Sex on Your Terms

This time, Brian shares his thoughts on interacting with bisexual, pansexual and gay men as he further explores his own sexuality. Plus, how does all of this fit into our polyamorous journey? A deep look into our experiences as a couple with a pansexual man! Check out our coaching services at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

A very different episode of Sex on Your Terms! We receive so much correspondence from single men about how to be successful in the lifestyle space. So, we're providing it here today! Hear directly from a hotwife couple how to catch the attention of those that entertain single men, and how to ensure you are keeping that attention! For more personalized information, or to have us help with an online profile, find our services at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us with questions and comments at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

During this episode of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, we discuss our personal hard and soft limits, and how limits defer from preferences. Plus, how have our limits changed over the course of our non-monogamous journey? Book your free consultative call with us today at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly with comments, questions and more at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

During this episode of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, we discuss the importance of value systems in the lifestyle, when it matters that they align with others, and when it really might not. Plus, we chat about our personal experiences with poly relationships and how value systems not aligning can spell trouble for a long-term relationship.  For individualized sex coaching, assistance entering the non-monogamous lifestyle, and so much more, book a free consultation with us today at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly with feedback and questions at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

Episode 26 of Sex on Your Terms discusses the assumptions and pre-conceived notions held about all different elements of the non-monogamous lifestyle, both from the outside world as well as from other lifestylers. Hear our thoughts, plus when we think that assumptions can actually be a positive thing! Find our coaching services and book a consultative call with us at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

Many a sex therapist has used the 5 Erotic Blueprints model to help couples understand their own sexual needs and those of their partner. But how does this model work for non-monogamous people who experience sex with multiple partners? We offer our own opinions and some real-life examples on Episode 25 of the Sex on Your Terms podcast! Find all of our resources and coaching services at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly to schedule a free consultative call or ask a question at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

On this episode of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, Brenna and Brian discuss Brian's concerns about getting older and interacting with lifestylers younger than him over time. Brenna shares her own thoughts on how she believes their lifestyle journey will change as they both age. Hear this and much more by downloading today! Discover our coaching services and resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us with questions and comments at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

Brenna turns the tables on Brian during this episode of Sex on Your Terms! She asks him a question that spurs a conversation about fears and trepidations in non-monogamous relationships, specifically around expressing sexuality and diving into the world of polyamory!  Let us know your thoughts, or reach us directly for assistance at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Find our coaching services, blogs and resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

A very different episode of Sex on Your Terms! Brian provides Brenna with a question about their lives as a hotwife couple, and it leads to a very real conversation about our journey: Past, present, and future. Hear what it's REALLY like to be a hotwife couple! Check out our coaching services, blog, and more at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Make sure you're subscribed to the show on whatever platform you stream on!

Change is an inevitable part of life, and from our perspective, and integral part of being in a successful non-monogamous relationship. This episode, we share some of the ways in which we have grown and changed personally so far during our non-monogamous journey. We also talk through some of the ways we would like to improve ourselves and our relationship in order to become the most fulfilled non-monogamous people we can be. Listen in, and reach out with your own thoughts and comments at sexonyourterms@gmail.com! To start your dive into finding true sexual liberation and fulfillment, check out our resources and services at https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

This week, we discuss the double standards based on gender that exist in the non-monogamous world, plus how this relates to society at large. We also discuss an interesting study about the word "clitoris" during Sex in the News!  Find our coaching services and other resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us with questions, comments, and topic suggestions at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

Episode 19 of Sex on Your Terms explains 5 different types of attraction, and how each can manifest themselves in different ways in non-monogamous relationships. Plus, how has each type affected us in our individual dynamics, between each other and with others?  For individualized coaching on non-monogamy or sexuality in general, find our services and resources at https://sexonyourterms.com Email us directly at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

A new couple that has come into our lives has us questioning and discussing two of the most important qualities we assess when looking for play partners: Chemistry and connection. We discuss each, as well as the ways in which we can tell they absolutely do or do not exist when we interact with others.  To join the conversation, email us at sexonyourterms@gmail.com For our coaching services and additional resources, head to https://sexonyourterms.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourterms Instagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

During this episode of Sex on Your Terms, we discuss how our play style has evolved, and how getting on the road has taught us what's most important when it comes to playing with others. Plus, we chat about compatibility in the lifestyle, and how we seek it out personally. Make sure to visit our friends, Altplayground, at https://altplayground.netFor coaching services and more information on us, head to https://sexonyourterms.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

Every couple has a different "sweet spot" terms of how frequently they play. As people who had very regular play partners in their hometown before hopping on the road, we've had several really meaningful discussions about how frequently we would like to be playing. But when life gets crazy, the lifestyle can often take a back seat...Hear us explain this from our perspective! Check out our partners, Altplayground.net for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.netCoaching services and resources can be found at https://sexonyourterms.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

The worlds of swinging and kink, while adjacent, don't always see eye to eye. We attempt to explain why this might be from our perspective, as well as some personal opinions on how both camps can be a little more understanding of the other. After all, shouldn't we all be able to play nice?For more information on our services and resources, visit us at https://sexonyourterms.comFor your next non-monogamous adventure, we hope you'll consider our partners, Altplayground! https://altplayground.netEmail us at sexonyourterms@gmail.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

It is almost inevitable for those in the nonmonogamous lifestyle to arrive at this dilemma eventually: What if someone catches feelings when they "aren't supposed to"? We ran into just such a dilemma recently, and the conversation that ensues is one of boundary-setting and transparency in nonmonogamous interactions. Make sure to visit our partners for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.netEmail us your questions, topic suggestions and comments to sexonyourterms@gmail.comSee our coaching services and other resources at https://sexonyourterms.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

This episode of Sex on Your Terms, Brenna and Brian discuss how their priorities have shifted in terms of what they most want in a play partner over the course of their nonmonogamous journey. They also delve into the characteristics each finds most important in a potential poly romantic interest. It's a fun listen with insights on how experience and learning can shift perspectives greatly in this lifestyle.  Make sure to check out our partners, Altplayground.net, for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.netFor information on our coaching services or to schedule a free consultative call, visit us today at https://sexonyourterms.comEmail us your comments, questions, or topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

During Episode 12 of the Sex on Your Terms podcast, Brenna and Brian discuss the concept of fairness in lifestyle relationships, as well as certain circumstances in which many couples experience an inbalance in perceived fairness. Find out our recommendations for avoiding the "score board" mentality in nonmonogamous relationships!Check out our partners, Altplayground, for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.netTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourtermsCheck out our resources and coaching services at https://sexonyourterms.comEmail us your questions, comments, and topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.com today! 

In the world of nonmonogamy, it's an almost certainty that you will experience "trainwreck" moments that could be labeled as failures. But seasoned lifestylers will tell you that each failure is an opportunity to learn and grow. We examine 4 of our biggest "failures" as well as the lessons we took with us into future interactions to create more pleasurable experiences for all! This and more, on Episode 11 of Sex on Your Terms! Find our resources, coaching services, and so much more at https://sexonyourterms.comEmail us at sexonyourterms@gmail.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourtermsVisit our sponsors, Altplayground, for your next nonmonogamous adventure! https://altplayground.net 

Contrary to popular belief, each person's journey into the world of nonmonogamy is a very personal one. It's a lesson we have learned over and over again, as our personal sexualities and interests have evolved over time. We hope this discussion inspires you to look at your personal journey in a new way as well!Coaching services: https://sexonyourterms.comEmail us at sexonyourterms@gmail.comCheck out our other podcast, Front Porch Swingers, at https://frontporchswingers.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

This time around, Brenna and Brian pick apart some of the most cliche sex and love advice out there, including concepts like, "Opposites Attract," and "Once a cheater, always a cheater." Some advice has us rolling our eyes, and other elements are ones we can embrace. Find out which is which, and how each can relate to a healthy sexual and romantic life. Find our coaching services at https://sexonyourterms.comShoot us your questions, comments, and episode topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

We are well aware, from past experiences, that being completely open and honest with your partner about your wants and needs is tough! We explain our personal experiences in this realm, as well as what a couple has to lose if they aren't transparent with one another. Plus, how does male sexuality factor into this conversation?Full coaching services and additional resources are available at https://sexonyourterms.com.Check out our partners, Altplayground, at https://altplayground.netEmail us with comments, questions, and episode topics at sexonyourterms@gmail.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

What are the differences between swinging and polyamory? And how have we navigated each lifestyle up to this point? Hear our personal story, in the hopes that it might inspire a discussion with your partner on similar topics. Plus, Bella Thorne is no longer allowed to be discussed in our household...Find out why! For coaching services and additional resources, visit us at http://sexonyourterms.com!Promescent, our recommendation for where to find your sexy bedroom products! Find them at https://promescent.com, and use our code frontporch for 15% off your order!Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourtermsEmail us your questions, comments, and topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.com 

As a nonmonogamous couple, we get asked CONSTANTLY: "Do you guys ever get jealous?" Hear our different takes on jealousy, what causes it, and how we personally navigate through it when it pops up in our own relationship. Plus, we share a few thoughts on entering into a nonmonogamous dynamic with your partner. Check out our partners! https://altplayground.net for meeting sexy, like-minded friends and learning more about the world of nonmonogamy. https://promescent.com for your sexy bedroom wellness needs, like lubes, condoms, and their flagship delay spray! Use code frontporch for 15% off your order!Email us your comments, questions, and topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.com. Our coaching services and additional resources can be found at https://sexonyourterms.com. Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms  

On this episode of Sex on Your Terms, we explore the ways in which body image has impacted us personally, as well as how we have found a balance in our relationship between building inner confidence and working toward overall health improvement. In other words, how can you love your body at the same time as being on a fitness journey? It's not an easy task, but we explain how it can be done. Plus, for you nonmonogamous folks, what is the REAL importance of being fit and healthy?Check out our website for our coaching services, additional resources, or to drop us a message! https://sexonyourterms.com.Send your topic suggestions, questions and comments to sexonyourterms@gmail.comOur partners, Altplayground, have amazing resources, sexy people, and dozens of different ways to connect for sex-positive people! Find them today at https://altplayground.net. Looking for some sexy wellness products? Look no further than our friends at https://promescent.com. Use our promo code, frontporch, for 15% off your order!Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

Staying connected and in-tune with your partner is often one of those things we think we are doing a fabulous job of, until something happens that makes us realize we've been slacking. In this episode of Sex on Your Terms, we explain the ways in which we work to put each other first, to flirt with one another, and to express our love languages to one another in order to court each other. The perfect episode for both lifestyle and monogamous couples to listen to together in order to examine how much effort is being exuded in the relationship. Check out our partners! https://altplayground.net for your next nonmonogamous adventure!https://promescent.com for your sexy wellness and bedroom products! Code frontporch for 15% off your orderAll of our coaching services can be found at https://sexonyourterms.comEmail us your questions, comments, and topic suggestions to sexonyourterms@gmail.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

Episode 3 of Sex on Your Terms details our thoughts on male sexuality: The good, the bad, and the ways to improve the expression of it for the benefit of all. Brian shares his thoughts on why men over 40 struggle with sexual expression. Plus, we have found quite possibly the most bizarre "COVID times" sex toy.... Our personalized coaching services and additional resources can be found at https://sexonyourterms.com Check out the amazing bedroom products from our friends at Promescent, at https://promescent.com. Use our promo code, SWING15, for a 15% discount.  Our pick for the best nonmonogamous lifestyle site is Altplayground! Head on over to https://altplayground.net today! Email us your questions, topic suggestions, and comments to sexonyourterms@gmail.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

Sexual shame and stigma have a way of staying with us long after a single moment in time, a single occurence of judgement. We have very different experiences with sexual shame, and we share how we each had to overcome the stigma we felt about our sexual proclivities. Plus, we share a few of the ways we recommend working toward sexual liberation! Hear us delve deeper into our sexual pasts than ever before! Check out our coaching services and resources at https://sexonyourterms.comEmail us your questions or show topic recommendations at sexonyourterms@gmail.com Don't forget to join us on the most inclusive and feature-rich lifestyle site out there! https://altplayground.net For your sexy bedroom product needs, including the Delay Spray, head on over to https://promescent.com and use our promo code, SWING15, for a 15% discount! Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

On this episode of Sex on Your Terms, we chat about porn usage during the times of COVID in our segment, Sex in the News. Then, we talk through both the challenges and benefits of being in an age gap relationship (something we know a thing or two about). Curious why we believe nonmonogamous couples in age gap relationships have it easier? Listen to find out!Check out our partners, Altplayground today! It's an amazing open lifestyle site meant to help you find sexy new playmates! Plus, learn all about nonmonogamy via the Podcast Corner, Video Corner, and other amazing resources! https://altplayground.netEmail us your questions or topic suggestions at sexonyourterms@gmail.comCheck out our coaching services and sex and relationship resources at https://sexonyourterms.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/sexonyourtermsInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexonyourterms 

Our first ever episode of Sex on Your Terms! A podcast aimed at helping you find your own form of sexual liberation! Join sex coach, Brenna, and relationship coach, Brian, as we delve into our relationships, past and present, share our knowledge of all things sexuality, and share the latest and greatest in the world of sex news! New episodes will launch every Wednesday morning, so stay tuned for a whole lotta sexy fun!Check out our coaching services and resources at https://sexonyourterms.com. Shoot us your questions to be answered on the show to sexonyourterms@gmail.com