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Have you heard about the new A24 movie from writer/director Harry Lighton that's almost a romantic comedy about gay BDSM biker culture? That's PILLION, starring Alexander Skarsgaard and Harry Melling, and we're thrilled to have our friend Nayland Blake (an influential artist and teacher who's an authority on queer kink, riding with us!What's Good?Alonso - Trans Girl Scouts you can buy cookies fromDrea - The Milan-Cortina Olympics (also Coach Jackie)Nayland - Midwest Magic Cleaning on YouTubeKevin - Casey Abrams at Hotel Cafe (w/surprise Dave Koz); Bobby Brown at the barITIDICLetterboxd Op-Ed: Is Streaming Making Movies Less Memorable?Kristen Stewart Buys Highland Park TheaterOur ‘Sex-Positive Movie Night' Picks in a Letterboxd ListStaff PicksAlonso - Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't DieDrea - Nirvanna The Band The Show The MovieNayland - BloodsistersKevin - SecretaryNayland's Books:My Studio Is a Dungeon Is the StudioNo Wrong Holes: Thirty Years of Nayland Blake Follow us on BlueSky, Facebook, Instagram, or LetterboxdWithKevin AveryDrea ClarkAlonso DuraldeProduced by Marissa FlaxbartSr. Producer Laura Swisher
YOU GUYS ASKED and we delivered with our VERY SPOILER FILLED review of Pillion. Is it the new 50 shades? Dive into our likes, dislikes and critical review as kinksters in the BDSM community. This movie about the timid Colin (Harry Melling) and his spontaneous meeting of Ray (Alexander Skarsgard), a dom, kinky, biker gang leader who initiates him into the world of kink. Is it good kink and bdsm representation? Well, that's a complicated answer!IF YOU HAVNT WATCHED IT YET AND DONT WANT IT SPOILED, COME BACK AFTER YOU'VE SEEN THE MOVIE! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!- Go to http://www.leatherDaddySkin.com and use code WATTS for 20 percent off your entire order. -- Justin Hall -Pride in Panels THIS WEEKEND: https://www.prideinpanels.orghttps://x.com/justincomicshttps://www.instagram.com/justinhallcomics- Watts Socials -Discord: https://discord.gg/bxqDQVcKH7Amps Linktree: https://linktr.ee/pupampKristofer Linktree: https://linktr.ee/mrkristoferSAFEWORD MERCH: http://www.safewordshop.comTWITCH: http://twitch.tv/wattsthesafewordWatts Your Safeword Podcast:Itunes: http://apple.co/2QkMDwkSpotify: http://spoti.fi/2QjPNjLBluesky:https://bsky.app/profile/pupamp.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/wattsthesafeword.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/mrkristofer.bsky.socialTwitters:http://twitter.com/WattsTheSafewrdhttp://twitter.com/PupAmpInstagrams:https://instagram.com/PupAmp/https://instagram.com/mrkristoferwestonhttps://instagram.com/wattsthesafewordFacebook: http://ow.ly/Z5nvMPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/WattsTheSafewordOpening by the magical Aethernaut https://aethernaut.bandcamp.comMusic by Joakim Karud http://youtube.com/joakimkarud
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!On this one I break down how to communicate about FLR, kink, power exchange, and sexual dynamics in a way that builds connection instead of fear, pressure, or misunderstanding. Whether you're curious about FLR, chastity, BDSM, or simply want to have healthier conversations with your partner, this episode is your starting point.I talk about how to bring up difficult topics, why listening matters more than convincing, how body language and timing affect communication, and why taking sex out of the conversation at first can actually strengthen intimacy. I also explain how skills learned in the kink and FLR communities — consent, boundaries, negotiation, and emotional awareness — apply directly to everyday life, parenting, work, and family relationships.This episode isn't about sex acts. It's about connection, consent, respect, and emotional safety — and why communication is the foundation of every healthy relationship.Topics CoveredHow to communicate about FLR and kink with your partnerTalking about power exchange without pressure or fearWhy listening is more important than speakingActive listening, body language, and emotional awarenessTaking sex out of the conversation to build trustWhy consent and boundaries strengthen relationshipsHow FLR communication skills apply to real lifeBreaking generational shame around sex and intimacyWhy kink is not abuse — and what consent actually meansHow relationships evolve over time through honest communicationKey TakeawayHealthy Female-Led Relationships — and healthy marriages in general — are built on communication, consent, patience, and trust, not sex acts, labels, or performance.Subscribe to Krystine's FLR Podcast for real-life conversations about Female-Led Relationships, communication, consent, and emotional connection — beyond fantasy and judgment.Support the showHelp Support The Show? https://www.krystinekellogg.com/ Email Me! KrystineKellogg@Gmail.com Want to support the podcast and be involved with the behind-the-scenes, including voting on episode topics, as well as tiptoe with me into this whole "coaching" thing. Find my Patreon HERE! Keywords:domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control
Sally Dinosaur doesn't perform desire, she inhabits it. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest episode, Sally joins Holly to talk about BDSM dynamics, camming orgasms, public-risk streams, the burnout that shut her body down, and the explosive comeback that proved her audience never left. From accidental penis humiliation mishaps to learning how to separate fantasy from real life, this episode digs into what happens when pleasure becomes a profession — and why listening to your body might be the most hardcore move of all. Want the unedited, uncensored live tapings + bonus Q&A where fans can ask questions? Join our Patreon. https://patreon.com/hollyrandallunfilteredThis episode is brought to you by Stripchat, the exclusive sponsor of Holly Randall Unfiltered. https://www.instagram.com/scworld.officialBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/holly-randall-unfiltered--6630320/support.
Writer, performer and producer, Judy Calabrese took a chance on being a switch and ended up gaining far more pleasure than she'd anticipated. Certified sex educator and sex worker, Elle Stanger, learned something new about her body during an impromptu experience in a gay bar bathroom. Topics you'll hear about: Dominatrix work and BDSM as a newbie Erotic spanking Squirting, aka "she-jaculation" or "female ejaculation" Sex work, including an important myth set straight Check out Judy and Elle's stories in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories: https://bit.ly/3bgQG9k - edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner patreon.com/girlboner Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin. This episode was originally released in June, 2022.
WILDEST. EPISODE. EVER.Chloe Kreams is on the show, and this episode is full-send chaos. She's funny, sharp, and brutally honest about what she likes, what she's curious about, and how far she's willing to take it when the vibe is right. THERE'S SO MUCH I CAN'T EVEN MENTION HERE OMG. Strap-on energy, group-scene madness, and taboo territory that somehow stays hilarious.We get into her collab with Gia Derza, why she proudly leans into being a hairy creator (bush, pits, all of it), and how she thinks about exploring without shame while still owning her boundaries. Towards the end of the episode we get into the wild stuff fans ask for on OnlyFans — but this episode is truly all about Chloe being Chloe: bold, unfiltered, and out of control.Strap in, strap on, strap down and enjoy EP 212: "Cross The Streams" with Chloe Kreams.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Chloe Kreams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chloe_kreams (@chloe_kreams)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Pain doesn't always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure. In this third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore the many types of pain play within BDSM, from impact and sensation play to psychological and endurance-based dynamics. We'll break down how pain can feel pleasurable, why different bodies and minds experience it differently, and how consent, communication, and aftercare transform pain into a powerful, intimate exchange. Whether you're kink-curious, experienced, or simply looking to understand BDSM more deeply, this episode offers a compassionate, educational look at how pain can become pleasure — safely, consensually, and intentionally. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
How Pillion has reignited curiosity about the leather daddy archetype — and what that reveals about visibility, stereotypes, and lived experience in the broader leather and kink communities. We're talking about the premise of the Dom/Sub storyline as well as talking about the history of the leather community The hosts share personal stories of their involvement in the BDSM community and what it means to them Mainstream audiences are encountering leather/BDSM dynamics very openly — in a rom-com-ish, kink-positive story. How narratives around power, identity, sexuality, and aging intersect in queer spaces. Hot Topic: We break down the Super Bowl halftime show! Hot Topic: We're talking the Winter Olympics and 'penis gate' and Gus Kenworthy pees on ice to protest ICE Hot Topic: The controversy of a leaked email to instructors at Barry's Boot Camp about how to deal with ICE... Advice: Not feeling enough and having the feeling to compete with other body types we see on social media... Get 20% OFF now through Feb. 17 Steve V's new app Connect & Confidence Studio.com/stevev/connect Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Lincoln on IG: @madlincoln Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
If there's one aspect of sex that's severely misunderstood, it's kink. From 50 Shades of Grey misrepresenting it as being non-consensual and all about pain, to the stigma of openly associating with any kind of desire that's not ✨mainstream✨ it can be a little intimidating to consciously decide to engage in kink for the first time. And not least because there's so much information out there that, as a beginner, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed and wonder if your desires even count as kink at all.Well, never fear, because in this episode we're joined by the wonderful Gigi Engle to discuss everything you need to know about kink as a beginner. We start the episode answering some listener questions (to access more subscribe to our Substack @sextras) before jumping into why we need to talk about kink (hint: because more people engage in it than you realise, and it can be dangerous if you get it wrong!).Gigi tells me about her own journey into kink and explains what a kink actually is, and what it's not (ie. it's not just BDSM and foot fetishes). We look at how power dynamics come into it, and why they're not as scary as they might sound, how to know what kinks you're into, and what the most common kinks, or kink-related fantasies, are.To help you stay emotionally and physically safe when practicing kink, Gigi advises us on how to bring up your kink to a partner, and what steps you can take together before even thinking about exploring it in the bedroom – or wherever else you might want to.Thanks so much for listening! You can find Gigi on her Instagram, website, or Substack, and buy her book from the Common Press or your favourite indie bookshop near you (or Am*zon if you must!). We've changed our name on Instagram to @s3xtrasworld (more on this next episode), but as always you can find us there, on our website, TikTok, or subscribe to our Substack (pretty please!). Don't forget to review us wherever you're listening and we'll miss you until next time
Episode 199 - (Male POV) Accountability in the Lifestyle - In this Episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind the Male POV editions. The guys dig in to accountability in the lifestyle. What does it mean to be accountable and how do we show that and live in it. Do we have people we trust to hold us accountable?
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"Pillion" is an erotic comedy drama film written and directed by Harry Lighton, based on the 2020 novel "Box Hill" by Adam Mars-Jones. The film stars Harry Melling as a timid gay man and Alexander Skarsgård as an enigmatic biker who starts a BDSM relationship. The film had its world premiere in the Un Certain Regard section at the 2025 Cannes Film Festival, where it won the section's Best Screenplay prize and the Palm Dog for Mutt Moment, alongside nominations for the Caméra d'Or and the Queer Palm. It received widespread praise from critics, receiving several nominations and awards, including two British Independent Film Awards and a Gotham Independent Film Award, as well as three British Academy Film Award nominations. Lighton, Melling, and Skarsgård were all kind enough to spend some time talking with us about their work and experience making the film, which you can listen to below. Please be sure to check out the film, which is now playing in theaters from A24. Thank you, and enjoy! Check out more on NextBestPicture.com Please subscribe on... Apple Podcasts - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/negs-best-film-podcast/id1087678387?mt=2 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7IMIzpYehTqeUa1d9EC4jT YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWA7KiotcWmHiYYy6wJqwOw And be sure to help support us on Patreon for as little as $1 a month at https://www.patreon.com/NextBestPicture and listen to this podcast ad-free Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever considered that the silk against your skin might be doing more than just making you pretty? That those tight laces aren't merely decorative—they're a bridge between your body and your submission? That's the topic of this week's episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Sissy Bondage Wear.Clothing has always been a tool of control. From Victorian tight-lacing to modern locking corsets, what we wear shapes not just how others see us, but how we experience our own submission. Ms Erika brought this topic to the table after an inspiring conversation about how bondage wear serves as a constant reminder of "who and what you are" when you're in your sissy headspace. It's the difference between simply wearing a dress and being held by it.As Femdoms, we'll explain the tension between restriction and reward—the "princess paradox," if you will. Can a sensual Dominatrix wield a hobble dress with the same effectiveness as a strict protocol Mistress? (Spoiler: absolutely, but the psychological impact shifts.) We discuss how locking ankle straps, spreader bars, and even DIY budget-friendly options like repurposed pantyhose can create that coveted feeling of helpless feminization without breaking the bank.Finally, we talk about our favorite locking mechanisms, from padlocks to numbered tags that look like tiny zip ties. We emphasize safety when doing solo distance domination play.This conversation is for the sissy who wants to understand how a simple Ace bandage cincher or hobbled heels can shift sissy training into a profound feminization experience.Have you discovered the transformative power of restrictive feminization? What's your essential piece of sissy bondage wear—the item that instantly drops you into submission?If this episode leaves you aching to explore your own wardrobe of restraint, remember that Erika and I'm available for private phone and text sessions where we can design your perfect sissy bondage protocol. We're both on DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwiterX: @MistressOlivia1 Blue Sky: @Ms Olivia Ms Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comTwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Ms Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyUntil next time… stay pretty, stay sexy, and stay bound to us.
On today's show, I discuss what being single reveals in the lifestyle, and why it's often less about preference than about capacity. This episode continues the journal entry Strong Enough to Stay Single and looks at how structure, intensity, and roles can quietly become substitutes for regulation. I explore what actually breaks connection when curiosity and listening fall away. No advice, no villains, just recognition.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#Psychology #Single #Lifestyle
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, episode 748 Dawn chats with Hypnostory and Panda about Memory Play, but it also drifted into talking about agency in Hypnosis…..great conversation…. ……plus, she reviews some bdsm terms like "aftercare, negotiation, collaring and free-use". Links mentioned on the show: Intrigue https://fetlife.com/events/1725996 NM Leather & Kink Fair https://fetlife.com/events/2026/04/11/nm-leather-kink-fair-sat-apr-11-2026-puaxxg Primal Arts Fest https://fetlife.com/events/1911410 Transcript 1:38 Interview with Hypnostory and Panda 3:12 What is Memory Play? 4:17 Example of Memory Play 12:05 Hypnosis is teamwork 12:51 Using distraction to help with forgetting 15:04 Bottoming for hypnosis is not passive 17:58 Neural Pathways 19:40 Utilization in hypnosis 20:58 Dawn realizes hypnosis has skills like guided meditations 22:14 Hypnosis in Kink 24:53 Resistance and Agency 28:40 Removing suggestion 33:39 Vampire and Thrall style relationship 37:38 Consent Violation 40:25 Class is on February 15th at 3:00 PM Eastern Time - online - Remembering to Forget, exploring Memory Play 41:58 Where to find online hypnosis community 46:19 aftercare 46:50 negotiation 47:18 collaring 47:49 free use Enjoy!!! Dawn ***************************************** Fetlife - @erotic_awakening Fetlife - @dawn_awakening Instagram - @eroticawakening Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eapodcastdawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com Discord - https://discord.gg/WQtSM56V39 748 - #bdsmterminology #bdsmterms #aftercare #bdsmnegotiations #freeuse #bdsmtng #kinkvirtual #powerexchange #polyamory #livingms #polyamorytoolkit #kinkeducation #leathereducation #onlineeducation #podcast #eroticawakeningpodcast #bdsm #domsub #submission #heartsandcollars
Chapter 129This week Queen tells us about her going to a party with her Dom and we see videos of their BDSM session during the party. Then we discuss all that is going on wit porn and these platforms. Now it's time to podcast and we start with us reacting to two videos from Conversations Tonight. The first one was a lady who had two brain surgeries and she is complaining about her husband not being romantic after he nursed her back to good health. The 2nd one was a lady asking about getting out of and over a lesbian relationship. We unpack both and we discuss the three types of cheater for both men and women. Then , we discuss a lady who has both of her BMs names tatted on her but the real tea is her "I'm His Cum Bucket " Tattoo. Then we unpack bad roommates and more.Watch the Full Episode as a Premium Smoker in The Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfanshttps://tinylf.com/qEOiWRZkp4GCyU9
This is my personal update just before diving into 7-day BDSM retreat taught by Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani. It's called “Tantra Meets BDSM” - and I'm 90% excited and 10% feeling edgy. Seems like the perfect ratio. Let me know your thoughts & questions if you have any. CONNECT WITH ME:
Jumping onboard the program today is Katherine Wela Bogen, who has just become a debut author by publishing Queering Him, a novel that takes you through the intense and messy relationship between Avra and Kieran. In addition, Katie is a clinical psychology PhD student and cohost of the political podcast SuperHumanizer, concentrating her energy on queerness, sexuality, sexual trauma, supporting Palestine, and more—all from her own bisexual and Jewish perspective. Biphobic attitudes, laying out the definitions of BDSM and kink, queer people having to operate outside of a traditional script for sex, appreciation for one of the best TV shows of 2025 (yes, it's Heated Rivalry), and what Katie has planned for Avra and Kieran's story in their future books comprise quite a bit of the conversation for this episode.Create your podcast today! #madeonzencastrHere's how you can learn more about Palestine and IsraelHere's how you can keep up-to-date on this genocideHere's how you can send eSIM cards to Palestinians in order to help them stay connected onlineKatie's Good Word: Delta of Venus by Anaïs NinReach out at email2centscritic@yahoo.com if you want to recommend things to watch and read, share anecdotes, or just say hello!Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review on iTunes or any of your preferred podcasting platforms!Follow Arthur on Twitter, Goodpods, StoryGraph, Letterboxd, and TikTok: @arthur_ant18Follow Arthur on Bluesky: @arthur-ant18Follow the podcast on Twitter: @two_centscriticFollow the podcast on Instagram: @twocentscriticpodFollow Arthur on GoodreadsCheck out 2 Cents Critic Linktree
Yes, we just did this a few weeks ago, but we all probably need a good rant or two. In this episode: Join our Patreon during the 2026 Membership Drive I don't want to... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Harry Melling is very aware his work in the new film Pillion is about as far away as he can get from his portrayal of Dudley Dursley in the Harry Potter franchise. “A lot of people, they'll go, ‘Wow, Dudley Dursley's in this kinky movie.' And I don't know what to say about that.” Fortunately for Melling, critics are praising his performance as a shy man, Colin, entering the BDSM subculture through a relationship with Ray (Alexander Skarsgård). “What I loved about the story is meeting him in this brave moment of going, ‘I'm gonna give this a go.' Watching him explore what he wants.” For Melling, this role is another example of how the actor is challenging the difficulties some child actors can have moving into more adult roles. “I always knew that I wanted to do this properly. Like I was a massive theater nerd, so I wanted to do theater, I wanted to work with the great movie directors. I took steps to bridge the gap.” With Pillion, it's clear Melling is all grown up. Subscribe to my newsletter: https://for-the-culture.beehiiv.com Follow me: https://linktr.ee/halanscott See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
A Classic RISK! episode from our early years when Brian Finkelstein, Carrie Wade and Matt Oberg told true stories at the live RISK! show for the 2013 LA Storytelling Festival.
Hello, Friends! Before we dive into "Between Two Kings," the second novel in Lindsay Straube's Split or Swallow series, we thought we'd rerelease our episode on Split or Swallow so you know what's going on. Enjoy! Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content and let's be friends!Instagram > @Booktokmademe_podTikTok > @BooktokMadeMe
Juliana Marie goes all in — in real life and on camera. She's a mainstream performer and creator who was already living the chaos before the industry: real-life glory hole adventures, orgies, and group play long before she ever shot a scene. That fearless “head first” energy is the entire episode.She's only been in mainstream for a little over a year, but her range is wild: switch dynamics, dom/sub flips, bondage on both sides of the rope, ball-busting, wrestling, and the kind of playful violence that somehow stays hot. She also talks the Vegas catastrophe that changed everything, plus what she's chasing next — including a trip to Colombia.Fast, feral, and fun as hell. Welcome to EP 211: "Head First" with Juliana Marie. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Juliana MarieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejulianamarie (@thejulianamarie)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Encore episode! Alexander Skarsgård talks Pillion, career, and more. With Pillion now premiering widely (the wonderful, warm, and emotional BDSM rom-com co starring Harry Melling) we revisit Christina's wide ranging conversation with Alexander Skarsgård, recorded at the Stockholm International Film Festival in November 2026. They talk Pillion, the research behind the role, highlights from his career, campaigning at the same time as his father Stellan Skarsgård, fashion, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yip! Yap! Bite! A woman's little, nasty, needy dogs are anything but "comfort animals" and her girlfriend isn't having it. She refuses to move in with the caller while those tiny beasts are around. Are they fundamentally incompatible? A British woman learned that her husband had sexual experiences with other boys at his British boarding school. She never knew this and finds it shocking. Dan brings on the sexiest survivor of boarding schools that we know- porn star John Thomas. Let John's amazing voice take you on a journey examining situational homosexuality at British boarding schools. And on the Magnum, a man with blood cancer has an enlarged spleen. He's worried that anal sex might cause him harm. Dan brings on anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein to talk about risks, and how sex toys can rearrange your guts...safely. And a woman who is learning about gay intimacy for the first time through "Heated Rivalry" wonders if homo sex goes as fast as it does on the tee-vee. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
Solo sex is one of the most powerful tools you have for better partnered sex — and most people are barely scratching the surface. In this throwback episode, Dr. Emily makes the case for why your relationship with yourself might be the most important sexual relationship you'll ever have. From finding out what actually turns you on to using masturbation as a way to manage stress and boost confidence, Emily covers everything you need to know about flying solo — including how to bring toys into the mix without awkwardness. She also takes listener calls about navigating different libidos in relationships, dealing with performance anxiety, and figuring out how to ask for what you want in bed. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why masturbation is essential for sexual self-awareness — not just a fallback when you're single • How to explore fantasies and toys on your own so you can communicate better with partners • The connection between solo pleasure, stress relief, and overall sexual confidence More Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily's favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more! • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let's text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - Why Masturbation Matters (Even If You Have a Partner) 3:05 - The G-Spot Myth: Why It's Really a "G-Area" 4:50 - First-Time Masturbation Guide for Women 8:17 - Choosing Your First Vibrator: What to Know 10:54 - Can You "Retrain" Your Body to Orgasm Without a Vibrator? 14:00 - Edging Explained: How to Intensify Your Orgasms 17:38 - Overcoming Shame and Religious Guilt Around Self-Pleasure 24:01 - The We-Vibe Melt: Why It's a Game-Changer 30:40 - Rapid Fire: Mismatched Libidos, BDSM, and Confidence Tips
Are you living from victim consciousness without realizing that you're struggling and sabotaging intimacy because of it? Josh Trent welcomes Tah Witty, Master Intimacy Coach, to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 798, to unpack how victim identity wires victim physiology, why lies carried in the body accelerate aging and fuel drama, how the victim villain hero triangle shows up in relationships, healing, and leadership, what the Condor Approach reveals about seeing life from a higher vantage point, and why radical honesty, patience, and refusing to rescue others are the real gateways to freedom, intimacy, and trauma integration.
What happens when your fantasies start getting darker... and hotter?
People often say that a journey into exploring BDSM and kink will be life-changing, but what does that really mean? Often, generic posts and lovely but vague-sounding ideas are tossed about to describe it. So this episode is different; it is personal. I openly share how D/S has challenged and changed me, plus those times where it forced me to grow, even when I might not have wanted to. No matter if you are a dominant, submissive, or switch, grab your headphones, get comfortable, and settle in for this personal trip into self-growth while discovering how you, too, can evolve as you explore the lifestyle.
On today's show, I discuss where kink ends and public responsibility begins. This isn't about shaming desire or policing bodies, it's about consent, context, and containment. We look at why private dynamics don't automatically translate to public spaces, why intent isn't enough, and how public settings change the ethics. I also explore the psychology behind being seen and why restraint isn't repression. A grounded conversation about protecting consent, credibility, and the community as a whole.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | SubstackIf you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at https://enhanced-mind.com/I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!Contact me at thekinkperspective@gmail.com#Psychology #Public #Kink #Ethics
Send us a textIn this episode, Renee shares her kink and polyamorous life with her family. And then confronts someone who should have known better. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
*Trigger Warning for this episode....self harm mentioned during solo top interview. This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, episode 747, Dawn chats with Dear Caroline about solo play….aka playing without a partner .... ……plus, she reviews some bdsm terms like "top, bottom, switch, TNG, & vanilla", and shares the titles of the virtual classes she'll be teaching this month. Links mentioned on the show: Needle Playground https://needleplayground.com/ Leather Life Education Series https://leatherlife.org/ Intrigue https://fetlife.com/events/1725996 Indy Rope Expo https://www.indyropeexpo.com/ NM Leather & Kink Fair https://fetlife.com/events/2026/04/11/nm-leather-kink-fair-sat-apr-11-2026-puaxxg Primal Arts Fest https://fetlife.com/events/1911410 Dawn's online classes https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Or Dawn_Awakening (on fet) https://fetlife.com/Dawn_Awakening Transcript 1:39 Interview with Dear Caroline on solo play 6:08 "I am my own sharps top" 7:23 Meditative head space 9:29 TW: Self Harm vs Solo Play 17:44 needleplayground.com 20:54 Where Dawn can be found in person 22:53 BDSM terms - top, bottom, switch, TNG, vanilla 26:46 Dawn's Feb. virtual class offerings Enjoy!!! Dawn Discounted/Free books, kink starter cards, online classes; early access to the show, and more! https://www.patreon.com/eroticawakening ***************************************** Fetlife - @erotic_awakening Fetlife - @dawn_awakening Instagram - @eroticawakening Youtube - @eroticawakeningpodcast TikTok - @eapodcastdawn Newsletter - www.eroticawakening.com Discord - https://discord.gg/WQtSM56V39 747 - #bdsmterminology #bdsmterms #bdsmtop #bdsmbottom #bdsmswitch #bdsmtng #kinkvirtual #powerexchange #polyamory #livingms #polyamorytoolkit #kinkeducation #leathereducation #onlineeducation #podcast #eroticawakeningpodcast #bdsm #domsub #submission #heartsandcollars
Kink 101: What is a munch? Plus Alan Colorado needs our pervy help!Newbie kinksters can learn all about the kinky social event known as the munch. And storyteller Alan Colorado needs the wisdom of the audience to expand his sexual repertoire. From our Seventh Anniversary show October 12, 2025. The October live show's main show sponsor was Rowan Tree Counseling. On the episode:FetLife Galleria Domain 2 (GD2) LRA Host Karen Yates karen-yates.comOur Valentine's Kick Off Show is in Chicago, February 8, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge. Get tickets! Want more Wild & Sublime? Join The Afterglow for bonus content and Wild & Sublime goodies! Check out our new line of tees and accessories! Be wild & sublime every day! Shipping discounts for orders over $50.Do you feel stuck? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.Show your love for sex-positive podcasting: Leave a lil' tip!Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here!Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
So you've been watching some kinky BDSM porn or reading kinky sex erotica and now your brain is sexed up and hooked! But your partner say "no way" this is a VERY common problem in long term relationships and we Kink talk about it. Then...what happens when a kinky partner thinks the relationship is MORE that you think it is? We kink talk about that too! Perverted Podcast is normal kinky people with a lot of experience sharing all their knowledge and more realistically OUR MISTAKES we've made along the way to help you navigate your kinky sex and BDSM adventures in a way that is hopefully fun and good for everyone involved.
You can enjoy exclusive and intense erotic audio by grabbing your copy of the Sensual Awakenings App on the Apple Store,or downloading the very unofficial and unapproved Android version from WyldeInBed.com Immerse yourself in a world where every whisper ignites desire and every soft touch unveils hidden passions. *An ASMR Fusion Erotic Experience* invites you to explore the intoxicating blend of erotic ASMR and sensual storytelling, weaving a narrative that transcends mere words.In this standalone tale of forbidden desire, experience the thrill of enemies becoming lovers, as the sultry whispers of ASMR elevate their encounters to new heights. With each tantalizing chapter, the boundaries of BDSM and dark romance are pushed, revealing a profound connection that neither can resist.Join me on a journey filled with erotic drama and tantalizing tension, where every sound, every sigh, and every stolen moment will leave you breathless. Are you ready to surrender to a new level of pleasure? Step into a world where your fantasies come alive—one whisper at a time.
Both the defense and the prosecution have finished calling their final witnesses, and what a day in court! The cross examination of accused double murderer Brendan Banfield, along with the defense rebuttal, exposed some uncomfortable testimony. Banfield alleged his now deceased wife Christine had more than one BDSM affair and an obsession with sexual assault. Meantime the prosecution tried to score points with its rebuttal witnesses, including Banfield’s former manager. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Both the defense and the prosecution have finished calling their final witnesses, and what a day in court! The cross examination of accused double murderer Brendan Banfield, along with the defense rebuttal, exposed some uncomfortable testimony. Banfield alleged his now deceased wife Christine had more than one BDSM affair and an obsession with sexual assault. Meantime the prosecution tried to score points with its rebuttal witnesses, including Banfield’s former manager. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Both the defense and the prosecution have finished calling their final witnesses, and what a day in court! The cross examination of accused double murderer Brendan Banfield, along with the defense rebuttal, exposed some uncomfortable testimony. Banfield alleged his now deceased wife Christine had more than one BDSM affair and an obsession with sexual assault. Meantime the prosecution tried to score points with its rebuttal witnesses, including Banfield’s former manager. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Both the defense and the prosecution have finished calling their final witnesses, and what a day in court! The cross examination of accused double murderer Brendan Banfield, along with the defense rebuttal, exposed some uncomfortable testimony. Banfield alleged his now deceased wife Christine had more than one BDSM affair and an obsession with sexual assault. Meantime the prosecution tried to score points with its rebuttal witnesses, including Banfield’s former manager. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jazzmatazz is joined by FetishDomBerlin (Lucio Davoli) to discuss BDSM, what makes a great Dom…oh, and maybe some fisting…Sponsored by Fuckyeah.uk Kink3D.com Roxoff.co StudFist.com ToppedToys.com Xlube.com
Today we're joined by Casaundra Hope, a certified sexologist, tantra practitioner, and professional Dominatrix. With over 2 decades of experience, she helps individuals and couples reconnect to their erotic power, deepen intimacy, and dissolve shame through Tantra and BDSM. In this episode, we explore kink beyond the stereotypes — as a language of safety, devotion, polarity, and play. If you've ever felt the spark dim, swallowed a desire you didn't know how to name, or sensed that intimacy could be more alive than what you've been taught... this conversation is for you. Share this with your partner! ❤️
This is an episode of big news, a national holiday which divides a nation, a disappearance and a Lady Lobotomy surgery answering your burning questions, including bisexuality, BDSM relationship woes and the outcome of a Dominant in crisis. ▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Liverpool Podcast Studios▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com▶︎ Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/liverpoolpodcaststudios▶︎ LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/company/liverpool-podcast-studios
Renegade Talk Radio welcomes - Dominatrix Saskia along with Patti from Empowered Sex.com - Mistress Saskia explains to Renegade Nation all about Domination and Submission.
In this episode of True Crime News The Sidebar Podcast: Josh Schiffer joins host Joshua Ritter to break down the biggest cases making headlines across the nation. They discuss Erika Kirk invoking her victim's right to a speedy trial against her husband's alleged assassin Tyler Robinson, millionaire entrepreneur Paul Caneiro's trial for the slayings of his brother and his brother's family in a financial feud turned fatal, and Brendan Banfield mounting his defense after an alleged BDSM murder plot. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Amy and T.J. get you updated on one of the most salacious murder trials in recent history. A former IRS agent, Brendan Banfield is fighting for his freedom, charged with a double homicide for the murders of his wife, Christine and a stranger prosecutors say Banfield, along with the help of his au pair turned lover, lured to his home to set up for his wife’s death. The prosecution’s case against Banfield rests primarily on the testimony of the au pair, Juliana Peres Magalhães, who told jurors about their plan to “get rid of” Christine and pin the murder on Joseph Ryan, a man who believed he was coming to the Banfield home to participate in a BDSM sexual fantasy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Amy and T.J. get you caught up on the latest in the salacious BDSM murder trial where prosecutors say Brendan Banfield conspired with his au pair/lover to kill his wife and pin her murder on a stranger. The defense began its case on Wednesday with a much anticipated digital forensics officer who was reassigned from the case. As the defense tries to poke holes in the prosecution’s narrative, the state has been extremely effective in knocking down any suggestion that Banfield wasn’t the mastermind behind the double murder.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Amy and T.J. get you caught up on the latest in the salacious BDSM murder trial where prosecutors say Brendan Banfield conspired with his au pair/lover to kill his wife and pin her murder on a stranger. The defense began its case on Wednesday with a much anticipated digital forensics officer who was reassigned from the case. As the defense tries to poke holes in the prosecution’s narrative, the state has been extremely effective in knocking down any suggestion that Banfield wasn’t the mastermind behind the double murder.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Amy and T.J. get you updated on one of the most salacious murder trials in recent history. A former IRS agent, Brendan Banfield is fighting for his freedom, charged with a double homicide for the murders of his wife, Christine and a stranger prosecutors say Banfield, along with the help of his au pair turned lover, lured to his home to set up for his wife’s death. The prosecution’s case against Banfield rests primarily on the testimony of the au pair, Juliana Peres Magalhães, who told jurors about their plan to “get rid of” Christine and pin the murder on Joseph Ryan, a man who believed he was coming to the Banfield home to participate in a BDSM sexual fantasy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Amy and T.J. get you caught up on the latest in the salacious BDSM murder trial where prosecutors say Brendan Banfield conspired with his au pair/lover to kill his wife and pin her murder on a stranger. The defense began its case on Wednesday with a much anticipated digital forensics officer who was reassigned from the case. As the defense tries to poke holes in the prosecution’s narrative, the state has been extremely effective in knocking down any suggestion that Banfield wasn’t the mastermind behind the double murder.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Amy and T.J. get you updated on one of the most salacious murder trials in recent history. A former IRS agent, Brendan Banfield is fighting for his freedom, charged with a double homicide for the murders of his wife, Christine and a stranger prosecutors say Banfield, along with the help of his au pair turned lover, lured to his home to set up for his wife’s death. The prosecution’s case against Banfield rests primarily on the testimony of the au pair, Juliana Peres Magalhães, who told jurors about their plan to “get rid of” Christine and pin the murder on Joseph Ryan, a man who believed he was coming to the Banfield home to participate in a BDSM sexual fantasy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.