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TOPIC: It is officially Pumpkin Spice Season! Today, we're catching up and talking about anything and everything… with a fun beverage and fun cookies to try on air! First, we're discussing what would happen if we traded TikTok feeds for a day. Natalie sees a tween (that looks like a tween) in public, which triggers the question: What kind of music do tweens listen to in 2023? Corinne wonders if being comfortable with her boyfriend's chivalry is a sign of codependency and Natalie has another update about her Troll collection, featuring her dog! Oh, and don't miss our not-too-soon Super Bowl Halftime speculations (Foo Fighters or NSYNC?!).OUR HOSTS: Corinne Foxx - @corinnefoxxNatalie McMillan - @nataliemcm and @shopnataliemcmillan What we're drinking: Starbucks Paradise Drink Pineapple Passionfruit + Coconut MilkWhat we're eating: Favorite Day Harvest Gluten Free Pumpkin Spice Crisp CookiesIn this episode, we discuss:Why we love a specific type of pumpkin spice cookie from TargetThe wild spectrum also known as Corinne's TikTok LIVE feedThe type of music tweens listen to in 2023If Natalie and Corinne are aging out of music award shows or notIs chivalry stripping Corinne of her independence? Another Troll collection update feat. Natalie's dogSuper Bowl Halftime speculations: Band Edition END OF THE SHOW: Corinne and Natalie introduce Hottie of the Week: JC ChasezDRINK RATING:Starbucks Paradise Drink Pineapple Passionfruit + Coconut Milk = 2 / JCWRAP UP:To wrap up the episode, we're getting a little controversial — we play FMK: NSYNC, Backstreet Boys, One Direction, and FMK: DQ Blizzard, MC McFlurry, Wendy's Frosty. You've been warned: our answers may upset someone!We have a newsletter for our Am I community. You can sign up for the newsletter on...
this week on the pod, jun summer park shares his journey improving his codependency & learning how to be confident in yourself. jun deep dives into dropping out of his "dream school", restarting his life in la, and now coming up in the creative world. thanks for listening!! xx, jun and hana TIMESTAMPS 02:15 dropping out of nyu 04:55 video production, a&r, creative direction 08:49 building a selective network 12:16 people person, people pleasing 13:01 codependency & bottling emotions 17:09 codependency & trust issues in relationships 19:51 finding validation in relationships 26:54 stability in a relationship is scary 31:42 npc theory 35:55 how to live in the present 40:03 learning how to actually rest 48:00 advice from jun hehe ~things mentioned in this episode~ exposition live - https://www.instagram.com/exposition.official/ donny daydream - https://www.instagram.com/donny.daydream/ JUN SUMMER PARK https://www.instagram.com/junsummerpark/ https://junsummerpark.live/ HANA https://www.instagram.com/hanakattt/ https://www.tiktok.com/@hanakattt/ BULGOGI POD https://www.tiktok.com/@bulgogi.podcast/ https://www.instagram.com/bulgogi.podcast/ https://twitter.com/bulgogipodcast/ STUDIO MODU https://www.instagram.com/studio.modu/ https://www.youtube.com/@modustudio ~music in this episode provided by epidemic sound~ all social media + design work + cover art by ashley peng https://www.instagram.com/lilshashimii/ sounds by 808kino contact us at bulgogipod@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bulgogipod/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bulgogipod/support
-What does codependency look like in CEOs and leaders? -How can work culture and company values mask codependent behavior in leaders and staff? -What's underneath a codependent CEOs behavior? And how can they begin to address it? Welcome to Episode 146! This week, Melissa Bennett-Heinz is back to expose the codependent behavior plaguing leaders and CEOs. We often do not associate ‘codependent' with the title of CEO, however, Melissa shares with us about how work culture and company values enable codependent behavior like people-pleasing, self-sacrifice, and prioritize the needs of others (i.e., the company) above oneself. Melissa describes the codependent patterns of CEOs and what is often underneath those behaviors, including low self-esteem, boundary issues, and conflict avoidance. We conclude with hearing the initial steps Melissa takes with her CEO clients to help them break their codependent patterns. It's a must-listen! Links for the show: Sign up for the newsletter to receive all things codependummy: https://keap.app/contact-us/2302598426037497 Journal! The Confiding Codependummy: 30 Days of Journaling Prompts for a Less-Codependent and More-Conscious YOU for just $1 a day. www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing FREEBIE! The Self-Validation Challenge: Learn to validate your GD self: www.codependummy.com/challenge Money! Funds! Help support the show via a one-time donation via secure Paypal link: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC Work with me! Email marissa@codependummy.com to inquire about psychotherapy, coaching, or coming on the show! More on thise week's guest: Melissa Bennett-Heinz is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in the states of New York, Washington, Texas, and North Carolina and has over 20 years of specialized training and experience in the treatment of PTSD, sexual trauma, childhood abuse, chronic mental illness, and mood and anxiety disorders. Melissa primarily works with adults in both individual and group settings with people who are highly educated and successful, C-Suite executives who appear to have it together and are "happy" but are stuck in old relational patterns, struggle with perfectionism, relationships, and codependency. www.melissabennettheinz.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-bennett-heinz-149807a/ https://facebook.com/melissa.bennettheinz Melissa's first interview on Codependummy: https://codependummy.com/gestalt-therapy-101-with-melissa-bennett-heinz/ More deets on the episode: We begin with revisiting Melissa's definition of codependency and what she has to add today: every relationship has codependency in it, whether it is with a person, children, or an entity like a company/group. The word ‘codependent' is an attempt to explain a relationship dynamic that can go bad, however, there is healthy codependency and unhealthy codependency. Parents, for example, often display codependent behavior that is categorically healthy. We revisit Melissa's previous interview where she shared about a codependent interaction returning her shopping cart at ALDI. Today, she reflects on her codependency as her own CEO of her private practice. As her own boss, she has had to find how she holds boundaries with her business while being fluid with them. Her anecdote about a client who was unable to afford a recent fee raise is the perfect example of how boundaries are relative and not always one-size-fits-all. We shift focus to one of Melissa's specialties: working with CEOs and leaders. She describes codependent behavior in this population, including sacrificing their own needs for the needs of the company. Due to company values, codependent behavior is masked through team work, employee engagement, and customer service. Melissa then contrasts the external behaviors of CEOs and leaders to what is going on underneath: their external motivation and fixation on company success is often derived from their low self-esteem; their servitude, selflessness, and self-sacrifice is rooted in their need for power and control; their people-pleasing and customer service is connected with their insecurity; and their enmeshment with employees is the consequence of their boundary issues. Melissa emphasizes how their key to failure is trying to please everyone. We conclude with hearing how Melissa begins her work to address the codependent behavior in her CEO clients. Due to the stigma of codependency, Melissa starts slow and helps them shift their focus on their problems to their feelings. She helps them find ways to give voice to what is feeding the behavior and educates them on shame, guilt, and fear. Through her work using Gestalt therapy, her clients are able to get back to a healthier place and lead in a more integrated manner. Thanks for coming on Melissa! And thank you for listening, my dear listener! PLEASE: Rate. Review. Subscribe. Share. We need more ratings on Spotify! TY! -The Self-Validation Challenge - free 30-day guide to providing yourself with all the validation you seek: www.codependummy.com/challenge -Get your copy of the Confiding Codependummy: 30 days of journaling prompts for a less-codependent and more-conscious you! www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing -If you are wanting to dive into your codependency deeper one-on-one, please email marissa@codependumy.com to work with me! -Sign up for the newsletter: https://keap.app/contact-us/2302598426037497 -Support the show via a one-time secure donation: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC See you next week!
Sarah & Becca talk about compassion and when compassion for others goes too far and resembles co-dependency and the abandoning of oneself. They discuss how to check in with yourself so compassion doesn't go out of alignment with you!
“So many things in my past were painful because I stayed on too long.” How do you know when it's time to say goodbye to something, no matter how good it may seem or how hard it is to leave? For today's guest, Nicole Antoinette, staying too long created a pattern of “scorched earth change,” where dramatic moves became the only way out. In this conversation, we discuss where she thinks the creator economy is heading, why she shut down her successful Patreon, and how she makes tough decisions about what to leave behind: whether it's a romantic relationship, a job, a friendship, alcohol, or one of her biggest income streams. More About Nicole: Nicole Antoinette is a writer, long-distance hiker, and former indoor kid who never imagined she'd wind up spending months of each year pooping in the woods. In 2017, stuck in a loop of codependency and people-pleasing, Nicole set off to find her self-belief and inner resilience by doing something she did not for one second believe she could actually do. The results are two adventure memoirs, How To Be Alone: An 800-mile hike on the Arizona Trail, and What We Owe to Ourselves, and a weekly newsletter on Substack called Wild Letters.
This Week on Dopey! Dopey dream guest, and Emmy Award Winner, Hank Azaria comes on the show for an epic talk all about his recovery, alcoholism and his life and career! Get ready for a serious deep dopey dive with Hank on how his alcoholism/addict-ness developed, his rise to fame and how he discovered his true addiction. PLUS all of the inside information on the rise and fall of Apu on the Simpsons! And how Hank got a crash course in social justice and the efforts he is making to make proper amends. All that plus crazy stoner voicemails! Crazy nitrous notes! And Dave's horrible addiction to sugar and hatred of Trader Joe's, and how he stole AA's money on a seriously high quality new episode of that good old dopey show! More About Dopey: Dopey Podcast is the world's greatest podcast on drugs, addiction and dumb shit. Chris and I were two IV heroin addicts who loved to talk about all the coke we smoked, snorted and shot, all the pills we ate, smoked, all the weed we smoked and ate, all the booze we consumed and all the consequences we suffered. After making the show for 2 and a half years, Chris tragically relapsed and died from a fentanyl overdose. Dopey continued on, at first to mourn the horrible loss of Chris, but then to continue our mission - which was at its core, to keep addicts and alcoholics company. Whether to laugh at our time in rehab, or cry at the worst missteps we made, Dopey tells the truth about drugs, addiction and recovery. We continually mine the universe for stories rife with debauchery and highlight serious drug taking and alcoholism. We also examine different paths toward addiction recovery. We shine a light on harm reduction and medication assisted treatment. We talk with celebrities and nobodies and stockpile stories to be the greatest one stop shop podcast on all things drugs, addiction, recovery and comedy pathfinding the route to the heart of the opioid epidemic. check out b. Getz's awesome park city song summit here: http://bit.ly/PCSS23-L4LM
Brenda J and Karen W interview Sherry Gaba and Carla Romo. Sherry is host of the Love Fix Podcast and a psychotherapist. Sherry is the go to expert along with Dr. Drew Pinsky on VH1's #1 "Celebrity Rehab" or have seen her on Access Live, The Bio Channel or Showbiz Tonight talking about her book, "Love Smacked: How To Stop Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love." Her Co-host Carla is a renowned dating and relationship coach and Author of "Contagious Love" and an international speaker. The four women discuss people pleasing and how it goes together with codependency. They also discuss healthy relationships and dating in today's world. https://thelovefix.com https://hangingontohope.org
Sherry and Carla start the episode pointing out that you shouldn't trust everything you see online about relationships. They then take a Love Fix Question from a listener who feels ashamed of their past and wants to stop caring about what others think. Then, they welcome guest Rachel Harrison, an inspiring woman who founded the Recover Your Soul podcast and community over three years ago. Through her personal journey of recovery from alcoholism, control addiction, and codependency she experienced profound changes in her life. These experiences led her to discover the transformation and the power of a spiritual path to a happy and healthy life and what she calls Soul Recovery. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast The Love Fix Relationship Quiz Join our Get Healthy Relationships and Dating Group Coaching Programs Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp Sherry Website | IG Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love Rachel: Recover Your Soul Podcast | Recover Your Soul Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Sherry and Carla and The Love Fix!”- If that sounds like you, please consider the rating and review our show! Scroll down to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast. What You'll Hear In This Episode: More about Rachel's own path to sobriety. What does Rachel mean when she refers to “Soul Recovery”? How codependency often runs the addiction. The importance of detaching with love in one's recovery. Rachel's 9 Steps to Soul Recovery. More about the role of trauma in some addictions. Rachel talks about making a long marriage work by also not trying to fix the person and letting them have their own journey. The important step for Rachel to be honest with herself is that she is powerless over alcohol. There can be very real physical and mental manifestations when we try to put all of our energy into taking care of someone else and mending their addictions. Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.
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Kate and Michelle discuss what codependency is (and isn't), how it relates to borderline personality disorder and which DBT skills may help reduce codependency in relationships with others. Support the showCheck out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandmeOur book, "DBT for Everyone" is coming out in November 2023! Pre-order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandmeYou can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcastCheck out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com
· Happy Birthday to the Libras! Shout out to all the September Babies! · Shout out to the Aries Moons! · Shift from earthy Virgo to airy Libra season · Sister signs Aries & Libra · Binge listen to past My Virgo Friend podcast episodes to catch up! · Shout out to the long-time friends of the My Virgo Friend podcast! Thank you. · The Cardinal Signs of the Zodiac set it off! · Aries as Young Fire · Shadow Aries energy · Permission to step into full Fire Diva energy · Prioritize yourself and your needs · Full fire energy all the time could lead to Burnout! · Enough is Enough! What boundary are you enforcing this week? · Eclipse season is upon us…betcha didn't see THAT coming! · Be wary of the energy coming into your Head. Aries rules the Head. · Feminine Energy in relation to your Masculine Energy and vice versa · Codependency and the imbalance of power and need in a relationship dynamic · If you're too much in your head, that means you need to get back into your body · Monitor your vices…is there a tight grip? · Heal your sexual energy in healthy, non-destructive ways · What's the relationship with yourself? Do you talk to yourself? · Get the thoughts OUT of your Head. Speak it! Write it! Type it! Communicate. · Masculines, it's your Role to Pursue, to Hunt. The Feminines are ready to receive you… · How's your relationship with your Money and sense of self worth · Being bold to pursue a relationship in a new way · My 2 cents on Remy Ma & Papoose breakup rumors · Crazy in Love energy like Nick Cannon tattooing “MARIAH” on his back · Assess your Fire and Desire within...is it truly YOUR passion & who you want? · What's your belief & relationship with Respect? Do you expect Respect or tolerate Disrespect? · What is your raw Motivation? Love? Money? Hate? Being a Victim? What keeps you going? · Are you motivated by the end of something, so you can start something new? · The Blunt Truth vs. Putting your foot in your mouth…the Aries effect · Communicate like a Fire sign · I've made up my mind, Damn it! Respect my decision! · Prayer/ Affirmation channeling break…drink and YASSS with me! · Realizing the harsh truth you need help with your Head · Decide what Good you want and then Decide to no longer CHOOSE the Bad. · What's the relationship you have with your own SPIRIT? Lift your Spirit! · What energies are you allowing around your Heart? Honor your Heart. · Love to those going through the 5 stages of GRIEF. Keep processing your emotions. · Full Moon week…how to prepare for it and ways to enjoy the full moon · Take care of You so the people You Love can take care of themselves too · Final cup of CheChe & Announcements · Add me on IG- @CheCheBabe @MyVirgoFriendPodcast @MyCoachCheChe o Feature me as a guest on your podcast! Let's collaborate! o If you want to submit your questions to me for advice or feedback, you're welcome to email me at askcherelle@myvirgofriend.com or cheche@myvirgofriend.com
In this episode, we delve into the intricate world of codependency, a behavior pattern that can silently affect relationships and personal well-being. Reba and Allison provide a comprehensive breakdown of what codependency entails, making it accessible even to those unfamiliar with the term. Drawing parallels between everyday scenarios and real-life examples, the episode explores signs of codependency and its impact on individuals. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how this behavior manifests, often without being recognized.From biblical guidance to renowned authors' insights, the episode addresses how different perspectives contribute to comprehending codependency. Always leaning into the practical, our hosts navigate the audience through the crucial steps one can take to identify, address, and ultimately break free from a codependent dynamic.By the end of this episode, listeners will be equipped with fundamental knowledge about codependency, empowering them to foster healthier relationships, set stronger boundaries, and embark on a journey towards personal growth and self-discovery. Whether you're just curious or seeking guidance, this podcast sheds light on an important aspect of human connection that affects us all.
Ava Dasya Rasa is my guest today, and she is such a wise woman! As a psychotherapist and author, she has a depth of wisdom to share. We were only able to just touch on what she knows.We talked about brain spotting, a therapeutic technique that now fascinates me. I love effective healing methods!I have a fascinating story about her book and what happened to me from one of its meditation--then she told me it sounded like I was doing brain spotting on myself!She begins to ask me questions she would normally ask a person in a brain spotting session, so you get to hear a little bit of what it might be like. I loved it!I honestly could have talked to Ava Dasya for hours about her connections between spirituality and psychology methods. It was so fun! I hope you enjoy her delightful self and our conversation. Connect with Ava Dasya Rasa here:Get her book: Transfiguration: 30 Meditations Inspired by Transforming Trauma and Spiritualityhttps://www.avadasyarasa.com/Dragonfly Trauma Counseling Centerhttps://dragonflytrauma.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dragonflytraumaFacebook: https://facebook.com/authoravadasyaTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/avadasyaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/avadasyarasaContact Me or Consume my Stuff Here:***FREE*** Your Autumn Goddess GuidebookGet this free printable to guide you through living your best feminine life in the fall. Simply email me or DM me the phrase 'Autumn Goddess' and I'll email it off to you!Sign up for my Transforming Your Self Text messages! I can be in your texts messages every M, W & F. I'll be giving advice, loving reminders & information to help you love yourself & heal codependency NOW. Sign up by texting the word PEACE to 877-338-0875 or visit this web site: https://slkt.io/xlBeWebsite: Soulamplified.orgInstagram: @SoulAmplifiede-mail: Vanessa@soulamplified.org
The Courage, Coaching and Counseling Podcast with Sovann Pen
My guest is Jake Anderson. "I'm a singer-songwriter, DJ, and fitness fanatic based out of Redding, CA. I've spent the latter part of my 20's and early 30's working on emotional health and stabilizing my life. I like to tell my story through the songs I write and I enjoy seeing people connect with them. In my free time, I enjoy movies, reading, and hanging with my friends." You can watch this episode and subscribe to the podcast on YouTube. https://youtu.be/RmO2Y12EhNA I write more about counseling, marriage, and parenting on my blog: http://www.sovannpen.com/ You can connect with me here: htps://www.instagram.com/sovannpencounseling https://www.facebook.com/CourageCoachingCounseling https://twitter.com/SovannPen
There is an old, antiquated psychology model that is unfortunately still referenced by too many people out there regarding how porn/sex addiction impacts a spouse/partner. That old model is called, "Codependency." For many years, Mark and Steve have practiced a far more effective and correct model and approach known as, "Betrayal Trauma." A PBSE listener who is the partner of a porn/sex addict, sent in a situation and questions around the misguided use and even "weaponization" of the term "codependency." Here is what she submitted—"I recently showed my partner the episode titled “my partners definition of porn is different from mine” with the purpose of highlighting things like priorities and the authentic self. This was prompted because my partner has not been watching explicit videos, but was on tiktok listening to an adult content creator describing the physical aspects of one of the scenes she filmed; I brought this up with him to create a boundary around things that are overtly sexual as I feel they overlap with aspects of his pornography addiction. After he listened I asked him what he found valuable from the podcast and he said “the part about codependency” implying that my behavior was codependent because I was expressing that something made me uncomfortable and asking him to discuss possible solutions with me. Now whenever I talk to him about any negative feelings I have surrounding his behaviors he immediately says I'm being codependent. I looked through your podcasts for an episode on partner codependency but did not find one. I am hoping you guys could discuss what the difference between codependency and feelings or boundaries are; both so I can evaluate my own actions and behaviors and so my partner can hear it defined more clearly. I am fine taking accountability for codependent behaviors, but I do not want to be in a situation where all of my feelings get labeled as codependent."In this episode, Mark and Steve talk raw and real about the differences between so-called, "codependency" and the expressing of authentic feelings and the holding of healthy boundaries. Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program—"Dare to Connect!" You have live access to Mark and Steve in 3 one-hour sessions every week—addicts, spouses and couples! And live support groups on weekends, facilitated by Mark and Steve! To try a free, 2-week trial, visit—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services
High Vibe Self-Help Book Recommendation of: Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie Join host Liz Gracia in this enlightening episode of "Your Weekly Dose of Higher Consciousness" as we explore the transformative power of "Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself." In this episode, we'll delve into:The proven energy of the content of the book to help you heal and the consciousness calibration of this self-help book.The concept of "neutral" energy on the Map of Consciousness (MOC 250) and its potential to change your life.A deep dive into the remarkable author, Melody Beattie, and her own journey of resilience and healing.An overview of the book's empowering message, including how it helps you break free from old patterns.Insights into setting healthy boundaries and saying no to unhealthy relationships.Why this book's wisdom is more relevant than ever in today's world. If you've ever felt trapped in unhealthy relationships, this episode guides you to a brighter future. Tune in and embark on a self-care and personal growth journey with us.Links I promised:Discover Why Being NEUTRAL Is a Power Play in ConsciousnessBooks by Dr. David R. Hawkins:The Map of Consciousness ExplainedLetting Go The Pathway to SurrenderLearn to elevate your emotional state in the moment, become aware of, and release accumulated stress so you feel better and think more clearly. It's a significant next step toward unlocking the transformational power of our hearts.Support the showIf you like what's going on here, you can join me on social media here: Facebook Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TheMindBodySpiritNetwork.com
Marni opens her heart to share a painful marriage, turning her first husband over to Christ, managing through betrayal trauma, prayerful divorce, and how to move forward when her happily ever after was shattered. Moving out of her marriage was painful, but she kept her focus on her kids and deepened her relationship with God and began to find peace and eventually got remarried and has become a life coach to help others through their hope and healing. If this episode resonates with you, or if you know someone who needs a reminder of God's open arms, please share the link to this episode with them. At Unashamed Unafraid, we are here to spread the words of hope and healing through Jesus Christ. Subscribe and follow us on Facebook and Instagram @UnashamedUnafraid.Do you have a story you are willing to share? Email our Podcast Executive Director Jeremy at jeremy@unashamedunafraid.com.
-What does codependency look like in teen boys? -How can adolescence be a “hot bed” for codependency due to developmental, social, and cultural factors? -What are the long-term consequences of unaddressed codependency in the lives of young men? Welcome to Episode 145! This week, I am joined by Sipan Nazaryan, Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, to discuss codependency in teen boys. I for one do not think of teen boys when the word codependency is mentioned, however, Sipan is here to educate us on what codependency looks like in the lives of male teens with their friends, parents, mentors, and romantic interests. We explore Sipan's approach when he notices codependent behavior in his teen boys and how he connects with them, especially those who are resistant to therapy. We take a look at codependency between parents and their teen sons and how it harms their ability to individuate. We conclude with hearing about the long-term consequences of unaddressed codependency in these young men. It's a must-listen! Links for the show: Sign up for the newsletter to receive all things codependummy: https://keap.app/contact-us/2302598426037497 Journal! The Confiding Codependummy: 30 Days of Journaling Prompts for a Less-Codependent and More-Conscious YOU for just $1 a day. www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing FREEBIE! The Self-Validation Challenge: Learn to validate your GD self: www.codependummy.com/challenge Money! Funds! Help support the show via a one-time donation via secure Paypal link: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC Work with me! Email marissa@codependummy.com to inquire about psychotherapy, coaching, or coming on the show! More on thise week's guest: Sipan Nazaryan, Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, graduated from Pepperdine the summer of 2023 with a masters in Clinical Psychology. He has worked under Kent Toussaint at Child & Teen Counseling for his traineeship. Sipan currently is working under Anita Avedian at Anger Management 818 / Avedian Counseling Center for his associateship. https://childteencounseling.org/ https://angermanagement818.com/ Contact: sipan@counseling-centers.com Connection Parenting Book Sipan references: https://www.amazon.com/Connection-Parenting-Through-Instead-Coercion/dp/1932279768 More deets on the episode: We begin with hearing Sipan's definition of codependency: an addiction to a specific relationship; where one has difficulty distinguishing where they end and someone else begins. And how does that look in the population Sipan specializes in working with: teen boys? Codependent teen boys often see themselves through the eyes of another; they're perspective is skewed through another's lens; they take in another person's perspective to an extreme; they find purpose in a relationship; they “have to” be with someone in particular; and they lose their friends due to an over-focus on another relationship. On social media, these types of relationships are often referred to as “my twin flame” or “soul mate.” So what does codependency look like in teen boys (since we don't often expect them to be codependent)? Sipan shares how teen boys are susceptible to codependency since they are in a state attempting to individuate while also susceptible to the influence of their parents, friends, mentors, coaches, etc. This phase of life requires boundary setting and group embeddedness, however, if they struggle to set boundaries or become too embedded in their relationships, they can fall into the grasp of codependency. And how does Sipan approach working with teen boys, especially those who are resistant to therapy? Sipan acknowledges how this population is often difficult to work with for therapists. Through a series of steps, Sipan connects with his teen client's parents, establishes the teen client's autonomy in therapy, sets boundaries with the parents, and connects with his client through the self-object and timeline activities. Sipan reflects on how work with teen boys and their parents who were codependent on them. This looks like the parent projecting anxiety onto their son, being hyper-protective of them, and an overall discomfort with their son individuating. Sipan works with the parents by providing psychoeducation to help them connect with their son on a deeper level to avoid always providing instruction or correction to him while lessening their codependent grip. We end with hearing a message of warning and hope for young men: if their codependency is unaddressed, their relationships are left fragile and lacking stability. With help from therapy, teen boys are able to create strong, stable relationships and can cope with difficulty much better. Thanks for coming on Sipan! And thank you for listening, my dear listener! PLEASE: Rate. Review. Subscribe. Share. We need more ratings on Spotify! 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Connect with Diane Jellen Diane Jellen – Author, speaker, and mentor As a child, author Diane Jellen liked feeling needed when her alcoholic dad borrowed the nickels and dimes she had hidden under the living room rug. During her twenty-eight year marriage, her cycle of codependency came full circle as she enabled her husband's alcohol cravings. In a search for answers to her compulsive care giving, Diane attended addiction-counseling classes. At the age of forty-eight, she signed up for her first college class and after eight years of night school, graduated cum laude with a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration. Along with successful completion of the American Association of Christian Counselor course, Caring for People God's Way, Jellen attended many church-sponsored leadership classes. She received a certificate from Teaching to Make a Difference Seminars sponsored by Sampson Ministry Resources. As an inspirational speaker, Diane participated at retreat workshops in Connecticut, Ohio, Vermont, as well as Pennsylvania. She is also a former team member with the Worldwide Marriage Encounter Organization and an apprentice with DivorceCare recovery support group. Her impressive education and background earned Jellen a position with the Palm Beach County School District in an alcohol and drug recovery facility. Diane has also worked in several residential rehabilitation clinics. As her confidence and faith grew, she began to minister to others through the power of the Holy Spirit. Born in Shenandoah, PA, Diane is the mother of four children and two grandchildren. She is now retired and lives Linkedin Diane Jellen https://www.instagram.com/dianejellen/ website: https://www.dianejellen.com/author-bio-diane-jellen/ email: dianejellen@aol.com Connect with Host Terry Lohrbeer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2658545911065461/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terrylohrbeer/ Instagram: kickassboomers Twitter: @kickassboomers Website: kickassboomers.com Connect to Premiere Podcast Pros for podcast editing: premierepodcastpros@gmail.com
Whether you are the adult child of an alcoholic, or emotionally immature or neglectful parents raised you, it is important to contemplate the effects of such a childhood. Do you worry more about what other people think about you than what you think about yourself? Were you raised to feel as if your emotions were insignificant? Was your home unpredictable, and did you feel like at any moment, your house could explode? In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, a world-renowned mental wellness expert, dives deep into some of the not so obvious effects of growing up in an alcoholic, toxic family system. The good news is, there is a way to heal and to break through the damaging effects growing up in a dysfunctional home creates. The first step is coming out of denial. Lisa's been there and paved the way for those willing to live above the veil of consciousness, challenging their faulty negative childhood programming. Begin your journey with Lisa's 12 Week Recovery Program today. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special
Welcome to Quit Your Job, Sis: Unhinged, where I step away from my usual business and freelancing content to share unfiltered thoughts and opinions about things in my day-to-day life. In this episode, I dive into relationships, why being desperate to be in one can be problematic, and the importance of being content on your own before pursuing a partnership. I share why I initially resisted dating my now-fiance despite wanting to, and valuable insight on self-worth, happiness, and finding the right person. I talk about:Societal pressures on being in a relationship and the negative impact it can have on our valuesThe dangers of desperation: how the mindset of needing to be with a person can lead to settling for the wrong person and missing red flagsCodependency vs. healthy relationships: the importance of not relying on someone else for happiness or validationReleasing desperation and learning how to thrive in the single lifeIf you're someone who feels like they can never be happy single, I urge you to take a step back and examine why you feel that way. You are already so valued, loved, and important on your own. Your right person will find you when the time is right; it sounds cliche, but it's true. Don't settle for a relationship that doesn't make your life better. Tune in to this episode of Quit Your Job, Sis: Unhinged to hear how I challenge societal norms and inspire you to live a life filled with happiness!Support the showFor more biz tips, BTS moments, and pissing off corporate bros, follow me on social media @lindsaymhanson! Instagram | TikTokWant more tips to help you launch & grow your online business? Click here to join the FREE Quit Your Job, Sis Facebook Community!Need a coach or social media manager to help you launch & grow your online biz? Work with me!
I love autumn, and always have! My love for it deepens the more I understand feminine living. This means living with all the cycles of me and the earth, including the seasons. Fall is about gathering, harvesting and feasting...among so many other things!How do you love living fall fully? Today I'll talk about how autumn is like a certain phase of the moon and certain phase of the menstrual cycle.We'll go over 3 rituals you can do you gather yourself for autumn.I do mention a book several times in the episode, it is The way of the Happy Woman: Living the Best Year of Your Life by Sara Avant StoverContact Me or Consume my Stuff Here:***FREE*** Your Autumn Goddess GuidebookGet this free printable to guide you through living your best feminine life in the fall. Simply email me or DM me the phrase 'Autumn Goddess' and I'll email it off to you!Ancestral Energy Healinghttps://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=18953727&appointmentType=51435184This uses energy healing to clear traumas and challenges from your lineage, helping to improve your life and make you feel better, more joyful! First 6 people to sign up will receive this offering at 125 USD, as I am practicing to deepen this skill. After the 6 practice sessions, the rate will revert to its full amount of 250 USD. DM or email me with any questions.Sign up for my Transforming Your Self Text messages! I can be in your texts messages every M, W & F. I'll be giving advice, loving reminders & information to help you love yourself & heal codependency NOW. Sign up by texting the word PEACE to 877-338-0875 or visit this web site: https://slkt.io/xlBeWebsite: Soulamplified.orgInstagram: @SoulAmplifiede-mail: Vanessa@soulamplified.org
The inner child is that part of us we can easily lose touch with, who knows our truth and has witnessed and experienced every pain, known and unknown. For adult children of alcoholics or those raised in emotionally neglectful or abusive homes, the inner child is forced to go underground, minimize their emotions, make excuses for being abused, and often have no choice but to live in fear of abandonment. Lisa A. Romano is a world-renowned Life Coach specializing in mental wellness, codependency recovery, and narcissistic abuse. She believes that most, if not all, of our adult upsets can be linked directly to a faulty, negative subconscious belief that originated in childhood. She offers those ready to commit to the conscious healing path her 12 Week Program, which has recently been endorsed by psychologist Dr. Robin Bryman Ph.D., who routinely suggests Lisa's course to her patients to help them develop their self-awareness and self-confidence. In this episode, Lisa sits down with Holly, a member of her conscious healing community. She discusses the path to healing the inner child through her holistic and integral approach to healing, which encompasses brain science, spiritual teachings, cognitive behavioral techniques, tough love, and self-compassion. If you'd like to become a member of Lisa's Healing Conscious Community, you can register for the 12-Week Recovery Program here, qualifying you as a member. https://www.lisaaromano.com/btwm-special
We had the pleasure of meeting Kelley Koehler at her massage studio – a space that resonates with intention, warmth, and mindfulness. As she welcomed us, it was clear that Kelley has undergone a remarkable transformation. She radiates a sense of self-love and maturity that contrasts vividly with the person she was not too long ago.Kelley's roots trace back to suburban Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Her father's occupation as a racecar driver and her mother's self-absorption marked her upbringing. The divorce of her parents during her third-grade year led to a series of moves orchestrated by her mother's quest for work opportunities. From Arkansas to Wisconsin, the family navigated small towns as her mother hustled for a better life.The shift from her Wisconsin small town to the bustling urban environment of Houston during her teenage years was a jarring experience. Kelley, who had been accustomed to being the center of attention in her small-town schools, suddenly found herself a small fish in a much larger pond. Coping with this culture shock and the ensuing struggle to fit in, Kelley turned to alcohol, drugs, and other means of self-soothing.However, her life took a different direction. She left home at 17, and by the time she turned 18, she was in rehab. Surprisingly, her challenges weren't centered around drugs or alcohol; instead, she realized that her core issue was codependency and the need to learn how to navigate life independently from the influence of her narcissistic mother.Kelley's journey included six marriages and six children. The cumulative experiences brought her to a moment of profound self-discovery. Now, in this beautiful chapter of her life, she has embraced self-love and has surrendered to her own identity. She has learned to stand strong in her individuality and no longer seeks someone or something external to complete her. Join us as we bear witness to Kelley's inspiring transformation, a narrative that unfolds with each step she takes through The Jar.For more of The Jar, visit:Website: https://www.thejar.live/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTgFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/podcast.thejarInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejar_podcast/Disclaimer: The views stated in this episode are our guest's opinions and do not represent the views, beliefs or opinions of The Jar Podcast. Our goal is to provide a platform for everyone no matter what they believe, and we would like to continue to do that while making it clear our guests are not a representation of The Jar Podcast.
Brenda J and Karen W interview Sherry Gaba and Carla Romo. Sherry is host of the Love Fix Podcast and a psychotherapist. Sherry is the go to expert along with Dr. Drew Pinsky on VH1's #1 "Celebrity Rehab" or have seen her on Access Live, The Bio Channel or Showbiz Tonight talking about her book, "Love Smacked: How To Stop Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love." Her Co-host Carla is a renowned dating and relationship coach and Author of "Contagious Love" and an international speaker. The four women discuss people pleasing and how it goes together with codependency. They also discuss healthy relationships and dating in today's world. https://thelovefix.com https://hangingontohope.org
Sherry and Carla have a funny chat about their coffee preferences before they get into a Love Fix question from a listener who is trying to break away from pleasing people, but still isn't comfortable or confident while stating their needs. They then sit down with two incredible guests who are changing the game in the world of sexual empowerment and pleasure, Amy Baldwin and April Lampert. Amy is a certified sex educator, relationship coach, and co-owner of a mother-daughter online pleasure boutique. April is the Co-owner of the innovative pleasure product company Hot Octopuss. Together, they've created the Shameless Sex Podcast, a platform dedicated to breaking down barriers and inspiring open conversations about sexuality. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast The Love Fix Relationship Quiz Join our Get Healthy Relationships and Dating Group Coaching Programs Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp Sherry Website | IG Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love April and Amy: Shameless Podcast | Pure Pleasure Shop | Shameless Sex | Hot Octopuss Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Sherry and Carla and The Love Fix!”- If that sounds like you, please consider the rating and review our show! Scroll down to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast. What You'll Hear In This Episode: Sherry's family sold sex toys?! How Amy and April made their way to sex education and learned to empower themselves in and out of the bedroom. What inspired the Shameless Sex podcast, and how it created a community of women looking to expand their sexual knowledge and shed the stigma of shame around sex. Our mindset around sex can have so much to do with how we were raised and taught around sex growing up. As women, what do we have to do in order to fully embody our own sexuality? How can someone start to get comfortable with their own needs and sexuality? How does codependency relate to sexuality and speaking up in the bedroom? A few must-read resources that April and Amy recommend, including The Erotic Mind. The importance of communication in sexual relationships, particularly when it comes to using sex toys. What defines a healthy sex life? Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.
In today's solo episode, I am exploring the impact that relationships have on our ability to form independent identities and progress on our healing journey. I discuss my personal experience with codependency, breaking free from being a “pathological people-pleaser”, and the desire to be seen and loved by others. Additionally, I touch on believing people when they show you who they are, the law of detachment, and cultivating self-love.FOLLOW AMBIVALENT BITCHESIGThreadsTikTokYouTube
Are you addicted to being in a relationship? Is your relationship codependent? How do you even know if you are addicted or codependent? In this episode, Kevin Anthony talks with Carla Romo certified Life and Dating & Relationship Coach, and Sherry Gaba, LCSW and coach about what relationship addiction and codependency really are, how they are related to each other, how trauma factors in, how you can recognize these patterns, and what you can do about them. This is essential listening if you think you may be experiencing any of these. To Find More From Sherry and Carla, Click The Link Below: https://thelovefix.com/
If your marriage has felt chaotic and confusing and over the years you have become unhinged, shut down and felt a loss of self, you need to hear this podcast!A lightbulb goes on when you understand what narcissistic personality disorder looks and feels like. You have been gaslit, diminished and belittled for so long you have begun to believe their narrative about you and probably deeply dislike the triggered person you have become.Then you listen to a podcast like this one…and the curtain is pulled back…and the emperor has no clothing…and you feel hope for a better future!I'm back today with a good friend, Ross Rosenberg, M.ED., LCPC, CADC who specializes in helping people understand the behavior of the narcissist and more importantly, what caused you to attract such a dysfunctional person into your life. Ross goes much further though, explaining to us our behavior born out of our trauma and how to heal from a deep and painful lack of self love that has driven our relationships.Ross Rosenberg is the owner and primary contributor to Self-Love Recovery Institute. He is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness and author. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency/Self-Love Deficit Disorder, Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment. His book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome has sold over 100,000 copies and is translated into seven languages. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio and has over 170,000 YouTube subscribers and over 16 million views. You can find his work online at SelfLoveRecovery.com.More ways to connect with Ross: Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-self-love-recovery-podcast/id1651512643 Website: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/RossRosenberg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rossrosenberg_slri/Journey Beyond Divorce Resources mentioned in his episode: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Take the "How Toxic is my Marriage" Quiz: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/toxicquiz
The "guests" on this program are the callers, and they're treated with careful respect, rather than being rushed, dismissed, and replaced. Topics covered in this 1-hour broadcast: Codependency Free Resources available on topics covered in this 1-hour broadcast https://www.hopefortheheart.org/free/ If you are dealing with a personal or family issue and would like to hear directly from June on your situation, consider an appearance on a future broadcast of Hope In The Night. To schedule your time with June on Hope In The Night, leave your information at 1-800-NIGHT-17 (800-644-4817).
As a preview of Season 5, when we will be introducing more voices into the conversation, we have a guest on this episode. Jason reflects on his struggles with codependent behaviors and the origins of these behaviors in their family of origin. He discusses experiencing physical and emotional abuse from their father at a young age and feeling needy and demanding as a child. His mother's actions and comments also contributed to his negative self-talk and body image issues. He goes on to share how he turned to overeating as a form of self-medication and how his mother's reactions to his weight gain exacerbated his feelings of inadequacy. He describes a pattern of settling in romantic relationships and feeling a need to please others. He also discusses how he is working on setting boundaries and overcoming people-pleasing tendencies. He is working on resolving the shame and fear that has always been present in his romantic relationships and expresses hope for the future. 00:02:00 Jason's understanding of codependency 00:02:57 Origins of his codependent behaviors 00:06:36 Body shame 00:15:11 Early romantic relationships 00:22:50 Current relationship status 00:25:26 Struggle with people-pleasing 00:30:50 Healing Join us on Patreon for written material and Discord discussion. Thank you for following or reviewing this podcast. It helps other people find the podcast. Instagram and Facebook: @codependentmind Email: codependentmind@gmail.com
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In the restaurant world, the back of the house is a noisy, chaotic mess. The back of the knee isn't much different. With a lot of elements clamoring to keep things moving, it's no wonder things can get sticky and dysfunctional. In this episode of The Rebel MT, Allison breaks down how understanding the frantic mayhem is fundamental to your role as a “fixer.” Host: Contact Allison Denney: rebelmt@abmp.com Allison's website: www.rebelmassage.com Allison Denney is a certified massage therapist and certified YouTuber. You can find her massage tutorials at YouTube.com/RebelMassage. She is also passionate about creating products that are kind, simple, and productive for therapists to use in their practices. Her products, along with access to her blog and CE opportunities, can be found at rebelmassage.com. Allison's column in Massage & Bodywork magazine: “The QL and the Psoas: The Epitome of Codependency” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine, January/February 2022, page 24. “The Hand: A User's Guide,” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine. November/December 2021, page 81. “Feelization: Connect with Clients on a Deeper Level,” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine, September/October 2021, page 85. This podcast sponsored by: Rebel Massage Therapist: http://www.rebelmassage.com AnatomySCAPES: www.anatomyscapes.com Rebel Massage Therapist: My name is Allison. And I am not your typical massage therapist. After 20 years of experience and thousands of clients, I have learned that massage therapy is SO MUCH more than a relaxing experience at a spa. I see soft tissue as more than merely a physical element but a deeply complex, neurologically driven part of who you are. I use this knowledge to work WITH you—not ON you—to create change that works. This is the basis of my approach. As a massage therapist, I have worked in almost every capacity, including massage clinics, physical therapy clinics, chiropractor offices, spas, private practice, and teaching. I have learned incredible techniques and strategies from each of my experiences. In my 20 years as a massage therapist, I have never stopped growing. I currently have a private practice based out of Long Beach, California, where I also teach continuing education classes and occasionally work on my kids. If they're good. website: www.rebelmassage.com FB: facebook.com/RebelMassage IG: instagram.com/rebelmassagetherapist YouTube: youtube.com/c/RebelMassage email: rebelmassagetherapist@gmail.com AnatomySCAPES - created by & for hands-on professionals. As hands-on health professionals, we want more than labeled charts of muscles, nerves, and bones. We crave anatomy education that informs our touch. AnatomySCAPES' innovative online trainings are bringing vibrant, visual, real anatomy understanding to therapists with the Anatomy LOVERS eBox! Each month, you receive an image-packed, research-loaded mini-course including: A downloadable and sharable Anatomy ART Card. Research-loaded, 1-hour Course Webinar in the Anatomy LOUNGE with Nicole Trombley and Rachelle Clauson. Anatomy ZINE course manual full of images, science and art to help you dig deeper. Anatomy BRIEF Video that takes you into the dissection lab to see how anatomy LOOKS, FEELS, MOVES, and RELATES to its surroundings. Really visual, really relevant, REAL anatomy education for hands-on professionals. Go to anatomyscapes.com/ABMP and become an Anatomy LOVERS eBox subscriber today! website: www.anatomyscapes.com/ABMP FB: facebook.com/AnatomySCAPES IG: instagram.com/anatomyscapes YouTube: youtube.com/@anatomyscapes Email: info@anatomyscapes.com
In this episode, Tudor welcomes Julian Epstein to discuss the division between political parties in the United States and the increasing use of impeachment as a political weapon. They express concerns about the impact of constant impeachment inquiries on the country's power and ability to address important issues. They also discuss the lack of meaningful discussions and debates in today's political climate, the role of politicians in staying true to their authentic selves, and the importance of resolving issues like the UAW strike. The Tudor Dixon Podcast is part of the Clay Travis & Buck Sexton Podcast Network - new episodes debut every Monday, Wednesday, & Friday. For more information visit TudorDixonPodcast.comFollow Clay & Buck on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/clayandbuckSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode, Tudor welcomes Julian Epstein to discuss the division between political parties in the United States and the increasing use of impeachment as a political weapon. They express concerns about the impact of constant impeachment inquiries on the country's power and ability to address important issues. They also discuss the lack of meaningful discussions and debates in today's political climate, the role of politicians in staying true to their authentic selves, and the importance of resolving issues like the UAW strike. The Tudor Dixon Podcast is part of the Clay Travis & Buck Sexton Podcast Network - new episodes debut every Monday, Wednesday, & Friday. For more information visit TudorDixonPodcast.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Old timey smells, a new tennis era, why Elizabeth can't join a council, codependent relationships, chaos with passion, how not to get sucked into a cult and more… this week on Nobody's Listening, Right? Support the show! https://patreon.com/nobodyslisteningright Find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nobodyslisteningright/ Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@nobodyslisteningright Find us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nobodyslisteningright Shop with us! https://www.amazon.com/shop/nobodyslisteningright 00:00 Intro 00:57 People Know Lewis and Clark 06:28 Prison Love 08:13 Dirty Bits 09:35 Super Gonorrhea 11:32 Vaginas and Petticoats 15:27 A Mechanical Pencil Gesture 18:10 Tennis! 22:21 Caffeine Headache 25:14 Neighborhood Council 31:07 Thick Skin 35:23 Are We Codependent? 46:18 Death Nail or Knell 1:01:33 Everybody Likes A Scavenger Hunt
Love can be complicated especially when unhealed wounds are at play outside of self awareness. It's easy to focus on the output or the return when it comes to love and keep your heart and eyes focused on what you are receiving or not receiving from another person. Whenever we focus on the outside, we lose our way and lose our alignment with the purity of the now moment. If I love you, and focus on what you are doing for me in return, then my intention is tainted because my attention on you comes with strings attached. Unhealthy relationship dynamics can be confusing to sort out and that's why self awareness, and self accountability are so important. To be healthy in a relationship you must be willing to address in yourself the beliefs, assumptions, or behaviors you hold that might be working against your desire to be loving. Codependency is not love. It is a mask for unhealed wounds, and manifests in varied ways, one of which is to love others wishing to be loved in return. Curious and want to hear more? Listen in as renowned Life Coach and bestselling author, Lisa A. Romano, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery, explains why and how, loving to be loved is working against your chances of developing healthy relationships. To work with Lisa, or to participate in one of her online courses, visit; https://www.lisaaromano.com
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-How do couples interact when they are under the ‘spell of codependency?' -Why is it that ‘high-functioning' codependents act immature and childlike in romantic relationships? -What can couples do to break their codependent patterns? Welcome to Episode 144! This week, the amazing Connie Morlett Maddison, LMFT, joins us to talk about her experience treating codependency in couples. Connie shares about the couples she has worked with and how the ‘high-functioning' codependent partner often behaves in an immature, childlike, and over-reliant manner when it comes to problem-solving, conflict, and compromise. We also discuss the dynamic between the ‘codependent partner' and the ‘partner they are codependent on' since it is a symbiotic relationship! It's not all on the codependent! We conclude with ways Connie helps couples combat codependency through ‘uncoupling' and improving their respective relationships with themselves. It's a must-listen! Links for the show: Sign up for the newsletter to receive all things codependummy: https://keap.app/contact-us/2302598426037497 Journal! The Confiding Codependummy: 30 Days of Journaling Prompts for a Less-Codependent and More-Conscious YOU for just $1 a day. www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing FREEBIE! The Self-Validation Challenge: Learn to validate your GD self: www.codependummy.com/challenge Money! Funds! Help support the show via a one-time donation via secure Paypal link: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC Work with me! Email marissa@codependummy.com to inquire about psychotherapy, coaching, or coming on the show! More on thise week's guest: Connie Morlett Maddison, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in Claremont, California. She is also an adjunct professor teaching clinical psychology with an emphasis in Multicultural and Latino Community mental health. Connie proudly identifies as Chicana, born in East Los Angeles, and raised by her maternal grandparents in Queretaro, Mexico. www.morlettcounseling.com More deets on the episode: We begin with Connie's definition of codependency: when one surrenders their own identity for the benefits of love, security, safety, belonging, and survival. She emphasizes how being dependent is nothing to villainize and how, from a sociological lens, it is a good thing. However, when relationships become conditional like codependency often does, it is unhealthy. Connie recollects her own codependent relationship with her younger sister. Due to their circumstance, they relied heavily on one another and this lead to each of them wanting the other's approval, love, validation, and so on. Connie highlighted how, if and when she did not get the approval or communication from her sister that she needed, it felt like abandonment. Such a great description of our codependent experience! We shift gears to Connie's expertise: working with couples in therapy. She shares her observations of the codependent parter's behavior, including how we often seize our partners, give up our autonomy/self-trust/wisdom/intuition, become child-like and immature during conflict, and rely on our partner as a “mighty source.” This looks like bickering, fighting, passive-aggressiveness, and name-calling on the day-to-day. And what about the partner of the codependent? We often focus on our behavior but it's a symbiotic relationship! What about the partner in this dynamic? Connie states how the relationships are symbiotic “and they can become parasitic.” The other partner has been codependent too! Their behavior includes staying in the relationship and fulfilling needs despite how draining it is. To address these challenges, Connie has couples ask themselves: how do you get your needs met for yourself first? They must have a willingness and motivation to have a relationship with themselves first THEN address the needs in the relationship. What needs are most important to you? Attention, acceptance, affection, appreciation, or allowance. We conclude with Connie's experience of witnessing couples do the work of “uncoupling” and creating a relationship with themselves: they feel relieved, responsible for their own needs, and become sexy to one another as mature partners! Thanks for coming on Connie! And thank you for listening, my dear listener! PLEASE: Rate. Review. Subscribe. Share. We need more ratings on Spotify! 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Sherry and Carla first share a little about the infamous Villages community in Florida, and then they take a Love Fix question from a listener wondering how they can stop feeling triggered from past situations in their new relationship. They then welcome Marlena Tillhon, a psychotherapist and relationship coach specializing in helping people heal from past trauma caused by unhealthy relationships. Marlena works with her clients so they can create healthy, loving and fulfilling relationships so they can feel loved for who they are today. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast The Love Fix Relationship Quiz Join our Get Healthy Relationships and Dating Group Coaching Programs Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp Sherry Website | IG Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love Marlena: Website | IG Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Sherry and Carla and The Love Fix!”- If that sounds like you, please consider the rating and review our show! Scroll down to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Also, if you haven't done so already, follow the podcast. What You'll Hear In This Episode: How negatively unhealed trauma affects our relationship. Learning to break the cycle of getting in unhealthy relationships. Appreciating the learning lessons in shorter relationships instead of feeling shame around them. The importance of codependent people learning to show up as they are instead of feeling the need to be perfect or control the outcome. What is the codependent nightmare? How Marlena learned to distinguish love from the traditional view of relationships, which in turn helped codependent thoughts and behaviors. Some of the most successful and thoughtful people also have traits that align with codependency. It could be anxious attachment, or it just could be a normal response to someone's avoidant behavior. Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.
Codependency is one of those "buzzwords" that can often be weaponized or overused. What does it really mean, and how can we recognize it?In the fifth episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim Cress will teach you to recognize signs of codependency so you can adjust your own expectations and work toward seeing progress with your relationships.Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.
Codependency and narcissistic abuse can be incredibly damaging to one's physical, mental, and emotional well-being. By understanding how behavior patterns develop and why they are so harmful, we can break free and begin to recover.Our guest expert, a survivor to thriver, Pi Venus Winslow, is the author of Mother Medusa – Weaving Myth, Ritual, and Magic into Healing from a Narcissistic Upbringing and a transformational life coach, assures us that while it takes time and effort, it's worth it to reclaim your sense of self and build a life free from fear and negative influences. She also shares • Tips to unravel the intertwined layers of codependency and narcissistic abuse• How codependency's hyper-awareness harms your health • What's keeping you from healing from your narcissistic upbringing• Setting boundaries and building resilience against codependency and narcissistic abuse• Techniques to trust yourself and find your true selfPlus so much more...More About Our Guest: Pi Venus Winslow is a published author, public speaker, and transformational life coach for those recovering from a narcissistic upbringing. Pi's mission is to empower others to reclaim their authentic selves and live intentionally free from codependency and narcissistic abuse. And get your free digital gift of Pi's book, Mother Medusa – Weaving Myth, Ritual, and Magic into Healing from a Narcissistic Upbringing at https://fullvenusrising.com/get-the-book-sign-up/ Share this link with your family and friends: www.UnderstandingAutoimmune.com/Pi_2023Your host and guest are neither doctors nor medical professionals. We are everyday people trying to make sense of the world. The information presented in this interview cannot substitute for the advice of your physician or other trained medical, healthcare, or other professionals. Host(s) and guest(s) are not diagnosing specific conditions during the show. This show is not intended to diagnose, prevent, or treat autoimmune diseases or other conditions or illnesses. The information provided on UnderstandingAutoimmune.com, Life Int