Servant Spouse University

Is this something you struggle with? As you grow further in your faith do you feel like your spouse is growing further away from you?

Sometimes we think it’s all up to us? The success of our life, our marriage, etc. But is it?

Let’s not loose what we have gained in quarantine; as we go back into the world, let’s take the good of quarantine with us.

More Quarantine Q and A with Jim and Melissa!

Strengthening your marriage in quarantine.

Learn how three small steps can help you be a more effective communicator with your spouse.

Do you struggle to make time for your spouse? Is me time or couple time more important? Is the Covid-19 pandemic making things better or worse? Get the answers to these tough questions and more. ------- Link to facebook group 21 Day Press: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1046838715371179/ ---------Blog about Leftovers: http://servantspouse.com/?p=270---------Podcasts about 21 Day Marriage Press link to 1st of Series: https://anchor.fm/melissa-beckett/episodes/21-Day-Marriage-Press---A-Daily-Workout-to-Pump-Up-Your-Marriage-e9rj8o

What is a Domestic Church, why it is important for our family, and what role your marriage plays in it——————-Our Sunday Visitor Article: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.osvnews.com/amp/2011/03/21/what-catholics-need-to-know-about-making-their-homes-a-domestic-church/——————-Pump Up Your Marriage Podcast (1 of 4) https://anchor.fm/melissa-beckett/episodes/21-Day-Marriage-Press---A-Daily-Workout-to-Pump-Up-Your-Marriage-e9rj8o

Learning to be in the moment even in the middle of a crisis or pandemic instead of just focusing on the future...————————————- song inspiration “Keep me in the moment” by Jeremy Camp https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=RDpFuvAXzBt1E&feature=share&playnext=1

What is it God is asking you to give up for the good of your marriage and family?

What will your Resurrection story be? How will God use the difficulties of the Coronavirus situation to write your Resurrection story?

Learn more about the love languages of Quality Time, Gifts, and Acts of Service.

Does it matter how I love my spouse as long as I am loving them? Believe it or not, it does. Are they hearing and feeling the love you are giving?

Learning to use the 5 Love Languages in quarantine or if your spouse is quarantined away from you! Take the 5 love languages quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/

Dealing with the anxiety of the Corona virus and looking at this time as a gift from God, a pivot moment.

Is it possible that the words “I love you” are destroying our culture? How is this topic relevant to your marriage? ——————————————————————http://servantspouse.com/?p=315

Do you feel like the romance is gone? Have you fallen out of love? Do you feel there is no avenue that will make things better? Let Jim and Melissa’s story give you hope that God can and will make things better!!! Much better!!!!

Have you ever noticed that Sunday nights can be pretty stressful? They can even result in a significant argument that seems to come out of no where?

Jim Beckett is back as a guest; he and Melissa answer more of your marriage questions.

Better understand how you can lovingly interact with your spouse about work instead of becoming the nagging or frustrated spouse....

Do you worry about how you are managing the expectations at work and at home? Is it challenging to know when to choose work and when to choose your spouse or family? You might be surprised at the solution...

Finding the blessings of our marriage in our busy lives can be challenging but oh so worth it!!!

Learn how to capture quality time with your spouse in ways that honor and respect your spouse and the priority your spouse should be in your life....

Would you be surprised to hear that we are often the greatest obstacle to God working in our marriage? Listen in to learn how...

How we pray can make a huge difference in our marriage. What should we be praying for?

It is that time of year that a lot of people are looking for a New Years resolution. Why not choose one that will benefit your marriage? The 21 Day Marriage Press is just 10-15 minutes each day for 21 days to help you strengthen your marriage!! ————————————————————- Here is the link to the 21 Day Marriage Press Worksheet which includes a daily checklist and more: https://gallery.mailchimp.com/9f0a6f8fdbff60d6272acadb4/files/418cdcfb-5ad4-4e45-9dd7-b25a2b9d5984/21_Day_Worksheet_2_pages_.pdf

Today we will examine Mary’s “Yes” and look to it as a model to say “Yes” to God in our marriage. ————————————————————————— Here is a link to a blog I wrote a few years ago also called “Mary Said Yes, Can I”. http://servantspouse.com/?p=224

The actual day we celebrate Christmas with family or friends can be full of stress and frustration. Learn two strategies to help you enjoy the day and feel closer to your spouse.

Learn some practical strategies to help keep your priorities during the advent season.

Handling in-laws during the holidays. Managing our spouse and our family. Both these things can be a source of holiday stress. Learn some strategies to help manage both inside of your marriage,

Marriage is 50/50, or is it? Tune in and learn why giving 110% is one way we can bulletproof our marriage.

My husband Jim is joining us this week for a Q&A session! You will love him! ————————————————————————Blog we reference about being a question mark spouse http://servantspouse.com/?p=196

Did you know that you are your child’s superhero? How do you balance being their superhero and living God 1st, spouse 2nd, children 3rd? ———————————————————- To leave a voice message with questions or topics you would like us to address, go to: https://anchor.fm/melissa-beckett/message

Learn one simple question you can ask your spouse that will make all the difference. —————- To leave a voice message with questions or topics you would like us to address, go to: https://anchor.fm/melissa-beckett/message

Did you know that there is a 3rd person in your marriage? Learn who it is and how to put Him first. —————- To leave a voice message with questions or topics you would like us to address, go to: https://anchor.fm/melissa-beckett/message

Are some wives happier than others? What is the difference? ——————- Link to article: https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/leftists-outraged-over-evidence-that-happiest-wives-in-us-are-religious-conservatives?utm_content=buffer2bfc8&utm_medium=WCEA%2BBuffer&utm_source=facebook&utm_campaign=WCEA —————- To leave a voice message with questions or topics you would like us to address, go to: https://anchor.fm/melissa-beckett/message

How and why we should invite God to all areas of our life; and how that effects our marriage.

What is marriage as God intended?

Who is the God of your marriage?