How well do you know yourself? No, really? I'm no psychologist, but the best way to really get to know yourself is by spending time with yourself. What better way to do this than taking dark showers?! When you take dark showers, your mind is set free like a dog without a leash. The thoughts of your heart can surface without distractions or constant external interruptions. Your mind is being stimulated in healthy and creative ways, leading you to your true self. With this podcast, I seek to do two things. The first is to allow people to share their stories and who they truly are with the world. Secondly and most importantly, I want to help people on their self-discovery journey all while recreating themes from the most underrated psychological tool, the "Dark Shower".
How did we develop our own cultural identity? What are the potential influences we had and are we able to attribute our identity to anything specifically? Also, as Nigerians, are Nigeria's woes the result of its age, educational system, poor leadership, or other systemic issues?
How do you communicate with yourself? I communicate with myself by adopting different perspectives on a situation. I have what I call the "Council of Zaes". The "Council of Zaes" is multiple different perspectives and the different aspects of my personality.
Just two friends who met at an internship catching up for the first time in a couple of years.
An expressive introvert with a passion for discovery, navigating life across various countries, blending rich childhood experiences with a fulfilling marriage and a dynamic career. My journey has shaped a unique perspective, fostering resilience, adaptability, and a deep appreciation for life's diverse tapestry.
We learn every day through written or oral conversations with others. Explore a conversation between two humans as they discuss varying perspectives.
Gloria describes the importance of resiliency and maintaining a sense of hope through the face of adversity.
Humanity, humility, and hope. Without those, there is nothing.
I can't read your mind and closed mouths don't get fed so I'm going to need you to speak up.
Derrick talks about growing up in Nigeria and other impactful childhood experiences. The conversation turns somewhat uncomfortable when it comes to gun law regulations in America and if people with opposing views can have constructive arguments.
Literally, the girl who lives next door. What is her life like behind her front door?
I put my heart and my soul into my work and have lost my mind in the process.
I'm a red rocket. I don't need too much, just fuel and a destination to be on my way.
I'm a Jim-like loverboy looking for my Pam to help me navigate this scary but beautiful world we live in.
Although she is continuously watered, she is like a flower that has lost some of its petals and color but still produces life and food for others to feed off of. Like a light amongst darkness. Amidst this, she seeks to reflect this same light upon herself."like rain I fallbutlike water, I flowlike the sun, I'll shineeverything takes timeand I'll be fine..." - dika agustin
I'm a glass egg with a case. I am gentle, loving, and kind, but I have developed a protective shell due to personal life experiences. Though I am resilient and determined, I try as best as possible to handle myself with great care and I ask those who are close to me to do the same.
I am what I call a "Curious Foreigner". Someone who is just traveling through this wonderful world finding my way.
Welcome to the Dark Shower Nights podcast! I hope you will join our wonderful community and embark on this new path to self-discovery! If you have any comments or would like to be featured in the show, please feel free to reach out!