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This week Giovanna is joined by the incredible Jessica Brown Findlay! Jessica is an actor, perhaps best known for her role as Lady Sybil in Downton Abbey.She opens up to Gi about becoming a mum to twin boys via IVF, and the complicated feelings she experienced around her friends' pregnancies whilst struggling with her own fertility.Jessica also discusses how pregnancy affected her acting career, plus makes us all fall a little bit in love with her husband Ziggy! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode we look through the lens of some of my iconic characters. What happens when the Neurologist tries to fix an internet outage or when the Anesthesiologist tackles modern math homework? How would the Internal Medicine Doctor handle a clogged toilet? We explore these hilariously relatable scenarios while sharing their real-life experiences as parents navigating daily chaos. Takeaways: Carpool eavesdropping is a surprising parenting hack that offers insights into preteen lives without intruding on their space. Parenting challenges don't stop at work, as balancing medical careers and family life requires creativity, humor, and patience. Everyday challenges like internet outages and math homework can be hilariously reframed when imagined through the lens of medical characters. Listening is key to parenting, especially during the preteen years when kids may be reluctant to share openly. Doctors are just as human as anyone else, finding ways to laugh and learn through parenting mishaps and wins. — To Get Tickets to Wife & Death: You can visit Glaucomflecken.com/live We want to hear YOUR stories (and medical puns)! Shoot us an email and say hi! knockknockhi@human-content.com Can't get enough of us? Shucks. You can support the show on Patreon for early episode access, exclusive bonus shows, livestream hangouts, and much more! – http://www.patreon.com/glaucomflecken Also, be sure to check out the newsletter: https://glaucomflecken.com/glauc-to-me/ If you are interested in buying a book from one of our guests, check them all out here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/dr.glaucomflecken If you want more information on models I use: Anatomy Warehouse provides for the best, crafting custom anatomical products, medical simulation kits and presentation models that create a lasting educational impact. For more information go to Anatomy Warehouse DOT com. Link: Anatomy Warehouse Plus for 15% off use code: Glaucomflecken15 -- A friendly reminder from the G's and Tarsus: If you want to learn more about Demodex Blepharitis, making an appointment with your eye doctor for an eyelid exam can help you know for sure. Visit http://www.EyelidCheck.com for more information. Today's episode is brought to you by DAX Copilot from Microsoft. DAX Copilot is your AI assistant for automating clinical documentation and workflows helping you be more efficient and reduce the administrative burdens that cause us to feel overwhelmed and burnt out. To learn more about how DAX Copilot can help improve healthcare experiences for both you and your patients visit aka.ms/knockknockhi. Join 6,000 physicians nationwide who trust physician-founded PearsonRavitz with their insurance needs. Give yourself peace of mind and go to PearsonRavitz to schedule your free one-on-one consultation with a disability insurance expert. That's http://ww.pearsonravitz.com/knockknock to get more information and take the first step toward protecting your income and future. Produced by Human Content Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, Morgan DeBaun sits down with Paige Turner, a content creator and mother known for her honest conversations about the realities of parenting, the mental load mothers carry, and the importance of equitable partnerships. In this episode: 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:18 Meet Paige Turner 03:05 Paige's Viral Moment 05:17 The Cost of Childcare 11:49 Mental Load and Cognitive Labor 16:55 Navigating Parenting Roles 24:16 Understanding Resentment in Relationships 27:54 Tools and Methods for Fair Parenting 29:27 The Reality of Stay-at-Home Moms 31:32 The Impact of Social Media on Parenting 38:58 Advocating for Family-Friendly Policies 44:25 The Role of Privilege in Parenting and Politics 46:49 Staying Engaged in Political Conversations 47:50 Conclusion and Farewell In the episode, Paige shares her journey from a career in broadcast journalism to becoming a prominent voice on TikTok, where she sparks critical conversations about the challenges modern women face in balancing work and family life. The conversation explores how the mental load affects mothers, why equity in the home is important, and the societal factors at play. Morgan and Paige also examine the “tradwife” trend circulating on social media discussing the potentially problematic implications of romanticizing the social media version of this lifestyle. Throughout the episode, they reflect on the pressures social media places on women to excel in every area of life, often creating unrealistic expectations. Morgan and Paige close out the conversation by discussing the current political climate and the need to engage in conversations surrounding the politics of parenting on social media and in daily life. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern parenthood or seeking to understand the broader societal changes needed to support families. Tune in to hear Paige's insights that serve as a reminder that parenting is a shared responsibility, and change starts both at home and in the policies we advocate for! Pre-order Rewrite Your Rules: https://worksmartprogram.com/book/ More from Paige: https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisapaigeturner? https://www.instagram.com/sheisapaigeturner/ https://www.sheisapaigeturner.com/about Join the Newsletter for More Exclusive Content: https://worksmartprogram.ac-page.com/thejourneypodcast Make sure you are following Morgan's journey on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@morgandebaun?_ Visit Mormatcha.com to make a purchase. Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thejourneybymdb Produced by MicMoguls.
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What are the best hacks for enhancing your existing fitness routine? Sal Di Stefano, founder of Mind Pump, the top international fitness podcast, joins Trending with Timmerie.(1:48) Why is exercise good for the soul? What are the spiritual benefits? (16:12) Sal answers questions on: How to prioritize prayer over exercise? Exercising during pregnancy. Working out when fasting. Nutrition while nursing a baby. (29:55) Parenting a toddler? (43:44) Resources mentioned : Mind Pump Media https://www.mindpumpmedia.com/ Figure-4 Stretch https://www.avera.org/balance/wellness-and-preventive-care/one-great-exercise-seated-figure-4-stretch/ Anti Aging Hacks & Strength Training https://www.mindpumpmedia.com/ The Temperament God Gave Your Kids: Motivate, Discipline, and Love Your Children https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/the-temperament-god-gave-your-kids-motivate-discipline-and-love-your-children_art-bennett_laraine-bennett/528981/item/4894541/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=pmax_high_vol_scarce_%2410_%2450_17400876848&utm_adgroup=&utm_term=&utm_content=&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAkJO8BhCGARIsAMkswyg9w8jdwF7HUewQ42rHRZnbD4rGDyLGuqPlUpX49DSz7Aq3ZMdAOiEaAlKYEALw_wcB#idiq=4894541&edition=6911443
If all your weekend plans seem held hostage by your strong-willed child's mood, you're not alone.In this episode, I name the extra challenges you face on the weekend and specific strategies to tackle them for good, unlocking actual freedom and possibilities to be spontaneous or just enjoy each other and relax! IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:Why what we think we want isn't what we actually wantTwo goals to go into every weekend withHow to stop power struggles before they startDON'T MISS:Powerful realizations a client shared that transformed her mindset // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident
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Dr. Samantha Harte joins Something For Everybody this week. Dr. Samantha is a physical therapist, author, performing artist, podcast host and sober mom of two. In this conversation, Dr. Samantha and I explore themes of personal growth, resilience, and the journey of self-discovery. We discuss the challenges of seeking help, the impact of loss, and the importance of self-trust in parenting. We both share our experiences with mental health and how we have turned pain into purpose, emphasizing the significance of self-compassion and the lessons learned from our struggles. Finally, Samantha shares her journey into public speaking and community engagement, highlighting her commitment to making a positive impact. Timestamps: 00:00 Navigating Change and Growth 05:48 The Journey of Self-Discovery 11:58 The Impact of Loss and Resilience 18:07 The Role of Self-Trust in Parenting 24:04 The Importance of Self-Compassion 37:30 The Importance of Self-Trust 44:03 Parenting with Awareness and Intention 51:01 Navigating Shame and Self-Compassion in Parenting 01:03:00 Creating Impact Through Public Speaking and Community Events - See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://everybodyspod.com/deals/ - Shop For Everybody Use code SFE10 for 10% OFF
In this episode, my guest is Dr. Becky Kennedy, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist, renowned expert on parent-child relationships and founder of Good Inside, an educational platform for parents and parents-to-be. We discuss how to learn, embody, and teach better emotional processing, leading to healthier relationships in parenting, work, romantic partnerships and friendships. Dr. Kennedy shares practical strategies for managing guilt, building frustration tolerance, and nurturing emotional intelligence, as well as the impact of technology on emotional processing. This conversation aims to empower listeners to cultivate resilient, loving and supportive connections across all areas of life. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Wealthfront**: https://wealthfront.com/huberman Our Place: https://fromourplace.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman **This experience may not be representative of the experience of other clients of Wealthfront, and there is no guarantee that all clients will have similar experiences. Cash Account is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, Member FINRA/SIPC. The Annual Percentage Yield (“APY”) on cash deposits as of December 27, 2024, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to partner banks where they earn the variable APY. Promo terms and FDIC coverage conditions apply. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Timestamps 00:00:00 Dr. Becky Kennedy; LA Fires 00:03:13 Emotions, Parents & Kids, Information, Tools: Story; “Right to Notice” 00:11:24 Sponsors: Wealthfront & Our Place 00:14:25 Empathy, Kids & Parents 00:18:33 Sturdiness, Pilot Analogy, Tool: Parental Self-Care 00:26:34 Emotions, Rigidity, Moody vs Steady Kids, Siblings 00:32:51 Emotion Talk, Crying; Eye Rolls, Tools: Not Taking Bait; Discuss Struggle 00:39:26 Parent-Child Power Dynamics, Tools: Requests for Parent; Repair 00:48:50 Sponsors: AG1 & Joovv 00:51:39 Power & Authority, Tools: Learning More; Parent Primary Job & Safety 00:59:16 Statements of Stance, Actions vs Emotions; Values, Behaviors & Rigidity 01:05:59 Guilt, Women; Tools: “Not Guilt”, Tennis Court Analogy & Empathy 01:15:46 Sponsors: LMNT & Eight Sleep 01:18:41 Guilt, Relationships, Tool: Naming Values Directly 01:26:06 Locate Others & Values; Sturdy Leadership; Parenting & Shame 01:31:36 Egg Analogy & Boundaries; Tools: Frame Separation; Pilot & Turbulence; Safety 01:39:30 Projection, “Porous”; Tools: Gazing In vs Out, Most Generous Interpretation 01:45:51 Tools: “Soften”; Do Nothing & Difficult Situations; Proving Parenting 01:51:05 Gazing In vs Out, Scales; Self-Needs & Inconvenience 02:00:05 Stress & Story, Nervous; Relationships vs Efficiency 02:08:46 Technology, Relationships, Frustration Tolerance, Gratification 02:15:18 Slowing Down, Phones, Frustration, Capability 02:21:42 Immediate Gratification, Effort & Struggle, Dopamine 02:29:25 Confidence, Board Games, Parental Modeling 02:34:04 Ultra-Performers & Pressure, Emptiness 02:41:29 Trying Things, Unlived Dreams, Frustration Tolerance, Tool: Learning Space 02:51:08 Learning & Building Frustration Tolerance, Tantrums; Feelings & Story 03:03:00 Tool: Using Story; Shame, Punishment 03:12:55 Leadership & Storytelling, Tools: Asking Questions; Songs & Learning 03:23:21 Miss Edson, Momentum, Tool: Small First Steps 03:30:15 Tools: Parents & Starting Point 03:36:29 Good Inside, Zero-Cost Support, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, YouTube Feedback, Sponsors, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures
You guys ask the best questions! How can we encourage pastors? Should Christians be using “affirmations”? Should we celebrate my non-Christian friends adopting a baby? A mom is asking if it's ok to take a break from church for a chronically ill son, another mom is grieving her years of not serving the Lord as her son is now uninterested in following Christ and is living with his girlfriend, and a woman is struggling to be intimate with her husband while she has some physical issues. Listen in friends, I think you'll be encouraged! Show Notes: http://heidistjohn.com/blog/podcasts/affirmation-culture-parenting-regret SPONSOR: Not Consumed: Helping your family grow in faith so you are Not Consumed by life. Head to notconsumed.com/heidi to download the FREE 5 day family Bible study to build hope and purpose into your home! Use coupon code HEIDI for 15% off your entire purchase. Watch the Heidi St. John Podcast on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@HeidiStJohnPodcast Find Heidi on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/heidistjohn/ Find Heidi on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/realheidistjohn Find Heidi on X https://x.com/heidistjohn Join Heidi at Faith That Speaks https://faiththatspeaks.com/ Submit your questions for Mailbox Monday https://www.heidistjohn.net/mailboxmonday
Raising boys and girls is like raising two completely different species. They're different to parent, different to be around, yet equally fascinating. In this episode, we explore the stereotypes and doomsday narratives surrounding raising boys—and why they don't tell the full story. Boys today are often more advanced than we give them credit for, and sometimes even more emotionally in tune than their dads. As moms, one of our biggest jobs is decoding their needs and diving a little deeper into their world.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
For those that are new around here, I release bonus episodes that serve a niche part of my audience, so if this topic is something that doesn't fit what you're looking for - check out the other episodes that dropped this week OR join me back here next Tuesday for a conversation that you don't want to miss!Joining me for today's bonus episode is Dr. Pamela Ellis, also known as The Education Doctor®, to discuss her transformative work in college admissions. With decades of experience helping families navigate this often-overwhelming process, Pamela has developed strategies that prioritize finding the right college fit without breaking the bank. As an award-winning author and founder of Compass College Advisory, she's passionate about empowering both parents and teens during this critical phase of life. Together, we'll explore how intentional planning and her C.A.L.M. approach can make all the difference in achieving college success. Whether you're a parent preparing for this journey or just curious about the process, this episode offers valuable insights you won't want to miss!About Pamela |Known as The Education Doctor®, Pamela Ellis, MBA, PhD, has helped over 30,000 families navigate college admissions, ensuring teens find the right fit without overspending. Pamela is an award-winning author of the best-seller "What to Know Before They Go: College Edition," Pamela founded Compass College Advisory which has a 95% success rate in getting students into their top-choice colleges, securing an average of $75,000 in scholarships per student.Links Discussed in This Episode |Order a Copy of Minimalist Moms: Living and Parenting with SimplicityPamela's Resource: Anxious Generation by Jonathan HaidtConnect with Pamela:WebsiteCompass College AcademyBook: What to Know Before They GoWork with Me |If you've been struggling with motivation to declutter or work through bad habits that keep you stuck, I'd love to help you achieve your goals! We'll work together (locally or virtually) to discover what areas in your life are high priority to get you feeling less overwhelmed right away. For more info on my processes, fees, and availability please contact!Episode Sponsors |The Minimalist Moms Podcast would not be possible without the support of weekly sponsors. Choosing brands that I believe in is important to me. I only want to recommend brands that I believe may help you in your daily life. As always, never feel pressured into buying anything. Remember: if you don't need it, it's not a good deal!Cymbiotika: Go to Cymbiotika.com/Minimalist for 20% off your order + free shipping today Enjoy the Podcast?Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning into this podcast, then do not hesitate to write a review. You can also share this with your fellow mothers so that they can be inspired to think more and do with less. Order (or review) my book, Minimalist Moms: Living & Parenting With Simplicity.Further Questions |You can contact me through my website, find me on Instagram, Pinterest or like The Minimalist Moms Page on Facebook.Checkout the Minimalist Moms Podcast storefront for recommendations from Diane.Checkout a list of my collaborative podcasts hereOur Sponsors:* Check out Acorns: https://acornsearly.com/MINIMALIST* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MINIMALIST for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/minimalist-moms-podcast2093/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Ever felt like you can't "hear yourself think" amidst the chaos of daily life? Join Sarah and Whitney as they dive into the overwhelming experience of sensory overload that many mothers encounter daily. We discuss the impacts of constant demand, share coping strategies, and emphasize the importance of recognizing rest as a vital component of mental health and overall well-being.Follow Previa Alliance!Previa Alliance (@previaalliance_) • Instagram photos and videosKeep the questions coming by sending them to info@previaalliance.com or DM us on Instagram!
Nathalia Melo, a bikini Olympian champion, mother of two, wife, and globally recognized fitness coach shares her incredible journey from humble beginnings in Brazil to winning the first bikini Olympia in 2012. This episode dives deep into the realities of the fitness industry, transferable skills from bodybuilding to everyday life, and the importance of simplifying health and fitness. Get ready for some shocking truths and heartwarming insights on achieving sustainable success in fitness and beyond.Episode Overview:0:00 Intro/Teaser4:43 Extreme Bodybuilding Competition and Health18:17 Reevaluating Health and Fitness Approaches23:52 Holistic Approach to Health and Fitness31:27 Understanding Gentle Approaches to Health37:23 Challenging Toxic Body Positivity42:51 Parenting, Body Image, and Self-Improvement51:53 Foundational Principles of Nutrition & Movement1:07:27 Managing Expectations in Fitness Training1:15:59 Optimal Resistance Training and Meal Prep1:22:06 Simplicity in Health and NutritionResources mentioned in this episode can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/midlife-body-positivity-realistic-fitness-goals-with-nathalia-melo/--------------NOW OPEN! EVEN BETTER! PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP: Subscribe at https://estima.supercast.com/--------------A huge THANK YOU to our sponsors who make the show possible:ONESKIN - Combat collagen loss for firmer, glowing skin. Save 15% at https://oneskin.co/better with code BETTER.TIMELINE - Improve energy at the cellular level with Mitopure. Save 33% at https://timelinenutrition.com/better33 with code BETTER33.
In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face in navigating social media's impact on their children's understanding of truth and reality. As social media platforms like Instagram come under fire for their treatment of LGBTQ+ users, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of community over popularity. She provides practical tools for parents to help their kids discern truth in a digital age where misinformation is rampant. Tune in for insights on how to foster critical thinking and meaningful connections in today's cultural landscape.
Topics: Communication, Parenting, Ministry, Counseling, Teens, Transgender, Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Medications Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Marc shares his thoughts on the art of listening. My 10yo grandson is very bright and kind, but he just sits in class and doesn't do any work. How can I help a young couple at my church who are leading a ministry and The post New Life Live: January 13, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
We dissect the emotions behind each sentence of a suicide note, then address the antidote for each emotion.Thrive With Leo Coaching: If you want to improve in the areas of health, wealth and/or relationships, go to www.thrivewithleo.com to begin your journey.If you or anyone you know is considering suicide or self-harm, or is anxious, depressed, upset, or needs to talk, there are people who want to help.In the US:Crisis Text Line: Text CRISIS to 741741 for free, confidential crisis counselingThe National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 or 988The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386Outside the US:The International Association for Suicide Prevention lists a number of suicide hotlines by country. Click here to find them.
In this episode of Child Life On Call, host Katie Taylor, a certified child life specialist, shares personal experiences and practical advice on maintaining calm during your child's medical procedures. Katie recounts a traumatic incident with her daughter, emphasizing the natural parental panic response and how to manage it. She offers three key strategies: getting informed about medical procedures, finding a supportive role during the process, and taking care of your own physical and emotional needs. Katie introduces the Support Spot app as a valuable resource, providing step-by-step guides for over 50 medical procedures. This episode aims to equip parents with the tools and confidence needed to support their children effectively during medical challenges. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Story 02:30 Understanding Parental Panic 03:11 Managing Emotions During Medical Procedures 03:28 Empowering Yourself with Information 04:24 Finding a Role to Play 05:27 Taking Care of Your Needs 06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 07:53 Support Spot App and Resources 09:24 Closing Remarks When parents feel empowered, everyone wins – kids thrive and the care team excels! Links and Resources: SupportSpot Website Download SupportSpot iOS or Android 85% of users report high satisfaction, appreciating the SupportSpot app's comprehensive resources and user-friendly interface. 92% of parent users say the SupportSpot app's helped them understand medical procedures and treatment better. 80% of parents believe the SupportSpot app's has contributed to better health outcomes for their child. 73% of parent users believe the SupportSpot app's has made them feel more empowered to advocate for their child in healthcare Learn more here. Meet the host: Katie Taylor is the co-founder and CEO of Child Life On Call, a digital platform designed to provide parents, kids, and the care team with access to child life services tools and resources. She is a certified child life specialist with over 13 years of experience working in various pediatric healthcare settings. Katie is the author of the children's book, and has presented on the topics of child life and entrepreneurship, psychosocial care in the hospital, and supporting caregivers in the NICU setting both nationally and internationally. She is also the host of the Child Life On Call Podcast which features interviews with parents discussing their experiences throughout their child's medical journey. The podcast emphasizes the crucial role of child life services in enabling caregivers both at and beyond the bedside. Instagram.com/childlifeoncall Facebook.com/childlifeoncall linkedin.com/in/kfdonovan
Parenting doesn't stop at 18—it's a lifelong mission! Join Rob Rienow as he shares biblical encouragement and practical insights for parents and grandparents who have adult children who are struggling in their faith. Discover essential scriptures, key prayers, and relationship-building strategies to rekindle connection and increase your positive spiritual influence. Learn how to respond with love, grace, and boldness to the challenges of parenting adult children. Featured Resources Never Too Late: Enroucraging Faith in Your Adult Children A powerful guide packed with Scriptures and practical insights to encourage faith in your adult children: https://visionaryfam.com/parenting/nevertoolate Visionary Family Community Join families worldwide who are passionate about growing in faith and discipleship: https://visionaryfam.com/community/ Submit Your Prayer Requests Have specific concerns for your prodigal child? Email podcast@visionaryfam.com to share your pryer requests.
We walk down memory lane with two of our favorite photographers as we trace how family photo sessions have changed. Dawn Harrison & Rachael Shannon give us the scoop on what makes a great session and their favorite types of photos. There may just be a road trip to Texas for a Glamour Shot experience in our future. https://www.rachaelshannonphotography.com/
BUY THE SLOW LIVING BOOK HERE! It's a New Year and as we step into a fresh chapter, it's the perfect time to embrace new ways of living with intention. Today's episode dives into one of the cornerstones of slowed-down living—minimalism. I'm joined by Diane Boden, author, mom, and the voice behind the Minimalist Moms podcast, to explore how doing more with less can transform your life.In this episode, Diane shares her minimalist journey and practical tips to help you declutter your home and your mind. Discover how living with less can lead to more calm, happiness, and intentionality. We also tackle common challenges, like impulsive shopping habits and dealing with sentimental items, such as school papers and report cards.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why minimalism is about needing less to feel happy and fulfilledHow decluttering your home can bring a sense of calmTips to pause and rethink impulsive purchasesPractical ways to manage sentimental clutter, like school mementosJoin us for an inspiring conversation that will help you simplify your life and start the new year with clarity and purpose!Connect with Diane:https://minimalistmomspodcast.com/https://www.instagram.com/diane_boden/?hl=enGrab Diane's book Minimalist Moms: Living and Parenting with Simplicity here! Not sure where to start to declutter your home? Download Diane's free resource.Want to know more about living a slowed down life?!Simple Shortcuts to Peace Course - https://stephanieodea.com/peaceNew Year, New You Mini Challenge - https://stephanieodea.com/newyouJoin me for my LIVE Masterclass - https://stephanieodea.com/masterclass/Website - https://stephanieodea.comBlog - https://stephanieodea.com/blog/Slow Living Podcast - https://stephanieodea.com/podcastSpeaking Opportunities - https://stephanieodea.com/speaking/Coaching Opportunities - https://stephanieodea.com/coaching/Courses - https://stephanieodea.com/courses/Contact - stephanieodea.com/contact/
Today we are joined by Andy Earle. Andy is the founder of the elite ghostwriting firm Write it Great. He and his team help people with Big Ideas write books that can change the way people think. He also hosts the Talking to Teens podcast, where he interviews authors about how to have difficult conversations with teenagers. [Jan 13, 2025] 00:00 - Intro 00:19 - Intro Links - Social-Engineer.com - http://www.social-engineer.com/ - Managed Voice Phishing - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/vishing-service/ - Managed Email Phishing - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/se-phishing-service/ - Adversarial Simulations - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/social-engineering-penetration-test/ - Social-Engineer channel on SLACK - https://social-engineering-hq.slack.com/ssb - CLUTCH - http://www.pro-rock.com/ - innocentlivesfoundation.org - http://www.innocentlivesfoundation.org/ 02:36 - Andy Earle Intro 03:05 - The Path to Ghostwriting 06:14 - Talking to Teens Podcast 10:11 - Self Confrontation 14:33 - Don't Tell Me What to Do! 19:40 - Getting Ghosted 23:14 - Find Andy Earle online - Podcast: talkingtoteens.com - Website: writeitgreat.com 24:29 - Book Recommendations - The Black Swan - Nassim Nicholas Taleb - The Selfish Gene - Richard Dawkins 25:51 - Mentors - Mark Goulston 28:38 - Guest Wrap Up & Outro - www.social-engineer.com - www.innocentlivesfoundation.org
What started out as a simple cleaning up of games, turned into this very long episode of us dissecting all the things you were all banned from growing up. But apparently not only were you deprived, but the tables have turned and now you're depriving your kids of DIFFERENT THINGS! We all do it. It's just how we parents roll. But from bikinis to Cheetos to The Simpsons, we're here to listen and validate. References we make in this episode that might be helpful to have here:- Food rating app: Yuka- Album your kids might like: Safety Kids by Janeen Brady
In this episode, we'll explore some dynamics that can shape our relationships with our children. We'll start by examining the issue of rescuing—a well-intentioned but ultimately limiting approach that creates disconnection and prevents our kids from developing their own coping skills and independence. Additionally, we'll address traditional parenting practices that rely on rewards and punishments. While they might seem effective in the moment, these methods can create fear-based behavior and damage the trust between us and our children, leading to a disconnected form of communication. As we navigate these topics, we'll emphasize the importance of shifting from a “power over” mindset to one of “power with.” This means fostering collaboration and understanding instead of control, allowing for nurturing dialogues. Join me, and let's rethink our communication habits and discover ways to cultivate a more empathetic and supportive family environment.
Send us a textIn this episode of Imperfect Heroes: Insights into Parenting, DJ Stutz sits down with Diane Dempster, co-founder of Impact Parents, to discuss the challenges and joys of raising what she calls “Spicy Kids.” Diane shares her expertise on distinguishing between behaviors that are "naughty" and those rooted in neurological or developmental differences, emphasizing the importance of understanding executive function delays. Together, they explore how meeting children where they are, fostering intrinsic motivation, and encouraging self-awareness can transform parenting. DJ shares personal stories from her journey raising a neurodiverse child and fostering, offering relatable insights for parents navigating similar paths. Diane highlights the need for parents to manage their own emotions and practice self-awareness to better support their children. Don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to Imperfect Heroes so you never miss an episode!Time Stamps2:00 – DJ and Diane discuss how they define a complex kid and the unique challenges of parenting children with diverse needs.12:12 – They explore the "I do, we do, you do" approach, offering practical steps to help children develop independence in tasks.17:26 – DJ and Diane talk about the importance of understanding what motivates your child and how different children respond to different incentives.27:18 – They share insights on how “typical” behaviors in children can sometimes be misunderstood as problematic, emphasizing the need for perspective and empathy.Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Podcast: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Coaching and Resources Website:https://www.imperfectheroes.net/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheImperfectHeroesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_heroes/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Calendar Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleFind DJ's Book “Roman is Bigger” on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart.Contact Diane DempsterEmail: diane@impactparents.com Website: https://impactparents.com/ Podcast: https://impactparents.com/podcast/Twitter/X: https://x.com/ImpactParents Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: Support the showSupport the show.If you like what you hear, we would appreciate your support. Every little bit helps.https://www.buzzsprout.com/1779847/support
Southern California is on fire. It's gonna be the most devastation national disaster in US history and already the GOP and good god- fearing Christians making it worse by saying LA (So Cal) deserves it. We recap Jacques' and buddies Wayne and Anthony's NYE's gigs as well as Mike Koutrobis' (and Gianni Saltalamacchia's) Nick's Gig. Jacques also had the privilege of being at the Worcester Bravehearts / Woo Sox press conference this week where he sat with close friend, greatest voice of in-stadium host AND former CPP guest Rodney – to see announcement of Futures League game being played at Polar Park this July! Joe talks some Zelda- Jacques talks NO Application on the 25k view clip of his rescue foster Trexi in her new wheel chair – Parenting tips and … more? IG/FB: Carnivalpersonnelpodcast – TiKTok: JacquesFunny Opening: Struggle by Beyond Id (on The Stovin' Years on Spotify) Closing Song: Pepsi by Beyond Id (recorded live at WMFO Mikey D Show, on The Stovin' Years on Spotify)
If you've ever felt stuck in a loop of parenting problems that never seem to go away, this episode is for you. Today, I'm sharing a perspective shift that will change how you approach challenges—not just in parenting but in every area of your life.We're breaking down The STEAR Framework (it's a game-changer!) and diving deep into how our thoughts shape our experience of problems. I'm also getting personal, sharing reflections from my family's multi-month adventure abroad and how one emotional moment with my daughter, Becca, brought it all into focus.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The Truth About Problems: Why most problems aren't what you think they are—and how this shift can change everything.The STEAR Framework in Action: How to consciously approach challenges so you can grow and connect more deeply with your kids.Tools for Reflection: How to use your past year (or even your camera roll!) to uncover what worked, what didn't, and what to focus on in 2025.From Chaos to Calm: Practical strategies to handle common parenting “problems” like messy rooms, tantrums, or sibling squabbles with confidence.Why This Episode MattersProblems aren't just roadblocks; they're opportunities for growth—yours and your child's. Whether it's morning chaos or eye rolls at the dinner table, you'll walk away from this episode with a fresh perspective and tools to redefine what's possible in your parenting journey.Take Action This Week:List Your Problems: Write down all the “problems” in your parenting life.Separate Facts from Thoughts: Use the STEAR framework to simplify and reframe these challenges.Reflect on 2024: What worked, what didn't, and what do you want to focus on in 2025?Key Takeaways:Problems are neutral. It's not the situation but your thoughts about it that create frustration.Connection is the goal. Solving problems consciously strengthens your bond with your kids and sets the stage for a more connected family life.Every challenge is an opportunity. Whether it's a tantrum or a missed curfew, there's a chance to grow—for both you and your kids.Resources Mentioned:The STEAR Framework: A step-by-step tool to shift your perspective on problems.Follow me on Instagram @connectmethodparenting to see Becca's incredible dance compilation reel!Check out my website (https://connectmethodparenting.com) to find out when we're starting the next PIVOT round, which will dive deeper into reflection and problem-solving strategies for your best parenting year yet.Let's make 2025 the year we approach parenting with curiosity, compassion, and connection. Remember, you're doing so much better than you think you are. Now go connect your face off with your kids, and let's tackle those “problems” together.If you loved this episode, please leave a review and share it with a fellow parent. Your support means the world to me!Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podcast
Journey with us as we review TWO Bible stories, practice this month's JTJ memory verse (Exodus 34:6), and go on a quick scavenger hunt. The stories reviewed today are re-releases from season 1 in 2023. You can find the full episodes by going to season 1 and searching for "Abraham" and "Jacob Wrestles with God". If you want more detail on what happened between Abraham's story and Jacob Wrestling with God, you can find three episodes worth of stories between them in season 1 as well!
In Episode 142, Kyle and Sara, LPC's, start 2025 with the first of four podcasts where we share what we are calling our Core Four (don't know if we will stick with that or not). These are 4 parenting principles we found were crucial in helping us move away from using fear, punishment, and shame with our kids. In this first part of the series we dive into helping our listeners understand their child's developing brain and the science of interpersonal neurobiology. I know that sounds really scientific but we do our best to make this very practical and usable because it is a part of every interaction we have with our kids. This is a must listen and a vital concept that will encourage and empower every parent who wants to create a healthier family. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com.View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/what-your-kids-big-emotions-reveal-about-their-brainVisit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.Resource Website: https://www.artofraisinghumans.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comThe Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Sharing and taking turns are two different actions, and one comes before the other. Join Cindy and Alison to examine these skills and ensure you are talking with children about what they are actually doing - sharing or taking turns.
Miguel and Sonja dive into the natural ebb and flow of life's cycles, exploring how moments of sadness or uncertainty can offer clarity on what truly matters. They discuss the importance of embracing these periods as part of the human experience and share insights on how to navigate challenges with grace. By focusing on what brings joy and meaning, they reveal how to align with life's rhythm and find a deeper sense of purpose and peace. Website http://www.oppositesattractpod.com Buy Us a Coffee https://www.buymeacoffee.com/oppositepod iPhone https://tinyurl.com/s4r7f3 Social Media Links YT: https://tinyurl.com/cdmjfx6d FB: https://tinyurl.com/5y8pkkat Insta: https://tinyurl.com/3n6p68rv Twit: https://tinyurl.com/y2v8yrmj TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM83rmJFo/
Jack and Nikki take a look at dramatic and hilarious ways people have quit their jobs, judge parents based on the behavior of their children and discuss the growing trend of people fighting for the right to disconnect from their employers during personal time.
Dr. Corbin Hoornbeek, president of the University of Northwestern and Northwestern Media, talks about what it's like having three kids in their 20's, plus leading an institution that serves many who are in their early 20's. He offers counsel about how to shepherd these young adults. Jennifer Hayden Stokes, author of "The Pioneer Way," shares the story of Don Larson who God lead to create the Sunshine Nut Company to help those in poverty in Mozambique. Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here
Dad Mind Matters: Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health For Men
What would you do if your marriage was stuck in a rut of sexual disconnection and your partner refused to even discuss it?For many couples, a lack of intimacy creates growing resentment, frustration, and unhappiness. This episode offers practical advice and insights to reignite passion and connection, even when communication feels impossible.In this episode, you will:Learn actionable strategies to approach the sensitive topic of intimacy without blame or judgment.Discover how personal growth and self-awareness can transform your sexual connection.Gain tools to create a fulfilling and playful sex life, tailored to your unique relationship.Tune in now to uncover the steps to breaking through intimacy barriers and bringing joy and connection back into your relationship.To contact our guest Liannahttps://linktr.ee/blissologistliannawww.liannawaldencoaching.comMore From Dad Mind MattersIf you have a story you'd like to tell about living with a mental illness or about how you escaped the rat race that you'd like to share with my podcast listeners, please book a chat via this link. Can you help the podcast?Dear Podcast Listener, Thank you for your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do, here is the link where you can leave a tip. ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday. Just contact me via the websiteThanks again for your support, and take care of yourselfJamesTo sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HEREABOUT MEHello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad. After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I'm a much happier dad. As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health. Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with. In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link USEFUL RESOURCESFor your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His DogPlease click this...
My fourteen-year-old self had gone to bed at my usual 9pm time. Two hours later, I woke up to use the bathroom. While walking undetected past my parents darkened room, I not only heard my dad whispering, but I heard him whispering my name. It was at that unforgettable moment that I learned that my parents' bedtime routine included intercession on behalf of their three children. I had been blessed with parents whose only stated hope for me was that I would grow up to love, follow, and serve Jesus Christ. As Christian parents, our hope for our children should be the same. The good news is that parents always exercise the greatest influence on the spiritual lives of their children. God has established the home as the primary arena for spiritual nurture. This influence is effectively exercised as we entrust our children to God, which includes certain responsibilities that He has entrusted to us. Listen in all this week as we talk about how to entrust our children to God.
Here's how you can celebrate MLK full 57 Mon, 13 Jan 2025 12:35:25 +0000 viz2QrIfwNKd905k11MYnTEr537zwsA4 atlanta,mlk,mlk day,martin luther king,martin luther king day,society & culture,arts,education,kids & family,visual arts,social sciences,science,education for kids,stories for kids,parenting,government,history Jenn Hobby atlanta,mlk,mlk day,martin luther king,martin luther king day,society & culture,arts,education,kids & family,visual arts,social sciences,science,education for kids,stories for kids,parenting,government,history Here's how you can celebrate MLK Jenn doesn't want you to miss a thing! If you missed a segment, or an entire show one morning, then just download the segments you missed below! Or check us out on iTunes and subscribe there! 2022 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Society & Culture Society & Culture Society & Culture Society & Culture Society & Culture Arts Education Kids & Family Society & Culture Visual Arts Social Sciences Science Education for Kids Stories for Kids Parenting Government History False https://player.amperwavepodcasting.com?feed-link=https%3A%2F%2Frss.a
Unlocking Emotional Strength Through Attunement and Support In a recent episode of Dads with Daughters, we had the privilege of hosting Dr. Tovah Klein, an esteemed professor at Barnard and author of the insightful book Raising Resilience: How to Help Our Children Thrive in Times of Uncertainty. Our conversation centered on the vital role fathers play in nurturing resilience and emotional strength in their daughters during challenging times. By delving into the essence of resilience, Dr. Klein offers invaluable advice on how fathers can become pillars of support and emotional stability for their children. The Essence of Resilience Understanding Resilience Dr. Klein defines resilience as the ability to adapt, adjust, and be flexible in the face of life's challenges. It is a critical aspect of a child's development, enabling them to navigate adversity with the emotional backing of their parents or caregivers. Rather than shielding children from every hardship, it's crucial for fathers to allow their daughters to face small adversities, helping them build coping skills and inner strength. Attunement and Emotional Stability Attuning to Emotional Needs Dr. Klein emphasizes the importance of fathers being emotionally attuned to their children. Emotional attunement involves understanding and responding appropriately to a child's emotional cues and needs. For fathers, this means managing their personal stress and emotional states to maintain stability at home. Children require emotional availability and unconditional love to build confidence and mental health, and fathers play a pivotal role in providing this foundation. Shifting Focus and Modeling Healthy Behaviors From Work Stress to Home Serenity A key recommendation from Dr. Klein is the necessity for fathers to shift their focus away from work-related stress before engaging with their children. Modeling healthy behaviors, such as limiting screen time and prioritizing family interactions, sets an example for children to follow. Fathers should strive to be present, listen, and engage in meaningful conversations during everyday moments like car rides or bedtime, turning these instances into opportunities for connection and support. Embracing Vulnerability Teaching Through Vulnerability Dr. Klein underscores the importance of fathers displaying vulnerability. By expressing a range of emotions and acknowledging their struggles, fathers teach their daughters that it's normal to experience and cope with various feelings. This modeling helps children feel validated and understood, fostering emotional intelligence and resilience. Practical Strategies for Coping Handling Academic and Social Pressures When addressing academic struggles or peer conflicts, Dr. Klein advises fathers to listen and validate their children's feelings rather than solve every issue for them. Encouraging daughters to learn from their experiences and take pride in their achievements, even during adversity, builds their problem-solving skills and resilience. Conflict with peers is natural and can lead to stronger friendships as children learn to navigate and resolve disputes on their own. Empowering Fathers, Empowering Daughters As fathers, the role you play in your daughters' lives is immensely significant. By being emotionally attuned, modeling healthy behaviors, and embracing vulnerability, you empower your daughters to develop resilience and emotional strength. These foundational skills enable them to face life's uncertainties with confidence and adaptability. For more resources on enhancing your parenting journey, visit Dr. Klein's website tovahklein.com, and consider joining support communities like The Fatherhood Insider and the Dads with Daughters Facebook group. Together, let's raise a generation of strong, resilient young women. TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:05]: Welcome to dads with daughters. In this show, we spotlight dads, resources, and more to help you be the best dad you can be. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:16]: Welcome back to the dads with daughters podcast, where we bring you guests to be active participants in your daughters' wives, raising them to be strong, independent women. Really excited to have you back again this week. As always every week, I love being able to sit down, talk to you, work with you, and walk on this path that you're on. And I call it a path. It's a journey. We're all on it together as we're raising our daughters to be that those strong, independent women that we want them to be. And it's not always going to be easy. There's gonna be bumps in the road. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:46]: And but in the end, each and every one of us is working to try to help our children to be able to be self reliant. And one of the topics we're gonna talk about today, resilient as they get older. And every week I love being able to bring you different guests that can help you to do just that. Sometimes we have dads on. Sometimes we have others that have amazing resources that can help you to do just that. And today we've got another great guest with us today. Dr. Tovah Klein is with us today. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:17]: And Tovah is a professor at Barnard, as well as we're going as well as a author of a new book called raising resilience, How to Help Our Children Thrive in Times of Uncertainty. I'm really excited to have her on and to introduce her to you. Tovah, thanks so much for being here today. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:01:40]: Oh, thank you for having me. I'm excited to be here. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:42]: Well, I'm excited to have you here as well. Because as you heard, this podcast is all about raising strong, independent women. And part of that is being able to give our kids the keys to, well, I'm gonna say the castle in regards to helping them to be resilient in the things that they're going to come up against. And there are definitely going to be things that they're going to come up against. And there's some of those are gonna be positive. Some may be negative and some may be somewhere in between. And I'm really excited to be able to delve a little bit deeper into this book that you've put out into the world. But I think I wanna step back in time just a little bit. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:16]: And first I wanna have you define resiliency because you know, this book is called raising resilience and every person that hears that word resilience may have a different thought in their mind of what that means. And then I'd love to hear your origin story. I wanna hear why this topic and why you wanted to put all the time, passion, effort into putting this out into the world? Dr. Tovah Klein [00:02:37]: So when I think of resilience, what I really think about is the whole person, the whole child. And resilience is not like a trait or a dose or something that you say, you know, I'm 1 or I'm a 6. It's actually a part of who we raise our children to be. It's about adaptability, adjustment, flexibility. You can think of it as opening up their thinking, but it's being able to move with whatever life gives them. And as you just said, life's gonna give them good and not so good. And so, really, when we think about preparing our children for life, we love them, We do all kinds of kind of things for them, but really what we want is for them to be able to handle the hardest parts of life, and that's what we call resilience. It's a process to help them develop it, but also that adjustment, adaptability, flexibility allows them to face hurdles and shift, face hurdles and shift, knowing that they're not alone in the world. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:03:38]: They're not doing this themselves, but with originally a parent or whoever is the main caregiver, and then in life, other people who can be there for them. So that's really how I think about resilience is this dynamic piece of self that gets developed over time. Actually, I've been in the field for almost 3 decades now working first with young children and parents, and my research was always centered around young children and that really important influence of parents on them. And then as careers change, I started working with, you know, older children and parents, and that just broadened my thinking. And one day came to this sudden realization that really what parents were doing is helping children prepare for uncertainty. Like, every single day is uncertain. And I have kind of 2, I would say, areas that I'm passionate about and I've spent my life in. One is kind of everyday, normal development challenges, stressful moments. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:04:41]: And then the other piece, which I always saw as related, was working with families in traumatic situations, so either individual trauma from, you know, abuse or hurts, or fleeing a fire or a flood, but also collective trauma. So children and families after 911, I've done work now in COVID, which when I started conceptualizing the book, I had not yet, but, you know, sort of large scale traumatic events. And when I put those 2 together, I realized that the piece that happens in trauma, whether that's a severe crisis and you've just fled a hurricane and those roads washed out, or you're getting through a normal day with 3 children of different ages and you're trying to get out the door, you're always dealing with uncertainty, and it's very destabilizing. And then that what I got to is, like, oh, then what we're doing every single day in our relationship with our child, whether we know it or not, is helping them prepare for life, which is gonna unfortunately have bad things happen in it, and we want them to be able to handle. We want them to be able to people to turn to. So the book started out really about uncertainty, wrote a proposal, kind of put it aside, you know, life gets in the way, work gets in the way. Then when COVID hit, it really became very clear to me that uncertainty was here to stay, or I thought it was here to stay, and I felt like I needed to get back to this book. But when I started writing, and my contract, you know, got a contract with HarperCollins, the editors kept saying to me, you know, everything you write about is about resilience. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:06:13]: And I pushed back saying, you know, that's really a buzzword. And I'm not interested in that. I'm interested in writing a book about how do we raise decent human in writing a book about how do we raise decent human beings? What does that mean for parents? Dr. Tovah Klein [00:06:19]: What does that mean for children? And what I meant by that was children who grow up with a strong voice and ability to take care of themselves and have confidence and, equally, an ability to look to others and be kind and compassionate and aware of their community. And they said, yes, but everything you're writing about is resilience. And so I said, okay. I'm gonna take it out of that buzzword, and I'm gonna really unpack what does resilience mean, and what does that parent relationship or caregiver relationship mean in terms of raising that child because so much of this is about us as parents, and that had been the life work I've been doing is really studying and working with everyday parents to understand what we bring to this as parents, because that then drives how we see our children, how we either do or don't accept them for who they are, and children have to be accepted for who they are. And so what's the work we we must do on ourselves to understand ourselves so that we become that buffer between the world and what the world gives us and children so that there's stress, but it's not overwhelming stress for children. And that's really how this book came to be. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:07:37]: Now one of the things in the book that you talk about and that you emphasize is the role of parental attunement in building resilience. How would you say that fathers in particular can attune to their children's emotional needs during challenging times? And what specific strategies can they use to be more emotionally available? Dr. Tovah Klein [00:07:58]: Yeah. It's such an important question because, you know, as you know, as a father and a and a podcaster with fathers listening, for so long, the field of psychology didn't even know that fathers existed, or they were sort of like, oh, yeah. But we know now from experience and equally from the research that a loving parent matters and fathers matter. And so this idea of attunement, particularly when times are stressful, really means starting with self. And I think the the challenge for some dads, I think not always, but is that boys are raised into becoming men who aren't really taught or told, oh, you're supposed to feel feelings. Feelings are okay. This this is human. And so doing the work to say, oh, how am I doing? How am I feeling? Can I ground myself as a dad so that I can turn to my child and figure out what my child needs? Because often as parents, when we're upset, we go for control. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:09:00]: Right? If I'm feeling really rattled, if there's a lot of uncertainty, every parent, male, female, non binary, like, every parent who feels unsteady kind of we kind of go for, what can I control? And when you take a step back as a dad and you say, okay. I'm the one who's stressed here. How can I get a little steadier so I can turn to my child and then say, what does this child need for me to protect them right now? Not protect them by keeping everything out, but by saying, right now, we're not sure what's happening. People are getting sick and we're not sure why, but what I know is that by staying home, I'm gonna keep you safe, and we're gonna still have our meals together, and I'm gonna still put you to bed. It reassures a child that even when there's bad things going on, this parent is close to help them, and that's what children need. We always think of it in young children. Children need it across ages, for us to say I'm here for you even though this is scary or stressful. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:09:59]: So some of what you were just talking about, those emotional barriers or the walls that sometimes some men put up, it's not always easy for some men to break those down. And to be, as we've talked about on the show before, is vulnerable with those around them. And from what you just said, really, to me, what I'm hearing is the importance of being vulnerable and showing that vulnerability with your kids. Because by showing that vulnerability, it equates to allowing and providing your kids a glimpse of resiliency in many different ways. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:10:36]: Yeah. You'd summarized that very well, actually, which is we have to be vulnerable in order to say, oh, what am I feeling? And, you know, I read something recently that said being vulnerable is the opposite of cool, you know, being cool. Because being cool is kinda putting on, like, armor of some kind. Like, you know, I got this. You know, I'm a cool person. Being vulnerable says, I'm gonna show you and myself all of me. And all of me is not always parts that we're proud of or that we feel good about, but they're part of us. So right now, you're a father and something's going on in your life or in the world, you have to say, look, I'm a little scared, you know, to yourself or to a partner or to a friend. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:11:18]: I'm a little scared, but I know I have to take care of these children. So I'm gonna figure out what that's about so I can turn to my child and say, yeah. This is unknown, and we're gonna figure it out together. And it's that vulnerability that allows us to be full people. What it shows to the child is it's okay to have this range of emotions, of, you know, reactions, and that that's life. Life is not about covering up how you're feeling. Life is not about pretending. Oh, no. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:11:49]: No. No. I'm not upset. It's just the opposite. It's saying, you know, I am upset. And even if I can't do what I wanna do, I know that daddy is gonna love me even though I'm upset right now. And so when fathers model that, children go, oh, it's okay to fall down, to fail, to feel really dumb. Whatever it is, it has to be modeled for them. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:12:13]: Now also in the book, you talk a lot about how adversity can actually make children more resilient. Can you share some examples of how fathers can help their children to reframe difficult situations? And it could be something like it could be peer conflict, it could be academic struggles, it could be other aspects that they're going to run into. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:12:36]: So I think, you know, one of the biggies on the academic side is, you know, your child comes home, your daughter comes home from pick a grade and says, like, I'm just stupid. I can't do math. This is very stereotypical and yet happens all the time for girls, for adolescents and younger girls. I'm stupid. I can't do this. You know, and as a dad, you might think, oh, maybe maybe I shouldn't push her to take that harder math that she wanted to take. You know, maybe I should just say to her, oh, honey, you know, you don't have to take algebra, advanced, or whatever it is. Instead, you can say, like, yeah, that is hard, and learning is a hard process, and be there with them. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:13:15]: So some of it is listening. You know, we tend to want to problem solve. I know, there's all kinds of jokes about, you know, men and dads wanting to problem solve, but I always say, well, moms do that, too, you know, but, you know, that's sort of the stereotype of, of males. And what we don't do as parents well enough is listen. So it may be listening to your daughter really cry, scream, tear the paper up if they still have paper tests, and then say, yeah, this is there's no question this is hard. Maybe you recall a story from your own. Oh, yeah. I remember when I got to quadratic equations, and, woah, I thought I'm the dumbest person in the world, but I wasn't. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:13:54]: And it's holding them through that, allowing them to have all of those emotions, and then some sense of tomorrow might be better is what I call it. Right? So let's see how it goes tomorrow. Do you wanna talk to the teacher? Tomorrow, you're in the moment. It's like, no. You know? They just wanna vent, and you let them vent. But the next day when they go back to school, they may actually come back and say, hey. I got my test back, and I didn't do well, but I didn't do the worst. Or I got problems right. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:14:21]: I was sure I got wrong. You go, oh, really? What you learned from that? Oh, okay. And you have to have this, like, almost like a humorous distance. Right? You don't wanna say I told you so or I knew it, but you can say, yeah. You know? That's gotta feel great. So what are you thinking next time? Or if you wanna think through studying differently, let me know. And then the child builds on that. Oh, I actually didn't do as poorly on that test as I thought. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:14:48]: The dad wasn't there going, oh, it's only because you were tired. Like, we love to make excuses for our children. We either blame them, like I told you to go to bed earlier, or we make excuses. Oh, remember you weren't feeling so well. And all of that works against a child saying, I faced something. It was hard. I don't love my score in that test, but I'm actually proud of the things I did get right, and I'm gonna study a little differently next time. That's strength. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:15:14]: Fighting with friends, children do it all the time. And in fact, the data we have with younger children is that they fight more with the people they're closest to. So they don't really fight so much over, you know, building a block tower or how to organize the playground game if it's somebody they're not friends with because it's not worth their energy. But they can get into pretty heated fights with people that they're friends with or that they play with a lot, and then they come back together. Why? Because they want to. The motivation is I might have thrown you out and said I never wanna see you again or talk to you again yesterday, but today, you're my friend again. And it's even stronger because we've been through this conflict, and we've we've resolved it. And so I think as a father to know that it's not about the problem solving, but to to listen, to say, hey. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:16:09]: If you want my help, I'm here. But to recognize that you have to wait for the child to come in and say, I really do wanna play with her tomorrow. Oh, okay. Well, you know, do you want wanna think about what helped you last time with that friend and and to talk it through. And I see it all the time now with with social media and teenagers. You know, when I hear my kids or my college students, I teach at a women's college, so I have all these incredible young women. You know, that term ghosting, which was new to me in my generation probably shows, like, what? But with ghosting, it's almost like there's a brick wall. And so sometimes I say to a teenager, like, is there a way to take a step back and maybe try another day to reach that friend? Because it sounds like that really was a friend. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:16:55]: So it doesn't have to be the message is this doesn't have to be forever. And I think dads have to give that message when it's appropriate. Right? You're really heated now, but I'm wondering if in some time and initially, the the child goes, no way, but then they may come back to you and say, yeah, I was thinking about what you said. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:17:11]: You know, one of the things I was thinking about, and it kinda goes into some of the things you wrote too, was the fact that more and more you hear today about the mental health concerns in young people and the rising concerns about mental health and the struggles that young people are having. What would you say to fathers about how they can contribute to create a supportive environment at home that fosters both emotional intelligence and emotional component. You know, I say it in my book, these 5 pillars, but the first is building trust, right? That's what every father is doing with their child. They're building trust in this relationship. Like, even when things go awry between us, I'm here for you. You know, putting your child to bed at night or going into check on your teenager really can be about, boy, we had some rough spots today, and you know, I'm sorry, and I still love you. All of those disconnections that get repaired, reconnecting are really core for our children and particularly, I'm gonna say, for our girls, because they need to know conflict is part of life. That's where you get this emotional attunement, which is, yeah, we were angry before, you were really mad at me, and now we're back together, and we're good. This is part of it. You're not, like, overlooking it. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:18:40]: But I think the other piece at home is that we tend to put a lot of pressure on our children, particularly firstborns. Not always, but particularly firstborns. Right? They're our first ones. They make us a parent. You know what I'm saying? Before that first one, there was no such thing as I'm a parent. Now I'm a daddy. You might have subsequent children, but the first ones are kind of our reflection. They go out in the world, we feel great when they're doing well, and we like smile. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:19:06]: And then when they're not doing well, we're like, we feel terrible, but also, we tend to blame them. Don't do it that way. So I think for dads to really think about, when am I too hard on my child or my children, and when am I putting too much pressure on them? Because we live in a very competitive world, you know, certainly academically and just there's all this messaging about mental health, which we should be concerned about. But there's equally messaging about, there's only one way to get to the top, or if you're not at the top, you won't succeed. And it's a total lie. It's just a lie. And I feel like if every per parent, every dad could say to their child, there's lots of ways to be okay in the world. You know, some people are really great at sports. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:19:50]: Some are really great at math. Some just enjoy it. Like, we've taken the joy out of learning or doing. So I think at home to really think about, can I bring the pressure down? Can I find moments of joy together? Like, you're much better off having a dance party, if that's what your children like to do, or have a backwards dinner. This is I grew up with backwards dinners occasionally, and they were just such a joy, or can we take a different path to get to where we're going today, and who wants to map it out? And even if you get lost on the way, that's funny. That's really funny, you know. So where can you have those moments of shared joy, and then I'm gonna get back to listening. We don't listen to children. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:20:29]: They're not busy people. Dads are busy. Maybe you have work or maybe home is work. You've got a couple of kids or you've got one who's got some special needs right now and you're trying to figure those out and you're taking them to different therapists. Whatever it is, we're busy. And what gets lost is what I call the space in between, which is like getting there. You know, maybe that's in the car or it's, you know, you walk to school or to a doctor's appointment or something. In those moments, there's a lot of time to connect and listen to your child. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:20:59]: And so putting more of that in or thinking, like, do I really wanna rush through bedtime with my 8 year old? Or can I slow it down and so they go to bed 10 minutes later? Anything at home that brings down the pressure and gets parents to exhale and the dads to say, just wanna connect with you. I don't really care what you eat for dinner. I'm gonna serve it. I'm not gonna take it personally if you don't need it, and I'm gonna listen to you today. So the lighter we are with children, the better. And it also opens them up to talk more. And we say, you know, we ask them questions, they shut down. They're like, I'm not answering you, daddy. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:21:32]: But when we sit down at dinner and say something funny that happened I I'm just thinking of my husband used to sit down and he'd go like, I'm gonna tell you the funniest thing that happened today. And it would just be this, like, beat fact of some kind. Then the children would start talking because nobody asked anything of them. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:21:47]: Earlier, you talked about fathers trying to protect their kids. And I think that the word protect means different things for different men. But I guess one thing that I think that many men feel is that they need to protect their kids from hardships, from that they need to protect them from getting hurt. How can fathers reconcile that instinct with some of the approaches that you're talking about, about allowing kids to face adversity as a means of building resilience? Dr. Tovah Klein [00:22:20]: So much of this is about work on themselves. Right? Of course, we wanna protect our children. There's a part of any dad in particular because what's the function of a daddy to love a child and keep them safe? And to say, you're not gonna always be with them. You're not gonna always be there to protect them. So what can I do to help them deal with the little hurts and the smaller hurdles and the smaller adversities now is to back off and let the child deal with them? So, I'll give an example. You know, that term bully gets used a lot. Now, there are some children who really are victims to being bullied, but every child potentially is going to have meanness in their life from other children and from themselves, by the way. I think we do a disservice when we tell children that's mean, that's mean, that's mean because it scares the child. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:23:09]: Well, what if I don't like my friend today? And then am I a horrible person for telling them I don't like them? No. They're not horrible people. They may be standing up for themselves. So when we step back, and if a dad steps back and says, what's worrying me so much about my child getting hurt? Because every dad brings their full self to being a dad. And so it's really about saying, what's the really, what is the harm that I'm worried about? And usually, it's I remember how bad that was being left out, or I was terrible at athletics, which is takes in a whole other life for men than it does for women, right, because boys are supposed to be athletic. Right? So if you were that child who was left out or you were that kind of outsider peer who didn't really feel like you belonged, we then get more worried for our children, and we jump very quickly. So I think being aware of self, and that's what I call in my book, The You Factor, those are I have all these reflective questions there for dads, for moms, for anybody taking care of children. What is it that I bring? Because when we don't give children this opportunity to handle the smaller hurts, even when the child thinks they're big hurts you know, my friend wouldn't play with me today. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:24:22]: He starts young and goes all the way through adolescence and then becomes part of social media. But to say, yeah, that's really crummy. Sometimes that happens. And to have some empathic, but genuinely empathic, but also, I'm gonna sit by you, but I'm not gonna take this away. I'm not gonna march up to the school and speak to the teacher unless I hear it as a pattern and I'm really getting concerned. Or as I often say to to a parent, you know, to a dad, just check-in with the school and see what the school says, if it's a school that, you know, you're comfortable with or the counselor, you know, the the middle school or a high school counselor. But when we don't let children deal with these smaller stressors, hurts, you know, not doing as well as they wanted, not getting the teacher they wanted, but then they might actually find that teacher is not so bad. It actually strengthens children to say, hey. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:25:13]: I got through that. I figured that out, or I didn't like that teacher because she yelled more than I liked, but, actually, she was a really great teacher, and I learned to deal with the fact that she yelled a lot. That's where strength comes from, that children see people are complicated. And I think as dads, the role is to help them see, yeah, people are complicated. Maybe your friend had a bad day today. Doesn't mean she should've been like that with you, but maybe she had a bad day. Do you wanna see if tomorrow's better? Gives them a world view of, you could have a bad day, and I don't want people vilifying you, and other people also are sometimes hurtful. That doesn't mean they're hurtful all the time, and that strengthens children. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:25:53]: The other thing it does is it helps them use voice. If you never face adversity, you never have to say, hey. I don't agree with that, or you can't do that to me. And I actually think that this huge part of resilience, which is confidence and the ability to stand up for yourself, comes from learning to do it, and it starts off in smaller ways. I well, now I said I didn't wanna play basketball today, and then I basketball today, and then I finally walked away. I just said I'm not gonna play. It's a smaller way to use voice because when people are doing things to you that you don't like, we wanna be sure that our children, the daughters say, absolutely not. You can't do that to me, and not feel like I'm being a mean person. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:26:31]: We do give them double messages, particularly to girls. Be nice. Be nice. Now stand up for yourself. And I see girls getting confused with that. And it's like, well, actually, you can do both. You can be a kind, decent person, and that's not in opposition to saying no, or I don't like that, or can we talk about this. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:26:50]: So what I'm hearing you say is that there really are a lot of tensions, a lot of things that can impact a child in many different ways, whether it be familial tensions, whether it could be tensions from outside the home, whether that that are impacting the child directly, or even world events that may be causing strife, and are impacting your child, whether you like it or not, as as you're thinking about that, or how can fathers take a proactive role in addressing those external those external stressors while still being able to maintain some sense of stability? Some some sense of some sense of stability at home? Dr. Tovah Klein [00:27:36]: Yeah. I mean, that's a big question, obviously. You know, what are those stressors? But I'll start with sort of the innermost or the most intimate, which is your personal stressors. And here's your first level of uncertainty. Like, we change. You know, dads change. You might be calm at some days and a little more frantic or a lot more frantic others. So part of that is being truly in tune with self as best you can and not being hard on yourself when you're not. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:28:06]: So, oh, I'm stressed. Why am I stressed? And then what can I change? Sometimes you can. Sometimes you can't. But I find that more often than not, a dad could change something. Yeah. You know what? I keep saying that I can't bring the work stress down, but I'm gonna have to, and I'm gonna find a way, or I am gonna help ask for help. If there's a group of people who probably don't ask for help enough, it's parents, and then dads on top of that. Right? They don't say, hey. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:28:33]: Can I ask my neighbor to take my child to the bus stop or pick my child up today or, you know, I'm gonna be late for my child's band concert? Could you let her know I'm still coming? Right? So any way to turn to others for help can help. But then there's the wider world, and that's a lot of self work. I mean, there's a lot going on in the world that is scary. There's no question. And with news being 247 in in our faces, I think it's up to us as the parents. So to the dads to say, okay. I'm a news junkie. I've gotta take some of these notifications off my phone. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:29:11]: I've gotta come up with a way that when I walk in the door and I've got children now to connect to, I've gotta find a place to put my phone. And by the way, that's modeling for when your children have their own phones. It's very hard to say to children, when we walk in, we put our phones here if the dad doesn't do it, because they just call they'll call you out right away. You don't do that. So it's becoming aware of what's stressing you, what's scaring you, and how can you shift in dealing with it. It's a very intentional process. How do I get my feet planted? How do I exhale? 1, I'm just thinking of a dad I worked with for years, and and the first time he called me, he said, you know, I manage this huge group of people. He's in construction, this huge group of people, and I tell them what to do. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:29:56]: And I'm, you know, in the car driving home telling, you know, putting out fires or whatever. And then I get home and no one listens to me, and I said, can you put the phone down, like, a mile away so that the last part of your drive, you're shifting focus? And then when you get to the door of your house, you exhale and say, I'm going in now, to 2 children who won't listen to me. So you're literally intentionally exhaling, switching modes, and getting some humor because that actually that calm or calmer it doesn't read perfect calm is felt by the children, and they feel they feel that dad walking in the door. They feel that dad who's stressed at the dinner table, and so it's really a very intentional process. And again, I think it's something that men in in particular are not raised with. Like, you are gonna be the emotional sustenance for your children, and you are. And so to take that in and say, wow, what a privilege, what a great thing, and wow, That means I have to be aware of myself because the more emotionally attuned a dad is, particularly for those daughters, the more they feel loved and respected. And in their worst moments, they really need to feel that. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:31:10]: Like, I really messed up. They wanna know that this is unconditional love. I still love you. Yeah. That was a mess up. We're in this together. I'm not gonna leave leave you or abandon you because you had a, you know, rotten day or set of events, And that's what bolsters mental health too. I'm loved even when I'm my worst self for the children. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:31:30]: Well, Tovah, there's a ton to unpack here, and I really appreciate you coming and talking about all of this. And I know that, this book can definitely help so many fathers and mothers and parents in general to better connect with their kids, but also help their kids in a lot of ways. If people wanna find out more about the book itself, where's the best place for them to go? Dr. Tovah Klein [00:31:56]: Yeah. Well, the easiest place is to go to my website, Tovahkleen.com. That's Tovahkleen.com. And the book is sold wherever books are sold. So you can get online at your local book store. And if you go to my website, you've bought the book, you just put in your receipt, whatever receipt it is, and there's a free download for something that I call the UFACTOR journal. And that's all the reflective questions from the book and a place to either write out answers or just have the questions there to reflect on. And I will say I got an email this week from a couple who wrote to me and said that a mom and a dad couple, were doing the reflective questions together and then coming together and discussing them, and it's been good for our marriage. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:32:42]: So I thought, oh, that's really great. Because reflecting on self makes you a stronger person, which makes you a better dad. No question. And shedding vulnerability, because sometimes reflecting on yourself does not feel so great. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:32:53]: So true. Well, I truly want to say thank you. Thank you for writing this and helping parents to connect with their kids in this better way, but also for sharing this with us today for being here and for challenging us to think about resilience in a different way as well. And I wish you all the best. Dr. Tovah Klein [00:33:14]: Yeah. Thank you for having me. 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On this Student Spotlight: How you talk to your children is crucial, especially when they are very young. Cleanthis Michael, doctoral candidate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Michigan, discusses the effects. Cleanthis Michael is a fourth-year doctoral candidate in clinical psychology at the University of Michigan. His research examines how children's experiences, such […]
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In this episode, host Kate from ADHDKidsCanThrive.com is joined by Jennifer Gay Summers, an esteemed author and writer. Jennifer, a mother of a neurodivergent child, shares her personal journey from initial denial to becoming an empowered advocate for her child. Jennifer offers valuable insights drawn from her experiences, providing guidance for parents on supporting children with ADHD. The conversation delves into the challenges of addressing sensory processing disorders, the importance of self-advocacy, and how to empower children by focusing on their strengths. Jennifer also discusses the impact of parenting a transgender child and emphasizes the significance of unconditional love in embracing unexpected life journeys. Join Kate and Jennifer as they discuss overcoming obstacles, educating oneself, and nurturing a supportive environment for ADHD children to thrive. Whether you're starting or already on this journey, this episode aims to bring understanding, advice, and a sense of community to parents navigating similar paths. Learn more from my guest: https://jennifergaysummers.com/ Learn more from Kate at: http://adhdkidscanthrive.com/ #adhd #adhdkid #adhdparent #adhdkidscanthrive #adhdparentsupport #adhdsupport #specialed #parenting #ADHDkidhealth #brainhealth #anxiety #depression #learningdisabilities #dyslexia #executivefunctioning #neurodiverse #ADHDchild
Heather Bishop's life changed when her husband, Ryan Roth, was brutally murdered in 2012. In this rare and exclusive interview, Heather shares her perspective as a crime victim, recounting the night of the crime, the aftermath, and her journey toward seeking justice. Heather also went viral on TikTok, where she began sharing her story and raising awareness. Join us to hear her powerful account of resilience and advocacy. #HusbandMurdered #TrueCrimeStory #TheNightOfTheMurder #MurderSurvivor #TrueCrimeCommunity #InsideTheTragedy #CrimeAndJustice #TrueCrimeDocumentary Connect with Heather Bishop: IG: https://www.instagram.com/itsheatherbishh/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heatherbishop_ Website: https://bio.site/heatherbishop?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZmk1RKqr6rRqtDSB3ZRAGmAUE8rAzeD3VDfLovve1cggnADu6ChbzQm_0_aem_mAXMf8mhYU4ndo7oroXRCA Thank you to our sponsors this week: Magic Mind: Visit https://www.magicmind.com/ianbickjan to get 45% off the Magic Mind Bundle! Orgain: For 30% off your order, head to https://Orgain.com/IANBICK and use code IANBICK. PrizePicks: Visit https://prizepicks.onelink.me/LME0/IANBICK & download the app today & use code IANBICK to get $50 instantly after you play your first $5 lineup! Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ Presented by Tyson 2.0 & Wooooo Energy: https://tyson20.com/ https://woooooenergy.com/ Buy Merch: https://www.ianbick.com/shop Use code lockedin at checkout to get 20% off your order Timestamps: 00:00:00 Growing a Tik Tok Following 00:06:34 Childhood Memories and Bullying Experiences 00:13:24 From Aspiring Makeup Artist to Homeowner at 21 00:20:41 Reflections on Parenting and Life Choices 00:27:50 Coping with Prescription Misuse 00:35:50 The Shocking News of Ryan's Murder 00:42:54 Coping with Sudden Tragedy and Loss 00:50:11 Unraveling the Mystery: Who was Brandon? 00:57:37 Investigation Flaws and Suspect's Escape 01:05:29 Understanding Insanity Pleas and Legal Outcomes 01:12:57 Emotional Impact of Sentencing 01:20:52 Returning to Petaluma: The Impact on a Small Town 01:27:33 TikTok Monetization and GoFundMe Challenges 01:34:58 Going Viral and Unexpected Support 01:41:53 The Complexity of Forgiveness 01:49:04 Navigating Apologies and Control in Relationships Powered by: Just Media House : https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Creative direction, design, assets, support by FWRD: https://www.fwrd.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Laura and Shanna come to you in real time to check in during the wildfires in Los Angeles. They provide updates about how they are doing during their city's crisis and have an insightful conversation with Gia Gambaro Blount, a local child development expert and parenting coach. about parenting during and after emergencies. Gia is a highly-regarded parenting expert in one of the areas that are being hit hardest by the devastation - Pasadena and Altadena - and she provides wisdom that not only comes from her years of expertise in child development but also as a parent who lives in the area and is personally affected by it as well. Important Links: -Our list of resources for victims of the 2025 Los Angeles wildfires -Our list of how to help and donate to support victims of the 2025 Los Angeles wildfires -Gia Gambaro Blount's Instagram - Follow Gia to get daily advice and wisdom about parenting through crisis (and more) -Gia Gambaro Blount's Website -Big Fat Positive's Facebook Community Group - A supportive community that has shown compassion for and interest in helping parents and families in need at this time (plus ongoing conversations and support about parenting in general Topics Discussed in This Episode: -How the 2025 Los Angeles wildfires are affecting parents -How to parent your child during a crisis -Advice from a local parenting expert who is actively helping parents and families navigate this crisis -How to handle emergencies when you're a parent -How to talk to your child about catastrophic events -How to help your child process trauma after the emergency is over -How to help victims of the Los Angeles fires This episode's full show notes can be found here. Want to get in touch with Shanna and Laura? Send us an email and follow us on social! Instagram, Facebook or TikTok at @bfppodcast Visit our website. Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HEREListener Todd asks if he should validate his child's feelings, even when she says she doesn't like him? How far does a parent go, and are feelings valid (representing truth) or simply experiences to be understood? Diane & Rick suggest it's important to explore the root of feelings, including assumptions, misinformation, mood, and delusions, before judging them. They also discuss the responsibility of both the sharer AND the hearer in communication. WHAT'S HAPPENING LINKS:This Week's GOOD NEWS STORYDiane's new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE!Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. If you'd like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on January 28th (on Zoom) at 2:00 pm (EST), email Diane IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the showWant to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook groupFind us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmasIf you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group.Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks!To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/DilemmaRATE THE SHOW!CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics