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    The Codependummy Podcast
    DJ CODEPENDUMMY: An analysis of “Love The Way You Lie” by Eminem and Rihanna with Marissa Esquibel, LMFT

    The Codependummy Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 66:39


    -What can we codependummies learn from an analysis of “Love the Way You Lie” by Eminem and Rihanna?  -What are some common themes touched on in the song that codependents tend to exhibit in toxic relationships?  -What about songs like this encourage and enable our codependummy ways and how can we stop relating so much? Welcome to episode 87! We are back with our DJ CODEPENDUMMY segment where we analyze, deconstruct, and look critically at a song dripping in codependent themes. This week, I'm discussing “Love The Way You Lie” by Eminem and Rihanna. This song discusses topics of manipulation, intolerance of being separated, relationship withdrawal, and others which are commonly found in codependent relationships. You'll hear me apply choice lyrics to a former codependent relationship in my past to help you better understand codependency in your own relationships.. I open up about ways that my ex and I were both deeply codependent. I hope that by sharing you feel less alone in your own codependency.  Helpful links: “Love The Way You Lie” by Eminem and Rihanna - https://open.spotify.com/track/15JINEqzVMv3SvJTAXAKED?si=f17b742d0feb4894 DJ CODEPENDUMMY from December 2021: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dj-codependummy-part-i-love-me-by-the-cardigans/id1550681775?i=1000544066503 DJ CODEPENDUMMY from July 2021: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/codependummy-playlist-1-part-one/id1550681775?i=1000527846296 www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing - check out The Confiding Codependummy for just $1 a day for the next month (it's $30 total).  www.codependummy.com - check out the Self-Validation Challenge for free! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC - help support the show via a one-time donation via secure Paypal link!  More deets on this week's episode: We begin with our typical check in. It's so important to check in girl! We then begin our analysis of 4 lyrics and touch on four themes of codependency: Intolerance: codependents are unable to endure separations (even in conflict) Withdrawal: codependents undergo withdrawal (loss of appetite, restless, lethargic, disoriented, agony, etc.) when separated or a relationship ends Violent fighting/ending: codependents may engage in explosive, vitriolic, and combative arguments which may involve emotional and physical abuse  Manipulation: codependents attempt to control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously I proceed to discuss the lyrics and themes while sharing anecdotes from a former relationship.  You'll hear me talk about the restlessness and agony I experienced when separated from my ex.  I reveal just how manipulative I was while “not” talking to him but keeping tabs on him thanks to social media.  I recall how my ex was also intolerable of separation which turned into him showing up at random which I perceived as romantic.  In conclude with how, despite all the evidence of how toxic the relationship was, we continued to stay together as I “loved the way” he lied.  To conclude, I discuss why this song, these lyrics, and this behavior is problematic. I then provide challenging statements to each of the lyrics discussed in an effort to demonstrate the ideals we codependiamonds ought to be working towards.  Questions for you: How do you relate to these lyrics?  Where in your life are you burning and liking the way it hurts? Where in your life are you crying and others are simply watching? Do you have a relationship(s) where you love being lied to? Why? What's familiar about these relationships from previous dating relationships and those in your family? How can you start to work towards no longer tolerating burning, crying, and lying in your relationships? PLEASE R.R.S.S: Rate.  Review. Subscribe.  Share. We need more ratings on Spotify! Thank you in advance! If you're needing more than just these episodes to combat codependency in your life, here are some additional options and resources: -Get your copy of the Confiding Codependummy: 30 days of journaling prompts for a less-codependent and more-conscious you! www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing  -The Self-Validation Challenge - free 30-day guide to providing yourself with all the validation you seek: www.codependummy.com  -If you are wanting to dive into your codependency deeper one-on-one, please email marissa@codependumy.com Support the show via a one-time secure donation: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC  I will see you all next week!

    Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
    Narcissistic Abuse Codependency is Not The Flip Side of Pathological Narcissism in NPD

    Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2022 26:24


    Narcissistic Abuse - Healing from BPD or NPD AbuseCodependency is Not The Flip Side of Pathological Narcissism in NPD. A.J. Mahari discusses why people with Codeendency need to understand this difference and who is forwarding it online - mostly Cluster B's specifically Narcissists or a Narcissistic Psychopathic YouTuber. Codependency is not pathological narcissism and it isn't Narcissistic Personality Disorder either. Comparisons between Codependency and NPD are not accurate. Codependency is not a personality disorder.

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
    Attachments to Narcissists Create Betrayal Bonds

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2022 11:05 Very Popular


    In this episode, Lisa A. Romano explains how it is that a narcissist relies on your faith in them, to gain an attachment in order to create betrayal bonds in relationships. Narcissists will lovebomb their targets, and mirror back your personality traits in order to create trust in them so that their targets are more easily manipulated. In time, a narcissist will cause a target to distrust their own perception, until they only trust the perception of the narcissist. If you are involved in a narcissistic relationship, you will benefit from a better understanding of how it is narcissists ease you into betrayal bonds. To work with Lisa and her team and to learn to enhance your own emotional IQ, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp To learn more about how Lisa can help you master your emotions, with her online programs, books, meditations and workbooks, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com

    The Love Fix
    The Roller Coaster of Trauma Bonding and Love Bombing with Nova Gibson

    The Love Fix

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2022 36:57


    Sherry talks about her new move to Florida, and then she and Carla take a Love Fix question from a listener in a new relationship who is trying to break old patterns from having to deal with narcissists. They then welcome Nova Gibson, Founder and Principal Counselor at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counseling Service. Nova talks about her expertise and passion behind supporting victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse, how to begin the process of recovery, why a tribe is important as you begin to seek help, and why victims tend to get stuck in a cycle of going back to either the same or a new narcissist partner.   Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Become a Member — Codependency Special — Wake Up Recovery — $1 trial membership Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching  The Love Fix Relationship Quiz   Sherry Join me for the FREE Obsessive Love & Codependent Relationship Transformation Challenge, beginning Monday, August 15th ...   Website | Sign up for your FREE strategy call for life coaching/psychotherapy with Sherry Sherry Gaba | Psychotherapist, Life Coach & Author    Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp   Sign up to be in TDR database: https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo   Nova Website | Facebook    Today's episode is sponsored by Carla's book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry's book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love.   Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.   What You'll Hear In This Episode: How self-care and setting boundaries go hand in hand with narcissistic abuse recovery.  Why is there so much talk about narcissists and the people that have been affected by them?  How trauma bonding keeps victims physically attracted and addicted.  Nova talks about her own experience with a narcissist, and why she chose this area of expertise after getting the help she needed.  Check out Nova's Brighter Outlook  community, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence. Nova gives a snapshot of what love bombing looks like, and why even smart successful people can fall prey to it.  Love addicts tend to live in fantasy rather than reality.  Why no contact is important and finding a tribe that can support you is critical.  What resources are there for people getting out of a toxic relationship that want to go no contact but have children?    Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.

    The ABMP Podcast | Speaking With the Massage & Bodywork Profession
    Ep 262 - Whitney Lowe Wants to Learn More: “The Rebel MT” with Allison Denney

    The ABMP Podcast | Speaking With the Massage & Bodywork Profession

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 32:30


    Whitney Lowe, the somewhat reserved but well-researched massage therapist and educator, has a story to tell. It is one that spans the country, bridges timelines, and is driven by the deep desire to learn. His journey from Atlanta to Oregon is full of crossroads. But through it all, his vision and intrinsic curiosity saw him through. And we hope he never stops. Join us as we listen to Whitney share this amazing tale.   Host:              Contact Allison Denney: rebelmt@abmp.com             Allison's website: www.rebelmassage.com                      Allison Denney is a certified massage therapist and certified YouTuber. You can find her massage tutorials at YouTube.com/RebelMassage. She is also passionate about creating products that are kind, simple, and productive for therapists to use in their practices. Her products, along with access to her blog and CE opportunities, can be found at rebelmassage.com.               Allison's column in Massage & Bodywork magazine:     “The QL and the Psoas: The Epitome of Codependency” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine, January/February 2022, page 24.    “The Hand: A User's Guide,” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine. November/December 2021, page 81.   “Feelization: Connect with Clients on a Deeper Level,” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine, September/October 2021, page 85.   This podcast sponsored by:     Rebel Massage Therapist: http://www.rebelmassage.com   milk + honey: milkandhoneyspa.com/careers   Rebel Massage Therapist: My name is Allison. And I am not your typical massage therapist. After 20 years of experience and thousands of clients, I have learned that massage therapy is SO MUCH more than a relaxing experience at a spa. I see soft tissue as more than merely a physical element but a deeply complex, neurologically driven part of who you are. I use this knowledge to work WITH you—not ON you—to create change that works. This is the basis of my approach. As a massage therapist, I have worked in almost every capacity, including massage clinics, physical therapy clinics, chiropractor offices, spas, private practice, and teaching. I have learned incredible techniques and strategies from each of my experiences. In my 20 years as a massage therapist, I have never stopped growing. I currently have a private practice based out of Long Beach, California, where I also teach continuing education classes and occasionally work on my kids. If they're good.   website: www.rebelmassage.com   FB: facebook.com/RebelMassage   IG: instagram.com/rebelmassagetherapist   YouTube: youtube.com/c/RebelMassage   email: rebelmassagetherapist@gmail.com   milk + honey Award-winning day spa milk + honey is currently hiring Licensed Massage Therapists in Texas, Los Angeles, Chicago, and Miami.   Milk + honey is committed to helping employees achieve their personal and professional goals by offering competitive benefits, and an industry-leading compensation program that takes a holistic view of performance and tenure, allowing team members to take charge and own their own growth Visit milkandhoneyspa.com/careers or find us on Instagram at instagram.com/milkandhoneyspa to learn more about what makes milk + honey a great place to work and submit your application.  

    Gateways to Awakening
    Codependency, narcissism, and creating healthy boundaries | Terri Cole

    Gateways to Awakening

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 47:50


    On today’s episode, I speak with Terri Cole, a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over 450,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. We talk about the following and so much more: ✅ What are boundaries and how we can establish clear boundaries ✅ What enmeshment is and how does it start? ✅ What is repetition compulsion ✅ What is the resentment container? Why is this an important part of the work? ✅ What does it mean to be codependent? Why does this occur? ✅ What is narcissism, and how does it occur? ✅ How you can tell when someone is a narcissist? ✅ Some of the ways we can relate to each other in healthy ways in a relationship ✅ The most effective ways to deal with conflict in a relationship I want to thank our sponsors Athletic Greens, who have created AG1, one of the most innovative packets of supplements, including 75 high-quality vitamins, minerals, whole-food sourced superfoods, probiotics, and adaptogens to help you start your day right. If you purchase today, you’ll get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. All you have to do is visit athleticgreens.com/yasmeen. Please tag us and tell us what you loved! You can follow @Gateways_To_Awakening on Instagram or Facebook if you’d like to stay connected.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Wake Up with KC
    The misconception of intimacy and sex!

    Wake Up with KC

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2022 81:50


    Vanessa is an Intimacy Expert to help you to create healthy relationships with your body, mind, and soul. She is an certified 500-hour Yoga Teacher, Ayurveda Massage Therapist, and YouTuber. I studied Yoga, Ayurveda, Huna, Numerology, and other healing techniques in Bali, India, Hawaii, Mexico, and Colombia. Now She is here to bring this ancient knowledge into the modern world and I will help you with this to connect you back with your soul purpose, create healthy intimate relationships and to empower you to create a life you truly desire to live.1:1 Mentorship , Embodiment Coach, Ayurveda Massage Therapist, Yoga Teacher, NumerologyWebsite: www.vanessagruebel.com Online Course How to Step out of Codependency: https://pureheartleadership.gurucan.com/plans/612cba3fd2eb460017f81eff  YouTube Vanessa Gruebel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVkfXGoiemA9ixepyG_AcAw/featuredInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessagruebel/You can watch it here: https://youtu.be/M4Qp4fjqoEcLike and subscribe and follow me on instagram @wakeupwithkcWebsite: https://www.wakeupwithkc.com/Jewelry provided by: Pretty Bling Boutiquehttps://www.facebook.com/prettyblingboutique/Logo created by: Eden Fritz AguiarProducer & Marketing Dir, Clovercrest MediaOpener created by: Zachary LaPlantCMG | Social Media Manager| Chief Video Editor Music is provided by: Just The Way It IsAdrian WaltherSX7PA8K4SYANWVLZ

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
    When They Believe the Narcissist and Not You

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 17:20 Very Popular


    In this episode, Lisa A. Romano dives deep into the mind games narcissists like to play with the people you love. When you love a narcissist, you don't know you have fallen for a mask or a false self. You don't know you're being manipulated and lied to nor that your trust is being used against you in order to control your emotions, behavior, finances, and attention. However, when the mask slips, and you see the truth, the narcissist works even harder to prove to others they are not what you see behind the mask. When it is your children and family that believe the narcissist lies over you, sometimes the best you can do is let go. Grab a cup of coffee, you're not going to want to miss this one. To work with Lisa and her team and to learn to enhance your own emotional IQ, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp To learn more about how Lisa can help you master your emotions, with her online programs, books, meditations, and workbooks, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com

    The Codependummy Podcast
    How to Make Deep Connections as a Codependent with Beth Klein, LMFT, LPC

    The Codependummy Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 59:13


    -If all we've been is accommodating, appeasing, and appealing to others in non-reciprocating friendships, how do we start making meaningful connections? -What do we do with the discouragement when we seek deeper connections but end up feeling even more disconnected? -How do codependents balance the advice we get on making connections (i.e., ask lots of questions) with our tendencies to be too patient, understanding, and loyal (i.e., just listening all the time)? In this episode, I sat down with Beth Klein, LMFT, LPC to talk about “how to make friends and influence people.” (Just kidding! That's the title of an archaic book that unfortunately doesn't help codependummies like ourselves in making authentic and genuine connections) You'll hear Beth share about how “accommodating” she was in her former relationships, including friendships. So, how did she stop being so codependent/invisible in her friendships to foster deep connections? Beth shares insights on her road of making friendships that we can all apply to our own efforts to create community. We typically hear things like “focusing on giving rather than receiving,” but that's not the best advice for a codependent. By the end of the episode, you will have specific tips catering to our need for balance as we make connections. It's a must-listen! More on this week's guest: Beth Klein is a licensed therapist specializing in helping young professional women get unstuck so that they can bring their lives back into alignment with their purpose, passions and values.  She sees people in-person in her office in Saint Paul, Minnesota and works virtually with people residing in Minnesota or Wisconsin.        Elizabeth@fireflycounselingmn.com 612-470-0991 www.fireflycounselingmn.com @beth.klein.therapist   Helpful links for The Codependummy Podcast: www.codependummy.com www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing JOIN OUR MAILING LIST FOR ALL THINGS CODEPENDUMMY: https://keap.app/contact-us/2302598426037497  Make a donation via PAYPAL to support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC  More deets on this episode: We start with our “typical two” and hear Beth's definition of codependency then aspects of codependency from her own life. Beth discusses how she was “accommodating” in her friendships growing up which then turned into accommodation with partners and in her former marriage. She provides examples of codependency between friends, partners, and the parent-child relationship.  Beth reveals how she started to seek deeper connections following her divorce and wanted to be sure they weren't like the unreciprocating connections she had in her adolescence and young adulthood. But how do codependents make meaningful connections if all they've had are non-reciprocating, thankless, and boundary-less relationships? Beth describes how she was able to make friends by taking risks, putting herself out there, and facing the fear of rejection/unfulfillment/loneliness/and other things that we codependents usually face when trying to create community.  You'll hear Beth share about her experience attending MeetUp groups, receiving encouragement from her therapist, and slowly creating a network of connections.  I push back when she suggests focus on “giving rather than receiving” and other tips like that since, as codependents, all we have done is give. The typical advice to make friends may not always apply to us, right? We conclude with Beth sharing about how we can investigate and explore our values. By knowing our values, we can then decide if we are willing to face the fear and pain that comes with being vulnerable and making friends.  This is definitely a topic we will be covering on an ongoing basis as we codependents are so lonely but also so discouraged when our attempts to connect with others are not successful.  Questions for you, dear listener: What came up for you as Beth shared her definition of codependency? What did or didn't resonate as you heard her examples? How did you relate to Beth's experiences of codependency from her own life? How are you doing with your friend game? Do you feel fulfilled and connected in your friendships or are you lonely and discouraged?  What have been your experiences recently in making deep connections? Any advice to share (please email me! marissa@codependummy.com) If you could do whatever you wanted, what would you do? When you're 80, what do you want to look back on and remember fondly about what you did? Are you willing to face pain, discomfort, and fear to attain what you value most? Can you take time this week to look at your values? Beth's questions: How have you struggled to balance the advice we get on making friends with the fact that, as a codependent, you can maintain relationships for decades where you're invisible/unheard/unseen/etc.? Helpful links: www.codependummy.com www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing marissa@codependummy.com JOIN OUR MAILING LIST FOR ALL THINGS CODEPENDUMMY: https://keap.app/contact-us/2302598426037497  Make a donation to support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC  https://linktr.ee/codependummy Please leave a rating & review. A subscribe and share is welcomed! RRSS!

    Good Skin Circle
    Codependency Behavior and How it Might Be Showing Up in Your Business

    Good Skin Circle

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 52:02


    On today's episode, Ashley and Josh chat with Codependency Counselor Erika Wright all about how codependency affects client relationships and business growth.In this episode you can expect conversation surrounding:How codependency is deeply woven into our cultureErika's mantra of - "what's good for you is good for everyone"Why language is so importantShowing up more authentically in your business by frequently asking yourself questions like, "how is this working for me?" Autonomy How resentment is bred and how it thrives in environments where self-sacrifice is the normBehavior vs. IntentionsKindness in message deliveryWhy minding your business is so healthy in businessTrading money for peace and why this is such a toxic behavior for service providersFind Erika - IG @stahsandcocoWebsite erikawright.orgRock Your Retail:https://goldenexperienceguide.mykajabi.comThe Evolve Shop: www.evolveskinandwellness.com/shop

    Ask The Therapist (With Dr. Nicholas Jenner)
    Living with Codependency: Nancy

    Ask The Therapist (With Dr. Nicholas Jenner)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 36:59


    Meet Nancy who has recently found out she is codependent. This helped her to understand better her marriage. A marriage that was affected by infidelity, emotional abuse and limited support but also codependent control from her side.

    Breaking Butterfly
    Answering Your Questions // Talking Boys, Cancel Culture, and Codependency (SOLO)

    Breaking Butterfly

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 42:53


    In this episode, Madi responds to voicemails left by Breaking Butterfly listeners, and dives into topics like codependency, working around men and masculine energy, and cancel culture. We absolutely LOVE hearing from you all

    Wu Wei Wisdom Podcast
    Overcome Fear of Abandonment & Codependency in Relationships

    Wu Wei Wisdom Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2022 40:37


    Discover how to overcome the fear of abandonment and codependency in your relationships.Learn more about our online consultations, events and shop: https://www.wuweiwisdom.comAre you always anxious about your close relationships? Perhaps you expect your partner to leave you because you believe you are not good enough or not valuable enough to them.Or maybe you always want your partner to prove to you that they love you so you can feel safe and reassured… and so you are constantly testing them, and you rarely feel relaxed or at ease in your relationship.In this teaching, with your hosts, husband and wife team, David James Lees (ordained Taoist monk, emotional and spiritual health teacher) and Alexandra Lees (wellbeing coach and feng shui consultant), you'll discover what causes your fear of abandonment in relationships and what you can do to overcome it.Other related teachings on our YouTube channel that will help you:OUR LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS VIDEO PLAYLIST - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX Why Do I Seek Approval & Validation From Others? The Needy Inner Child - https://youtu.be/uACgIJGrLPgHow to Control Emotional Triggers - https://youtu.be/b6rhyu7WISQThe Emotional Pendulum: Your Mood Swings Explained - https://youtu.be/wOC3CgmrgSUReparenting Your Inner Child (Part 1) - https://youtu.be/SndWtblVf2U  (Part 2)  https://youtu.be/BYUxAQYpsKgJoin our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity  If you love our work, you can now make a small donation to help fund the continued production of our weekly teachings by buying us a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/wuweiwisdom Book an online Golden Thread Process & Inner Child Consultation with David: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/ Book an online Feng Shui Consultation with Alex: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/feng-shui-with-alex/Follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdomSign up to receive a relaxing guided meditation gift, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email: https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup​ -Disclaimer: This podcast and any associated teaching and comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. Our show episodes provide general information for educational purposes only and are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.Music by Earth Tree Healing

    Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
    BPD NPD Relationships - What is Limerence? 12 Signs & 5 Traits - Codependency & Limerence

    Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2022 85:48


    BPD NPD Relationships What is Limerence 12 Signs 5 Traits Codependents Limerence Triggered by a Borderline or a Narcissist. AJ Mahari focuses the definition and scope of Limerence in a way that is aimed specifically at people who are in or were in a relationship with a Borderline or Narcissist with Codependency many of whom will be experiencing Limerence.

    Journals of a Love Addict Podcast
    Like a Tornado of Sticks & Poo

    Journals of a Love Addict Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2022 30:52


    Love addiction gets messy. It's full of intensity, shame, and regression that leads us to behave regretfully--or as Jodi says, 'like a tornado of sticks and poo'. In this episode, Jodi celebrates six years in recovery by revisiting Pia Mellody's symptoms of love addiction; and by providing examples of how these symptoms looked for her during nearly three decades of addicted relationships. Music by JD Pendley    

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
    Anxiety Relief and Mental Health Boost Tips to Help You Feel More Grounded

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2022 9:45 Very Popular


    If you were raised by parents who taught you to believe that your feelings were irrelevant, it is going to be nearly impossible for you as an adult to feel secure about making decisions. In fact, making important decisions may actually create tremendous self doubt in you. Listen in as Lisa A. Romano helps you feel more grounded as she explains the impact of negative childhood programming and some of the things you can do to begin taking your personal power back! To work with Lisa and her team and to learn to enhance your own emotional IQ, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp To learn more about how Lisa can help you master your emotions, with her online programs, books, meditations, and workbooks, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com

    The Love Fix
    Identifying Your Triggers and Getting Over a Narcissist with Laura Charanza

    The Love Fix

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2022 28:13


    Do you say hi to your neighbors? Sherry and Carla start the episode talking about whether or not they say hi to strangers while out on a stroll, and take a Love Fix question from a listener whose partner can't stop bringing up their ex. They then welcome Laura Charanza, relationship expert and narcissistic abuse survivor. Laura is also the author of Ugly Love: A Survivor's Story of Narcissistic Abuse. Laura talks about her mission to help men and women navigate toxic relationships, and how it is possible to come out on the other side better than ever.    Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Become a Member — Codependency Special — Wake Up Recovery — $1 trial membership Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching  The Love Fix Relationship Quiz   Sherry Join me for the FREE Obsessive Love & Codependent Relationship Transformation Challenge, beginning Monday, August 15th ...   Website | Sign up for your FREE strategy call for life coaching/psychotherapy with Sherry Sherry Gaba | Psychotherapist, Life Coach & Author    Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp   Sign up to be in TDR database: https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo   Laura Charanza  Website | Ugly Love: A Survivor's Story of Narcissistic Abuse    Today's episode is sponsored by Carla's book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry's book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love.   Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.   What You'll Hear In This Episode: Laura shares her own story of surviving a relationship with a narcissist.  What are the red flags both in others and ourselves that we can look for?  What is the very step of someone as they seek to break away from a toxic relationship?  Why finding a professional to help you wake up and become conscious about your patterns is critical.  If you are worrying about being a narcissist, chances are you aren't.  How do narcissists move in relationships compared to others?  Check out Laura's book Ugly Love, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence. Women often want to find love so badly that they don't listen to their gut and fall prey to toxic relationships.  Why it's important to become aware of your own triggers and trauma response.  Some good signs that a relationship is healthy and based on a solid foundation.  According to research, most people out in the dating world want a partner who is going to therapy.    Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.

    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson
    Rage-aholic #NARCISSISTICPARENTS ARE similar to alcoholics (For fellow ACONs) #shorts #codependency

    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 1:01


    Subscribe to Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson on Soundwise

    What the F**k Happened Podcast
    Engaged. Pregnant. Codependent. with Sam + Rick

    What the F**k Happened Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 70:31


    The What The Fuck Happened Podcast is rebranding as the What The Fuck is Happening Podcast! Sam and Rick record fireside to update you about all things second trimester pregnancy, squirting, getting engaged and the stigma surrounding home birth.In this episode:The “What The Fuck Is Happening” RebrandPregnant sex and squirting victoriesRick and Sam's engagement and why it didn't change their relationshipRick's perspective of pregnancy and thoughts on home birth plans Body image during pregnancyAn honest conversation about codependency and the struggle of moving toward independenceRick's role in producing a new album with Sara Van HeckeSammy's transition into fully working for herselfShow References:Listen to Birthing Instincts with Dr. Stuart Fischbein + Midwife Blyss Young(Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify)Listen to Sun Soul by Sara Van Hecke, Produced by Richard Raymond IIThis show is supported by:Butcher Box | http://rwrd.io/bxy895l?cNuuly | http://fbuy.me/s0MOgSomnifix Mouth Tape | Code ‘SRWELLNESS10' at somnifix.com for 10% off ClearSTEM Skincare  | Code  ‘SRWELLNESS' at clearstemskincare.com for 15% offFollow Richard Raymond Sniegowski II:@richard_raymond_ii@yourdads_old45s@welcometolimeforestFollow Sammy Conrad:@samantharosewellnesssamantharosewellness.comsamanthaconrad.comFollow What The Fuck Is Happening:instagram.com/wtfh.podcast

    Fight Like a Mother
    072 Happy 2nd birthday Fight like a Mother podcast!

    Fight Like a Mother

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 49:19


    Thank you so much for supporting and listening to the last two years of the podcast!  It debuted August 5th of 2020 and it has been a passion project of mine that has been so fulfilling and fun. I am so excited to share with you some clips of my favorite episodes from the last two years.  The 5-10 minute clips from these 5 episodes could truly be life changing!  If they teach you, inspire you and change your perspective I encourage you to go listen to the full episodes of each of them! My first clip I share is from Dr. Nicole Beurkens episode 43 titled "None of this is your fault."  It is one of my most reassuring and comforting podcasts.  I consider it a gift to my community.  If you have kids who are struggling please go listen to this one! Second up is from episode 46 with Dr. Julie Hanks where we  talk about worry and regret in parenting and how it is possible not to drown in worry on a regular basis. Third we hear from episode 62 with Dr. Brad Reedy entitled What is a heroic parent?   This episode for sure hit a nerve with my audience as it was listened to in big numbers.   Dr. Reedy shares that a heroic parent is one who focuses on their own healing so they can be the parent their child needs. I can't have a best of series and not include Dr. Mona Delahooke.  Her two episodes are my most listened to of all of my episodes.  In episode 55, Mona talks about Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) and what is really behind the defiant and sometimes rebellious behaviors.   It is eye opening, reassuring and perspective shifting The last clip I share is one with two of my dear friends Aymee and Courtney who are also raising kids with mental illness.  This is from episode 26 Raising kids with mental illness.  We are real and honest and vulnerable in this episode.  We are honest about the challenges but we also share the gifts and blessings of raising these kids.  

    OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball
    46 - DATING - How micro moments can help you meet someone, the story of how Louise met her man, how to approach 'exclusivity', avoid arguments and more - with Lisa Smith ('So My Mom's A Therapist')

    OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 50:02


    If you are on TikTok, it's almost impossible to not have come across Lisa Smith - better known as ‘So, My Mom's a Therapist'. Lisa takes people's TikToks and breaks down the psychology of what is going on behind the scenes and with over 600,000 followers, Lisa is doing so much good in this world. Based out of California, Lisa is a trauma therapist and is EMDR and TRM trained and honestly - her charisma and personality is next to none. Lisa invited me on her podcast which was a *major* fangirl moment for me - and I asked her if I could share the recording with my beloved OPENHOUSE Audience. She said sure, so, here we are! In this episode, Louise & Lisa discuss: ⇢ The 3 key things Louise has learnt from 3 years of therapy;⠀⇢ The cutest story re: how Louise met her new boyfriend & what she is learning from her healthiest relationship yet;⠀⇢ The micro moment approach + how to let love in; ⠀⇢ The flip flop analogy and how to avoid emotional suppression or emotional outbursts⠀⇢How to cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself and those around you ⠀And so much more.–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– ⠀Connect with Louise on Instagram: @iamlouiserumballConnect with Louise on TikTok: @thetherapygirl__⠀Connect with OPENHOUSE on Instagram: @openhouselife⠀Connect with Lisa Smith on Instagram: @somymomsatherapistConnect with Lisa Smith on TikTok: @somymomsatherapistStream So My Mom's A Therapist on Spotify: here⠀Sign up to join the OPENHOUSE mailing list to receive first access to all workshops, courses and live events: www.thisisopenhouse.com⠀–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– ⠀Music Sources⠀Track: Morocco — Amine Maxwell [Audio Library Release]Music provided by Audio Library Plus

    The Soul Amplified Podcast

    Empaths have the ability to feel other's emotions, physical sensations or are more intuitive, such as connecting to plants and animals or being psychic.  There are lots of cool things about being an empath, like getting information through intuition that helps you with life choices.  There are also some challenges, these often mean you have to be super self aware to take care of yourself in these special ways.  There are many things you can do to increase your self care so these challenges are not as pronounced.  Set boundaries, verbally and energetically, be aware of what creates struggle or intensity for you.  See if you can find another way to do it or interact with it/them that doesn't create an issue for you.  Creativity will be your friend in living a life as a empath that is happy, fulfilling and still helpful to others.  Because Empaths love using their skills to be helpful to others and this is beautiful!  Lastly, you can learn through experts.  The book I talked about in the episode is by Judith Orloff, called The Empath's Survival GuideYou can also become an empath later, after you begin developing your spiritual skills.  Empaths are really just more connected to energy, which is exactly what you're doing if you are practicing spiritual skills.What do you experience as an empath and how do you handle it?  What questions do you have about how to handle some empath situations and experiences?  This empath can help.Contact Me or Consume My Stuff Here:Awaken Your Feminine RetreatI'm having my first in-person event and it's in a Yurt!  This 1/2 day event is all about learning how to receive, be in flow and discover what it means to be in your Divine Feminine.  It will change your life, because it changed mine!  There is also an Exclusive After-Event Ticketed Dinner for a small group.  Be sure to check it all out and register here www.soulamplified.org/yurt-retreatSoul Amplified Merch is here!!!People are already snapping up the merch!  Be sure to get yours!  All fun things to inspire you and support your on your mental health and codependency healing journey.Get yours now by visiting www.soulamplified.org/merchIf you're interested in Upleveling and Getting Support as you go through changes, consider my energy healing sessions, tarot card readings, the Codependency Power Hour or ongoing coaching or mentoring.  The private, one on one coaching and mentoring I offer is focused on codependency, spiritual awakenings, the emotions and psychology of money, figuring out who you are/what you want, and starting your business.  Check out my website for all the links!  You can also click Here for a free Curiosity Call!Click Here for a Tarot Card ReadingClick Here for an Energy Healing SessionSign up for my  Transforming Your Codependency Text messages!  I can be in your texts messages every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.  I'll be giving advice, loving reminders and information to help you love yourself and heal that codependency NOW. Sign up by texting the word PEACE to 877-338-0875 or visit this web site:  https://slkt.io/xlBeWebsite:  Soulamplified.orgInstagram:  @

    The New Mamas Podcast
    Solo Episode: My takeaways from therapy the last few months, mental health update, and musings about a having a second baby

    The New Mamas Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 39:14


    Lina is back with a solo episode about what she's learned in therapy the last few months. Things discussed in this solo episode:The three C's: You cannot change, you cannot control, and you don't cause them to be this wayCodependency: A person who is codependent will plan their entire life around pleasing the other person, or the enabler. In its simplest terms, a codependent relationship is when one partner needs the other partner, who in turn, needs to be needed.How to detach with loveHow it's bad boundaries to try and fix someoneFor anxiety: Don't believe your thoughts, it's just a thoughtFor anxiety: Remember presence, this is my presence existenceFor anxiety: Please remember love"Collective subconscious" by Carl JungI can hear someone's opinion but I don't have to be influenced by it Other episodes you might enjoy:I'M BACK! My depression diagnosis, starting antidepressants, and what's to come for Season 2Postpartum Anxiety and Growing Up With Fear-Based Parenting with Stephanie FengSolo Episode: Post Partum Anxiety (PPA), Weight Gain, Mom Guilt, & PUPPPConnect with Lina on Instagram Follow the New Mamas Podcast on InstagramRead Lina's Blog Support the Show: Buy Me a CoffeeEpisode edited by Chris Duffy: heyitschrisduffy@gmail.comSupport the show

    Heart's Happiness
    Boundaries

    Heart's Happiness

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2022 22:39


    In today's episode Manpreet trauma recovery coach and mentor talks about boundaries on a journey of recovery from codependency and people pleasing.   In this episode we go through:Why boundaries are importantWhat inner boundariesWhat are outer boundariesHow can  implement inner and outer boundariesWhat is FAWN survival response and why we do this!Support podcast here on patreonBuy Power of No mini course here  to help to set boundaries or get it for FREE by doing this survey until Friday 26th AugustJoin 8 week signature course relaunching as Take Your Power back  it is out now!!!Learn more about coaching services hereand book free 30 min discovery call hereJoin our membership group Rewrite Your Storyfor £15.99Here are some book recommendations to kick off your healing in my FREE guide to transform your journey. Follow us on instagram for Heart's Happiness daily inspiration for your mental health and healing.Join our PRIVATE Facebook group to carry on the conversation and speak to others who want to find their own Heart's Happiness and heal. Subscribe to our videos on you tube.Everyone deserves to find their own Heart's Happiness and this podcast has been created with so much love from my heart to yours. Love Manpreet 

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
    The Hard Truth About Soul Growth

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 18:03 Very Popular


    In this episode, Lisa A. Romano Life Coach and Thought Leader, explains the necessary breaks one has to make in order to experience soul growth. Spiritual awakenings are not fun, enjoyable, and blissful. In fact, stages of a spiritual awakening include seeing what is toxic, ugly, and difficult to accept in one's self and in others. Listen in to have your mind expanded and your soul uplifted! To work with Lisa and her team and to learn to enhance your own emotional IQ, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp To learn more about how Lisa can help you master your emotions, with her online programs, books, meditations, and workbooks, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com

    Don't Keep Your Day Job
    Terri Cole on How to Stop Codependency & Be a Boundary Boss

    Don't Keep Your Day Job

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 65:17 Very Popular


    How can we say no without feeling guilt or shame? Terri Cole, psychotherapist, boundary and relationship coach, podcaster, and author, is back to teach you how to stop codependent habits, prevent your customers' limiting beliefs around money affect your business, let go of other people's judgment, and respect your desires and boundaries so you can have the life you deserve. - Join Cathy and Julie Solomon for a virtual fireside chat, Aug. 16th @ 12:30 pm PT! Cathyheller.com/Julie - Come to Cathy's next retreat, Sept. 6-8th in Santa Monica! Cathyheller.com/luxe - Sign up for Terri's course with Mark Groves, Crushing Codependency http://terricole.com/cc - Follow Terri on Instagram @terricole - Listen to The Terri Cole Show wherever you listen to podcasts! - Join Terri's Facebook group, Real Love Revolution https://www.facebook.com/groups/RealLoveRevolution - Get Terri's book, Boundary Boss https://boundarybossbook.com/ - Thanks Betterhelp! For 10% off your first month go to Betterhelp.com/dreamjob - Thanks Everlywell! Get 20% off an at-home lab test at Everlywell.com/dreamjob

    The Codependummy Podcast
    The Codependummy Dilemma with Listener KT

    The Codependummy Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 70:39


    -In what ways was Listener KT raised, reinforced, and rewarded for putting the needs of others above his own? And how has that left him exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in sh*t relationships?   -How did KT's efforts to negate his needs to maintain his romantic relationship work out? (hint: it didn't!)   -For KT to start taking up space in other people's lives, why does he need to plan for the pain that comes along with that process?   In this episode, we had another brave listener come on for The Codependummy Dilemma segment! Listener KT stepped up to the plate to share about how the show has resonated despite him being male (thankfully listening past all the “girl” content)  and codependency in his life. KT describes how he was reinforced/rewarded for putting the needs of others above his own, particularly in his friendships. We hear how his codependent ways have left him exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in crap relationships, especially romantically. I then coach KT through making a “pain plan” in order to help him face all the self-doubt, fear, and vulnerability that comes with connecting with others. It's a must-listen! Helpful links: Email marissa@codependummy.com to come on for The Codependummy Dilemma! www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing - check out The Confiding Codependummy for just $1 a day for the next month (it's $30 total).  www.codependummy.com - check out the Self-Validation Challenge for free! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC - help support the show via a one-time donation via secure Paypal link!  More deets on this week's episode: We begin with hearing about how KT found the show, what has resonated, and how he has been able to listen despite it pertaining to female listeners. Thankfully, KT connected with the stories and being able to relate to all our guests (we hope you have too!).   Next, we hear from KT on how he was raised, reinforced, and rewarded for putting the needs of others above his own. He expands on how codependency took root in his childhood friendships where he played small to avoid the pain and rejection from his dominant friends.    And how is KT now exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in sh*t relationships?   KT recalls his codependency with an ex where he accepted “I just won't get my needs met.” He did all he could to negate his needs but, in the end, he was burnt out. Please note, dear listener, how our codependent efforts to maintain relationships tend not to work!   We shift into the coaching phase and hear how KT wants help “socially.” Due to what relationships have meant to him in the past, he doubts, criticizes, and convinces himself not to reach out to others. So, what's a codependummy to do?   We talk through steps to help him honor the pain he's trying to avoid. If and when he feels rejected, reduced, or ridiculed socially, he can:   -get perspective (call trusted others for support, validation, and help with creating context)   -affirmations (create 3-4 specific affirmations about himself as he endeavors to create new and healthy relationships. For example, “I'm trying to take up space in other people's lives…and part of that process means it's not going to work out everytime. AND THAT'S OKAY”)   -Solitude (being alone without being lonely. KT will “play offense and defense” by spending quality time with himself on a regular basis then also go for walks/runs, bowling, visit places, etc. when he's feeling the pain of rejection)   He will update us in a month to share how he's doing with his pain plan.   Thank you for coming on KT! You are a brave and loyal listener! Thank you! DON'T FORGET RRSS! PLEASE R.R.S.S: Rate.  Review. Subscribe.  Share. We need more ratings on Spotify! Thank you in advance! If you're needing more than just these episodes to combat codependency in your life, here are some additional options and resources: -Get The Confiding Codependummy: 30 days of Journaling Prompts for a less-codependent and more-conscious you! www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing  -The Self-Validation Challenge - free 30-day guide to providing yourself with all the validation you seek: www.codependummy.com  -If you are wanting to dive into your codependency deeper one-on-one like the coaching you heard in this episode, please email marissa@codependumy.com Support the show via a one-time secure donation: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC  I will see you all next week!

    Affirmation Babe
    Affirmations to Overcome Codependency & Reclaim Your Power

    Affirmation Babe

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2022 5:53


    Codependency is considered to be a learned behavior, and any *learned behavior can become unlearned! You are fully capable of overriding old ways of operating and replacing self-defeating habits with self-empowering ones. That's where deep inner work – like affirmations – can be hugely helpful. This episode is intended to be a supplemental resource to your therapeutic process and self healing journey. ---

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
    Do You Abandon the Self? Honoring the Lost Child Within.

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 18:26 Very Popular


    Feeling empty, alone, and like you do not belong is a valid experience for the adult who has experienced emotional neglect and or abuse as a small child. Children who are denied a secure attachment to their significant caregivers are forced to abandon the self. It can take a lifetime to find the authentic self, however, that is the journey for us all. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano Life Coach and Thought Leader dive into painful emotions for the benefit of finding the road back to the divine self. To work with Lisa and her team and to learn to enhance your own emotional IQ, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp To learn more about how Lisa can help you master your emotions, with her online programs, books, meditations, and workbooks, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com

    Be Unstoppable: The Essential Laws of Fearless Living
    Heal the Pain Hidden In Compulsive Pleasures

    Be Unstoppable: The Essential Laws of Fearless Living

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 7:04


    In this answer to a viewer's question, "Secret of Letting Go" author Guy Finley explains that the ending of any form of addiction begins when we stop following the suggested actions for resolution that come from the very problem itself.

    The Love Fix
    Dismantling Family Patterns and Generational Trauma with Johanna Lynn

    The Love Fix

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 34:26


    Sherry and Carla start the show with a first, talking about Khloe Kardashian and her continued relationship with Tristan Thompson, along with what we can take away from their patterns. They take a Love Fix question from a listener who is dating someone who has a drinking issue that has gotten worse as the relationship has gone on, and doesn't know what to do next. Then, they welcome Johanna Lynn, Founder of the Family Imprint Institute, an International Private Practice. Johanna talks about how our generational past and imprints continue to influence us, and how epigenetics can release the past and break patterns.    Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Become a Member — Codependency Special — Wake Up Recovery — $1 trial membership Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching  The Love Fix Relationship Quiz   Sherry Website | Sign up for your FREE strategy call for life coaching/psychotherapy with Sherry Sherry Gaba | Psychotherapist, Life Coach & Author    Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp   Sign up to be in TDR database: https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo   Joanna Lynn  The Family Imprint Institute | @thefamilyinstitute   Today's episode is sponsored by Carla's book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry's book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love.   Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.   What You'll Hear In This Episode: Why did Johanna start the Family Imprint Institute?  How does our family imprint on us and how can we pass down generational trauma?  Johanna talks about why it's so important to do the trauma work on both a physical and emotional level.  The ways that our subconscious influences us to pick out certain partners for relationships, and why we tend to repeat patterns.  The “click” we feel often has to do with what feels familiar in our family of origin. Check out Johanna's Services and Online Sessions, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence. Sometimes you can be the first generation to stop a pattern that has been going on for decades.  The more emotions we keep inside, the harder it is on our whole body system.  What are integrative body psychotherapy and epigenetics?  How can a couple deepen their relationship and intimacy through understanding generational trauma and their family tree?    Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.  

    Touchy Topics with Megan Lambert
    Ep. 4 – Reaching Out for Support in Early Motherhood with Kori Zornes

    Touchy Topics with Megan Lambert

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2022 33:46


    Today, I'm interviewing a coaching client and friend of mine, Kori Zornes (@herwanderlustsoul) about her transition into motherhood, and her decision to reach out for support during this transformational time in her life. For many new mothers, the first few months after baby are a blur, and Kori's experience was no exception. Through all the chaos, she's been relearning about herself. Who she is, what her values are, what she wants out of motherhood and partnership, and how she wants her future to look with her growing family.  In this episode, we discuss why it's so important to reach out for support no matter where you're at in life, why Kori chose me to coach her through this time, and all the beautiful things she's learned about herself and her relationship along the way. Kori's commitment to self-development has had a ripple effect throughout all aspects of her life. I'm honored that she chose me to support her through it and excited to continue celebrating her future growth! If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review to let me know your thoughts! If you're curious about our offerings, visit us at www.integratedintimacy.co. Connect with Kori on Instagram, or visit her website to learn more: @herwanderlustsoul https://www.revampretreats.com/ Timestamps: (01:18 -3:43) Kori's background, coming out of the postpartum cocoon and beginning to rediscover herself  (3:46 - 5:54) What was going through her head as she decided to receive support during this new phase of her life (5:56 - 7:48) How Kori and I aligned to work together on her goals (7:50 - 9:11) The top 3 things Kori wanted to work on during her coaching  (9:16 - 11:26) The challenging moments — realizing her relationship is a mirror for herself  (11:27 - 15:15) Why you should “focus on your own side of the street” (and what that actually means) (15:16 - 21:18) Apologizing, improving communication, and changing the stories we tell ourselves around disagreements (21:29 - 23:07) Breaking down tumescence and how tumescence hinders our deepest connections (23:09 - 27:35) Getting curious in moments of confusion or doubt (27:37 -29:55) What is Kori celebrating herself for in her journey? (29:57 - 33:45) Making sense of the early postpartum blur and leaning into the messiness; closing thoughts

    The ABMP Podcast | Speaking With the Massage & Bodywork Profession
    Ep 257 - The Latissimus Dorsi - Fluidity Required: "The Rebel MT" with Allison Denney

    The ABMP Podcast | Speaking With the Massage & Bodywork Profession

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2022 13:50


    The list of attachment sites of the Latissimus Dorsi muscle is extensive. Equally as daunting is the list of movements made possible by this back muscle masquerading as a shoulder muscle. To know the lats is to love the lats. Finding the ability to move with that which is constantly moving just might be the trick when it comes to working on the Latissimus Dorsi.               Contact Allison Denney: rebelmt@abmp.com             Allison's website: www.rebelmassage.com                      Allison Denney is a certified massage therapist and certified YouTuber. You can find her massage tutorials at YouTube.com/RebelMassage. She is also passionate about creating products that are kind, simple, and productive for therapists to use in their practices. Her products, along with access to her blog and CE opportunities, can be found at rebelmassage.com.               Allison's column in Massage & Bodywork magazine:     “The QL and the Psoas: The Epitome of Codependency” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine, January/February 2022, page 24.    “The Hand: A User's Guide,” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine. November/December 2021, page 81.   “Feelization: Connect with Clients on a Deeper Level,” by Allison Denney, Massage & Bodywork magazine, September/October 2021, page 85.   This podcast sponsored by:     Rebel Massage Therapist: http://www.rebelmassage.com   Rebel Massage Therapist: My name is Allison. And I am not your typical massage therapist. After 20 years of experience and thousands of clients, I have learned that massage therapy is SO MUCH more than a relaxing experience at a spa. I see soft tissue as more than merely a physical element but a deeply complex, neurologically driven part of who you are. I use this knowledge to work WITH you—not ON you—to create change that works. This is the basis of my approach. As a massage therapist, I have worked in almost every capacity, including massage clinics, physical therapy clinics, chiropractor offices, spas, private practice, and teaching. I have learned incredible techniques and strategies from each of my experiences. In my 20 years as a massage therapist, I have never stopped growing. I currently have a private practice based out of Long Beach, California, where I also teach continuing education classes and occasionally work on my kids. If they're good.   Website: www.rebelmassage.com   FB: facebook.com/RebelMassage   IG: instagram.com/rebelmassagetherapist   YouTube: youtube.com/c/RebelMassage   Email: rebelmassagetherapist@gmail.com  

    The Language of Love
    Codependency and Narcissism: Breaking the Cycle

    The Language of Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 30:24 Very Popular


    On this episode of “The Language of Love,” I am doing a “Sessions” episode! These are some of my absolutely favorite episodes because I get to sit down with listeners like you and offer my real-time advice on your love, sex, and relationship questions. For today's session, I am talking to a caller named Lisa. Lisa is struggling with issues with her partner, who she believes could be a narcissist. Lisa's partner has kept her trapped in a toxic marriage (over 18 years) in which he has threatened her with financial consequences or alienating their kids if she leaves him. Although Lisa is desperate to leave, she is frightened to exit the relationship. Lisa is a self-described codependent who has always struggled with expressing her needs and standing up for herself. Although she reports that her childhood was relatively happy, as I explain to her, codependency is not a trait we develop in adulthood. It's a trait we establish in childhood as a way to survive and cope in our family systems. In discussing her childhood with Lisa, we discover that her mother and father had a similar marriage to the one Lisa now finds herself in. Her mother spent her life serving her father and ensuring that his every need was met, and now Lisa finds herself in a similar situation. On this “Sessions” episode, I delve into codependency and the fundamental wound which can lead to codependency. I also reveal how codependency and narcissism can be two sides of the same coin. Although this might sound shocking, people who struggle with codependency can often have shades of narcissism, just as people who struggle with narcissism can also have shades of codependency. Tune into this episode of “The Language of Love” to learn more about what causes codependency and why I feel it is related to narcissism. Check out the advice I have for Lisa about leaving her marriage and healing her fundamental wounds, then shoot me your opinions on social media! I love to hear from you: And, remember, you too can do a “Sessions” episode with me if you email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com or private message me on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram.

    The Soul Amplified Podcast
    Living Your Truth: Values and Codependency

    The Soul Amplified Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 42:03


    I love talking about Values!  I download my brain to you today on this topic, offering you many questions to ponder on your journey with values.  I suggest the following:List the values you can think ofPonder where they came fromDetermine how they make you feel and if you even like themShed what isn't for youDiscover what is for you, and begin making choices based on those valuesI know I make this process sound very simple with just 5 steps, but I assure you I have much more respect for it than that!  The process of examining our values is really life long.  They change over time as our priorities change and as we learn more.  I think the intention is to always be moving in the direction of Living Your Truth.I mention something called the Values Card sort, here is the link to it:https://motivationalinterviewing.org/sites/default/files/valuescardsort_0.pdfHere is a version with indigenous influences, adding values from that culture (as the above version seems to be more euro-centric)http://www.uihi.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/FINAL-Value-Card-Set-082313-CMS.pdfContact Me or Consume My Stuff Here:Soul Amplified Merch is here!!!People are already snapping up the merch!  Be sure to get yours!  Tees and Tanks, Stickers and Journals, Towels and phone cases!  All fun things to inspire you and support your on your mental health and codependency healing journey.Get yours now by visiting www.soulamplified.org/merchIf you're interested in Upleveling and Getting Support as you go through changes, consider my energy healing sessions, tarot card readings, the Codependency Power Hour or ongoing coaching or mentoring.  The private, one on one coaching and mentoring I offer is focused on codependency, spiritual awakenings, the emotions and psychology of money, figuring out who you are/what you want, and starting your business.  Check out my website for all the links!  You can also click Here for a free Curiosity Call!Click Here for a Tarot Card ReadingClick Here for an Energy Healing SessionSign up for my  Transforming Your Codependency Text messages!  I can be in your texts messages every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.  I'll be giving advice, loving reminders and information to help you love yourself and heal that codependency NOW. Sign up by texting the word PEACE to 877-338-0875 or visit this web site:  https://slkt.io/xlBeWebsite:  Soulamplified.orgInstagram:  @SoulAmplifiede-mail:  Vanessa@soulamplified.org

    Happiness After Codependency with Marshall Burtcher
    What Innate Value Is & How It Ends Codependency

    Happiness After Codependency with Marshall Burtcher

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 28:16


    Connect with me and learn more about how I help codependents heal with clarity and more ease: https://links.freetheself.com Community link: https://community.freetheself.comCommunity rules: https://rules.freetheself.com How you can work with me: Option One: The 4 Essential Concepts and Practices For Healing Codependency Workshop. Wondering how you became codependent? Seeking a map back to yourself? Ready to make real change in how you feel about yourself and how to heal? This workshop gives you that clarity and your path forward. You'll learn how codependency is a result of your body's need for safety and how to meet that need that disengages codependency. You'll learn why you doubt yourself and how to start trusting yourself again. You'll learn how to befriend your emotions and how to soothe and care for yourself. You'll learn why you feel worthless and key practice that gives you back your worth. Take back your sanity, clarity, and start healing for real for $47 here: https://4cp.freetheself.com Option Two: Codependency Healing Self-Study System Seeking a structured, proven approach to healing the shame, loneliness, and confusion from abuse and neglect? Looking for a proven path in taking back your power, identity, and worth from abuse and neglect? Ready to create meaningful relationships, prosperity, and peace in your daily life? The Freedom From Codependency Solo Program gently guides you in creating these outcomes for you. Specifically, you'll learn: - How to soothe emotional pain, anxiety, and panic quickly - How to hear your own intuition, brilliance, and voice again (or for the first time)! - How to really, deeply trust yourself - How to create relationships that last because they're built on compatibility and availability - How to know who you are, love who you are, and be who you are that results in fulfillment, peace, relationships, and prosperity - How to know what is real and feel concrete confidence in your experience and reality You can start this journey today here: https://solo.freetheself.com

    Leading Edge Love
    Leading Edge Love - Trish Wright, Certified Sex & Relationship Coach

    Leading Edge Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 58:00


    Tuesdays, 8:30pm Eastern, 5:30pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks: This week, her guest is Trish Wright trauma-informed Certified Sex and Relationship Coach with an emphasis on Compassionate Communication, Self-Love, and Codependency. (Www.TrishWrightGlobal.com). Sumati Sparks (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers open relationship and polyamory coaching sessions via video conferencing or telephone. SUMATI WORKS WITH: Couples who are considering opening their relationship but are confused, nervous and a little scared about how to do it.People who are already practicing open relationship or polyamory but are having some struggles.Single or Divorced People who do not wish to have another traditional relationship.Singles & Couples who don't know where to find other non-monogamous people to meet & date.Heterosexual as well as Queer, Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender, Intersex & Questioning Persons. COMMON CHALLENGES HER CLIENT'S FACE: Confused, nervous and a little scared about how to open their relationship.Painful conflicts in existing open relationships.Frustrated and fed up with the loss of vitality that comes from being in a relationship with little or no sexual intimacy.Feeling like their partner would never go for it.No idea where to meet other non-monogamous people to potentially date. WHAT SHE DOES FOR HER CLIENTS: Get CLEAR about what they want.PREPARE to ask their partner for it, then SPEAK THEIR TRUTH.ACHIEVE the relationship(s) of their wildest dreams HOW SUMATI SERVES HER CLIENTS: With her signature program called: Open Relationships that Work!

    Receiving Love with Erika Simone
    03. Anxious Attachment Deep Dive: The Clinger, Codependency, Fear of Rejection & Abandonment, etc

    Receiving Love with Erika Simone

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 42:03


    Ep 03. In this episode, I do a DEEP dive Anxious Attachment by breaking down what I call: 7 Archetypes of Anxious Attachment. I break down the psychology, childhood origins, and relationship patterns behind love addiction, the fear of abandonment and rejection, codependency, being attracted to emotionally unavailable men, and all the other behaviors of people with an anxious attachment style! Enjoy the episode? Share a screenshot on your Instagram story and tag me @erikasimone_ - With love, Erika Simone xo C O A C H I N G: ⤑ COURSE SIGN-UP!: Healing Anxious Attachment! FREEBIES: ⤑ Book Rec: Attached by Amir Levine ⤑ Free Quiz: What's Your Attachment Style? ⤑ Free Guide: Attachment Styles 101 ⤑ Free Masterclass: Healing the Father Wound ⤑ Sisterhood Facebook Community: Join the Facebook Group ⤑ Bog: Read the Latest Blog ⤑ My Must-Read Book List: Healing Trauma, Dating, Relationships, Love, Faith & Life! C O N N E C T: ⤑ Instagram ⤑ TikTok ⤑ Twitter C O N T A C T: ⤑ Email ⤑ Contact --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/receivinglovepodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/receivinglovepodcast/support

    Conversations with Cinthia
    The Truth About Codependency

    Conversations with Cinthia

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2022 43:02


    Most people these days have heard the term codependency, but plenty of people don't know what it looks like in real life or how to recognize it in themselves.  Overly narrow descriptions of it exclude lots of real-life codependents, limiting our understanding and missing the hope that we can become stronger.  Today Cinthia defines codependency and discusses a variety of ways it can operate in our day-to-day lives, as well as some areas we can begin to grow stronger.  There are some really, really great people who struggle with codependency.  Are you one of them? And, if so, what will you do with it?  To dive deeper into the message of each podcast, we've created a study guide for each episode. Download your FREE Study Guide here!  https://www.cinthiahiett.com/services-6

    The Codependummy Podcast
    The Codependummy Dilemma with Listener DA

    The Codependummy Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2022 59:24


    -How was Listener DA raised, reinforced, and rewarded to put the needs of others above her own? And how has that left her exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in sh*t relationships? -In what ways has DA's codependent past with her family turned into current issues in her social and professional life? -What steps can DA start to take to start validating herself through practicing discernment? In this episode, we are back with the beloved segment, The Codependummy Dilemma! Listener AV reached out and we sat down to hear: how was she raised/reinforced/rewarded for putting the needs of others above her own AND how she's exhausted/exasperated/enveloped in crap relationships. I then coach her through an area in her life where's she's being a codependummy/playing small/needing to take up space! You'll hear us work together and collaborate on how she can discern whether her new job is the best fit for her and what she can do to discover more options besides the extremes of quitting or staying-forever-without-making-any-changes.  Helpful links: Email marissa@codependummy.com to come on for The Codependummy Dilemma! www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing - check out The Confiding Codependummy for just $1 a day for the next month (it's $30 total).  www.codependummy.com - check out the Self-Validation Challenge for free! https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC - help support the show via a one-time donation via secure Paypal link!  More deets on this week's episode: We begin, per usual, with two typical questions: How has DA been raised, reinforced, and rewarded for putting the needs of others above her own? And how is DA now exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in sh*t relationships, including the one she has with herself? DA describes aspects of her childhood, including relationships with her mother, father, older sister, and older brother. Thanks to “not being attached” to herself, she shares how she was attached to others and made to believe that her opinions/needs did not matter.  I then ask DA to reflect on an area in her life where she's currently playing small and wanting to take up space. We hear about her brand new position at work and the observations she's already made about her boss AND how she interacts with her boss. We discuss ways she used to act at work thanks to her codependency and why she doesn't want to do that at her new position.  We talk through steps to help her discern what is best for her:  Step 1: Awareness. DA is already showing conscious awareness of her past patterns and thankfully is hoping to engage with others and herself differently at work. Step 2: Decide. In one month, after a total of four weeks, DA is going to take time to reflect, ponder, and be curious about how work is going. She'll weigh how her new position is impacting her physically, mentally, emotionally, socially, financially, etc. After reflecting, she can then discern what she senses is best: stay, go, balance her new job with her own business, etc. Remember girl, we always have options! Step 3: Validate what she discerns and move forward with that! DA committed to update me in a month to let us know how she's doing.  Thank you for coming on DA! You are a brave and loyal listener! Thank you! DON'T FORGET RRSS! PLEASE R.R.S.S: Rate.  Review. Subscribe.  Share. We need more ratings on Spotify! Thank you in advance! If you're needing more than just these episodes to combat codependency in your life, here are some additional options and resources: -Get The Confiding Codependummy: 30 days of Journaling Prompts for a less-codependent and more-conscious you! www.codependummy.com/toolsforhealing  -The Self-Validation Challenge - free 30-day guide to providing yourself with all the validation you seek: www.codependummy.com  -If you are wanting to dive into your codependency deeper one-on-one like the coaching you heard in this episode, please email marissa@codependumy.com Support the show via a one-time secure donation: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RJ3PSNZ4AF7QC  I will see you all next week!

    OKAY-ISH PODCAST
    Is my relationship codependent?

    OKAY-ISH PODCAST

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2022 22:29


    We're begging you, please don't self-diagnose from memes on the internet... Especially not codependency, because, heads up, codependency isn't even a diagnosis!! This week Maryellen talks all about codependency and rewrites some “inspirational” quotes to reflect the truth:  What do people mean when they say "codependent"? Codependency originated from alcoholics anonymous  Popularized with romantic relationships, but can be in all types of relationships  Unhealthy relationship dynamics don't automatically make the relationship codependent  Ask yourself: does the power dynamic in this relationship feel equal?    The good news? We can change unhealthy relationship dynamics!  If you're suffering from abuse in your life, please call for support    National Domestic Violence Hotline (open 24/7): 800-799-SAFE. Text START to 88788  If you haven't already, please follow, rate, and review the podcast, and follow us on Instagram @okayishpodcast. To submit questions or stories (anonymously if you'd like) visit okayishpodcast.com! 

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
    Betrayal; Why You Can't Just Get Over It

    Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2022 21:28 Very Popular


    In this episode, Life Coach Lisa A. Romano explains why there are just some things that happen within the context of a relationship that you just can't get over. The brain is not designed to forget. It is designed to remember and specifically, painful events. Anyone who suggests you should just get over it does not understand trauma. Lisa breaks down 3 success mindset tips to help you figure out what to do when you can't seem to shake the past. To work with Lisa and her team and to learn to enhance your own emotional IQ, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp To learn more about how Lisa can help you master your emotions, with her online programs, books, meditations, and workbooks, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com