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A weekly advice podcast focused on love, dating, sex, and more hosted by Ryan Meier - noted Aromantic Asexual. Each week, he does his best to answer listener submitted questions about their dating and sex problems through the lens of an aroace person, with some other segments along the way. New epis…

Ryan Meier

  • Apr 1, 2019 LATEST EPISODE
  • infrequent NEW EPISODES
  • 22m AVG DURATION
  • 42 EPISODES


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39 - I can't have sex with all these roommates!!!

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2019 27:19


This week on Aced It; No one is having any SEX!!! Questions: 1. Hey what's up with my gender? 2. I'm not sex repulsed but what AM I ? Check out Red Foreman on BandCamp! Find Jamie on Twitter for Art! Support my Patreon for the after-show! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

38 - VPN for PRN

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2019 31:29


This week on Aced It; The UK is getting Porn Age Verification Questions: 1. I want to date but how do I get started? 2. My friends keep talking about dating and getting married, while I'm figuring out if I'm ace! What do I do? Check out Red Foreman on BandCamp! Find Jamie on Twitter for Art! Support my Patreon for the after-show! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

37 - Falcon Sex Hat

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 27:42


This week on Aced It; A Hat for Falcons to Bang Questions: 1. How can I not feel guilty about not wanting to discuss future planning with my partner? 2. I want to date a polyamorous person for the first time; do you have any tips? Check out Red Foreman on BandCamp! Find Jamie on Twitter for Art! Support my Patreon for the after-show! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

36 - Big Tips

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2019 42:00


This week on Aced It; Encrypt your Sex Toys! Questions: 1. I'm worried coming out will disappoint my parents! 2. I'm gray-ace and helpless romantic how can I strike a balance? 3. How can I identify flirting and maybe flirt back? Lewd News: Does your sex toy use encryption? AND Henry the VI's love coach Check out Red Foreman on BandCamp! Find Jamie on Twitter for Art! Support my Patreon for access to the after-show! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

35 - U Up?

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2019 21:38


This week on Aced It; call me beep me if you wanna *bleep* me Questions: I'm bi and my friends leave me out of "gay talk". And; How do I explain my QPR in my new city? Lewd News: Earth is dying and they made a sex button Check out Red Foreman on BandCamp! Find Jamie on Twitter for Art! Support my Patreon for access to the after-show! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

34 - Please DM Me Your Penis, Jeff

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2019 28:52


This week on Aced It; Jeff Bezos please show me your dick. Questions: I have a friend and I'm not sure if I have a crush on them? And, I keep falling for aces. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

33 - Wholesome News

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2019 22:15


This week on Aced It; Wholesome News Questions: How can I tell my boyfriend I would like him to kiss me? And, how early is too early to be aromantic? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

32 - C*cking the Priest

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2019 22:07


This week on Aced It: "Top 25 Places to Have Sex" Question: I'm very confused about my sexuality; bi edition. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

31 - I'm not a doctor, but

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2019 21:01


This week on Aced It; a man does some questionable things with semen. *CONTENT WARNING - The lewd news this week is nasty and discusses some medical things that you might want to skip. Roughly 5:30 should be good. Questions: a boy in school is mean to me what should I do? and, my friends use my wife and I as a sounding board but sometimes we're not into it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

30 - A Featureless Dong

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2019 27:50


This week, a dildo has its award revoked. Questions: how can I tell if I'm aro or not? And: my partner is a "planner" and that makes me anxious. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

29 - Chad's Excel Spreadsheet

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2019 23:28


This week, a man documents all the reasons his wife won't have sex with him. Questions; Is it still sexual attraction if I only feel something while doing something sexual? And, how can I make a non-romantic commitment with someone? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

28 - Do I Not Hit the Dab Like They Do?

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2018 21:04


This week; a history of cyborg sex. Questions; How can I tell my partner about my other people in our poly relationship? And, I'm pan romantic but I don't know what my sexuality IS. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

27 - Pound My Ass in the Name of Our Lord and Savior JC

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2018 20:48


This week; What I learned from Christian Sex Message boards Questions: How should I pursue a crush? And, I'm far away from my datemate what can I do? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

26 - White People Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2018 22:59


This week; White people had sex WHERE? Questions: I don't want to have as much sex as my partner in my long term relationship. Help? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

25 - Boston Bottoms

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2018 25:47


This week, who's tops and who's bottoms? Questions: I want to write an ace character well, can I have some tips? And, can I be ace if I'm X ? (where X equals anything but the definition of being asexual) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

24 - Gay Night at the Taqueria

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2018 22:15


This week, Tumblr is going SFW. Questions: I want to explore my attraction to men without sex, but how? And, I'm greyace but how do I know if my feelings are "real"? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

23 - Me Atop My High Mountain

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2018 27:39


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22 - A Niche Sexuality

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2018 26:46


This week; don't put that in there!!! Questions: I can't think about myself having sex, and how do I approach the "still single?" question this holiday season? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

21 - Fifteen Ghost Lovers

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2018 26:31


This week, a lady takes a ghost husband to be Questions: How can I flirt so as to have sex afterwards? And my coworkers keep trying to set me up and I don't want to. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

20 - Don't Mix Up 'Mom' and 'Mommy'

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2018 24:47


This week, 8 common sex injuries and how to go to the doctor about them. Questions: My partner has a "Mommy" kink and I do NOT. And, how do I initiate Skype sex? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

19 - Plunge My Depths

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2018 19:52


This week, Stephen Colbert ruined a record setting orgy. Questions: how can I tell someone I love and support them without it being weird? And, when is a good time to disclose Kinks. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

18 - Asimov's Law of Kink

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2018 24:56


This week; can robots do kink on you? Questions: How can I get my family to accept my asexual + gay relationship? And, how can I come out to my very straight family? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

17 - Three Little Dicks

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2018 28:07


This week, Stem cells for your dick ? Questions: How can I explore potentially being bi when I have some related anxieties? And, help me pick out a vibrator for my mom! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

Under The Covers 15: Get Bent, Pam

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2018 13:32


This week, I am sick and and I'm gonna take the week off, but I wanted to do something. So this is one of my favorite Under The Covers where I found someone giving people bad sex advice and I COURSE CORRECTED. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

16 - Macgyver a Coochie Licking Device

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2018 23:49


This week: Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Bat Dong! Bat Dong! Questions: How can I get what I need when we are so far apart? And, I'm smooching someone in a really complicated relationship. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

15 - Mouth Finish

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2018 18:42


This week: Some Beatles Were Beatin' It Questions: How can I decline a booty offer? And, how do I make these dicks finish faster? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

14 - Weed Boudoir

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2018 23:20


This week: If you smoke weed you probably have better and more sex. Questions: How do I tell my friend I'm not into him? And, can I be autistic and ace? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

13 - This is Derek

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2018 23:47


This week; Carp Calendar. Questions: What do I call the person who lives far away and I want to smooch? How to be ace and date, round 2. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

Under the Covers 12 Teaser: nobang.zone !

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2018 0:31


A little teaser of what you can get in the after show AKA Under the Covers, which you can get for 5$ a month. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

12 - The Dollar Menu in Zurich is Wild

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2018 23:36


This week: Drive Thru Sex Port in Zurich Changes the Sex Work Game. Questions: I have a crush on someone and I'm ace/pan but I kinda want to fuck them does that make me demi? And how to find an ace/aro friendly therapist. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

11 - A Handful of Ass

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2018 21:44


This week, a new hit jam that will definitely make you.... pop? Questions: How do I know if this is going to be romantic? And, how do I do this long distance relationship? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

10 - A Vanilla Straight Man

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2018 34:06


This week I have a guest! It's Sophie Kaner! From online! I greet her with lewd news of penis beading. It's a treat for all! Questions this week: If I'm non-binary which relationships are gay? When should I discuss my kink with my partners? Am I on a "bi-cycle" or am I done with dudes for good? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

09A - Patreon Exclusive Aced It: Under the Covers

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2018 11:45


For this first Under the Covers, we delve into what it means to Findom, and I pick a question for next week --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

09 - nobang.zone

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2018 18:14


This week: I bring my Huge Ball Boy around and show off his Huge Balls Questions: I used to get crushes but maybe now I don't? And: I have this cool DND girlfriend but maybe I'm not as into them as I was. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

08 - The Time Traveler's Child

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2018 17:06


This week: It's Sex in a Canoe in Canada This one is a little different. Apologies in advance. Questions this week: How do Sirens affect ace folks? And: I'm a time traveler and I need to tell my partner. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

07 - My Fetish is Infrared Light

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2018 13:32


This week - It turns out flies like to nut. Questions: We want two very different dogs what do we do? And - I like to scroll through Tinder even though I won't meet up with my matches. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

06- Daniel Craig in a Pool and a Hug from Mike Colter

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2018 15:47


This week; we talkin' 'bout electrocuting your junk. Questions: How can I find support in platonic relationships? And: Sexually attracted to men? Or just aesthetically? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

05 - Hey, Thanks! Here's My Ass

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2018 17:21


This week; Ryan tells you about jacking in to jack off. Questions: How can I explain "Ace but still sexual?" and: My friend is giving me hook up vibes what should I do? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

04 - All That Friend Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2018 17:26


This week; I'd rather eat ass and die than eat no ass and live. Questions: When should I tell my new dates that I'm ace? And I'm here, I'm aro, and a little sad to see couples. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

03 - Sext Master Flash

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2018 14:10


This week: Ryan demands ANSWERS! Has anyone ever banged in space? Questions: Q1 - I have a new boyfriend and I keep calling him "buddy." Q2 - How do I keep my illicit texts fresh? Content warning for: loud sudden noise, ASMR? Tingles? Have a question you want answered on the show? Send it to: aceditpodcast@gmail.com or head to bit.ly/aceditquestion and fill out the Google form. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

02 - Love Me Eyes

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2018 26:39


This week, the robots can say no when you're mean in bed and thank god for that. Questions this week: How can I communicate that Romance is good and touch is bad? And how can I become the best and most powerful ace lesbian? Content warning for: loud sudden noise --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

01 - And Other Sports Metaphors

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2018 15:57


On the first inaugural episode of Aced It, we dive right in - There's an endangered marsupial who needs our help to stop having sex. Questions this week: Can I bang (or find love) while my life is a bit of a mess? And, I'm really tired of having to explain my identity all the time. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/acedit/support

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