DEADASS

On the much awaited season finale the girls decide to get nostalgic and reminisce on their former love affairs. The episode has everything, from bold confessions to harrowing heartbreak. As your exam finals come to an end and you’re looking to kill some time over the holidays join your podcast besties in a juicy conversation on love, romance and everything in between. And when you finish this episode, go through the season again, cause you know these girls love their long breaks between seasons. ****ELIMINATION OF RESIDENTIAL SCHOOLS FROM ELEMENTARY CURRICULUM INFO*** Petitions and telephone/email templates found at: https://linktr.ee/albertastudentonlineprotest Stay informed with: https://instagram.com/albertastudentcurriculum?igshid=5508arvrssv6

“Hey God, Been a Minute” As season 2 comes close to an end, Mercy and Lydia bring back guest extraordinaire, Abel and invite local comedian Neb to discuss all things faith. The group tackles the question “Why is it hard to stay consistent with God?” and get to the bottom of their personal roadblocks. When trying to understanding why you feel spiritually stuck and identifying how to push past the relapses, it can be helpful to talk it out with a friend. So tune into this episode and join the conversation. You’re lin good company.

On this week's dose of DEADASS existentialism, the girls and their guest (the ridiculously nice) Fatme share their views on the concept of satisfaction. "Is it possible to ever be satisfied in life?" and "Do our high expectations set us up for disappointment?" are just a couple of questions tackled in this episodes as the trio discuss the impending quarter-life crisis that awaits new graduates. Lydia brings the pessimism, Mercy brings the rationality and Fatme brings the sunshine and insight. What more could you want from your favourite amateur podcast? P.S The real ones will listen to WHOLE episode for some bonus content ***ETHIOPIAN EMERGENCY INFO Donate to: Donate@ethiocanadians.org Stay informed with: https://instagram.com/jp4ethiopia?igshid=rw66p4b2jrlz

On this week's episode, Mercy and Lydia alongside their guest Danny tackle the question "Is vulnerability a beautiful thing or a dangerous thing?" The trio peel back all the layers, sharing their thoughts on the difference between honesty and vulnerability, when and to whom should you open up to and if it's possible to maintain meaningful connections without opening up. Whether you're that friend who never opens up or never shuts up this episode is for you, so get in your feels and have a listen.

In the final episode of the Immigrant Parent - Child Dynamic series, Mercy and Lydia finish their conversation with Rome and it does not disappoint. The girls asks questions every minority child has thought at some point like: "do you know how much pressure you put on us??" and "how come you've never used our names and the word "proud" in the same sentence???" Rome answers truthfully with a wee bit of shade that is all too familiar. The girls and their guest share how they feel children and their parents are to reconcile the past and move forward, hopeful that this episode and the other parts of the series play a part. If you haven't listen to the other three episodes in the series be sure to check them out and then listened to them again. Emotional unpacking is advised*** Part 1: "They Tried Their Best" (S2. ep. 5) // Part 2: "Half Child for Life" (S2. ep 6) // Part 3: "Y'all Are Loosey Goosey" (S2. ep 8)

Mercy and Lydia are back with the “Immigrant Parent/Child Dynamic” series, this time with special guest, drum roll please.... Lydia’s mom!!! Tune in to listen to Rome’s honest and hilarious take on what it means to uproot one’s life for the sake of their kids. The hosts and their guest explore all the experiences that shape a parent’s expectations, aspirations and fears when it comes to raising their children. If your parents were never pleased with a grade lower than an A+ this episode is for you. Better yet, have a listen with your parents for a delightful rehashing of childhood trauma.

This episode is dedicated to George Floyd (October 14, 1973 – May 25, 2020), Breonna Taylor (June 5 1993 - March 13 2020) and to many others.  

Following up from the last episode, Mercy, Lydia and Sam continue with their second generation discussion and get oh so personal. The group share their personal highs and lows with their parents. While the group doesn’t sugarcoat the identity crisis they all endured or the challenges of finding their voice they also take time to break down the upside of being raised by immigrant parents. You may laugh or cry, so grab a Kleenex and have a listen.

From live audience to featured guest, Sam Teka has moved up on DEADASS and drops a lot of knowledge on this week’s episode. The trio tackle the question “How has having immigrants parents shaped you?” and you may find that the conversation hits close to home. Part 1 touches on a lot from growing up in two worlds, second generation guilt and the road to gratitude and compassion for our parents. Tune in with your friends or your parents and watch out for part 2.

On this week’s episode, Mercy, Lydia, Yoni and Sam Meko delve into the misconceptions of serving in ministry. “Is serving in the Church necessary for Christians?” and “What does it look like to walk away from ministry?” are just a couple of questions the group tackle as they talk on the often sugarcoated topic. The crew gets real, confessing their ups and downs with Church responsibilities and share how they’ve come to define servitude. If you don’t care about any of this, tune in to listen to why Sam Meko had to quit his job. You won’t regret it.

On part 2 of the “how do you monitor your self growth?” conversation, the girls continue to discuss the ins and outs of introspectiveness and can’t help but take the conversation to church. The hosts and guests break down the role spirituality plays when it comes to deciding to change and following through with it. This episode will have you shout “PREACH IT PREACHER,” if you’re Christian and might have you think twice even if you’re not. So what are you waiting for? Hit that play button.

“How do you monitor self-growth?” is the question tackled on this week’s instalment of DEADASS. In a time when everyone and their mama posts self-empowering captions and “woke” quotes, the hosts, alongside guests Christine and Fifi breakdown what self-accountability really looks like. The benefits, potential pitfalls and everything in between. Whether your in denial about your flaws or a little too aware, you’re gonna want to have a listen.

Throwing it back to season 1, the girls drop part 2 of the “She grown now” episode featuring the insightful Elisa. In this episode the girls continue with their healthy boundaries conversation, focusing on what that looks like within a friendship, getting especially rowdy when discussing the age-old question, ‘Can guys and girls be just friends?’ What the episode lacks in length it makes up for in laughs so quit playing and click PLAY.

Bruised egos, betrayal and self-confidence are the central themes of this week’s episode as it revolves around the interesting question, “What’s worst, not being able to trust others or trust yourself?” Lyds and Merc are joined by the adorable and wildly wise Berhanu (Kebede??) brothers Joseph and David and thank God for that. As the group discusses trust issues and the importance of trusting your gut, we soon discover who’s still butt hurt over petty drama and who has developed the skills to navigate adult friendships maturely. Tune in to laugh at the hosts’ expense and to learn the Berhanu (Kebede??) way of forgiveness.

DEADASS takes on Calgary in the season’s first, guest starred episode. Joel the Superfan and Ebe the Notorious Critic join the girls to discuss the relationship between how we talk and how we relate to God and people. The kids talk about swearing, gossiping and roast culture, exploring why people are more acceptable of the latter and uncomfortable with the former. Ebe drops big words and memorable quotes, Joel asks the important questions and the girls hum and nod so make sure to have a pen and paper when you tune in. Also if you need more Ebe in your life be sure to subscribe to his YouTube channel at Ebenezer Belayneh.

After what feels like a year long hiatus, your favourite dysfunctional duo is back with all the sarcasm and mediocrity of the first season. As a follow up of the last season's finale, in this episode the girls finish the never ending conversation of how they became friends. As per usual, it's filled with laughing fits, incoherent sentences and a reasonable amount of tension. Stay tuned for the rest of season 2 and if you're new to the DEADASS family check out season 1.  

On this week's episode, Lyds and Merc close out season 1 by answering the question everyone wants answered: how did they become friends? *hint hint* they don't really know themselves. Make sure to listen as both girls give their side to the story of how this great friendship began including the part when they swerved each other for 3 years! Lastly, it's the last episode of the season so listen as the girls shoutout of their exec team who helped make DEADASS what it was. And if you're looking to for bomb new job, they're hiring new exec team members for Season 2! Make sure to email DEADASS@gmail.com and enjoy the fruits of a job with zero pay and benefits!!

On this week’s episode Mercy and Lydia are joined by Elisa and tackle the slippery slope known as “setting healthy boundaries”. In part 1 of a 3 part series, the girls focus on the parent-child dynamic and what it means to balance parental expectations with personal needs for freedom. Are you ever seen as adult by your parents? How do you know it’s time to move out? These are just a couple of questions tackled in this episode and trust, you’re not gonna wanna miss out. *Part 2 and 3 dropping next season. For all you true DEADASS fans, don’t stress, the wait will be worth it :)

On this week’s instalment of DEADASS, Lydia and Mercy are accompanied by the bromance that is Nate and Marco. The question at hand is “At what point do you let a friendship go?” and the discussion is more divided than ever. In spite of the boys’ random giggle breaks, the conversation prevails and is even funny at a couple of points. On a real note though, they drop some pointers on how to decide if the friendship is worth fighting for. The hosts and their guests may or may not be friends by the end of the episode. Have a listen to find out.

On this week's (less emo) episode, the girls are back with part 2 of the university experience discussion and are singing a different tune. This time around, they explore the upsides to post-secondary and explore how pushing through to the finish line benefited them. Whether you've graduated or not you're gonna wanna listen. And if you don't care about uni, Mercy talks about her toes and Lydia whines about her high school experience  so there's something for everyone. Oh also, #natiwedsadaim. 

This week’s episode is Mercy and Lydia in their their feels for 37 mins. In part 1 of their likkle university series, the girls talk about the downsides of university and warn listeners on all the ways university can do you dirty. The girls be on a different energy this episode as they try to laugh through their painful memories but stay tuned for part 2 where they discuss the ups. For now, listen to part 1 and find out which one of these gals committed the worst uni crime of getting an F, DUN DUN DUN....

"Where do you draw the line between letting go and giving up?" is the question of the day on this week's episode as Mercy, Lydia, Abel and Abigail explore the good and bad that comes with persevering through something. The crew covers everything from work to jobs to ministry as they attempt to argue why quitting isn't always a bad thing. They almost convince Lydia but not quite. Have a listen if you're skeptical and check out Abigail's youtube channel if you're real at AbbieandFifi.

The sexual harassment/sexual assault conversation continues on DEADASS as the girls charge forward with their personal experiences. On part 2, the stories cover problematic bar/club interactions and guys taking great lengths for the sake of getting their numbers. The episode urges everyone to be empathic listeners and not tolerate concerning behaviour when they see it. If you’re not sure how you can help address the issue, you can start by pressing play in 3,2,1...

On this week’s episode Mercy, Lydia and friends Ruth and Hanna don’t hold back on the very important discussion of sexual harassment/sexual assault. Straying away from the typical debate format, the girls and their guests share their personal experiences with stalkers, predators and discuss how to approach this conversation with empathy. You for sure don’t wanna miss out on this episode or part 2 coming soon.

On this week’s episode, Mercy and Lydia make the bold decision of not having any guests. Don’t worry though, it’s not as boring as you’d think. The question at hand is “Where are you at with your faith right now and why?” and the answers are anything but superficial. Hit play to hear the girls evaluate the complications and revelations that come with pursuing a relationship with God in your 20s.

"If you think you're unattractive does that mean you're insecure?" is the question of the day on this week's episode, and Mercy and Lydia can't seem to see eye to eye. Joined by friends Lynn and Winta, the girls tackle everything from how to define confidence to why "gassing" your friends can be problematic. Whether you're a 5 or 10, you're not gonna want to miss this brutally honest and heated convo.

The girls are back with the follow up episode that nobody asked for. On part two of the social media discussion, Mercy and the trio of Lydias zero in on the different types of people on insta, from those who post testimonies and those who like the mute and unfollow button a little too much. In the midst of the giggle fests and overlapping discussion, the girls actually dropped some wisdom. You just might have to re-listen to the episode a couple of times to catch it all. And maybe after you re-listen, you can also check out Lydia Woya's cool and hip youtube channel at LifewithLydia.

On this week's episode, Mercy and Lydia chat about all things social media with pals Lydia and Lydia. Yeahhh, the Habesha community really needs to expand their name registry. Anywho, on part one of this discussion, the girls reminisce the good ol' tumblr days, express their grievances about snapchat streaks and tackle how these apps and others have changed the way we connect with each other. This episode is perfect to listen to while you're scrolling through your feed or responding to dms from your multiple suitors. Don't snap and drive and stay tuned for part two.

On this week’s episode, Mercy and Lydia, alongside friends Marco and Abel, talk about if actions speak louder than intentions. What starts as a chill conversation about being understanding turns into a podcast soap opera as the gang start sharing stories about times when giving the benefit of the doubt wasn’t so easy. It’s wild. Tune in to hear their thoughts on people who "screen", people who flip out and people who interrupt a podcast recording for a potty break.

On the pilot of this new podcast, we get to listen to the hosts Mercy and Lydia ramble for almost 10 minutes. But it's like a cute rambling. And it's juicy, cause it turns out one of them is taken *gasp*. Also, they get really soft and talk about how it takes a village to raise a podcast. So yeah.