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Not all S and M is sexual and not all BDSM is about whips and chains. We speak to Master Severyn Kain, a Pro-Dom, who helps us bust some misconceptions about this very misunderstood community of people.
This month's episode of DFW is with Lifestyle Dominant, Master Severyn Kain. Severyn and Myisha talk about what people in the vanilla (or non-kink) world get wrong about BDSM and what exactly one should expect when seeking out the services of a professional dominant. Severyn also explains some of his fetishes and how he thinks they originated. Listen now! It's a great conversation and a lot more fun to listen to than some of the other conversations about dominant men in the world right now who are actin' like fools. (Ahem) Myisha has launched a Patreon campaign and needs your support to create more episodes of DFW. to contribute monthly.
People have been asking me to do an episode on BDSM, kink and disability for awhile now. Well, it's here. I sat down with Master Severyn Kain, a BDSM Master and Alternative Lifestyle Presenter to talk about the intersectionality of kink and crippledness. Our conversation takes many awesome avenues; I make him speechless and he turns me on, as we explore a discussion of disability in kink, limits, and sensual aftercare in the kink community. There are so many sexy layers that you will just have to listen in. Master Severyn Kain can be reached: https://masterseveryn.wordpress.com/ or via Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/severyn.kain
Sara talks everything BDSM with Master Severyn Kain and gets his view on how Hollywood has shaped the public's opinion on BDSM with the Fifty Shades of Grey films
Master Severyn Kain is a BDSM Master, Alternative Lifestyle Presenter and Fetish Performer (Fetish-Burlesque Performer with my life partner who is a Burlesque Performer). In the BDSM Lifestyle for 15 years.
Following up on last week's guest Dana Pharant who is a dominatrix – we dive a little deeper this time with my guest on today's show – Master Severyn Kain. Master Severyn is a BDSM Master, alternative lifestyle presenter, and kink event organizer who has been active in the realm of BDSM, kink, and fetishism for the last 10 years (if to include the years he's been lurking and playing spectator on the events – it will total 15 years). Today we discuss the development of his interest in BDSM and kink, events and activities in the community, defining terms used in the lifestyle, the relationship dynamics in BDSM, and integrating healthy power dynamics rooted from BDSM to traditional relationships. Another one of those eye-opening episodes for me, one will certainly learn a lot in this episode and explore a lifestyle often talked about behind closed doors. Some of the specific subjects we've discussed are: How he got into the BDSM scene, his source of information on this lifestyle before the dawn of internet (1:35; 4:35). How the internet helped the BDSM community to reach more people and how it served as a major resource for munches and events on the BDSM communities (3:46). The background of his name – and how he sees his name not as just a title but a responsibility and commitment (6:20). The difference between a submissive and a slave, the concept of collaring (8:31; 26:16), society's stigma with submissives, and how being one entails strength, a nurturing nature, and being in touch with vulnerability, sensitivity and emotions (10:33; 42:00). BDSM, DS, and MS explained, the power dynamics in the relationship, (12:18) and how it can be a lot healthier form of relationship than the traditional ones, what vanilla relationships can learn from a BDSM-based relationship which is built with more honesty, transparency, accountability, respect and explicit limitations thus mitigating power struggles (33:30). Distinguishing a dominant, from someone who simply wants to dominate, or someone who is domineering (24:36). How age can also be determinant to openness and expressing expectations – as the BDSM crowd tend to fall in the 35 and up age group (35:39). The mistake of newbies getting overexcited with the idea of BDSM that instead of taking the time to find a good BDSM partner/master through meeting and connecting, they can fall prey to those who are just in for the sex, those who can get abusive or those not trained well in DS or MS relationships. (37:28). His take on the 50 Shades phenomenon despite the books' inability to represent the lifestyle correctly, and what he perceives as the author's motivation to writing the books (49:47). What he sees the future of kink and BDSM will be with the developments brought by technology (55:34). Funny but real anecdotes of BDSM and kink newbies' jitters, anxiety, and experiences when they first become a part of the community (59:16) To learn more about Master Severyn Kain go to: www.theintimatelifestyle.com/masterandslaverelationships
When you move somewhere and there is not much kink going on what do you do? You start something! That's exactly what Master Severyn Kain did. I think you will love hearing how he stepped up and did what he had to do.