Unlocking Identity: Late Discovery Adoptee

I am joined in conversation with my friend and fellow LDA, Ridghaus in part 2 of this 2 part episode. We talk about how discovery impacts relationships, why "adoption is beautiful" is a problematic platitude, implications of adoption as an industry and the ways that being an LDA has impacted our parenting. This podcast is created by me, Freyja Geankoplis and supported by listeners like you. Become a member of my Patreon Community for exclusive rewards, content and membership benefits https://www.patreon.com/unlockingidentity If you have any questions for me, feel free to send me a message, you can also leave me a message and tell me what you think about the podcast so far! I love hearing from y'all! You can send me a message or catch up with me on instagram @_thewanderingadoptee_ Thank you so much. Please subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/message

I am joined in conversation with my friend and fellow LDA, Ridghaus in part 1 of this 2 part episode. We talk about life, transitions, names, parenthood within discovery and just the various nuances of what this experience is like. Poem we discuss: On Children And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, Speak to us of Children. And he said: Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable. Credit From The Prophet (Knopf, 1923). This poem is in the public domain. This podcast is created by me, Freyja Geankoplis and supported by listeners like you. Become a member of my Patreon Community for exclusive rewards, content and membership benefits https://www.patreon.com/unlockingidentity If you have any questions for me, feel free to send me a message, you can also leave me a message and tell me what you think about the podcast so far! I love hearing from y'all! You can send me a message or catch up with me on instagram @_thewanderingadoptee_ Thank you so much. Please subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/message

This podcast is created by me, Lindsay Geankoplis and supported by listeners like you- to make a donation, head over to: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity and click the support link. If you have any questions for me, feel free to send me a message there- You can also leave me a message and tell me what you think about the podcast so far! I love hearing from y'all! You can send me a message or catch up with me on instagram @_thewanderingadoptee_ Thank you so much. Please subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/support

This podcast is created by me, Lindsay Geankoplis and supported by listeners like you- to make a donation, head over to: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity and click the support link. If you have any questions for me, feel free to send me a message there- You can also leave me a message and tell me what you think about the podcast so far! I love hearing from y'all! You can send me a message or catch up with me on instagram @_thewanderingadoptee_ You may find Monique on Facebook: Monique LaTrice and Instagram: @dr.moniquelatrice Thank you so much. Please subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/support

This podcast is created by me, Lindsay Geankoplis and supported by listeners like you- to make a donation, head over to: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity and click the support link. You can also leave me a message and tell me what you think about the podcast so far! I love hearing from you all! Thank you so much. Please subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast! Resources for this episode: Fillet of Solo http://kevingladish.blogspot.com/ Find Kevin on Instagram --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/support

This podcast is created by me, Lindsay Geankoplis and supported by listeners like you- to make a donation, head over to: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity and click the support link. You can also leave me a message and tell me what you think about the podcast so far! I love hearing from you all! Thank you so much. Please subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast! Resources for this episode: https://orphantraindepot.org/ https://orphantraindepot.org/general-information/curator-biography/ https://www.childrensaidnyc.org/ https://www.childrensaidnyc.org/about/orphan-train-movement https://www.nyfoundling.org/ https://www.nyfoundling.org/who-we-are/history/ Find me on Instagram @_thewanderingadoptee_ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/support

This podcast is created by me and supported by listeners like you- to make a donation, head over to: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity and click the support link. You can also leave me a message and tell me what you think about the podcast so far! I love hearing from you all! Thanks so much. Please subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast! Resources for this episode: https://orphantraindepot.org/ https://orphantraindepot.org/general-information/curator-biography/ https://www.childrensaidnyc.org/ https://www.childrensaidnyc.org/about/orphan-train-movement https://www.nyfoundling.org/ https://www.nyfoundling.org/who-we-are/history/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/support

This episode was written and produced by me, Lindsay you can find me @_thewanderingadoptee_ Resources from this episode: https://www.montclair.edu/newscenter/2019/07/22/the-best-time-to-disclose-adoption-status-to-children/ https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/07/adoption-disclosure-study/594496/ https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0192513X19829503?journalCode=jfia https://pages.uoregon.edu/adoption/topics/telling.htm http://nancyverrier.com/the-primal-wound/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/unlocking-identity/support

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