I Thought We Were Just Getting Coffee!

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Inspired by those moments when we thought we were just getting coffee and ended up 5 hours later, unpacking our childhoods, disclosing our hidden fears, and potentially discovering several life changing epiphanies. Our hope is to spark meaningful discussions, better understand the world around us & revel in connecting with others.

Aleah Sexton & Astrid Cabello


    • Jan 12, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 51m AVG DURATION
    • 22 EPISODES


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    Why we aren't making resolutions this year

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2021 48:19


    In this episode Aleah and Astrid recap their 2020, discussing highs and lows and then move into their intentions for 2021. We'll talk about our manifestation process, resources and mind-shifts we've adopted and give you our reason for not making resolutions this year. To continue the conversation connect with on Instagram @justgettingcoffee.

    A Discussion with a Teen Mom from 1997

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2020 67:14


    In this episode, Aleah and her sister Jayli interview their mom and her trials and successes of being a mother - beginning at the age of 17.

    Hot Takes That No One Asked For

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2020 56:38


    To continue the conversation, follow us on our Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee.

    22 Things I Learned at 22

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2020 60:14


    In this solo episode hosted by Astrid, she reflects on the 22 things she's learned at 22 before turning 23 tomorrow. From why you should put timers on your phone to calling someone you love every day to the reason boundaries are the best thing you can do for yourself- join her in this episode of reflection. Let us know what you think and as always, to continue the conversation, message us on Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    Misery Loves Company - Welcome to the Pity Party

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 39:16


    To the continue the conversation, find us on Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    Why Girls Suck. Yes, We're Talking About You

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2020 44:02


    To continue the conversation, message us @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    Does Everyone Else Have it Figured Out But Me? | Imposter Syndrome & Comparison

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2020 46:23


    To continue the conversation engage with us on Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee.

    Mastering Your Interests: Writing a Thesis in a Foreign Language and Skincare for Beginners

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2020 52:40


    In episode 13, Aleah and Astrid interview Arthur Babcock, a recent Georgetown University graduate who has a love for learning languages, international travel, luxury goods, and skincare. We learn about Arthur's 60 page thesis he wrote for the conclusion of his time at University and deep dive into skincare and gives us all the tips & tricks that are perfect for anyone to add to their skincare routine. Special thanks to Arthur for being on the podcast- all his links can be found below. As always, to continue the conversation message us on our Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee. Thanks for listening! _____________________________________ FOLLOW ARTHUR! Arthur's skincare Instagram account @skincare_a.b His personal account @arthurbabcock

    Current Obsessions: Wash Your Face + Eat Your Veggies

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2020 38:53


    In this episode Astrid and Aleah discuss their current favorites ranging from skin care products to taking walks with friends. Listen in for an update on Aleah's new job and Astrid's drive across the country. If you like the episode make sure to leave us a review and to continue the conversation, follow us on Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee. Thanks for listening!

    When Opposites (Successfully) Attract

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2020 46:59


    In this episode, Astrid facilitates an open conversation to Aleah and Kaden about their relationship. Meeting in middle school and dating for approximately seven years, they've had their ups and downs.

    The Truth About Being Best Friends for 15 Years

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2020 69:52


    In this very special episode, Astrid welcomes her long time best friend of 15 years, Jacqueline to the podcast. Together they discuss their friendship in the early days, how to be a good friend, and the big changes they've went through together and individually. To continue the conversation, find us on Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee.

    Chit Chat: Who Should Start a Podcast, Film Photography + Other Updates

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2020 45:12


    Catch up with Aleah and Astrid as we update you all in this casual, chit-chatty episode. We discuss the movies we've been watching, Astrid shares her tumultuous story about going to get her first roll of film developed, and we open up about the most challenging aspects of starting a podcast, and much more! To continue the conversation, check us out on Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee.

    Comparison Killed the Cat

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2020 58:06


    In this episode we discuss why we compare ourselves to others, why it's important to talk about it, and how to refocus ourselves toward something more positive. Is comparison the thief of joy? When does comparison cross the line into jealousy? How can we center ourselves using gratitude when we do compare ourselves? Enjoy listening and let us know what you think by messaging us on our Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee. LINKS TO THINGS WE DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE // Vous Church- The Gratitude Effect Link: https://www.vouschurch.com/sermons/the-gratitude-effect Lacy Phillips Manifestation Program: https://tobemagnetic.com/ Danielle Bernstein mask controversy: https://www.revelist.com/style-news/fashion-nova-knock-off-designers/15005/luci-wilden-a-crochet-artist-and-founder-of-the-knots-amp-vibes-brand-was-shocked-to-discover-fashion-nova-selling-its-own-iteration-of-her-dress-that-was-exactly-the-same--down-to-the-number-of-rows-in-the-stripes/2 Gypsea Lust Story: https://thenewdaily.com.au/entertainment/style/2016/11/25/gypsea-lust-instagram-copycat/ History of Kardashian-Jenners being accused of stealing, copying, and culturally appropriating: https://fashionmagazine.com/culture/kardashian-jenner-copying-history/ Knots and Vibes Story: https://www.revelist.com/style-news/fashion-nova-knock-off-designers/15005/luci-wilden-a-crochet-artist-and-founder-of-the-knots-amp-vibes-brand-was-shocked-to-discover-fashion-nova-selling-its-own-iteration-of-her-dress-that-was-exactly-the-same--down-to-the-number-of-rows-in-the-stripes/2

    What a Fling in a Foreign Country Taught Me About Myself PT. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2020 49:55


    Santorini Recommendations: Agave Hotel (where we stayed)- https://www.agavesantorini.com/ Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    What a Fling in a Foreign Country Taught Me About Myself PT. 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2020 45:24


    Santorini Recommendations: Agave Hotel (where we stayed)- https://www.agavesantorini.com/ Covid-19 Resources: CNBC Article: https://www.cnbc.com/2020/05/06/coronavirus-pandemics-impact-on-travel-tourism-in-5-charts.html National Geographic Article: https://www.nationalgeographic.com/travel/2020/04/how-coronavirus-is-impacting-the-travel-industry/ Instagram @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    The Power of Saying Yes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2020 58:40


    In episode 6 we welcome Patrick Donovan to discuss the power of saying yes and how to know when to say. We discuss the times where we've said yes and it paid off, when it didn't, what it means to look at the glass as half empty or half full, and the steps we take to decide when we should go for something or step back. Patrick has his own podcast we encourage you all to check out, The Soaring Star, which can be found on Apple, Spotify, and all other platforms where podcasts are. Thanks for listening! Check out more of Patrick on: Instagram @patrickmichaeldonovan and @thesoaringstar Our Instagram: @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    Amateur Hour: Finances in Your 20s

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2020 57:27


    In this episode Aleah and Astrid open up the conversation about personal finance, our introduction to money, how we spend and save in our own lives, and the worst money decisions we've made. While both we both do not claim to be experts in this subject area or have all the right answers, we believe in sharing about our own experiences and creating a space where it's celebrated to discuss money. Resources mentioned: The Financial Diet, Aja Dang, Michelle Reed, The Graham Stephen Show, Nate O'Brien, Ramit Sethi "I Will Teach You to Be Rich", Mint App Instagram: @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    Breakups and How to Learn From Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2020 58:58


    In this episode, Aleah and Astrid chat with Jayli Sexton and discuss the good, bad, and ugly truth about break ups. Everything from struggling with the loss of your own identity, leaving behind codependent habits, and working to find out what the best, single version of you looks like. Jayli's Instagram: @jaylisexton Our Instagram: @wewerejustgettingcoffee

    Twenty-two and Afraid of Aging

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2020 66:19


    For our third episode, Aleah and Astrid open up about their fear of aging. From skincare to plastic surgery to old wives' tales, we give our honest thoughts on what it means to grow old.

    What it Means to Be a Black & Gay Man in 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2020 62:13


    In this episode, Aleah and Astrid sit down with Chris Arihilam, a 23 year old Black and gay man navigating life in 2020 America. Chris shares with us his stories about growing up, attending a predominantly white university, and fighting against racial injustice. We hope you'll learn how you can be a better ally and question the systems in place that have allowed for racism and inequality to plague our country for centuries. Featuring Chris- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrisarihilam/ Resources mentioned: 1619 New York Times Podcast, Harvard Project Implicit Music Credits: Promises by ROFEU https://soundcloud.com/ruslan-delion Creative Commons — Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported — CC BY-ND 3.0

    Introducing I Thought We Were Getting Coffee

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2020 11:37


    Introducing I Thought We Were Just Getting Coffee, co-hosted by Aleah Sexton and Astrid Cabello. Join us as we ponder everything from how to navigate our twenties, is financial freedom a real thing, why are we afraid of growing up + getting old, and maybe eventually, everyone's favorite question, what is the meaning of life.... We don't claim to ever know the answers, but we do hope you'll think, learn, and laugh with us. Thanks for listening, we are so excited to have you here!

    Initiating Deeper Conversations + Ditching the Small Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2020 59:14


    Our first ever episode of I Thought We Were Just Getting Coffee! In this first episode Aleah & Astrid will dive into why deep conversations are important for fostering relationships and why small talk is exhausting. Both of us give our experience on getting deep with others and reveal hurdles that can make it difficult. Thanks for listening! Music Credits: Promises by ROFEU https://soundcloud.com/ruslan-delion Creative Commons — Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported — CC BY-ND 3.0

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