Truly Equal: A Christian Egalitarian Approach to Marriage

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Truly Equal is a podcast that provides a fresh perspective on marriage. Kyle and Christi tell stories about their lives, talk about how marriage is like a love song, and give practical solutions to the problems they've encountered over the past few years.

Kyle and Christi Playford


    • Aug 1, 2018 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 27m AVG DURATION
    • 22 EPISODES


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    022: The Melody of Marriage—Apology, Part 02

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2018 20:25


    The 4 parts of the apology process are: acknowledgement of the offense, the explanation, various attitudes and behaviors including humility and sincerity, and reparations. We discuss each of these parts in detail, with examples from our marriage. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmail.com

    021: The Melody of Marriage—Apology, Part 01

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2018 22:30


    There are many things that warrant an apology including: words, tones, and actions. Kyle and I discuss the obvious things that require an apology, and the not-so-obvious ones.If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmail.com

    020: The Melody of Marriage— Conflict, Part 02

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2018 29:36


    How to talk when you are having a conflict is important. We discuss four parts of healthy conflict that form a reference point for communicating well: need, problem, cause, and solution. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmailcom.

    019: The Melody of Marriage—Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2018 23:57


    We’re entering the Melody section which focuses on conflict, apology, forgiveness, and growth. Today Kyle and I talk about how we can deny, suppress, or accept conflict.If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmail.com

    018: The Timbre of Marriage—Context, Part 03

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2018 27:23


    Culture is an important factor that each person brings to a marriage. Today we discuss our different childhood surroundings, and why they make us work so well together. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmailcom.

    017: The Timbre of Marriage—Context, Part 02

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2018 28:55


    This episode continues our discussion of context within marriage. Today we'll look at how religion plays an important role in our marriage, and how each of our unique backgrounds have impacted us. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmailcom.

    016: The Timbre of Marriage—Context, Part 01

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2018 32:10


    This episode discusses context within marriage. We talk about our family background, which includes parents and siblings, rules and chores, and traditions. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmailcom.

    015: The Timbre of Marriage—Personality, Part 03

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2018 30:14


    This episode continues our discussion on personality, specifically as it relates to the Enneagram. In this third part, Kyle interviews me to get an in-depth look at the Enneagram Four. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmailcom.

    014: The Timbre of Marriage—Personality, Part 02

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2018 32:55


    This episode continues our discussion on personality, specifically as it relates to the Enneagram. In this second part, I interview Kyle to get an in-depth look at the Enneagram Three. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmailcom.

    013: The Timbre of Marriage—Personality, Part 01

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2018 24:22


    This episode focuses on the topic of personality, which is under the Timbre section of our “Marriage as a Love Song” series. In this first part, we give an overview of the Enneagram personality typing system. We provide a brief description of each number on the Enneagram, and we talk about each number’s deadly sin. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmailcom.

    012: The Timbre of Marriage—Spiritual Gifts

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2018 29:58


    This episode focuses on the topic of spiritual gifts, which is under the Timbre section of our “Marriage as a Love Song” series. We each identify our top two spiritual gifts, define those gifts, and give examples of how they play out in our marriage. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmail.com.

    011: The Rhythm of Marriage—Vulnerability, Part 03

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2018 25:53


    In today’s episode, we’ll conclude our discussion on vulnerability by taking a look at the physical or embodied part of it. We’ll explore how kneeling, dancing, crying, and physical touch are all examples of embodied vulnerability. Of course, we’ll also give examples from our own lives relating to these topics. If you have any thoughts or questions about this episode, please email us at trulyequalpodcast@gmail.com.

    010: The Rhythm of Marriage—Vulnerability, Part 02

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2018 26:18


    In this episode, we will be continuing our discussion on vulnerability by taking a look at the emotional aspect of it. We’ll talk about how our culture has set different expectations on men and women regarding this topic, and we’ll address the need to identify all feelings as acceptable.

    009: The Rhythm of Marriage—Vulnerability, Part 01

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2018 27:08


    In this episode, we will be moving into the topic of vulnerability within the rhythm section of our “Marriage as a Love Song” series. This will be the first of a three-part series on vulnerability. We’ll start by defining what vulnerability is, and then provide an overview of spiritual, emotional, and physical/embodied vulnerability. We’ll then dive more in-depth into spiritual vulnerability, and give some examples of how that’s played out in our lives.

    008: The Rhythm of Marriage—Commitment, Part 02

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2018 26:38


    In today’s episode, we’ll be discussing the topic of divorce. We’ll use a concept cluster to talk about our initial feelings and thoughts surrounding divorce, and we’ll also hit on a few pros and cons regarding the topic. Additionally, we’ll talk about some of the dangers in saying, “Divorce is not an option.”

    007: The Rhythm of Marriage—Commitment, Part 01

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2018 29:00


    In today’s episode, we’ll be diving into the topic of commitment—the second component of the rhythm section. We’ll talk about God’s commitment to us, our commitment to each other, and the joy of commitment. We’ll read our vows to each other and give examples of how we’ve both succeeded and also failed in keeping them.

    006: The Rhythm of Marriage—Love, Part 02

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2018 25:50


    In this episode, we will continue our discussion on love. Kyle will start off by reading a story, and then we’ll discuss the different components of loving God, loving ourselves, and loving others.

    005: The Rhythm of Marriage—Love, Part 01

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2018 25:49


    In this episode, we will be discussing the common question, “Is love a feeling or a choice?” We’ll talk about different levels of emotions, how choices and feelings work together, and give examples of love based on our own experiences.

    004: Decision Making in an Egalitarian Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2018 33:35


    In today’s episode, we’ll be addressing the common question, “If you are both leaders in your marriage, how do you make difficult decisions?” We will share a few examples from our lives describing how we’ve tackled tough decisions as Egalitarians. And finally, we’ll share a contrasting example of how we previously made a decision with a Complementarian mindset.

    003: What is Egalitarianism?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2018 27:32


    In today’s episode, we’ll be tackling the topic of Egalitarianism. We will provide a definition of Egalitarianism, contrast it with Complementarianism (the primary opposing view), and share some stories of how these two worldviews have impacted our lives.

    002: Introduction, Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2018 30:58


    Welcome back to the Truly Equal podcast! In this episode, we’ll be sharing an overview of our story. We’ll talk about how we first met, Christi’s desire to be “just friends,” how we eventually started dating, the big proposal, and our lovely wedding.

    001: Introduction, Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2018 19:46


    Welcome! This is our first podcast ever, and we are so excited you've decided to listen! In this episode, we'll be talking about who this podcast is best suited for, why we decided to start it in the first place, and what you can expect out of future episodes.

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