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Joe, James, and Jon criticize Bryce Harper's leadership style and Dave Dombrowski's failure to build a sustainable roster with homegrown talent. Listen at the end for the Time's Yours line as fans vent about the Phillies disappointing playoff exit.(00:01:13) LeBron's NBA Decline(00:03:48) DeVonta Smith Injury Update(00:04:18) Phillies Roster Building Issues(00:09:21) Joey Votto Broadcast Critique(00:15:50) Phillies Fan Vent Line

Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Yasmine Cheyenne.

Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Yasmine Cheyenne.

Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily. I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Yasmine Cheyenne.

Rigidity or serendipity. Guardedness or openness. What Human Design taught Laurie about the week when things didn't go quite as planned.Your mother-in-law dies on Monday. You're supposed to get on a plane to France for nearly two months on Wednesday.A younger Laurie would have read that as a sign. Selfish to go. Time's not right. Clearly the universe is telling you to stay where you are. This time, she got on the plane… and in this episode (recorded from France, so forgive the audio), she explains why.It turns out that same week, the dominant energy frequencies in Human Design were the 46 and the 25: the Euphoria Explorer and the Accepting Priestess. They also happen to be two of the four frequencies that make up 80% of Laurie's own design. Coincidence? She's not sure she believes in coincidence anymore.This one gets a little woo-woo. It's also one of the most practical conversations about control, fear + the stories we tell ourselves about "the right time" that you'll hear this year.What we cover:Why there was no episode last week, and why presence with Mike mattered more than a self-imposed deadlineA tribute to Virginia: 93 and a half years, an incredible life, and a son who cared for her with real tendernessHuman Design, the Gene Keys + the I Ching: why gates, keys and frequencies are the same thing with different namesThe "core four": the four frequencies (out of 26) that make up 80% of your personality and what you're here to doLaurie's 11 and 12, and why her life's work literally requires her to stop generalizing and get specificWhy she's not for everyone… and why that's exactly how it's supposed to workEnergy frequencies as a "weather report" that surrounds all of us, whether or not they're in your chartThe 46, the Euphoria Explorer: seeing magic in the unexpectedRigidity: "It must happen in exactly this way. I need to know where this is going before I even begin."Why there's almost always more than one road from point A to point B (and what that means for your white knuckles on the steering wheel)Serendipity: letting go of the outcome and trusting you could never have planned the magicThe 25, the Accepting Priestess: loving what is, without faking itThe "I'll be happy when…" trap, and how we delay loving the life we're livingGuardedness: the walls we build so nothing can hurt usOpenness: letting the wound unwind into a higher destinyWhy you can feel your spouse's hard day before they say a word (yes, that's energy)"You can't have high frequency dreams for your life by operating at a low frequency."The moment of decision: what the old Laurie would have done, and what she did insteadStaying in the stands vs. getting in the arenaThis week's coaching question: where are you gripping the steering wheel too tightly?Quotable moments"The timing was never gonna be perfect. The timing was never gonna be right.""You don't have to hold the steering wheel so tightly.""You could never have planned the magic that could happen.""We delay our happiness, and we delay loving the life that we're currently living.""You can't have high frequency dreams for your life by operating at a low frequency.""Walls don't just go one way. Yeah, you can't get hurt, but you also can't feel the goodness.""You don't have to know how it's all gonna play out. You just have to be open to possibility. What's meant for you will find you."

Steph Curry's new deal: SELFISH move or HOMETOWN DISCOUNT?

For certain people, a public proposal is what they want. Geena asks Frankie and Rockwell if their wives were okay with thousands of people being there for the special moment and whether or not this is selfish. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hour 4: Aaron Judge doesn't want to miss this Yankees run. Judge is acting selfishly and defying his manager. Tommy is planning to try his first McGriddle. Reacting to what David Stearns said and why Tarik Skubal is the guy to get.

Aaron Judge is being selfish and motivated by factors other than simply winning a World Series.

The Real Men Check In is a quick way to help you start your week off on the right foot, in the right way - as a husband, father, and leader. Every Monday, Joe Martin shares personal insights, encouragement, and support that will move you beyond "church" to "real change."     Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1: Are you tired and stuck? Want to go to get your faith, marriage, family, career and finances back on track?  Then maybe it's time you got a coach. Every CHAMPION has one. Schedule an appointment to chat with Dr. Joe. He takes on only a few Breakthrough Calls each week.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment: http://TalkwithDrJoe.com  If no slots are available, please check back in a week.   Also join us on: Website: https://RealMenConnect.com Facebook: @realdrjoemartin YouTube: http://www.RealMenTraining.com Instagram: @realdrjoemartin Twitter: @professormartin

Why do we seem to lose patience fastest with the people we love the most? The closer we are to someone, the easier it can be for their habits, words, and behaviors to trigger frustration, criticism, and conflict.In this episode, Light explores why difficult relationships can bring out some of our strongest reactions—and why those moments can also reveal where our greatest opportunities for growth may be. He explains how accumulated stress and past experiences can influence the way we respond to people today, often turning small disagreements into much bigger conflicts. Light also explores how meditation and other forms of inner work can create more space between a trigger and our response. With that space, we can begin recognizing familiar relationship patterns instead of automatically reacting to them. Ultimately, growth isn't about never getting frustrated or avoiding conflict altogether. It's about becoming more adaptable, recognizing when an old pattern is repeating itself, and being willing to respond differently—even when that means being the first person to change. Send us a text message. We'd love to hear from you!

Fear of judgment can make hiding feel safer.But staying invisible also limits the number of people your work can help.In this episode of The Level Up Podcast, Paul Alex breaks down why entrepreneurs need to stop making every decision around how they might be perceived and start focusing on the value they can create for the customer.Posting the video can feel uncomfortable.Making the pitch can feel uncomfortable.Putting your name behind an idea always creates the possibility of criticism.But protecting yourself from judgment can also prevent your solution from reaching the people who need it.In this episode, you'll learn:• Why fear of judgment can keep valuable ideas hidden• How excessive self-consciousness can interfere with execution• Why focusing on the customer shifts attention away from personal insecurity• How becoming more visible can increase your ability to serve and create impactThe truth is simple:The mission has to become bigger than your fear of being judged.Make the post.Pitch the solution.Explain the value.Give the market the opportunity to decide whether what you built solves a real problem.You do not need everyone to approve.You need the courage to put the work in front of the people it was designed to help.Stop hiding.Serve the market.Let the value speak.Your Network is your NETWORTH!Make sure to add me on all SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS:Instagram: https://jo.my/paulalex2024Facebook: https://jo.my/fbpaulalex2024YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGhDAD1JyGGzSQUPD9lc9HQLinkedIn: https://jo.my/inpaulalex2024Looking for a secondary source of income or want to become an entrepreneur? Check out one of my companies below to see if we can help you:www.CashSwipe.comFREE Copy of my book “Blue to Digital Gold - The New American Dream”www.officialPaulAlex.com

Reddit Stories - OP balances university, full-time work, and his own expenses while his mother and sister constantly demand rides. After their expectations interfere with an important assignment, OP finally refuses to continue being the family's unpaid driver.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lost-genre-reddit-stories--5779056/support.

Craig and Big Mac address the New York Yankees' decision to reschedule CC Sabathia's ceremony on The Carton Show while criticizing fans frustrated by a shifted giveaway. They transition into a debate regarding the playoff pitching hierarchy and preview the New York Giants' upcoming game against the Titans. (00:01:00) CC Sabathia Day Update (00:02:30) Bobblehead Backlash Rant (00:08:34) Fan Call On Storm (00:11:00) Yankees Pitching Rotation Debate (00:15:29) Giants Titans Game Preview

The Carton Show addresses the controversy surrounding the New York Yankees rescheduling CC Sabathia's jersey retirement due to an impending storm. They criticize fans for prioritizing bobbleheads over public safety and debate whether Clarke Schmidt should start Game 1 of the playoffs against the Red Sox. (00:01:25) CC Sabathia Ceremony Changes (00:04:36) Fan Safety vs Bobbleheads (00:10:23) NFL Week 2 Reactions (00:13:53) Yankees Ticket Policy Explained (00:17:11) Playoff Pitching Rotation Debate (00:25:15) Red Sox Pitching Matchups

On the show today... The things you do that make people instantly hate you. You have permission to be selfish today! New side hustle alert! Dwight- Jim or Pam?? WHO is she? Round of HN Dating Deal breakers: Airplane edition (H)

Why has Aaron Judge gone rogue on Aaron Boone? Will he come out of this situation looking selfish? Also, Would You Rather & Carlin's Corner Table featuring some great pizza! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Valerie Jones is the author of The Selfish Year and host of The Selfish Woman podcast. She is redefining the word 'selfish' for a generation of women by helping them stop abandoning themselves and build lives that feel as good as they look. Top 3 Value Bombs 1. Extraordinary success starts with your relationship with yourself, lasting fulfillment comes from self-connection. 2. Overthinking is a self-trust problem, confidence grows through action, not endless analysis. 3. Caring for yourself first gives you the energy to serve others with joy instead of exhaustion. Valerie invites listeners to join The Society, her online Circle community for women - Valerie Jones Website Sponsors HighLevel - The ultimate all-in-one platform for entrepreneurs, marketers, coaches, and agencies. Learn more at HighLevelFire.com. Hotworx - The number 1 boutique fitness franchise with 850 plus locations. With recurring membership revenue, a low-labor, high-tech model, and a proven franchise system, entrepreneurs gain a scalable business built for growth. Visit Hotworx.net/franchising to learn more. Waldo - Put idle cash to work through a high-yield treasury account. Visit Waldo.ai and start putting your cash to work like big companies do. Use code EOFire when you sign up and receive a 1 percent deposit match, up to 1,000 dollars. See full terms and conditions at Waldo.ai.

Mike, Ali, and Beau continue to recap and react to the Atlanta Falcons 34-3 loss to the Carolina Panthers in their home opener yesterday, and continue to let listeners call in and give their take on the Falcons loss yesterday.

Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:4Support the show, a product of Hope Media: https://hope1032.com.au/donate/2211A-pod/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’re talking about why putting yourself first doesn’t actually make you selfish. From the mental load of motherhood and relationships to doing the work on yourself, setting boundaries and evolving, maybe it’s finally time to stop feeling guilty for choosing you.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 2177: Sam Dogen argues that quitting a job outright is the selfish option, and that negotiating a severance is the more ethical exit. He lays out what an abrupt departure costs colleagues, clients, reputation, and finances, and explains why engineering a layoff leaves everyone better positioned. The piece frames a considerate transition as a career decision rather than a favor. Read along with the original article here: https://www.financialsamurai.com/quitting-your-job-is-selfish-engineering-your-layoff-is-the-ethical-way-to-go/ Quotes to ponder: "Quitting your job is selfish compared to negotiating a severance." "When you quit, you are simply transferring your pain onto someone else." "Don't let your pride get in the way of doing what's right for everyone." Optimal Work Daily is a daily career advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on productivity, entrepreneurship, and work-life balance, read to you by a professional narrator so you can grow your career a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

She may have finished first, but she'll always be remembered as number two. Australian athlete Joanna Wietrzyk has stirred up a literal s*** storm online after defecating mid-race during a HYROX competition in China… and then CONTINUING TO COMPETE. Kennedy, an elite athlete herself, weighs in on the messy situation and brands Wietrzyk a “selfish biohazard.” Apparently, the finish line mattered more than everyone else's health.  Kennedy Now Available on YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.podtrac.com/kstw_yt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow on TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kennedy_foxnews⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Kennedy for Happy Hour on Fridays!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWlNiiSXX4BNUbXM5X8KkYbDepFgUIVZj⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sketch troupe Thank You, Kiss is doing two live shows at the ESL Rochester Fringe Festival — Friday, September 18th and Saturday, September 26th at 7pm at the Focus Theater (Sibley Building) — grab tickets for $18 at rochesterfringe.com and come laugh with them.Check out the episode on Just Can't Not wherever you get your podcasts or on Lunchador.org!https://player.captivate.fm/episode/2cd87f09-d8bf-4229-a2b5-2237fe759866/What you'll see is sketch comedy — everything is written, rehearsed, memorized and blocked — but a lot of those sketches were born out of improv jams, so the spirit of “in the moment” is still there even when the lines are not. For folks who aren't deep into the lingo, improv can mean short-form games or long-form formats like the Die Hard Herald style John loves (think recurring scenes and theatrical storytelling), whereas sketch is more like a mini-play — planted, pruned and polished. We chat about how the group formed back in 2013, how we write together (bring your five-page “same joke” drafts and we'll lovingly murder half of it), and why trust and tiny moments — timing, eye contact, that perfect grunt — make the whole thing sing. The Focus is a real hub for local comedy and classes — there's even a free “improv plate” the first Saturday of every month where anyone can jump on stage — so after Fringe, consider taking a class; improv teaches listening, confidence, spontaneity and how to be less freaked out in real life. Come support local art, enjoy some weird meme-y sketches (our show's title never quite matches the content — it's our running gag), and bring your friends — parking's easy nearby and the elevator noises are part of the ambience. Seriously, go to rochesterfringe.com, buy too many tickets, and they'll see you at the Focus — they'll promise to be funny, heartfelt, and mildly selfish with their favorite inside jokes.Mentioned in this episode:Joe Bean RoastersVisit joebeanroasters.com to get fresh roasted specialty coffee either by the bag or with a Perpetual Joy subscription!

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Micheal Brockers hops on with the guys and talks football, Defensive Line, and the ceiling for the Rams this year. Sean & Seth (former Defensive Lineman) quiz each other on what makes a defensive lineman selfish.

Sean & Seth (former Defensive Lineman) quiz each other on what makes a defensive lineman selfish.

If your wife has stopped respecting you, becoming even more agreeable and “selfless” may be making the problem worse. A Christian husband can silence his opinions, suppress his desires, and call it godliness—until he loses the confidence, initiative, and masculine presence his marriage needs.In this episode, Matt Hallock explains why honest desire is not the same as selfish entitlement. He shares the counseling assignment that changed his marriage, shows what Jesus' sacrifice reveals about desire, and unpacks the difference between a good what and an unhealthy how.You'll learn:- Why suppressing desire often turns into bitterness, passivity, and silent contracts- What biblical self-denial does—and does not—require you to kill- Why sacrifice and desire belong together in a mature Christian man- How your lack of drive can quietly damage attraction and respect- Four practical steps for recovering your voice and initiating change in your marriage

A short, punchy episode challenging the idea that wanting more for your life is selfish. Taylor argues the opposite: getting radically clear on your desired future is the most selfless thing you can do — because you can't help others if you haven't secured your own oxygen first.About Taylor WelchTaylor Welch is an entrepreneur, author, and host of The Deep End a growing media platform exploring the intersection of God, money, business, and psychology. He is also the Founder & CEO of Novos Network, a research and training company focused on identity reform and personal development, offering workshops, events, in-person trainings, and online programs for individuals and entrepreneurs seeking to grow personally, professionally, and spiritually. You can find our upcoming events and workshops here.Taylor is the author of three books:- The Currency of Heaven: How to Trust God for More Than Enough- Winning At Sales: How to Get So Good People Say “Thank You” For Letting Them Buy- The Wealthy Consultant: Confessions of a 9-Figure AdvisorSOCIALS:Website: https://taylorawelch.com/Twitter: https://twitter.com/taylorawelchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorawelch/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taylorawelchFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/taylorawelchprofileTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@taylorawelch

What if the part of you that you've always called "empathetic" was also shaped by survival? In the first episode of The Empath Wound, Deborah gets raw and personal about the connection between childhood abandonment, people-pleasing, overgiving, and the constant need to be seen as "good." She reflects on how being the understanding one, the fixer, the forgiving one, and the person who could always read the room became more than personality—it became protection. This episode explores the child who learned to put everyone else's needs first—and the adult who eventually realizes that keeping everyone else happy can come at the cost of abandoning herself. From relationships and family to friendships, work, and authority figures, Deborah challenges the belief that being a good person means tolerating disrespect, explaining every boundary, giving unlimited chances, or sacrificing your peace to maintain a connection. Because healing sometimes means learning a new kind of selfishness: choosing yourself without guilt. This episode will leave you with one powerful question: How many times have you abandoned yourself so somebody else wouldn't abandon you? Welcome to The Empath Wound—an 8-part journey of uncovering what you thought was "just who you are" and asking: Is this really who I am, or is this who I had to become to survive? ----------------------------------------------------------------- BetterHelp Therapy: If you're struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor. Visit https://betterhelp.com/thehealingversion for a discount on your first month of therapy.. If you have questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are credentialed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation, here is an overview written by the YouTube creators behind the channel Cinema Therapy that goes into these topics: https://www.reddit.com/r/cinema_therapy/comments/1dpriql/addressing_the_betterh elp_concerns_headon_d -------------------------------------------------------------------

What if you have a good life… but deep down, you know you want more?More freedom. More success. More money. More love. More sex. More adventure. More of you.Am I selfish for wanting it?This week, Caroline gets brutally open about why so many women reach their 40s and 50s still waiting for permission — from their husbands, children, parents, friends and even themselves — to live the life they actually want.Caroline shares what happened when she stopped making decisions based on how they would look to everyone else.Because midlife doesn't have to be about winding down. It can be the moment you finally ask yourself: What do I actually want — and what would I do if I stopped worrying about everyone else's opinion?If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to reinvent yourself, change your marriage, start a business, make more money, fall in love again, change your mind or simply want a bigger life, this episode is for you.Nobody is coming with a permission slip. Your life begins when you stop needing one.And if you're ready for your own next chapter, join Caroline in the Maldives for the next Stanbury Retreat. An intimate group of women coming together to talk business, life, love and reinvention. There are only a few spaces remaining — because sometimes changing your life starts with changing the rooms you're in.Apply now to join Caroline in the Maldives. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jason and Gabe talk about why millennial dads are spending more time with their kids than past generations, why that's a good thing, and where it can go too far. They make the case for dads being a little more “selfish” with their time when it comes to training, health, friendships, and the things that give them fulfillment outside of being a parent.They also get into the difference between happiness and fulfillment, Jason competing in his first USPSA shooting match, Gabe swearing off burpees, and why we're often too quick to put limits on what we think we're capable of.Plus, they talk preschool vs. homeschool, youth sports, and where the line is between helping kids get stronger and putting too much stress on young athletes.Thanks for tuning in to the Jason Khalipa Podcast!

Lauren reflects on how to continue loving and supporting her mom when she is in difficult moods or emotional states, while also questioning whether setting boundaries or feeling overwhelmed makes her selfish. Got a dilemma? Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.comFollow on social media:Facebook.com/DrLauraInstagram.com/DrLauraProgramYouTube.com/DrLauraJoin the Dr. Laura Family!! >> Receive my weekly newsletter, perks, and more! Sign up now, it's FREE > DrLaura.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

September is Self-Care Awareness Month—but what if the reason you're exhausted isn't that you need a better routine?What if you've been taught to ignore the warning signs your body has been giving you for years?In this episode, I'm speaking directly to the moms, caregivers, dental professionals, and chronic “show up for everyone else” people who have learned to put themselves last. We talk about what happens when running on empty becomes your normal—and why self-care isn't selfish, indulgent, or something you earn after everything else gets done.Because your body is always communicating. Your nervous system is always responding. And the people around you—especially your children—may be learning more from how you care for yourself than from anything you say.So here's the question: What happens when the person everyone depends on has nothing left to give?Press play and let's talk about it.If this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to rate, follow, share, and review The Healthy Mouth Movement Podcast. And if you know someone who has been running on empty for far too long, send this episode their way.Check out The Mind Mouth Body SHIFT Method -- https://shereewertz.com/academyBook a consultation today:I am always here to help answer any question and schedule a 15 minute call with me. If I cannot help, I can get you to a provider that can.https://shereewertz.com/15-min

Selfish motivations won't get you anywhere good.Reading Plan: Worship - Psalm 105:12-22Wisdom - Proverbs 21:25-26Witness - Luke 13-14Visit https://www.revivalfromthebible.com/ for more information.

Live from the dreamy landscape that is Fiji, Emily reflects on the art of intentional recovery fresh off 26.2 miles in Sydney. It is easy to step up as an "energy dealer" for everyone else, but you cannot pour from an empty cup. This week is all about prioritizing your own rest, recalibrating after major milestones, and taking real ownership of your self-care. Later in the episode, Emily answers a listener question from Ella, a volleyball player struggling with comparison and the pressure to prove her worth to others. Emily dives into how to flip the mental script from external validation to internal joy, plus practical tools like using physical anchors on the court to reset between points. SOCIAL@emilyabbate@hurdlepodcast@iheartwomenssports SUBSCRIBE: Hurdle's YouTube ChannelSIGN UP: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Weekly Hurdle Newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ASK ME A QUESTION: Email hello@hurdle.us to with your questions! Emily answers them every Friday on the show. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I think there is this idea that when you forgive someone, part of that is letting them back in. Like forgiveness automatically means reconciliation. Like because you let go of the anger, they get their old access back. And I think that is one of the biggest misunderstandings about forgiveness. Because I can forgive you and still not trust you. I can wish you well and still not want you in my space. Those things are not contradictions. That is clarity. Forgiveness, for me, is about releasing what I no longer want to carry. The anger. The resentment. The replaying. But forgiveness does not delete the data. I still remember what you showed me. I still remember what happened. I still get to make decisions based on that information. And if nothing has changed, giving someone access again is sometimes just giving them another opportunity to do the exact same thing. So today we are talking about how to forgive without reopening doors that need to stay closed. How to release resentment without abandoning your boundaries. And I think learning the difference between forgiveness and access is one of the most important lessons there is when it comes to protecting your peace. FORGIVENESS AND RECONCILIATION ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS I think this is where so many people get confused. Forgiveness is internal. Reconciliation is relational. Forgiveness is something you can choose by yourself. Reconciliation requires two people. You can decide: "I am done being angry about this." "I am done letting this take up space in my mind." "I am done wishing things were different." "I am going to move forward." None of that requires you to restore the relationship. Reconciliation requires rebuilding. It requires accountability. Change. Consistency. Trust. Effort. Time. And sometimes, even after all of those things, you may still decide that the relationship is better left in the past. Forgiveness does not automatically create an obligation to reconnect. FORGIVING SOMEONE DOESN'T DELETE THE DATA I love this idea: Forgiving you doesn't delete the data. Because sometimes we treat forgiveness like we are supposed to suddenly become forgetful. But experiences give us information. If someone lied repeatedly, that is information. If someone betrayed your confidence, that is information. If someone consistently disrespected your boundaries, that is information. If being around somebody repeatedly left you anxious, depleted, insecure or confused, that is information. You don't have to be angry about the information in order to use it. That is such an important distinction. You can say: "I'm not mad anymore. But now I know." That is wisdom. You don't need to keep touching the stove just because you forgave it for burning you. You learned. And learning is supposed to change your behavior. FORGIVENESS IS NOT THE SAME THING AS TRUST This is another huge one. You can forgive somebody and still not trust them. Because forgiveness can happen in a moment. Trust is built through behavior. Trust is evidence. Trust is repetition. Trust is somebody consistently showing you: "My words and actions match." "I respect your boundaries." "I take responsibility when I hurt you." "I have actually changed." You do not owe somebody instant trust because they apologized. And you definitely don't owe them trust simply because you decided to forgive them. You can forgive freely. Trust should be earned. ACCESS SHOULD BE EARNED Not everyone deserves the same level of access to you. I think we need to normalize this. There are levels. Someone can be somebody you care about but don't confide in. Someone can be somebody you are cordial with but don't spend time alone with. Someone can be somebody you love but know you cannot have an emotionally close relationship with. Someone can be somebody you forgive from a very large distance. Access is not a punishment. Access is a boundary. Your time is access. Your home is access. Your children are access. Your private thoughts are access. Your energy is access. Your vulnerable moments are access. Those things should not be automatically available to everyone. Especially someone who has already shown you they cannot handle that access responsibly. YOU CAN WISH SOMEONE WELL FROM FAR AWAY This is where people think boundaries somehow mean hate. They don't. You can genuinely hope somebody has a beautiful life. You can hope they heal. You can hope they grow. You can pray for them. You can celebrate something good happening to them. And still say: "I do not want to participate in your life anymore." Those things are not contradictions. You do not have to hate somebody in order to leave. Sometimes you leave because you finally stopped hating them. You stopped fighting. Stopped trying to prove your point. Stopped trying to make them understand. Stopped trying to get the apology. And you simply accepted reality. THE GOAL OF FORGIVENESS ISN'T TO GET THE RELATIONSHIP BACK Sometimes the goal is just peace. That's it. Not closure from them. Not an apology. Not a reunion. Not some perfectly wrapped ending. Just peace. Peace that says: "That happened." "I didn't like it." "I learned from it." "And I am not going to keep paying for it emotionally every day." Forgiveness can simply mean that the event no longer gets to control your nervous system. You stop waking up thinking about it. You stop rehearsing imaginary conversations. You stop checking whether they finally understand what they did. You reclaim your attention. That is freedom. SOME PEOPLE DON'T WANT FORGIVENESS. THEY WANT THEIR POSITION BACK. This one is important. Sometimes somebody says: "Well, I thought you forgave me." But what they really mean is: "I thought I would get the same access again." Those are not the same thing. Some people aren't upset that you're still angry. You're not angry. They are upset that there are consequences. They want to skip accountability and go directly back to proximity. They want your forgiveness to erase the natural consequences of their choices. But forgiveness does not require you to protect somebody from consequences. If I learn that I cannot trust you with certain parts of my life, the consequence may simply be less access. Not revenge. Not punishment. Just a new boundary based on new information. PROXIMITY WITHOUT CHANGE IS JUST ANOTHER OPPORTUNITY FOR THE SAME PATTERN This line really matters: Proximity without change is just a second opportunity to do the same thing. Because people will sometimes rush reconciliation because the discomfort of distance feels awkward. But if nothing actually changed, what are we reconciling? Did the person become more accountable? Did the behavior stop? Did communication improve? Were boundaries respected? Was there actual repair? Or did enough time just pass that everyone feels uncomfortable talking about it anymore? Time passing is not the same thing as growth. An apology is not the same thing as transformation. Words matter. Behavior matters more. STOP PERFORMING REUNIONS YOU DON'T ACTUALLY FEEL I think sometimes people reconcile because they don't want to look mean. They don't want family members to think they're difficult. They don't want mutual friends to feel awkward. They don't want to be accused of holding a grudge. So they perform closeness. And inside they are thinking: "I don't trust this person." "I don't feel safe around this person." "I don't actually want this relationship." That kind of relationship becomes exhausting because now you're spending energy pretending. You do not have to manufacture intimacy to prove that you're healed. Sometimes healing actually looks like being able to peacefully say: "No thank you." YOU DON'T NEED ANGER TO JUSTIFY A BOUNDARY You don't have to still be mad in order to say no. You don't need a dramatic reason. You don't need another explosion. You don't need them to do something terrible one more time. You can simply decide: "This relationship no longer works for me." We have been conditioned to think boundaries need a courtroom argument. They don't. You are allowed to notice patterns. You are allowed to recognize how somebody affects you. And you are allowed to make decisions accordingly. BEING AT PEACE DOESN'T MEAN BECOMING AVAILABLE AGAIN Peace sometimes looks like silence. Peace sometimes looks like not responding. Peace sometimes looks like seeing their name and feeling nothing. Peace sometimes looks like being able to be in the same room without needing to confront them. And peace sometimes looks like never seeing them again. There is no universal picture of forgiveness. Sometimes people assume healing means everybody gets back together. Maybe healing means you no longer need everybody to get back together. YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE AND STILL LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO LEAVE This applies to friendships, family relationships, romantic relationships, work relationships and everything in between. Love by itself does not make every relationship healthy. Sometimes you can genuinely love somebody and still recognize: "We are not good together." Or: "I cannot keep exposing myself to this." Or: "I care about you, but I cannot keep participating in this dynamic." That doesn't make the love fake. It means love isn't the only factor in the decision. You also have to consider trust. Respect. Safety. Compatibility. Peace. Values. Patterns. STOP WAITING FOR THEM TO UNDERSTAND YOUR BOUNDARY One of the hardest parts about boundaries is realizing the other person may never agree with yours. They may call you dramatic. Cold. Unforgiving. Sensitive. Difficult. Selfish. And if your entire goal is getting them to approve of your boundary, you're going to stay stuck. Sometimes the person who benefited most from you having no boundaries is going to hate your boundaries the most. That doesn't automatically mean the boundary is wrong. You have to be able to tolerate being misunderstood.   THE HIGHEST LEVEL OF FORGIVENESS MAY BE INDIFFERENCE Sometimes we think forgiveness means having this big emotional moment where you suddenly feel warmth toward the person. Maybe. But sometimes forgiveness is much quieter. You just stop caring. Not in a cruel way. You simply stop being emotionally hooked. Their choices don't ruin your day anymore. Their name doesn't trigger a twenty-minute rant. You don't need everyone else to agree with your version of what happened. You don't need revenge. You don't need validation. You moved on. That is powerful. ASK YOURSELF: WHAT DID THIS EXPERIENCE TEACH ME? Instead of only asking: "How could they do this to me?" Ask: "What did this teach me?" Maybe it taught you to stop ignoring red flags. Maybe it taught you to speak up sooner. Maybe it taught you that chemistry does not equal compatibility. Maybe it taught you that history does not equal loyalty. Maybe it taught you that an apology without changed behavior means very little. Maybe it taught you to trust your instincts. Maybe it taught you that you can survive losing a relationship you once thought you couldn't live without. Take the lesson. Leave the bitterness. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO CREATE A NEW VERSION OF THE RELATIONSHIP Sometimes the answer isn't all-in or completely gone. Maybe the relationship needs a different shape. You can move someone from your inner circle to your outer circle. You can reduce frequency. You can change what topics you discuss. You can stop sharing private information. You can stop asking them for emotional support. You can see them at family events without maintaining a close personal relationship. Boundaries don't always mean cutting someone off. Sometimes they mean creating the appropriate distance. IF RECONCILIATION DOES HAPPEN, LET BEHAVIOR LEAD If you do decide that you want to rebuild a relationship, don't rush it. Let the person show you. You don't have to immediately hand them the keys again. Start small. Pay attention. Do they respect your boundaries? Do they take ownership? Do they become defensive when the past comes up? Do their actions match their apology? Can they tolerate earning trust slowly? Real change can handle patience. Manipulation usually demands immediate access. YOU DON'T HAVE TO HATE THE OLD VERSION OF YOU WHO ALLOWED IT Sometimes after a difficult relationship, we get angry with ourselves. "How did I not see this?" "Why did I stay?" "Why did I give them another chance?" But you made choices with the information, confidence and perspective you had at the time. Now you know more. The goal isn't to shame your previous self. The goal is to become somebody who responds differently now. Growth means the lesson changes your future behavior. PROTECTING YOUR PEACE IS NOT REVENGE There is a major difference between creating distance to hurt somebody and creating distance to protect yourself. If your goal is: "I want them to suffer." That's revenge. But if your goal is: "I don't want to live in this dynamic anymore." That's a boundary. You know the difference internally. Protecting your peace does not require you to punish anybody. Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is simply remove yourself.     I think one of the strongest forms of emotional maturity is being able to say: I forgave you. I'm not angry. I'm not bitter. I don't spend my days thinking about what happened. I genuinely hope you have a great life. And I still don't want you close to me. There is nothing contradictory about that. You are allowed to forgive somebody without restoring their previous position in your life. You are allowed to release anger and keep the lesson. You are allowed to stop carrying resentment while still maintaining boundaries. Forgiveness doesn't delete the data. Forgiveness doesn't automatically rebuild trust. Forgiveness does not require reconciliation. And forgiveness does not come with a key. Sometimes the healthiest ending isn't everyone hugging and going back to the way things were. Sometimes the healthiest ending is simply: I learned. I released it. I wish you well. And the door stays closed. That isn't bitterness. That's clarity and some of the BEST kind of it. 

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"I don't know what to post" is the number one thing Erika hears — from clients, from strangers, from women who know they want to show up but freeze at the blank screen. In this episode, she breaks down exactly how to come up with content ideas at every stage, so you never have to stare at an empty screen again. Whether you're brand new and haven't posted a thing, you're posting but can't stay consistent, or you already have an offer and want your content to actually lead somewhere — there's a path for you here. In this episode: Why you don't need to be an expert to create content people find valuable The "document, don't create" approach for when you're just starting out Creating content for your younger self — and why other people find it so valuable How to use your feed as evidence of what's already working (and recreate it the right way) Using your DMs, comments, and stories to find endless ideas How to build content pillars from the life you're already living Selfish vs. selfless content — the small reframe that makes your life "interesting" How to work backwards from your offer using the bullseye method 3 plug-and-play hooks you can post today, tomorrow, or next week If you're tired of overcomplicating this, this episode is your permission slip to keep it simple and just start. Ready to build a profitable, purposeful personal brand? One spot just opened up inside Courage Driven Latina. You'll get immediate access to the full Visibility Challenge — 10 days of prompts, formats, and templates — plus trainings on content formats and creating selfless content that reaches more than your mom and user59346. Join here: www.couragedrivenlatina.com — or send Erika a DM on Instagram. Free training: How to Create Content That Gets Seen — the 3 mistakes to avoid and how to fix them → TRAINING

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Have you ever felt guilty for saying no?For many of us, being “the helpful one” becomes part of our identity. We answer every call, solve every problem, and put everyone else's needs ahead of our own—until we're exhausted.In this episode, Francesca sits down with poet and bestselling author Arielle Estoria to explore what happens when we stop believing our worth is measured by how much we sacrifice.Together, they discuss people pleasing, boundaries, transactional friendships, burnout, identity, and why self-preservation isn't selfish.If you've ever struggled to choose yourself without guilt, this conversation is for you.Connect:Arielle Estoria: arielleestoria.com Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com

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Dan doesn't usually sit in the interviewee's chair — but when journalist and author Allison Gilbert invited him to speak at the 92nd Street Y as part of their Connected Lives series, he said yes. What followed was one of the more wide-ranging conversations Dan has had about his own practice, his own anxieties, and why he's become convinced that inner work divorced from relationships is just selfishness dressed up as self-care. The evening also included a guided loving-kindness meditation — metta practice — that Dan led live with the audience. They talked about: Why Dan thinks the meditation world's PR problem has shifted — it's no longer "this is weird hippie stuff," it's "I get it, but I personally can't do it" The upward spiral: how taking care of your mind improves your relationships, which improves your inner weather, which improves your relationships further — and the "toilet vortex" that runs in the opposite direction Free-range mindfulness: why brushing your teeth or standing in a grocery line can rewire your brain just like formal seated practice The self-compassion toolkit — Kristin Neff's three-step practice, distanced self-talk, and why putting your hand on your heart is "cheesy as f*ck" but actually works Joseph Goldstein's single best question for breaking an anxiety loop: "Is this useful?" Why micro-interactions — with your doorman, your barista, a stranger on the elevator — are one of the most underrated sources of happiness Allison Gilbert is a journalist, author, and the creator of The Joy of Connections, a book and companion app designed to help people build more meaningful relationships. She writes and speaks about human connection, grief, and resilience. Learn more at allisongilbert.com. Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Additional Resources:  Check out Allison's new app at beingmoreconnected.com This episode is sponsored by: Notion: Learn more about how Notion can support your business, at notion.com/happier. To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris