Soulspark Light

Love is often confused with other emotions like sexual lust, emotional codependency and immature disempowerment. The attraction that is often experienced between lovers is not love but a temporary biological attraction. Love is the desire to serve another without expectation or reward. Relationships based on the desire to support each other have a strong chance of surviving. Relationships based on need or sex are built on sand.This show is brought to you by Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).

Most people play a role in relationships, parent, child, victim, abuser, savior, etc. This is due to your fear that if your partner knew who you really are, they would not love you. We also project our fantasy onto our partner and we do not see who they really are. There are masks upon masks until we start being honest and tell each other the truth. We can't disempower ourselves and be authentic. We have to be responsible for our own behavior and happiness.This show is brought to you by Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).

People in relationships need to understand the difference between detachment and attachment. Detachment is the ability to consciously and objectively observe what is happening in the relationship while attachment is the immature disempowerment to your partner. Detachment is desire, while attachment is need. Attachment is codependency and detachment is freedom. When you are attached to your partner, you are afraid. When you are detached, you are confident. It is better to be detached.This show is brought to you by Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).

People make wish lists to find a mate. They want certain characteristics in a mate, physical, mental, emotional, financial, and spiritual. The problem is making lists reduces the chance of finding someone that is perfect for you. Many people require their mate be tall. The problem is that eliminates 75% of the population. Other people want a body style that further reduces the gene pool. People should tear up their list and have an open mind and an open heart and their chances will increase.This show is brought to you by Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).

Most people have a low EQ, or emotional quotient. They are not aware what emotion they are experiencing at anytime. It is important to know what emotion you are having because it is the only way to control your emotions. Some people only have two emotions, happy and afraid. There are hundreds of emotions, and you have to be mindful and conscious of where you are on the emotional spectrum You can control your emotions when you are aware of them.This show is brought to you by Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).