Your Friendly Neighbourhood Fat Bitch

Listen, i've been so sad today and I could not for the life of me get it outta my body... all i needed was my mic apparently lmao. I love you, I hope you're okay and I hope you're giving yourself patience and kindness in the decisions you make. Love, Lol x

I'm just now realising how cringe toxic “masculinity” culture is? However could it be MY fault I keep getting hurt? Erm girl, if your hand was in a fire your body would tell you to pull it out, IT'S DOING THAT IN RESPONSE TO YOUR SHITTY MAN BUT YOU'RE JUST IGNORING IT. Why do we ignore the red flags, is it really cause we love them? Or is it cause our crippling self worth allows us to chase people with padlocks on their hearts???  Let's unpack bae! Is it actually toxic masculinity or is it just toxic people? Cause to me masculinity isn't exclusive to men and we never really say toxic femininity for women so idk, but either way this behaviour is fucking cringe. For years I chased this kinda man and i'm trying to figure out why. Maybe it was the childhood trauma or maybe it was cause the toxic dick is life changing 9 times outta 10. Idk but I'm maturing enough to know that it aint always life changing in a good way and a peaceful life and my trusty Hitatchi is all thats in the cards for me right now. (iykyk) I understand it's easy to be manipulated and taken over when you're not feeling too good about yourself and everything I say comes from my experience and learnings along the way I just wanna be that sexy chubby angel on your shoulder knocking a bit of sense into your gorgeous self when it feels like you're drowning OK? Love you bitch. x  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

and that's on childhood trauma! I kept finding myself in shitty situations and I kept asking myself surely not EVERYONE is this bad? There MUST be good people? There are good people and there is good around us, sometimes we just miss it because we are consumed by what lives in us. But it just lives there, it isn't you. Move house. Start again, you deserve it. I love you!

Hey girl, being nakey is a bit scary but it's also super liberating. Big or small you should own your shit and be able to enjoy yourself in the bedroom! Talking all about being naked, believing someone likes you and sitting on some faces. I'm here to be ya hype girl. Xxxxx --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Hi baby angel, todays episode we're talking all about self love and how to overcome the fear of other people's opinions. I know how difficult it can be to do things for yourself but it's time we start doing so! You're capable of amazing things and you are enough as you are. I love you --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Listen girl, I get it. It's fucking shitty sometimes, but you get up every day and keep trying. That's why you're that bitch, I love you!

Welcome to the first episode of the Friendly Neighbourhood Fat Bitch podcast where i'm joined by my bestfriend @kxnd_ !! The podcast where no topics are off limits, we give advice, we laugh and most importantly we keep it real!!!! Follow me - @friendlyfatbitchpod - @lollyxm --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app