If She Wanted to She Would

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If He Wanted to He Would? Screw him. It’s about US WOMEN! If She Wanted to She Would! Have you ever found yourself driving home from his place crying knowing it was time to walk away? Have you found yourself lost in the dating scene? Host Alexandria Kelly dives into the cycles of toxic relationships, gives advice from experience on dating, and sets to empower women to leave relationships where they have to beg to be treated right. It’s time for women to know their worth and set their standards high! Join Alexandria on this journey to love yourself, find yourself, and become empowered.

Alexandria Kelly


    • Apr 3, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 45m AVG DURATION
    • 4 EPISODES


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    Empowering Teens to Recognize Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 50:33


    As a 27 year old survivor turned advocate, I wish there was a podcast or a resource to lay it all out there for me when I was a teenager in an abusive relationship. With this episode, I hope to empower teens and ALL women to recognize and leave abuse. In this episode we define abuse, talk about warning signs, give examples, talk about getting help, and more!

    3. If I'm Too Much, Go Find Less

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2023 55:26


    If you've ever been made to feel small in relationships, friendships, spaces, or conversations.... this one is for you. Your big emotions and beautiful expressions are a superpower! Chat with me, Alexandria Kelly, as I dive into how I have been made to feel like my sensitivity and emotional depth is a negative characteristic - and how I've turned it into my superpower. From stories to advice, this episode is packed with encouragement and lessons that I hope you can take with you. Remember, you are loved for who YOU are. Sometimes your light shines too bright for those who are stuck in the dark. Love begs you to grow, never shrink yourself. IG @ifhewantedtohewouldpodcast @alexandriakelly96

    2. His Trauma is Not Your Drama

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2023 42:03


    His pain, hurt, and trauma is NOT a valid excuse to hurt you. And yes... this goes for friends, too! Have you ever found yourself being a projector screen for the way he feels about his ex? Do you hold space for him while he talks about his past, but feel like he uses it as an excuse for his crappy behavior? Girl, I FELT! This is truly a heart to heart episode about how you no longer should excuse men and their actions because of their past. You and I choose to take the dark the world gave us and turn it into light... so why can't he? Join me - Alexandria Kelly - as I chat and give you some sisterly advice on not allowing his trauma to be your drama!

    1. The Secret to Moving On

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2023 34:18


    WELCOME to the very first episode of If He Wanted to He Would - with your host, me, Alexandria Kelly! Are you ready to stop romanticizing an unhealthy relationship? Are you ready to get over a future that isn't there? Are you begging to get over that narcissist, or just someone you know you truly can't be with anymore? Baby, we have all been there. I have been there too many times.... but - I HAVE THE SECRET RECIPE to moving on! We've all been there - scream crying to those heartbreak bops in the car, begging for some sort of relief, wanting to move on. In some way, I found the most epic combination of steps to help me during those moments that made me feel so helpless. I believe there are specific steps that will help you move on faster, healthier, and help you to grow and to heal. Join me on this VERY FIRST episode of If He Wanted to He Would - with myself, Alexandria! Get your notepads ready and take a journey with me to healing your beautiful soul. Don't forget - If He Wanted to... HE WOULD! xoxo Alexandria

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