastInstagram | @heidistjohnFacebook | Heidi St. JohnX | @heidistjohnFaith That Speaks Online CommunitySubmit your questions for Fan Mail Friday | heidistjohn.net/fanmailfriday
Writers Jake Emanuel and Willie Block talk about the “epic intimacy" they created for their fictional podcast Edge of Sleep which went on to become a book and television show.
Are you the higher drive partner and wish you could help your spouse get in the mood? If you answered yes you're going to enjoy this episode where I cover 4 things you can do and 4 things your partner can do. Be sure to listen to this one together and discuss further!
Don't just lead a group and then do a hard stop! Stay connected, develop more intentional relationships, do mission together, and keep the first things first. Launch an OC Group. They are independently run by past group participants or leaders and exist to keep the disciple-making movement an ongoing reality. How frequently groups meet are up to each facilitator. Meet monthly, bi-weekly, or whatever works best for each group. Groups are easy to execute, easy to join, and highly reproducible. Because each meeting stands alone, if you miss a meet-up, you won't be behind. Rotating facilitators is encouraged to keep these groups manageable and ongoing. Sign up to launch one and see the PDF guide here: https://ordinarymovement.com/oc-groupsOrdinary Movement is a discipleship platform that equips men and women to be disciples who make disciples. Our focus is on supporting small groups led by ordinary/everyday Christians. We have specialized discipleship tracks that center around Intimacy with Jesus, Intentional Relationships, and Multiplication. Groups are designed for individuals to easily engage in leading groups.Ready to be a disciple who makes disciples?If so, come and join us!Visit ordinarymovement.com to learn more!#discipleship #disciplemaking #disciple
Episode Notes Themes: communication issues, communication skills, emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, sex therapy, couples therapy Before you think about jumping into the bed, consider this: does your daily emotional connection also reflect that level of closeness? In this episode, we talk about why you may be accustomed to emotional chaos in your relationship - and what you can do today to start changing dysfunctional patterns. Work with Me Schedule a consult for therapy (For residents of Georgia or those who are willing to travel for an intensive): myintimacytherapist.com/hello Has the podcast helped you? Leave a review in your podcast app to send a shoutout my way!
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into a fun and eye-opening discussion: what counts as bare minimum in marriage, and what truly deserves princess or prince treatment?We go through real-life examples, giving flowers, planning surprise date nights, foot rubs, sending appreciation texts, initiating intimacy, cooking meals just because, and more, and ask each other whether each action is bare minimum or truly going above and beyond. You might be shocked by our answers!This episode isn't just about fun hypotheticals. It's a wake-up call for couples to reflect on how they show love, appreciation, and care for their spouse every day. Would your partner agree with your answers? Are you spoiling each other or just coasting along?We also explore the key to transforming your marriage: communication. Openly discussing desires, expectations, and ways to delight one another ensures both partners feel seen, cherished, and loved. Plus, we share practical questions you can ask your spouse to start this conversation, helping you become better teammates, lovers, and spouses.Whether you are newlyweds or married for decades, this episode will give you tools and insight to deepen connection, increase intimacy, and bring fun and romance back into your marriage.
Why do avoidant men struggle so much with love, vulnerability, and connection? In this video, we break down how avoidant attachment forms, why it creates barriers in relationships, and what can actually be done to move forward. Topics Covered:
Come Back to Love® Radio: Tantra, Intimacy & Healing Shame: Reclaiming Sexuality and Connection Robyn Vogel and guests Olga and Bob explore a deep conversation on Tantra, sexuality, and intimacy. They discuss the misconceptions surrounding male sexuality, the impact of shame and silence, and the limitations of performance-driven cultural narratives. Olga and Bob highlight Tantra as a holistic path that integrates body, mind, spirit, and emotions, offering individuals and couples tools to experience deeper intimacy, self-love, and connection. Both guests share personal journeys into Tantra, emphasizing the importance of solo practice, communication, and creating sacred space in relationships. Topics Covered: Challenges in men's sexual health and the impact of shame and silence The influence of pornography and cultural conditioning on intimacy Tantra as a holistic approach to love, weaving mind, body, spirit, and sexuality Personal journeys into Tantra and its transformative effects Practical practices: breath, touch, sound, and creating sacred space Self-love as the foundation for deeper connection with others BIO: Olga Ribble is a Certified Skydancing Tantra Presenter, intimacy coach, and founder of programs dedicated to supporting men's sexual health and relationship fulfillment. She has trained with world-renowned teachers including Margot Anand, Charles Muir, and Mantak Chia, blending ancient tantric wisdom with modern scientific research. With expertise in communication, intimacy skills, and men's wellness, Olga guides individuals and couples toward deeper emotional, physical, and spiritual connection. She is the creator of the LONG LASTING LOVER private coaching program for men experiencing sexual performance concerns and TANTRA FOR THE MODERN MAN, a live online 6-week program for all men begins October 19th. Bob Brown is a teacher, coach, and lifelong student of Tantra with over a decade of study under renowned teachers worldwide. His journey has shaped a deep understanding of masculinity and transformed his approach to life, intimacy, and relationships. Specializing in practices that cultivate masculine potency, deepen connection, and enhance pleasure, Bob brings a holistic perspective to personal and relational growth. He now shares these teachings with men and couples alongside his partner, Olga, helping others create more fulfilling and conscious partnerships. Website: https://tantraforthemodernman.com Free gift link: https://nordicgoddesstantra.com/upcoming-events-page/ INTRODUCTION TO TANTRA FOR THE MODERN MAN – FREE One-Hour class. October 4th, Saturday 12:00 noon Eastern Time: https://bit.ly/47BzrdS October 15th, Wednesday 8:00 pm Eastern Time: http://bit.ly/4mR5JGm TANTRA FOR THE MODERN MAN 6-weeks program begins: October 19th, Sunday at 12:00 noon Eastern Time: http://bit.ly/46Z9WTD Learn more about Robyn here: https://www.comebacktolove.com
Let's be honest: most of us didn't grow up with clear, honest, or healthy conversations about intimacy. The result? Shame, confusion, and wounds that often follow us into dating, engagement, and marriage.That's why we're so grateful for our guest, Ellen Holloway. Ellen is a Catholic marriage and intimacy educator who helps women deepen connection in their marriages while staying grounded in Church teaching. She's the creator of courses like The Orgasm Course for Catholic Women and The Catholic Sex Positions Guide, which provide practical, respectful, and fully Catholic support for growing in love and desire. Through her company, Vines in Full Bloom, Ellen equips Catholic women to embrace God's design for love, intimacy, and pleasure in marriage. She's also the host of the Charting Toward Intimacy podcast.In this conversation, Ellen helps us peel back the myths, look at God's design for intimacy, and discover how it's meant to be sacred, healing, and good. You'll leave with practical tools, a lighter heart, and maybe even a sense of relief: you're not broken, and you're not alone.✨Explore Ellen's Resources For the single gals: In His Image - A Catholic Young Woman's Guide to the Body and Sex is a transformative course designed exclusively for young Catholic women seeking a profound understanding of their bodies and relationships in alignment with their faith.For the soon-to-be-married gals: Free foreplay foundations course Catholic Sex Positions GuideHealing painful sexOrgasm courseExplore Ellen's podcast: Charting Towards Intimacy✨✨✨ Want to take what you're hearing here even deeper? Our 3 most-loved workshops are always available—whether you want to untangle old patterns, clear the mental mess, or finally let Jesus meet you in what's been heavy. Start with one… or grab all three. [
Emmanuel and Aaron explore the 4 S's from Intimacy with the Almighty—Simplicity, Silence, Solitude, Surrender—with practical steps you can live this week. Scripture-centered, Indigenous + Christ-focused, and honest about busyness, burnout, and learning to be still before God.
Dr. Edith Davis takes listeners beyond the fundamental laws of faith and confession to reveal the essential secret to walking in the full manifestation of God's finished work: Intimacy. While fundamental principles like confession, forgiveness, and avoiding offense are necessary "guardrails," they are not the "end game." Dr. Davis challenges listeners to move from simple knowledge and religious activity to a profound, personal relationship with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Key Components for Manifestation: -- It's a Finished Work, But People Are Still Perishing: God has already provided everything, but a lack of intimacy and knowledge is causing God's people to die "like mere men." -- Intimacy is the Essence: A "real relationship" with God is the missing link. This is not just "devotional time," but a devoted life where the Lord is the first thought in the morning and the last at night. -- Jesus Looks for Fruit, Not Just Gifts: Spiritual gifts (preaching, teaching, healing) are important, but Jesus judges by the fruits of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, etc.). Principles work for anyone, but only a relationship results in God's endorsement. -- The Hebrew Word Yada: In the warning "Depart from me, for I never knew you," the word "knew" is the intimate Hebrew word yada, emphasizing that a lack of intimacy is treated as "iniquity." -- Faithfulness and Stewardship: Dr. Davis ties intimacy to faithfulness, highlighting that God trusts those who are good stewards of their resources (time, money, talents) and who are willing to use their wealth for the Kingdom's commission of making disciples worldwide. Scriptures for Further Study -- Proverbs 18:21 (Life and death is in the power of the tongue) -- Matthew 7:20 (By their fruits you will know them) -- Matthew 6:33 (Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness) -- Revelation 3:20 (Implied context of Jesus knocking at the door/not knowing Him) -- Matthew 25:14-30 (Parable of the Talents/Stewardship) -- Romans 10:9 (Confess with your mouth and believe in your heart) This is episode 374. +++++++ Check out my new website: https://www.enterthegloryzone.org/ MY AUDIO BOOK IS NOW AVAILABLE FOR PURCHASE You can Divorce Proof Your Marriage by understanding the Secret Keys of Love. You will come to understand that your Marriage has an enemy. You will come to understand that you are dating your future spouse representative. You will come to understand that your Marriage has the gift of Supernatural Sex. For more information about purchasing this audio book, click here: https://personalbuy.com/shopsite_sc/store/html/product8702.html
Jess Seitz, occupational therapist and vaginismus recovery specialist, of Pain-Free Intimacy joins us to talk about how wives can address sexual pain they currently have or may have in the future. Sponsor Better Help can match you to the right therapist for you. Get 10% off your first month with our discount code. Just head to https://betterhelp.com/4CW. From the Bible Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 I will praise You because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and I know this very well. Psalm 139:14 (HCSB) I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Psalm 27:13 (the verse J couldn't think of in the moment!) “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten— the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm— my great army that I sent among you. You will have plenty to eat, until you are full, and you will praise the name of the Lord your God, who has worked wonders for you; never again will my people be shamed." Joel 2:25–26 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32 Resources Jess's website, Pain-Free Intimacy Contact Jess for personal coaching Finding a Good Gynecologist - Hot, Holy & Humorous Foreplay – Webinar Shop for Lube at a Christian-based Marital Aid Store | Married Dance How Menopause Impacts Your Sex Life - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 118: Sex Is for You Too The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. Episode 168: Learn About Your Body (Quickie) Episode 224: Integrating Body & Soul, with Francie Winslow When It Hurts: Maintaining Sexual Intimacy While Dealing with Pain | The Forgiven Wife Episode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby Wade Is Sex for You Like Going to the Dentist? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
Kristine launches her brand-new series, Communication Mastery, with an inspiring invitation to explore how deeper, more mindful communication can transform every relationship in your life. In this series, you'll discover how to: Navigate difficult conversations without triggering defensiveness Become less reactive and more grounded in your responses Understand “separate realities” and practice greater empathy Create more powerful, connected conversations at work Lead with love in every interaction Plus, you'll learn a powerful guided imagery meditation to help you transform the way you listen and speak! Get ready to bring intimacy and closeness into all of your conversations with this illuminating series.
David Mehler dismantles the myth that men must change who they are to be happy. Instead, he invites listeners to embrace every part of themselves and learn the art of exchanging into a more authentic version. Through personal anecdotes and a powerful story, he shows how ownership and small daily choices lead to profound transformation.
If you started out creating a sexual wellness & intimacy product for men, could you do so for women too? That's the progression of Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent and its parent company, Absorption Pharmaceuticals. The company uses science to solve common sexual dysfunction issues with which millions have struggled without an adequate solution - until now. Hear the early challenges in treating premature ejaculation, the discovery of potential treatments for vulvodynia, the gender imbalance in sexual health research & organizations, and how they're addressing unmet needs in women's sexual health. Tune in to this episode to improve sexual wellness & intimacy for both women AND men. Learn more: Promescent Absorption Pharmaceuticals - Promescent LinkedIn Jeff Abraham Today's Hot Flash and other stats from: National Institutes of Health (NIH)
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Episode 113 — Need for IntimacyWhether single or married, we are created for intimacy and long for it. David & Vicki discuss howfinding intimacy in Christ ultimately, in marriage and in deep friendships is vital to thrive in life,particularly on the mission field.
What does being a gentleman mean to you? Whether you are a man or a woman, have you ever looked at what exactly are the expectations and projections you have of men and how they should act? In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with Graeme Crosskill about the return of the gentleman and opening up the space to a different possibility with the way that men and women engage with each other. What if rather than functioning from conclusions, expectations and projections, we acknowledge that men and women are different, and we actually gained the awareness of how men function and how women function, and how can we be with that together? Keys Takeaways Gaining Awareness What's Your Point Of View? What Is A Gentleman? A Never Ending Exploration Relationship Is A Choice Opening Up The Space To A Different Possibility Useful Links: The Clearing Statement explained Access Consciousness Website Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram Follow Simone Milasas Simone's Website Simone's Instagram Simone's Facebook Simone's YouTube Simone's Telegram Simone's Contact Email Follow Graeme Crosskill Graeme's Website Graeme's Instagram Graeme's Facebook Play with Simone Milasas The Profit Club membership Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course All Upcoming Classes with Simone Past Class Recordings As Mentioned In This Episode Return of the Gentleman, by Dr. Dain Heer: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/book/return-of-the-gentleman The Gentlemen's Club, by Gary M. Douglas: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/book/the-gentlemens-club Relationships Done Different: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/micrositesfolder/relationship-done-different The Five Elements of Intimacy online with Simone Milasas: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/The-Five-Elements-of-Intimacy---Series_638910972081676663/details
Learn about some of the biggest sexual myths that are quietly sabotaging you from experiencing your extraordinary marriage. | “Most of our sexual expectations are formed not by truth, but by lies we've absorbed from our culture.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: 319: ESP (Extrasensory Perception) Foreplay to Passion Program Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What if the key to deeper intimacy lies in understanding the echoes of our past? Dr. Alexandra Solomon sits with Christine Hassler, a Master coach, podcast host, and author, to discuss how our family of origin roles shape our present connections, emphasizing the importance of inner child work and relational self-awareness. Christine shares her journey through the unhealthy patterns that surfaced in her own relationship with her partner, Stef, offering a raw look at the necessity of self-reflection in cultivating healthier dynamics.You'll come away from this episode with:A deeper understanding of how family of origin influences shape your current relationships.Practical strategies for engaging in inner child work to enhance self-awareness and relational dynamics.Insights into the importance of self-advocacy (especially as women!) and authentic communication in intimate partnerships.Perspective on how our professional roles and work offer yet another arena for us to notice and tend to old pain and create new ways of relating to ourselves and the world around us. Resources worth mentioning from the episode:Podcast - Life Coaching with Christine Hassler:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-coaching-with-christine-hassler/id1050321415Christine Hassler's The Women's Retreat in San Diego, Oct 17-19, 2025:https://christinehassler.com/womensretreat/“Managing Back to School Stress on MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/backtoschoolCouple Therapy Certification Course from PESI: http://pesi.com/dralexandraContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this episode of Gospel Spice, Stephanie Rousselle invites us to explore the theme of identity and belonging, centered on what it means to be “in Christ.” Building upon the previous episode on adoption (See Episode 409), we ponder how our sense of self is transformed and anchored by God's love, the work of Christ, and the sealing of the Holy Spirit. The Seal of the Holy Spirit: Marked as Belonging In Ephesians 1:13, Paul writes that believers are “sealed with the Holy Spirit.” Stephanie invites us to consider a seal as it was in ancient times—a stamp pressed into soft wax, leaving a permanent imprint. In this analogy, we are like the wax, transformed and marked by the very nature and authority of God Himself. This seal signifies both our identity—we are marked as God's own—and our security. Just as a sealed envelope is protected and identified by its seal, we are both set apart and protected through the Spirit. Satan may attempt to attack or tempt us, but he cannot invade what has been sealed by God. The Intimacy and Assurance of the Spirit The Holy Spirit is the real, tangible presence of God in us—a downpayment of our future inheritance with Him. Stephanie encourages us to let the Spirit guide and comfort us, reminding us of God's love, providing peace in hardship, and strengthening us with God's own power. The assurance that God delights in us isn't because of our greatness, but because of His extravagant love and the transformation He accomplishes within us. The Spirit teaches us not only of God's love for us, but enables us to truly love Him in return. Belonging and the Two Dimensions of the Gospel Paul describes our identity as involving both a vertical and horizontal dimension: our faith in Christ (vertical) and our love for one another (horizontal), forming a cross-shaped understanding of the gospel. In Christ, we belong not only to God, but also to one another as members of His body, the church. This new community is called out, sealed, and set apart for God's purposes. Seated with Christ: Rest and Purpose A powerful image throughout Ephesians is that we are “seated with Christ” (Ephesians 2:6). In the ancient temple, priests never sat because their work was unfinished. By contrast, Christ, having completed His redemptive work, sits at God's right hand. Astonishingly, we are invited to sit with Him—not striving for salvation, but resting in what He has accomplished. This gives us assurance: nothing can add or take away from our salvation. We are saved by grace, freed for good works—expressions of thanksgiving and calling, not requirements to earn favor. The “But God” Moment Paul paints the “before and after” of our lives: once alienated, separated, and without hope, “but God” intervened in mercy, bringing us near by the blood of Christ. Our past no longer defines us; our new status as beloved, adopted children of God does. Takeaway: Becoming Who You Are in Christ Paul encourages us to hunger for deeper intimacy with God and to rest in the truth that our core identity is found in Christ, sealed by the Spirit, and expressed in loving Him and others. Our calling and purpose flow from being secure in this identity. As Stephanie reminds us, nothing beats knowing Christ and growing daily into the fullness of who we are in Him. ----- IDENTITY IN THE BATTLE WORKBOOK ------ You have the option to go beyond listening to this series, and to participate actively. This exclusive Gospel Spice Ministries resource is available at gospelspice.com/identity . You will receive a downloadable, printable workbook containing listening guide for each of the 6 episodes in this series, space for note taking, and discussion questions if you want to do this study with a friend! 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