Youth // St. Stephen

You know that scene in Toy Story, where Woody has an identity crisis because Buzz Lightyear arrives on the scene and steals the title of "Andy's favorite toy"? I feel for Woody! I mean, it wasn't very cool of him to plot Buzz's death of course, but it's hard when you feel insecure, jealous, or afraid that you don't matter. In the Bible, I'm reminded of Cain, who jealously killed his brother Abel, or Joseph's brothers, who sold him into slavery because he was their father's favorite kid, or some of the early Jesus-followers, who were jealous of each other's talents and gifts. But here's what Scripture tells us is true: we don't need to be jealous of each other, because we were all carefully and intentionally designed by a good Creator who designed each of us on purpose. So if you've ever felt jealous, insecure, or unimportant, remember this: because of who God is, we can trust how God has made us. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Have you ever failed? Like, big time? Have you ever felt like you've failed God? I know I have! Those moments can leave us feeling defeated, ashamed, or hopeless, but today I want to challenge you to think about failure differently. What if failure isn't something to fear or be ashamed of? What if failure can actually help our faith grow? The Bible is full of people who failed God in huge ways, but who God never gave up on. Paul talked about this in II Corinthians 12, saying he struggles to do what's right and can't stop doing what's wrong. And for that, he says he's thankful because his weaknesses bring him closer to Jesus. When you fail like Paul often did, you have two choices. You can let shame, frustration, and hopelessness knock you down. Or you can let God use your failure to make your faith grow stronger. Remember, you can stretch your faith even when you fail. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Have you ever seen those "before and after" posts of body-builders who document their journeys of building muscle and lifting heavier and heavier weights? Those transformations can be pretty drastic, but even the most drastic transformations are the result of something really simple: new habits, like daily workouts, specific foods, and nutrient supplements. And you know what? If you want to grow your faith (and not just your muscles), the same principle applies. You can grow your faith by starting a new habit that helps you spend more time with God (like reading the Bible, praying, or worshiping on your own), but Romans 12 and II Peter 1 tell us about some other habits that will help our faith grow too, and they're all about loving each other well. So do you want to stretch your faith? You can, by starting something new — like a habit that helps you love God and love others better. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Stop what you're doing right now and stretch. Seriously, do it! Stretch! It feels pretty good, right? That's because stretching your body helps your muscles stay healthy, flexible, and able to grow. Your faith is kind of like that too. In Scripture, we can learn how to stretch and grow our own faith from the stories and words of the Jesus-followers who've gone before us. There are Peter and Andrew, who dropped everything to follow Jesus; or Mary Magdelene, who followed Jesus even when things got really difficult; or Paul, whose entire life changed the instant he chose to follow Jesus. These people have pretty extraordinary stories of faith, but they all started in the exact same way: they simply made a commitment. So if you want to stretch your faith, what's a new commitment you could make? To follow Jesus for the first time? To love God more? To love others more? You can stretch your faith with a commitment. So let's stretch! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Have you ever gone roller skating? It's not as easy as you might think! When people go roller skating, they sometimes think holding hands with a friend will help them stay standing. But most of the time, they're, uh, wrong. Instead of helping each other stay standing, they end up sprawled all over the ground. Roller skating probably isn't going to be the most difficult challenge we're going to experience, but you and your friends will soon face a challenge where you'll need to help each other stay standing, like when you're tempted to make poor or dangerous choices, or when someone experiences a tragedy or questions what they believe. In Ephesians 6, Paul tells us how to prepare for danger and difficulty. First, he says, "put on the armor of God." We need God's truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, and Spirit to stand strong. Second, pray for each other, because when we're under attack, we can stand strong together. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Have you ever been on a team? Maybe a football or basketball team? A band? A dance or comedy group? A planning team? No matter what kind of team you were on, I'm guessing this was true: if you did well, it's because your team members learned to work together well. The key to winning is to learn to work with team members whose strengths are different from your own. In Ephesians chapter 4, the author Paul tells us that the same thing is true about the Church. We all have unique strengths and roles to play in God's family, just like any winning team. But what does "winning" mean in the context of following Jesus? It means growth! Maturity! You and I can't grow closer to God, or grow more like Jesus, all alone. But we can grow together. Getting along won't always be easy, but it's how we'll grow — together. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

What was the last big fight you had with someone? Did it blow over, or does it still feel like there's an invisible wall between you and them? There are so many things that cause separation in our relationships: misunderstanding, hurt feelings, anger, resentment, prejudice — all individual bricks that become walls between us. Some early Jesus-followers had this problem too. They struggled to get past their feuds and differences of opinion, so a guy named Paul wrote them a letter. In Ephesians chapter 2, he said that, just like we build walls between each other, we also build walls between us and God. But there's good news! Jesus has torn down the walls that keep us far from God and far from each other. Because of Jesus, we are "reconciled" to God and we can learn to "reconcile" with each other. We can do for others what God has done for us, because that's what God's family does. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Everyone wants a squad, right? A group we can belong to? Of course we do! That's how God designed us — and God designed the Church to help meet that need. When some people hear the word "church," they might think of a building, preacher, or event, but it's so much more than that. The Church is supposed to be a community. A family. When the Church first began 2,000 years ago, the earliest Jesus-followers needed help figuring out how to act like God's family, so a guy named Paul wrote a letter that we now call the book of Ephesians. In the first chapter, Paul tells us this: the Church is God's family, but it's not exclusive. We can all be part of God's family. Everyone is invited to join, and that's good news! So if you don't belong to God's family yet, you're invited! And if you do, are you helping others know they belong too? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Like Mother Teresa, our ability to humble ourselves is connected to our ability to receive the gift of Jesus, who humbled Himself for us. When you truly experience God's love and mercy, you will be so humbled that you will want to extend that same love and mercy to others. • You can walk more humbly with others when . . . • You remember how God mercifully walks with you. • You remember what Jesus did on the cross for you. • You look for the face of Jesus in everyone you meet—but especially in the faces of the poor, the sick, the oppressed, and the marginalized. • You remember that, apart from Him, you can do no good thing (John 15:4-5) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

If justice is about righting wrongs, we sometimes need to begin by righting the wrongs in our own hearts. Sometimes the fight for justice begins with confronting and uprooting the sins of greed, pride, lust, idolatry, and hardened hearts, which can all cloud our vision of justice. When it comes to justice, God has given us responsibility. As we've learned so far, our responsibility is to do something, to love mercy, and to act justly. That is our act of obedience toward God. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Usually, making wrong things right requires someone to be punished or held accountable for their actions. But can our desire to punish someone who has done wrong ever go too far? Is there another way? How do we hold people accountable for their actions in a way that honors God? Last week, we said that God is calling each of us to "do something" to fight for justice. Today, we're going to begin talking about how (and how not) to do that. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Kickstart a Conversation With God, Week 1 From Kleer Series: Are you new to the idea of having a conversation with God, otherwise known as prayer? A conversation is simply an exchange between two individuals. Through this plan, we want to show you how to read the Bible and pray to God in a way that feels like having a conversation. 6 weeks of short readings, simple steps, and engaging videos is what awaits you. Poem by David Bowden (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ivUG9WubxU) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

It's easy to become overwhelmed by all that's wrong in the world, but God isn't calling you to do or change everything that needs to be changed. That's way too much for one person! As God's masterpiece, you are uniquely designed for a purpose. I don't know what injustices you are uniquely designed to help right, but I'm excited to see you discover that for yourself. Your unique qualities, strengths, abilities, and experiences will equip you perfectly for whatever "good works" God has designed for you to do. You can't change the whole world, but you can be a part of changing something. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Kickstart a Conversation With God, Week 3 From Kleer Series: Are you new to the idea of having a conversation with God, otherwise known as prayer? A conversation is simply an exchange between two individuals. Through this plan, we want to show you how to read the Bible and pray to God in a way that feels like having a conversation. 6 weeks of short readings, simple steps, and engaging videos is what awaits you. Video by Kleer Series (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpfTv-lwsS4) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

It's not your job to fix your family. But if you want to see your family be used by God to "atypical" things in our world, you have a role to play. Pray for your family, have tough conversations, and forgive your family. Don't be typical. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Kickstart a Conversation With God, Week 3 From Kleer Series: Are you new to the idea of having a conversation with God, otherwise known as prayer? A conversation is simply an exchange between two individuals. Through this plan, we want to show you how to read the Bible and pray to God in a way that feels like having a conversation. 6 weeks of short readings, simple steps, and engaging videos is what awaits you. Video by Kleer Series (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYxRuzQIzKE) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Throughout this series, we've been saying that, if you want God to use your family to do "atypical" things, sometimes you have to be the first person in your family to do something "atypical." That's what Esau did, and it's what Jesus teaches us to do. When you've hurt, or been hurt, by someone in your family, the typical response is staying angry, avoiding each other, and getting bitter. But Esau chose to do the "atypical" thing. He met with Jacob and had a tough conversation. This might seem simple, but it's so "atypical." Not-so-typical families have tough conversations. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Kickstart a Conversation With God, Week 2 From Kleer Series: Are you new to the idea of having a conversation with God, otherwise known as prayer? A conversation is simply an exchange between two individuals. Through this plan, we want to show you how to read the Bible and pray to God in a way that feels like having a conversation. 6 weeks of short readings, simple steps, and engaging videos is what awaits you. Poem by David Bowden (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ObJnJ1Wo5E) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

It's interesting that Abraham chose to pray for Lot before they ever reconciled. In the middle of their conflict, Abraham went first by choosing to pray for Lot instead of continuing to fight. So this week, what if you decided to go first, too? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Kickstart a Conversation With God, Week 1 From Kleer Series: Are you new to the idea of having a conversation with God, otherwise known as prayer? A conversation is simply an exchange between two individuals. Through this plan, we want to show you how to read the Bible and pray to God in a way that feels like having a conversation. 6 weeks of short readings, simple steps, and engaging videos is what awaits you. Poem by David Bowden (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAGqjGOBkSE) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message

Your family is already “atypical“ because no family is normal or perfect. But what if God is calling your family to be even more “atypical?“ In this series, we'll look at four imperfect and “atypical“ families from the Bible. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youthststephen/message