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Can a power exchange really work if you've never met in person? Short answer: yes. Longer answer? It depends on how it's built.In this episode, we break down what online Dominant/submissive relationships actually look like, why people choose them, and what makes them healthy or harmful. We talk honestly about the benefits, the challenges, and the risks that don't always get discussed until something goes wrong.This isn't a fantasy version of online BDSM. It's a real conversation about consent, communication, emotional safety, and intentional power exchange when touch isn't an option.If you've ever wondered whether an online dynamic could work for you, or you're already in one and want to do it better, this episode will give you clarity, language, and practical tools.
In this raw, honest, pre-recorded episode, Eve dives deep into the real risks that can happen in the bedroom—the uncomfortable truths most people avoid but absolutely need to understand. From modern dating culture to ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging, kink, and polyamory, Eve breaks down actual exposure risks, the tools that protect you, and how to stay empowered while enjoying pleasure. This episode delivers accurate, science-based guidance on: Doxy-PEP PrEP HPV & herpes management At-home STI testing Emergency contraception Oxytocin arousal products Eve also shares lived experiences from BDSM and femdom spaces—including DomCon—and explains why kink communities often lead the way in communication, consent, boundaries, and pre-negotiation. Whether you're casually dating, exploring ENM, attending play parties, or simply want more control over your sexual wellness, this conversation expands your knowledge and strengthens your sexual health toolkit. Modern dating culture & increased STI exposure Differences between polyamory, swinging, kink, and ENM Communication lessons from BDSM communities STI prevention tools: At-home STI testing Doxy-PEP Daily PrEP Emergency contraception Herpes suppression The truth about herpes, HPV, and HIV Clarifying PrEP vs PEP Condom usage trends across sexual communities Oxytocin oral tabs, nasal spray & topical arousal cream Building a sexual health bug-out bag BDSM & kink events: DomCon, KinkFest, and more If you want to go deeper into topics discussed in this episode, check out these related conversations from the Please Me Podcast: Abortion Episodehttps://open.spotify.com/episode/5lOJNjCl6K2cHFt3XB7i1D Pregnancy Optionshttps://open.spotify.com/episode/6kP1BjJ3c6nbW3yOcJ0iSQ Shameless Care – Part 1https://open.spotify.com/episode/3NMBe90jI6My1THUuz8yWE Shameless Care – Part 2https://open.spotify.com/episode/3pqeN2QGkC03qUS2eLR8DX Erectile Dysfunctionhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/7ujry6ovC5PMhn1s0csqgr Vaginal Sensitivity & Drynesshttps://open.spotify.com/episode/2mPDmNCun7jKJNIa9SgSxk Website: https://pleaseme.online(Coaching, discovery calls & resources) Social Media: https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Extended Episodes & Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Interested in being a guest on Please Me! with Eve Hall?Submit your request via PodMatch:https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Use code PLEASEME for $15 offhttps://shamelesscare.com Extended episodes & bonus contenthttps://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Support survivors of typhoons and earthquakeshttps://worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week Elle and Vee discuss all the ways they've been exploring pleasure recently: including BDSM scenes with vibrators, flogging and five orgasms, achieving sub space, mushroom-fueled connection, cervical orgasms while pregnant, knife play, cock warming, and that very specific moment when you yawn on a dick and keep going anyway. Halloween Night BDSM Scene Gone Wrong: Vee and Mister A are stranded in a spooky AirBnB. (1:37)Pain/Pleasure Cycling: Vee has five orgasms during a BDSM scene with Mister A. (4:32)Sub Space: Vee finds surrender when she wears her collar. The difference between letting go and being objectified. (12:00) Psylocybin Sex: connective sex. (17:08)Cervical Orgasms and Third Trimester Sex: Elle stimulates her cervix, gets juicy and talks about which positions she can and can't do while she's super pregnant. (18:44)Hotel Ambience Hacks: How to set the mood and get the right mood lighting in your hotel room. (26:32)Knife Play Bondage Scene: Mister A uses bondage tape, a knife and a wand on Vee. The surprising upside to having an STI. (28:50)Knife Play with Strangers at the Nude Beach: Elle talks about the time she let a guy on a nude beach pretend to shave her pussy with a knife. (38:32) Cock Warming: WTF is cock warming? What's the point? (42:53)Gentle Face Fucking and Yawning During Blow Jobs: a gentler version of face fucking, and yawning due to air hunger during head. (45:22)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show:
Radley Metzger pushes the boundaries of erotic cinema with The Image (1975), a film that treats desire as ritual, performance, and provocation. Adapted from the infamous novel by Catherine Robbe-Grillet—writing under the name Jean de Berg—the film unfolds as a stylized confession. Carl Parker plays Jean, the author surrogate recounting a charged encounter with his estranged friend Claire (Marilyn Roberts) and the young woman who becomes the focus of his controlled cruelties, Anne (Mary Mendum).Joining Mike are Jessica Shires and Heather Drain, as the conversation situates The Image alongside Metzger's other works and within a broader lineage of European erotic literature and BDSM aesthetics. The episode interrogates authorship, consent, power, and the uneasy space between fantasy and autobiography that defines Robbe-Grillet's writing and Metzger's adaptation.Interviews with Rob King, author of Man of Taste: The Erotic Cinema of Radley Metzger, and filmmaker Lina Mannheimer (La Cérémonie) expand the discussion, connecting The Image to questions of female authorship and the gaze.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-projection-booth-podcast--5513239/support.Become a supporter of The Projection Booth at http://www.patreon.com/projectionbooth
Radley Metzger pushes the boundaries of erotic cinema with The Image (1975), a film that treats desire as ritual, performance, and provocation. Adapted from the infamous novel by Catherine Robbe-Grillet—writing under the name Jean de Berg—the film unfolds as a stylized confession. Carl Parker plays Jean, the author surrogate recounting a charged encounter with his estranged friend Claire (Marilyn Roberts) and the young woman who becomes the focus of his controlled cruelties, Anne (Mary Mendum).Joining Mike are Jessica Shires and Heather Drain, as the conversation situates The Image alongside Metzger's other works and within a broader lineage of European erotic literature and BDSM aesthetics. The episode interrogates authorship, consent, power, and the uneasy space between fantasy and autobiography that defines Robbe-Grillet's writing and Metzger's adaptation.Interviews with Rob King, author of Man of Taste: The Erotic Cinema of Radley Metzger, and filmmaker Lina Mannheimer (La Cérémonie) expand the discussion, connecting The Image to questions of female authorship and the gaze.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-projection-booth-podcast--5513239/support.Become a supporter of The Projection Booth at http://www.patreon.com/projectionbooth
Nicole Aria is back and still built for chaos. Our last collab got yanked from YouTube in under an hour—now she's here with bigger receipts: her Double Anal, Double Vaginal three-guy gonzo scene is nominated for an AVN award, and she's up for an award from XBIZ too. We get into why raw, unscripted gonzo is her home field—real heat, no script, total loss of control.She also made a life move—tubes removed—to play worry-free at sex parties and live exactly how she wants. Plus her take on the “male loneliness” moment, a Sapphire NYC chapter, and what 2026 looks like when she refuses to slow down. Fast, filthy, very Nicole.Welcome to EP 204: "Gonzo Gal" with Nicole Aria. Hang onto something.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Nicole AriaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenicolearia (@thenicolearia)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
This episode I talk with Redbottom Productions contract girl Kourtney Dripz. We discuss her shoot with Dante Diggz I watched and her becoming a contract girl. Then we discuss her getting into the business 3 years ago and now taking it serious. She discuss wanting to grow in the business and make a name for herself. We discuss her and gangbangs plus BDSM. We talk about the business itself and more.Want More Content? 2 ways to get it1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month)https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe2. Become A Premium SmokerSubscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfanshttps://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoomWant More Content. Become a Premium Smokerfor 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a monthSponsored ByHottest Adult Mag Onlinehttps://eroticismmagazine.com/Hottest Adult Film Companyblusherotica.com/videosSmokeKind The King Of THCahttps://smokekind.com/?ref=bobbie_lucasPassDat Clothinghttps://www.teepublic.com/user/the-inhaling-potnasSara Jay CBDhttps://sarajaycbd.com/enter promo code: BOBBIE to receive 10% off your orderPorn/ Music/ Social Mediahttps://allmylinks.com/pornrapstarGet The Merch:https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/Guest: Kourtney Dripzhttps://x.com/KDbaby777beacons.ai/kdbaby777
Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
Suzanne Noble joins me for a raw, funny, direct conversation about dating, sex, kink and honesty after 50. You hear what dating looks like in the UK versus the US, why so many men think they are going to be the one to “fix” your orgasm, how porn shapes expectations, how women think about body image as we age, and why younger partners are on the rise. Suzanne breaks down the UK's kink culture, why dominatrixes are fully booked, and how to explore safely. We also talk about jealousy, non-traditional relationships, safety on dating apps, catfishing, and why so many of us refuse to shave our pubic hair for a man. This episode is candid, smart, and packed with insights about midlife dating and sexual confidence.Timestamps:In this episode: 00:00 Holiday masterclass offer00:35 Welcome intro and episode setup01:18 Are Brits more open about sex02:22 The UK's kink history and boarding school culture03:58 How early life stages shape sexual dynamics05:20 BDSM clubs and the UK Femdom scene06:35 Why kink is built around control, not intercourse07:40 Are Brits really more open than Americans08:32 Dating men who listen to the podcast09:48 Younger men and orgasm expectations10:42 Why people hide their curiosity about sex11:30 Porn influence, squirting, and sexual performance myths12:45 The rise of sexual repression in America13:40 Dating younger partners and why it appeals to women14:55 Midlife relationships, jealousy, and complexity16:05 Opening relationships and personal boundaries16:58 How to stay safe while dating after 5018:10 Spotting catfish and bot profiles19:22 When a profile is too good to be true20:15 Shifting into body image and aging21:00 Feeling confident naked as you age21:48 When men do not match their claimed fitness22:25 Grooming norms. Pubic hair expectations in the UK23:05 Saying no to grooming requests you do not want23:42 Early experiences with kink24:30 Why experience matters for safety in kink25:10 Learning impact play in community spaces25:35 Closing thoughtsWant a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out!Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Suzanne Noble is the Co-founder of Startup School for Seniors, co-host of Sex Advice for Seniors, and jazz & blues pro singer.
On today's show, I discuss why structure and clarity in kink can feel safe without actually creating emotional security. We look at how well-run dynamics can quietly avoid closeness, how avoidant and fearful patterns use roles and rules as protection, and what emotional safety in D/s really requires beyond consent, negotiation, and smooth functioning.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!
Episode 193 - Labels why is mine better LOL - In this Episode, Don and Syn talk about their recent lives. Syn talks about a wedding trip to Dallas and Don talks about a trip to Dallas. this weeks topics is labels and we talk about why labels can keep us from being the best us we can. We also talk about embracing new labels and how sometimes old words hit us in the face when needed. Instagram @kinkyframeofmind • Instagram photos and videos Twitter (1) kinkyframeofmind (@kinkyfom) / TwitterFullswap Radio Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a LifestyleEmail kinkyfom@gmail.com
Season 5, Episode 700: By the Bonfire Sex Game Excerpt. We are by the bonfire one steamy night and things get extra hot. Enjoy this sexy bonfire sex game told in the second person, so "you" participate in this sexy scene where pretending to be horny fireflies turns into kinky intense hide and seek. This story is a yummy display of consensual desires and a rendering of delicious exciting masculine dominance and alluring lush feminine submission. Contains light BDSM elements, language, and rich moaning. Get the full audio on Ruan's Patreon: Ruan's Patreon Ruan's books: Ruan's Spicy Books FREE erotica and erotic romance books through 12/17/25 Access to FREE erotica books Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate deal: Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow
BDSM and kinky sex relationships are no different then non-kinky relationships when it comes to considering the feelings of your partners. Selfish people suck in all walks of life, and expectations can be unrealistic. We kink talk about these and other sexy topics every other week! Perverted Podcast!
The Ghosts of Christmas Eve is a 1999 made-for-television film showcasing a Christmas music performance by Trans-Siberian Orchestra, starring Ossie Davis and Allie Sheridan. Guest performers included Michael Crawford and Jewel. Other performers include Bob Kinkel, Al Pitrelli, Chris Caffery, Johnny Lee Middleton, Jeff Plate, Tony Gaynor, Daryl Pediford and Tommy Farese. The film premiered on Fox Family Channel on December 14, 1999.Disclaimer: The following may contain offensive language, adult humor, and/or content that some viewers may find offensive – The views and opinions expressed by any one speaker does not explicitly or necessarily reflect or represent those of Mark Radulich or W2M Network.Mark Radulich and his wacky podcast on all the things:https://linktr.ee/markkind76alsohttps://www.teepublic.com/user/radulich-in-broadcasting-networkFB Messenger: Mark Radulich LCSWTiktok: @markradulichtwitter: @MarkRadulichInstagram: markkind76RIBN Album Playlist: https://suno.com/playlist/91d704c9-d1ea-45a0-9ffe-5069497bad59
Join me, TorontoUnicorn, as I recount my exhilarating experience at a 300-person swinger hotel takeover in Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada, in November 2025. Discover the behind-the-scenes details of this multi-day event from the parties and competitive games, like blowjob contests and spin the bottle, to the more intimate moments in the BDSM and orgy rooms. While sharing firsthand observations and emotions, I highlight the vibrant, inclusive, and exciting atmosphere that left me utterly rejuvenated in the sex-positive swinger lifestyle. Don't forget to check out the related vlog and pillow talk episodes, and watch this video on my OnlyFans page for a deeper dive into this unforgettable weekend. 00:00 Introduction to the Swinger Hotel Takeover 00:36 First Impressions and Initial Experiences 01:48 Competitive Blowjob Event 03:21 Spin the Bottle and Other Fun Games 05:48 The BDSM Room 06:36 The Orgy Room 08:53 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Events **description written with the help of AI** Content mentioned in this episode: 1. Pillow Talk the night before the swinger hotel party: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3VJiqZkfokMYId3iVWx1zv?si=2605205df44d441d 2. Vlog from the 300 person swinger hotel takeover: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5fDCTVWBeXe8xIWJq9kgbV?si=187bac0e7f754e62 Wanna watch the video version of this sex story and ALL the other episodes? Look into my eyes, watch my expressive facial reactions and peek at my cute outfits. Join my premium video podcast page for only $3 on your first month OnlyFans.com/torontounicornpodcasts TONS of exclusive and UNCENSORED content available on my explicit fan page: OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn --- NEW Spotify playlist called music I wanna suck dick to: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4wq70XOuHhI9ppAKFuxbzx?si=BDZMPl6_RdSEDIZQ818tsw&pi=u-z_Ig_wH-QTqs --- More swinger and sex positive content (advice, tips, interviews) on TorontoUnicorn.com --- ALL social media links: https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn ---
https://vimeo.com/1136707863?share=copy&fl=sv&fe=ci We've heard a lot about what doesn't work for us as women with the Me Too Movement and toxic masculinity and the recent Epstein Files, and we know what doesn't work for us as well. But do we know what does? And today's guest is gonna talk about relational masculinity as the next frontier beyond toxic masculinity. It's a beautiful conversation with GS Youngblood, and I welcome you to join us to find out more. GS Youngblood has been studying the dynamics of relationship and polarity for over 17 years. He has found that most relationship problems are a result of a lack of masculine leadership. GS Youngblood offers live training workshops to help men stop settling for a flat, contentious or toxic relationship. He offers a three month live online group experience for a community of 12 like-minded men with his Relationship Repair Boot Camp. He is also a two time book author of "The Masculine in Relationship” and “The Art of Embodiment for Men” A book about owning your strength while still connecting with your woman on a deep level. He has sold nearly 100,000 books to date and has helped tens of thousands of men transform their lives by boiling down a complex subject into a simple three-part framework that ANY man can embody: the Masculine Blueprint. Watch or listen to the show to discover ways to help men find their way to start living from their masculine core. You're Invited! FREE GIFT: MIR Toolkit https://www.gsyoungblood.com/toolkit GS YOUNGBLOOD BIO GS Youngblood is the acclaimed author of the groundbreaking book “The Masculine in Relationship”, which challenges the modern notion that all Masculinity is toxic by offering a model - the Masculine Blueprint - for men to become grounded in their own power and more relational with their Feminine partner. The Blueprint is something any man can embody, and it fits in our modern #MeToo culture without being watered down in any way. The premise of his work is that many relationship problems are actually rooted in a lack of Relational Masculinity - which is a combination of groundedness, leadership, and relational skills. This is what he teaches to men. His two books have sold nearly a combined 90,000 copies, and he has become a highly sought-after men's coach. GS's work draws inspiration from various disciplines, including psychology, men's work, spirituality, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM. LINKS Website: https://www.gsyoungblood.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gsyoungbloodmir/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gsyoungblood1 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gsyoungblood8437 YOUR GUIDE TO SOUL NECTAR: KERRI HUMMINGBIRD Kerri Hummingbird, Medicine Woman, Mother and Mentor, is the Founder of Inner Medicine Training, a Mystery School that shares potent ancient traditions from the Andes and Himalayas for owning your wisdom and living your purpose. She is the #1 international best-selling author of “Inner Medicine: Becoming One with Mother Earth for the Survival of Humanity”, “Love Is Fierce: Healing the Mother Wound”, “The Second Wave: Transcending the Human Drama” (on the int'l bestseller charts for over 6 years) and the award-winning best-selling book “Awakening To Me: One Woman's Journey To Self Love” which describes the early years of her spiritual awakening. As the host of Soul Nectar Show, Ms. Hummingbird inspires people to lead their lives wide awake with an authenticity, passion and purpose that positively impacts others. As a healer and mentor, she catalyzes mind-shifts that transform life challenges into gifts of wisdom. If you are wondering what the heck is going on, the answer is simple. We are in the process of a massive shift in consciousness that can most aptly be described as the metamorphosis from caterpillar to butterfly. As a medicine woman, I guide you to the next deepest understanding and embodiment of yourself as a spiritual being.
I walked through Austin with Dan Guiry, and this conversation was 20 years in the making. We started on Congress Street and wound our way down to 6th Street, hitting every major comedy venue along the way while catching up on two decades of chaos. Here's the thing about Dan—I met him 20 years ago in Calgary when he was 19 and had done maybe three open mics. Someone told him "You gotta see Rouse, he's crazy." So he shows up, I'm with four pirate-looking ladies, and I ask this kid if he wants to come fuck these bitches with me. He tells me he's a virgin, almost shits his pants, goes home and "feverishly jerked off." That's how we met in 2006. Fast forward four years, Dan's been touring across Canada five times and moves to Toronto. Then he gets into the San Francisco Comedy Competition, doesn't win, and decides to hitchhike to LA. This maniac puts his thumb out on the highway with just a guitar and a burner phone. He messages our mutual friend Brian O'Gorman asking what to do, and O'Gorman tells him to hit me up. So Dan ends up staying at my LA house for 10 days and we just partied our asses off. I took him to this VIP nightclub where my buddy Chris, a top-tier club promoter, gets us in. We're dressed like shit—I'm in this, Dan's in jeans and a t-shirt—and we walk past the line into the basement private club. I ask Chris if I can smoke, he calls over 12 bouncers to circle our table with their backs to us, and I'm doing lines and smoking cigarettes while everyone in the club is staring going "Who the fuck are these guys?" Then we hit Bar Sinister, the vampire bar, did absinthe, watched some light BDSM, and Dan was thoroughly confused by the whole experience. Walking through Austin, we ran into my ex Brendan Lemon with his new girlfriend (had to keep a face on), saw Harland Williams which gave us Canadian hope, and encountered Robert Orlando after his "47th gay joke." The whole walk was punctuated by these meat fan hair dryers blasting beef smoke everywhere—apparently that's just Austin at dusk. Dan's been in Toronto raising his seven-year-old son, and I've been calling him every 3-4 months for four years going "You gotta get out, man." He always had excuses—the kid, the family, whatever—but I knew if I kept pestering him, eventually a door would open. Toronto used to be like Austin is now: five shows a night, banging around the city. Then COVID destroyed it. The only game in town was those park shows, which were awesome, but the city's just not the same anymore. Meanwhile, I moved to Austin five years ago after Red Ban came out here for the Kanye West episode with Rogan. I showed up during COVID curfews because I had Slipknot tickets, and I've been here ever since. Got my green card after a 20-year journey that started in 2001, cost $15k, and involved getting turned back at the border and living in Europe for six years. Dan's been here nine days and he's already hooked. We hit Houston to see Adam Ray kill for an hour, went to Casino El Camino for the best pastrami burger either of us have ever had, smoked cigarettes in bars like Dan fucking Guiry, and I took him to my first open mic signup ever (I thought it was Kill Tony auditions—rookie mistake). We walked past the Mothership where I've performed 10 times in four years without being booked, hit Vulcan Gas Company which was the only spot doing comedy during COVID, passed the Velveeta Room where Doug Stanhope used to hold court, and ended at Creek in the Cave for my Nightmare Before Christmas show. We even stood in the spot where someone got shot yesterday. I'm like "You're standing in their blood" and Dan looks down horrified. The bullet hole's still in the door behind us. Dan's going back to Toronto tomorrow but he's already planning his return. For the first time in his life, he's got hope again.
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Sensual Awakenings App on the Apple Store, or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com In the quiet town where the sea kisses the shore, Tess finds herself haunted by the last words she exchanged with Finn before he vanished beneath the waves. Regret clings to her like sea salt, and as she stands on the beach, her heart breaks for the love she lost. Yet, as the tide ebbs and flows, so does her longing—transforming into tantalizing erotic fantasies that dance like shadows on the sand.But the ocean holds secrets deeper than Tess ever imagined. As she plunges into the supernatural depths of her desires, she uncovers a world where passion knows no bounds and the boundaries between life and death blur. Finn's spirit calls to her, weaving a tale of love intertwined with BDSM and longing that transcends the physical realm.In a journey filled with tearjerking revelations and tantalizing encounters, Tess must confront the truth of Finn's demise and the powerful connection that binds them—one that could either set her free or drown her in desire forever. Join Tess as she navigates the stormy waters of love, loss, and the supernatural, discovering that some ties can never be severed, and the heart's deepest yearnings can lead to the most unexpected places. Will she find closure, or will she drown in the depths of her desire?
In this episode, we explore the foundations of BDSM—including bondage, impact play, electroplay, wax play, and sensation play—with Ben, a kink educator and experienced representative of The Kink Shop. With years of hands-on experience at nationwide kink events, Ben offers practical guidance on choosing the right BDSM tools, playing safely, and understanding the sensory differences between thud, sting, electricity, and temperature play. Listeners will discover the essentials of safe toy use, negotiation, consent, and hygiene—plus insights into The Kink Shop's handcrafted designs, leather quality, beginner-friendly tools, and ergonomic impact toys. Whether you're new to BDSM or looking to deepen your skills, this episode delivers approachable, accurate, and sex-positive kink education. BDSM Foundations What BDSM stands for: Bondage, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism Psychological and emotional dynamics within power exchange Negotiation, communication, and informed consent Impact Play Essentials Thud vs sting: how sensations differ and who they suit How leather type changes feel: suede, chap, bison, moose, mule deer Beginner-friendly toys: bunny floggers, boa floggers Finger-loop floggers & why they reduce joint strain for tops Sensation Play Tools Leather & conductive claw gloves Scratch mitts Mop-in-a-Pocket toy Vegan impact tool options Electroplay & the Violet Wand How a violet wand works Sensation range: light tingles to intense stimulation Combining electroplay with other kink tools Essential violet-wand safety practices Wax Play Safety Skin-safe wax types vs dangerous household candles Heat management techniques Distance & layering for sensation control Toy Hygiene & Care Cleaning leather, rubber, and electroplay tools Avoiding cross-contamination in shared scenes Long-term storage tips for handcrafted toys Connect with Ben (The Kink Shop) Website: www.thekinkshop.comFetLife: @thekinkshop_Ben Mentioned Resources Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing→ shamelesscare.com Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content→ patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Connect With Eve Hall Website: pleaseme.onlineSocial Media Links: pleaseme.online/contactsSubstack: pleaseme.substack.comPatreon: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Want to be a guest on Please Me! Podcast with Eve?Send Eve Hall a message on PodMatch:→ podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast World Vision Donate to Philippines ReliefSupport survivors of typhoons and earthquakes:→ worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I interview European Anal Porn Queen Alice Maze. We discuss anal sex and how much loves it. She talks about take 3 men in her butthole and her doing a 15 man gangbang. We discuss how Europe is more freer with their sexuality. We discuss BDSM, how she broke into the business and being fisted and more. She talks about the porn industry in Europe from France to the UK and how more companies are moving to Bucharest and this city might become the European Porn capitol. Want More Content? 2 ways to get it1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month)https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe2. Become A Premium SmokerSubscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfanshttps://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoomWant More Content. Become a Premium Smokerfor 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a monthSponsored ByHottest Adult Mag Onlinehttps://eroticismmagazine.com/Hottest Adult Film Companyblusherotica.com/videosSara Jay's CBD Selfcarehttps://sarajaycbd.com/Use Promo Code: BOBBIE and receive 10% off your orderSmokekind.com The King Of THCahttps://smokekind.com/?ref=bobbie_lucasPassDat Apparel https://www.teepublic.com/user/the-inhaling-potnasPorn/ Music/ Social Mediahttps://allmylinks.com/pornrapstarGet The Merch:https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/Guest: Alice Mazehttps://x.com/alice_mazelinktr.ee/alicemaze
Avec Nilo, parisien de 36 ans, nous remontons jusqu'aux premiers frémissements de son désir, ces préférences d'enfance qui ont sculpté, en silence, certains de ses kinks. Et puis, il y a cette fêlure. Une agression sexuelle au début de sa vingtaine, un événement qui a modelé son rapport au corps, à la confiance, au plaisir. Une trace qui ne détermine pas tout, mais qui colore le chemin.Il a aussi passé près de dix ans dans une relation où l'amour se confondait avec la codépendance, avec l'effacement progressif de son propre monde. Une relation qui l'a isolé, puis finalement réveillé. S'il désire sexuellement les hommes autant que les femmes, il relationne seulement avec ces dernières. Son chemin justement, il l'a poursuivi seul à travers la découverte de son plaisir puis du BDSM. Nilo aime la douleur celle qui transforme, ouvre et libère. Ces dernières années, une découverte l'a bouleversé: le shibari. Pour lui, c'est plus qu'un kink, plus qu'une pratique. C'est une forme de thérapie, une manière d'habiter son corps autrement, de s'y ancrer et de le retrouver.Aujourd'hui, Nilo est en couple avec une femme avec qui il a tout posé. Une relation où la communication est le fil conducteur et où il peut enfin respirer, aimer et se sentir pleinement vivant.Cet épisode, c'est le portrait d'un homme qui s'est longtemps cherché, qui s'est cru abîmé, et qui finalement se découvre . Un homme qui avance dans la douceur, en dénouant ou renouant ^^ peu à peu les noeuds qui l'entravaient.
A Classic RISK! episode from our early years that first ran in September of 2013, when Amanda Egge and Nayland Blake shared stories about reconciling their own desires with the desires of others.
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We cover a multitude of stories, winding our way though mysteries, heists and a coastal resort that appears otherworldly! Trigger warning for a chat around CNC in BDSM practice...if you don't know what this is, you best watch the episode!! lol▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Liverpool Podcast Studios▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com▶︎ Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/liverpoolpodcaststudios▶︎ LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/company/liverpool-podcast-studios
If you've ever watched someone hit a post divorce milestone and quietly thought, “When is it going to be my turn?” you're in the right place. Not every season after divorce feels triumphant. Some feel foggy or frustrating or like you are moving through wet cement. But those stretches are not wasted. They are the groundwork for the life you are building, even if you cannot see the shape of it yet.For the Season 7 finale, mindset and empowerment guide Jo Nisioti returns for a conversation that opens up what real healing looks like. It is slow, honest, imperfect, and full of small, meaningful shifts that rarely get celebrated. Jo has a gift for naming the experiences so many of us feel but struggle to express. She brings gentleness, wisdom, and a steady presence to the messy middle spaces we often rush past or try to hide.This episode is not about silver linings or forced positivity. It is about the truth of growth and how uneven, nonlinear, and beautifully human it really is. It is a conversation that sits with you, encourages you, and reminds you that transformation does not always come with fireworks. Sometimes it is quiet. Sometimes it is subtle. And sometimes it is happening even when you swear nothing is moving.If you have needed reassurance that you are not off track or falling behind, this finale will help you breathe a little easier. You are not just healing. You are evolving, one honest moment at a time.Learn more about Jo: Jo Nisioti is certified life coach, mindset coach, and Reiki Master. She supports women moving through life's transitions, helping them release old identities, activate their inner wisdom, and rebuild their life from a place of truth and power.IG: the_comback_coachSupport the Podcast by Buying Sadie a Coffee: If you've enjoyed the show and want to help keep the good vibes alive, please consider making a $10 (or more) contribution. Every little bit helps bring even more great content your way.Donating via Buy Me a Coffee (each cup of coffee is $5) at: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sadiemarieFollow Sadie on Social Media (IG, FB, Tiktok, Youtube and Pinterest): @sadies@divorcedandhappyAdvertise on the Podcast:Looking for a fresh way to reach a smart, engaged, and growing audience? Sadie's Divorced & Happy is a top ranked podcast with listeners who value bold ideas, inspiring stories, and brands that align with their vibrant lives after divorce.We offer a variety of advertising packages to fit your goals, from single episode mentions to multi episode campaigns. We can also create a custom package tailored to your needs.Interested in learning more? Email contact@divorcedandhappy.net to start the conversation.Rate & Review on iTunes and Spotify: If you enjoyed today's episode or have been loving the podcast for some time now, please give the podcast a 5-Star rating, write a delicious review and share it with your community! iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sadies-divorced-and-happy/id1546035678Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3qyUfz9Subscribe to the Newsletter:Want to stay in the loop on all the fun happenings? Join our newsletter for updates on upcoming events, retreats, book clubs, and fresh inspiration for your life after divorce.Sign up at DivorcedAndHappy.net.#PurposeAfterDivorce #LifeAfterDivorce #DivorcedAndHappy #kink #munchparties #BDSM #divorceyoga #yogawithcathy#ForceAfterDivorce #RebuildingAfterDivorce #DivorceEmpowerment#PostDivorceHealing #DivorcedWomanStrong...
Addison Grey runs the room. Jerkmate star, camgirl extraordinaire, and OnlyFans creator, she pulls back the curtain on cam life—free shows, VIP rooms, gold shows, tipping loops—and the live-wire choreography that keeps a chat bonkers and paying. The playbook: pace the show, build whales, stay filthy and fun.We map her content—how far she goes on stream vs. paywall, is partnered or girl/girl content happening, and what requests go from wild to workable. The craziest Jerkmate asks, the most common OnlyFans cravings, what one fan did with a jar of grape jelly, and the psychology of being watched when a hundred eyes want more. Is mainstream porn in her future? We ask. She answers. This is a horny crash course in cam culture. Buckle up. Press play. Welcome to EP 203: "Stream Girl" with Addison Grey.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Addison GreyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/addisongreyxo (@addisongreyxo)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
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BDSM and kink lifestyle educators often talk about the importance of education. It is not surprising that educators discuss education, but what happens when fiction replaces facts, fantasy supplants safety, and consent takes a backseat to raw, primal desire? Could it result in a D/S scene filled with orgasmic delights? It could, but this is BDSM, where activities come with risk from small to life-altering or even ending. The more play that happens between those without proper training, the risks skyrocket, and informed consent becomes impossible, as there is no knowledge base to provide informed consent. Studies show there is an alarming trend in the world of BDSM and kink where pornography is moving from entertainment andinspiration into the role of educator. The spicy content has not changed, but how it is viewed by those consuming it has. Find out what research shows about the trend of porn as a BDSM and kink educator. Sources: Prevalence of Sexual Strangulation/Choking Among Australians Authors: Leah S. Sharman, Robin Fitzgerald, and Heather DouglasHoles in Kinky Education: The Role of Pornography in Learning about BDSM Sexualities Authors: Iris Ryn Olson and Bryce WestlakeBDSM Safety in Pornography: Its Perceived Accuracy and Impact on Practitioners' Safe Word Practices Author: Bryce G. WestlakeEnjoyment, Exploration and Education: Understanding the Consumption of Pornography Authors: Mark McCormack and Liam WignallKink Community Education: Experiential Learning and Communities of Practice Authors: Richard A. Sprott, Carolyn Meeker, and M. O'Brien
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On today's show, I discuss the tension between wanting connection and needing control. We look at learned defiance, how it forms, why it feels safer than hope, and the subtle ways it shapes intimacy, attachment, and power exchange inside the lifestyle.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Defiance #Behavior
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Sensual Awakening App on the Apple Store,or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com Step into the enchanting world of "Shadows of Desire," where the night is alive with mystery and the promise of passion awaits. Meet Alice, a painfully shy woman who dreads the thought of attending a lavish fancy dress party. Clad in an elegant yet modest costume, she feels out of place among the vibrant crowd.But as the evening unfolds and the drinks begin to flow, Alice discovers a newfound sense of courage, igniting a spark within her that she never knew existed.In the dimly lit corners of the party, she catches the eye of a captivating older man, his presence both commanding and alluring. Drawn together by an undeniable chemistry, they slip away from the bustling crowd into the shadows, where inhibitions fade and desires come alive.Join Alice on her intimate adventure as she explores the depths of her sensuality, guided by the warm embrace of passion and the thrill of the unknown. In this tantalizing tale, discover how one night can change everything, leading to unforgettable encounters that awaken the senses and unleash hidden fantasies.Dive into "Shadows of Desire" and lose yourself in a story that celebrates the beauty of transformation, the allure of connection, and the intoxicating power of surrender. Will Alice embrace her desires and step into the light of her true self? Find out in this captivating erotic journey that will leave you breathless and yearning for more.
Como é a vivência de praticantes de BDSM que trabalham com práticas fetichistas? Nesse episódio, em vídeo, convidamos a Kitty (ou Aurora nas plataformas), 29 anos, e o Nandi Ropes'n'Cats (ou Fetish'n'Art), 35 anos, pra conversarem com a gente sobre a vivência pessoal delus com trabalho sexual e a inclusão de fetiches e práticas BDSM nas vendas de conteúdos e prestação de serviços. Elus contam mais sobre suas jornadas e experiências no on-line e no presencial, pontos positivos e negativos do trabalho sexual e causos que passam pela não monogamia e diversos fetiches e práticas: shibari, golden shower, squirt, role plays variados e muito mais.Vem ouvir esse papo divertido e conta pra gente o que achou nos comentários! Participantes: Ada @aleneouada, Roxy @roxylust, Kitty/Aurora @aurorakatsy @little.k.ittty (desativado temporariamente), Nandi @ropes.n.cats @ropesncats @fetishnartVoz da vinheta: Midnight Yume de Piraju/SP @delldelova Apoie o Chicotadas! https://apoia.se/chicotadas Nossos links: https://chicotadas.com.br/A vitrine do episódio é uma arte com foto. O fundo é vermelho com padrão de dois elementos: corações formados por cordas e gotas amarelinhas. Na parte inferior da arte, duas fotos em preto e branco: de Kitty/Aurora, mulher cis, de cabelos longos castanhos, usando lingerie olhando para a câmera, e de Nandi, não binário, de cabelos curtos prateados, usando apenas uma harness de shibari e olhando para o lado, com um dos braços levantados. Ambas as pessoas são brancas. Na parte superior e canto esquerdo inferior da imagem, o número e título do episódio (#51: Trabalho sexual, fetiche e BDSM: Nossas Experiências, com Kitty/Aurora e Nandi Ropes'n'Cats) em lilás e amarelo claro. Na parte superior e inferior da imagem, marca d'água com o arroba do nosso insta @chicotadaspodcast e a logo principal do podcast.Minutagens:1:49 Intro do episódioEps com Kitty: eps regulares 12 (BDSM Test), 46 (CNC e abduction play), chicotinho 9 (relato de cena), chicotinho 21 (age play e DDLG)Eps com Nandi: clube 13 (papéis e expectativas de gênero), chicotinho 35 (jogo das práticas)3:48 Autodescrição5:07 Apresentação des convidades, jornada no BDSM e trabalho sexualCitados: podolatria, pet play, camera privê, shibari, only fans, Cam4, Stripchat, golden shower, squirt, sissy, castidade, humilhação, sex machine, bipolaridade, trabalho presencial, fatal model, inversão/pegging, ser top no presencial.24:36 Fetiche e trabalho: o que é trabalho sexual? Diferentes formas de trabalhar com fetiche e BDSM, mitos, preconceitos e ideias equivocadas Citados: formas de trabalho, prodommes, feminização, pack do pezinho, empresa, ser autônomo, demandas de trabalho, fetiches versus baunilha, spanking, age play, dificuldades e censura das plataformas, "coisinhas de xixi" (Deia Freitas e Não Inviabilize), Kaah @dommekaah, cuidados e segurança, diferentes clientes e afetos.54:08 Recado do Apoia.se https://apoia.se/chicotadas 56:58 Experiência de Kitty e Nandi: dia a dia de trabalho, pontos divertidos e difíceis, relatos de experiênciasCitados: porquinho/pig, headscissor, vilã/succubus, chantagem/blackmail, slut shaming, sexting, feminização, gang bang, shibari experience, role play, rotina, negociação, casais heteros monogâmicos, pegging, pastor, hierofilia, meias e @h.chicotadas1:24:16 Conselhos e recados finaisCitados: wi-fi, cobranças, comunidade, Mayanna Rodrigues (Lovenox), orgasm torture, valorização do shibari e de rope bottoms, preconceito e estigma, edge play, cuidados com segurança e imagem.1:35:06 Nossas Chicotadas@annaassistente@____deleite@carolbonomi_Livro "Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil", V. E. SchwabContatos (insta):Kitty: @aurorakatsy @little.k.ittty (temporariamente desativado)Nandi: @ropes.n.cats @ropesncats @fetishnart @gatsnociohttps://ropesncats.com/serviços/Outros links citados: https://chicotadas.com.br/eps/episodio-51-trabalho-sexual1:40:46 Despedida/aftercare
This week's episode is a special one: Christina's interview with actor/producer Alexander Skarsgård! The interview was recorded live at the Stockholm International Film Festival (Nov 2025), where he received the 2025 Stockholm Achievement Award.The audience was packed and about to see Alexander's fantastic new film Pillion. In this wide-ranging conversation they talk about the movie, the research behind his wildly funny and emotional new rom-com with BDSM themes, career highlights, campaigning at the same time as Stellan, fashion, and much more. You can also watch the interview on the Stockholm Film Festival's YouTube channel or on the Pop Culture Confidential YouTube channel.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0pQyGajgvU&t=1s Photos courtesy of Anton Isiukov: https://www.antonisiukov.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Hear the harrowing tale of the masochist lad who walked into the dungeon and ended up getting flogged...a lot. Did he like it? Would he do it again? Listen and find out. Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: Q@Savage.Love Do you have a comment for this show? Record it and send it in to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064 It's the Magnum Gift sale Dec 1–31! Gift a Magnum subscription to a friend or enemy at 50% off, just $24! Savage.love/gift. Who is Dan Savage? Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Sensual Awakenings App on the Apple Store, or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com In the quiet town where the sea kisses the shore, Tess finds herself haunted by the last words she exchanged with Finn before he vanished beneath the waves. Regret clings to her like sea salt, and as she stands on the beach, her heart breaks for the love she lost. Yet, as the tide ebbs and flows, so does her longing—transforming into tantalizing erotic fantasies that dance like shadows on the sand.But the ocean holds secrets deeper than Tess ever imagined. As she plunges into the supernatural depths of her desires, she uncovers a world where passion knows no bounds and the boundaries between life and death blur. Finn's spirit calls to her, weaving a tale of love intertwined with BDSM and longing that transcends the physical realm.In a journey filled with tearjerking revelations and tantalizing encounters, Tess must confront the truth of Finn's demise and the powerful connection that binds them—one that could either set her free or drown her in desire forever. Join Tess as she navigates the stormy waters of love, loss, and the supernatural, discovering that some ties can never be severed, and the heart's deepest yearnings can lead to the most unexpected places. Will she find closure, or will she drown in the depths of her desire?
In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually powerful episode of the Kink Series, we go far beyond basic BDSM concepts and drop directly into the psychology, ritual, and emotional architecture of kink with Mistress Audry Lu Black — a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader. Together we explore how bondage, ritual, humiliation, sexual sadism, and power exchange can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, trauma processing, and emotional liberation. What begins as a conversation about rope quickly expands into a rich discussion about worship, devotion, fear release, identity, surrender, and the transformative role of a Dominant who leads with intention and precision. This episode opens the door to understanding kink as both art and psychology, and how deep D/s can create safety, stillness, and meaning for those who crave structure, containment, or catharsis. • Why 20% of the body's energy feeds the brain and how cognitive load, overthinking, and perfectionism show up in bondage scenes • Bondage as nervous system regulation — creating stillness, presence, and relief for anxious or neurodivergent minds who struggle with meditation • Somatic containment through rope and restraint for anxiety, trauma, and hypermobility conditions (including Ehlers-Danlos and other connective tissue differences) • The paradox of safety through restriction — how removing choice, movement, and anticipated pressure can reduce anxiety and soothe a dysregulated nervous system • Femme Domme philosophy and energetic leadership — what it means to embody dominance, hold power, and create psychological structures for surrender • Sexual sadism and humiliation — how intention, emotional tone, and negotiated meaning differentiate harm from healing, and cruelty from catharsis • The psychology of worship and groveling — why submission, devotion, and being at Her feet can be grounding, erotic, or spiritually significant • Ritual in kink — how structure, ceremony, and symbolic actions frame scenes, build trust, and regulate the body's response to intensity • Lifestyle vs. professional domination — the differences in purpose, boundaries, emotional bandwidth, and the Dominant's role in each dynamic • Deep-dive negotiation practices — understanding limits, desires, tone, chemistry, and psychological triggers before entering a scene • A full, realistic BDSM pre-scene negotiation role play so listeners can hear how safe, ethical, consent-based kink is structured before any play begins • The Dominant's internal process — emotional labor, reading the submissive's physiology, and creating a safe container for intensity • How humiliation can be affirming, transformative, or erotic depending on the submissive's psychology and agreed roles • Bondage as an anchor for embodiment — helping the mind exit constant vigilance and enter stillness, surrender, or erotic presence Touch Me There: Vaginal Reflexology, Squirting Secrets & Orgasmic Magic — available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AsOZmGPvMiR3pQfVZKfxR?si=fFDg8SQqS7OCQQn5ptYGoA Connect with the Guest Mistress Audry Lu Black Podcast: Placemaker for Perversion Substack: https://audrylublack.substack.com/ Official Website: https://mistresslublack.com/ Mentioned Resources Hani Cheng – Talk to the Peach: Sensual healing, feminine pleasure, and reconnecting with your body (Listen here) Hani Cheng – Reflexology: Mapping female genitals with reflexology for pleasure and body awareness (Listen here) Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing: shamelesscare.com Eve's Substack — Q&A, workshops, & exclusive content: https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership World Vision Support survivors of typhoon & earthquake: worldvision.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
**Shame doesn't just make you feel bad, it fundamentally shapes how you experience your own body and desires.** Returning guest Dr. Alison Ash breaks down exactly why shame is so destructive to sexual wellness. Unlike guilt (which says you did something wrong), shame tells you that *you yourself* are wrong, creating a deep fear of rejection that literally dysregulates your nervous system. This isn't something we're born with. It develops through early experiences where we internalize negative reactions, eventually becoming that harsh inner critic voice. The contradictory messages are especially confusing: women should look desirable but not actually desire, while men should always be sexually available yet their desire is somehow dangerous. These cultural and religious influences create confusion that conscious rejection alone can't fix. Here's where it gets interesting: empathy is shame's antidote. When someone truly accepts you without judgment, healing becomes possible. (This is why finding sex-positive communities matters so much.) Dr. Aly explains how even BDSM can be healing for trauma survivors through consensual power exchange—reclaiming control over experiences where they previously had none. What if the fantasies or interests that make you feel broken are actually completely normal? Ready to understand the difference between your own feelings and society's expectations? This conversation offers practical strategies for recognizing shame's sources and reclaiming your agency. Estimated Timeline: 00:00:00 - Moving Through Shame and Sexual Wellness 00:02:09 - Guilt vs Shame: Understanding the Inner Critic 00:04:47 - Inner Shame and Sexuality's Cultural Conditioning 00:08:56 - Shame's Impact on Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment 00:10:48 - Shame, Empathy, and Healing Through Connection 00:14:33 - Power Exchange as Healing and Shame Reframing 00:17:43 - Reading Fiction as Healing and Normalization 00:19:14 - Shame Prevents Us From Enjoying Pleasure 00:21:33 - Building Trust Through Gradual Vulnerability 00:26:02 - Understanding Sexual Non-Concordance and Shame 00:28:45 - Unpacking Body Shame Through Conversation 00:32:56 - Lubrication Myths and Sexual Shame 00:35:17 - Being Selective About Who You Share With 00:37:09 - Sex Toys as Tools, Not Shame 00:41:12 - Internet's Role in Community and Identity 00:44:00 - Building Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Tues, Jan 27th-Mar 17th We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets available now for $200-$400 off! Coaching: Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for individual, couples, and ENM coaching support! All links: www.TurnON.love Sustainable Intimacy Retreat: https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat Sustainable Intimacy On Demand Rental: https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy SEIS course: https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skills Coaching: https://www.turnon.love/sex-and-intimacy-coaching
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We are decking your halls with our first festive episode of the holiday season! Jessi breaks down everything you can't afford on Gwyneth Paltrow's NOT SAFE FOR BABY JESUS Goop Gift Guide (including 9 vibrators!) Did Meghan Markle steal the dress she is wearing in her holiday special and how much was Prince Harry paid to speak in Toronto this week? Jessi has ANSWERS. Plus, you won't be giving your kids the AI Teddy Bear that was BANNED for teaching children about BDSM, but would you give your husband the controversial PINK J Crew sweater that has divided the internet? All that and Jessi defends the Elf on the Shelf- please don't shame her, Santa is watching. Jessi wants to hear from YOU for a very special voicemail episode - ask her anything HERE: 323-448-0068 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Remember the Indiana school teacher who got fired for having an OnlyFans and then blew up the internet? She's back. Sarah Juree returns to Sex Party to talk about what really happened after the “after-school scandal” that took her from the classroom to Dr. Phil, viral headlines, and a nonstop media circus.Sarah just released her new book, Diary of an OnlyFans Model, and she's opening the vault. She and Dustin dive into the fallout no one saw, the money, the shame, the DMs, and the moment she decided to own the story instead of running from it. They get into cross-dressing, virtual threesomes, blackmail and the wild ways her sex life and public persona have evolved since the world tried to cancel her.This episode is about scandal, reinvention, and refusing to go back to “normal” once you've tasted freedom. If you loved her the first time, you're in for a ride. If you've never met Sarah Juree, buckle up.Sharpen your pencils, open up your books to page 2 and enjoy EP 202: "After-School Scandal" with Sarah Juree.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sarah JureeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjuree (@sarahjuree)Get 'Diary Of An OnlyFans Model'Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Diary-OnlyFans-Model-Happens-Paywall/dp/B0FDB43MLRFollow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Listen in on Dan's conversation with a woman who learned that her husband had an affair early in their relationship. It turns out she's been chatting with the other woman for a year without knowing it was her! She lives up the street! Dan advises her on whether to broach the subject with her husband's ex-lover. A woman loves receiving anal sex so much, that she comes immediately and then needs her husband to get outta there. How can she prolong both of their pleasure? On the Magnum, Mpox cases are on the rise worldwide. Dan brings on queer sexual health teacher Dr. Carleton Thomas to give us the scoop. He was a clear and steady source of information during the first Mpox outbreak, and he's here guide us today. Finally, a middle-aged straight man who "broad"casts his feminist allyship on social media has a gaggle of younger women he's collected from his comments section who all expressed interest in him. He *may* want to try to commit to one of them, but doesn't want to make mistakes from his past. If he chooses just one, how can he "not get bored and fuck it all up?" 206-302-2064 Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by Overload by Maxxm: supplements that leave a lasting impression in the bedroom. For a discount go to maxxm.com/savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
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Celebrating the 200th episode, I'm digging into the two myths you voted for: the idea that harm doesn't count if it wasn't intended, and the belief that experience automatically makes someone safe. These show up everywhere, and they shape how people trust, how they explain discomfort, and how they excuse behavior without even realizing it. In this episode, I'm breaking down why these myths stick around, how they actually play out in real dynamics, and what matters more than intention or years in the lifestyle. If you've ever wondered whether your reaction was valid, or whether someone's “history” should mean anything, this conversation will help you sort through it.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Myths #BDSM
In 2012, NYPD officer Gilberto Valle's wife made a horrifying discovery: thousands of online chats where her husband discussed kidnapping, torturing, cooking, and eating women...including her.Valle was a member of Dark Fetish Net, a website for extreme sexual fantasies, where he shared detailed plans about cannibalizing real people he knew. The FBI arrested Valle and charged him with conspiracy to commit kidnapping. The evidence was disturbing: graphic conversations about cooking women alive, over 100 unauthorized police database searches on potential victims, Google searches for "how to make chloroform," and real-world meetings with his targets. But here's the twist: Valle never kidnapped anyone. Never attempted to. Never took any concrete steps beyond online conversations and Google searches. Valle claimed it was all fantasy role-play. Prosecutors argued it was a genuine conspiracy. After a twelve-day trial featuring gruesome evidence and disturbing testimony, the jury convicted him. Valle faced life in federal prison...This case exploded into a national debate about thoughtcrime, free speech, and the limits of conspiracy law. Can you be imprisoned for disturbing fantasies? Where's the line between fantasy and criminal intent? Should online role-play be prosecutable as conspiracy?Join Robin as she breaks it down. ---------------------------------------------------------------Keywords: Gilberto Valle, Cannibal Cop, NYPD, conspiracy to kidnap, Dark Fetish Net, true crime podcast, criminal conspiracy, First Amendment, free speech, constitutional law, federal crime, wrongful conviction, jury verdict, acquittal, Judge Paul Gardephe, thoughtcrime, police corruption, database abuse, New York crime, federal prison, legal podcast, court case analysis, civil liberties, true crime 2024, criminal justice, sexual fetish, cannibalism, vorarephilia, internet crime, cyber crime, FBI investigation, federal trial, appeals court, Second Circuit, true threats, protected speech, actus reus, overt act, criminal intent, fantasy defenseBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/we-saw-the-devil-a-true-crime-podcast--4433638/support.Website: http://www.wesawthedevil.comPatreon: http://www.patreon.com/wesawthedevilDiscord: https://discord.gg/X2qYXdB4Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/WeSawtheDevilInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/wesawthedevilpodcast.
A kinky festival tragic flavors on this episode! BUT important to talk about! WHAT happens when you try to defend kink/BDSM to a friend or family member by coming out to them as kinky, and they freak out and reject you??? YIKES! We kink talk about that! WHAT happens when your kink dynamic fades and a partner takes their life out on you in a negative way? We kink talke about that too! Of course in between there is fun and discussion of sexy play and even Uncle Creepy's fun kinky clown play scene! Lot's to hear and think about every episode of the wonderous circus of BDSM mayhem that IS Perverted Podcast!
Meet Chrissy, a bisexual woman and self-identified pervert, who went to a sex club for the first time. What happened there? Well, let's just say you may feel...shocked. Want to tell your tale? Write us at Q@Savage.Love Want to hear more from Dan Savage? Listen to the Savage Lovecast @Savage.Love. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Sensual Awakenings App on the Apple Store, or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com In the quiet town where the sea kisses the shore, Tess finds herself haunted by the last words she exchanged with Finn before he vanished beneath the waves. Regret clings to her like sea salt, and as she stands on the beach, her heart breaks for the love she lost. Yet, as the tide ebbs and flows, so does her longing—transforming into tantalizing erotic fantasies that dance like shadows on the sand.But the ocean holds secrets deeper than Tess ever imagined. As she plunges into the supernatural depths of her desires, she uncovers a world where passion knows no bounds and the boundaries between life and death blur. Finn's spirit calls to her, weaving a tale of love intertwined with BDSM and longing that transcends the physical realm.In a journey filled with tearjerking revelations and tantalizing encounters, Tess must confront the truth of Finn's demise and the powerful connection that binds them—one that could either set her free or drown her in desire forever. Join Tess as she navigates the stormy waters of love, loss, and the supernatural, discovering that some ties can never be severed, and the heart's deepest yearnings can lead to the most unexpected places. Will she find closure, or will she drown in the depths of her desire?
Episode Overview In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education. Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way. Topics Covered
Send us a textTuesday Talks: Is Talking in the Playroom Rude? BDSM vs. Swinger Etiquette | Episode 84In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another intriguing “Tuesday Talks” listener question .This week's anonymous caller shares that they're used to the structure, etiquette, and quiet focus of BDSM environments, but they also love the thrill of being watched in swinger clubs. Recently, while playing in an open room at Trapeze Atlanta, they found themselves distracted and frustrated when people nearby carried on loud conversations during their scene. In BDSM spaces, that kind of behavior would be a big no — but is it normal in swinger spaces? And would they be out of line to ask people around them to keep it down?Dan and Lacy break down the differences in culture between kink dungeons and swinger playrooms, why swinger environments tend to be more social and less structured, and how to navigate your boundaries without killing the vibe. From communication tips to setting expectations, they help this listener find the balance between enjoying their exhibitionist side and still honoring the energy they need during intimate play.Donate to our Toy Drive: http://gofund.me/092d5e7b1- The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!)- Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group- Swinger Websites -Kasadie 90 day free trialUsername: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLSUsername: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl- Merch & More -Order Your Merch Here!- Lacy's Fun Links -VIP OnlyFansPREMIUM OnlyFans-- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS --Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyoneUse Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder!Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testingUse Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order!Promescent® Make Love Longer, It's Time for Great SexUse Code SwingNation for 5% off!Sling it Bikinis: adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type.Support the show- Thank you for the support! -
00:00:00 – Opening chaos; Santa hat laws, HOA Christmas rules, and a quick Marjorie Taylor Greene farewell 00:04:55 – Democrats' Butler County PSA telling troops to ignore "illegal orders"; debate over chain of command, vaccines, torture, and what actually counts as unlawful 00:09:51 – Dakota Meyer clip on refusing bad orders and Medal of Honor sacrifice, used to pivot into bigger questions about obedience and conscience 00:14:43 – "Age of Disclosure" UFO doc review: New York Times coverage, Lou Elizondo as the star, Gillibrand/Rubio/Clapper/Mellon and the film's very deep-state casting 00:23:21 – Legacy crash-retrieval program breakdown: CIA HQ role, Air Force grab teams, DOE's secret classification, contractors doing reverse-engineering, and talk of multiple non-human species 00:36:06 – Warp-bubble theory explainer: surfing spacetime, why UFO photos blur, and the absurd energy bill that hints at a hidden breakaway civilization 00:40:01 – Global UAP tech cold war, private aerospace hoarding crash materials, FOIA dead-ends, and the movie's timid speculation on what the visitors actually want 00:49:21 – David Grusch on primetime Fox News: recovered craft and "biologics," other nations' programs, whistleblower threats, and hints that Biden and Trump are fully briefed 00:57:59 – Are UFOs demons? Pentagon old-guard religious resistance, the doc's dismissal of spiritual angles, Fox avoiding demon talk for Christian viewers, plus Burchett and Bigfoot tangents 01:03:00 – Designing the official OBDM BDSM van, then first-car nostalgia and dangerous old station wagons, Mustangs, Buicks and junker Saturns 01:12:46 – Obituary for dead car brands: Eagle, Plymouth, Oldsmobile, Rover, Pontiac, Hummer, Saturn, Scion and more, with side talk on GM strategy and what people actually drive now 01:22:29 – Listener calls: Big Island farmer on volcano vacations and failed Baja Blast pie delivery, then a North Dakota caller shredding Age of Disclosure, Lou Elizondo and Tom DeLonge's spook ties 01:31:43 – Cratchit's News kicks off: "poop fairy" scandal as a councilwoman's husband is caught dumping bagged dog poop at a pet store, sparking resignation talk 01:41:12 – "Abandoned dog" emergency is just a plastic reindeer; police, panicked drivers, and an OBDM-branded Poop Fairy Photoshop gag 01:45:00 – AI teddy bear "Kuma" with GPT-4: researchers coax it into BDSM tips, knife advice and kink talk, raising fears about pervy lab techs and cursed kids' toys 01:50:00 – Consumer watchdogs slap the toy dev; riffing on prompt-injection via children's toys and an Alex-Jones-voiced AI bear screaming conspiracies as bedtime stories 01:54:19 – Heinz "Leftover Gravy" squeeze bottle and the Friends-style "Moist Maker" sandwich; deep dive on Thanksgiving leftovers, clogged drains and suspiciously cheap gravy 02:03:14 – Wrap-up plugs for OBDM/Obedient, Discord and classic episodes, followed by a dense conspiracy-rap track as the outro Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research ▀▄▀▄▀ CONTACT LINKS ▀▄▀▄▀ ► Website: http://obdmpod.com ► Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/obdmpod ► Full Videos at Odysee: https://odysee.com/@obdm:0 ► Twitter: https://twitter.com/obdmpod ► Instagram: obdmpod ► Email: ourbigdumbmouth at gmail ► RSS: http://ourbigdumbmouth.libsyn.com/rss ► iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/our-big-dumb-mouth/id261189509?mt=2