Touching Lives With TsuwaT

The secret is in the change. The answer to your prayer, is in you changing. 2021 is a year that will demand change from many, if it's to give them what they really want.

In this piece I talk about seeing the pains in others from a totally different perspective, that of domestic violence.

Choices, determined our present, and they'll determine our future. While we have free will and a God given right to choose as we wish, many people rely on others when it comes to choices even if the person doesn't "get it". What we do in the moment, those choices make us or mar us, and that's what I'm talking about in this episode.

Self-awareness is critical to winning, and it's critical to staying on top. 60 seconds of value....

Watching what we eat and when we eat is a must to stay healthy, and for quite a few, lose weight.

Many people show up but they don't make an impact. In many offices people do 9 to 5 but they do only the minimum and add negligible amounts of value. If you want to recognised, promoted or rewarded, you can't be part of this crowd who just show up, rather you need to add value and make an impact.

We all know life is a journey but how many of us are enjoying the train ride irrespective of the breakdowns or stops along the way? Many are complaining and tired because of the length of the journey and the frequent stops, especially COVID-19 forgetting that's transient. In this episode I talk about how beautiful destinations make journeys just as beautiful and exciting if we don't get bogged down in the moment but keep the destination in mind.

There is a similarity between improving in your life and improving in your you Christianity. The line between both is your ability to discover yourself, your worth, and your potential. When you do, you become more effective and essentially you add value to other people, you bless other people and life becomes much more meaningful as you truly become a blessing to people.

Insecurities limit us. They create anxiety in our hearts and minds which can be overwhelming and for some people, it comes likes a flood. Others say to themselves, "no I can't". Why? That insecurity has led to a lack of confidence. Insecurities are not ghosts that haunt us. They are rooted in visible and traceable life events that were traumatic, and till date, have not been resolved. In this episode I address four types of insecurities. I hope this helps you or someone you love.

There are people who compare you with other people; they don't see you for who you are. These people put you in a Box and give you advice based on everybody else in that Box but not based on your context. Here's the thing, you are not like everybody else in that Box, you're different, you are unique. There are over 7 billion of us on this planet but you, you are unique.

The last BIISness Chat was really power packed and undoubtedly, the best so far. The topic was Making Money In These Times and the goal was and still is to help business owners and entrepreneurs to win and thrive even in these times. I share some of the thoughts here - you may get more via this article “Making Money In These Times — Tips from the BIISness Chat session.” by Tsuwa Thompson https://link.medium.com/rVyOzOcHo7

One of the biggest reasons success will elude many in my opinion, is this, they'll chase somebody else's idea of success and never define what success is to themselves. I ask, how can one be successful living another person's dream when you are not them and don't have the passion and potential to become their picture of success? Listen to me for 12 minutes and make up your mind.

Processes are great because they are systems that guarantee replicable results if the processes are well designed. So in a sense, processes create structure, a pattern that people follow over and over again and at the end, get desired impact. But how does all this fit into purpose? I address this in this episode. Also check out the Medium post for more - “Purpose versus Process.” by Tsuwa Thompson https://link.medium.com/Bd6tpOoWL6

Merit attracts praise. Merit gets you patronage. Merit ensures continuous profit. But... Merit demands a release of your potential. And know... Merit chased after, means mediocrity abandoned. Merit. In this episode I talk about Merit.

Without knowing someone on a deeper level, we don't value them, and we don't respect them. Without relating with someone or using a thing in a way that allows them to touch our lives, maybe through meaningful advice, we don't value them and by extension, we don't respect them. Respect can't be forced but it won't exist where there's no deep connection between two people that allows them see their worth and value, which is worth respecting. Please listen and share this.

Today's podcast episode is all about My Space, My Time. Till we take control of our space and time, we won't be able to achieve better results and make significant strides towards our goals and fulfillment of our dreams. I share 3 simple things we must do but the path they put on us is demanding and hard. The second aspect involves managing relationships' expectations vis-a-vis your need for space to evolve into who you want to be. This will be challenging for 99% of us. Let me know your thoughts on My Space, My Time.

On any normal day, many people are found doing what they don't love. Jack has to work as an accountant despite the fact that music is his first love. Yet Jack knows music won't put food on the table, at least not immediately so he must do the 9 to 5 job, no matter how distasteful till he launches his music career. In this episode I talk about how Jack and others like Jack may excel at the 9 to 5 job so they are recognised, achieve short term goals including happiness and hopefully attain the financial footing to start what they love, through what they don't love.

When you get enveloped in good things, great activities and relationships that make you better and impact others positively, you have found positive addictions. In this piece I share some thoughts on this.

Hello I would love to talk to you about anxiety. At the heart of it anxiety is fear; fear that something bad is going to happen to you or somebody that you love. Anxiety levels have peaked right now because of the Coronavirus pandemic. I appreciate why people anxious but we can beat the anxiety so that we are in the right frame of mind mentally, the right state of heart emotionally to win in these times and beyond these times. I hope you find this to be meaningful. Take care.

Confidence is largely driven by one's mindset. In this episode I talk about the three aspects of the Confidence Mindset. Simply put, "I Can", "Willing To Try", and "Ready To Learn". I hope this helps you.

Many struggle with #Confidence, and often alone, to a point where depression sinks in damping the joy in relationships and weakening their success on the job. But this should not be the end of anyone's story. In this episode I speak about Confidence- I hope it helps you and do share with someone who needs to be spurred on.