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Gin + yoga - if you're asking Mer, but Danye loves her Henny.

Danye&Mercia


    • Mar 26, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 44m AVG DURATION
    • 28 EPISODES


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    Back to the Streets

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2021 51:48


    Danyé debriefs a dating social experiment amongst friends that yielded some interesting results, and further illuminated personal preferences.

    To Be or Not To Be: Ugly

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2021 59:20


    Danyé and Mer debate whether it's possible to forgo physical attraction when everything else is above and beyond with a potential mate.

    But Do Your Actions Match?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2021 44:18


    Danye and Mer talk actions lining up with words while “talking,” dating, and being in long-term relationships; and how doing (or not doing) what you say defines your character over time

    Valentine Galentine's

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2021 60:23


    Mer and Danyé talk the validity of Valentine's Day, men who feign being available, and reciprocity in relationships.

    Is Any Body Feeling Brand New?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 51:50


    Danye & Mer catch up, discuss the woes of new and established single-hood, and layout what it takes to make it with a S.O.

    Leave Me Alone

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2020 60:51


    Danyé and Mer request social distancing from f*ckbois & f*ckery, ladies lay out the first rule of engagement: come correct. Also, an early ode to Christmas and other hot takes.

    #LifeGoals

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2020 59:22


    This episode Mer and Danye discuss life goals and what it takes to achieve them as well as, Danye's take on like vs. love and Mer talks growth in quarantine.

    We Blessed or Whateva

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2020 61:47


    In a pleasant turn of events, Danyè and Mer scrap their topic of the day as the conversation turns to one of reflection, gratitude, and finding joy (even in the face of COVID-19 madness).

    Wants Vs. Needs - For the Sake of Clarity

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2020 57:21


    In this episode, Danyé doubles down on her own desires; Mer digs deeper, extending Danyé‘s stance to the broader family structure and community.

    WE Came Off a MF-ing Boat!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2020 65:39


    Danye and Mer go hard while addressing toxic masculinity in parenting, and colorism amongst *certain* famous black men.

    Sponsors, Sugar Daddies, & Some Other Shit

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2020 64:47


    Mer dives into the differences between sugar daddies & sponsors while Danye discusses her desires in a future husband.

    COVID Sex and Other Realizations

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2020 46:09


    Mer and Danyè discuss the toxic rhetoric around “strong black women,” respecting all women, and social media shenanigans; also, Herman Cain, asking your date their “number,” and safe COVID sex.

    Back Like We (Definitely) Left

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2020 46:51


    In the Season II opener, Danye and Mer catch up on what a semi-quarantined summer has meant for them; also, setting a precedent for keeping it real and uncut in efforts to do and get better.

    Men, Women, & Platonic Friendships Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2020 40:22


    Danye & Mer continue their conversation on men & women friendships, taking their married followers input into consideration. Do singles have it all wrong? Tune in and find out.

    Men, Women, & Platonic Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2020 35:07


    In their next mini-series, Danyé and Mer tackle the age-ole male/female question. Can men and women truly just be friends? How do the dynamics of opposite-sex friends differ when you're dating, in a committed relationship, and married? Listen to what the people - and the ladies - have to say.

    The Internet Says... Millennials Can't Date Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2020 29:20


    Danyè and Mer continue their conversation on the dating matter. Combing through potential reasons millennial relationships are doomed, Danyè feels for her fellow peers. Mer also adds an addendum for the gentlemen.

    The Internet Says... Millennials Can't Date

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2020 40:43


    Starting a ✨NEW✨ series: “The Internet Says...” This week we are focusing on 4 of 9 key

    Millennial Woes

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2020 37:04


    Danye & Mer discuss manifesting your dreams and desires, millennials in the workplace, and the downfall of poor “leadership.”

    H.O.E.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 33:29


    Danyè & Mer discuss getting into your inner H.O.E. (Happiness over Everything) by actualizing what makes you happy, also a push to partake in outside activities and keep yourself positively busy during the quarantine.

    WDDD: What Dat D*ck Do?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2020 29:38


    Danyè and Mer discusses keeping “appointments” during the quarantine

    Quarantine Cuties

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 34:34


    Danyé and Mer give tips for health and wellness + mental clarity during the COVID-19 pandemic; also, barring bitterness and Danyé's Diamond

    WWW: Women's Workplace Woes

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 37:33


    Danyé and Mer demand respect and civility for women on the job; also, an update from Mer on her journey towards freedom

    The Power of the P?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2020 31:48


    Danyé and Mer sound off about Elizabeth Warren and Megan Thee Stallion as they celebrate Women's History Month. Also, the nuanced fight for women's rights across racial lines and dating black men...as a black woman.

    Out of Bounds

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 28:29


    Danyé explains why she's fed up with suitors' sense of entitlement; the ladies spend a rainy weekend in MIA

    Dating Do's, Dating Don'ts

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2020 24:39


    Danyé and Mer hip you to the ins and outs of dating, courtship, and communication. Keep it cute, sis (bro)!

    Packing Light

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2020 29:41


    Danye & Mer gets inspired by Ms. Erykah Badu for their trip to Miami. Danye officially launches her diamonds

    Ahhh... Real Monsters

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 34:48


    Danyé and Mer get you out of your own way - in relationships, career, and life; also, reflecting on and channeling the rich legacies of Kobe Bryant and Nipsey Hussle.

    Breaking Ground: On The Rise

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2020 35:20


    Mer and Danyé set the tone for the new year; Danyé looks to step back, while Mer yearns to step out; plus basic rules for a masterful diet and when your son becomes your “king.”

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