Authentic Singles Dating

"Authentic Dating and Sexual Communication 101" is a short course that show you how to apply the principles of Authentic Relating to your life. You can greatly increase your effectiveness in dating while bringing more fun, love and sexual expression into your life.

This article is part of a an unpublished memoir.  I present it here as an addendum to the What Women Want article, as it goes more deeply into the political theory or ideology that underlies much of my work around sexuality.  The basic idea is that the fastest way to end patriarchy — and maybe even the ONLY way — is the reconciliation of men and women, leading to a lot more good sexual loving.  Of course, we must first wake up to our essential nature, and understand that Western culture has us all hood-winked (duped) about the mature of our humanity and the causes of authentic happiness and success. My fundamental thesis is that increasing good sexual loving, will not only make us all much happier but will end patriarchy.

This is the podcast version of the article What Women Want: Towards a New Psychology of Love, Sex and Gender Relations. Abstract This paper is an attempt to redefine the concepts as “masculine” and “feminine” not as gender roles, but as psychological archetypes that affect all human relationships whether we are aware of them or […]

This is the audio version of the article Online Dating and the Man/Woman Game: My Story It is the introduction chapter to my next book, Online Dating for Conscious Men. It tells my personal story, of how I came into this information, and gives a summary (the “30,000 foot view”) of my dating strategy and […]

In this inaugural edition of the Authentic Singles Dating podcast, I am interviewing Steven Fearing, author of the “Mating Straight Talk” blog, on his decades of research on evolutionary psychology and mate selection science, and the impact of this research on man/woman dynamics in the 21st century. This has been a most delightful conversation for […]