Helena and Alex are here to investigate the claim that Millennials are the Generation Loveless. Has our obsession with social media made it impossible for us to connect face to face? Are hookup apps the end of romance? Are we all bound to die alone?! They laugh. They cry. They scream. They want you…
Alex and Helena have been feeling pretty stressed lately. With things in the world feeling heavy, this episode is an attempt the lighten the fuck up with the classic question game. Topics covered include kissing styles, turn ons, and 'settling' for partners you don't find attractive. If you need something light and fun with a lil bit of wisdom sprinkled in there, listen up lovers.
Hi Lovers! The ladies are back after a brief hiatus! In today's episode, Alex opens up about a recent dating experience that ignited some old dysfunctional relationship patterns.The ladies explore the painful reality of abandonment wounds in dating and how to correct course when you notice these patterns running the show. For Alex and Helena, the abandonment wound in dating is activated when they desperately want to be chosen, regardless of if they really like the other person. When do you feel your abandonment wounds coming up? ALSO SORRY ABOUT THE SOUND OF HELENA’S AC. IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN
Rejection sucks. But Alex and Helena firmly believe being upfront is better than ghosting or making up an excuse. In this show, the ladies share their thoughts on how to reject someone with grace & integrity. And of course, they use juicy real life stories to paint the picture ;)
In today’s episode, the girls are breaking down a gorgeous passage written by @risingwoman on why you don’t need to play mind games in dating. Engaging in mind games in the early days of dating leads to inauthentic connections, based on the erroneous idea that you have to trick someone into liking you. The girls are not here for that shit! You deserve to be loved, desired & known just as you are.
Ahh, texting. A 21st Century style of communication that absolutely none of us have mastered. So, how does one go about texting in the early days of dating? The fuck if Alex and Helena know... but they do their best to break it down in today's episode. :)
I'M SORRY, THE OLD ALEX AND HELENA CAN'T COME TO THE PHONE RIGHT NOW. WHY? CAUSE THEY'RE DEAD! ;) In today’s episode, the ladies discuss three exercises they created for deeper self-understanding & love. They discuss the pressures they felt as teenagers to go college, the pressures they feel now to find their “life purpose” and they teach you how to kill old versions of yourself that no longer serve you ... that’s not murder, right?
Accounts to follow on IG for self-love & relationship wisdom: @the.holistic.psychologist , @nedratawwab , @lizlistens , @createthelove , @gottmaninstitute , @risingwoman , @doctorshefali , @about.the.good.life , @millennial.therapist , @seerrutkchawla , @holisticallygrace
Alex and Helena are answering alllllll your questions today! They asked you to send over your dating and sex questions & y'all delivered. The girls cover everything from the appropriate time to have sex to whether or not style is important in a partner. Keep sending your questions our way!
The ladies got some tea this week, babies! Tune in to hear about a disastrous date for Helena and a shocking twist of events with a former flame for Alex. But worry not! The girls have found important lessons in these turn of events
It’s time we get off our spiritual high horses & instead…just get off. Just kidding ;) but we are gonna talk about all things sex in this raunchy episode. So if you can’t handle it - here’s your warning to click off!
On this week's episode, Alex and Helena discuss triggers and dating. What are your deep emotional triggers? How can they affect your dating life? Tune in and the girls will teach ya all about it.
With COVID-19 causing us to all stay home, what better time to work on self-lovin'? Being quarantined without a partner is okay because you still have YOU. The girls talk about the ordinance to slow down during these uncertain times and why that may not be such a bad thing...
Being a ghost ain't cool... and no, we aren't talking about the supernatural kind (those are sick). Alex and Helena share their experiences being ghosted and urge fellow Millennials to do better! This is basic stuff, you guys! What was that golden rule we learned in elementary school again...
Every girl dreams of a beautiful wedding and her prince charming... right? Nah, fuck that. The girls discuss why marriage isn't a priority for either of them and why relationships ending isn't always a bad thing.
Alex and Helena are back in full swing for Season Two and yes, they really did go on sixty dates. Did they find true love? Did they meet the one? Did they at the very least have good sex?! Listen up to hear all the dirty deets.
What happens when you run into a Bumble match out at a club? During a wild whirlwind week, both Alex and Helena happen to bump into internet love connections in real life. Get ready for more uncensored stories of sex, confrontation, and awkwardness in The Uncensored Truth Pt. 2.
In today's uncensored episode, the girls rant about their summer dating escapades. In a fiery tangent, they discuss the fact that many Millennial men see relationships as a burden and Helena incorrectly uses the phrase "diamond in the rough". Get ready for a real, raw, and completely unscripted episode.
The episode begins with three listener questions on dating as a Millennial. Alex and Helena give their sage advice before moving on to the Wildcard Portion. Episode 11 includes stories on handcuffs, ice cubes, same-sex hookups and more.
Stalking exes on social media is a big enough topic in today's world that psychologists have actually begun to research it. 'Post breakup interpersonal electronic surveillance'- aka Facebook creeping - allows us Millennials to keep tabs on our ex after we part ways. But what is this doing to our breakup recovery process? The girls are here to investigate, as well as give their sage advice on how to handle breaking up with social media.
Are Millennials afraid of commitment? And if so, why? Generation Loveless's expert Millennials, Alex and Helena, theorize as to why this is the case. They consider the possibility that Gen Y is just cautious when it comes to love. Or maybe Millennials live up to the narcissist stereotype and put their interests first, even before love.
Alex and Helena discuss the psychology of intimacy with a new partner, sex on the first date, and many other juicy first date topics. The girls also share their embarrassing first date stories
In the first part of the episode, Alex and Helena help listeners solve their current dating frustrations. The ladies also play a rapid-fire game in which they describe (in detail..) the best sex they've ever had, their biggest turn-ons in bed, and how they lost their virginity.
The girls share their strict set of guidelines to help you navigate the crazy dating world.
Are you down to go down?? Welcome to a brief class on the female orgasm with Alex and Helena ;)
Are you being breadcrumbed rn?? Do you even know what that means? No worries, Alex and Helena are here to help.
If Millennials are the "hookup generation", why are we having less sex than our parents? Alex and Helena explore.
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