Love With Integrity

Do you struggle with Relationship Anxiety? Do you tend to leave relationship after relationship .. only to find yourself experiencing the same fears and anxieties over and over again? Do you feel like you can get in touch with the love and connection you have for your partner only (after) you have broken up with them? Well .. you are SO not alone! I am so excited to introduce today’s special guest, Sheryl Paul. She is an incredible and compassionate expert on anxiety. Sheryl has a Master’s Degree in Jungian Psychology and has worked with thousands of people worldwide through her private practice. She has appeared several times on The Oprah Winfrey Show as well as on Good Morning America and other top media shows and publications around the globe. In this episode, we dive into: ~What Relationship Anxiety actually is. ~Understanding and working with projection in order to become more whole and integrated. ~The difference between FLAGS and RED FLAGS. You can learn more about Sheryl and read her blogs and dive into her fabulous online relationship course on her website here @ https://conscious-transitions.com/ You can find her Instagram page @ https://www.instagram.com/wisdomofanxiety/ You can find her book, “The Wisdom of Anxiety: How Worry and Intrusive Thoughts Are Gifts to Help You Heal” @ https://www.amazon.com/Wisdom-Anxiety-Worry-Intrusive-Thoughts/dp/1683642503

I have come to find that the more passive partner often feels stuck and overwhelmed during conflict. They want to show up .. they want to set boundaries .. but they just don't know how to. In this episode, I break down this dynamic between the aggressive partner and the passive partner. I offer a few practical tools to empower the passive power to be able to show up in a more authentic and assertive way. Make sure to check out my practical communication program if you'd like additional support with communicating during conflict. You can get my practical communication program here @ bit.ly/PracticalCommunication

Are you frustrated with how to support the men in your life? Do you want to better understand the thoughts men have when it comes to getting help? Do you feel exhausted with trying to “uplift” and “support” men? Men, do you want to better understand your own resistance too? Marriage and Family Therapist Quentin Hafner is a very special guest on this episode. He is a couple’s therapist, specializing with men and with couples who are on the brink of divorce. We dove right into the challenging resistance many men feel when it comes to getting support. We talked about shame, and we talked about compassion fatigue. We ended the episode with Quentin offering some incredible practical suggestions on how to approach the men in your life, particularly the ones you’d like to keep around. You can check out more about Quentin Hafter here on his website @https://quentinhafner.com/ as well as on his instagram page @ https://www.instagram.com/quentin_hafner/ You can also get his book “Black Belt Husband: A Marriage Book for Men” on amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Black-Belt-Husband-Marriage-Book/dp/1732448418

Are you confused about what Codependency is? I get it. It's a really huge topic. In this episode, I break down what codependency is in a simplified way and also offer you 3 steps to begin your recovery journey. You can check out http://coda.org/ to find support groups in your local area. Also check out our boundaries program for deeper support on boundaries @ https://bryanreeves.com/boundaries-silvy/

Are you struggling to get over a betrayal? Do you feel completely stuck and don’t know where to begin? Did you know that betrayals can happen in all kinds of relationships? They can happen in intimate relationships, within a parent/child dynamic, between siblings, within a therapist/client relationship, and in religious or spiritual organizations. Join us in this episode where I interview Dr. Debi Silber. She is a holistic psychologist, a Tedx speaker, and the founder of www.pbtinstitute.com. She walks us through the entire journey of a betrayal, including the 5 different stages she has discovered through her extensive research study on the topic. Take her betrayal quiz @ https://pbtinstitute.com/quiz/ Find Dr. Debi Silber @ www.pbtinstitute.com

I discuss why some of us struggle so much with setting boundaries. I break down 3 different family systems that influence our ability to set healthy boundaries. You can get my full boundaries program @ https://bryanreeves.com/boundaries-silvy/

I discuss the complexity that breakups and heartbreak often come with. I also offer some journaling prompts to help you work through your grieving. You can find more of my relationship content on my instagram page @silvykhoucasian

Healthy boundaries are essential for healthy relationship. Learn what may be getting in the way for you in expressing your boundaries. Get “The Boundaries Program: Relationships Suck Without ‘Em” @ https://bryanreeves.com/boundaries-silvy/

In this episode, I dive into the question “Is talking to your ex okay even if it is a trigger for your partner? You can find more of my daily relationship tools on my Instagram Page @silvykhoucasian

In this short episode, I offer 3 simple tools you can use to support your partner to go to therapy.