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My name is Ryan Horn and I'm on a journey to become an Extraordinary Husband. Follow me as I share all of the successes, failures and secrets I learn along the way.

Ryan Horn

  • Jan 11, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
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056: Avoid These Common Mistakes

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2020 10:10


Part 2, Ryan continues listing out the most common limiting beliefs that hold husbands back from saving and transforming their marriage. He also provides solutions to these limiting beliefs by explaining the real truth. 

055: Don't Let These Limiting Beliefs Hold You Back (Part 1 of 2)

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2020 10:16


Ryan lists out the most common limiting beliefs that hold husbands back from saving and transforming their marriage. He also provides solutions to these limiting beliefs by explaining the real truth. 

054: How To Transform Your Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2020 7:31


Discover the principle I learned from Navy Seals that transformed my life and marriage. If you want to transform your marriage in 2020 this episode is a must listen.

053: Pain & Pleasure

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2019 11:43


Discover the two forces that are controlling your life and shaping your destiny moment by moment and day by day. Find out how to take control of them instead of having them control you. This is the rocket fuel you can use to launch your marriage to levels you never thought possible.

052: Cold Showers & Other Hard Things

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2019 10:01


Discover how doing hard things can make your marriage better. I talk about taking cold showers, doing hard workouts and a variety of other topics. If you want an extraordinary marriage you must be willing to put in the work necessary to make it happen.

051: Christmas Lights & Emotional Bids

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 7:23


Brittany and I put up Christmas lights outside together for the first time. Find out what I learned and why emotional bids are so important if you want to become and extraordinary husband and create the marriage of your dreams.

050: Why You Should Play Spouseology

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2019 9:29


Learn what spouseology is and why it will help you create a better marriage. It's super fun and will help you understand the way your wife thinks. We recently did this with our Ignite marriage group and they absolutely loved it.

049: What I Learned By Being Stuck In A Blizzard

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2019 10:48


Thanksgiving weekend Brittany and I traveled up to Duluth, MN to celebrate our anniversary. We ended up getting stuck there an extra day after a massive blizzard swept through the area and dropped 25" of snow and shut down highways. I learned several lessons from all of this and I share them on this episode. Also, I give a shout out to every country that has people listening to my podcast.

048: The Key To A Great Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2019 6:34


Discover the simple thing I did yesterday that made Brittany feel super loved. I'll share how you can set your marriage up for success by taking just 2 minutes a day to do this one thing.

047: The Psychology of Success

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 8:34


Learn about the 80/20 rule and what to do if you feel like you are taking 2 steps forward and 3 steps back.

046: The Tale of Two Brains

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2019 11:36


Did you know there is scientific evidence proving men and women have different brains? I'm going to give you a quick overview of the biggest differences and how you can use them to your advantage. Find out why your wife always wants to talk things through and you don't. Discover why your wife always hints at things instead of asking directly. And find out why your wife can't just not think about it.

045: How The "Point" System Works

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 9:37


Discover that your wife tracks the "points"you earn much differently than you do and how to use that to your advantage. The key is very simple and it actually takes the pressure off of always trying to come up with something super amazing to make your wife feel loved.

044: Lesson From Our IGNITE Marriage Group

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2019 5:06


Discover a very simple but effective strategy you can use immediately to make your wife feel loved. We used this at our last IGNITE Marriage Ministry Fuel night and it was awesome! Listen to this episode to learn what quick action you can take to make your marriage better.

043: Laugh Your Way To A Better Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2019 13:22


Ryan gives a recap of the marriage conference he and his wife recently attended. Learn a key difference in men and women and how it can help you avoid a lot of unnecessary conflict.

042: STOP Doing This If You Want A Great Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2019 4:02


Stop doing this one thing and your marriage will instantly get better. It's a simple but often overlooked part of communication that will help you avoid unnecessary arguments.

041: What I Discovered About Marriage By Racing A BMW M340i

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2019 11:01


Brittany and I recently went to a BMW Ultimate Driving Experience and drove the BMW M340i around a track with a pro driver coaching us. Listen to this episode to find out the racing principle that applies to your marriage.

040: The Fastest Way To Transform Your Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2019 7:39


Discover the #1 thing you can do to quickly and radically transform yourself and your marriage. It's simple, but it's not easy.

039: Simple Way To Make Your Wife Melt

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2019 12:44


Discover the super simple thing that I did to make my wife feel really loved. You can easily model my strategy and get similar if not better results.

038: Band of Brothers

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2019 10:08


No man is an island. Discover why you need a band of brothers. The well-being of your marriage and your life depends on who you have in your inner circle.

037: You Are What You Eat

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 10:27


Discover how changing your diet can dramatically change your marriage. If you want to have an extraordinary marriage you need to listen to this episode and discover the key ingredient you've probably never thought about.

036: Do You Believe?

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2019 7:10


Discover what the #1 ingredient to achieving anything great is.

O35: How a WWII Documentary Shifted My Perspective

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2019 7:35


Listen to this episode to hear how watching a WWII documentary shifted my perspective and made me stop feeling sorry for myself.

034: The Building Blocks of Our Life

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2019 12:18


Find out why I believe habits are the building blocks to not only an extraordinary marriage but also an extraordinary life.

033: Mindset Matters

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2019 6:31


Find out why your mindset matters and what I learned from a profound 10 second interaction someone had at a personal development conference. To become an extraordinary husband you need to have an extraordinary mindset.

032: How To Make Your Wife Feel Understood

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2019 8:23


Listen to this episode to find out how you can make your wife feel more understood. When she feels understood she will feel a lot more like you actually care about her. It will also make her feel really loved.

031: Accidental Amazing Date Night

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 6:30


Listen to this episode to find out how I created an amazing date night by accident and how you can do the same thing with almost no effort.

030: How I Handled Being Late

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2019 13:35


Discover what I did when Brittany was running super behind for a photo shoot we had scheduled.

029: Frying Bacon For My Wife

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2019 11:27


Find out what frying bacon has to do with my wife and our marriage. Also discover a major key to a happy marriage in the long term.

028: I Shocked My Wife in a Good Way...

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2019 12:04


Listen to this episode to find out what I did to shock my wife in a good way and why you should do it too. In this episode I challenge you to stop reacting to everything and start being more intentional with your behavior.

027: Mini Morning Routine For Massive Results

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2019 6:03


Listen to the full episode to find out the 2 minute morning routine I added to one of my coaching client's mornings to create massive impact in his marriage. It's simple, but when done every day is very effective.

026: What Happened on Sunday...

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2019 6:12


Find out what I did to make things right after Brittany and I had a big disagreement on Sunday. I decided to do something different and it worked out incredibly well. Listen to the full episode to find out what I did.

025: The Truth Hurts

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2019 9:46


Self awareness is a major key to becoming an extraordinary husband and creating an extraordinary marriage. Learn what questions to ask yourself and how often you should check-in on your progress.

024: How To Build Momentum

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2019 8:19


Discover the key to quickly building momentum in any area of your life. Also HUGE announcement at the end of the podcast. I've been working really hard the last few months to put together the "14 Day Become Her Hero Challenge". Listen to the entire podcast to get all of the details.

023: How To Pray For Your Wife

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2019 6:24


99% of couples that regularly pray together stay together. Discover my super simple 2 step strategy to make praying for your wife incredibly easy.

022: It NEVER Stops

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2019 6:27


If you want an EXTRAORDINARY marriage you can never stop doing this. Also learn the 2 keys that make marriage work in the long run.

021: Choose Your Words Wisely

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2019 11:37


Discover how to bring up things you're upset or frustrated about with your wife in an assertive, less hostile and more compassionate way. Most people don't take ownership of their thoughts and feelings and instead blame, accuse or make assumptions about the other person. I will show you how to do the opposite so you can have a productive conversation about it instead of turning a mole hill into a mountain. 

020: What is your WHY?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2019 8:27


If you don't have strong enough reasons to change you never will. Discover the 2 human motivators and how to use them to get leverage on yourself. Also learn my secret motivation turbocharger strategy. This episode is a MUST listen for anyone that wants to transform their marriage.

019: How to be a Modern Day Knight

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2019 5:33


Learn the one simple chivalrous action I took when I was dating my wife that she still talks about years later. It may seem small, but it makes my wife feel loved every time I do it.

018: Ryan & Brittany Live (part 3 of 3)

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2019 18:42


Pastor Charles Karuku interviews my beautiful wife Brittany and I live in front of our church. We shared all of the highlights from our first ever live event which we hosted the day before this interview. This is filled with nuggets of gold! (Part 3 of 3)

017: Ryan & Brittany Live (part 2 of 3)

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2019 18:24


Pastor Charles Karuku interviews my beautiful wife Brittany and I live in front of our church. We shared all of the highlights from our first ever live event which we hosted the day before this interview. This is filled with nuggets of gold! (Part 2 of 3)

016: Ryan & Brittany Live (part 1 of 3)

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2019 17:36


Pastor Charles Karuku interviews my beautiful wife Brittany and I live in front of our church. We shared all of the highlights from our first ever live event which we hosted the day before this interview. This is filled with nuggets of gold! (Part 1 of 3)

015: Putting Your Ego Aside

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2019 9:38


2 of the most powerful words you can say in your marriage.

014: The Power of Appreciation

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2019 6:28


The simple but powerful strategy you can use to immediately strengthen your marriage.

013: Dating Your Wife

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2019 16:53


The importance of continuing to date your wife after you get married and a quick and easy way to make planning your dates stress free.

012: The 30 Second Rule

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2019 16:56


A very simple rule you can start using immediately to make your wife feel more beautiful and more loved.

011: The Rating System

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2019 4:10


The quick and easy way to solve or avoid disagreements with your wife.

010: The 2mm shift

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2019 7:55


Find out the easy and fun things my wife and I do every day to strengthen our marriage.

009: The 4 Levels of Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2019 7:07


Learn which level your marriage is currently in and how to go from where you are to where you want to be.

008: Emotional Security vs. Financial Security

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2019 8:37


What does your wife really mean when she says she wants security? The answer is not what you think and it can transform your relationship 

007: Why Guy Time is Important

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2019 8:34


Learn Ryan’s favorite way to hang out with the guys and why it’s important and healthy to spend time away from your wife.

006: Your Relationship Vision

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2019 8:34


How to quickly and easily create a 2019 relationship vision.

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