Podcasts about Codependency

When someone you love is in pain—whether they’re sick, addicted, or falling apart—you show up. Again and again and again. You make the calls. You hold the line. You carry what you can. But what happens when love, loyalty, and devotion blur into something harder to name? When care turns into codependency, and compassion starts to erase your sense of self? Kate sits down with best-selling author Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love; Big Magic) to talk about the toll and the tenderness of caregiving. Liz’s new memoir, All the Way to the River, chronicles her years caring for someone she loved deeply through addiction and illness—and what it meant to finally let go. Together, they explore: What it means to walk someone you love to the edge of life How codependence disguises itself as devotion The permission we need to be more than someone’s lifeline This conversation is for anyone who has ever loved to the point of exhaustion. Who wonders if love is meant to cost this much. Who needs a blessing for the moment when helping means losing yourself.

Download the Free Clarity Shift Guide:https://justina.myflodesk.com/clarityshiftguide Join Justina in this empowering episode as she explores the significance of setting personal boundaries and aligning actions with your core values. Learn how to break free from self-blame and judgment cycles to live a more authentic life.Timestamps:[00:00] Introduction: The importance of boundaries [05:15] Understanding self-blame and judgment [12:30] The power of aligning actions with values [20:45] Identifying and setting personal boundaries [30:00] Taking aligned action: Practical steps [40:00] Conclusion: Embracing your authentic selfKey Takeaways:Discover how to untangle patterns of self-blame and judgment. Learn to take ownership of your life choices. Explore Justina's five-step framework for setting boundaries and aligning actions with values.WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE https://youtube.com/@justinawashington?si=bxA4qvK0MizLesvlJoin the next free monthly embodiment session:https://www.raindropmovement.com/feminine-embodiment-online-weekly-classesCONNECT WITH JUSTINA:On Instagram for more insights: https://www.instagram.com/justinabwashington/ ✉️Receive weekly letters of hope: https://justina.myflodesk.com/eb5svn6o52Share your thoughts and experiences with us!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Leave a podcast review on Apple ⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-girl-free-woman-healing-codependency-toxic-relationships/id1541749752⁠⁠⁠ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Leave a podcast review on Spotify⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/4Gfn08oYk6rjcJ168fdRoH?si=eb4e0dc584bd4a28⁠⁠

In Celebrate Recovery two foundational practices and guidelines we follow to ensure safety are anonymity and confidentiality. Why does Celebrate Recovery honor these two important practices? Is it just for small groups and how does that apply to outside the small group setting or even in the public setting and community? In this podcast, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, will walk us through some things to consider as we honor others' dignity over our curiosity and/or desire to share through anonymity and confidentiality for the overall safety of our ministry.

10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering10 ways that BPD relationship recycling actually strengthens your suffering and the trauma/fantast bond hurting you more and activating your nervous system over and over again in ways that are unhealthy, stressful, anxiety-producing and extremely painful. It is so important that people with Codependency recognize why you need the harm reduction of ending BPD relationship recycling and going full no contact and getting into your own therapy and healing process.https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessionshttps://ajmahari.ca/podcasts - Podcastshttps://ajmahari.com - Online Store new Course Modules coming soonhttps://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - This podcast and my Youtube FeedThis podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts,the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic RelationshipPodcast lists.https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/

Following up on Aliene's videos about soul ties, a recent question was asked regarding their connection to marriage relationships. The concepts of marriage, soul ties, and codependency are often intertwined in relationships, leading to confusion and misunderstanding. Join us Monday at 7:30PM EST as we untangle this question and give you Biblical solutions so you can experience healthy relationships God's way! Watch the series on Soul Ties here: Part 1: https://youtu.be/ymkouNuRr8U?si=sHhnlav5aaddccuq Part 2: https://youtu.be/RXcuptSwKFo?si=ldG1uEHn4KVi5B2m What is Real Love? From the Conquer Codependency God's Way Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g63u3Sh5kTU&t=354s How We Love: https://howwelove.com/core-patterns/controller-victim/ Order the book from Amazon: https://amzn.to/3VrtUzz "*Disclaimer: We are a participant of the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program and earn a small commission on qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you when you click on our links to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. Thank you for supporting Treasured Ministries." God has timeless truths to help you navigate life and live in freedom as He intended. Join us LIVE on Mondays at 7:30 PM ET where we answer your questions on how to Conquer Codependency God's Way. Do you have a question you would like Aliene to address? We've got you! Just leave your question in the comments below or email questions@treasuredministries.com Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment if this episode resonates with you! For more information/resources check out the links below: ⇨ Visit the Treasured Ministries Website: https://treasuredministries.com/ ⇨ Join the Treasured Tribe https://treasuredtribe.com/ ⇨ Sign up for our FREE newsletter and get inspiration for your faith journey https://treasuredministries.activehos... ⇨ Donate: https://treasuredministries.com/donate/ ⇨Sign up for retreat https://treasuredministries.com/retreat/ _____________________ Treasured Ministries provides discipleship, biblical resources, and community for women so they can exchange codependency for God dependency and thrive. For more information visit https://treasuredministries.com ______________________ Aliene Thompson is the president of Treasured Ministries International, the creator of the Nourish Bible Study Method, and the founder of the Treasured Tribe, an online Christian community for women. Her popular series on YouTube, "Conquering Codependency God's Way", helps women worldwide move from codependency to God dependency so they can live in freedom as God intended. #codependence #conqueringcodependency

In this Podathon For Recovery episode, Evie shares an extraordinary 44-year sobriety story—beginning with childhood trauma in post-war Austria, prescription drug misuse after a 1973 car accident, and the moment a newspaper listing led her to AA and a new life. She later sought help for sex addiction, moved to Los Angeles in 1982 for deeper recovery, and now helps clients as a coach and hypnotherapist. It's a candid, hopeful conversation about breaking cycles, choosing healing, and why support programs still save lives. Sponsored by Rage Against Addiction Guest Bio:  Evie is a recovery advocate with 44 years of sobriety (since March 31), a former journalist, and a coach/hypnotherapist who started her practice in 2014. After healing from alcohol and prescription drug dependence—and doing deep work in Sex Addicts Anonymous—she specializes in helping clients with sexual dysfunction and weight issues often linked to trauma. Her story spans Vienna to Los Angeles and demonstrates the power of AA, mentorship, and sustained inner work. Main Topics: ·         Podathon for Recovery: 12 Days of Hope benefiting Rage Against Addiction·         Childhood stress and early substance use in Austria; family trauma from the Holocaust era and post-war antisemitism ·         Codependency and marriage to an alcoholic; later escalation with prescriptions after a 1973 car accident and PTSD ·         The turning point: finding AA via a newspaper listing and committing to sobriety; first meetings in Vienna (including men-only and international groups) ·         Moving to Los Angeles in 1982, sober living, women's and mixed meetings; seeking help in Sex Addicts Anonymous ·         Long-term recovery practices; choosing singleness to avoid unhealthy patterns; sponsoring others and “Eskimo” outreach approach ·         Journalism career and interviews (e.g., Matthew Perry) touching on recovery; later training in spiritual psychology; launching a coaching/hypnotherapy practice in 2014 ·         Smoking/vaping discussion and health concerns; practical advice on timing help when peoSend us a textDonate HereRage Against AddictionRage Against Addiction is a non-profit organization dedicated to connecting addicts and their familiDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showRate & Review on Apple Podcasts Follow the Conversations with Rich Bennett podcast on Social Media:Facebook – Conversations with Rich Bennett Facebook Group (Join the conversation) – Conversations with Rich Bennett podcast group | FacebookTwitter – Conversations with Rich Bennett Instagram – @conversationswithrichbennettTikTok – CWRB (@conversationsrichbennett) | TikTok Sponsors, Affiliates, and ways we pay the bills:Hosted on BuzzsproutSquadCast Subscribe by Email

#342: The word "codependent" is everywhere - on book covers (even mine), in therapy sessions, in conversations about relationships. But there's something fundamentally wrong with how we use this label. If you recognize yourself in patterns of people-pleasing, emotional caretaking, or losing yourself in other people's chaos, I want you to know something important: You're not broken. You're not diseased. And you're definitely not codependent. What you are is brilliantly adaptive.Join me this week as I share why I'm moving away from the term "codependent" and offer a new framework that honors your nervous system's intelligence while creating space for growth. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/342Mentioned in this episode:EEO Pre-Sale EEO Pre-Sale

We continue our conversation today discussing some of the issues we find in the therapy profession and the impact it has on individuals seeking help. Specifically, we explore: • What is Big Therapy? • The Problem with Codependency in Therapeutic Relationships • Mental Health Awareness and Its Implications • How to Frame Mental Health Positively • The Dangers of AI in Therapy • And More!We want to empower individuals to make informed decisions and to think critically when seeking out therapeutic help. If you have questions about therapy please don't hesitate to reach out to us at http://loveandlifemedia.comSponsor:The Wellness CompanyWebsite: ⁠https://www.twc.health/lovelife⁠Code: LOVELIFE for 15% off your order!Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

In this episode, we unpack the messy dynamics of codependency – what it is, how it shows up in all kinds of relationships, and how we can fall into unhealthy relationship patterns without realizing it. We look at codependent relationships from both sides: the person who struggles with being overly needy and dependent, and the one who feels the urge to step in, rescue, or be needed. We talk through some of the signs to watch for and why it's important to ground your identity and worth in Christ rather than in another person or relationship. Subscribe to the podcast and tune in each week as Haley and Dustin share with you what the Bible says about real-life issues with compassion, warmth, and wit.   So you have every reason for hope, for every challenge in life. Because hope means everything.   Hope Talks is a podcast of the ministry of Hope for the Heart.   Listen in to learn more  (10:12) - Recognizing Codependency in Relationships (14:36) - Healthy Dependence and Identity in Relationships (27:03) - Signs and Characteristics of Codependency (33:37) - Internal and External Causes of Codependency (42:35) - Dependence on God in Relationships (48:52) - Healing and Growth in Relationships (54:49) - Prayer for Overcoming Codependency   Hope for the Heart resources Learn more and sign up for our fall Hope Together conference: https://hopetogether.com/    Order our newest resource, The Care and Counsel Handbook, providing biblical guidance on 100 real-life issues: https://resource.hopefortheheart.org/care-and-counsel-handbook   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopefortheheart   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopefortheheart    Want to talk with June Hunt on Hope in the Night about a difficult life issue? Schedule a time here: https://resource.hopefortheheart.org/talk-with-june-hope-in-the-night   God's plan for you: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/gods-plan-for-you/   Give to the ministry of Hope for the Heart: https://raisedonors.com/hopefortheheart/givehope?sc=HTPDON    ---------------------------- Bible verses mentioned in this episode   Jeremiah 31:3 -- “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” Romans 5:8 – “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 8:38-39 – “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”  

In this episode, Marshall Burtcher, your expert in healing codependency, reveals the internal compass all codependents must develop to break out of the painful cycles of incompatible relationships, purpose, and work in life.Whether you're new to codependency or have being in the work of healing it, this episode will assist you in understanding what you've been using as your compass and what you need to start focusing on to find your direction and answers in your lifeMarshall's here to help you rewire your mind and body for healthy, satisfying relationships, purpose,, and prosperity.We heal together.  We thrive together.Discover more trainings on healing your codependency: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJla54jZTXg&list=PLWKm1n-ulwozJNUsli8jIstwUxPLSal4_***Take my free "Are You Codependent?" Quiz here:https://ayc.freetheself.com***Discover the cause and cure of codependency in my free 30 minute training, "The Cause & Cure of Codependency". Get the clarity and direction necessary to successfully thrive beyond your codependency:https://ccc.freetheself.com***COMPASS Starts September 21st, 2025: Discover clarity, direction, and peace of mindhttps://compass.freetheself.com***Get private coaching here: https://coaching.freetheself.com***THE CODEPENDENCY TRANSFORMATION SUITE: Exclusively for the individual that seeks to master their self-authority in relationships, purpose & prosperity:https://suite.freetheself.com***Listen to The Heal Your Codependency with Marshall Burtcher Podcasthttps://podcast.freetheself.com***Follow Marshall here:https://links.freetheself.comKEYWORDS:codependency, limerence, love addiction, anxious attachment, toxic relationships, relationships, healing, narcissism, narcissistic abuse, healing codependency, codependency no more, codependent relationships, insecurity, people-pleasing, perfectionism, boundaries, capacity, nervous system regulation, overwhelm, disappointing others#marshallburtcher #breakthroughlifecoach #insecurity #selfhelp #codependency #codependent #codependencyrecovery #emotionaldetachment #overcomingcodependency #lettinggooftoxicrelationships #bringyouremotionsbacktothebody #mentalhealth #mindfulness #lawofattraction #healingtrauma #traumarecovery #stressmanagement #depression #emotionalhealing #personalgrowth #lifecoach #adultchildrenofalcoholics #anxiety #therapyinanutshell #emotions #tealswan #aarondoughty #detachmentinrelationships #selflove #mindsetshift #healingjourney #selflove

Most of us think codependency looks like someone clinging to a toxic partner, losing themselves to someone else's addictions, or being a doormat. But Terri Cole, licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and author of Boundary Boss and her brand-new book Too Much, is here to blow that outdated definition out of the water. Terri has spent over two decades working with everyone from stay-at-home moms to Fortune 500 CEOs, helping them break free from self-sacrificing patterns and build healthier, more authentic relationships. She inspires more than a million people weekly through her blog, social media, signature courses, and The Terri Cole Show podcast. In this episode, Nicole and Terri unpack high-functioning codependency—the kind that hides behind promotions, praise, and the “she can handle it all” reputation. Spoiler: it still feels like shit. Together, they dive into how to spot the signs, why resentment is the red flag you can't ignore, and how boundaries, self-consideration, and surrendering (without self-abandoning) might be the antidote you've been missing. Because friend, if you're exhausted, resentful, and constantly over-giving, this episode is your permission slip to drop the cape, stop fixing everyone else's mess, and finally start considering yourself. Connect with Terri: Website: https://www.terricole.com/  Book: hfcbook.com  IG: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/TerriColeLCSW/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/terricoleny Podcast: https://terricole.com/itunes Related Podcast Episodes Healing Relationships: The 4 Essential Pillars for Lasting Love with Dr. Rachel Glik | 283 7 Rules of Self-Reliance with Maha Abouelenein | 240 How To Be Selfish with Naketa Ren Thigpen | 329 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!

In this episode, Dr. Danielle gets real about a topic too many Christian women silently carry: codependency. If you've ever lost sleep over someone else's choices, kept quiet to “keep the peace,” or felt guilty for taking care of yourself, this conversation is for you. Dr. Danielle unpacks what codependency really is—not just an addiction issue, but a pattern of self-neglect disguised as love. Learn how it shows up in your body, why it keeps you from healing, and how to start reclaiming your God-given identity.This isn't about quick fixes. It's about breaking free from bondage, choosing truth over people-pleasing, and learning to live whole and free in Christ.SERVICES & MEMBERSHIPS:$7 Mentorship: How to Fix Your Energy, Cravings, and Mood in Just One Day

In this heartfelt and laughter-filled conversation, Amy sits down with clinical psychologist, author, and sober powerhouse Dr. Sarah Michaud, PsyD. With over 30 years of experience in addiction and codependency treatment, Dr. Sarah brings both professional wisdom and deeply personal stories—including the hard truth of navigating her husband's relapse after decades of sobriety. Together, Amy and Dr. Sarah dig into the subtle (and sneaky!) ways codependency shows up in everyday life, from parenting to people-pleasing to choosing the “right” sandwich.This episode is an equal parts therapy session, comedy hour, and recovery roadmap. Whether you're navigating sobriety, healing old wounds, or learning how to finally put yourself first, this conversation will leave you nodding, laughing, and maybe even forgiving yourself a little more.5 Key TakeawaysCodependency often begins with dismissing our own needs to focus on others—sometimes in the smallest ways, like food choices.Recovery is about learning to identify and voice your own feelings, even when it feels uncomfortable.Fear—of rejection, being misunderstood, or not being safe—often sits at the root of codependent behaviors.Parenting can resurface old wounds, but awareness creates space to respond with compassion instead of projection.Forgiving ourselves is an essential part of true healing and maintaining sobriety.Timestamped Key Moments[00:06:30] Dr. Sarah on how women are socialized to prioritize others—and the dangers of losing connection to self.[00:13:00] The irony of codependency: trying to “save” others only creates distance.[00:22:00] Amy shares her event-anxiety story and how fear of safety shows up in sobriety.[00:37:00] The childhood memory that shaped Amy's fear of being misunderstood.[00:53:00] Dr. Sarah's hilarious “fancy food basket” story—a codependency trap in real-time.Notable Resources / Guest LinksDr. Sarah Michaud, PsyD's book: Co-Crazy: One Psychologist's Recovery from Codependency and AddictionConnect with Dr. Sarah via The Sober CuratorGet Dr. Sarah's Book “Co-Crazy” on Amazon Follow Amy Liz Harrison on Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn @amylizharrisonCTAIf today's conversation resonated, share it with a friend, subscribe to Eternally Amy, and leave a review—it helps others find the show! For more of Amy's books, courses, and resources, visit AmyLizHarrison.com.

What do you even call a divorce anniversary? Two years after the end of my marriage, I find myself reflecting—not on celebration, but on growth, healing, and the lessons heartbreak leaves behind. In this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing the three truths divorce taught me about co-dependency and how I'm learning to live and love differently. Whether you're walking through the rubble of a relationship, navigating the lonely spaces of divorce, or stepping into love again with a hopeful but shaky heart, these lessons are for you. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why self-regulation must come before co-regulation and the practical ways you can ground yourself before leaning on someone else. The surprising difference between being alone and being lonely, and how solitude can actually become sacred. How boundaries create freedom, why they aren't rejection, but an invitation to authentic love. This Episode Is For You If… You've struggled with co-dependency or shame in relationships. You're navigating divorce, separation, or stepping into new love after loss. You want to stop abandoning yourself in relationships and learn how to show up fully as you.   Resources & Next Steps: Connect with me on Instagram @drzoeshaw for daily encouragement. Subscribe to my newsletter for more conversations on healing, boundaries, and healthy love.  Preorder the book Stronger in the Difficult Places (coming September 30, 2025!): drzoeshaw.com/book   Free Downloads: Download the Steps to Healing from Complex Shame™ PDF: here Get the First Chapter of Stronger in the Difficult Places: here   Share this episode with a friend who needs a reminder: you are not too much, and you are not alone.

In this episode of The Real Women Real Business Podcast, Shauna Lynn sits down with Dr. Anne Dranitsaris, a psychotherapist, leadership coach, and author of the upcoming book Not Broken, Just Delayed. Together, they challenge long-held ideas about codependency, reframing it not as a disorder but as a developmental delay that keeps entrepreneurs, especially women, stuck in survival mode instead of thriving. Anne shares how self-protective patterns like people-pleasing, undercharging, and avoiding conflict often show up in entrepreneurship. She explains why so many women settle for “just enough” and how this mindset limits both growth and fulfillment. Through her unique lens, listeners are invited to rethink boundaries, entitlement, and negotiation - not as selfish acts, but as essential steps toward stepping fully into their authentic power. This conversation is equal parts inspiring and practical, offering listeners fresh ways to shift their thinking and begin rewiring long-standing habits. Tune in for eye-opening insights, journal-worthy prompts, and a transformative reframe that could change the way you lead your business and your life. If this episode resonates, don't keep it to yourself - share it with someone who needs to hear it today.Timestamps:(00:02) - (04:15) - Meet Anne Dranitsaris and her codependency reframe(04:16) - (15:40) - People pleasing and undercharging in business(15:41) - (27:05) - The trap of the “just enough” mindset(27:06) - (41:22) - Boundaries, entitlement, and negotiation(41:23) - (55:10) - Shifting from fear to potentialResources:Set up a free Coaching Assessment Call with Shauna Lynn: AboutShaunaLynn.com/coachmeLearn more about the show: AboutShaunaLynn.com/podcastAnne DranitsarisLearn more about Anne: https://annedranitsaris.com/Read Not Broken, Just Delayed (available Oct 15, 2025): https://amzn.to/45VUcyx  (affiliate link)Follow Anne on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Anne-Dranitsaris-PhD-Author/61563895542900/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anne_dranitsaris_author/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DranitsarisHilliardLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annedranitsaris/Read More Books By Anne: https://www.amazon.ca/stores/Anne-Dranitsaris/author/B00DW3WHKS?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=trueAbout Anne Dranitsaris:Anne Dranitsaris, Ph.D. – Author, Psychotherapist, and Developmental Expert.Anne Dranitsaris, Ph.D., is a psychotherapist, leadership coach, and author who has spent over four decades helping people break free from the self-protective patterns that keep them stuck. Drawing from neuroscience, Jungian psychology, and attachment theory, she guides individuals and organizations to move beyond codependency, Imposter Syndrome, and people-pleasing to live from their Authentic Self.Her new book, Not Broken, Just Delayed, reframes codependency as a developmental delay rather than a disorder—showing readers how the survival strategies that once kept them safe now hold them back. With compassion and clarity, Anne offers a roadmap for healing that empowers people to stop abandoning themselves, reclaim their emotional needs, and step into the lives they were meant to lead.

Borderline personality disorder can be understood as the extreme version of codependency, where, at the core are adult adult children who have suffered from abandonment, rejection, abuse, neglect, and trauma. When an innocent child is unable, through no fault of their own, to connect with their primary caregiver, and especially when that caregiver is actually a source of pain, suffering and instability, the brain of that child is forced to live from the plane of survival. Due to default settings of the personality, brain and nervous system, for the one who has been denied a healthy attachment and who at the same time, also learned that they could not and should not trust the one caring for them, the inner world becomes trapped below the veil of consciousness, living in fear of the love the being so desperately craves.  How Narcissistic Parents Contribute to Borderline Personality Development Children of narcissistic parents often grow up in environments marked by emotional unpredictability. One moment, the parent may be intrusive, critical, or controlling, and the next they may be cold, withdrawn, or dismissive. This creates a push-pull dynamic where the child never feels secure. Over time, this instability fragments the child's developing sense of self. Because their emotional needs are dismissed or punished, the child learns to fear abandonment while simultaneously fearing engulfment. They internalize the belief that love is unstable, unsafe, and conditional.  As adults, this unresolved conflict can manifest as borderline traits: Intense fear of abandonment Unstable self-image Difficulty regulating emotions Stormy, chaotic relationships These symptoms are not “character flaws” but survival adaptations to a childhood where the parent's narcissism left no room for stable, secure attachment. How Narcissistic Parents Create Codependency While borderline traits stem from instability, codependency develops from self-abandonment. In a narcissistic home, children quickly learn that their parent's approval, affection, or even basic safety hinges on meeting the parent's emotional needs.  The child becomes hypervigilant, scanning the parent for shifts in mood, anticipating outbursts, and adapting themselves to keep the peace. This conditioning teaches the child: “My needs don't matter.” “I must earn love by taking care of others.” “If I say no, I'll lose connection.” As adults, these children often: Over-function in relationships Prioritize others' needs above their own Struggle to set boundaries without guilt Confuse love with caretaking or control This is the essence of codependency: a pattern of chronic self-abandonment rooted in early survival strategies. ✅ Bottom line: Both borderline personality traits and codependency share the same root wound — a lack of secure, validating parental love. One path (borderline) reflects the inner chaos of unstable attachment, while the other (codependency) reflects the learned habit of self-erasure for connection. Both are survival strategies that can be unlearned through conscious healing, reparenting, and building self-trust. Ready to breakthrough these subconscious patterns? Start here with The 12 Week Breakthrough Method #borderlinepersonality #childhoodtraumarecoverypodcast #codependencyrecovery #innerchildhealing #mentalhealthpodcast #lisaaromanopodcast #narcissisticmother #narcissisticparents #selfawareness #selfdevelopment #healingjourney #awakening #higherself #consciousness   

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Laurence Joss leads a heartfelt discussion with a panel of parents and grandparents about their experiences with parental alienation and recovery. The conversation explores the transformative power of the 12-step program, the concept of alienation as a family disease, and the importance of community support in the healing process. Panelists share personal stories of growth, the challenges of navigating relationships, and the significance of self-reflection in recovery. The episode emphasizes the need for patience and understanding in the journey of healing and the impact of individual change on family dynamics.Key TakeawaysThe 12-step process can help change unmanageable situations.Community support is crucial in the recovery journey.Alienation affects the entire family system, not just individuals.Personal growth leads to changes in family dynamics.Recovery is about how we show up in relationships.Patience is essential in the healing process.The 12 steps provide a framework for addressing dysfunction.Isolation can hinder recovery; connection is key.Understanding alienation as a family disease helps in healing.Self-reflection is vital for personal transformation.Chapters00:00 - Reflections on Change and Recovery02:58 - The Power of Community in Recovery05:49 - Understanding the 12-Step Framework08:42 - Personal Experiences with Parental Alienation11:55 - The Concept of Family Disease14:48 - Navigating Relationships and Alienation17:38 - The Role of Consistency in Recovery20:49 - The Journey of Healing and Growth23:47 - Final Thoughts and Community SupportIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email - familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Send us a textLove shouldn't hurt—yet for those caught in codependent relationships, pain often masquerades as devotion. This illuminating episode examines codependency through a compassionate lens, revealing how inconsistent early love creates dependency patterns that follow us into adulthood.Through two powerful stories, we witness different paths to codependency. Meet Stan, a 70-year-old with terminal illness who discovered his wife of 48 years was a vulnerable narcissist, and Tammy, whose body created a mysterious throat condition to prevent her from continuing her pattern of rescuing "lost puppies." Their journeys demonstrate how our subconscious mind and nervous system get wired to confuse chaos with chemistry.We dive deep into the energetic puzzle that draws wounded hearts together. Why do loving people attract unloving relationships? The answer lies in understanding that at a soul level, we attract not just what we want, but what we're ready to heal. Codependents carry the unconscious belief that love must be earned through sacrifice and saving others, while narcissistic partners believe love must be controlled to feel safe—creating a trauma bond where one overgives and the other overtakes.The turning point comes when you stop rescuing and start respecting your own needs. We explore ten traits of codependency—from chronic people-pleasing to poor boundaries—and guide you through seven transformative stages of healing, each with powerful mantras to support your journey.This isn't about demonizing narcissists or idealizing empaths—it's about honoring your deeply loving nature while learning that your worth isn't something to be earned. As you move from shadow love to sovereign life, remember: codependency wasn't your failure. It was simply your origin story. Now, you're the author creating a new narrative of self-worth and authentic connection.Visit undetectednarcissist.com to access our soul retrieval meditation "Calling Yourself Home," designed to release toxic ties and reclaim your light.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/

One of the ways that the enemy will keep us from moving forward is through the conniving tactic of comparison. In this podcast, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, will walk us through some of the ways that the enemy will use comparison to take us off mission and prevent us from living out and celebrating our recovery. Listen in as he walks through some of the things to be aware of, but also ways that we can guard our heart to prevent comparison from taking us out.

Spiritual codependency isn't some quirky personality glitch. It's a soul-sucking vampire that drains the joy right out of your faith in Jesus. But Jesus revealed that God is a good Father who is neither abusive, insecure, moody, or schizophrenic. To break a negative mindset about God and to rest in the finished work of the Cross is to flop down at the party table and heave a sigh of relief, trusting that Jesus is more than enough to sustain, save, carry, and hold you, me, and the whole wobbly universe together.

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"You can't marry me to erase him."In this episode, TV fangirl Jillian and her husband Tyler breakdown The Summer I Turned Pretty Season 3 Episode 8 "Last Kiss," where all the drama comes to the surface on Belly & Jeremiah's wedding day. We discuss Conrad screaming his feelings to anyone who will listen, the unraveling of Belly and Jeremiah's relationship, and that shocking ending that no one saw coming. 00:00:00 Letter to Jeremiah from Susannah00:00:00 Reading of Susannah's letter to Jeremiah00:04:51 Introduction00:07:06 Top 5 Reasons Belly and Jere didn't work00:08:40 Proposing to Belly00:13:18 Obsession with Conrad00:19:51 Idolizing Adam00:22:18 Codependency after Susannah00:28:36 Conrad is Belly's soulmate00:30:59 Tyler is mad at Jeremiah00:36:57 Conrad has damaged friendships00:41:11 Conrad's speeches00:46:37 Belly & Jere was easier in college00:48:09 Ending veering from books?00:50:09 What's next for Belly & Conrad?00:54:49 What's next for Fisher brothers?00:57:22 Jeremiah's motives01:02:09 Jeremiah's future01:05:42 Taylor Swift's "cardigan"01:06:46 Tyler's Takes01:08:18 Adam hates Belly01:09:30 Was Conrad right to do this?01:10:57 Gossip in Cousins Beach01:11:41 Belly is not a villain01:14:10 Conrad & Jeremiah flaws01:15:14 No-show weddings01:17:00 Belly's letter from Susannah01:19:05 Belly window shot01:21:17 Airline tickets01:22:11 Everyone knew Conrad loved BellyBuy our merch: ⁠https://www.etsy.com/shop/PreviouslyOnTeenTV⁠Follow Previously On Teen TV on Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/previouslyon_teentv/⁠⁠Follow Previously On Teen TV on TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@previouslyon_teentv⁠⁠Subscribe to our YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe2lgvvZGKMrQ8v24FmDdWQ?sub_confirmation=1⁠

n this episode of Bingeworthy, host Mike DeAngelo is joined by comedy icons Seth Rogen & Rose Byrne, along with creators Nicholas Stoller & Francesca Delbanco, to discuss Season 2 of "Platonic." The hit Apple TV+ comedy series returned August 6th and runs through October with new episodes that double down on codependency, middle-aged mayhem, and Rogen's uncanny ability to brutalize delivery robots & bird scooters.The show once again follows Will (Rogen) and Sylvia (Byrne), two long-time friends navigating the messiness of middle age through their unhealthy platonic relationship. Season 2 digs deeper into their toxic but undeniably hilarious bond while still delivering the mix of sharp dialogue and outrageous physical gags that made the first season a hit.

In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer two relationship questions—one about wanting more time with your partner, the other about lingering anger when your needs feel unmet. Both reveal the same underlying problem: telling yourself you should feel differently. You'll learn how to explore your anger and anxiety without adding guilt or shame. Plus, I show you how thought work can be used to get out of cycles of self-blame and to make choices about relationships from a place of insight rather than reaction. Submit your own question here and it might get answered on a future episode: unfuckyourbrain.com/coachinghotlineGet full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/417Mentioned in this episode:Have you been secretly dreaming of becoming a coach?I've got something for you. It's absolutely free and it's called The 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach. This is the exact resource I wish I'd had a decade ago when I got my start. To download it, go to: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/threeClick here to download: 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach

In this powerful episode, trauma-informed life coach and codependency recovery expert Lisa A. Romano explores the hidden dangers of falling for charisma—especially for adult children of narcissistic or emotionally immature parents. If you've ever been drawn to someone magnetic and charming, only to feel emotionally used, discarded, or confused, this episode will help you understand the deeper psychological dynamics at play. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why individuals with abandonment trauma and codependent traits are especially susceptible to charm How narcissists use charisma as a tool of emotional manipulation and control The devastating impact of betrayal by someone who once made you feel special, seen, or chosen How to distinguish real connection from performative affection Why ignoring your gut instincts leads to emotional disorientation—and how to start trusting yourself again Why This Matters Charisma is not the same as character. For those who have experienced childhood emotional neglect, the attention of a charismatic partner can feel intoxicating—like love, validation, and safety all rolled into one. But when that charm is weaponized by someone with narcissistic tendencies, it can leave you emotionally devastated and doubting your sense of reality. This episode is for anyone ready to wake up from the spell of manipulative charm and step into a more grounded, self-aware, and emotionally empowered life. Take the Next Step Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Method is a neuroscience-based program designed to help you uncover the subconscious beliefs keeping you stuck in toxic relationship cycles. Learn how to heal from emotional abuse, build a healthy self-concept, and reconnect to your intuition. Explore the Breakthrough Method at 50% Off https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp

One of the ways that the enemy will get us off focus in the path of recovery is through discouragement. What are some ways that he will use discouragement to sidetrack us and get us off course from the mission and focus of living out Recovery? In this podcast, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, will walk us through some of those things to be aware of and ways that we can guard our heart to stay the course in our recovery journey.

BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTaleWhat starts like a pseudo BPD relationships fairytale in reverse ends in emotional devastation—and you're left wondering what happened. In this episode, I explore why relationships with someone with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and their supposed"Love" feel and are experienced like a reverse fairytale: magical in the beginning, somewhere along the way, sooner or later, traumatic in the end or the many on-going unsuccessful ends in the trauma bond.You'll learn why the intense beginning isn't real intimacy, isn't real "love" and how idealization flips into devaluation, and why the cycle never leads to a “happily ever after.” This episode is a compassionate wake-up call for those still hoping to get back to “chapter one.” You get what you think is the "happy-ever-after" in the beginning and that starts to unravel into the exact opposite.If you've been stuck in a looping pseudo love story that keeps breaking your heart, it's time to understand the pattern—and reclaim your own narrative by breaking free of the quest to get back to the magical fairytale reverse beginning of idealization and intermittent reinforcement of a toxic love passed off as a fantasy that you don't want to admit now.https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessionshttps://ajmahari.ca/podcasts - Podcastshttps://ajmahari.com - Online Store new Course Modules coming soonhttps://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - This podcast and my Youtube FeedThis podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts,the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic RelationshipPodcast lists.https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/

What a great conversation with Mark Groves. Mark is a human Connection Specialist, Speaker, Author, Coach, Podcast Host and founder of Create The Love. Born with an innate curiosity and a hunger for truth, Mark's journey of self-discovery and personal liberation has led him to spend the last decade coaching and inspiring millions worldwide to create the life and love they desire. Through his candid but compassionate, no-BS guidance, Mark has helped empower countless individuals, teams, and companies to step into their most authentic, effective, loving selves, transform how they relate to themselves and others, and create profound changes in their lives and relationships. Mark and I discuss many topics, among them authenticity, attachment, people pleasing and codependency. We also talk about his personal journey from big Pharma to his realization that we need to look at the whole person in order to find our way to wellness and vitality. Mark is an awesome human and clearly in my soul tribe. Loved this convo! Enjoy. xoxo n. Find Mark: Website: https://markgroves.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createthelovePodcast: https://markgroves.com/podcast/ Click here to learn about all the tiers of BreakAwake membership and the ways to get so much help, guidance, and support: https://www.yourbreakawake.com/membership Want to read MIND YOUR BODY? Click here. Are you an immediate gratification person like me?? DOWNLOAD THE AUDIBLE HERE! And.... The Kindle version! I am so overjoyed to see what this book will do. If you are a practitioner looking to specialize in this work or bring it to your community, get the first module of the Sarno x Sachs Solution for free! Click here: www.sarnosachs.com Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser ALL OUR RESOURCES:Instagram: Follow me on insta @nicolesachslcsw for tons of new contentWebsite: www.yourbreakawake.comYouTube: The Cure for Chronic Pain with Nicole Sachs, LCSWFirst Book: The Meaning of TruthFB Closed Group: Nicole Sachs' Support CircleOMEGA General info: OMEGA INSTITUTESubscribe Apple Podcasts Deezer iHeart RadioPublic RSS Spotify

Send us a textAfter nearly 40 years of therapy and self-help work, Barb thought she had it all figured out — until she hit the walls of codependence, trauma, and self-neglect that no amount of “trying harder” could fix. At 52, she walked into a 12-step room and everything changed.In this episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, Barb — now a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and host of the Fragmented to Whole podcast — shares how recovery melted the iceberg of her life. She opens up about the deep work of healing childhood wounds, breaking cycles of codependence, and learning to set boundaries that transformed not just her personal relationships, but her professional life too.Barb's WebsiteSupport the show

Are you walking through questions of sexuality, codependency, or watching someone you love struggle—and wondering if freedom is possible? In this powerful episode, Emily shares her raw and honest story of navigating same-sex attraction, deep codependency, and the lies that held her captive for over a decade. Like so many of us, she tried behavior modification—cutting off the “fruit” of sin—only to discover that true transformation comes when God addresses the roots of the heart. Through vulnerability and truth, Emily shows us that freedom is possible when we place God first, surrender daily, and walk in community. Her journey isn't just for those struggling personally—it's a message of hope for parents, friends, and anyone who longs to love well and experience God's power to transform. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The difference between cutting off fruit and digging up roots. How codependency hides in friendships and relationships. The role of godly community and accountability in healing. Practical steps to guard your freedom and walk in surrender. Encouragement for parents carrying the weight of their child's choices. Resources & Links Mentioned: Emily's Book: What Good Little Church Girls Don't Always Look Like: Understanding Struggle in Light of the Gospel  Connect with Emily: • Instagram: @RebirthMinistries • Website: rebirthmin.com Melinda's Book: The Daring Rescue ReStory Ministries    Final Encouragement: “There is always hope. Even if it doesn't happen in your timeline, God is still working.” – Emily  

Terri Cole is a therapist, author and former high-powered talent agent. From navigating the high-glam world of modeling agencies to helping A-listers through rehab, Terri's journey from powerhouse talent agent to renowned psychotherapist is anything but ordinary. In this episode, we get into the hidden cost of success, high-functioning codependency, why hyper-independence can backfire, and how conflict entrepreneurs thrive on chaos. Terri opens up about navigating addiction in her own family, being engaged to the wrong person, and the magnetic pull between codependents and narcissists—plus the crucial difference between overt and covert narcissism. It's a candid, layered conversation about healing, boundaries, and reclaiming yourself.This episode is brought to you by YNAB, Prolon, Open Phone, Just Thrive, LMNT, Puori, and Fatty15Claim an exclusive three-month free trial with no credit card required at www.YNAB.com/wellVisit www.ProlonLife.com/BLONDE to claim your 15% discount and your bonus giftVisit www.OpenPhone.com/blonde for 20% off your first 6 monthsVisit www.justthrivehealth.com/discount/Well and save 20% on your first 90 day bottle of Just Thrive probiotic with promo code WELLGet a free sample pack with any purchase at www.DrinkLMNT.com/WELLVisit www.Puori.com/BLONDE and use my promo code BLONDE at checkout for 20% offYou can get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to www.fatty15.com/WELL and use code WELL at checkoutPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Codependent? No more! As I've been learning about my own codependent tendencies, I've started noticing all the ways they show up in the culture and doctrine of high-demand religions. In this episode, we'll cover Codependency 101, I'll share my journey of recognizing those patterns in family, friendships, and marriage—and how I'm working to shift them. Then we'll dive into how Mormonism (and other high-demand religions) can supercharge those dynamics. LFG! Melody Beattie's “Codependent No More” Dr. Julie Hanks on patriarchal cultures and enmeshment Join the Girlscamp: After Dark Patreon account ⁠here.⁠ For more Girlscamp content follow along on ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠YouTube⁠. For ad inquiries please email girlscamppodcast@gmail.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For those seeking to heal from codependency, understanding how to establish healthy boundaries with confidence, while aligning with God's principles, is an essential aspect of the healing journey. Join us Monday at 7:30 PM EST when we address how you can make confident decisions and set boundaries God's way so you can thrive! God has timeless truths to help you navigate life and live in freedom as He intended. Join us LIVE on Mondays at 7:30 PM ET where we answer your questions on how to Conquer Codependency God's Way. Do you have a question you would like Aliene to address? We've got you! Just leave your question in the comments below or email questions@treasuredministries.com Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment if this episode resonates with you! For more information/resources check out the links below: ⇨ Visit the Treasured Ministries Website: https://treasuredministries.com/ ⇨ Join the Treasured Tribe https://treasuredtribe.com/ ⇨ Sign up for our FREE newsletter and get inspiration for your faith journey https://treasuredministries.activehos... ⇨ Donate: https://treasuredministries.com/donate/ ⇨Sign up for retreat https://treasuredministries.com/retreat/ _____________________ Treasured Ministries provides discipleship, biblical resources, and community for women so they can exchange codependency for God dependency and thrive. For more information visit https://treasuredministries.com ______________________ Aliene Thompson is the president of Treasured Ministries International, the creator of the Nourish Bible Study Method, and the founder of the Treasured Tribe, an online Christian community for women. Her popular series on YouTube, "Conquering Codependency God's Way", helps women worldwide move from codependency to God dependency so they can live in freedom as God intended. #codependence #conqueringcodependency

What happens when a mother sees her son not as an individual, but as an extension of herself? In this powerful episode, we dive into the hidden dynamics between narcissistic mothers and their sons—and how this enmeshment can shape identity, independence, and relationships for decades.Author and psychotherapist Christine Louis de Cannonville joins us to explore the making of a so-called “mama's boy,” the long shadow of emotional manipulation, and the pathways to freedom. From enmeshment and silenced voices to the liberating act of reclaiming one's power, this conversation is both a mirror and a map.You'll hear stories of sons who struggled under the weight of their mother's control, the painful impact on their partners and families, and a breakthrough moment on the beach where a blocked voice finally found release. Christine shares how spiritual and therapeutic practices—like shamanic journeying and boundary work—can help survivors reconnect with their essence, reclaim their voice, and step into authentic adulthood.This episode isn't about blaming mothers. It's about recognizing the patterns, breaking the cycle, and moving forward with compassion, clarity, and self-love.Christine Louis de Cannonville is a psychotherapist, author, and educator specializing in the treatment of narcissistic abuse. Known for her compassionate yet direct approach, she has written extensively on the dark triad, shame, and recovery from narcissistic relationships. Christine blends trauma-informed therapy with spiritual and shamanic practices to help clients reclaim their voice and their power. Her work has supported countless survivors worldwide in moving from trauma to transformation.Learn more about her work at www.narcissisticbehavior.netBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/mental-health-news-radio--3082057/support.

What if the guilt and shame you carry as a mother or caretaker weren't yours to begin with?In this episode of The Big Silence, Karena Dawn sits down with Vanessa Bennett, LMFT, licensed depth therapist, and author of the new book, The Motherhood MythFrom growing up as a “parentified child” to raising her daughter with intention, Vanessa shares how generational wounds, from the “witch wound” to the “mother wound”, shape our lives in ways we may not realize. Together, they explore self-abandonment, the myth of perfection, codependency in relationships, and how to reclaim your identity through micro moments of self-choosing. Whether you're a mother, daughter, partner, or friend, this conversation offers tangible ways to break cycles, set boundaries, and follow the breadcrumbs back to yourself.How Do We Heal Generational Wounds Without Losing Ourselves?Vanessa reveals how recognizing inherited patterns and our part in them is the first step to breaking free.(00:00:22) Depth Psychology and the Path to IndividuationVanessa explains depth psychology as the “psychology of the soul,” focusing on the whole being and the unconscious.Her upbringing as a parentified child and how it shaped her initial decision not to have children.The importance of holding your upbringing objectively to heal. “They're not all bad. And also, they're not all good.”(00:06:11) The Trinity Wound: Witch, Sister, and MotherThe witch wound: epigenetic trauma silencing women's power, sexuality, and individuality.The sister wound: competition among women fueled by scarcity thinking.The mother wound: how women unconsciously uphold patriarchy and pass down harmful narratives.Why ending these cycles starts with self-awareness and modeling change for the next generation.(00:12:30) Self-Abandonment, Guilt, and Rebuilding Your Sense of SelfGuilt and shame are by design. They are tools of societal control, not signs you're broken.Accept guilt as part of the process, then act anyway.Use “micro moments” (like saying no when you mean it) as bricks in the foundation of self-trust.Following breadcrumbs: orienting toward what makes you feel alive, even if it's small or scary.(00:22:09) Codependency, Resentment, and Healthy BoundariesWe live in a codependent culture that teaches us to outsource our emotional regulation.Resentment as a diagnostic tool: a signal that a boundary is being crossed or unspoken.Attachment styles are fluid and change depending on the relationship dynamic.The link between resentment and projection and how awareness can stop the cycle.Why attraction often fades when relationships take on a parental dynamic, and how both partners can reclaim responsibility for their own happiness.(00:32:50) Friendships, Attachment Styles, and CommunicationVanessa and her co-host model conflict resolution through a commitment to talk about issues openly.The cultural trap of expecting a partner to “reparent” us and why it can kill romantic attraction.Building safety without losing mystery or eros in long-term relationships.(00:40:17) Therapy, Accessibility, and the Power of Group WorkWhy therapists need therapists, and the stigma that still exists around seeking help.Alternative paths to healing: coaches, low-cost...

Have you ever been called too emotional, clingy, or even codependent because of the way you responded to a loved one's addiction or betrayal? Here's the truth: emotional reactivity in those situations isn't codependency—it's a trauma response. In this episode, we dive into the critical difference between codependency and PTSD caused by betrayal trauma. When you're living with someone struggling with addiction, it's not uncommon to experience broken trust, lies, and emotional chaos. The rollercoaster you're on isn't because you're overly attached—it's because you've been hurt by someone you trusted. You'll learn: What betrayal trauma actually is Why trauma responses are often misunderstood (and mislabeled as codependency) How living with addiction impacts your nervous system and emotional responses First steps you can take to begin healing and reclaiming your peace If you've ever felt dismissed or judged for your emotions, this conversation will help you reframe your experience and remind you that your pain is valid. ✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode Soberlink Alcohol Monitoring System https://www.soberlink.com/amber Betrayal Trauma Healing Program (Dr. Debi Silbers) https://mypbtinstitute.com/~access/a14c2436f/ Free Downloadable Resources https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/free-resources Family Recovery Support Group (Facebook) https://www.facebook.com/groups/familyrecoverysupport Schedule an Appointment https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/make-an-appointment Learn About the Invisible Intervention https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/invisible-intervention Get Advice Anytime with Amber AI https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/24-7-coaching-with-amber-ai

Want To Watch The Matt King Show?Watch Here: https://www.youtube.com/@mattkingatx Joshua Wenner delves into the intricate layers of masculinity, grief, and emotional maturity. He shares his personal journey of overcoming trauma and addiction, the importance of emotional regulation, and redefining success through presence and connection. Connect With Joshua Wenner Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshuamichaelwenner/ Website: https://joshuawenner.com/ Moments From The Show00:00 Unmasking Masculinity: The Armor We Wear01:03 Redefining Success: Life Force and Presence04:40 The Role of Trauma in Shaping Our Lives06:08 Spiritual Rediscovery and Integrity09:58 Grief and Loss: A Path to Emotional Freedom23:40 Codependency and Emotional Maturity37:23 Unraveling Childhood Programming38:45 Building a Community of Abundance42:39 Personal Journey Through Addiction and Recovery45:36 Understanding and Healing Childhood Trauma48:50 Daily Rituals for Emotional Regulation55:22 The Importance of Presence in Family Life01:06:12 The Role of Grief in Personal Growth01:08:50 Redefining Masculinity and SuccessConnect With Matthttps://themattking.com/ Learn More About Gobundancehttps://gobundance.com/tribe Thank You To Our Partners!Lauletta Birnbaum, LLC. - Doing Business Justice®https://www.lauletta.com/ Gobundance Members Email: Gobundance@lauletta.comMyOutDesk - The Workforce That Workshttps://www.myoutdesk.com/ APEX Functional Health -  Take Control of Your Health https://www.apexfunctionalhealth.com/The Matt King Show is a podcast dedicated to uncovering the untold stories of high-achieving individuals—entrepreneurs, athletes, investors, and visionaries—who have forged their own paths to success. Hosted by Matt King, the show goes beyond surface-level interviews, diving deep into the pivotal moments, mindset shifts, and lessons that shaped their journeys. With an engaging and thought-provoking approach, The Matt King Show isn't just about success—it's about the experiences, challenges, and philosophies that define extraordinary lives. This is where ambition meets authenticity, and where listeners gain insights they won't hear anywhere else.

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Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we're going into the world of codependency with Vanessa Bennett! Vanessa is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a sought-after speaker, co-host of the hit podcast Cheaper Than Therapy, and author of the new book The Motherhood Myth. Her work shines a light on how generational trauma, societal expectations, and personal experiences shape the ways we show up in relationships. We'll get into the origins of codependence and the different ways it shows up, and how we can identify patterns of control, validation-seeking, and over-functioning (hi people pleasing!),  and move toward interdependence, self-trust, and authentic connection.  In our conversation, we explore how codependency is rooted in a fear and can feel as gripping as addiction. You'll hear about the link between attachment styles and codependent behaviors, as we break down the difference between healthy attachment vs. emotional dependence, sharing tools you can use to build relationships that feel supportive - without losing yourself. So, whether you've dated from this place of feeling responsible for everyone else's emotions, or found it hard to let go of someone even though you knew they weren't good for you, this episode offers both clarity and a path toward healing. Let's get into it Flirties, and meet Vanessa! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! Work with me! Take the FREE Flirt Styles Quiz Get INSTANT ACCESS to my anti-anxiety flirting and dating guide Download my FLIRTING AND TEXTING CONVERSATION GUIDE Grab my FREE Dating App Survival handbook Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit Ask the Flirt Coach About our guest:  Vanessa Bennett, LMFT, is licensed depth psychotherapist, author, and facilitator devoted to the lifelong work of coming home to the Self. In her words:  “My approach blends depth psychology, archetypal wisdom, and embodied healing—but it's also no-nonsense, rooted in lived experience, and grounded in truth. I believe healing isn't about becoming someone new. It's about remembering who you were before the world told you to be small.” Vanessa leads immersive healing retreats, workshops, and custom curriculum-based programs for nonprofits and corporations and founded the Inner Compass Academy, where she trains and supervise coaches and therapists to integrate depth and embodiment into their work. Her newest book, The Motherhood Myth, explores how patriarchy, capitalism, and generational trauma have shaped our narratives around parenting, partnership, and identity, and how we begin the process of coming home to ourselves. You can follow Vanessa on Instagram and learn more about her work on www.vanessabennet.com. About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage. Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self. His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

We all have inner challenges we struggle with that need attention. Today's guest, Crista Meadows, an RN director, speaker, teacher, and minister, talks about the word "Codependency." Through sharing her own story about an unhealthy relationship and being codependent, she brings up markers of what determines this type of lifestyle. Crista speaks out about codependency and is direct, up front, and real. She offers hope that God gave her and points out that there is freedom beyond the fear of being constantly stuck. Her release from a codependent relationship has moved her to offer help and encouragement to other women who may still be living in an abusive or harmful situation.

Maintaining a long-term romantic relationship is hard work. There are good times and there are bad and sometimes couples just grow apart over time. But in the new horror movie Together, growing apart is not an option for Millie and Tim. Starring real-life couple Alison Brie and Dave Franco, Together explores the idea of codependency in a horrific way as the couple becomes literally attached to each other. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Sometimes submitting to the process to go deeper can be scary. Why do we fight change and why is it so scary to discover the roots of the dysfunction in our life that's leading to unhealthy patterns? What does it look like to embrace change versus fighting change? In this episode join Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, and Andy Petry, Landing Director of Celebrate Recovery as they discuss the value of clinging to Jesus instead of wrestling and fighting with him as he brings change to our life.

Love addiction is a set of symptoms most often associated with romantic relationships. But these symptoms can also show up in our relationship with work, which might look like this: seeking unconditional positive regard (ie earning validation and worthiness from the work we're doing, the company that employs us, the person who manages us), while we overvalue this company or person (and undervalue ourselves and the contribution we are making at work), all while self-neglecting as we overfunction in order to get that external validation. And all of this leads to exhaustion, health issues, and ultimately burnout.  In this episode, Jodi talks with burnout and productivity specialist, Tamu Thomas, author of Women Who Work Too Much, about toxic productivity, ambition and the cultural conditioning that shapes us. Tamu shares her personal experience with overfunctioning and how this led to a necessary life change; and why women often end up being the "selfless caretakers", how this leads us into a cycle of toxic productivity, and how we can change that...plus much more! Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Link to Jodi's website and link to join her newsletter for upcoming announcements For more information about Tamu Thomas, visit her website and follow her on Instagram @tamu.thomas Purchase Women Who Work Too Much here Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional. If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance.    

"At M2 The Rock, we fully respect the anonymity of all 12-step fellowships. In alignment with their traditions, we do not represent or speak on behalf of any of these groups. Our mission is to share hope, not affiliation."About M2 THE ROCK - MICHAEL MOLTHAN:I'm Michael Molthan, host of The M2 The Rock Show—one of the fastest-growing podcasts and shows on self-improvement, mental health, addiction recovery, and spiritual transformation. I'm so grateful you're here.I started M2 The Rock in 2017 to bring you conversations designed to make you happier, healthier, and more healed. Through raw and unfiltered discussions with experts, celebrities, thought leaders, and athletes, we uncover new perspectives on personal growth, recovery, and overcoming life's toughest challenges.My Story:What sets my journey apart is that there wasn't just one rock bottom—there were many. From being a successful luxury homebuilder to falling into addiction, homelessness, crime, and eventually 27 mugshots and prison, my life was in absolute chaos.Addiction was my temporary escape from childhood trauma, but it only led to destruction.It wasn't until I hit the lowest point imaginable that I finally found true freedom, redemption, and purpose. After an unexpected early release from prison in 2017, I walked 300 miles back to Dallas to turn myself in—only to be miraculously pardoned and told to “pay it forward.”And that's exactly what I've been doing ever since.My MissionI believe that rock bottom is not the end—it's a stepping stone to something greater.My goal is to redefine what "rock bottom" means by helping others rebuild their Spirit, Mind, and Body. On M2 The Rock, I speak openly about trauma, addiction, recovery, and the power of transformation. I don't shy away from topics like:✅ Trauma & Addiction – Understanding the root causes✅ Self-Sabotage & Mental Health – Breaking negative cycles✅ Codependency & Enabling – How relationships impact recovery✅ 12-Step Programs & Spiritual Healing – Finding true freedom✅ Religious Trauma & Personal Growth – Healing from past wounds"Everyone Is An Addict."Whether it's substances, work, validation, or negative thinking, we all have something we struggle with.But recovery is possible, and transformation is real.

"At M2 The Rock, we fully respect the anonymity of all 12-step fellowships. In alignment with their traditions, we do not represent or speak on behalf of any of these groups. Our mission is to share hope, not affiliation."About M2 THE ROCK - MICHAEL MOLTHAN:I'm Michael Molthan, host of The M2 The Rock Show—one of the fastest-growing podcasts and shows on self-improvement, mental health, addiction recovery, and spiritual transformation. I'm so grateful you're here.I started M2 The Rock in 2017 to bring you conversations designed to make you happier, healthier, and more healed. Through raw and unfiltered discussions with experts, celebrities, thought leaders, and athletes, we uncover new perspectives on personal growth, recovery, and overcoming life's toughest challenges.My Story:What sets my journey apart is that there wasn't just one rock bottom—there were many. From being a successful luxury homebuilder to falling into addiction, homelessness, crime, and eventually 27 mugshots and prison, my life was in absolute chaos.Addiction was my temporary escape from childhood trauma, but it only led to destruction.It wasn't until I hit the lowest point imaginable that I finally found true freedom, redemption, and purpose. After an unexpected early release from prison in 2017, I walked 300 miles back to Dallas to turn myself in—only to be miraculously pardoned and told to “pay it forward.”And that's exactly what I've been doing ever since.My MissionI believe that rock bottom is not the end—it's a stepping stone to something greater.My goal is to redefine what "rock bottom" means by helping others rebuild their Spirit, Mind, and Body. On M2 The Rock, I speak openly about trauma, addiction, recovery, and the power of transformation. I don't shy away from topics like:✅ Trauma & Addiction – Understanding the root causes✅ Self-Sabotage & Mental Health – Breaking negative cycles✅ Codependency & Enabling – How relationships impact recovery✅ 12-Step Programs & Spiritual Healing – Finding true freedom✅ Religious Trauma & Personal Growth – Healing from past wounds"Everyone Is An Addict."Whether it's substances, work, validation, or negative thinking, we all have something we struggle with.But recovery is possible, and transformation is real.

Recently I read the #1 bestseller, “The Let Them Theory” by Mel Robins. Highly recommend it! However, I feel there is one more step that may be missing for this simple but powerful method of taking back our mental health and overcoming codependency. Let's talk about it in this short episode. Get all the Scripture references and resources mentioned in this episode: www.jennyzentz.com/podcast-let-themAnd please don't forget to subscribe, share, rate, and review. Together we can help more women discover practical ways to apply the power of God's Word to our everyday stuff!

In this powerful episode, Lisa A. Romano explores how codependency erodes authenticity and keeps people trapped in the exhausting cycle of people-pleasing. If you struggle to speak your truth, constantly seek approval, or fear setting boundaries, this episode will help you understand the deeper root of why you hide your authentic self—and how to begin unmasking the people pleaser within. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why people-pleasing is a trauma response rooted in childhood survival How codependency develops when authenticity is punished or ignored The difference between genuine kindness and compulsive approval-seeking Why suppressing your needs leads to resentment, burnout, and emotional confusion Practical steps to reconnect with your true self and honor your voice Why This Episode Matters Many adult children of emotionally immature, narcissistic, or unavailable caregivers learn early on that being “the good one” is the only way to feel safe. Over time, this coping mechanism becomes a false self—one that performs for acceptance while abandoning its truth. But healing is possible. By understanding the connection between childhood emotional neglect and adult codependency, you can begin the courageous journey back to your authentic self—one boundary at a time. Take the Next Step Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Method is a neuroscience-informed system designed to help you unlearn codependent behaviors, reclaim your voice, and build a self-concept rooted in worth and truth. Learn more: https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp #CodependencyRecovery #PeoplePleasing #AuthenticSelf #ChildhoodTrauma #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalNeglect #SpeakYourTruth #BoundariesMatter #HealingJourney #LisaRomano

dopeycon tix available at www.patreon.com/dopeypodcastAnnie's anniversary: Dave marks one year since Annie Ellie died, plays her voicemails and messages, and reflects on how fragile life in recovery is.Travis's email: A listener's relapse saga: he meets a girl at a meeting, falls in love, helps her get sober, then watches the relationship implode into infidelity and emotional breakdown.Rachel Slocum returns:• Talks about relapsing, volunteering during Texas floods, and how service triggered a heavy depression; admits isolating in bed and feeling like a “lazy, dirty sewer rat.”• Finds old PhotoBucket photos showing how skeletal she looked on OxyContin, and discusses body image and denial.• Chats about being an “influencer” vs. “content creator,” getting her Instagram banned, then restored, and how fragile her self‑worth felt.• Debates weed: she loves the smell but hates vaping; she and Dave share stories of stoner snacks, weed vaporizers at concerts, and the eternal “crack or heroin?” question in a silly “This or That” game.• Dave and Rachel riff on Roblox addiction: Dave admits he and his daughters play “Grow a Garden” obsessively, buying seeds and selling veggies like junkies.• Dave invites Rachel to do stand‑up at DopeyCon and they both nervously laugh about bombing on stage.Doug Bopst interview:• From felony to fitness: Doug explains how a cellmate taught him push‑ups and faith, turning jail time into the start of a new life.• They reboot the Dopey Fitness Challenge: more steps, more protein, less sugar, maybe join a gym — and debate smoothies vs. whole milk, Ozempic vs. ayahuasca.• They talk Billy Joel: Doug and Dave quiz each other on Billy Joel, Elton John, Zeppelin and Stones song titles; discuss the sadness in Billy Joel's documentary and question whether he ever really got sober.• Weed wars: Doug insists today's high‑THC weed and vaping are dangerous; Dave pushes back with nostalgic stoner stories; they both riff on weed at concerts, edibles, and how weed compares to Ozempic and mushrooms.• Fatherhood & love: Dave urges Doug to have kids, insisting parenthood gives back more than any high; Doug admits he's not sure.   You said:did rachel tell a good drug story? ChatGPT said: Stopped after 20 seconds You said:vomitting ChatGPT said: Worked for 14 secondsIn this episode Rachel doesn't spin a classic “Dopey‑style” caper involving cops or car crashes, but she does share a vivid slice of what using was like for her: she describes taking Oxycontin, chain‑smoking Newports and puking so much she'd have to ask her boyfriend to pull the car over so she could throw up – once even throwing up in a Red Lobster parking lot right after trying to force down a meal. Those vomiting stories are about as close as she gets to a full‑blown drug tale in this conversation.   window.__oai_logHTML?window.__oai_logHTML():window.__oai_SSR_HTML=window.__oai_SSR_HTML||Date.now();requestAnimationFrame((function(){window.__oai_logTTI?window.__oai_logTTI():window.__oai_SSR_TTI=window.__oai_SSR_TTI||Date.now()}))