Just in Conversation

Sometimes one finds themselves in a period of disillusionment, the discovery that something is not as good as one believed it to be, or things should be … you fill in the blank. I've found myself here lately. And maybe you have too. The times we're facing are unlike any […]

Dr. Valerie Bullock has been an anchoring influence early in my adult life, and I’m sure several others can say the same. Throughout the years, what started as a guiding presence has now grown into a mentor, teacher, leader, and friend. Much of my thirst for adventure and the search […]

There are times when the world feels overwhelmingly vast and difficult to comprehend, too large to experience it all. But there are also those little magical moments when the world feels quite small. I had this experience this past year, in the height of the early days of the pandemic, […]

When we were kids we climbed trees. Now as adults we climb walls, both physical ones and the ones we create. In this season, I talk to my childhood best friend, some important women and men who were key mentors and influencers in my life, a close adult-hood friend that’s […]

Music was my gateway into curiosity, a way to express the questions tumbling around in my mind, and to spin a thread to the past to try and understand this life. In my later years of college the real journey to finding my voice began. I was not alone. So many of us were searching for ourselves in the mirror, on a stage, in a recording. Who were we? My friend Dion Isaiah also found a light at the end of a long wandering road of misidentity, uncertainty, and an urge to break free to find himself. The road to finding his voice.

Sometimes I find it helpful to remember that our existence is a continuation of all those that have gone before. We’re carrying the torch onward from stories, ideas, and movements sparked from lives long ago. This curiosity to explore the the spaces and places just out of reach is what led me to meeting a new friend, Pete Dring. Pete lives in York, a historic city on the northeast part of England, and where, as a surprise to him, many years ago, I began a friendship on a chance meeting in the streets of York one evening.

Out there are things we know. There are also things we don’t know, but what about the things we’re not even aware of not knowing? I can’t help but thinking that we as human beings are not exempt from this idea of always being entangled with one another. In what we do to one, we do to another. Sometimes you meet a stranger, and know instantly that you were meant to know each other, as if you were living parallel lives all along. My friend David Ellis can certainly be described in this way. This episode is about these entangled friendships, the universe, drugs, and the trip of a lifetime.

Artists, I think, have the official say on how we’re doing as a people. It’s sort of like a barometer for the state of things in our society — how we’re handling our progress as a species. Sometimes by way of the universe you will bring people into your life that speak this artistic language — where almost every interaction is tinged with an artistic bend, a sort of mini-celebration of some new way you saw the world that day. One of those people is my friend Megan Dillon. 

We all have heroes.  For my childhood friend, Kyle Herring, it started off as the caped crusader with the large “S” across his chest. The Superman — one who in Kyle’s words had immense power — made choices for good. Through a 3AM encounter, he discovered the muse that helped him find the hero inside himself, and helped me form a very important boyhood friendship.

The college days were a time when I was just beginning to discover myself. For many of my peers this was when, for the first time, we were making our own choices, seeing what worked and what didn’t, how we would find ourselves, and look for who we wanted to become. One of these friends, Dr. Joy Obidike, takes us back 15 years to those days as a black young woman, coming from an immigrant family, finding herself immersed in a very white world. Joy found opportunity for growth in mentorship, a pursuit in the study of science, faith, becoming Student Government President, and even to the life of public service on Capitol Hill. It didn’t come easy, and in fact came with a lot of pain.

Kevin, like myself, frames his world through moments. Moments he captures that tells a story for just a slice of time in his world and, as you’ll hear, helps to unlock his own mysteries to what’s always just beyond the trail.

Sometimes the things that challenge us most on our voyage of uncharted waters is the unknown. What fears lie ahead? Is there something better beyond the horizon?  As a survivor of abuse, and champion for creativity from it, Philippa Sklaar turns experiences in her life into self-discovered adventure.

Do you remember as a kid making those tin-can telephones? I always found it fascinating that we could create something to listen and talk to one another across far distances. With so much chatter out there in short, disconnected moments, I’ve felt the need to reconnect in a big and intimate way, not just with others, but also, and maybe most importantly, with myself. So I finally did it. I made a podcast. So much has happened in the last year, and a lot of it has been experienced without connection. I decided to start listening, learning, and creating a little differently – just in conversation. I invite you to join me on this journey, just in conversation.