It Ain't That Deep Podcast

We are back and talking a lot of smack as usual. We talk about the immigrant life during Covid and if it is new year new us this year. We discuss all things controversial. We are happy to be back.

We are back and as usual we catch up on life. We discuss love and what we expect from our partners in relationships. Mr Thursday goes on his wild thoughts as he usually does after a break. Our top 5 is: Ransom - Saint John Almighty Black Dollar - Jeezy ft Rick Ross More Money More Problems - Dababy 10 Missed Calls - Black Coffee ft Pharell & Jozzy Bayabuza - Nomcebo Zikode ft Bongo Beats

It Ain't That Deep Ep 72: Marriage is a Business Decision by Mr Thursday & The Brethren

In this episode we have the real conversation and check in on each other.We also discuss whether we would stay in a relationship after your partner denies your proposal. Our top 5 is the following:

In this episode we have a special guest and she talks to us about navigating the 20's. Holy - Justin Bieber ft Chance The Rapper Vibration - Fireboy Made it - Teyana Taylor Toast - Koffee Wave - Megan Trainor

In this argument.....sorry I mean podcast we talk about saying I love you and the right time to say I love you. Give us your opinion and when you feel it is appropriate . Our top songs: Come Over - Jorja Smith ft Popcaan Holy -Lil Wayne Children of the Internet - Future Utopia, Dave, Es Devlin Stuck On You - Giveon Blue - KtheChosen ft MBE Late Night - Tashinga, Jemapelle James

As usual we are back talking about relationships and sex. We are the question on whether the 90 day rule works and how we believe it should be implemented. We also take time for gratitude and run through our top 5 songs. This week our top 5 was: Holy Ten - Ndaremerwa Burna Boy ft Stormzy - Real Life Koffee - Lockdown Lil Wayne - Kobe Bryant Calvin Harris ft The Weeknd - Over Now

In this episode we discuss why we should always be grateful and how far we have all managed to come in life. We also discuss the grey areas in sexuality and how these have become more confusing in recent years. Our 5 Songs are: Level of Concern - 21 Pilots Mad - Sarz, Wurld Heatwave - Glass Animals 27 Summers - Nas The Girl In The Durag - Hanna

In this episode we discuss if the alpha male stereotype still exists and whether this has had to change because of the current times. Our top 5 tracks are back and these are: Nia Lo - Kabza de Small ft Nia Pearl Full Circle - Big Sean, Diddy and Key Wayne Palm Trees - Nasty C Fresh Polo - Popcaan, Stylo G and Dane Ray Mamela - Micasa

We are back and we catch you up on what we have been unto. We discuss relationships, quarantine and how much we missed you.

Black Lives Matter

In this episode we jump from topic to topic, discussing marriage, bachelor parties, and what the traditional relationship looks like today. Is it time for a change?

In this podcast we discuss the effects romantic books and porn has on people's perception and why we do not work as hard to maintain relationships.

In this episode we discuss the role of surnames in marriage and if we would expect our wives to take our last names. We also get vulnerable about our sexual experiences and how condoms have created some awkward situations in our past.

We keep serving philosophy and having fun with it. We discuss accountability in friendship and why it is there is a trend of enabling in some female friendships. As usual sex is a topic and why women stop the sex thing midway.

We are back and ready to podcast . It has been a big 5 months, we missed you guys. We talk about the first time we cried for a girl and go through our relationship issues. We might start a Dr. Thursday relationship service so feel free to send through your questions.

It Ain't That Deep Podcast Ep. 58 : The Marriage Dilemma by Mr Thursday & The Brethren

In this podcast we discuss whether you should remain friends with someone you're into that has curved you. Are bad sexual experiences a result of women lying to men that they are great in bed? Our Top 5 is: 5. Dave - Professor X 4. Young MA - Bipolar 3. Wizkid - Joro 2. Summer Walker With 6lack - Like It 1. Jeremih ft Ty Dolla Sign

Recovering from the birthday shenenigans, Mr Thursday and The Brethren give us a quick recap of the birthday and tip toe around a few topics. Our Top 5 is: 1. ADHD Undisputed - I rebuke thee 2.Dababy - Intro 3. Machel Montano and Super Blue - Soca Kingdom 4. Beyonce ft Drake - You're Mine 5. Saint John - Call me after you hear this

In this episode The Brethren discusses triggering one of his lectures. We then discuss how we can create an environment that is more open to conversation and not outrage Why are we so inclined to react without research? Our top 5 this week is: Top 5: 5. Emily Sande - Human 4. Ebony - Date your Fada 3. Dave - God’s Eye 2. 6lack - Unfair 1. Dj Terry Moyaz ft Jo-Anne Jackson & Kazz - Celebration

In this podcast we discuss the non-binary terms and the way they are making waves. How Sam Smith is now they and navigate this P.C world Our Top 5 Playlist is:

In this conversation the guys hesitantly touch on the issue of ownership and how they may lead to gender based violence. The two try to tread lightly and this episode is a great example of two people trying to figure their thoughts out in an ignorant way. Our top 5 playlist is: 5. Saint Jhn feat Lenny Kravitz- Borders 4. IDK - Porno 3.Banku Music feat (Guiltybeats, Mr Eazi & Joey B) - Genging 2. Ozuka, Daddy Yankee, Faruko & Anuel AA - Baila Baila Baila 1. Rapsody - Nina

In this episode Mr Thursday goes on a philosophical rant and the two explore the tangent in a fascinating way. We also find out about Mr Thursday's birthday plans. The conversation touches on societal norms and ends with our excitement for new music. Our Top 5 is: 5.Saint John - High School Reunion 4. Wretch 32 - Mummy's Boy 3. Mr Eazi & Simi - Doyin 2. Nicki Jam and J. Balvin - X 1. Hanna - Wave

So this week’s episode is basically the following: Catch up everyone on a bit of Bali Should you have secrets in a relationship? Top 5 tracks are: 1. Dame D.O.L.L.A - Track Meet 2. Tekno, Yemi Alade, Mr Eazi & Lord Afrixana - Don’t Jealous Me 3. Burna Boy ft Jorja Smith - Gum Body 4. Rick Ross ft Swizz Beats - Big Tyme 5. Kiana Lede- Ex

We are celebrating 50 episodes! it has been a crazy ride but we are grateful to be here. We discuss mentors, monogamy and all the topics we probably should not be talking about. Feel free to watch the podcast video on Youtube. Our top 5 playlist is: 5. Will Smith - Miami 4 Burna Boy - Anybody 3. Goldlink ft Tyler the Creator - U Say 2. Vybes Kartel - Pocoman Skank 1. Dj Terry Moyaz ft Amantle, Nutty O & Mufaro

In this episode we discuss our crazy theories on life. The rules in what you like on social media if you are in a relationship. The top 5 on our playlist is: 5. Love Riddim - Rotimi 4. Sip Slow - Rotimi 3. Brown Skinned Girl - Beyonce, Wizkid & Saint Jhn 2.Chemistry - Falz & Simi 1. On Chill - Wale ft Jeremih

In this episode we talk about being grateful for the small things and then go straight into conversation about what makes someone qualify as a zaddy. Our Top 5 playlist is: 5. The Bullies - Samad Savage 4. Are U OK - Daniel Caesar 3. Narcos - 3.T. 2. Way to Break my Heart - Ed Sheeran ft Skrillex 1. Formidable - Stromae

In this episode we discuss the African Prince Scam and why we have been inconsistent off late. We enjoy a light hearted podcast and also laugh at the people who are still falling for men online. The top 5 song on our playlist are: 5.Kreatures - Nadia Nakai feat Sio & Kwesta 4. Wells Fargo - Dreamville ( J.I.D, Earthgang, Buddy & Guapdad 4000) 3. Don’t Check on Me - Chris Brown feat Justin Bieber 2. Suited - Shekinah 1. Emerald/Burgundy- Chris Brown ft Juicy J& Juvenile

In this episode we discuss freedom of speech and whether everyone has the rights. Our top 5 songs are: 5. Kure - Ishan ft Ti Gonzi 4. Kokota - KayGee DaKing & Bizizi ft Killer Kau 3. Sweet Summer Child - Chyts 2. Easy - DanaLeigh ft Chris Brown 1. Cross Me - Ed Sheeran ft Chance The Rapper &PnB Rock

In this episode we discuss how this is potentially the Brethren's last podcast. We also discuss how much we would be willing to spend on an engagement ring. Are joint bank accounts a good idea? Our Top 5 playlist: 5. Benjamin Francis Leftwich - Kicking Roses 4. Novo Amor - Birthplace 3. Skepta - Greaze Mode 2. Stylo G & The Fanatix feat. Nicki Minaj - Touchdown 1. Prince Kaybee - Gugulethu

In this episode we discuss whether the person you get married to should be in the same tax bracket as you. We also the discuss the prenup and it is a necessity . Our top songs in heavy rotation are: 5. Tory Lanez, Quavo & Tyga - Broke Leg 4. NF - The Search 3. OG Mambo Fresh feat Vxb6 - 9 - 5 2. Michael Kiwanuka - Love & Hate 1. Killer T - Masocks

Our love for exploring the tangent is exhausted in this episode as we discuss morals, sex and if humans are innately evil. Our Top 5 Songs are: Ciara - Trust Myself Megan Thee Stallion - Cash $hit Cleo - Ndichamuwana Tamy Moyo - Kwandinobva Lizzo - tempo

Living in a country that isn't your home can be hard and we touch on this. We share our own experiences and how we have dealt with it. Thanks to KtheChosen for inspiring the term "Nomad's Land" . Our top 5 playlist is: 5. Vroom - Nutty O 4. Imported - Jesse Reyes & 6lack 3. Enchochado de ti - Don Patricio 2. Jackie Chan - Dr Chai & Bantu 1. Personal - Emotional Oranges

We are back and better, we spoke about the worst rejection we have had and drunk texting . We explore the tangent a lot and exchange war stories. In our top 5 playlist is: 5. Stay So - Busy Signal 4. Zvemoyo - Takura 3. Reasons Not To Die - Ryn Weaver 2. Wangu - Dj Terry Moyaz, Kazz & Jo-Anne Jackson 1. Whipped Cream - Ari Lennox

As usual, we go on a tangent and find ourselves discussing open relationships. This becomes a very interesting debate as The Brethren does not subscribe to the non-traditional form of relationships. Please let us know your thoughts and make sure to follow:) The top 5 tracks in our playlist are: 1. Stormzy - Vossi Bop 2. Beyonce - Sorry 3. Tehn Diamond - The Year Before Rap 4. Saint Jhn - Roses 5. Nutty O - Bugatti

In this episode, the Brethren and Mr Thursday go through their childhood in a great bonding session. We hope you enjoy this special easter episode.

In this episode we discuss sex (as usual) and touch on age difference. We also discuss the top 5 songs on our playlist Top 5 Playlist: 1. Hilzy ft Garry Mapanzure - TV Room 2. K The Chosen. - Konxious K 3. Hanna - Peace 4. Dave - Location 5. Koffee - Toast

In this episode we discuss the different rules that come with the friend with benefits situation . We talk about vegans and also discuss how people end their phone calls.

In this episode we discuss several social issues including euthanasia which is always a contentious issue. We also explore what makes the perfect fuck buddy

In this episode we discuss a group of men who have come together due to a lack of sexual gratitude. We explore on their mental state and if it is a sense of entitlement

In this week's episode we discuss the recent Christchurch events. We then go on a tangent about fetishes and other sex related topics.

In this episode we discuss whether some people should not be allowed to have children .

In this week's episode Mr Thursday and the Brethren discuss the recent events where a pastor 'raised someone from the dead' and if false prophets should be prosecuted for fraud. We also discuss if men can sell dreams or if women, just enjoy buying the B.S. To view the videos referenced : Dirty John - Netflix Pastor Lukau - Resurrection Video

In this week's episode we toy with the idea of doing an after dark podcast dedicated to our adult listenership We also touch on why wills are not popular in African communities and how we can curb this.

In this week's episode we discuss why social has made it ok to 'cancel' people for prior mistakes. We also explore death and when we would think we will be happy to 'check out'

It Ain't That Deep Ep 29:Part 2 by Mr Thursday & The Brethren

In this week's episode, Mr Thursday and the Brethren discuss the expectation in black families to help each other up as you make it. This is also known as black tax. They touch on the pressures this creates and also why this is necessary in the families. Mr Thursday and Brethren also look for other ways outside of financial help that could be good black tax. Link to KtheChosen's Survivor's Guilt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=heZME4ZhwGo

Are we an easily triggered generation? Is a limit on body count sexist?

It Ain't That Deep Ep 27: Mental Health by Mr Thursday & The Brethren

It Ain't That Deep Ep 26: Love, Sex & Relationships Part 2 by Mr Thursday & The Brethren

It Ain't That Deep Ep 25 : Love, Sex & Relationships by Mr Thursday & The Brethren