M.O.B.B TALK

There is a club that is growing in numbers at a very rapid rate. There is not need to complete an application, pay a membership fee or be subjected to an interview. Those that are members were chosen and made members against their will. Do you think this sounds appealing? Would you like to become a member? Let's talk about it on M.O.B.B Talk.

We all have heard the old saying "sweep around your own front porch before you come to mine" or "if you live in a glass house, you shouldn't throw stones". In short these sayings tell us that we must fix our own issues before we begin the pursuit of fixing the issues of others. This episode discusses how the Black women is the most undervalued and most disrespected individuals not only in this country but also amongst our own.

We all know the controversy of the 'n' word, depending on the ending, the intent can be changed. In an attempt to take lemons and make lemonade, the 'n' word is used by some in the Black community as a term of endearment. In the same vain, we know that Black women have been objectified and sexualized for centuries. Today celebrities attempt to take that which has historically had negative connotations and have attempted to turn this hypersexuality into women's empowerment. Let's talk about it on M.O.B.B Talk.

The last part of this discussion brings everything full circle connecting the dots between our ancestors and issues affecting us today.

We continue the conversation on how the role of the African American in this country continues to change but must continue to understand and honor the past in order to be the change we want to see.

Joined by special guests, Part I of this episode begins where it all started. We discuss the history of the system of racism and the tactics used to label us as an inferior race.

Speaking from my heart in light of the recent passing of Chadwick Boseman I would like to honor his life as he lived a life of purpose and driving toward his destiny. Rest in Heaven Chadwick Boseman.

Just like Lady Liberty had the scales of justice, we have the scales of parenting. Everyday we attempt to masterfully maintain balance, but the world's issues and our own issues can tip the scales. Let's get deep on M.O.B.B Talk!

Remember Peter Pan, he never wanted to grow up. We are seeing generations of Black boys and men that don't want to grow up. They believe that their chronological age makes them a man; however their lives do not live up to the expectations of what being a man should be. How has history, family construct and system racism created a generation of 'man boys'. Let's find out on this episode of M.O.B.B Talk.

The cancel culture is a social media phenomenon that can take a single mistake and turn it into a life altering event. The expectation of perfection and to never fail is a difficult standard to live up to. Although the cancel culture is usually associated with celebrities, the cancel culture is impacting our children in detrimental ways.

A false ideology that celebrities are perfect and infallible has propelled the cancel culture. One wrong quote, video or Tweet can ruin a career. The pressure to be perfect and the scrutiny of failing is seeping into the lives of our children forcing tremendous stress and pressure to be perfect at all times. Join me next week on M.O.B.B Talk.

The bond between a mother and son creates the foundation for how our sons understand love and form relationships.

A mother's love will focus on how a son's relationship and experiences shape and mold future interactions and relationships.

As the first women our sons know and love, our influence provide the blueprint for how they will form relationships, respect for women and respect for self. It is more than what we say that molds and shapes their heart, but also what they witness in how we carry ourselves and what we allow in our relationships and interactions. These early memories and examples leave a permanent imprint on their heart.

My mind dump about all of the Civil and racial unrest we are currently experiencing.

As mothers we are tasked with not only make decisions for our life, but we are also responsible for making the decisions for our children's life. This episode is an introduction to M.O.B.B Talk and the topic of decision making as mothers.  We may not always get it right, but the decision must be made.

Welcome to M.O.B.B Talk a podcast where we discuss all things related to being a mother. Mothers of Black Boys was created out of necessity to save myself in a time where I felt the world was going crazy around me. A rose from the concrete, M.O.B.B Talk will be a forum for me to share my perspective, thoughts and feelings on what my experience is as a mother of black sons. Join me on this journey.