How to be Popular

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How to be Popular is where ordinary people like you, learn everyday tips on growing your influence in your community. The founder & host Cj The Connect is a 25-year-old entrepreneur that popular for his ability to connect with people. This podcast was build to provide insight on relationships, perso…

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  • Jul 16, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
  • infrequent NEW EPISODES
  • 8m AVG DURATION
  • 21 EPISODES


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Imposter Syndrome & Breaking The Rules - Ft Lioness

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2020 29:50


On this episode, we introduce the new season of H2BP by speaking to Lioness an international rapper and doctor who juggles her music and career with ease. Lioness shares on how she deals with pressure, imposter syndrome and all the other things no one tells you about being popular. Hope you enjoy it!

Instant Fame & The Things Nobody Tells You - with Selma Kamanya - Miss Namibia 2018

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2019 21:02


Everybody who wants to become famous, wants to get there as fast as possible. But what do we know about *Instant Fame* and what is the industry no telling us about the process? For this episode I am joined by Miss Namibia 2018 Selma Kamanya. We spoke about things to look out for when chasing your dreams and how to stay grounded when you reach them. Hope you enjoy it! And remember to #TakeTheShot

The Art of Fitting In and Standing Out | with Mohammed Shehu

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2019 25:39


Fitting in VS Standing out! This subject always complexed me when ever I thought about. For the first Episode of Season 2 of the podcast, I asked industry expert Mohammed Shehu to join the show and break down the characteristics of belonging to group while still having a strong enough character to stand out, no matter who is in the room. In this episode we speak about linkedIn, influence in your circle, girls, and first impressions. Enjoy!

3 Ways to Grow Your Social Equity

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2018 10:52


In this Podcast I speak about 3 ways the average person can grow their social equity in their friend groups.

Why you only get 56 likes & Why you shouldn’t care

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2018 6:41


My first podcast in a while. Getting back to the basis of being popular in 2018. Social Media

The One Take Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2018 4:58


I’m probably gonna regret this one later...... but worth a try :)

Being A High Value Person

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2018 4:59


What is a High Value Person? The media pants one picture, and society paints another. A HVP is someone that always gives the most even when it doesn’t make sense

10 Secs You’ll Never Get Back⌛️

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2018 4:52


A first impression is made of 10 seconds you’ll never get back. It’s up to you if those 10 seconds work for you or against you. Be interesting, be brave and live life!

Insta Secrets I wish I knew

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2018 5:00


If you’re trying to build a personal brand online where do you start? What happens if Instagram shuts down tomorrow what does that mean for you as an influencer? I wish I knew all of this before I started my journey

Flattery is fake

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2018 4:53


This is about reaching out to people that get so much attention it’s scary. The idea is to be genuine and show appreciation not flattery.

The ROI on things with no ROI

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2018 4:31


Some of the things we do may not make sense, but they just might be things that are keeping you together. The ROI on the fluff in your life might be more than you think.

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2017 4:59


This is a short segment Iv been working on for a while. It’s all about what happens when you live inside your comfort zone. No growth, no satisfaction comes from your comfort zone.

The Reason Trump is President

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2017 4:56


In this segment we cover the power of attention and how it’s the worlds best currency right now. It’s so powerful that it’s probably the reason Donald Trump won the election.

Assholes Live Forever!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2017 4:56


Why are Assholes always so popular? How do they always get what they want ? In this segment I look at the social benefits of being an asshole and how one can achieve the same as an average person

Patience shapes relationships⏳

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2017 4:20


In this segment we speak about how patience can make anyone unforgettable. Consistency and Follow ups are the keys to any relationship.

Who you know VS What you know

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2017 4:59


In this segment I argued what's more information between who you know and what you know. They are both important and I explain how to take advantage of them simultaneously ☝

How Models Make Things Happen!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2017 4:59


In this segment I have a 5 min conversation with an International Model friend and we discuss the importance of networking as a Model ☝

Self Awareness Is EVERYTHING

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2017 4:54


Knowing what your strengths are is the best thing you can do to start building the life you imagine for yourself. In this segment I speak about focusing on self awareness as key for growth

Why No One Remembers Your name

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2017 4:52


Everyone has experiences that moment when you meet someone for the second time and they have no idea who you are. In this segment I give tools to stop that from happening.

The Power of Copy & Pasting

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2017 4:56


We all like people that are more like us. Here I explain how to use that to build influence.

My introduction to influence

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2017 2:23


My Obsession With Influence

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