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In this episode, Christina Lecuyer gets real about clarity, boundaries, and choosing yourself—especially when the holiday season starts pulling you in every direction. If you've ever struggled to say no, felt guilty prioritizing your needs, or found yourself overwhelmed trying to make everyone happy, this conversation is one you'll want to hear.Christina breaks down what it means to be “selfish” in a way that's actually healthy, empowering, and necessary for a life that feels aligned. Because when you're clear on what you want, you not only show up better for yourself—you show up better for everyone around you.
Mark 10:13-16 (NKJV)Andrew, Isack, and Edwin talk about how to receive the kingdom like a child. It's not about innocence.Read the written devo that goes along with this episode by clicking here. Let us know what you are learning or any questions you have. Email us at TextTalk@ChristiansMeetHere.org. Join the Facebook community and join the conversation by clicking here. We'd love to meet you. Be a guest among the Christians who meet on Livingston Avenue. Click here to find out more. Michael Eldridge sang all four parts of our theme song. Find more from him by clicking here. Thanks for talking about the text with us today.________________________________________________If the hyperlinks do not work, copy the following addresses and paste them into the URL bar of your web browser: Daily Written Devo: https://readthebiblemakedisciples.wordpress.com/?p=23375The Christians Who Meet on Livingston Avenue: http://www.christiansmeethere.org/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TalkAboutTheTextFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/texttalkMichael Eldridge: https://acapeldridge.com/
In episode 149 Cath was joined by Suzy Reading. Cath and Suzy talked about tending to ourselves in winter, making the most of the seasons while holding onto sanity, people pleasing, what Suzy means when she talks about being selfish and all about self advocacy. Suzy talks about her 7 steps to taking back your power and peace and you can find much more detail about this in Suzy's newest book 'How to be Selfish' which releases on the 20th of November 2025.Suzy Reading is a Chartered Psychologist and one of the UK's leading self-care and self-advocacy experts. She has three decades of experience in the health and wellbeing industry, drawing on her qualifications in yoga and personal training, together with psychology, to empower people with sustainable healthy lifestyle habits. Suzy has a special interest in helping people heal their relationship with ‘self'. She is a monthly columnist for Top Sante Magazine; the Psychology Expert for Neom Organics; the Wellbeing Ambassador for BABTAC and is a founding member of the ‘Nourish' app. She is the author of The Little Book of Self-Care, The Self-Care Revolution, Stand Tall Like a Mountain, Self-care for Tough Times, This Book Will (Help) Make You Happy, And Breathe, Sit to Get Fit, Rest to Reset and Self-care for Winter. How to Be Selfish is hot of the press.If you wish to follow Suzy, she's on Instagram @suzyreadingIf you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. Follow Cath on social media here:Instagram: @cathcounihanSubstack: Nurture.Heal.GrowFacebook: Cath Counihan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We hear it everywhere — “love yourself first.” But where's the line between self-love and selfishness? In this episode, we unpack what self-love really means in relationships, friendships, and everyday life. Is putting yourself first always the right thing to do, or can it sometimes go too far?From setting boundaries to choosing peace over people-pleasing, we're diving into the tricky balance between confidence and consideration. Join us as we share personal stories, a few laughs, and some honest truths about what healthy self-love actually looks like.
Welcome back to Dial Emma! Each week, I'll be answering your dilemmas with honesty, empathy, and a few therapeutic truth bombs to help you make sense of life's stickiest moments. If you've ever wished you had a therapist in your back pocket, Dial Emma is here to help.This week, I'm delighted to be tackling our listener dilemma with another special guest: psychologist and author of How to Be Selfish, Suzy Reading.Suzy joins me to talk about the emotional toll of constantly “holding everything together” and why so many people, especially women, struggle to rest without guilt. Responding to a listener who feels invisible after years of caring for her children, ageing parents, and partner, we explore how cultural conditioning and inherited beliefs teach us that self-worth comes from selflessness, and how we can reframe those beliefs to find better self-advocacy in our daily lives.If you have a dilemma for Emma, please fill out this form. ---Dial Emma is hosted by Emma Reed Turrell, produced by Lauren Brook.---Social media:Emma Reed Turrell @emmareedturrellDial Emma @dialemmapodcastEmail: contact@dial-emma.uk
Ken Carman and Anthony Lima are taught how NBA 2K players could know they're playing against NBA superstars (like Donovan Mitchell) before asking whether Evan MObley needs to take more initiative, offensively, for the Cleveland Cavaliers.
Squash is forced to face up to his past in order to consider his future - and makes a decision about what that future will contain, and with whom. Squash gets paid, but will this be the last paycheck? I guess we're about to find out! --- Get ad free episodes on Patreon! You can help support the show at http://www.Patreon.com/blighthouse Find us - Email: TheLuckyDiePodcast@gmail.com Website: www.TheLuckyDie.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TLDPod Discord: https://discord.gg/vtgnVAZY44 This is a Blighthouse Studio production. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryIn this conversation, Dr. Natalie explores the often-overlooked symptoms of perimenopause and menopause, particularly irritability, and emphasizes the importance of community support during this transitional phase. She discusses the impact of sleep disturbances on mental health and the necessity of prioritizing self-care and self-compassion. Dr. Natalie also highlights mindfulness as a crucial practice for navigating the challenges of midlife, encouraging women to be kind to themselves and recognize that they are not alone in their experiences.Keywordsperimenopause, menopause, irritability, mental health, self-care, community support, sleep disturbance, self-compassion, mindfulness, women's healthTakeawaysIrritability is the number one symptom of perimenopause.Sleep disturbances can lead to significant mental health issues.Women in midlife face increased rates of anxiety and depression.Self-care is essential during the perimenopausal journey.Community support can alleviate feelings of isolation.Self-compassion involves being kind to oneself during struggles.Mindfulness helps in recognizing and addressing personal suffering.Women often prioritize others over themselves, especially during this phase.Understanding hormonal changes can help in managing symptoms.It's important to acknowledge that many women share similar experiences. Sound bites"Selfish is the new self-care.""We have to be kind to ourselves.""We're all in this together."Chapters00:00 Understanding Perimenopause and Menopause Symptoms11:06 Navigating Irritability and Self-Care17:16 The Importance of Self-Compassion23:34 NEWCHAPTERJOIN the LearnToLoveYourStory.com (https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com) Mailing List! Join my newsletter and receive my FREE video and workbook, “Freeing Yourself: A Guide for Letting Go of Other People's Opinions” SIGN UP on the website at https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/762561/109840834025752017/share DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with (https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com), (https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com (about:invalid#zCSafez) ), and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources): National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ (about:invalid#zCSafez) CALL 988Crisis Text Line: https://www.crisistextline.org/ Text HOME to 741741
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Eddie jumps in on parenting after Bobby asks him a question on being selfless vs selfish, and what he should do in this scenario. Plus, Bobby has a PSA for all Arkansas fans, and reveals an unexpected candidate for Arkansas’s next head coach, according to his sources that leaves Eddie and Kickoff Kevin in shock! Then CBS Sports' Brandon Marcello maps the national carousel—“best case” targets schools are chasing, realistic fallbacks if those miss, and which jobs are likely to move first. Download the DraftKings Sportsbook App today: https://dkng.co/bobbysports If you or someone you know has a gambling problem, crisis counseling and referral services can be accessed by calling 1-800-GAMBLER (1-800-426-2537) (IL/IN/MI/NJ/PA/WV/WY), 1-800-NEXT STEP (AZ), 1-800-522-4700 (CO/NH), 888-789-7777/visit http://ccpg.org/chat (CT), 1-800-BETS OFF (IA), 1-877-770-STOP (7867) (LA), 877-8-HOPENY/text HOPENY (467369) (NY), visit OPGR.org (OR), call/text TN REDLINE 1-800-889-9789 (TN), or 1-888-532-3500 (VA). 21+ (18+ WY). Physically present in AZ/CO/CT/IL/IN/IA/LA/MI/NJ/ NY/PA/TN/VA/WV/WY only. N/A in NH/OR/ON. New customers only. Valid 1 per new customer. Min. $5 deposit. Min $5 wager. $200 issued as eight (8) $25 free bets. Ends 9/19/22. See http://draftkings.com/sportsbook for details. Follow the Show: @BobbyBonesSports Follow the Crew: @MrBobbyBones @ProducerEddie @KickoffKevin @MikeDeestro @BrandonRayMusic See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Kathy and her husband agreed to wait 5 years until they had kids. Recently, her father-in-law passed away unexpectedly, and her husband has had baby fever ever since. Her husband doesn't want his mom to pass before she meets her grandkids. Kathy understands where he's coming from...but that wasn't the plan she agreed to! What should she do?
Mainstream Darkness James 3:13-18 Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. 14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. 15 Such "wisdom" does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. Envy is rooted in comparison. The antidote to comparison is contentment. Contentment is practiced through gratitude. Selfish ambition is rooted in pride. The antidote to pride is humility. Humility is practiced through service. 16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. 17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. 18 Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.
Eddie jumps in on parenting after Bobby asks him a question on being selfless vs selfish, and what he should do in this scenario. Plus, Bobby has a PSA for all Arkansas fans, and reveals an unexpected candidate for Arkansas’s next head coach, according to his sources that leaves Eddie and Kickoff Kevin in shock! Then CBS Sports' Brandon Marcello maps the national carousel—“best case” targets schools are chasing, realistic fallbacks if those miss, and which jobs are likely to move first. Download the DraftKings Sportsbook App today: https://dkng.co/bobbysports If you or someone you know has a gambling problem, crisis counseling and referral services can be accessed by calling 1-800-GAMBLER (1-800-426-2537) (IL/IN/MI/NJ/PA/WV/WY), 1-800-NEXT STEP (AZ), 1-800-522-4700 (CO/NH), 888-789-7777/visit http://ccpg.org/chat (CT), 1-800-BETS OFF (IA), 1-877-770-STOP (7867) (LA), 877-8-HOPENY/text HOPENY (467369) (NY), visit OPGR.org (OR), call/text TN REDLINE 1-800-889-9789 (TN), or 1-888-532-3500 (VA). 21+ (18+ WY). Physically present in AZ/CO/CT/IL/IN/IA/LA/MI/NJ/ NY/PA/TN/VA/WV/WY only. N/A in NH/OR/ON. New customers only. Valid 1 per new customer. Min. $5 deposit. Min $5 wager. $200 issued as eight (8) $25 free bets. Ends 9/19/22. See http://draftkings.com/sportsbook for details. Follow the Show: @BobbyBonesSports Follow the Crew: @MrBobbyBones @ProducerEddie @KickoffKevin @MikeDeestro @BrandonRayMusic See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Eddie jumps in on parenting after Bobby asks him a question on being selfless vs selfish, and what he should do in this scenario. Plus, Bobby has a PSA for all Arkansas fans, and reveals an unexpected candidate for Arkansas’s next head coach, according to his sources that leaves Eddie and Kickoff Kevin in shock! Then CBS Sports' Brandon Marcello maps the national carousel—“best case” targets schools are chasing, realistic fallbacks if those miss, and which jobs are likely to move first. Download the DraftKings Sportsbook App today: https://dkng.co/bobbysports If you or someone you know has a gambling problem, crisis counseling and referral services can be accessed by calling 1-800-GAMBLER (1-800-426-2537) (IL/IN/MI/NJ/PA/WV/WY), 1-800-NEXT STEP (AZ), 1-800-522-4700 (CO/NH), 888-789-7777/visit http://ccpg.org/chat (CT), 1-800-BETS OFF (IA), 1-877-770-STOP (7867) (LA), 877-8-HOPENY/text HOPENY (467369) (NY), visit OPGR.org (OR), call/text TN REDLINE 1-800-889-9789 (TN), or 1-888-532-3500 (VA). 21+ (18+ WY). Physically present in AZ/CO/CT/IL/IN/IA/LA/MI/NJ/ NY/PA/TN/VA/WV/WY only. N/A in NH/OR/ON. New customers only. Valid 1 per new customer. Min. $5 deposit. Min $5 wager. $200 issued as eight (8) $25 free bets. Ends 9/19/22. See http://draftkings.com/sportsbook for details. Follow the Show: @BobbyBonesSports Follow the Crew: @MrBobbyBones @ProducerEddie @KickoffKevin @MikeDeestro @BrandonRayMusic See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Will you be brave or afraid? Selfish or selfless? Strong or weak? Wise or stupid? Will you cultivate a good habit or a bad one? Courage or cowardice? The bliss of ignorance or the challenge of a new idea? Stay the same…or grow? The easy way or the right way? Is it easy to make these choices? Of course not.
Are you running on empty and wondering why rest feels impossible? In this message from July 2022, Judah Smith unpacks how true rest goes beyond sleep. In a world overwhelmed by anxiety, stress, and burnout, discover how slowing down can restore your physical, emotional, and spiritual health. No matter how busy life feels, He wants to help you find real rest today. SUBSCRIBE TODAY for Weekly Service messages, Daily Guided Prayers, & more! Download the FREE Churchome app in the Apple App store or Google Play store! https://www.churchome.org/app
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Sometimes self-care feels impossible when life demands everything from us, and that's when we need it most. In this raw and honest episode of Mucked Up My Self Care, Jill and Linda dive into one of the hardest questions moms face: How do we take care of ourselves when others need us more? From navigating terminal illness and anticipatory grief to solo parenting four kids through sickness and cold weather, this conversation gets real about guilt, shortcuts, and the mental load of trying to do it all. If you've ever felt selfish for taking a moment for yourself while others are struggling, this episode is for you.In this episode, you'll hear:Why self-care feels selfish when you're caring for sick or struggling loved ones and how to reframe that guiltHow to take meaningful shortcuts without sacrificing your sanity (hello, skipping pajamas and porridge for dinner!)The difference between being selfish and setting realistic expectations when you're overwhelmedWhy "taking care of yourself too" can feel impossible when someone else's need feels greater than yoursHow to identify who your priority "family" is during crisis seasons and why that mattersWays to combine self-care with caring for others so your cup gets filled while you're still showing upWhat anticipatory grief looks like and why it makes self-care even harder to prioritizeSelf-care doesn't have to be solo or scheduled to count. Whether you're reading while the house gets messier, sharing time with your child during spooky season, or showing up for aging parents while barely holding it together yourself, this episode is a reminder that you're not selfish for needing care too. Jill and Linda get vulnerable about the weight of responsibility, the shortcuts that save them, and why we have to stop waiting for permission to take care of ourselves—even in the hardest seasons.Until next week, we hope you can unstuck your muck!
Thank you for all of your support. Please let us know what you think about our podcast and what topic you may want to hear from us. Leaders, Lead Well!How often have you felt like "ME" replaced "WE" in your organization? If this is you, you are not alone. In today's episode — “The Narcissism Tax: What Selfish Leaders Cost Their Teams” — we're unpacking one of the most destructive yet overlooked forces in organizations: self-interested leadership. When a leader's ego takes the driver's seat, the whole organization pays the price — in disengagement, lost trust, stalled innovation, and the quiet exit of great people. We'll explore how narcissistic or self-serving behavior shows up in subtle ways, why it erodes psychological safety, and what truly healthy leadership looks like instead.Because every act of selfishness at the top carries a hidden tax — one that's paid by the culture, the team, and ultimately, the bottom line.Join Rich and Maikel as we uncover the real cost of narcissistic, self-serving leadership in this episode of Mainline Executive Coaching ACT. Leaders, Lead Well!Thank you to all of our listeners in over 100 countries and now, 1,000 cities worldwide, we greatly appreciate your support! We truly hope that what we bring to our listeners will improve your ability as leaders.Mainline Executive Coaching ACT has been recognized by FeedSpot as one of the top Executive Coaching Podcast in the world based on thousands of podcasts on the web and ranked by traffic, social media, followers & freshness.https://blog.feedspot.com/executive_coaching_podcasts/ John Mattone Global: https://johnmattone.com/ Rich Baron:rbaron@richbaronexecutivecoaching.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/rich-baron/https://www.richbaronexecutivecoaching.com/Maikel Bailey:mbailey@intelligentleadershipec.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/maikelbailey/https://maikelbailey.com/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMJR3ja3s5s Podcast audio: In this episode of The Ayn Rand Institute Podcast, Tristan de Liège and Gregory Salmieri discuss friendship as a moral and philosophical value and explore the relationship between friendship, egoism, and altruism. Topics include: Friendship in Rand's fiction; Visibility in friendship; Egoism and Friendship; Valuing Friendship; Altruism and sacrifice; Unconditional love; Compromise and reciprocity. Resources: Tristan de Liège's lecture “How to Value Friendship” A Companion to Ayn Rand, edited by Gregory Salmieri and Allan Gotthelf. This episode was recorded on October 6, 2025, and posted October 30, 2025. Listen and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. Watch archived podcasts here. Image Credit: Compassionate Eye Foundation/Steven Errico/DigitalVision via Getty Images
I ran across this article on a survey about AI usage recently. The headline is this: 55% of businesses admit wrong decisions in making employees redundant when bringing AI into the workforce. That sounds a little ominous for those making these decisions, and a lot of you might be saying, "I could have told you that. Using AI to replace people is a bad decision." On the surface, I agree. I dislike the idea that companies will opt for a semi-competent AI bot or agent to replace people, thereby further exacerbating the challenges faced by many workers in the modern world. Read the rest of The Selfish Case for Learning AI
Is self-care selfish in relationships? Absolutely not! In this heartfelt episode of Married Into Crazy, Snooks dives into why prioritizing self-care is essential for building healthy, loving relationships. Explore how neglecting your own well-being can lead to burnout, stress, and even resentment, and learn practical tips to recharge your mind, body, and soul. Snooks gets real about her own struggles with guilt, societal expectations, and the pressure to "do it all" while balancing work, family, and marriage. Discover the importance of open communication with your partner and how small acts of self-care—like a hot bath or quiet time—can make a big difference. It's time to fill your cup and show up as your best self, not just for your loved ones but for YOU. Watch now and remember, self-care isn't selfish—it's necessary!✨ Get Your Tickets for the Married Into Crazy® Winter Ball & Marriage Conference https://marriedintocrazy.ticketlocity.com/events/131874 #emotionalhealth #selfcare #self-caretips #marriagetips #communicationinrelationships CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Self Care in Relationships 03:58 - The Dangers of Burnout 07:43 - Communicate with Your Partner for Better Self Care
You've been taught that being selfish is bad. That putting others first is virtuous. That sacrifice is the path to love, respect, and success. But here's the truth: that mindset is killing your business, your relationships, and your joy. In this bold episode, Genea dismantles the "service to others" trap and reveals why putting yourself first is the most generous thing you can do. In this episode, you'll hear:
In this episode of "Another Great Day" we're flipping the script on selfishness. More of it? Less of it? Either way, we have to take care of US! Let's chat and cover some of your submissions, shall we?----------Have a submission? Send it in here https://wkf.ms/3I0ywJGFor more, follow the host @reagan.baylee on Instagram and subscribe on Substack.
Seth Joyner joins the 94 WIP Morning Show and weighs in on the AJ Brown situation- he says instead of celebrating the wins over the past two weeks, AJ Brown is putting the team in a position where that's what is focused on. He does not think AJ Brown will be traded. He was impressed with how the Eagles dominated both sides of the ball yesterday.
Suzy Reading is a psychologist, self-care expert and author, whose latest book focuses on selfishness, and what it actually means to be selfish.In part one, Suzy and Dr Alex George unpack what selfishness actually is, why being selfish has been demonised in the past, and why our self-care practices need to be more honest.Plus, Suzy discusses the impact low self-worth can have not just on our own wellbeing, but on our wider relationships too.Follow @suzyreading and pre-order her latest book How to Be Selfish: 7 steps to taking back your power, out 20 November 2025. By using our affiliate bookshop you'll help fund Stompcast by earning a small commission for every sale. Bookshop.org's fees help support independent bookshops too!Order Alex's latest book Happy Habits - out now! Follow the podcast on Instagram @thestompcastGet the new, pocket guide version of The Mind Manual nowDownload Mettle: the mental fitness app for men Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this public portion of Sunday Morning Live on the 26th of October 2025, philosopher Stefan Molyneux examines gaslighting, its psychological roots, and its effects on relationships. He defines gaslighting, discusses its emotional toll, and shares practical strategies for recognizing and combatting manipulation. Listeners hear personal stories that illustrate its prevalence, and he emphasizes the importance of boundaries and self-advocacy. Stefan continues this discussion in the donor-only portion of the podcast, which can be found at:The livestream continues to a donor-only hour! Subscribers can continue the livestream here:Premium Content Hub: https://premium.freedomain.com/2bc50a73/understanding-the-selfish-mindX: https://x.com/StefanMolyneux/status/1982555026766930031Locals: https://freedomain.locals.com/post/7397997/understanding-the-selfish-mindSubscribestar: https://www.subscribestar.com/posts/2147628Freedomain Members: https://freedomain.com/understanding-the-selfish-mind/Not yet a subscriber?You can subscribe on:X: https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxLocals: https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025Subscribestar: https://subscribestar.com/freedomainFreedomain: https://fdrurl.com/membersSubscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!
2 Timothy 2:1-2 teaches us that real thriving means making disciples because making disciples multiplies faith and matures faith. In the call to multiply faith, the enemy that combats against this is oftentimes selfish faith. Selfish faith is more concerned about me, myself, and I rather than God's kingdom, his mission, and his people. The way we surrender our selfish faith is by being given a vision of a thriving life that is more compelling than our selfish ways. Multiplying faith is a more compelling way to live because God's salvation extends beyond one person but carries on from generation to generation. But also, discipleship provides the means for mature faith. Paul explains discipleship always happens in the context of personal and proximate relationships. And it's through relationships that people come to love Christ above all. Discipleship is not an easy task but God has provided a source that his people can always return to for strength and it's his well of grace. This is what sustains us and strengthen us to make disciples who make disciples.
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By Daniel Apartian - It is typical for us to have a tendency to want Christ to come into our lives, but then lean toward maintaining our own control, and not letting Him truly lead us. There are good desires and bad, and we know to reject the bad, but the frustration of unfulfilled good desires can also lead to sin
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We're often told to fight poverty because it's the "right" thing to do. It is. But what if it's also the "smartest" thing to do for our own economic future? Poverty isn't just a problem for the poor; it's a massive drag on the entire economy. It wastes human potential, strains public services, and stifles innovation. Our latest article makes the pragmatic, economic case for ending poverty. It's not about taking from a fixed pie; it's about growing the whole pie so there's more for everyone. It's time to move from sympathy to solidarity. Read the full argument here: https://englishpluspodcast.com/the-selfish-reason-to-end-poverty-an-economic-case-for-a-better-world/ #Economics #Poverty #Investment #SocialGood To unlock full access to all our episodes, consider becoming a premium subscriber on Apple Podcasts or Patreon. And don't forget to visit englishpluspodcast.com for even more content, including articles, in-depth studies, and our brand-new audio series and courses now available in our Patreon Shop!
Join us as we unpack Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)—how it shows up in friendships, family, and work; why bright, empathetic, often neurodivergent women are prime targets; and what to do to protect your mental, emotional, and energetic safety. We demystify tactics like love bombing, intermittent reinforcement, and image management, and share practical next steps: clear boundaries, low/no contact, therapy, education, and safety-first planning. If you're a woman i navigating confusing, drama-heavy dynamics, this episode is for you.Timestamps00:01 – Why this episode: How hearing others' stories helped Leonie name narcissistic abuse.02:00 – Leonie's wake-up moment: “Google ‘selfish asshole'” → NPD checklist; instant clarity and exit.04:30 – Patterns you might miss: Charisma, “spiritual genius,” pedestal dynamics, your confidence collapsing.06:30 – Tam's experience: High baseline stress, isolation, autoimmune flare, and “everyone else thinks they're wonderful.”09:40 – Classic tactics: Love bombing, attention withdrawal, intermittent rewards (why it's addictive).11:45 – The cyclone effect: Drama, serving their needs, why you start believing you're the problem.13:30 – Public angel, private harm: The benevolent narcissist and image management.16:30 – The gaslight scripts: “You're the only one I have issues with.” “You've always been troubled.”18:30 – Sanity checks: Getting clinically assessed (twice!); how real friends/healthy bonds feel.20:15 – ND women are targets: ASD/ADHD overlap vs NPD; the crucial difference is internal experience and harm.24:30 – What NPD is (clinical frame): Grandiosity + low empathy; managed vs unmanaged behavior under stress.26:50 – Your priority: You can't fix them. Protect yourself; consider low/no contact; get support.31:20 – Boundaries in practice: Conditional low contact; being the adult; conserving energy.34:40 – “Selfish” smear: Why choosing yourself feels wrong—and why it's necessary and not narcissistic.39:10 – Resources that help: Education, therapy, crisis support; “Will I Ever Be Good Enough?” (Karyl McBride); Ask Izzy (AU); Lifeline.41:45 – Closing: Awareness ≠ doom—awareness = immunity and choice.
When strength is used for self instead of service, hearts break and wisdom calls us back.In 2 Samuel 13, the lingering consequences of David's sin unfold through Tamar's tragic story—revealing what happens when desire, deceit, and power collide.This episode invites sober reflection on consequence, compassion, and the call to steward strength for the good of others.Drawing on David's family story and Psalm 51's backdrop, we discover that true power protects, serves, and restores rather than takes or controls.Whether you lead a home, workplace, or ministry, Wisdom Calling helps you see power through the lens of stewardship—not selfishness—and points you toward integrity, empathy, and healing.Content Warning: Mentions of sexual assault and the misuse of power (2 Samuel 13). Listener discretion advised.You can order the devotionals at https://amzn.to/4h8zFe6 or https://wisdomcalling.orgFollow us on Instagram: @wisdomcallingnow
In this episode of Becoming Unshakable, Heather reflects on a moment that reminded her what true leadership looks like from the inside out. Fresh from speaking to 13,000 nurses at the Atlanta World Congress Center, she shares how an experience that looked glamorous on the surface, with makeup, stage lights, and a long line of people waiting for hugs, became a powerful reminder that self-leadership is not selfish. It is essential. Heather unpacks what it means to prepare so thoroughly that you can show up fully. For her, deep preparation is an act of care, allowing presence to replace pressure and connection to replace performance. As she recounts her time with the nurses, she explores the toll that constant caregiving takes and how compassion fatigue quietly chips away at strength. Her message to them, and to all of us, is clear: when you care for yourself as intentionally as you care for others, you become the calm in the storm, the unshakable center that others can rely on. Through raw honesty, Heather shares her own turning point, the realization that the success she had built came at the cost of the people she valued most. That moment of clarity became the foundation of her teaching: align your life with your true values, lean on your team, ask for help, and give yourself permission to rest. Strong self-leadership is grounded in awareness, humility, and care. This episode invites you to look inward, to question the beliefs that keep you on autopilot, and to remember that balance is not weakness, it is wisdom. When you prepare with intention, lead with presence, and live in alignment with what matters most, you do not just survive the chaos. You become unshakable within it.
Today, Giving is Selfish is celebrating its two-year anniversary — and the ripple effect has stretched farther than I ever imagined, reaching readers in the U.S., Canada, Germany, Australia, and The Netherlands.In this special anniversary episode, I:
In this episode of The Running Wine Mom, Samantha Cieslinski chats with U.S. marathon record holder, mom of two, real estate agent, running store owner, and author Keira D'Amato. Together, they explore what it means to find yourself again after motherhood, redefine success, and embrace movement as medicine for the mind.Keira opens up about her comeback story, how she balances elite running with parenting, and why she believes joy—not perfection—is the real goal. From tackling mom guilt to learning to rest and recover with grace, Keira's wisdom offers every mom permission to chase her passions without apology.Listen On
In this solo episode, I share how learning to listen to my body became the most powerful form of self-trust. From discovering why men actually enjoy selfish women to revealing how an unexpected MDMA experience healed parts of my marriage, this episode is an intimate look at what it means to live, love, and lead on your own terms.✨ If you're craving deeper conversations, real connection, and conscious love Join UNION to meet potential matches at a dinner party in NYC + LAorSubscribe to Substack to stay in the loop about upcoming events, workshops, and retreats for conscious loveThis is the new era of love, self-led, embodied, and deeply connected
He called himself a “psychopath with a conscience.” But behind the bravado, Mark Brown was a cold, calculating killer. In the quiet seaside town of St Leonards, Brown led a double life — father, partner, builder by day, and murderer by night. When two women vanished months apart, detectives uncovered a web of lies, manipulation, and chilling arrogance that shocked even the most seasoned investigators.Geoffrey and Molly expose the dark psychology of a man who believed he could outsmart everyone — this is not fiction. It's a real-life horror story hiding in plain sight.CREDITS: Presenters: Geoffrey and Molly WansellProducer: Peter Shevlin https://pod60.com/Artwork: George LeighMusic: Dan WansellCONTACT: Twitter: @BloodTies_PodInstagram: bloodties_podEmail: bloodties.podcast@gmail.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@bloodtiespodcastSupport: patreon.com/bloodtiespodcastPlease complete our survey if you have time: http://bit.ly/bloodtiespodcast-survey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3777: Elly McGuinness reminds us that the key to sustained wellbeing and stress relief lies in prioritizing “me time.” Through simple daily rituals and even micro-moments of self-care, she shows how nurturing yourself first allows everything else in life to fit together more harmoniously. Her message encourages mindful self-prioritization as an act of love that ripples through all areas of life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ellymcguinness.com/blog/me-time/ Quotes to ponder: “If you don't allow for ‘me time' and put yourself last, in the long run you'll have no energy or enthusiasm to help anyone else.” “Take care of you first. Have your ‘me time' and then everything else will fit in around that.” “Give yourself some love and attention and that will flow into the rest of your day.” Episode references: Boho Beautiful Yoga: https://www.youtube.com/c/bohobeautiful Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3777: Elly McGuinness reminds us that the key to sustained wellbeing and stress relief lies in prioritizing “me time.” Through simple daily rituals and even micro-moments of self-care, she shows how nurturing yourself first allows everything else in life to fit together more harmoniously. Her message encourages mindful self-prioritization as an act of love that ripples through all areas of life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ellymcguinness.com/blog/me-time/ Quotes to ponder: “If you don't allow for ‘me time' and put yourself last, in the long run you'll have no energy or enthusiasm to help anyone else.” “Take care of you first. Have your ‘me time' and then everything else will fit in around that.” “Give yourself some love and attention and that will flow into the rest of your day.” Episode references: Boho Beautiful Yoga: https://www.youtube.com/c/bohobeautiful Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3777: Elly McGuinness reminds us that the key to sustained wellbeing and stress relief lies in prioritizing “me time.” Through simple daily rituals and even micro-moments of self-care, she shows how nurturing yourself first allows everything else in life to fit together more harmoniously. Her message encourages mindful self-prioritization as an act of love that ripples through all areas of life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ellymcguinness.com/blog/me-time/ Quotes to ponder: “If you don't allow for ‘me time' and put yourself last, in the long run you'll have no energy or enthusiasm to help anyone else.” “Take care of you first. Have your ‘me time' and then everything else will fit in around that.” “Give yourself some love and attention and that will flow into the rest of your day.” Episode references: Boho Beautiful Yoga: https://www.youtube.com/c/bohobeautiful Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Dirty 30 brings you the best 30 minutes from Dirty Mo Media every Friday — the funniest, wildest, and most jaw-dropping highlights from your favorite shows. This week Denny Hamlin reacts to getting his 60th career Cup win and why he was so emotional.On Door Bumper Clear, they break down what exactly happened between Ty Dillon and William Byron. And, who is to blame.On Dale Jr. Download, Dale and TJ discuss the art of racing at Talladega and when to help a teammate and when to do what's best for your own race.And finally in the guest show, Dale sits down with Kevin Pennell who everyone calls "Two Beer". But how exactly did he get that nickname? He finally explains the origins. And for more content, check out our YouTube page: https://www.youtube.com/@DirtyMoMediaReal fans wear Dirty Mo. Hit the link and join the crew.
If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Pastor Kim as a guest on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com Pastor Kimberly Jones, known as Real Talk Kim, travels the world fulfilling her passion and purpose of loving people back to life. She is a wife, mother, pastor, entrepreneur, best-selling author, and entertainer. Pastor Kim is the Pastor at Limitless Church in Fayetteville Georgia, wife to Angelo and has two sons. She is a human rights advocate with a passion for giving back Real Talk Kim has been featured on The Doctor Oz Show, Oxygen's Network Series' Preachers of Atlanta, Your World with Creflo Dollar on BET, ABC's Nightline, The Word Network, CNN, Praise in the Park' Atlanta and numerous magazines and radio shows. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What do you do when the person standing in the way of spiritual growth is you? This week on The Cutting Room Floor, our hosts unpack the final week of the men's portion of our Toy Story series with, Servant vs. Selfish, and why dying daily is the only way forward. Scott Hatfield joins Scott Nickell as they talk baptisms, cultural resistance to servant leadership, and the gritty, often unnoticed daily choices that shape a man's character. The challenge? Die daily. Not once, not occasionally, but every single morning. Lay down your pride, your preferences, your comfort, and pick up a cross instead. Then do it again tomorrow. Hosts: Scott Hatfield and Scott Nickell ⸻ What We Discuss: What a Greek word study on “ransom” reveals about Jesus' sacrifice Why servant leadership is a full-contact sport The difference between two kinds of tired What women are noticing and saying about this men's series How self-worship is being reinforced by 150 years of culture Scott's warning about pastors who deny substitutionary atonement What men must do as the women's series begins next week ⸻ About Southland Christian Church Southland is one church meeting in multiple locations across central Kentucky. We believe Jesus came for the lost and the broken, which means there's a place for everyone here. We want what He wants: for heaven to be really crowded. Around here, that means we worship defiantly, speak truth unashamedly, and extend grace generously. To support this ministry and help us continue to reach across Central Kentucky and all around the world, visit: https://southland.church/give
In this powerful episode, we challenge the modern myth that “good parenting” means self-sacrifice at all costs. Instead, we explore what it really takes to show up strong for your family — starting with how you lead yourself. From the societal pressure to “do it all” to the quiet burnout no one talks about, we unpack how ignoring your own needs doesn't make you a better parent — it makes it harder to be the present, grounded leader your kids actually need. We redefine self-care as self-leadership and break down the mindset shifts, personal responsibility, and daily actions that help you parent from a place of strength — not survival. If you've ever felt guilty for wanting more time, more space, or more growth… this conversation will give you permission to take it — and a plan to model a healthier path for your family. Because your kids don't need a perfect parent. They need one who's fully alive. APPLY FOR COACHING: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/1-1-coaching SDE Method app: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/sde-method-app The Fitness League Waiting List https://u3rwk.share.hsforms.com/2rkAwsFntTAeZ__PxwXdr4Q Macros Guide https://www.lvltncoaching.com/free-resources/calculate-your-macros Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lvltncoaching FREE TOOLS to start your health and fitness journey: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/resources/freebies Alessandra's Instagram: http://instagram.com/alessandrascutnik Joelle's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joellesamantha?igsh=ZnVhZjFjczN0OTdn Josh's Instagram: http://instagram.com/joshscutnik Chapters: 00:00 The Myth of Self-Sacrifice in Parenting 02:36 The Importance of Self-Care for Parents 05:47 Navigating Social Media and Parenting Expectations 08:16 The Ripple Effect of Parental Happiness 11:09 Finding Balance in Parenting and Personal Wellbeing 14:10 The All-or-Nothing Mentality in Parenting 16:47 The Impact of Parental Behavior on Children 19:44 The Role of Mindfulness in Parenting 22:44 Generational Shifts in Parenting Approaches 25:17 Injecting Joy and Connection into Family Life 33:55 The Impact of Environment on Personal Growth 35:02 Taking Responsibility for Change 36:54 The Ripple Effect of Personal Decisions 38:35 Breaking Generational Patterns 41:37 Parenting Approaches: Gentle vs. Tough Love 45:23 Finding Your Parenting Style 48:58 The Role of Personal Responsibility in Growth 51:50 Redefining Self-Care as Self-Leadership 57:53 Pursuing Purpose and Fulfillment 01:02:29 The Importance of Slowing Down 01:06:13 Building the Best Version of Yourself
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Success fatigue often makes leaders shrink back, fearing growth will look selfish. This episode reframes expansion as stewardship — showing how recalibration multiplies impact without betraying your past.Have you ever hesitated to grow because you worried it would look selfish — like you were leaving people behind or dishonoring what came before? For many high-capacity humans, that fear of “outgrowing” leads to role fatigue, decision fatigue, and the quiet exhaustion of holding back.In this episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly reframes growth through the lens of stewardship. Drawing from her own tension in shifting from real estate into The Recalibration, and the story of Blake Mycoskie, founder of TOMS Shoes, Julie shows how expansion multiplies impact rather than diminishes it. Mycoskie's One-for-One model demonstrates that scaling isn't betrayal — it's fruitfulness that serves others at greater scale.From an Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR) perspective, the fear of selfish growth often comes from outdated roles:Loyalist — believing you must stay the same to prove gratitude.Servant (distorted) — thinking sacrifice means never taking up more space.Protector — shrinking so others won't feel left behind.Neuroscience calls this dynamic predictive processing: the brain assumes expansion equals disconnection, so it resists change to preserve belonging. But ILR rewires that pattern. It retrains the nervous system to recognize that growth doesn't sever belonging — it strengthens it by multiplying fruit.Here's the mic-drop truth: Without recalibration, growth feels like guilt. With recalibration, growth feels like grace.This isn't another mindset tactic or productivity strategy. It's the root-level recalibration that makes every other tool effective. If you're navigating identity drift, spiritual exhaustion, or the sense that success feels empty, this episode will give you a new frame for expansion — not as ego, but as stewardship.Today's Micro Recalibration:Where am I mistaking expansion for selfishness — when it's actually stewardship?How can I reframe growth as service, not ego?Who benefits when I expand into the fullness of my assignment?If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.