Soul•idify

On today's episode, we are flipping the script. The amazing Jean Jelan Dott took over the show and was all up in Merlene's business. What does she look for in a man? You're about to find out! IG: merlene_22

My favs are back! On today's episode, we are talking about EVERYTHING. From dating outside of your comfort zone to splitting bills. God, the men you created have the ladies going half on bills and they hate it here!! We are hurting feelings today but Jesus loves you.

Ever turned a man down respectfully and he responds with aggression and disrespect? Let's talk about it. IG: merlene_22

Ladies & gentlemen, your fav is back! J is back and he's dropping knowledge on signs of commitment. Sis, grab your notepad and get ready to block somebody's raggedy son for wasting your time. Love you for listening.

Lizz is backkk! On this episode, we discussed how being independent is ghetto and would not recommend adulthood. We also broke down the emotional struggles of owning a home while being young, black & single.

Many times, we find ourselves preaching on dating with a purpose and find ourselves entertaining people we have no business entertaining. So, sit back and get ready to listen to Merlene explain how she accidentally dated a drug dealer for 4 days. *please excuse the audio in this episode*

Today, Gerald joined in on the foolishness and he spoke his truth like no other! We can't promise you'll get saved after this episode but we can ensure you will laugh your butt off. You read the title so you know it's about to be some mess. Love you for listening!

Can men be toxic? YES! Are they the only ones? Absolutely not. Women are toxic too! On today's episode, Merlene discusses her past experiences and how she has evolved as a woman.

The multifaceted Miss Demetrice Strapp stopped by and joined in on the foolishness. Sis came and spilled all the tea and had the audacity to preach at the same time. Won't He do it? We love to hear it!

She's backkkkkkk!!!! This was a long break wasn't it? Chileeeeeeee, let me explain!

The season finale is here!! Gratitude. Thankfulness. Gratefulness. Hear her heart and grab a tissue while you're at it! Email: merlene@soulidify.org

On today's episode, J and Lizz came through and assisted Merlene on discussing the double standards in relationships. In case you're wondering what exactly is a double standard, it's when one person has the freedom to do something the other does not. Whew, chile, the ghetto!! If you're having a bad day, we guarantee this episode will have you laughing your butt off! ***Prior to the season finale on 9/7/20, if you have any questions or comments about any previous episodes, please email merlene@soulidify.org so we can address them next Monday! Love y'all permanently! @merlene_22

I think we can all agree that heartbreak impacts men and women differently, which leads to women thinking that men are incapable of feeling pain. In today's episode, Rich stopped by and discussed his past heartbreaks, toxic masculinity, and the difference therapy has made in his life. Merlene: @merlene_22 Rich: @richbllack

Merlene had a light conversation with her cousin Jerry regarding black love, Beta vs Alpha males, and cheating. Grab yourself a cup of tea cause it's about to go down!

Merlene sat with Lizz and discussed how past relationships could affect ones self-esteem and the mental capacity to move on with the next person. Through laughs and partial tears...God will always use love and forgiveness to get you to exactly where he needs you to be.

While there are many things that influence a child's development, how you parent plays a huge part.

Throughout life many of us go through several relationships, which often leads to heartbreak. These two powerful women, Angie & Llena, shared their stories on failed relationships, abuse, and how they allowed God to mend their broken hearts.

Merlene sat with Joey and discussed the importance of effective communication and how the development of social media caused a change in the way we communicate today.

Merlene sat down with the one & only firecracker, Lizz, and discussed dating, celibacy, and whether some men are intimated by a woman's success.

Welcome to Soul-idify! Listen to how far God has brought Merlene and what to look forward to throughout this new journey.