In Your DM

Danyé debriefs a dating social experiment amongst friends that yielded some interesting results, and further illuminated personal preferences.

Danyé and Mer debate whether it's possible to forgo physical attraction when everything else is above and beyond with a potential mate.

Danye and Mer talk actions lining up with words while “talking,” dating, and being in long-term relationships; and how doing (or not doing) what you say defines your character over time

Mer and Danyé talk the validity of Valentine's Day, men who feign being available, and reciprocity in relationships.

Danye & Mer catch up, discuss the woes of new and established single-hood, and layout what it takes to make it with a S.O.

Danyé and Mer request social distancing from f*ckbois & f*ckery, ladies lay out the first rule of engagement: come correct. Also, an early ode to Christmas and other hot takes.

This episode Mer and Danye discuss life goals and what it takes to achieve them as well as, Danye's take on like vs. love and Mer talks growth in quarantine.

In a pleasant turn of events, Danyè and Mer scrap their topic of the day as the conversation turns to one of reflection, gratitude, and finding joy (even in the face of COVID-19 madness).

In this episode, Danyé doubles down on her own desires; Mer digs deeper, extending Danyé‘s stance to the broader family structure and community.

Danye and Mer go hard while addressing toxic masculinity in parenting, and colorism amongst *certain* famous black men.

Mer dives into the differences between sugar daddies & sponsors while Danye discusses her desires in a future husband.

Mer and Danyè discuss the toxic rhetoric around “strong black women,” respecting all women, and social media shenanigans; also, Herman Cain, asking your date their “number,” and safe COVID sex.

In the Season II opener, Danye and Mer catch up on what a semi-quarantined summer has meant for them; also, setting a precedent for keeping it real and uncut in efforts to do and get better.

Danye & Mer continue their conversation on men & women friendships, taking their married followers input into consideration. Do singles have it all wrong? Tune in and find out.

In their next mini-series, Danyé and Mer tackle the age-ole male/female question. Can men and women truly just be friends? How do the dynamics of opposite-sex friends differ when you're dating, in a committed relationship, and married? Listen to what the people - and the ladies - have to say.

Danyè and Mer continue their conversation on the dating matter. Combing through potential reasons millennial relationships are doomed, Danyè feels for her fellow peers. Mer also adds an addendum for the gentlemen.

Starting a ✨NEW✨ series: “The Internet Says...” This week we are focusing on 4 of 9 key

Danye & Mer discuss manifesting your dreams and desires, millennials in the workplace, and the downfall of poor “leadership.”

Danyè & Mer discuss getting into your inner H.O.E. (Happiness over Everything) by actualizing what makes you happy, also a push to partake in outside activities and keep yourself positively busy during the quarantine.

Danyè and Mer discusses keeping “appointments” during the quarantine

Danyé and Mer give tips for health and wellness + mental clarity during the COVID-19 pandemic; also, barring bitterness and Danyé's Diamond

Danyé and Mer demand respect and civility for women on the job; also, an update from Mer on her journey towards freedom

Danyé and Mer sound off about Elizabeth Warren and Megan Thee Stallion as they celebrate Women's History Month. Also, the nuanced fight for women's rights across racial lines and dating black men...as a black woman.

Danyé explains why she's fed up with suitors' sense of entitlement; the ladies spend a rainy weekend in MIA

Danyé and Mer hip you to the ins and outs of dating, courtship, and communication. Keep it cute, sis (bro)!

Danye & Mer gets inspired by Ms. Erykah Badu for their trip to Miami. Danye officially launches her diamonds

Danyé and Mer get you out of your own way - in relationships, career, and life; also, reflecting on and channeling the rich legacies of Kobe Bryant and Nipsey Hussle.

Mer and Danyé set the tone for the new year; Danyé looks to step back, while Mer yearns to step out; plus basic rules for a masterful diet and when your son becomes your “king.”