We Just Out Here

Since we didn't tackle an episode on Mother's Day, we decided to come through this week and talk about Mother's Day. Specifically, the relationships between mothers and daughters, the ones that aren't always social media worthy. The ones that take a little more work. Or not. The ones that don't necessarily get the limelight during the holiday. We go there and get the jewels. And we share them with y'all. So grab some ice cream or some wine. Settle in. And get your chuckles in with us. Don't forget to hit us up on Facebook and IG, and send us your feedback at wejustouthere2@gmail.com. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

TRIGGER WARNING: Menstruation, Surgery, Death, Abuse. This week's episode had both of us breathing through and revealing truths. We're talking about being in community, with each other and with our bodies. How it is we build and maintain a village, what stops us, how Spirit will often run interference, and what it all means. Then we talk about living in a Black cisgendered female body. What happens when the cycle comes? What about babies? What about infertility? We get into it. As always, please feel free to hit that donate button, send us an email, or follow us on social media. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This week's episode is dedicated to Ma'Khia Bryant, Kira Johnson, Latasha Harlins, and all the other Black Women and girls who died just being Black women and girls. We're back from our hiatus and really just need to get some stuff off our chests. If you would like to join this discussion, come join our facebook group or follow us on social media. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In the Season 2 Finale, Nikki B. and J. Hy. break down their experiences with the church, patriarchy, and what it means to get free. We really appreciate you all for listening and ask that you send your feedback to wejustouthere2@gmail.com. Have a great week, we'll see you next season! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In this week's episode, Nikki B. & J. Hy. talk about religion and spirituality. Of course we talk about our experiences with the church, patriarchy, and church folks. But this is part one, so there's definitely more coming. Don't forget to subscribe and share. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

No intro this week, we got straight to it. Inspired by the backlash Chloe Bailey received for doing the Bussit Challenge, Nikki B. and J. Hy. talk about haters, specifically, Black women tearing each other down. Where does it come from? What does it look like? Why is it so bad? Now, this isn't an all inclusive episode, just two Black women talking off the cuff and candid, but if you want to join the conversation, follow them on their social media. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This week's episode kind of piggy backs off of the negative self talk episode. Nikki B. and J. Hy. talk about why and how self-abuse rears its ugly head. We also look at the red flags that pop up when you don't do right by you, and how to fix things so you and your star player can get it right. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

Not like that, but yeah, like that. This week your two favorite homegirls are talking Negative self talk. It's a spicy episode full of breakthroughs and the real talk you've come to love. We would say listen with your daughters, but...language. So listen and share what you learn with those you love. Don't forget to follow us on social media so you can join the conversation. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

Whew. In this episode, Nikki B. and J. Hy talk about letting it go. Whatever the it is in your experience. A bad relationship, a friendship, a habit. If it's no longer bringing you good energy, let it go. If you haven't listened to the Enough is Enough episode, this is the part two. The thing about this show is we're real friends, so when J. Hy snatches Nikki's whole scalp, it's definitely real and from a place of love and support. Buckle up cupcakes, we're letting it go. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

First episode of 2021 and we're talking about patience. How do you cultivate it? Why is it necessary? What makes us impatient? As usual, the laughs are abundant, the candor is unabashed, and your girls Nikki B. and J. Hy give you the real from their everyday. Follow us on social media and don't forget to share and subscribe. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

It's the last episode of 2020. In this episode Nikki B. and J. Hy. talk about getting ready for the year ahead. What's holding you back? What are you excited about? What lessons did 2020 teach you that you'll be carrying into 2021? Don't forget to follow us on social media and listen wherever you stream stuff. We love you. Happy Kwanzaa! Happy New Year! See you in 2021! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

Truth is, we tired. Of doing things we don't want to do and dealing with people we should've left alone a long time ago. This week, Nikki and Jocelyn discuss when enough is enough. How to tell when you've had enough, what to do, what motivates you in your relationships and life in general, all of that and some more. Have you had enough? Send us an email at wejustouthere2@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

We talk about what it means to solve for P, where P= Purpose. What is our purpose? How do we know when we've found it? What do we do when we know we aren't fully living it? How to find it, how to follow it, how to encourage our kids to seek it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In our first episode, we discussed friendship. It's still one of our most popular episodes. This is the part two of that discussion... the flipside. What if it ain't all good with you and your people? Do y'all need to take a time out or is it lights out and game over ? Nikki and Joc have, as usual, a very candid and honest conversation about the dark side of friendship. What to do when it goes left, how to grieve what you've lost, and how to move on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In this week's episode, Nikki and J. Hy put on their small business owner hats and discuss the ins and outs of dealing with people. This episode was inspired by the low ball. If you're a small business owner or know someone who is, this episode is the vent session you need. Make sure to like and subscribe, and follow us on Facebook. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This episode is for those people who have to deal with toxic family members during the holidays. That auntie, those cousins, that grandma, them people. And we get it. Even in a pandemic, they still wanna get together. What do you do? You've done the affirmations, lit the candles, wrote in your journal but you still know that SOMEBODY gon get on your nerves. Listen to this episode, we may be able to help. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In the Season 2 opener, we pick up where we left off, talking shit and snitchin on each other. We discuss the election, coping with the pandemic, and taking care of ourselves. Follow us on IG and Facebook, @we_just_out_here2 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

Now before you send us hate mail, we're wrapping up season one. This is our "No Cap Recap". We talk about the show, how it's changed us, what we've learned in our first season, trauma we've had to move through because of our conversations. There's a lot of laughs, some very candid moments and some spice. But that's why you love this podcast right? Enjoy, we'll see y'all in November. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram: @we_just_out_here2 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This episode is kinda random. We talk about trusting the process, the election, the impact of COVID and the pandemic on our spiritual lives, and a whole bunch of other topics. This week, we just let the conversation flow like we always do. Gems were dropped, points were made. Check it out. And don't forget to follow us on Instagram and FB @we_just_out_here2 . --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This week's episode was inspired by a lot of things. We of course want to send our love to the loved ones of Chadwick Boseman (light for his journey) and hold space for them. We also discuss what it means to endure and why endurance, as we're taught, isn't really all it's cracked up to be. Come through if you need some laughs or just a safe space to mourn. We love y'all. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In the middle of recording this episode, Nikki gets an unexpected surprise that changes the course of the conversation in good ways. We discuss childhood trauma, how time has to mean change, holding on to other people's bags, and why Honey Pot ain't witch craft. Check it out. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In this week's episode, we discuss the tabula rasa. What's on ours, how it got there, and what to do about it. We talk about going to college (and why we maybe should've waited), being okay with doing things in our own time, and what it really means to think about where our personality traits and self talk come from. Tune in next week for part two. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This episode contains conversations about sex, and sexual/gender identity. We're telling you this just in case you haven't had conversations with your children yet about those subjects, and they happen to listen to the podcast with you. This week we're talking about living your truth, our new favorite song, WAP, and why people feel it necessary to mind business that doesn't pay them. We're dedicating this episode to Roz, and any and everyone who lives their truth, and those too afraid to, we hold you all in the light. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In this episode we talk about jealousy, haters, minding your own business, what to do when the ones closest to you turn out to be frenemies, and everything in between. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @we_just_out_here2 for a chance to win this week's giveaway! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This week's episode is probably the realest one yet! This week we talk about growth, what it is, how to know it's happening, why it's important. We also talk about the giveaway and some new things we're adding to our Facebook group. Make sure you follow us on Facebook and Instagram @we_just_out_here2 for a chance to win this week's giveaway. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This week, we're talking about our Star Players. How we found out about them, who they are, how to get and stay in tune with them, and why it's important. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @we_just_out_here2 for a chance to enter and win next week's giveaway! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In this episode we talk about what boundaries are, how to set them, how to deal with ain't shit people (including family), and how to maintain your peace when people try you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

This week, we're talking about what it means to be accountable, why it's often hard to do, why you should want it, and who not to let try your life. Got questions? Email us at wejustouthere2@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @we_just_out_here2. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In this episode, we talk about Black women and mental health. Our own struggles, triumphs, lessons we had to learn on our own, and tips and resources for anybody listening who needs some support. If you want to know more about the resources we mentioned, please don't hesitate to email us at wejustouthere2@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support

In our first episode, we talk about Black women and friendship, our own friendship, and how the narratives about Black Women work to distract us from loving each other. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wejustouthere/support