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Warfare Against Satanists (1) (audio) David Eells – 9/2/26   A Call To War Dumitru Duduman September 1993 . “Cease heading the way you have been going and turn to me”, says the Lord. “Lucifer, who is armed for war on his horse, and is coming with a powerful army behind him to take vengeance against the children of God. The day is close! A day of terror when Lucifer will try to annihilate all those that live a clean life, a day of pain and terror is near. (We are the salt, our job is to resist him. We were told “you have not because you ask not”.) “If you could see what is being prepared and what will happen, you would surely quit doing everything you know in your heart to be wrong and would seek peace more than ever. Be prepared, be holy, and don't give in to the temptations and impulses of the enemy. Seek the Lord, your God, with all your heart. Those who will be clean, those who will be holy, I will not forget. I will save them”, says the Lord. “The armies of the devil are coming against those who worship me and truly seek me, with great fury. Pray that I may give you strength so that before the storm comes, I may save you and give you joy. “Those who live in defilement, that meditate upon evil things, will have no escape. They will not have any protection. I will destroy BABYLON”, (America) says the Lord, “because of the wickedness and blasphemy of this country. Not only here but wherever there is sin, I will punish it harshly. Only the righteous will I save, some even out of the midst of the fire. “Again, I tell you, a dark cloud is gathered. Lucifer, sitting on his black horse, is ready for war. The trumpets of the devil are sounding day and night to all the demons of the deep to be prepared to make war against those who truly live their lives for God. There will be such great turmoil that only a few will escape. Those who today only carry the name of 'believer' will fight with fury against those who worship me with a clean heart. This is why I have revealed this to you -- because the days are numbered. “I reveal to you, I speak to you, I show to you”, says the Lord, “but many do not want to remember, saying to themselves, 'Is it truly the Lord speaking this?' Others become scared for the moment, but then they forget and never become pure. Many of those who carry the name of 'Christian' are overcome by greed, fornication, drunkenness, and a pursuit of great wealth. “There is no time to lose. The day of destruction and terror is coming soon. The devil is agitated, and a great deception is being prepared; but I tell you, do not fear. I have the power to protect those who obey me. You must remember the Word of God. Tell them to read the Bible and pray that I may also save them. “The great day, the day of terror, the day of affliction, of pain, the day of the punishment of Babylon prophesied in the Bible is soon coming, and I will only save the righteous”, says the Lord. “I forgive whom I want. I make holy who I want, and I prepare who I want. Judge no one, for mine is the judgment”, says the Lord. “Each of you judge yourselves. Pray and draw close to me; and if you will obey, I will come to your aid. I will send a chariot of salvation and take each one out in his appointed time”. We have dealt with the spirit of faction against our ministry for several years now and have been cleansed of it and the apostates, so we recognize it in the worldly and see it operating in the government. We are doing the necessary warfare against this work of Islam, satanism, communism, and faction, with their witchcraft, curses, railing, etc., causing problems for Christians, President Trump, his administration, and the MAGA movement. (We were told that the Bride was being cleansed now but the much larger church will go through this same thing in the tribulation.) I'm going to go over some terminology with you about these demons of:   Gossip, Slander, Railing, Reviling ... and What Motivates Them Our first defense against these demons is to not receive accusations against anyone that we do not have two or three witnesses, as the Scriptures teach. Many times, the motivation for gossip, slander, railing, and reviling, which are similar, is to divide others unto oneself for selfish ambitions, like making disciples. Satan has this same purpose. Anyone who listens to these demons gets invaded by them. In this case, the person working for satan should be marked or identified. Rom.16:17 Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them that are causing the divisions and occasions of stumbling, contrary to the doctrine which ye learned: and turn away from them. 18 For they that are such serve not our Lord Christ, but their own belly; and by their smooth and fair speech they beguile the hearts of the innocent. (This division or faction often involves jealousy, lying, and manipulation to get one's way.) Jas.3:14 But if ye have bitter jealousy and faction in your heart, glory not and lie not against the truth. 15 This wisdom is not [a wisdom] that cometh down from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish [Greek: demoniacal]. 16 For where jealousy and faction are, there is confusion and every vile deed. Indeed, these people always are in deep sin, for when they judge they are judged in this manner. Let's get some terminology straight so we can look at some scriptures. From Wikipedia: Gossip is malicious talk or rumor, especially about the personal or private affairs of others, meant to harm the subject's reputation in the community. It is one of the oldest and most common means of sharing facts and views, but it also has a reputation for the introduction of errors and variations into the information transmitted. The term can also imply that the idle chat or news is of a personal or trivial nature, as opposed to normal conversation, but may not be intentionally malicious. Mat.12:36 And I say unto you, that every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. Thank God that we come into days of judgment so that we don't have to come into the Day of Judgment! The Greek word translated as “idle” here means “unfruitful.” There are unfruitful words that demand punishment in a day of judgment, so we should be quick to repent and be slow to speak. (I will give Greek meanings which reveal much here. Both Greek and Hebrew verses are given to show the nature of these errors.) Slander(er): Greek: Diablos; (Diablo is also Spanish for “Devil.”), Accuser; meaning accusing falsely, finding fault with the demeanor and conduct of others and spreading their innuendos and criticisms in the church. The devil finds those people who are accusers like him to do his dirty work. Psa.15:1 Jehovah, who shall sojourn in thy tabernacle? Who shall dwell in thy holy hill? [I.e., Who will be in Jerusalem, whom John was told was the Bride?] 2 He that walketh uprightly, and worketh righteousness, And speaketh truth in his heart; 3 He that slandereth not with his tongue, Nor doeth evil to his friend, Nor taketh up a reproach against his neighbor. This of course, cannot include those whose job it is to correct the evil. Psa.50:20 Thou sittest and speakest against thy brother; Thou slanderest thine own mother's son. Psa.101:5 Whoso privily slandereth his neighbor, him will I destroy: Him that hath a high look and a proud heart will I not suffer. We can actually see God destroying the life and conscience of those who sin like this. Pro.10:18 He that hideth hatred is of lying lips; And he that uttereth a slander is a fool. Jer.6:28 They are all grievous revolters, going about with slanders; they are brass and iron: they all of them deal corruptly. Jer.9:4 Take ye heed every one of his neighbor, and trust ye not in any brother; for every brother will utterly supplant, and every neighbor will go about with slanders. Eze.22:9 Slanderous men have been in thee to shed blood; and in thee they have eaten upon the mountains: (They are lifted up in pride, imagining themselves as God.) in the midst of thee they have committed lewdness. Rom.3:8 and why not (as we are slanderously reported, and as some affirm that we say), Let us do evil, that good may come? whose condemnation is just. 1Ti.3:11 Women in like manner [must be] grave, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things. 2Ti.3:3 without natural affection, implacable (they cannot be appeased), slanderers, without self-control, fierce, no lovers of good, Tit.2:3 that aged women likewise be reverent in demeanor, not slanderers nor enslaved to much wine, teachers of that which is good; Rail(er): Greek: Blasphemeo; to blaspheme, rail, revile, defame, speak evil of. 2Pe.2:10 but chiefly them that walk after the flesh in the lust of defilement, and despise dominion. Daring, self-willed, they tremble not to rail at dignities: (I.e., those who have authority over them.) Jude 1:8 Yet in like manner these also in their dreamings defile the flesh, and set at nought dominion, and rail at dignities. (When I was young, people spoke with respect of the one the people voted to be president. Because of slander and railing, weak-minded people try to kill him. Jude 1:10 But these rail at whatsoever things they know not: and what they understand naturally, like the creatures without reason, in these things are they destroyed. Revile(er): Greek: Blasphemeo; to blaspheme, rail, revile, defame, speak evil of. Also commonly translated from: Loidoreo; to abuse, revile. Ecc.10:20 Revile not the king, no, not in thy thought; and revile not the rich in thy bedchamber: for a bird of the heavens shall carry the voice, and that which hath wings shall tell the matter. Joh.9:28 And they reviled him, and said, Thou art his disciple; but we are disciples of Moses. But Moses had better sense. 1Co.4:12 and we toil, working with our own hands: being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we endure; We have to endure these ignorant people until God removes them as He always does. 1Co.5:11 but as it is, I wrote unto you not to keep company, if any man that is named a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such a one no, not to eat. Do not partake of spiritual or physical food with these demons. 1Co.6:10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. So you see they are linked with other serious sins. 1Pe.2:23 who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; when he suffered threatened not; but committed [himself] to him that judgeth righteously: God will repay. Most of the faction is dead. 1Pe.3:16 having a good conscience; that, wherein ye are spoken against, they may be put to shame who revile your good manner of life in Christ. Eph.4:25 Wherefore, putting away falsehood, speak ye truth each one with his neighbor: for we are members one of another. (Selfish ambition often involves pride, anger, and lying to get one's way.) 26 Be ye angry, and sin not: (?) let not the sun go down upon your wrath: 27 neither give place to the devil. 28 Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing that is good, that he may have whereof to give to him that hath need. 29 Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for edifying as the need may be, (Greek: Edify[ing] “the building up of the need.” i.e., If it's not building up the speaker and the spoken to, don't say it.) that it may give grace to them that hear. (If it doesn't bring graceful correction or give grace or favor from God to the hearer, then don't say it.) 30 And grieve not the Holy Spirit of God, in whom ye were sealed unto the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and railing, be put away from you, with all malice: (All of this comes because of selfish ambition and unforgiveness for those who get in its way.) 32 and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, even as God also in Christ forgave you. If we want forgiveness from God, we must sow it.   Genghis Khan Spirit of Deception Eve Brast - 12/25/2011 (David's notes in red) In a dream, I saw many people being deceived by a much more powerful and deceptive evil principality called a Genghis Khan spirit. It will be worse than the false revival, Kundalini Eastern Spirit. (Genghis Khan was the Mongol who led legions of demon-possessed men to conquer most of Eurasia by the edge of the sword, massacring whole populations, about 40 million people. He is still worshipped by many in Mongolia, so he could represent a religious spirit here. No doubt this is a spirit that will bring spiritual death, conquering multitudes of Christians, like the Kundalini Yoga spirit's false revival. This new spirit conquers people by the sword or WORDS, written or spoken, which makes it much more dangerous than the Kundalini spirit, which was mostly imparted by the laying on of hands. These words are in the form of unforgiveness, bitterness, back-stabbing, criticism, slander, gossip, railing, lying, perversion, witchcraft, voodoo, etc. As with any war, the enemy will target the leadership with their words first in order to replace them with their own kind. If you listen to their words, you will be conquered and come into spiritual death and under their authority. These people always prefer to speak behind one's back, but you, the true Church, must tell them to go to the person they are accusing and speak to them alone, according to Jesus' command in Matthew 18:15, and if it is not sin according to the Word, they should stop gossiping and slandering and not receive such things. If they do not listen, “mark them” or identify them, as the Lord commands in Romans 16:17,18; Titus 3:10,11.) I was shaking my head in disappointment as I watched the people act like they were in love with this spirit; it was like a worldwide orgy. (The true people of God who stay with the truth of His Word won't be overtaken, even with this deception.) This is all I was shown. (We have been shown many times that this is a worldwide attack on the saints by apostates. The corporate beast spirit from the abyss is coming forth to enter the sons of perdition [Judases] and use them to conquer and make war on the true Christians. Rev.17:8 The beast that thou sawest was, and is not; and is about to come up out of the abyss, and to go into perdition. And they that dwell on the earth shall wonder, [they] whose name hath not been written in the book of life from the foundation of the world, when they behold the beast, how that he was, and is not, and shall come. As the Word says, a great falling away to strong delusion is upon us. Pray for anyone being used in this way that they would repent before they are ultimately reprobated and forever known as sons of perdition. When I opened my Bible for a scripture for this dream, my finger was on 1Th.4:3 For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that ye abstain from fornication; 4 that each of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, 5 not in passion of lust, even as the nations who know not God. (A refusal to separate from known or hidden sins is what makes Christians vulnerable to these conquering demons, for God turns them over to them. 1Co.5:5 to deliver such a one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. [Refusal to separate from these people will infect the whole assembly.] 6 Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump? 7 Purge out the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, even as ye are unleavened. For our passover also hath been sacrificed, [even] Christ: 8 wherefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.) I asked the Father what this Genghis Khan spirit was or what it represented, and when I opened my Bible, my finger was on 1Jn.2:22 Who is the liar but who denieth that Jesus is the Christ? This is the antichrist, even who denieth the Father and the Son. (Antichrist spirits always deny the true Jesus and Word to justify themselves. The rest of this text tells the whole story. 1Jn.2:18 Little children, it is the last hour: and as ye heard that antichrist cometh, even now have there arisen many antichrists; whereby we know that it is the last hour. 19 They went out from us (They get offended when you don't agree with their sin.), but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us: but [they went out], that they might be made manifest that they all are not of us. [Notice that many antichrists in this “last hour” will separate from us because they do not belong with the true Church due to their leavened nature. In this, they deny the Father and Son (verse 22) because they deny the true Word given in the beginning, which is eternal life.] 24 As for you, let that abide in you which ye heard from the beginning. If that which ye heard from the beginning abide in you, ye also shall abide in the Son, and in the Father. 25 And this is the promise which he promised us, [even] the life eternal. 26 These things have I written unto you concerning them that would lead you astray.   12/29/2011 In the dream above, I saw many Christians being deceived by a very powerful and deceptive evil principality called a Genghis Khan spirit. I saw that this spirit is manifesting in the factious who kill by the sword of slander, and now, below, I am seeing that it is also taking over a beast government. (There has always been a beast government to back up the factious. Jesus' time was a good example of this. Obama is the head of a D.S. beast government made up of Islam, faction, communist, leftist, peoples.) I had seen a cleansing of the true church by this spirit rising up in apostates to separate them from the Man-child and Bride, but also now, below, I see a global shift and transfer of secular governmental power in the spirit realm to this Genghis Khan spirit. (To confirm this, on 1/09/12, we just discovered that Mongolia is on our school schedule for my son Noah's studies this week! And he also has to read a book about Genghis Khan, who came from there. Now I know there are no coincidences with the Father! Isn't that something?) It appears from the dreams below that there is a secular type to coincide with, and possibly give timing to, the previous spiritual meaning of the Genghis Khan spirit that God gave. The war between Iran and Israel is being used as a type of the war between the factious murderers and the righteous. The Iran faction type is also backed up by a beast government type of Russia/China. Also, it appears that what is seen below is that this is the time of the choosing of the Bride and birthing of the Man-child ministry. I asked the Father to expand my understanding of this Genghis Khan spirit from my first spiritual revelation concerning the Church. I opened my Bible and my finger fell on: Eze.32:24 There is Elam (Iran invaded by Islam) and all her multitude round about her grave, all of them slain, fallen by the sword, who are gone down uncircumcised into the nether parts of the Earth, who caused terror in the land of the living, and have borne their shame with them that go down to the pit. (Iran is about to lose her battle to Israel, backed by the U.S. In parallel, the factious in the world church will lose their battle against the righteous.) (I looked up who Elam was because I didn't know. Elam was a son of Shem, who was the father of the Persians or modern-day Iranians.) (Shem is also the father of the chosen line of Israel, meaning the true Iranians and Israelites are born of the same father. However, the Iranian's Muslim invaders and evil leadership represents the same thing as the Edomites, for they have perpetually made war against their own brothers. As we have seen in another parable, this also represents the factious in the world church who persecute their brothers but will lose by the hand of God. So now you see that the Iranian Muslim invaders' actions against Israel represent the factious people's actions against the Church, since they are born of the same murderous spirits. The Psalms speak often of the persecution and slander against David by the factious, and many of these are also prophetically speaking of Jesus and Jesus in the end-time Man-child.) Then I asked for a confirmation for this scripture and opened my Bible and put my finger down on Isa.21:2 A grievous vision is declared unto me; the treacherous man dealeth treacherously, and the destroyer destroyeth. Go up, O Elam (Iran); besiege O Media (Kurds of Iran); all the sighing thereof have I made to cease. 3 Therefore are my loins filled with anguish; pangs have taken hold upon me, as the pangs of a woman in travail; I am pained so that I cannot hear; I am dismayed so that I cannot see. (We see here that not only will the invader Muslim leadership of Iran attack first, as the factious always do. They murdered around 52,000, President Trump said 100,000 unarmed Iranian people, many turned Christians, before Israel and U.S. stepped in. We also see that this caused the woman Church there to be in travail with Christ coming through them. Is this a sign for the rest of the Church? Islam is killing Christians around the world. The red dragon of Satan is seeking to devour the woman Church. President Trump has opposed them three times recently. Iran has struck all of its Islamic neighbors.) Deb Horton's note: Genghis Khan was known and is studied in war colleges today for his strategic maneuvers. One of the most famous was dividing up his troops and sending in very small skirmish/attack forces before the actual war. (That may be what we have seen, when they struck all of their Sunni neighbor Islamists who are now against the Shia cult in the war.) The woman church, who is faced by the dragon, is in travail with the birth of the Man-child in Revelation 12:1-5. This appears to be giving us timing -- a physical sign of a spiritual happening?) About Elam: Jer.49:35 The word of the Lord that came to Jeremiah the prophet concerning Elam (Iran), in the beginning of the reign of Zedekiah king of Judah, (This was before Zedekiah made the tribulation covenant with the King of Babylon as the head of the beast -- Ezekiel 17:13,15-21) saying thus saith the Lord of Hosts: Behold, I will break the bow of Elam (Iran), the chief of their might. (This looks like the Islamists in Iran being hit by Israel and the U.S. before the tribulation covenant, as we have thought. In parallel, the factious will lose their war against the righteous in the Church by the hand of God.) 36 And upon Elam (Iran) will I bring the four winds from the four quarters of heaven, and will scatter them toward all those winds: and there shall be no nation whither the outcasts of Elam shall not come. (They are being scattered because the food, water, and pay are scarce and they are being slaughtered. The greatest revival of Christianity is there. They may scatter and spread the Gospel.) 37 And I will cause Elam (Iran) to be dismayed before their enemies, and before them who seek their life (of the Islamic Invaders); and I will bring evil upon them (Islam), even my fierce anger, saith the Lord; and I will send a sword after them (Islam), till I have consumed them; 38 and I will set my throne in Elam, and will destroy from thence king and princes saith the Lord. (Done, against Islam invaders) 39 But it shall come to pass in the latter days (now), that I will bring back the captivity of Elam saith the Lord. (Iran is being delivered from Islamic captivity. We see this as a prophecy of our day at the end of the Iran war. Also this is seen in Jer.25:25 and all the kings of Zimri, and all the kings of Elam, and all the kings of the Medes (Kurds of Iran); 26 and all the kings of the north, far and near, one with another; and all the kingdoms of the world, which are upon the face of the earth: and the king of Sheshach (Babylon U.S. weakened by war) shall drink after them. We also see in type in this text that the factious Islamic leadership will be brought into captivity in “the latter days.”) I asked the Father who the Elamites [Iranian Islamists] represented from these verses? (Could the Iranian Christians be a sign for the U.S. Christians who will also suffer under the Islamic beast?) When I opened my Bible, my finger fell on Jer.7:8 Behold, ye trust in lying words, that cannot profit. (Those Iraneans who joined the Islamists to betray their brethren,) 9 Will ye steal, murder, and commit adultery, and swear falsely, and burn incense to Baal, and walk after other gods that ye have not known, 10 and come and stand before me in this house, which is called by my name, and say, we are delivered; that we may do all these abominations? 11 Is this house which is called by my name, become a den of robbers in your eyes? Behold, I, even I, have seen it, saith the Lord. (This clearly is a warning to the Iranians under this factious beast of Islam foreshadow the Christians in the U.S. who have followed a false Jesus but are justifying their sinful actions.) I asked the Father if He had anything more for us concerning all this, and when I opened my Bible, my finger was on Psa.7:10 My shield is with God, who saveth the upright in heart. I believe this entire Psalm is a promise to us of what our Father will soon do to the factious who receive and commit adultery with this Genghis Khan spirit to conquer enemies by the sword. Be encouraged, brethren, and hold fast to the truth which you heard from the beginning! As I was lying down to sleep, I asked the Father to show me more about the Genghis Khan spirit in a dream or vision. As I was lying in bed, praying in the Spirit, He gave me this vision on 12/29/11: I was high above Earth, looking down from a southern viewpoint toward the north at the Asian continent, where Russia and China are. It was dark upon the Earth. Suddenly, I saw something dark rising up from beneath the Asian continent, from the center where Mongolia is located (where Genghis Khan came from). The Spirit told me that Mongolia is the opening to the womb between the two legs of Russia and China, and this spirit is rising up in and coming forth from them. Its back rose out first, hunched like a mountain (or kingdom); then its head and shoulders came out bowed down toward the east; then its arms, and finally its legs. It stayed kneeling down on one knee toward the east, bracing itself with its arms and hands -- one on Russia and the other on China (similar to the stance runners have at the start of a race). (This Genghis Khan spirit is a spiritual type of a conquering spirit rising in the Russia/China beast to back Iran in the Middle East. When U.S. and Israel hit Iran, they were successful. However, Russia and China have defense agreements with Iran and Syria, and because of this insult, they are coming together in an arms race to fight against the U.S. along with Israel. Iran, in its hatred for Israel, is a part of this larger beast. This is a type of the factious religious beast, being a part of the larger conquering world beast in their hatred for Christianity. This is also seen in Revelation 14 where the religious beast is one with the world secular beast.) It had a human form with sharp nails on its fingers, pointed ears, and a bald head. Heaven gave it permission to raise its head and take its first breath and as it opened its mouth and drew in a large breath, some more stars (nations) were sucked into its mouth from the night sky, along with the breath it inhaled. I could see very sharp top and bottom canine teeth. (Just as the secular beast has physical power to devour the saints, so does the religious beast have spiritual power to devour the saints. Psa.37:12 The wicked plotteth against the just, And gnasheth upon him with his teeth. Psa.57:4 My soul is among lions; I lie among them that are set on fire, Even the sons of men, whose teeth are spears and arrows, And their tongue a sharp sword.) It was very black with many stars in it. (Abraham's seed are “as the stars of heaven”. Just as Russia and China are a beast that has many stars, they will seek to conquer Israel and the U.S., and many more children of God will be sucked in under this Genghis Khan spirit's darkness. The U.S. is being weakened by war, and especially by the previous administration's destruction of our economy and military. And Russia has its hands full with Ukraine. The West may not be conquered by the Russia/China beast until the tribulation, as the Word in Hidden Manna in the chapter on the “Fall of the United States” shows.) It looked like the night sky's mirror image inside it. It didn't stand up, but if it had, the Earth under its feet would have looked like a large beach ball. It was gigantic. (Genghis Khan is a world-conquering spirit of the beast in the secular realm, just as it is in the religious realm. Genghis was a merciless murderer of men like faction, and slander is a murderer of souls.) I later asked the Father for a verse for this vision of the Genghis Khan spirit and my finger fell on Eze.21:24 Therefore thus saith the Lord: Because ye have made your iniquity to be remembered, in that your transgressions are uncovered, so that in all your doings your sins do appear; because that ye are come to remembrance, ye shall be taken with the hand (Unforgiveness, bitterness, hatred and retaliation is the nature of those who have this spirit and God does not forgive or forget their sins for this reason. In verses 11 and 12 of this text, God says the sword “is upon all the princes of Israel”, meaning natural and spiritual. So the apostate leadership of God's people can be included.), 25 And thou, O deadly wounded wicked one, the prince of Israel, whose day is come, in the time of the iniquity of the end, 26 thus saith the Lord: remove the mitre, and take off the crown; this shall be no more the same; exalt that which is low, and abase that which is high. (This is clear that this spirit will conquer an apostate leadership of God's people in the end and they will be spiritually wounded and removed from their high position over any true people of God.) When I read the last part of this scripture, the Spirit brought to my remembrance what Mary said in Luk.1:51 He hath showed strength with his arm; He hath scattered the proud in the imagination of their heart. 52 He hath put down princes from their thrones, And hath exalted them of low degree. (Again, this was spoken of the removal of the apostates over the true people of God by the coming of the Man-child ministry, as the next part of the vision shows.) Right after this, I saw the upper half of a giant woman in the heavens with long blonde hair and very fair skin, cradling a newborn with golden hair in her right arm. (The worldwide woman and true Church having brought forth the Man-child ministry.) Light from heaven was shining down upon them. (I only saw her profile and the top of the newborn's head.) She was also facing east (toward the coming of the Son), looking down at her baby, her white garment lowered off her right shoulder in preparation to nurse Him. And a clear vial filled with golden oil appeared without hands and poured oil onto the infant's mouth and onto the woman's right breast. Then she brought the baby to her breast to nurse Him. (This Man-child will partake of the oil and gold of heaven -- the anointing and nature of Jesus.) I asked the Father for a verse concerning the vision of the woman, and my finger fell on Psa.128:3 Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine, In the innermost parts of thy house; Thy children like olive plants, round about thy table. This whole Psalm is awesome! (God will prosper the woman Church to bear the fruit of Jesus in the wilderness, in spite of the dragon, who is satan, of Genghis Khan trying to destroy her and her Man-child. Escaping this evil is for them a Passover of the Destroyer before leaving Egypt for the wilderness. It is the Man-child escaping the dragon, which is trying to destroy them.) These two events seem again to be happening almost simultaneously or very close together, but they are both under the Father's sovereign control! I believe the Lord said this will not be prayed down, just lessened in some areas.   Enemy Tares Tianna Fire 4/24/23 (David's notes in red) (This is a revelation about the dangers of even thinking slanderous thoughts). I had been getting many strange attacks in the spiritual; unusual thoughts and feelings and many physical attacks all at once. I didn't mention this to my husband Samuel, but I went and had a bath, wondering to the Lord why all these crazy attacks were happening. I saw a specific person, and the enemy was giving her evil thoughts regarding me; she was unknowingly agreeing with those thoughts, not realizing it was demons. This gave the demons legal right to attack me regarding the evil cursed thoughts. (Rev.12:10 And I heard a great voice in heaven, saying, Now is come the salvation, and the power, and the kingdom of our God, and the authority of his Christ: for the accuser of our brethren is cast down, who accuseth them before our God day and night.) I then had a vision of a few other people from my past, and some people who had fallen away. The enemy was giving them thoughts about me, and then the people were unknowingly speaking curses out loud against me. (Jam.3:5-12 So the tongue also is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how much wood is kindled by how small a fire! 6 And the tongue is a fire: the world of iniquity among our members is the tongue, which defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the wheel of nature, and is set on fire by hell. 7 For every kind of beasts and birds, of creeping things and things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed by mankind: 8 but the tongue can no man tame; it is a restless evil, it is full of deadly poison. 9 Therewith bless we the Lord and Father; and therewith curse we men, who are made after the likeness of God: 10 out of the same mouth cometh forth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be. 11 Doth the fountain send forth from the same opening sweet water and bitter? 12 can a fig tree, my brethren, yield olives, or a vine figs? neither can salt water yield sweet.) I was able to understand the enemy was using these people to get a legal right to attack me; hence all the crazy physical and spiritual attacks. All of this worked because God has given authority to man; what they speak, they get. (Pro.18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue; And they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.) We either bless or curse, and the consequences of man's thoughts and words are more powerful than we really understand. The Lord allowed me to see where the mental and physical attacks were all coming from. (2Co.10:5 casting down imaginations, and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ). Then I heard in my spirit that because Jesus has paid the price for us, we have the power to not accept these attacks. Even though the enemy tries to use man's thoughts and words against us, we don't have to allow the thoughts and words to affect us. (Mat.18:18-19 Verily I say unto you, What things soever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven; and what things soever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 19 Again I say unto you, that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father who is in heaven.) We are not under the curse, and we are blessed because of faith in Jesus. The attacks, the evil thoughts, evil feelings, and pains, all were put on Jesus because He paid the price to take it away. But we still have the choice to accept the curse and allow the enemy to attack us, or we can give it to Jesus, Who already took it. (Gal.3:13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us; for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree.) (Pro.26:2 As the sparrow in her wandering, as the swallow in her flying, So the curse that is causeless alighteth not.) As soon as I heard this, I agreed, and I didn't accept these curses and idle thoughts against me. I agreed that Jesus paid the price, and the attacks completely calmed; praise God and ALL Glory to the Creator of all for all eternity! (1Pe.2:24 who his own self bare our sins in his body upon the tree, that we, having died unto sins, might live unto righteousness; by whose stripes ye were healed.) Later I went to Samuel, and he had been spending alone time with God. Samuel shared a prayer he had written for me to agree with and it related to what God had revealed to me. This is the prayer: “Do you agree that all curses, idle words and all witchcraft are broken off us and all the Brethren? That anyone who isn't wanting to follow the Real Jesus will not try to contact or see us unless they are manifesting Christ, and that all of the Brethren are healed, restored, and we will have enough provisions, and everything is restored or replaced with better? That we will never be separated from each other, and that we be Godly parents to David forever to glorify God in all we do; and that we manifest His Word and Christ in us, 100-fold all the time? That we will be His vessels, used to help others be closer to the Lord, being His Hands and Feet to establish His Kingdom, and that we receive all this now?! Thank You Almighty Father in Jesus Name for doing all these according to Your Word and Promises!”

Guest: Taylor YatesHost:  Christopher KardambikisRecorded on June 12, 2026Taylor Yates is an associate therapist, astrologer, and artist exploring symbols and mythology as tools to rewire narratives. she is the creator of the tarot deck PORTALS and editor-in-chief of feminist memoir magazine Selfish. Taylor has a Master's in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University and is certified with the National Guild of Hypnotists.thatssopisces.com

"I don't know what to post" is the number one thing Erika hears — from clients, from strangers, from women who know they want to show up but freeze at the blank screen. In this episode, she breaks down exactly how to come up with content ideas at every stage, so you never have to stare at an empty screen again. Whether you're brand new and haven't posted a thing, you're posting but can't stay consistent, or you already have an offer and want your content to actually lead somewhere — there's a path for you here. In this episode: Why you don't need to be an expert to create content people find valuable The "document, don't create" approach for when you're just starting out Creating content for your younger self — and why other people find it so valuable How to use your feed as evidence of what's already working (and recreate it the right way) Using your DMs, comments, and stories to find endless ideas How to build content pillars from the life you're already living Selfish vs. selfless content — the small reframe that makes your life "interesting" How to work backwards from your offer using the bullseye method 3 plug-and-play hooks you can post today, tomorrow, or next week If you're tired of overcomplicating this, this episode is your permission slip to keep it simple and just start. Ready to build a profitable, purposeful personal brand? One spot just opened up inside Courage Driven Latina. You'll get immediate access to the full Visibility Challenge — 10 days of prompts, formats, and templates — plus trainings on content formats and creating selfless content that reaches more than your mom and user59346. Join here: www.couragedrivenlatina.com — or send Erika a DM on Instagram. Free training: How to Create Content That Gets Seen — the 3 mistakes to avoid and how to fix them → TRAINING

Send us Fan MailPeople are often kinder to others than to themselves, using harsh self-criticism to stay motivated actually increases anxiety, overwhelm, shame, and low self-worth. We discuss how the inner critic fuels stress and inadequacy, urges listeners to speak to themselves as they would to a loved one or child, and shares an example of a high-achieving woman who made amends yet stayed stuck in self-blame. Join us on the Feed Your Soul with Kim Podcast as we discuss:Why self-love con be interpreted as selfish.How you can reframe criticism with compassion AND accountability.Learn about a Self-Love Reset. 00:00 Welcome and Topic01:22 Your Inner Voice03:40 Self Love Isn't Selfish08:09 Self Love vs Self Care10:15 Compassionate Self Talk12:12 Inner Critic and Shame15:17 Accountability Without Attack18:42 Self Love Reset Steps20:27 Closing and Disclaimer Please note this podcast is not a substitute for mental health therapy or seeing your physician. Please see a qualified professional if you think you have mental health struggles.  Get your Downloadable copy of How to Choose Your Right Therapisthttps://go.feedyoursoulunlimited.com/choosetherapist-completeguide Here are some links we discussed:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/136-the-missing-pieces-of-mental-health-6-pillars/id1473042304?i=1000772847927 Connect with KimTherapy: https://feedyoursoultherapy.com/Coaching: https://feedyoursoulunlimited.com/You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTuSnNrSDhLvbhxoTMXZgog Kim McLaughlin, MAKim McLaughlin is a psychotherapist. coach, speaker, and author. She helps people who feel frustrated, overwhelmed, and overloaded, and it shows up in feeling unsatisfied in your life. She has a Master of Arts Degree in Clinical Psychology. Kim is a certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, helping people to gain peace with food. We would love to get your feedback on this show and let us know what you would like to hear about in upcoming shows. Email us at info@FeedYourSoulUnlimited.com Thank you for listening.Please be sure to leave a review for others to find us and share this podcast with a friend. Join us for more conversation at:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/feedyoursoulunlimited/@feedyoursoulunlimitedWebsite:http://feedyoursoulunlimited.com/We would love it if you would leave us a 5 star review on your favorite platform.Thanks for listening to the Feed Your Soul with Kim Podcast.

Often times, in order to create your better tomorrow, you need to take control of your situation. Tune in to learn the difference between being selfish and being greedy.

River of Life is an inter-denominational, interracial, Spirit-filled church located in the heart of Wakulla County, Florida. We share the sermons from our services in the hopes they'll reach others determined to worship God in spirit and truth.

River of Life is an inter-denominational, interracial, Spirit-filled church located in the heart of Wakulla County, Florida. We share the sermons from our services in the hopes they'll reach others determined to worship God in spirit and truth.

Philip The Artist: Philip The Artist, Corey's producer, addresses the Ghoul on his social media which leads to the reveal that HE IS A FRIEND OF THE SHOW!Birthday Bash Reveals: More truth comes to light as we have additional details on Mike's Birthday Bash experience, including going back stage!Guess The Mess: We are getting some threatening Instagram DMs, who could be sending them? If you guessed Zen Feldman? You are right!COREY FELDMAN!, SHOW STOPPER!, LET'S JUST TALK!, DON CHEADLE!, BOOGIE NIGHTS!, JIM AND THEM IS POP CULTURE!, COREY FELDMAN SHOW!, SPRAGELS!, FILTH PIG!, NO JEFF!, COREY FELDMAN PINATA!, TELL THAT LADY TO SHUT UP!, CARDS!, CLOTHES SWATCH!, RIP RISA!, SELFISH!, PHIL!, BIRTHDAY BASH!, PHILIP THE ARTIST!, STUDIO!, IG STORIES!, TELLING IT LIKE IT IS!, SMALL STATURE!, TALENT!, PHYSICAL!, MASTERCLASS!, FRIEND OF THE SHOW!, GIMME THAT ROCK AND ROLL!, STUDIO!, FRIENDSHIP ARC!, REALITY SHOWS!, MELTDOWNS!, PEDOS!, PEDO PROTECTORS!, MATTHEW!, MIKE IS BACKSTAGE!, PHIL! PLAYING WITH FIRE!, SERIAL KILLER!, ADRIEN SKYE!, GOTHSPEL!, EXCHANGE!, HANDSHAEK!, BACK TO BACK!, BUMPED INTO!, LITTLE MAN!, SECURITY!, SPOOKED!, ROB DUKES!, EXODUS!, STONE COLD STEVE AUSTIN!, BRIAN PULLMAN!, GUN!, GUESS THE MESS!, THREATS!, DIVINE BING BING!, ZEN FELDMAN!, FLUGELRODS!, BIBLE!, BOY!, BOXING!, CONTRACT!, FIGHT!, BIRTHDAY!, 22!, MANIC EPISODE!, GODSPEED!, F SLUR!, XXXTENTACION!, SUZI SPRAGUE!, COREY'S TWITTER!, TROLLING!You can find the videos from this episode at our Discord RIGHT HERE!

One of three founders of Faherty, the clothing and lifestyle brand that blends surf style with attention to top quality fabrics and social and environmental values---shaken together with eclectic beach house vibes, is Kerry Docherty. She joined two brothers in this endeavor (one of whom is her husband, Alex), from the brand's very beginning. The integrity they bring to their scrappy story is exceptional. And an inspiration. The story of Faherty brand, the story of a family business, the story of Kerry as writer, an intellectual, a feminist, an activist, a co-founder, a wife, a mother--- is told, with stunning radical honesty, in her book aptly titled ‘Selfish'. Here on Story + Rain Talks episode 178 we get into it all, including the radical connection she is experiencing through her book's readers. We get really real about motherhood. She shares great advice for founders and entrepreneurs. We discuss stepping into her new daily identity as published author, and how memoirs, inherently, are acts of betrayal. I found that her memoir, in its storytelling and detail, reads much like a novel, and I discovered, during this conversation, that Kerry does have a novel in the works. We talk about what's next at Faherty: more of their cool collabs, including more in sports. We talk about her own personal Faherty faves, which of the brand's cozy and vibey stores she loves most, and how and why their Sun + Waves café came to be. On storyandrain.com we've published the recipe for their amazing blueberry latte, check that out, and though we asked for the café's chicken recipe---they're holding that one close to the vest! Kerry shares some fantastic obsixed obsessions. Through this conversation I was so happy to get to know more of Kerry, a one-of-a-kind woman and entrepreneur, and can't wait to experience what's next from her. Discover more + Shop The Podcast:Selfish by Kerry Docherty Faherty Oceanside Fleece Oversized Hoodie in Horizon Fade ColorblockFaherty Whitewater High Pile Fleece Blanket in Whitewater Faherty + NY Knicks Tried + True Chambray Shirt Faherty + NY Knicks Tshirt Essential Faith OilDiscover the episode and more on ⁠⁠storyandrain.com⁠⁠follow ⁠⁠@storyandraintalks⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠@storyandrain⁠⁠ on Instagramfollow ⁠⁠@storyandraintalks⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠@storyandrain⁠⁠ on Threadsall about ⁠⁠the host

You love your family. You show up. You take care of people. But somewhere along the way, you started wondering if wanting something of your own makes you selfish.If you have a dream you keep putting off, a passion you feel guilty about, or a desire you can't quite shake, this episode is for you.Listen and learn about the difference between selfishness and Biblical self-care, why your family doesn't have to be your entire identity, and what God might want you to do with that calling you've been trying to dismiss.Because maybe the question isn't, “Am I being selfish?”Maybe it's, “God, why did You put this in me?”Your Next Step:Take The Biblical Self-Care Quiz to discover which area of biblical self-care God may be inviting you to tend next.Recipes Mentioned in this Episode:Mini Flourless Chocolate CakeScriptures Referenced in this Episode:Proverbs 31Let's Connect:Email: hello@p31virtues.com

00:00 Cold Open: "I String Men Along" — Her Biggest Red Flag00:53 Welcome Back: Eli, Ace & Jeuu Set It Off01:58 Meet The Guests: Juju, Lexi & Bri (And Who Came Late)04:33 America's Declining Birth Rate — Economy Or Choice?05:16 "Kids Are A Liability" — The Case Against Having Kids07:20 "I Want 3 More Kids" — Legacy, Village & Only-Child Life08:08 "I Switched My Baby Father" — The Panel Goes OFF10:03 Can You Call Another Man Your Child's Father?12:35 Passports Over Pregnancy: Why This Generation Waits15:13 The Fellas Respond: 4 Kids, Zero Regrets17:14 Are All Kids Just Selfish Reasons?20:13 Selfish To Have Kids vs Selfish Not To22:44 Japan, Korea & The Native American Warning24:12 Teen Birth Rate Down 68% — And 40-Year-Old Grandmas25:49 Holding Your Own Mother Accountable27:26 Who Actually Benefits When Nobody Has Kids?29:43 The American Dream Is Dead Without A Husband31:25 "I'd Give You A Baby" — What Changes Her Mind33:19 Doula, Chef, Maid: Her Non-Negotiables Before Kids35:04 100/100 vs 50/50 — The Partnership Math36:21 Does The Marriage Contract Need An Update?37:00 Quarter-Zips & YNs: Men Want Marriage, Women Want Outside39:03 "It's Our Turn" — Paying For The Sins Of Grandfathers41:23 Do Women Actually Give Men Peace?47:00 Why Men Are Choosing PEACE Over Relationships47:31 "Attitude For No Reason" vs "She Just Misses You"51:04 Why Are People Choosing Peace? Respect Flips53:18 Respect: Earned Or Given At 100?55:18 The 50 vs 100 Respect Scale, Broken Down58:52 When She Really Wants You, The Rules Disappear1:00:32 Chasing, Hunting & Who Shows Interest First1:01:42 Nurturing Isn't Submissive: Femininity On Trial1:03:04 "It Takes The Right Woman To Bring Out My Masculinity"1:05:15 Why She Had To Wear The Pants1:09:21 Bed-Stuy, Tomboys & Learning Femininity Again1:11:12 "I Want To Date A White Man" — Curiosity Or Payback?1:13:56 Stringing Men Along: The Red Flag She Owns1:15:07 Using Him For Resources vs Using Her For Body1:17:36 YNs, Older Women & Who's Really Getting Played1:21:12 The Tanzania Case: Do We Owe Her Sympathy?1:25:49 Preferences vs Bashing Your Own People1:29:26 Kevin Samuels & The Divestment Movement1:34:19 "Reparations Dating" — Is It Worth The Cycle?1:36:10 Was It An Accident? The 11 Missing Hours1:37:09 Most Violent In History? It Gets HEATED1:39:07 "Slavery Was An Option"? Kanye, Buck Breaking & Control1:44:37 Welfare, Crack & Breaking The Black Man1:47:48 Can We Unite If Everybody's Selfish?1:49:23 Guest Handles + OutroEnhance Your Experience with #dailyrapupcrew

Have you ever felt guilty for saying no?For many of us, being “the helpful one” becomes part of our identity. We answer every call, solve every problem, and put everyone else's needs ahead of our own—until we're exhausted.In this episode, Francesca sits down with poet and bestselling author Arielle Estoria to explore what happens when we stop believing our worth is measured by how much we sacrifice.Together, they discuss people pleasing, boundaries, transactional friendships, burnout, identity, and why self-preservation isn't selfish.If you've ever struggled to choose yourself without guilt, this conversation is for you.Connect:Arielle Estoria: arielleestoria.com Francesca Reicherter (host): francescareicherter.com

We live in a culture that has never been more focused on itself. We carry mirrors in our pockets. Algorithms show us exactly what we want to see. And somewhere along the way, the default posture of life became inward, not outward. In this message, Charlie traces that problem all the way back to the invention of the mirror and then asks what the church is supposed to do about it. He lands in two places. Jeremiah 29, where God tells his people in exile to stop waiting to go home and start building houses, planting gardens, and seeking the welfare of the city around them. And 2 Corinthians 5, where Paul says the love of Christ compels us, not our love for Christ, but his overwhelming love for us, and that love is what frees us from living for ourselves in the first place. The cross did not just buy us out of our sin. It bought us out of ourselves. And that changes everything about how we live in a culture that is constantly turning the mirror back toward us. This message is about what it looks like to be a selfless church in a world that is deeply, deeply selfish. And why the world actually needs to see that. To find out more about Oaks Chapel, visit OaksChapel.org.

"Should I Be Selfish, Dr. Laura?”- Listen to my Morning Monologue: I'm sharing my take on pressing issues, enlightening research on human behavior, answering questions I get by email, and my favorite, most instructive interactions with callers. Everything you'll hear is designed to help you become a better spouse, parent, family member, co-worker, friend, and human being. It's the free therapy you need!  Got a dilemma? Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.com Follow on social media: Facebook.com/DrLaura Instagram.com/DrLauraProgram YouTube.com/DrLaura Join the Dr. Laura Family!! >> Receive my weekly newsletter, perks, and more! Sign up now, it's FREE > DrLaura.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

TODAY'S TREASUREDo nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.Philippians 2:3-4Send us a comment!Support the show

I met Lamar Tyler, founder of Traffic Sales & Profit, a couple of years ago at a Zone of Genius conference, where I interviewed him on the main stage. It quickly became clear that Lamar, who helps business owners grow, had a lot of smart, practical advice to offer, and I've been following him ever since. He recently posted something on LinkedIn that stopped me: “Staying small as a Black business owner is selfish.” Lamar, obviously, was speaking primarily to Black entrepreneurs, but his challenge applies more broadly. His argument is that owners who have the ability to build larger companies—and create more jobs, wealth, and opportunity—should not use “protecting their peace” or “staying lean” as an excuse to remain comfortable.I understand and appreciate what Lamar is trying to accomplish. But “selfish” is a heavy word. Isn't an owner entitled to say, “I built this business to create a good life for myself and my family. Isn't that enough?” Entrepreneurship is already hard. Most businesses fail. How much more risk should we encourage owners to take—and how much responsibility should they be expected to carry? That's where Lamar and I begin this week's Dashboard conversation. The episode is brought to you by Grasshopper Bank.

You'd drive across a city at ten at night for someone you love, without a second's deliberation. Now try asking yourself for twenty minutes and watch how long that takes. This episode takes apart the belief that looking after yourself is something you have to earn, and offers a different definition entirely. Not a treat. Not an indulgence. Something much more useful, and much harder to argue with. Ready to break the cycle for good? If this episode resonated with you, there's something you need to try next…

️ Grab the FREE INFP Personality Type Tutorial → https://geekpsychology.com/infp▶️ Join a community of INFPs. Check out Evolve → http://evolve.geekpsychology.comAre INFPs actually selfish, or is Introverted Feeling (Fi) just deeply misunderstood?If you have ever been accused of being self-centered—or secretly worried that your Introverted Feeling (Fi) makes you a bad person—this video is for you. As an INFP, I have been called selfish more times than I can count. But when you look under the hood of cognitive psychology, the truth about how we make decisions looks completely different.In this video, I break down the true inner mechanics of Introverted Feeling (the "Soul") and how it pairs with Extraverted Intuition (the "Explorer") to create a powerful engine for genuine human empathy.Here is what we cover in this episode:The Fi Paradox: Why internal harmony looks like selfishness to outsiders (and why it isn't).The Empathy Simulator: How INFPs use Extraverted Intuition (Ne) to step into other people's shoes.The Golden Rule Engine: Why taking time to process internally is actually an act of service.Unconscious Fi Traps: What happens when we skip self-reflection and make choices we regret.Beyond Pure Logic: Why the "Intellect" isn't the only valid decision-making tool in life.By the end of this video, you will finally see that your self-reflection isn't selfishness, it's how you build deep, authentic empathy.If this breakdown helped give you clarity on your mind, make sure to Like the video, Subscribe to the channel, and hit the notification bell so you don't miss future cognitive function guides!Level Up Your INFP JourneyFREE 5-Day INFP Personality Type Tutorial course: https://geekpsychology.com/infpEvolve Community (access to all 6 courses and monthly workshops): http://evolve.geekpsychology.comKnow another INFP who struggles with guilt or feeling misunderstood? Share this video with them or post it on your favorite social platforms to spread the word!00:00 – The Accusation00:30 – Meet The Resonating Soul01:25 – The Explorer's Empathy Engine02:25 – Subjective, Not Selfish03:10 – The Trap of Unconscious Fi03:45 – The Intellect vs. The Soul04:40 – The Power of Personal Resonance

Is it more important to help society or to help yourself? Does the self-improvement movement do any good for the world? And which podcast episode does Stephen cling to as proof that he's doing something valuable? This episode originally aired on February 27th, 2022. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Why You Attract the Wrong Relationships | FT: Ada Gore CONNECT WITH CHARLENE On Instagram @mscharlenebyars ([https://www.instagram.com/mscharlenebyars] On YouTube @chosentraining (https://www.youtube.com/@lovestorieswithcharlenebyars)) Work with me HERE ([https://charlenebyars.com/](https://charlenebyars.com/)) CONNECT WITH ADA: On Instagaram @unfawningwithada (https://www.instagram.com/unfawningwithada//) On Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/p/UnfawningwithAda-Gore-61583811881569/ On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UnFawningWithAdaJoin the Waitlist: https://adagore.com/unstuck-waitlist Join for a Practical.Guideline to be a Self-Centred Woman : https://www.adagore.com/enroll-scw Website : https://www.adagore.com/ Self-trust coach Ada Gore joins the podcast to unpack self-abandonment, the pattern of consistently putting everyone else first while ignoring your own needs, and how it silently sabotages dating, marriage, and self-worth. Ada explains how self-abandonment shows up specifically in dating (over-planning, over-texting, doing all the emotional labor) and marriage (trying to control your partner instead of trusting them), and introduces the most powerful reframe of the episode: resentment as a messenger, not an enemy, a signal that reveals exactly where you've abandoned your own needs. Full Timestamps: 00:00 — Intro: Meet Ada Gore, Self-Trust Coach 02:00 — Ada's Story: A Decade of Single Motherhood & Painful Dating 04:00 — The Dud, the Almost Man, and the Soulmate 06:30 — The Breakthrough: "I Didn't Love Myself" 09:00 — Why We Can Only Receive the Love We Give Ourselves 11:30 — What Self-Love Actually Means: Evidence Over Affirmations 14:00 — Keeping Tiny Promises to Yourself 16:30 — The "Going Pee When You Need To" Story 19:00 — Self-Abandonment as a Protective Mechanism 21:30 — How It Shows Up in Dating: Over-Planning & Control 24:00 — How It Shows Up in Marriage: Turning Him Into a Project 26:00 — Learning to Trust Yourself to Read the Red Flags 29:00 — "Trusting Someone Else Is Never About Them — It's About You" 32:00 — Signs You're Abandoning Yourself: The Resentment Test 35:00 — Ada's Postpartum Story: The Yoga Class She Never Took 39:00 — Why Resentment Is Always About You, Not Them 41:30 — Confusing Sacrifice With Healthy Love 44:00 — Selfish vs. Selfless vs. Self-Centered (The Pendulum) 47:00 — The Self-Centered Woman Program Introduction 49:00 — Permission Exercise: Speaking Your Resentment Out Loud 52:00 — Journaling vs. Speaking: Getting the Loop Out of Your Head 54:30 — The Dishes Story: Giving From Overflow vs. Depletion 58:00 — The Pygmalion Effect in Relationships 1:00:00 — How to Set Expectations Without Lying to Yourself 1:05:00 — Where to Start If You've Abandoned Yourself for Years 1:08:30 — Advice for Single Women: Resentment in Dating 1:11:00 — Ada's Viral Reel: The #1 Red Flag Before Marriage 1:16:00 — Life After Healing: "I'm Not Lonely Anymore"1:18:00 — Where to Find Ada + The Self-Centered Woman Program 1:21:00 — Closing Thoughts The episode also covers the difference between selfish, selfless, and "self-centered" (Ada's reframed, healthy middle ground), the Pygmalion effect and how the expectations you set for your partner shape how they show up, and concrete scripts for communicating trust and boundaries without nagging or lying to yourself. This is a deeply practical conversation for any woman who feels like she's disappeared inside her own relationships.

Are you constantly pouring into your career, your family, your kids, and everyone around you, only to realize that you're always the last person on your own priority list? Between unread text messages, a never ending list of household chores, managing everyone's schedules, and all the other responsibilities that come with being a busy woman, it can feel like there's simply no time left for you. But here's the thing you have to realize… if you want to lose weight and make lasting changes to your health, you're going to have to get a little selfish with your time. In today's episode, I'm talking about why prioritizing yourself isn't selfish in the way you might think. I'm sharing what this has looked like in my own life, especially through motherhood, and why making time for your nutrition, workouts, and your own goals is something you should feel good about, not guilty about. Because you can't keep pouring from an empty cup and expect to feel your best. If you're always taking care of everyone else while putting yourself last, this episode is your reminder that you're allowed to take care of yourself, too. Book a Game Plan Consultation Call HERE Apply to be coached by Lauren in 90 Day Fit Babe Body HERE Purchase Slim Down, Eat Up HERE Join the Hot & Healthy Membership HERE To connect with Lauren, click HERE Submit your question for advice from Lauren on the show HERE Take the free Weight Loss Personality Quiz HERE Shop Our Meal Plans HERE Get Support & Personally Work With Us HERE Related Episodes:

Why Fat & Friends are Fabulous PodcastFive Primary Points of the PodcastTime is your most precious non-renewable asset.“Time affluence” isn't simply having more free time—it's feeling that you have enough time and control over how you spend it. Greater perceived time affluence is associated with higher life satisfaction, lower stress, and more positive emotions. The goal is enough time to pursue what matters, not unlimited leisure.Think with time in mind.Regularly ask yourself: “Am I spending my time wisely?” Becoming more time affluent begins with being fully present, resisting distraction and multitasking, and deliberately investing your time, talent, and resources in your physical, mental, social, and spiritual well-being.Protect your time ruthlessly and intentionally.The podcast offers seven strategies: invest wisely in yourself, respect your future self, avoid “energy vampires” and embrace “energy angels,” optimize your remaining time, say no and eliminate “life leaks,” create a to-done list, and write your future headlines—what you want to have accomplished a week, month, or year from now.Make gratitude a daily vitality practice.A 2026 multinational study of more than 10,000 people across 34 countries found that simple gratitude practices can improve subjective well-being. Practical approaches include noticing what is good, thanking someone who has made a difference, imagining life without something you value, practicing unexpected kindness, and reflecting on something greater than yourself.Gratitude may benefit both the brain and the body.The podcast highlights research linking gratitude with improved mood, healthier behaviors, lower stress and inflammation, and better cardiovascular outcomes. One controlled study found lower inflammatory markers and reduced activity in brain regions involved in threat and fear among participants practicing gratitude. The larger message: kindness is gratitude in motion—and both may enhance vitality.Bottom line: Think with time in mind and live with gratitude. Protecting how you spend your time and appreciating what—and who—makes life meaningful are two simple, actionable ways to improve vitality.Copyright, VyVerse LLC. All Rights Reserved. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit vitalityexplorers.substack.com/subscribe

Self-care isn't a spa day or a to-do list. In the HOCI model, it's one of the six core areas of healthy human functioning -- the ability to identify and tend to your own needs across four domains: physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual. In this episode we look at why self-care breaks down, what the value wound has to do with it, and why the cultural version of self-care leaves a lot of people -- especially men -- out entirely. If you've ever felt like tending to yourself was somehow selfish, this one's for you. IN THIS EPISODE The HOCI definition of self-care -- and why it's broader and more serious than the cultural version Why self-care breaks down: the value wound, codependence, and the belief that needs are selfish The four domains: physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual -- and what neglect in each one costs A direct conversation about men and self-care: what men are taught about needs, and what that costs them What self-care actually looks like for men -- practical and without the cultural baggage How self-care connects to all six HOCI principles Why giving from depletion isn't generosity -- it's a slow burn REFLECTION QUESTION In which of the four domains -- physical, emotional, relational, spiritual -- are you most depleted right now? And what is the story you tell yourself about why you don't have permission to tend to it?

We often hold ourselves back from doing that thing we want - or even need - because of the imagined harm or judgment it might induce. But maybe being a little selfish can help us develop a stronger sense of self, get us those things we need, and make life easier for others along the way. 

Joe Giglio and Hugh Douglas analyze whether Bryce Harper should prioritize rest over his personal goal of playing 162 games as his knee soreness persists. They also field heated calls regarding Jalen Hurts' history with offensive coordinators and the team's decision to sign Saquon Barkley over Derrick Henry. 02:00 - Harper's Injury Management 06:50 - Hurts' Coordinator Carousel 14:02 - Evaluating Luis Arraez 20:28 - Barkley vs Henry Debate

Send us Fan MailAnnette Scott, co-founder of Revivery in Oldsmar, joins Palm Harbor Local to make the case that sauna and cold plunge isn't a luxury — it's a practice that builds the resilience to show up better for the people around you.What You'll Learn:Why sauna and cold plunge work as "intentional stress," not passive recoveryHow Revivery's biopsychosocial model layers breathwork and community sharing onto the physical experienceWhy isolation, not just physical health, is the real problem this practice solvesWhat led Annette from corporate life to wellness entrepreneurship after a personal lossHow to try sauna and cold plunge for the first time without any pressure to "perform"Annette's a local serial entrepreneur and the co-founder of Revivery, a Westchase/Oldsmar sauna and cold plunge concept. Known for her irreverent and direct leadership style, she's an innovator and disruptor who still believes there is hope for her and her fellow Earthlings.

Dan Hurley and Tom Izzo call CBB coaches selfish! (HOUR 3) August 11th, 2026 11:00pmAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

0:00 - Davis Webb recently spoke about Bo Nix's progress heading into his 3rd season as the Broncos QB. What's next for Bo, and more importantly, the Broncos offense as a whole?12:46 - Nikola Jokic hasn't signed his extension yet. The longer he waits, the more money he can make. That's why he didn't sign last offseason, and might wait till this next offseason. Is that selfish? Should he take a team friendly discount like Jalen Bruson so the team has more money to spend?29:21 - Oh, by the way...candidates for the 2027 Pro Football HOF class have been announced. Who should make the hall?Oh, by the way...Jacob Wilson of the Las Vegas Athletics of Sacramento via Oakland, has gone 111 consecutive games without committing and error. As a SHORTSTOP! That's insane.Oh, by the way...remember when the Broncos used to do "rookie haircuts" as a form of hazing? Do you miss it? Or are you happy it's gone?

Wisdom From Above: Learning to Judge Rightly What if some of the things we think are obvious in Scripture are actually the very things we need to understand most? In this sermon, we explore what it means to rightly judge—not according to our emotions, envy, selfish ambition, or personal preferences, but according to the wisdom that comes from God. Jesus repeatedly challenged the religious leaders of His day because they knew the Law but missed the heart of the Law: love. He healed on the Sabbath, ate with sinners, touched lepers, welcomed people from every background, and confronted religious hypocrisy. His actions remind us that knowing Scripture isn't enough—we must know God's heart. James 3:13–18 gives us a powerful contrast between wisdom from above and wisdom from below. Wisdom from above is: • Pure • Peace-loving • Considerate • Full of mercy • Impartial • Sincere • Producing good fruit Wisdom from below is marked by: • Bitter envy • Selfish ambition • Disorder • Accusation • Pride • Division The challenge is to recognize when our own flesh is influencing the way we judge our spouse, family, friends, coworkers, church, and the people around us. Are we frustrated because someone isn't doing things our way? Are we bothered because someone else is receiving the recognition we wanted? Are we constantly looking for what others are doing wrong? Are we using Scripture to justify what our flesh already wants to believe? Jesus calls us to something higher. “Don't be hypercritical; use your head—and heart!—to discern what is right.” — John 7:24 MSG There is no law against love. This message challenges us to examine our hearts, crucify selfish ambition and envy, and pursue the wisdom that comes from above. Scriptures referenced: Matthew 24:1–11 2 Timothy 4:3–4 1 Corinthians 10:12 James 3:13–18 John 7 1 Samuel 18:7 Hebrews 11:31 Galatians 5:19–26 If this message speaks to you, like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. #ChristianSermon #GodlyWisdom #WisdomFromAbove #Jesus #BibleTeaching #Christianity #Faith #James3 #Galatians5 #SpiritualGrowth #GodsWord #ChristianLiving

The Tim Conway Jr Show Hour 2 (8.7) Neil Saavedra, the Fork Reporter, is with us as the Ridge Fire doubles to roughly 1,000 acres and a fire-nado about 100 feet high spins over the Grapevine, with a motorcycle crash separately jamming the 15 southbound through Victorville and Hesperia. Angel checks in later with better news — the 5 southbound has reopened in Gorman. But the heart of this hour belongs to Stefan "The Foosh." It's been exactly one year since his accident, and we go back through that day, everything since, and one more thank you to the first responders and everyone who showed up when it counted. Conway, meanwhile, faces a far less noble line of questioning: is he a selfish lover? Then Saavedra takes us to Wildfork in Encino to talk flash freezing, and why your home freezer is failing you — it's simply too slow. Freeze food fast and the water inside forms tiny ice crystals instead of big ones, so cell walls stay intact and the flavor and juice stay put. His at-home fix: spread single pieces — berries, cuts of meat — on a baking sheet so nothing touches, freeze for two to three hours, then bag them. No clumps, no mush. #RidgeFire #Grapevine #Gorman #CaliforniaWildfires #FireTornado #LATraffic #I5 #I15 #Victorville #Hesperia #LosAngeles #LANews #FirstResponders #TheForkReporter #NeilSaavedra #FlashFreezing #FoodTips #KitchenHacks #Wildfork #Encino See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dan doesn't usually sit in the interviewee's chair — but when journalist and author Allison Gilbert invited him to speak at the 92nd Street Y as part of their Connected Lives series, he said yes. What followed was one of the more wide-ranging conversations Dan has had about his own practice, his own anxieties, and why he's become convinced that inner work divorced from relationships is just selfishness dressed up as self-care. The evening also included a guided loving-kindness meditation — metta practice — that Dan led live with the audience. They talked about: Why Dan thinks the meditation world's PR problem has shifted — it's no longer "this is weird hippie stuff," it's "I get it, but I personally can't do it" The upward spiral: how taking care of your mind improves your relationships, which improves your inner weather, which improves your relationships further — and the "toilet vortex" that runs in the opposite direction Free-range mindfulness: why brushing your teeth or standing in a grocery line can rewire your brain just like formal seated practice The self-compassion toolkit — Kristin Neff's three-step practice, distanced self-talk, and why putting your hand on your heart is "cheesy as f*ck" but actually works Joseph Goldstein's single best question for breaking an anxiety loop: "Is this useful?" Why micro-interactions — with your doorman, your barista, a stranger on the elevator — are one of the most underrated sources of happiness Allison Gilbert is a journalist, author, and the creator of The Joy of Connections, a book and companion app designed to help people build more meaningful relationships. She writes and speaks about human connection, grief, and resilience. Learn more at allisongilbert.com. Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Additional Resources:  Check out Allison's new app at beingmoreconnected.com This episode is sponsored by: Notion: Learn more about how Notion can support your business, at notion.com/happier. To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris

Rob and Kelvin explain why they have a big problem with Mike Trout willingly allowing himself to toil away in obscurity as a member of the Anaheim Angels, and share their biggest takeaways from Jahmyr Gibbs’ record-setting contract extension with the Detroit Lions. Finally, the Odd Couple Crew debates workplace canoodling in this week’s edition of Shop Talk. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes what feels like good parenting is actually about making life easier for us. In this episode, we take an honest look at selfish parenting—how our own comfort, image, fears, and expectations can shape the way we raise our children, and what it looks like to parent from God's heart instead.

You are the woman everyone counts on. The one who remembers the details, fills the gaps, serves the family, and shows up when others need you.But who is caring for you?Many Christian women have learned to give generously without learning how to steward themselves well. Over time, that can leave you exhausted, overwhelmed, and wondering why something feels off even though you're doing "all the right things."In this episode, you'll discover why biblical self-care isn't about putting yourself first; it's about faithfully stewarding the whole person God created you to be. Together we'll look at the example Jesus set and explore what it means to care for your spirit, soul, body, and calling in a way that honors God.The next stepTake The Biblical Self-Care Quiz to discover which area of biblical self-care God may be inviting you to tend next.Scriptures Referenced in this EpisodeLuke 10Mark 1:35Mark 4:38John 11:35Luke 22:44John 2:1-12Luke 2:49Let's Connect:Email: hello@p31virtues.com

"I was just really in a dark place, and that's when I started Organized 365." — Lisa WoodruffThere's a stack of papers somewhere in your house you've been meaning to deal with. Maybe it's in a drawer, maybe it's a basket by the door. For Lisa Woodruff, that stack of overwhelm became the thing that changed the whole direction of her life.In this episode, Lisa Woodruff — founder of Organize 365 — joins Heather to share the honest, unscripted story of the recession, the family loss, and the years of invisible overwhelm that led her to build a company around one radical idea: your home is a business, and you're the CEO. They talk about the five levels of work happening in every household, why paper is the hardest thing to let go of, and the Sunday Basket system that's changed how thousands of women run their weeks.If you've ever felt like the mental load of running a home is quietly running you, this real life story about women, order, and starting over is for you. New episodes every Thursday on all major podcast platforms.Connect with Heather: WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInYouTubeTimestamps00:00 — Introduction — Heather welcomes Lisa Woodruff.02:17 — Lisa's path from stay-at-home mom to founding Organize 365.08:42 — The recession, her parents' divorce, and losing her dad — all at once.15:32 — The five levels of work happening in every home.24:11 — Why paper is the hardest thing to organize, and what to actually keep.31:46 — What the Sunday Basket is and how it changes your week.44:18 — Where to connect with Lisa Woodruff.About Lisa WoodruffLisa Woodruff is a productivity specialist, home organization expert, and founder and CEO of Organize 365®. After spending a decade as a stay-at-home mom, she built a company that helps women organize their homes and their paper with functional systems that actually work — including her bestselling Sunday Basket® system. Her top-rated Organize 365® Podcast has surpassed 25 million downloads, and she's the author of several Amazon bestselling books, including The Paper Solution. Lisa is in the final stages of a PhD in Psychology, where her research focuses on operationalizing the definition of housework and testing real interventions for homeowners. Her mission is to free every woman to pursue her unique passion and gift with the world.InstagramWebsite Facebook EmailSupport the show

Book Alan's Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-sessionFitness is forever, it's a lifestyle. Join the Next Level Fitness Accountability Group. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/_______________________In today's episode of Next Level University, hosts Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros clarify why pursuing meaningful goals can sometimes look selfish to the people around you. Growth requires tradeoffs. Your time, energy, attention, and availability are limited, and not everyone will understand the choices you make to build a better life.Drawing from their own experiences with changing friendships, family expectations, and building a mission-driven business, Kevin and Alan break down the difference between selfishness and self-leadership. They discuss how to set honest boundaries, communicate changing priorities, and recognize when relationships are no longer aligned with your values or direction. This episode is a grounded look at maturity, accountability, and the real cost of committing to your goals._______________________NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.Visit our website and socials through the links below.

on this episode of CD Burners, we're joined by Bailey Spinn to dive into Pierce the Veil's Selfish Machines—the album that helped redefine post-hardcore for an entire generation. We break down Vic Fuentes' poetic songwriting, Mike Green's iconic production, why every instrument on the record feels alive, and how Selfish Machines somehow sounds even more influential today than it did in 2010. Bailey also shares how Pierce the Veil became her gateway into heavy music, what it was like working with the album's producer, why the band's fans are so fiercely protective, and how songs from this era continue to find new life through a whole new generation of listeners. If you've ever wondered what makes Pierce the Veil one of the few scene bands whose legacy only keeps growing, this episode is for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So many of us spend so much time taking care of others, working and doing life while feeling like we are suffering because we barely have time to take care of ourselves. Yet we have this fear/shame/guilt about giving ourselves self-care. There is a stigma that taking care of yourself is selfish and yet so many people are burnt out because they think we are supposed to always be on the grind or hussle.

So many of us spend so much time taking care of others, working and doing life while feeling like we are suffering because we barely have time to take care of ourselves. Yet we have this fear/shame/guilt about giving ourselves self-care. There is a stigma that taking care of yourself is selfish and yet so many people are burnt out because they think we are supposed to always be on the grind or hussle.

"If you're the caretaker of someone in any way, it will also take a toll on you. And it's okay to then say, I need someone else to help me while I help this person."— Amelia CastilloThere's a version of self-care we've all been sold — bubble baths, candles, a glass of wine we didn't even want. And then there's the real thing, the kind that shows up quietly in your skin when nobody's watching.Amelia Castillo is a Sonoma County esthetician with 17 years of experience, and in this episode she shares the honest story of what happened to her own skin when her best friend was diagnosed with stage four breast cancer. We talk about the nervous system, perimenopause and hormones, why women carry so much guilt around self-care, and what it really costs to hold someone else's hand through the hardest moment of their life.If you've ever felt like your body was trying to tell you something, or you've been the strong one for someone else while quietly falling apart, this conversation is for you. New episodes every Thursday on all major podcast platforms.Connect with Heather: WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInYouTubeTimestamps00:00 — Introduction — Heather welcomes Amelia Castillo.01:49 — Amelia's 17 years as an esthetician and how her approach has evolved.04:05 — The nervous system, the skin, and why it gets overlooked.08:17 — Redefining self-care beyond bubble baths and wine.23:29 — Caring for her best friend through stage four breast cancer.19:41 — Perimenopause, sleep, and the evening routine that changes everything.47:26 — Where to connect with Amelia. About Amelia CastilloAmelia Castillo is a wife, mom, esthetician, and Integrative Nutrition Health Coach with nearly two decades of experience. As the owner of Bare Skin Beauty, she is passionate about helping women feel confident in their skin through a blend of science, wellness, and real life sustainability.WebsiteInstagramYouTubeFacebookSupport the show

Why can taking PTO, stepping away during the holidays, leaving on time, or protecting even one hour for yourself feel like letting down your team or the people you love? This week, Dr. Ernie Ward and Beckie Mossor, MPA, RVT, unpack the guilt veterinary professionals often carry when they step away from the clinic. Their message is simple: feeling guilty is not the same as being selfish, and discomfort does not mean a boundary is wrong. Beckie reflects on her own evolution from a “baby technician” who felt she had something to prove to someone who learned that rest and boundaries are worth the initial discomfort. As she reminds listeners, “You can't expect that free time to just come.” Even five, ten, or fifteen protected minutes can be a meaningful place to begin, and, after taking that time, “you do come back better.” Ernie shares the lesson that has guided him through decades in veterinary medicine: “If I were trying to protect my time to improve my overall health, that was not selfish. It was essential.” In fact, he makes a strong case for how protecting your well-being can help you better support your family, coworkers, clients, and patients over the long term. Our hosts also challenge practice owners, managers, medical directors, and teammates to examine the culture surrounding PTO and self-care. Comments like “must be nice” or “I wish I could do that” can turn time spent on personal growth into shame. Thoughtful scheduling, appropriate coverage, and genuine encouragement can make healthy boundaries possible, and business leaders must lead by example. They also point out that self-care is not limited to vacations or spa days. It may be a walk, a workout, a chapter of a book, a few quiet minutes, or meaningful time with the people you love. The goal is not perfect balance. It is returning with more energy, patience, and perspective, and building a veterinary career that leaves room for a life beyond the clinic. #VetMed #VetTechLife #VeterinaryWellbeing #PracticeManagement #WorkLifeBalance

Today's episode is a clip from our 8-week program, Glow Formula Level 1. If you ever feel judged... it's because you feel like you're being accused of being something you're not. Not smart enough. Not a good enough communicator. A bad friend. Not magnetic. And if others accuse you of that, it's because of this secret thing your Creator Field is broadcasting. And best news? You can shift it NOW.Join the newsletter + get a FREE 45-min masterclass recording from Allie!The masterclass “How Unconditional Love For Yourself Creates the Ultimate Hot Girl + Magnetic Energy" will be sent to your email immediately after joining!https://www.alexandraninfo.com/FOLLOW MEInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexandraninfo TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandraninfo You Can Also Listen to Unf*ck Yourself Podcast HereSite - https://www.alexandraninfo.com/podcast Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-yourself/id1647393740Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4OfhtVIbV73xuSrZ2MnXKZ?si=f3fabaa47ca4482eYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AlexandraNinfo

Send us Fan MailThe biggest lie you can tell yourself is that someone else is responsible for your life.Your environment matters. The people around you matter. But at the end of the day, you're the one making the decisions.In this episode, we break down what it really means to be "self-made," why your circle shapes your future, how guilt keeps people trapped, and why taking ownership is the first step toward freedom.If your life stayed exactly the same for the next five years, who would be responsible?Accountability is leverage.#AnthonyAmen #AccountabilityIsLeverage #Mindset #Leadership #PersonalGrowthSupport the showLearn More at: www.Redefine-Fitness.com

Have you ever felt guilty for doing something that brings you joy? What if choosing joy isn't selfish—but one of the ways Jesus invites you to receive His kindness and care for your heart?In this episode, Bonnie shares a touching story of an unexpected act of kindness from a stranger that transformed her understanding of soul care. Discover the surprising science behind joy, why it matters for your brain, body, and soul, and one simple practice that can help you receive God's love and experience greater emotional and spiritual wellness.Key Takeaways– What is "default guilt" & How it affects your wellness– Why choosing joy isn't selfish—and why your brain, body, and soul need it.– The science of "anticipatory joy" to calm your nervous system and supports emotional wellness– The surprising connection between receiving kindness and deeper soul healing– A simple practice to help you let go of guilt and choose joy this weekBreath Prayer
Inhale: God takes great delight in meExhale: He will rejoice over me with singingScripture
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If you're a mom who always ends up last on your own list, this one's for you. Jamira Pollard breaks down why putting yourself first isn't selfish — it's the foundation that lets you show up for everyone else. This clip is full of practical, no-cost ways to practice self-care for mothers: reading for fun, borrowing free library audiobooks, taking five quiet minutes before the day gets away from you. It's a simple but powerful reminder that self-compassion and daily habits — not big grand gestures — are what actually move the needle on how to feel happier. If you're working on personal growth and development or trying to build sustainable self-improvement into a busy life, this is the mindset shift to start with. Listen to the full episode here: https://www.aboutprogress.com/blog/stop-chasing-balance-and-learn-to-live-a-well-rounded-life-you-love⁠Preorder Sticky Habits ⁠book today! ⁠Leave a rating and review⁠ Get the free DSL Training. Follow About Progress on ⁠YOUTUBE⁠! Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices