TPOK Live!

Camille talks with Tonya Pear, the host of Talkin' With Tonya (available on TPOK Network), about her show and experiences with coming out as transgender. Tonya's show will have new episodes approximately every second week. It is not (yet) available on iTunes, but will be added soon. In the meantime, you can find her show on our Spreaker account, or at TalkinWithTonya.tpok.network.You can contact Tonya to ask her questions, or just send her some love, at the following:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tonya.pear.39FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/2014306 (Tonya-Pear)Email: tonyapear3@gmail.com

As you may have heard or read somewhere, TPOK Educational Network is growing. One of the recent shows to join us is Consensually Speaking with Gio (consensuallyspeaking.tpok.network).Camille recently had the pleasure of chatting with Gio for an episode of Consensually Speaking and we took the opportunity to record an introduction for the wider TPOK audience.Please join us in welcoming Gio to the TPOK family.You can listen to his conversation with Camille for his show at http://www.tpok.network/podcast/cs-21/

It is the Morpheous episode! I know, I made you wait but the time has finally come to hear Morph's interview from MBE 2016. Sadly, that also means we are at the end of the MBE 2016 archives.I also had the wonderful opportunity to talk to Morpheous about his reflections of MBE, what's happening in his life now, and what the future might hold for him & Princess.

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Strange Bird with Step and Tams- Interview: Phoenix Eddy with PreacherBear and Cypress- Commentary: Cypress, PreacherBear and Crazy Heart give live commentary of Morpheous' final performanceWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

TPOK Radio is at the Taboo Show this weekend. We will be broadcasting live throughout the weekend.Come on down to see us (in the Community Dungeon) and talk to us on air!

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: HeatHawk Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: ScholarGent with PreacherBear and Cypress- Interview: Wil (Pursuit OCR) with AuntieSocial and Rubee TuesdayWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Lochnessia with Step and Tams- Interview: Sinner with Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: Hanna Noel with Eva MorganWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Ruairidh with AuntieSocial and PreacherBear- Interview: JD66 with Eva Morgan and RainbowWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Azura Rose with Step and Tams- Interview: Amira and Canadian Tied with AuntieSocial and BearsPixie- Interview: -exile- with PreacherBear and CypressWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

It's a get to know us episode! Several of the TPOK hosts got together on a Sunday evening to talk about our shows, motivations, favourite episodes ...

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Master Cecil with Rubee Tuesday and AuntieSocial- Interview: Sprinkles with Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: Dutch Clutch with PreacherBear and CypressWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Hermes with PreacherBear and Cypress- Interview: Attention Whore (Jo) with Step and Tams- Interview: Hitchin' Bitches (Lily and Cat) with Crazy Heart and RainbowWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Hebari with Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: JJ-Mare (Your Kinky Closet) with Step and TamsWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Roundtable: What an event like this means to us and the community- Interview: DrEva with PreacherBear and Cypress- Roundtable: "Every Boob Matters"- Interview: Woodenpunk with Rubee Tuesday and AuntieSocialWe are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

On this week's show Rainbow and I welcome Nookienotes from DatingKinky.com. Come listen Live to the show and learn about this new kinky dating site for our community.See you at 7 PMDatingKinky.com features:Multiple Gender Identities: Male, Female, TransF, TransM, GenderFluid, GenderQueer, Non-Binary, Agender, None Of The Above/Ask MePLUS: Couple & Family Profiles11 Sexual Identities: Straight, Queer, Gay, Bisexual, Heteroflexible, Homoflexible, Pansexual, Asexual, Unsure, Fluctuating / Evolving, None Of The Above/Ask Me7 Relationships Styles: Monogamous, Monogamous Sexually, Poly, Swinger, Open, Discreet, None Of The Above/Ask MeMultiple kink roles (27 and growing).One-click Decline & Block.Zero tolerance for fakes and phony accounts.LOW tolerance for rudeness to other members.Message Filtering.Mutual References/Personal Testimonials.Their goal is to give kinksters a different way to connect and find play and love. Also to become the best damn kinky dating site ever.https://datingkinky.com

On this week's show Rainbow and I Counceling and getting help.brooklyn_v@hotmail.com@thepeopleofkink on TwitterYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPhDJcBpmtg9gY53lqp0Dmw

Many subjects tonight. Join in to hear them all!

Just listen and hear me.

With Rainbow still on holidays Preacher Bear will be joining me to talk about the issue of Trans persons using the washrooms that the identify with. There are people out there that think horrible things will happen if trans people don't use the bathroom of their assigned gender at birth. I personally call bullshit on this and I really think we need to get this conversation into the public eye more. Come listen to Preacher Bear and Brooklyn tonight as we hash out this issue!brooklyn_v@hotmail.com@thepeopleofkink on TwitterYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPhDJcBpmtg9gY53lqp0Dmw

On this week's show Rainbow and I welcome Minnie_Taur back to the show to talk about one of her favourite things to do Boot Blacking! If you have ever been interested in trying it then this is the show for you. I have personally had my boots done by Minnie_Taur and it was a very wonderful experience. It's very service oriented and I have to admit very hot. It does help having a hot person like Minnie_Taur doing them!Listen to us live and also ask questions on the LIVE chat! There is always a group of people on the chat that you can talk to also!

On this week's show Rainbow and I welcome The Pageist from The Pageist Podcast to our show and to TPOK Radio! The Pageist becomes the 7th show to our Network and we are very proud to have her join our team!The Pageist is a podcast, which focuses on reviews of books about BDSM, sex education, ethical non-monogamy, sex work, gender issues, the science of sex–you name it. I also have authors of those sorts of books, as well as other people with experience in kink or sex education, on the show to talk about a range of kinky, sexy things.The Pageist is also a website with reviews of various media aimed at the kink and sex positive community. Media reviewed includes films, apps, games, websites, sex toy reviewers and podcasts. Want to support the station?https://www.gofundme.com/tpok-radio

On this week's episode we discuss how to find people to play with or how to find a D/s or M/s relationship. We will talk about how to prepare yourself, what questions to ask yourself and what are the difference between needs and wants. Your profile and determine how people see you like a the book of a cover. Do you have pics that describe you and what you like? There are many things to figure out before you even get out to munches and events. Join us live on Sunday and ask us questions on the live chat and lets get the discussions going!

On this week's episode, Brooklyn and I discuss what happens when you're in a kinky relationship...that suddenly can't be kinky. This can be for health reasons, both mental and physical. It can be because of the distance between you and your partner, it can be because life and circumstances change. It can be because one partner decides that kink is just not for them. This can be something temporary, or it can be a permanent change that affects your life profoundly.How do we cope? How do we talk to our partners if our needs are no longer being met? What kinky things can be done that aren't play? There are creative solutions out there for any situation.Has this happened to you? What action did you and your partner take to keep things healthy between you? Join the conversation here, or play the episode on Spreaker and chat along with us! We love hearing from you!!

We are all different people. What makes us kinky? Is having lots of toys? How 'bout being a Master? Is it how many kinky things that we do or our pics getting lots of loves? How about a feeling or a way of being? Could it be how hard we play or even how often we play? What if it's dependent on how much kinky sex we have?I invite you to Join Rainbow and I to talk about this subject and try to answer what is in all ways a very complicated question. Give yourself a voice and get on the live chat!

I couldn't do it, I couldn't stay away! TPOK is in my blood and it's a part of me and I'm not letting it go. I may take a week off here or there to refresh my batteries because I have learned from this "retirement". I have to take care of me.So in celebration of the show starting up again Rainbow and I are going to talk about "INTOLERANCE". I have sat back and watched this lifestyle pretend to be some utopia that doesn't exist. We are people and no different than anyone else. Entitlement runs rampant and I can't take it anymore! All that I have ever did is try to help. If you don't like it, don't listen, don't attend my events or unfriend me. It's time that I woke up and use the voice that I have to make a difference. Being trans has showed me a side of some people that I find to be very intolerant and down right rude. We all matter, no matter we are today or tomorrow. Nobody deserves to be left behind. The least we can do is extend a helping hand out. Even if we don't understand what the person is going thru a little compassion and kindness would hurt NOBODY.Oh ya one more thing. FETLIFE ROCKS! It's a social networking site for kinky people and if they have to tighten up the rules to keep the dangerous people out and keep the credit card companies and banks happy than I applaud that. FetLife is NOT our community. Our community is made up of PEOPLE. So what, you can't post a certain pic. Big freaking whop. Make it private or keep it to yourself. Write about your desires for fuck sakes. All I know is that I won't give up such a wonder tool that has been integrated into my life in such a big way. Oh, and btw I support FetLife..do YOU?

Well the time has come to say goodbye. This show will be my last episode and The People of Kink will be retiring. I have loved so many moments on this show and I will share some of them with you on Sunday. TPOK changed my life in so many positive ways. I don't want to do the show just to put out content. I want to do it to help people and I think I have done my part.TPOK Radio will continue on and all of the current shows will continue to put out great content and you may hear from me as a guest on their shows from time to time. I will be around and fully supporting them. It's just time for me to do other things.

This week on TPOK Live! We talk about blood, other body fluids, and how to play safely with and around them. Are you curious about blood play? Ever thought you'd like to try it but were worried about the risks that come with body fluid play? We talk about some of the measures you can take to protect yourself, what you should really be worried about(the answer may surprise you), and what body fluids are high risk versus less risk(there is a scale). This can be an intimidating part of kink, so let's talk about how to make it fun and safe!

Tonight we chat about our favorite toys and the lovely people who make them! What's your favorite toy? Why? Come join us on Spreaker tonight at 7pm to talk about the tools of the trade and why we love them so much, both from a bottom's perspective and from a Top's!

Join Crazy Heart and his new co-host Rainbow tonight to talk about Consensual non-consent, also called meta-consent and blanket consent, is a mutual agreement to be able to act as if consent has been waived. It is an agreement where comprehensive consent is given in advance, with the intent of it being irrevocable under most circumstances. This often occurs without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned.Consensual non-consent is considered a show of extreme trust and understanding. It is controversial within BDSM circles, even often frowned upon due to concerns about abuse and safety. It is mainly limited to those in Owner/property and 24/7 Master/slave relationships.In recent years the term has also been used for the practice in play sessions. In the past, the term consensual non-consent was reserved to committed relationships, while the play practice used the umbrella term of edge play. This expanded scope is contentious and the subject of acrimonious debates.In limited parts of the online BDSM community, "consensual non-consent" is instead used to refer to rape play that includes the use of safe words. This use of the term is commonly frowned upon, especially among total power exchange lifestyle participants. Experienced practitioners of BDSM generally discourage others from using "consensual non-consent" to indicate rape play. This attitude arises from the belief that it is a miscommunication potentially leading to serious and irreparable psychological harm.

Join Crazy Heart and his new co-host Rainbow tonight to talk about how important communication is in kink. You need to know how to communicate for so many reasons in this lifestyle. Negotiation is not the only thing. For poly, during play. Is your partner non communicative? How do you know what their needs are? This is very important and we would love to talk to you about it!

We talk about and discuss Fetlife news and writings.

You say you want to explore your sexuality? This is the show for you! Part of being kinky for some of us is exploring more than one sexual partner and sometimes more than one at time. Perhaps you want to explore your being bi or just be used until you can't take it anymore. Whatever your fantasies are we will talk about on this show.

Tonight we go back to our roots and tell the kinky history of Tams from the Kink Geek Podcast here on TPOK Radio. Tams is half of a partnership on the show and in real life with Step. Listen tonight LIVE and here what has made Tams would she is today!

CherryPAIN and Lola were both on The People of Kink and told their kinky history separately. We return to the roots of TPOK and get into some more history about what happened to them together in the following years. This happily married couple has been through a lot but remain deeply committed to each other and in love. CherryPAIN remains as the "Larger than life" giant and CherrysLola is there to ground him. They are both good for each other. I don't think you want to miss this one!

Today we talk about what happiness is to you. What is it that will make your life better? We all want to be happy. Are you willing to do the work to get there? I think it's work that is never done but if you want it bad enough it is worth it.

Everyone’s path is different, and it was important for me as a trans person to make sure that the paths of so many people I knew were represented, while presenting the spectrum of gender as being beyond a tale of mental health. In this reader-friendly book, full of loving graphics, I included such material as:- Understanding the terms the terms surrounding the dialogue around trans issues- Differences (and crossovers) between sex, gender, and orientation- The wide array and types of trans experiences- Social networking and emotional support systems for trans people- Navigating medical care, from the common cold to gender-specific procedures- What “transitioning” looks like, from a variety of different approaches- How legal systems interplay with gender and trans issues- Extra challenges based on gender, race, class, age, and disability- Skills and information on being successful a trans allyThe book tries to walk its way through being both an ally resource, and a tool for trans people. It’s the book that Lee Harringtion wish he had when he tried to transition himself.

AuntieSocial of Stereo-Typed interviews me and talks about my decision to become trans and what the future might bring for me. I now also go by the female name of Brooklynn.

This week we talk about why people have become so sensitive. Instead of caring about ourselves and our own happiness we complain about what other people are doing. We shame people for almost everything. We attack things that don't effect us for sport and to just be disruptive and to cause drama. Why are we so sensitive when people don't agree with us or choose to live in a way that is different that us? When are we going to learn that our own happiness is not dependant on what other people do?

This week on TPOK Live, Rubee Tuesday and I will talk about one of our favourite topics...SEX! We will discuss all forms of sex from oral to anal to all out sweaty and kinky tie them down and fuck their brains out sex! We will cover safety, techniques, communication and much more. If you like to fuck, this is your show!

Crazy Heart talks about our community on FetLife and how we should not have to hide on a site that is meant to showcase kink.

This week on TPOK Live we join with The 3rd Rail for an hour on TPOK Live and an Hour on The 3rd Rail to talk about how we move on after the allegations of people in our community being involved in Child Pornography and Beastiality. We will NOT be talking about whether they are guilty or not as it is everyone's right in this country to a trial and the presumption of innosence. What we will talk about is how to heal and how to move forward. We will also talk about community safety and if there is a way to identify people that could put our community at risk. Kink will go on but how do we? We understand that this is a very polarizing subject and everyone is raw and emotional. Now is the time to come together and be a community that supports each other and tackles the hard topics. We have done nothing wrong. Come help us begin the process and talk to us on the chat or on this thread. Please be civil and no attacking each other. Attacks will be deleted.

This week on TPOK Live we talk about service and what it means. What is it? What is it to a submissive/slave/bottom and what does it mean to a Top or Dom/me. We will also talk about how to receive service and most importantly how to negotiate it. If you love service or just want to learn about it, this is the show for you!

I talk this week about how strong submissives really are. They are not weak and are the furthest thing from that. To be able to be vulnerable and place your total trust and safety to another human being in a power exchange relationship or play situation is one of the hardest things to do in our lifestyle. There is no weakness to be found there, only strength.

This week on TPOK Live we talk to rainbow who is the host of "The Rainbow Connection on TPOK Radio about being a slave and whether 24/7 is something that is possible. If it is how does she see it and how does she and her Master make it work?

We talk about the myth of a great big happy community in kink. In reality the community is the 5 to 10 people that are really close to us that know everything about us. The people that we trust with everything. The rest of the people are like minded people that happen to be kinky too. There is nothing wrong with that. Where the issues start is when we feel like everyone should be just like us. The truth is that we are all individuals with small groups around us that makes us happy. "That" is the real kink community.