My Concha Diaries

How is everyone doing? So far we are a month in and it's February and I feel like my 2019 officially starts now. January still had a  lot of 2018 vibes still lingering around. Finally shook it off and I'm able to refocus my energy to what I want to accomplish this year. Decided to right some strategies/tips I want to work on this year to help me actually accomplish my goals. Sharing them with you all hopefully some of my rambling in this episode will get you going in your journey of being a bad ass this year.

Open relationships, polyamorous, monogamish, swinger relationships...que es eso? There is other types of relationships out there besides being in a monogamous relationship. Go into 2019 knowing a little bit more about what you want in a relationship or how you want your current relationship to be. Don't be scared do your own research of what best fits your needs and explore. I'll explain a little about each type and let you in on how we define our relationship it's definitely in one of those categories.

I've done online dating it was fun, didn't turn me crazy and I'm still alive after several dates so thats a plus. Sharing some stories and my personal tips that have worked for me and hopefully it will guide you in the right direction. Overall online dating should be a great addition to what you all ready doing and if you are not doing anything then this will ease you back in to dating world. Have fun and do you!

Stop trying to fix him/her we are not everything to everyone and that is ok. Sharing my experience of spending 10 years trying to fix someone thinking that my love was golden and able to pick up his problems and solve it for them. At the end of it I was the one who needed help to get fixed but guess what no one was there. Ladies give up our savior mindset and leave take care of yourself.

We all haven encountered moments in ours lives where our limits where pushed and men not getting the point that we are not interested. I had my own just recently with a guy calling me a cunt and I just said no to his drink! Women, mujeres listen to me we do not need to be nice or stroke a guys ego to tell them NO! Understand one thing saying yes to one thing doesn't mean your saying yes to everything.

My first episode! This is my story with the times that we are in I felt it was time I share my truth my #whyIdidntreport