Podcasts about Attachment

Send us a textSummaryIn this episode, Sauce McKenzie reflects on his journey back to podcasting, discusses the Indiana Pacers' playoff performance, critiques the sensationalism in NBA media, and explores the impact of LeBron James on fans. He emphasizes the need for a reset in sports fandom and media representation, while also sharing personal insights on overcoming negativity and hate.Chapters00:00 Welcome Back and Reflections on the Journey00:55 Pacers' Playoff Journey and Fan Expectations02:43 Critique of NBA Media Culture05:10 The Impact of Celebrity on Fan Emotions07:38 The Blurring Lines in Athlete Representation10:30 The Psychology of Hate in Sports Fandom13:04 Personal Growth and Overcoming Negativity15:36 Life Reflections and Moving Forward21:35 Attachment.MP4TakeawaysThe Pacers' playoff journey is significant for fans.Expectations can lead to disappointment but not failure.NBA media has shifted towards sensationalism over journalism.LeBron James evokes strong emotional responses from fans.Hate culture in sports fandom is unhealthy and obsessive.Athletes should be viewed as professionals, not stereotypes.Media representation of athletes has become disrespectful.Personal growth involves overcoming negativity and hate.It's important to focus on love and positivity in life.The podcast aims to provide real and authentic content.Support the show

In this episode, Guy talked with Jesse Herman She shared her journey into channeling and energy healing, describing her personal experiences and the transformative power of tapping into one's spiritual abilities. Jessie recounted her early skepticism, overcoming postpartum depression through meditation, and discovering her gift for channeling. She discussed the nature of channeling, the various forms it can take, and how she channels messages from a collective consciousness known as 'Vian.' Jessie also delved into energy healing, explaining how she reads and works with energies to assist others. Highlighting the inherent value and uniqueness of each individual, she urges listeners to recognize their worth and the important roles they play in the grand scheme of unity consciousness. About Jessie: Jessie Herman, also known as Jessicka (with a ‘k') or JPis a life coach, Pranic energy healer for people and their pets, artist and the channel for the non-physical entity group known as Vagrein. She has published 2 channeled books with Vagrein, available on Amazon, and has worked with countless clients towards achieving their dreams and reaching their spiritual and material goals.  In coaching she has expertise guiding people in many difficult aspects of life such as: moving home, living in a foreign country, quitting their job, striving for enlightenment, navigating psychic gifts, miscarriage, separation, legal issues, death/mourning, serious/chronic illness and childhood trauma. For the past 3 years, she has also enjoyed the more esoteric side of her skillset bringing people peace and direct guidance as the messenger for Vagrein.​ She absolutely loves passing on Vagrein's messages and true advice which consistently uplevels anyone who speaks with them towards creating their dream life. Key Points Discussed:  (00:00) - STOP Suppressing Your GIFTS! CHANNELER REVEALS How to Reclaim the Power You Were Born With (00:50) - Republishing the Episode (01:31) - Welcoming Jessie to the Podcast (02:06) - Normalizing Channeling (05:38) - Exploring Channeling Methods (09:02) - Jessie's Personal Journey (13:46) - The Emergence of Channeling (21:04) - Messages from the Arian (26:57) - The Role of Suffering in Awakening (29:00) - Exploring the Attachment to Suffering (29:59) - Understanding Protective Strategies (33:15) - Common Themes in Channeling Sessions (35:06) - Energy Healing and Its Evolution (43:08) - The Power of Belief and Physical Manifestations (51:36) - Channeling and Writing the Book (54:52) - Final Thoughts on Self-Worth and Value How to Contact Jessie Herman:www.jpherman.com   About me:My Instagram: www.instagram.com/guyhlawrence/?hl=en Guy's websites:www.guylawrence.com.au www.liveinflow.co''

SummaryIn this conversation, Clayton Cuteri explores the themes of spiritual journeys, attachment, and the importance of detachment in navigating a troubled world. He emphasizes the need to release attachments to people, ideas, and outcomes to find inner peace and contribute positively to the world. Cuteri discusses the complexities of maintaining calm amidst chaos and encourages listeners to manifest a new reality by embodying peace and leadership.Clayton's Social MediaLinkTree | TikTok | Instagram | Twitter (X) | YouTubeTimecodes00:00 - Intro03:34 - The Complexity of Detachment in a Troubled World08:46 - Creating Calmness Amidst Chaos13:31 - Manifesting a New Reality NowIntro/Outro Music Producer: Don KinIG: https://www.instagram.com/donkinmusic/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/44QKqKsd81oJEBKffwdFfPSuper grateful for this guy ^Send Clayton a text message!Support the showNEWSLETTER - SIGN UP HERE

Sharing deep spiritual secrets of love and attachment, Jack transforms our unhealthy attachments into Wise Relationships through vulnerability, inner joy, and shared humanity.Today's podcast is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/heartwisdom and get on your way to being your best self.“The secret is, the opposite of attachment is not detachment, but love. Because true love does not seek to possess or control, it doesn't separate or fear what is there. True love is the ability to be present without grasping. From this place, love offers its blessings.” – Jack KornfieldIn this episode, Jack mindfully explores:Transforming unhealthy clingings into Wise AttachmentNot getting stuck in our ideas and views The global price of collective addiction and attachmentMoving past our attachment to our sense of separatenessThe big spiritual question—who are we really?His Holiness the Dalai Lama, and keeping a healthy curiosity around deathLowering our defenses and helping others lower their defenses around usParenting with trust and connection rather than clinging and controlThe good side of attachment—connection, well-being, mirroringTransforming low-self-esteem and the body of fear into self-confidence and opennessUsing spiritual practice to open to a love that includes our full humanityFinding the true possibilities that the spiritual path offersResting in our being—how not to seek and chase, and how not to run away and hideTouching our incompleteness, our brokenness, with compassionExpanding our heart and connecting with our shared humanityUncovering within us our inner knowing, The One Who KnowsHow to be true to yourself, and make a light of yourselfMeditation as an invitation into vulnerabilityMoving from unhealthy attachment into Wise RelationshipHow Being Here Now, our capacity to be present, transforms our lifeNirvana as the absence of struggle with the world as it asPlease help support Jack's daughter Caroline's Oasis Legal Services in their mission to help persecuted LGBTQ+ Asylum Seekers gain citizenship and safety in the U.S.“We want to be loved, we want to be held, and it's so hard to be vulnerable. Meditation is an invitation to that vulnerability, the rawness and openness of the heart. Not because it's good for us, but because it moves us back to the truth that we are held. If we can sit and open, we'll discover that this universe that has given birth to us really does hold us.” – Jack KornfieldThis episode recorded on 03/08/1993 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center was originally published on DharmaSeed. “Nirvana, which is the absence of suffering, doesn't mean that the world goes away. Nirvana is the absence of struggle with the world as it is.” – Jack KornfieldAbout Jack Kornfield:Jack Kornfield trained as a Buddhist monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India, and Burma, studying as a monk under the Buddhist master Ven. Ajahn Chah, as well as the Ven. Mahasi Sayadaw. He has taught meditation internationally since 1974 and is one of the key teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West. Jack co-founded the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts, with fellow meditation teachers Sharon Salzberg and Joseph Goldstein and the Spirit Rock Center in Woodacre, California. His books have been translated into 20 languages and sold more than a million copies.Jack is currently offering a wonderful array of transformational online courses diving into crucial topics like Mindfulness Meditation Fundamentals, Walking the Eightfold Path, Opening the Heart of Forgiveness, Living Beautifully, Transforming Your Life Through Powerful Stories, and so much more. Sign up for an All Access Pass to explore Jack's entire course library. If you would like a year's worth of online meetups with Jack and fellow community, join The Year of Awakening: A Monthly Journey with Jack Kornfield.Stay up to date with Jack and his stream of fresh dharma offerings by visiting JackKornfield.com and signing up for his email teachings.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this deeply honest and uplifting conversation, I sat down with the beautiful Tegan Louise to chat all things recovery, healing, trauma, and how our beliefs about food and bodies are formed long before we even realise it.We went everywhere in this chat—attachment styles, inner child wounds, parenting, body image, sex, intimacy, fear of weight gain, people pleasing, and that moment you finally say, “I've had enough.”If you've ever felt stuck in the same cycle, or like your self-worth is hanging on the size of your jeans—this one's for you.

Women of Wisdom series. According to Buddha, attachment – clinging, grasping, craving – is effectively the main source of our suffering in day-to-day life. Big surprise! We usually confuse it with love, which is necessarily altruistic, and is the source of our own happiness and the capacity to help others. Buddha's view of the mind describes two distinct categories of states of mind: the deluded, disturbing ones – such as attachment, anger, low self-esteem and the rest – and the virtuous, spacious ones – such as love, compassion, patience, and so on. ​ A key function of attachment and the other delusions, and the main reason they cause suffering, is that not only do they cause us pain but they actually cause the things, the events, the people out there to appear back to us, as Lama Zopa puts it, in a distorted way. Attachment causes things to look more delicious than they really are, anger causes things to appear more ugly than they really are. And the problem is we totally believe these appearances. This is what keeps us stuck in our misery. As we learn to doubt the way things appear to us, we are beginning to loosen the grip of ego-grasping, the root delusion, which misrepresents the very nature of self and everything else.  Tse Chen Ling, San Francisco, Thursday 27th March 2025. YouTube

Non-attachment to an outcome is huge, deep spiritual concept that shows itself in many ways. The more we practice this, the more happiness will bubble up from the inside and the less stress we'll experience from trying to control things.————————————————————You can join the conversation Live every Monday at 6 pm ET on Facebook & YouTube! Check out my new book Down to Earth The Spiritual Beings Guide to a Happy, Human Experience. Available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble, in digital and paperback!For Life Coaching, Exclusive Content, or More Info: GlennAmbrose.comHave you joined the new community Loving Nation in the Glenn Ambrose Academy yet?To help support my work and the free content I provide, please donate HERE

In Part 2 of my conversation with Dr. Laurie Mintz (Becoming Cliterate), we unpack some of the biggest myths around women's intimacy, including the idea that satisfaction should come from one kind of experience alone.Timestamps:0:00 – Missed Part 1? Go Back!0:45 – Why Vibrators Are Game-Changers2:30 – Debunking the Biggest Myths About Toys4:30 – How Vibration Supports Pleasure and Healing6:15 – Do Vibrators Replace Partners? Let's Be Real.8:00 – Rethinking ‘Foreplay': The Four Plays That Work10:16 - Announcing My New Masterclass - Hotter, Wiser, Wilder!10:30 – Sexual Guilt & The Orgasm Gap12:10 – Attachment, Casual Sex & Cultural Myths14:00 – BDSM, Boudoir & Owning Your Curiosity16:00 – What Is Sex? Dr. Laurie's Definition17:40 – Advice for Women Struggling With Orgasm19:20 – Final Thoughts + Join Dr. Laurie's Live CoachingKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest: ‪@drlauriemintz‬ is an Emeritus Professor at the University of Florida teaching Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduates yearly. She has published over 60 scholarly works and authored two popular press books: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Mintz is a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist in private practice. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. In 2023, she was named one of Forbes “50 over 50” women innovators. Connect with Dr. Laurie Mintz:Links: https://linktr.ee/DrLaurieMintzBook: ‘Becoming Clitorate' https://www.drlauriemintz.com/becomin...Instagram: / drlauriemintz Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.To celebrate the 100th episode of the Taboo to Truth podcast, I'm launching something BIG:

Can you criticise your partner without starting a flaming row, or causing them to retreat into a wounded silence? If not, you're not alone. Many of us struggle for years to find a way to manage relationship conflict in an honest, constructive spirit.  This week, Andrew discusses the secrets of better conflict with relationship coach JACK BOHANNON. Andrew and Jack cover: Attachment theory and how it influences our capacity for constructive conflict.  Better strategies for giving and receiving feedback. The healing power of men's work.  AND, Andrew participates in a role play exercise designed by Jack.  Jack Bohannan is a certified Somatica relationship coach. He helps clients overcome stuck relationship patterns, insecure attachment, and self-worth issues using somatic techniques. His work is experiential and involves role play, self-disclosure, and genuine conversation. If You're Looking for More…. You can subscribe to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts) and hear a bonus mini-episode every week. Or you can join our Supporters Club on Patreon to also access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests  and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  This week supporters will hear: How attachment theory can transform your relationship.  Three Things Jack Bohannan knows to be true.  AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Attend Andrew's new men's retreat, Reconnect With Yourself, this autumn in the Brandenberg countryside near Berlin  Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things  Visit Jack Bohannan's website  Read Jack Bohannan's writing on Medium Follow Jack Bohannan on Instagram  Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools  Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall   

 Complaining is Like Junk Food: Just as fast food offers fleeting satisfaction but lacks nourishment, complaining provides only temporary emotional relief. This episode invites listeners to reconsider the impact of their words and thoughts on their well-being. Drawing an insightful analogy between complaining and consuming fast food, Margaret highlights how we often seek quick emotional relief through negative expressions that ultimately leave us feeling unsatisfied and burdened. This discussion reminds us that while life's challenges are inevitable, our responses can lead us toward either suffering or personal growth. As the episode unfolds, Margaret introduces her new mantra: "Change is difficult. Complaining is easy." This mantra serves as a powerful reminder that while it's natural to express our grievances, we also have the opportunity to engage in deeper, transformative practices that promote healing and growth. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own experiences with change, to acknowledge their feelings of disappointment, and to consider how they can shift from empty complaints to meaningful introspection.

Happy Satiated Saturday! Making friends as an adult can be hard! Not only can it be difficult to find people you truly connect with, but it can also be hard to put yourself out there when you've experienced trauma in relationships with others. There can be fear that you will be hurt again, as you were in the past. Yet, while trauma can occur in relationships, healing relational wounds can occur in relationships with others as well. In this week's Satiated Podcast episode, I chat with Kymber Maulden, Nutrition Consultant and Neurosomatic Trauma Coach, about: The exclusion of women-centered research on healthThe role of safety and connection in food and trauma recoveryThe impact of loneliness on healthRebuilding connections after experiencing traumaSetting boundaries and growing in personal agencyYou can also read the transcript to this week's episode ​here​. I hope you enjoy this week's episode and email me anytime if there is a topic you'd like me to cover on the podcast. With Compassion and Empathy, Stephanie Mara FoxKeep in touch with Kymber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kymbermaulden/Website: www.kymbermaulden.com Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2418898Support the showKeep in touch with Stephanie Mara:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_stephaniemara/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephaniemarafoxWebsite: https://www.stephaniemara.com/https://www.somaticeating.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephmara/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephaniemarafoxContact: support@stephaniemara.comSupport the show:Become a supporter: https://www.buzzsprout.com/809987/supportMy favorite water filter: https://www.pureeffectfilters.com/#a_aid=somaticeatingReceive 15% off my fave protein powder with code STEPHANIEMARA at checkout here: https://www.equipfoods.com/STEPHANIEMARAUse my Amazon Affiliate link when shopping on Amazon: https://amzn.to/448IyPl Special thanks to Bendsound for the music in this episode. ...

summaryIn this episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, host David Mendonca engages in a profound conversation with Melissa Elguera, who shares her journey of healing from deep relational trauma, particularly focusing on betrayal and addiction. They explore the complexities of fatherhood, the impact of trauma on families, and the importance of emotional health and community support. Melissa discusses various healing techniques, the role of attachment theory, and the spiritual dimensions of healing, emphasizing the need for compassion and understanding in the face of betrayal. The conversation highlights the significance of personal responsibility in healing and the transformative power of connection and support.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Healing01:30 Melissa's Journey Through Trauma02:46 Understanding Addiction and Betrayal06:18.The Healing Process: From Separation to Recovery09:42 Character Formation Coaching: A New Approach13:18 The Role of Attachment in Healing16:43 The Science of Parts and Trauma19:07 Spiritual Blindness and Transformation22:36 Compassion in the Face of Betrayal26:22 Multi-Dimensional Trauma and Spirituality28:12 Transforming Pain into Beauty28:59 The Healing Process and Resistance30:41 Lessons from Pain and Trust Issues31:45 Impact of Betrayal on Children34:14 The Role of the Betrayer36:27Generational Trauma and Its Effects37:40 Justice and Forgiveness in Betrayal39:49 Boundaries and Accountability40:53 Triggers and Childhood Trauma45:55 The Influence of Social Media on Relationships

From [ Zen and Inner Peace Vol. One ]By Chan Master Sheng Yen / Narrated by Yingshyan KuAs buddha-nature is within all beings, this book expounds the meaning of “Life is Chan, and Chan is Life.” Everyone can benefit by applying Chan wisdom and compassion in daily life, regardless of the complexity of their lives, their environments and interpersonal relationships, along with the associated stresses and conflicts.

Welcome to Next Level Pros! In this explosive episode, we dive deep into the public feud between Elon Musk and Donald Trump, uncovering critical lessons about leadership, ego management, and healthy communication. Whether you're a business owner, team leader, or aspiring entrepreneur, this episode will transform how you handle disagreements and build high-trust organizational cultures.Highlights:"Your ego is the guard dog that's been with you since you were two or three years old, and its self-appointed job is to make you feel safe.""Check your egos at the door.""To the degree that you are passionate about something, to that same degree you tend to be attached to it.""Real leaders understand how to work with both strengths and weaknesses."Timestamps:00:00 Elon Musk and Donald Trump's Feud: Initial Context and Reactions 02:27 Handling Disagreements in Leadership 05:07 The Role of Ego in Leadership 12:46 Building a Culture of Trust and Conflict Resolution Practical Strategies for Managing Ego and Conflict 13:18 The Impact of Ego on Organizational Dynamics 17:28 The Role of Passion and Attachment in Leadership 23:11 The Importance of Preemptive Communication in Leadership Want me to teach you how to grow your business? Text me! 509-374-7554Want access to more of my content? Click the link below for all of our latest updates and events!https://linktr.ee/nextlevelprosWant to be a guest on our show? Apply here!https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1YlkVBSluEKMTg4gehyUOHYvBratcxHV5rt3kiWTXNC4/viewform?edit_requested=trueWatch my latest PodcastApple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/next-level-pros/id1687030281Spotify- https://open.spotify.com/show/1e0cL2vI1JAtQrojSOA7D2?si=95980cd4e55a437aYouTube- https://www.youtube.com/@NextLevelPros

In this episode, Dr. David Puder is joined by psychiatrist Dr. Eric Bender to explore the psychological depth of the Emmy Award-winning show, The Bear (FX). Through a psychodynamic lens, they examine Carmy's character—his trauma, complex PTSD, obsessive-compulsive personality traits, and avoidant attachment style. They also break down the borderline dynamics in his family, especially his mother's primitive defenses, identity diffusion, and projective identification. The discussion covers dissociation, personality styles, sibling roles, and emotional neglect, drawing connections to clinical work and real-life therapy. This episode gives both clinicians and fans of the show a nuanced understanding of how early attachment, trauma, and family dynamics shape adult behavior. Whether you're a therapist, student, or simply a fan of the show, you'll gain insight into how The Bear reflects complex inner worlds. Link to blog. Link to YouTube video.

Why is it that sometimes the things that are supposed to help us feel calm actually make us feel more anxious instead? In this mini-episode, Dr. Aimie explores why this happens, expanding on her conversation with Dr. Sue Carter from Episode 125. She answers therapist Sarah's question about why some people struggle with relaxation techniques and reveals the surprising science behind it. You'll hear more on: Why oxytocin is called "nature's fire extinguisher" and how it helps you heal How oxytocin and vasopressin work together (not against each other!) Why past difficult experiences can make your body think "quiet time" is dangerous How your brain's control center decides if you're safe or not Simple ways to feel safer in your body before trying relaxation techniques If you're a practitioner working with clients who struggle with calming techniques or if you've ever wondered why meditation or mindfulness makes you feel worse instead of better, this episode explains what's happening in the body and gives practical ways to work with it instead of against it. To hear the full episode and learn more about how stress hormones affect healing, head over to Episode 125: Why the Mind & Body Can't Heal Without Oxytocin with Dr. Sue Carter.

SummaryIn this conversation, Danielle Strickland, James Sholl, and Dr. Hilary McBride explore the complex relationship between religion, mental health, and societal systems. They discuss how religion can serve as both a source of support and a potential source of harm, particularly when it becomes a toxic system that prioritizes itself over the well-being of individuals. The conversation delves into the nuances of how charismatic leadership can manipulate followers and the importance of understanding the disconnection that can occur within religious contexts, ultimately leading to a deeper exploration of identity and belonging. In this conversation, Danielle Strickland and Hillary McBride explore the profound connection between embodiment, spirituality, and trauma. They discuss how disconnection from our bodies can lead to various forms of suffering and how reconnecting with our physical selves can be a pathway to liberation and healing. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of recognizing the value of our bodies, understanding cultural narratives that devalue them, and the spiritual significance of listening to our bodies. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they highlight practices for fostering a deeper connection with oneself and the world around us.Takeaways* Religion can be both a source of support and harm.* Cultural practices around spirituality can disconnect us from our spiritual longings.* Systems can serve their own purposes at the expense of individuals.* Charismatic leaders can create environments that feel safe but are toxic.* Attachment styles influence how individuals relate to systems.* Disconnection from self can lead to compliance in toxic systems.* Religious practices can exacerbate mental health issues for some.* Understanding the sacred purpose of systems is crucial.* Disconnection is a key factor in understanding oppression. Disconnection from the body can lead to suffering.* Embodiment is a pathway to spiritual and political liberation.* Recognizing the value of bodies is essential for healing.* Cultural narratives often devalue the body, especially for women.* Listening to our bodies can reveal deep truths about ourselves.* Trauma can create a disconnect from our physical selves.* Practices for embodiment can help reconnect with our bodies.* Spirituality is intertwined with our physical existence.* Memory is held in our bodies and influences our experiences.* The body can be a source of wisdom and guidance. Dr. Hillary McBride Get full access to Right Side Up: Danielle Strickland at daniellestrickland.substack.com/subscribe

How can we heal father wounds? In this heartfelt episode, host Tina Yeager sits down with Rosann Coulon—author and founder of Leaving a Well Ministries—to tackle the sensitive yet vital topic of healing father wounds. Rosann shares her personal journey growing up as a pastor's daughter and facing the pain of her father's struggles with chronic illness and addiction. Together, Tina and Rosann delve deep into how our relationships with our earthly fathers shape our perceptions of God, often leading to trust issues, shame, and struggle within our faith. You'll learn practical steps for recognizing hidden wounds, the importance of honest conversations with God, and how to find your true identity in your heavenly Father. If you or someone you love is seeking freedom from past hurts, this episode offers hope, resources, and encouragement for your path to healing. Here's a quick look at what you'll discover in this episode: 1. Why Our Earthly Fathers Shape Our View of God Rosann shares her moving personal journey as a pastor's daughter whose relationship with her father changed due to illness and addiction. She candidly reveals how this affected her trust—not just in her dad, but in God and even in her marriage. 2. Recognizing Hidden Father Wounds We talked about subtle signs that you may have unresolved father wounds—like feeling distant from God, pulling away from trustworthy people, struggling with prayer, or experiencing discomfort with the idea of God as “Father.” Rosann offers practical advice on honest self-reflection and the power of admitting those struggles as the first step to healing. 3. How Father Wounds Impact Our Identity Do you ever feel defined by what your parents did or said? Rosann and I chatted about the shame and identity struggles that stem from parental wounds—and how embracing our true identity as God's beloved children brings freedom and healing. 4. Practical Steps Toward Healing Rosann urges anyone feeling “stuck” to seek support—through Christian counseling, open prayer, or journaling. She reminds us that healing isn't instant but starts with allowing God to redefine our identity and trusting Him for the journey. 5. The Power of Forgiveness Whether your father's wounds were intentional or not, forgiveness is essential—not just for them, but for your own peace. Rosann's story is a testament to the freeing power of choosing forgiveness and asking God for strength to keep moving forward. Free Resources & More Support! Rosann has crafted beautiful resources to support you: Get the first chapter FREE of her devotional, 40 Days to God My Father: Finding Shelter in the Heart of God (download here) Access a 31-day prayer journal and other healing tools on her website Find more encouragement on Instagram at @RosannCoulon, and if you or someone you know needs extra support, don't hesitate to check out Leaving a Well Ministries. You're Not Alone Whatever your story looks like, remember—you're not defined by your wounds or your earthly relationships. There is a loving Father in heaven ready to restore, heal, and lead you into your true identity. We're thrilled to accompany you on this journey of faith, growth, and transformation. As always, we appreciate your support! Please subscribe and share this episode. We can't wait for you to join us for future episodes of Flourish-Meant. To book Tina as a speaker, connect with her life coaching services, and more, visit her website: https://tinayeager.com/ Optimize your mind and body with my new favorite, all-inclusive supplement, Cardio Miracle! I love the energy and focus this health-boosting drink mix provides without toxins, caffeine, or sugar! Get a discount on your purchase with my link: http://www.cardiomiracle.com/tinayeager Use the code TINA10 at checkout. To flourish in all seasons of life with the highest quality nutraceutical health supplements that benefit charitable causes, shop NutraMedix wellness supplements. Be sure to use my link  https://www.nutramedix.com/?rfsn=7877557.b6c6785 and add my special code TINA to get 10% off your entire purchase! If you're a writer, subscribe to Inkspirations Online (devotional publication by writers for writers): https://www.inkspirationsonline.com/ Manage stress and anxiety in 10 minutes a day with the course presented by 15 experts, Subdue Stress and Anxiety https://divineencouragement.onlinecoursehost.com/courses Connect with Tina at: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tyeagerwriting/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinayeager/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tina.yeager.9/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TinaYeager Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/tyeagerwrites/ Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3865622.Tina_Yeager

Most of us husbands have a trigger happy impulse to try and fix conflicts at home with rational solutions.....that rarely work!!!! In this episode you will meet the three human attachment needs and how to use them at home that will change how you look at conflict forever. In conflict, effective communicators are not trying to change the mental state of others. Instead, their focus is on changing their emotional state via meeting their attachment needs. When this happens, emotional reactivity is gone and full intelligence comes back online...aka: end of conflict. Let's begin….. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Book FREE 50min Heroic Husbands Bootcap Intensive 1-1 Coaching Application call Don't Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform – Join the newsletter list to receive all the details for joining: Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you'd love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now To connect with Mark's Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Canada Immigration LMIA-Exempt Work Permit figures for C62, (Intra-company transferees to an existing business in Canada – executives, senior or functional managers) in 2023, for visas issued without a Provincial attachment.  Good day ladies and gentlemen, this is IRC news, and I am Joy Stephen, an authorized Canadian Immigration practitioner bringing out this Canada Work Permit application data specific to LMIA work permits or employer driven work permits or LMIA exempt work permits for multiple years based on your country of Citizenship. I am coming to you from the Polinsys studios in Cambridge, Ontario   In 2023, a total of 10 LMIA-Exempt Work Permits were approved without a provincial attachment, under C62, (Intra-company transferees to an existing business in Canada – executives, senior or functional managers). If you have an interest in gaining assistance with Work Permits based on your country of Citizenship, or should you require guidance post-selection, we extend a warm invitation to connect with us via https://myar.me/c. We strongly recommend attending our complimentary Zoom resource meetings conducted every Thursday. We kindly request you to carefully review the available resources. Subsequently, should any queries arise, our team of Canadian Authorized Representatives is readily available to address your concerns during the weekly AR's Q&A session held on Fridays. You can find the details for both these meetings at https://myar.me/zoom. Our dedicated team is committed to providing you with professional assistance in navigating the immigration process. Additionally, IRCNews offers valuable insights on selecting a qualified representative to advocate on your behalf with the Canadian Federal or Provincial governments, accessible at https://ircnews.ca/consultant

In today's episode we are diving deep into the ambivalent attachment style, where it comes from, how it shows up in your relationships and how you can start rewiring it.If you often feel like you're too much and not enough or constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop in relationships, this one is for you. Understanding Attachment:o Attachment is a biological system, its innate.o Attachment is developed within relationshipso People with adverse childhood experiences, experience higher levels or incidences of insecure/anxious attachment.o Internal working models (blueprint)- patterns of relating are internalised = how we relate to others.We have a pro-social system – our system wants to return to secure attachment so it's possible for everyone.Attachment styles are designed to; maximise available care provided by the caregiver and limit the level of distress.We dive into the following:The Ambivalant Attachment Style develops when there is inconsistency in the way the caregiver responds to the child. The Fear of Being Left •How it shows up in adult relationships•The loop: fear > control > guilt > shameRewiring & Repair  Nervous system!!!-Corrective experience of being present with love and connection -Secure attachment rituals – e.g. before bed connection and rituals because that can be a separation too. Greetings!! Our systems are delicate and responsive and that's a strength too-Learn how to make requests in a positive way (no shame/blame) -The story I'm telling myself about being unloveable -Notice caring behaviours without deflection Let us know if you'd like more attachment episodes!!You can find more of us here: Our Online Psychology practice: Did you know we have online appointments available with our amazing therapists Lisa or Maddie. Learn more here https://thepsychcollaborative.com.au The Thriving Therapists: To connect with a safe and supportive community of like-minded therapists, head to our Thriving Therapists Facebook group: https://m.facebook.com/groups/224252457083630/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvFOr find us on our Instagram: https://instagram.com/thethrivingtherapists?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==The Psychology Sisters Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/thepsychologysisters/?hl=enThe Psych Collaborative instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/thepsychcollaborative/?hl=enPlease note: this episode is for informational purposes only and does not replace personalised psychological advice.

Exploring the ancient Zen teaching of the Great Way, Jack guides us toward freedom from attachment, clarity beyond preferences, and the liberating joy of letting go.“The Great Way is not difficult for those who have no preferences. When attachment and hatred are both absent, everything becomes clear and undisguised. Make the smallest distinction; however, and heaven and earth are set infinitely apart. If you wish to see the truth, then hold no opinion for or against anything.” – Third Zen AncestorIn this episode, Jack mindfully explores:Finding freedom from attachment by learning to let goCan we meditate society's problems away?What does it mean to seek wisdom, compassion, freedom?The Third Patriarch of ZenFinding the Great Way and seeing the truthMoving past our opinions and preferencesHow our desires blind us and manufacture our realitySuffering, impermanence, grasping, and not relying on realityThe path to liberation from our grasping and fearsThe joy of letting go of our attachments and relaxing into what isTraining ourselves to have an obedient mind of the BuddhaIs there appropriate or wise attachment?Clarifying the full spectrum of attachmentHow to get out addiction and the Realm of the Hungry GhostsDealing with attachment to our isolation, our separatenessCommitment as a healthy devoted attachment Seeking a Wise Relationship to ourselves, others, and the worldThe slippery slope of pleasure, into desire, into habit, into needWise attachment vs unwise attachmentThe full spectrum of attachment and love“Go where you wish—cave, monastery, India, Tibet, do what you like—your mind goes with you, that's the problem.” – Jack KornfieldThis episode recorded on 03/08/1993 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center was originally published on DharmaSeed. About Jack Kornfield:Jack Kornfield trained as a Buddhist monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India, and Burma, studying as a monk under the Buddhist master Ven. Ajahn Chah, as well as the Ven. Mahasi Sayadaw. He has taught meditation internationally since 1974 and is one of the key teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West. Jack co-founded the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts, with fellow meditation teachers Sharon Salzberg and Joseph Goldstein and the Spirit Rock Center in Woodacre, California. His books have been translated into 20 languages and sold more than a million copies.Jack is currently offering a wonderful array of transformational online courses diving into crucial topics like Mindfulness Meditation Fundamentals, Walking the Eightfold Path, Opening the Heart of Forgiveness, Living Beautifully, Transforming Your Life Through Powerful Stories, and so much more. Sign up for an All Access Pass to explore Jack's entire course library. If you would like a year's worth of online meetups with Jack and fellow community members, join The Year of Awakening: A Monthly Journey with Jack Kornfield.Stay up to date with Jack and his stream of fresh dharma offerings by visiting JackKornfield.com and signing up for his email teachings.“Often we think attachment is only to other people and things, but often what we are attached to is our own isolation, our own separateness.” – Jack KornfieldSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

“You have captured my heart, my treasure, my bride. You hold it hostage with one glance of your eyes, with a single jewel of your necklace. Your love delights me, my treasure my bride.” Song of Songs 4:9-10Song of Songs is the last of the Biblical wisdom literature and puts a bow on our time with Solomon. It's a book not commonly taught from because of its intimate nature, but I was grateful to find somebody who is actually currently teaching through this book at his church. Dr. James Hamilton is Professor of Biblical Theology at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and is the Senior Pastor at Kenwood Baptist Church. In this conversation, Jim and I talk about the rich theological truths of Song of Songs, what we can learn from all of Solomon's writings, the connection between Song of Songs and Genesis, and much more. Doable Discipleship is a Saddleback Church podcast produced and hosted by Jason Wieland. It premiered in 2017 and now offers more than 400 episodes. Episodes release every Tuesday on your favorite podcast app and on the Saddleback Church YouTube Channel (https://www.youtube.com/saddleback).Resources Related to This Episode:https://www.amazon.com/Song-Songs-Biblical-Theological-Christological-Interpretation/dp/1781915601Subscribe to the Doable Discipleship podcast at Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doable-discipleship/id1240966935) or Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/1Zc9nuwQZOLadbFCZCmZ1V)Related Doable Discipleship Episodes: Navigating the Bible: Ecclesiastes - https://youtu.be/-Wr7LCh8F9ENavigating the Bible: Proverbs - https://youtu.be/DytRT5AsZg8Navigating the Bible: Psalms - https://youtu.be/oZeesooAYUINavigating the Bible: Job - https://youtu.be/14jaf2T1eCQNavigating the Bible: Esther - https://youtu.be/7RZ7ATWQZucNavigating the Bible: Nehemiah - https://youtu.be/Gok4WDgwn5INavigating the Bible: Ezra - https://youtu.be/aBC0nEjYeyoNavigating the Bible: 2 Chronicles - https://youtu.be/OG3rHTgMgEINavigating the Bible: 1 Chronicles - https://youtu.be/lQ_Qc4zbfgANavigating the Bible: 2 Kings - https://youtu.be/04q9gDhBKTkNavigating the Bible: 1 Kings - https://youtu.be/aS-KoeQXl2kNavigating the Bible: 2 Samuel - https://youtu.be/ZbpafGgOW7cNavigating the Bible: 1 Samuel - https://youtu.be/lY8wPElSFMYNavigating the Bible: Rute - https://youtu.be/YaH-t-ZzTaMNavigating the Bible: Judges - https://youtu.be/qNGcOf2o0NUNavigating the Bible: Joshua - https://youtu.be/hF28aThBtFsNavigating the Bible: Deuteronomy - https://youtu.be/HzmNgPOM4zUNavigating the Bible: Numbers - https://youtu.be/H1HO6V9HDxsNavigating the Bible: Leviticus - https://youtu.be/08RhDCXYex4Navigating the Bible: Exodus - https://youtu.be/NB9UTpS1F3MNavigating the Bible: Genesis - https://youtu.be/ddhjMfOoasAInspiring Dreams by Keys of Moon | https://soundcloud.com/keysofmoonMusic promoted by https://www.chosic.com/free-music/all/Creative Commons CC BY 4.0https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

This week's episode of the 21st Century Vitalism podcast is with the founding teacher of the Metta Group, George Haas. In this conversation we explore his work of combining Buddhist meditation practice with cutting edge attachment strategy repair protocols. Drawing on over 40 years of teaching this material, George's approach to helping students heal from their attachment injuries has been clinically proven to be effective and deeply transformational. Outside of his full schedule of one on one sessions and weekly classes, he's also the host of a podcast called, ‘I Love You, Keep Going', which explores these topics in great detail. If you want to study with George, head on over to mettagroup.org or consider checking out his show wherever you tune into your podcasts. Show Topics - What's the Difference Between Attachment Styles and Strategies? - Organized Attachment Vs. Disorganized - What Determines Our Attachment Strategy? - How Views Shape Our Reality - Working With Our Strategies - Intimacy and Communication - Vipassana and Attachment - How Emotions Change Perception - What is Authenticity? - Attachment and Spiritual Practice

About this Episode When love turns toxic, it can be almost impossible to see clearly through the confusion, self-doubt, and emotional chaos that follow. If you've ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of hope, heartbreak, and uncertainty within a relationship, you're not alone—and there's a reason why breaking free can feel so overwhelming. The hidden dynamics of pathological partnerships and trauma bonds often keep people stuck, questioning their worth, and struggling to understand why things never seem to get better. In this episode, listeners are offered insight and validation as the conversation unpacks the complex nature of trauma bonds and toxic relationships. You'll discover how these destructive patterns form, what psychological traits might make someone more susceptible, and why distinguishing between harmful behaviors and truly pathological intentions is so important. With practical guidance and real-life examples, this episode shines a compassionate light on the path toward healing, empowerment, and, for those who need it most, a way out. Affectionately known as Dr. Nae, Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a therapist specializing in trauma healing and personal transformation. Her life inspired the character Naomi Belfort in The Wolf of Wall Street. After overcoming personal challenges, she earned a Master's degree in counseling and a Ph.D. in Somatic Psychotherapy. Dr. Macaluso helps individuals recover from trauma bonds, C-PTSD, and shame. She is also the author of Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing From Trauma Bonds. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. Episode Highlights  06:28 Dr. Nadine Macaluso's personal journey and the roots of her work on trauma bonds. 09:49 Defining trauma bonds and the role of intermittent reinforcement in toxic relationships. 13:35 Intent, power imbalance, and the pathological partner in trauma bonds. 16:11 Pathological intent vs. reactive behaviors and repair. 19:20 Understanding Cluster B personality disorders and their impact on relationships. 21:23 Empowering the victim over diagnosing the pathological partner. 24:11 Who is most susceptible to trauma bonds? 28:16 Questioning labels: Codependency, attachment, and rethinking victim narratives. 32:34 Attachment styles, developmental trauma, and their role in toxic relationships. 34:31 Cultural myths about love, media influence, and the hope that keeps people stuck. 37:20 Reducing shame, cognitive dissonance, and reconnecting with self. 42:47 The process of leaving: Safety, planning, and overcoming guilt. 44:30 Post-traumatic growth: Finding strength, hope, and empowerment after leaving a toxic relationship. Mentioned Run Like Hell (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Women Who Love Psychopaths (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Big 5 Personality Quiz  Essentia's website (*Affiliate link) Stratami™ Organic Mattress (This is the mattress we purchased) (*Affiliate link) Classic REM5 Active Mattress – (The mattress we wish we could have gotten for the cooling feature) (*Affiliate link) Evolve in Love (program) Evolve in Love – Next level – Book Your Discovery Call Connect with Dr. Nadine Macaluso Websites: drnae.com Facebook: facebook.com/drnaelmft X: x.com/i/flow/login?redirect_after_login=%2Ftherealdrnadine YouTube: youtube.com/c/TheRealDrNadine Instagram: instagram.com/therealdrnadine LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/therealdrnadine TikTok: tiktok.com/@drnaelmft Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like it to be discussed, please contact us by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

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Welcome to another episode of Restoring the Soul with Michael John Cusick. In today's conversation, Michael is joined by Summer Joy Gross—Anglican priest, spiritual director, and author of the new book, The Emmanuel Promise: Discovering the Security of a Life Held by God. Together, they dive into the transformative power of secure attachment with God, exploring how our personal histories, traumas, and life transitions shape our ability to connect with both ourselves and the Divine.Michael and Summer unpack the vital concepts of attachment theory, discuss the different attachment styles, and reflect on the power of lament, imaginative prayer, and community for deep inner healing. Summer shares candidly about her own story, the wounds and resilience that formed her, and her passion for helping others experience true rest and rootedness in God's presence.Support the showENGAGE THE RESTORING THE SOUL PODCAST:- Follow us on YouTube - Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Follow us on Instagram & Twitter- Follow Michael on Twitter- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.com Thanks for listening!

Children with secure attachment bonds will be able to feel protected by their parents, and they will be able to know that they can depend on them to guide them and support them in the emotional areas they require in order to develop relationships that are healthy and that of earned security.Connect with me --> https://drmatmonharrell.bio.link/Written by Dr. Matmon HarrellReferencesDiamond, G. S., Diamond, G. M., & Levy, S. A. (2014). Attachment-based family therapy for depressed adolescents. American Psychological Association. https://doi.org/10.1037/14296-000Links to an external site.Allen, K.R., & Henderson, A.C. (2017). Family theories: Foundations and applications. Wiley BlackwellAnderson, F.G., Sweezy, M., Schwartz, R.C. (2017) Internal family systems skills training manual: Trauma-informed treatment for anxiety, depression, PTSD and substance abuse. PESI, Inc.Diamond, G. S., Diamond, G. M., & Levy, S. A. (2014). Attachment-based family therapy for depressed adolescents. American Psychological Association. https://doi.org/10.1037/14296-000Kanter, D., & Lehr, W. (1975). Inspire the family: Toward a theory of family process. Joseph-Bass.Nelson, T. S. (2018). Solution-Focused Brief Therapy with Families. Taylor & Francis.Music provided by Podcastle Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/themindfulpharmd. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Why do we stay in relationships that break us?In this powerful episode of the Holistic Healing Podcast, host Luam is joined by Rebuilding Coach Racheal Richards to unpack the deep wounds of betrayal, self-abandonment, and codependency. Racheal shares raw, personal stories and insights from her coaching practice, helping women heal after heartbreak, rebuild self-worth, and finally learn to trust themselves again.Racheal Richards is a rebuilding coach who helps women restore self-worth, trust, and identity after heartbreak and betrayal. Known for her compassionate and practical approach, Racheal works with women navigating toxic relationships, divorce, or the emotional fallout of being unseen and unheard. Through individualized coaching and empowering insights, she helps clients step out of survival mode and into a life where they feel safe, seen, and whole again.Where to find more of Racheal:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Coach-Racheal-Richards/61553363520871/ Episode highlights:(0:00) Intro(02:30) What is a rebuilding coach?(07:17) From victim mindset to self-trust(10:33) Spotting trauma bonds vs. healthy love(16:28) Can trust ever be fully repaired?(21:19) Grace, dating again, and little wins(30:19) Why values must come before love(38:18) Why healing isn't linear(46:49) Narcissistic traits and emotional sabotage(51:46) Attachment styles and relationship patterns(58:44) Preparing emotionally, not just physically(1:09:06) The power of independence in love(1:12:03) Outro

Lecture One focuses on the foundation of secured transactions under Article 9 of the Uniform Commercial Code, exploring what a security interest is and how it is created. A secured transaction is a credit arrangement where the debtor provides collateral to secure repayment of a loan or performance of an obligation. The security interest gives the secured party an enforceable property right in the collateral, setting them apart from unsecured creditors.To create a valid and enforceable security interest, three essential elements must be met under U.C.C. Section one dash two zero one, b, thirty-five and Section nine dash two zero three. First, the secured party must give value, which can include loans, extensions of credit, or other forms of consideration. Second, the debtor must have rights in the collateral or the ability to transfer rights. Third, there must be a security agreement that meets the statute of frauds, which typically requires an authenticated record describing the collateral, or, alternatively, possession or control by the secured party.Collateral types are broadly categorized as goods (consumer goods, inventory, equipment, or farm products), instruments, accounts, chattel paper, deposit accounts, investment property, and general intangibles. The agreement may also cover after-acquired property and future advances, provided these are explicitly stated. Additionally, the security interest extends to identifiable proceeds from the collateral's sale or transfer.The lecture also emphasizes common pitfalls, such as vague collateral descriptions and unauthorized security grants, and reviews key cases like In re Bollinger Corp., which highlights the need for precision. Understanding these foundational concepts is essential for grasping later topics like perfection, priority, and enforcement.Key TakeawaysA security interest gives a creditor enforceable rights in collateral.Attachment requires value, debtor rights, and a valid security agreement.Collateral can include both tangible and intangible assets.After-acquired property and future advances can be secured if specified.Security interests extend to identifiable proceeds.Precision in describing collateral is critical.Article 9 focuses on personal property, not real estate.

In today's episode, Gina discusses the important topic of attachment and how this common mental phenomenon intertwines itself with anxiety.  Too much attachment can cause anxiety to worsen substantially.  Learning to let go through the art of compassion can go a long way to helping improve your well-being and reduce your anxiety. Please visit our Sponsor Page to find all the links and codes for our awesome sponsors!https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com/sponsors/ Thank you for supporting The Anxiety Coaches Podcast. FREE MUST-HAVE RESOURCE FOR Calming Your Anxious Mind10-Minute Body-Scan Meditation for Anxiety Anxiety Coaches Podcast Group Coaching linkACPGroupCoaching.comTo learn more, go to:Website https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.comJoin our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership ProgramLearn more about our One-on-One Coaching What is anxiety? Find even more peace and calm with our Supercast premium access membership:For $5 a month, all episodes are ad-free! https://anxietycoaches.supercast.com/Here's what's included for $5/month:❤ New Ad-Free episodes every Sunday and Wednesday❤ Access to the entire Ad-free back-catalog with over 600 episodes❤ Premium meditations recorded with you in mind❤ And more fun surprises along the way!All this in your favorite podcast app!Quote:When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.-Lao Tzu Chapters 0:26 Understanding Attachment and Anxiety 3:01 Exploring Attachment Styles 5:05 Everyday Signs of Attachment Anxiety 8:22 Practices for Letting Go 10:44 Embracing Change and Impermanence 12:12 The Power of Compassion 13:45 Loosening the Grip on Anxiety 14:54 Reflecting on Your AttachmentsSummary In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, I delve into the complex relationship between attachment and anxiety, exploring the concept of attachment not from a psychological standpoint but as a source of tension and distress in our lives. As we navigate the intricacies of attachment, I emphasize the detrimental aspects that can lead to increased anxiety, highlighting how our clinging to outcomes, people, emotions, beliefs, and the need for control can fundamentally disrupt our inner peace.We begin by acknowledging the importance of mindfulness, taking a moment to breathe deeply and settle into the present. This simple act serves as a reminder throughout our discussion, inviting listeners to adopt a mindset of calm and reflection. I stress that this episode's focus is on how unhealthy attachments manifest in our lives and subsequently fuel our anxiety. The essence of the anxious mind often revolves around a tight grip on expectations, leading to turmoil when those expectations aren't met.I introduce the concept of attachment theory, differentiating between the various styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—while also illustrating how these styles can shape our experiences and relationships. The exploration goes beyond these styles to consider our broader attachment to how life "should" unfold, which creates an added layer of anxiety when reality diverges from those expectations. #anxiety #attachment #lettinggo #compassion #anxiousmind #mentalhealth #selfcompassion #mindfulness #emotionalwellbeing #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthsupport #anxietyrelief #anxietyawareness #wellbeing #innerpeace #presentmoment #anxietyhelp #endthestigma #youarenotalone #healing #stress #stressrelief #emotionalhealth #selfcare #wellnessjourney #mindful #recoveryispossible #itsokaytonotbeokay #positivementalhealth #attachmenttheory #secureattachment #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #disorganizedattachment #attachmentstyles #relationshipgoals #healthyrelationships #attachmentissues #breakthecycle #attachmenthealing #ACP #anxietycoachespodcast #GinaRyan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, we go way beyond business talk.I sit down with Michael to dive deep into identity, intimacy, entrepreneurship, and embodiment—from reality TV to real-deal inner work.We riff on:→ The intersection of spirituality, sex, and self-expression→ The way desire, dreams, and prayer actually shape your reality→ Attachment styles, freedom in partnership, and the sacred kink of being fully seen→ The power of letting go of performance and choosing truth insteadThis is for the Light Leaders who are here for big business and big healing.Who know their path isn't supposed to look normal.Who are learning to lead, love, and live with their hearts fully open.Get ready for depth, permission, and some mic-drop moments.Let's go.

Ever feel cut off from your emotions? Discover how understanding your internal parts can lead to deeper, more fulfilling relationships with attachment trauma expert, Serena Yeager.03:00 Understanding Attachment Trauma and Parts Work in Therapy09:41 The Role of Protectors and Exiles17:09 Attachment Cry and Helping Partners Understand Attachment Trauma20:48 Window of Tolerance in Relationships24:49 Navigating Attachment Wounds and The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships30:10 Challenges in Polyamorous Relationships33:44 Self-Help Practices for Internal Parts Exploration41:47 Recommended Resources for Attachment and Parts WorkSerena Yeager is a trauma-informed psychotherapist and relationship educator specializing in helping LGBTQ+, kink, and non-monogamous communities heal attachment wounds and create fulfilling relationships. Using parts work and the mind-body connection, she empowers individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships to overcome reactive patterns and deepen authentic connections.Connect with Serena YeagerPractice website - Expansive Counseling - serenayeager.com  Education and courses - Expansive Education - expansiveeducation.podia.com Connect with Paige BondInstagram: @paigebondcoachingFacebook: @paigebondcoachingTikTok: @paigebondcoachingWebsite: https://paigebond.comPaige Bond specializes in helping individuals, couples, and intentionally non-monogamous partnerships feel grounded, confident, and connected in their love life. She is also the founder of ⁠Sweet Love Counseling⁠ providing therapy in CO, FL, SC, and VT. Paige loves educating people about relationships through being the host of ⁠the Stubborn Love podcast, ⁠hosting workshops, and speaking at conferences.Free Jealousy Workbook: ⁠⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠⁠ Free People Pleasing Workbook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠⁠ Attachment Dynamics Workshop:⁠https://www.paigebond.com/attachment-dynamics-workshop-sign-up⁠Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA's National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.Intro music by Coma-Media on ⁠⁠pixabay.com⁠

Lecture by Swami Tyagananda, given on June 1, 2025, at the Ramakrishna Vedanta Society, Boston, MA

In this raw solo episode, I'm calling out three pieces of “wellness propaganda” I refuse to follow—sleep training, daycare before age 3, and slathering on chemical sunscreen all day.  Expect science-backed research, mom-life honesty, and feminine-first biohacks that protect our babies' nervous systems and our own hormones.  If you're a high-achieving mom who's tired of being told to override intuition for convenience, this conversation is for you. DM me the “propaganda” you're ditching on Instagram. I TALK ABOUT:  08:00 – Propaganda #1: Sleep training vs. respecting an infant's circadian rhythm and HPA-axis development 15:10 – Attachment parenting, intuitive nap cues, and why I ditched the Huckleberry tracking app 19:00 – Propaganda #2: Daycare cortisol spikes, behavioral dysregulation, and why grandparent care wins for under-threes 26:40 – Rejecting the 40-hour grind and building a feminine-flow business around motherhood 33:55 – Propaganda #3: Sunlight as a nutrient, mitochondrial biogenesis, and choosing mineral blockers over chemical SPF 40:00 – My go-to zinc sunscreens — One Skin SPF 30 (code: BIOHACKINGBRITTANY) and Think Baby SPF 30 for Callahan SPONSORS: Feel your best with NOVOS—the only supplement targeting all 12 causes of aging. Use code BIOHACKINGBRITTANY for 10% off your first month! RESOURCES: Trying to conceive? Join my Baby Steps Course to optimize your fertility with biohacking. Free gift: Download my hormone-balancing, fertility-boosting chocolate recipe. Explore my luxury retreats and wellness events for women. Shop my faves: Check out my Amazon storefront for wellness essentials. Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters LET'S CONNECT: Instagram, TikTok, Facebook Shop my favorite health products Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube Music

In this curated selection from the Happy Space Podcast, I'm bringing back voices that challenge, inspire, and expand our thinking about designing for inclusion and accessibility. These encore episodes highlight conversations that continue to resonate—on neurodiversity, workplace design, and the small shifts that can make a big difference. Whether you're tuning in for the first time or revisiting a favourite, I hope these episodes offer fresh insight into how thoughtful design can help everyone show up and perform at their best.MillerKnoll's Ryan Anderson shares his research and talks about the benefits of respite spaces, place attachment, recognizing your own belonging cues at work, and how being intentional about usable designs makes for the most beautiful workspaces. You're listening to Episode 37 of the Happy Space Podcast. Today, I speak with MillerKnoll's Global Research lead, Ryan Anderson, about opportunities for organizations to create more inclusive workspaces that support sustainable performance.Ryan Anderson, VP of Global Research and Insights at MillerKnoll, shares his research, deep passion, and appreciation for inclusive design. Ryan suggests that we must dramatically rethink our workspaces in order to better reflect our biological, mental, and emotional needs at work. Ryan talks about the current need for “spaces for everyone”, including those who identify as neurodivergent. In addition, he discusses place attachment, the human tendency to form connections with physical spaces, and the challenges and limited opportunities offered by the practice of hoteling. The discussion underscores Clare's often made point that if you design for wellbeing performance will flow. Ryan Anderson serves as Vice President of Global Research and Insights at MillerKnoll, renowned workspace and furniture design company. Ryan's team leads MillerKnoll's research, shares insights publicly across the world, and provides workplace strategy and design services to MillerKnoll customers.With nearly thirty years of industry experience, Ryan's work has centered on how the places we inhabit can be better designed to support healthy, inclusive, and productive communities. Ryan hosts MillerKnoll's “About Place” podcast on the future of the workplace and regularly speaks at public events about MillerKnoll's historical and current research.He is a member of the SHRM (Society for Human Resource Management) Executive Network, an Executive Fellow at Woxsen University in Hyderabad India, and has been featured in a wide variety of publications such as The Wall Street Journal, NPR, the BBC, Fortune, Bloomberg, and beyond.CHAPTERS00:00 Introduction 05:49 The role of belonging cues in inclusive design11:28 The business case for inclusive design19:24 The future of workspace design and commercial real estate22:55 Respite spaces in the workspace26:34 The impact of diversity and culture on workspace design28:49 Sustainable productivity30:40 The role of leadership in promoting wellbeing and preventing burnout35:08 Hotelling and depersonalization of office space40:27 The importance of team-based workplace design42:13 The need for empathy in the workplaceLINKSHerman Miller MillerKnollHarkin Institute for Public PolicyNigel OselandBill Stumpf

What makes us feel secure, safe and supported in our relationships with partners, friends and family? Ximena Arriaga, PhD, talks about how early and ongoing life experiences shape our bonds with others, why our “attachment style” isn't fixed but can always change, and how partners can help each other thrive in their close relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“What do people really get for all their hard work? I have seen the burden God has placed on us all. Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God's work from beginning to end.” Ecclesiastes 3:9-11Ecclesiastes is one of my favorite books of the Bible. I might be weird in this, I don't know many other people who would say Ecclesiastes is their favorite. To me, it's one of the most human books in the whole Bible. Not only does it have some of my favorite verses, but it's such a relatable look at one man's struggles. Ecclesiastes is another entry in the Wisdom Literature of the Bible, along with Job, Psalms and Proverbs and, even though it may not seem like wisdom literature at first glance, it becomes clear why the more you spend time in it.To help us navigate the book of Ecclesiastes is Dr. Richard Belcher. Dick is the John and Frances Gwin Professor of Old Testament at Reformed Theological Seminary and author of the Mentor Commentary on Ecclesiastes. Doable Discipleship is a Saddleback Church podcast produced and hosted by Jason Wieland. It premiered in 2017 and now offers more than 400 episodes. Episodes release every Tuesday on your favorite podcast app and on the Saddleback Church YouTube Channel (https://www.youtube.com/saddleback).Resources Related to This Episode:https://www.amazon.com/Ecclesiastes-Commentary-Richard-Belcher-Jr/dp/1527100413Subscribe to the Doable Discipleship podcast at Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doable-discipleship/id1240966935) or Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/1Zc9nuwQZOLadbFCZCmZ1V)Related Doable Discipleship Episodes: Navigating the Bible: Proverbs - https://youtu.be/DytRT5AsZg8Navigating the Bible: Psalms - https://youtu.be/oZeesooAYUINavigating the Bible: Job - https://youtu.be/14jaf2T1eCQNavigating the Bible: Esther - https://youtu.be/7RZ7ATWQZucNavigating the Bible: Nehemiah - https://youtu.be/Gok4WDgwn5INavigating the Bible: Ezra - https://youtu.be/aBC0nEjYeyoNavigating the Bible: 2 Chronicles - https://youtu.be/OG3rHTgMgEINavigating the Bible: 1 Chronicles - https://youtu.be/lQ_Qc4zbfgANavigating the Bible: 2 Kings - https://youtu.be/04q9gDhBKTkNavigating the Bible: 1 Kings - https://youtu.be/aS-KoeQXl2kNavigating the Bible: 2 Samuel - https://youtu.be/ZbpafGgOW7cNavigating the Bible: 1 Samuel - https://youtu.be/lY8wPElSFMYNavigating the Bible: Rute - https://youtu.be/YaH-t-ZzTaMNavigating the Bible: Judges - https://youtu.be/qNGcOf2o0NUNavigating the Bible: Joshua - https://youtu.be/hF28aThBtFsNavigating the Bible: Deuteronomy - https://youtu.be/HzmNgPOM4zUNavigating the Bible: Numbers - https://youtu.be/H1HO6V9HDxsNavigating the Bible: Leviticus - https://youtu.be/08RhDCXYex4Navigating the Bible: Exodus - https://youtu.be/NB9UTpS1F3MNavigating the Bible: Genesis - https://youtu.be/ddhjMfOoasAInspiring Dreams by Keys of Moon | https://soundcloud.com/keysofmoonMusic promoted by https://www.chosic.com/free-music/all/Creative Commons CC BY 4.0https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Dene Logan, marriage and family therapist and author of Sovereign Love, joins Han on the podcast for a deep conversation on the journey back to our authentic Self (capital S). Dene dives into her own story, how she's pursued healing, how we've been socialized to abandon our essence in exchange for acceptance, and what it takes to unravel the masks we've worn to survive. From love vs. attachment to reparenting, ego control, and the inner child, the girls get into:authenticity vs. attachmenthow ego, shame & control keep us safe, but stuckthe myth of independence & the truth about hyper-independencelove vs. possession: what we've gotten wrongthe ache to be reparented in our relationshipssacred partnership & seeing people clearlyself-abandonment in the name of “potential” learning to stay with ourselves in hard feelingsfalling back in love with our own essencetrusting life over controlthe inner teenager & the parentified child& MORE

Does neurodiversity impact relational attachments? What does secure and insecure attachment look like for those who aren't neurotypical?In this episode of the Attachment to God podcast, hosts Geoff and Cyd Holsclaw are joined by Barbara Grant, a specialist in autism and neurodiverse couples coaching. They talk about how neurodiversity impacts relational attachments and spiritual practices, particularly in the context of secure and insecure attachment. Barbara Grant, holds a Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy, a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and a certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE). She edited and is one of the authors of Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriages and is the co-host of The Neurodiverse Couple's Coaches podcast. Dive deeper in our new book, Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection, and learn about our trainings and other resources at embodiedfaith.life.Stay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

My guest is Dr. Mary-Frances O'Connor, PhD, Professor of Clinical Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Arizona and a world expert on the science of grief and loss. We discuss what happens in the brain and body when we grieve, the role of dopamine and yearning in the grieving process, the health risks of getting stuck at particular stages of grief and how to move through loss while also deeply honoring the person, animal or thing that is no longer with us. Dr. O'Connor explains that grief involves cycling back and forth between protest and despair (often guilt and anger too) and explains science-supported ways to move through that process in the healthiest possible way. Everyone experiences grief and loss at some point. Dr. O'Connor provides valuable knowledge and tools to help you navigate grief under any circumstance. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Wealthfront**: https://wealthfront.com/huberman BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/huberman Helix Sleep: https://helixsleep.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman **This experience may not be representative of the experience of other clients of Wealthfront, and there is no guarantee that all clients will have similar experiences. Cash Account is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, Member FINRA/SIPC. The Annual Percentage Yield (“APY”) on cash deposits as of December 27,‬ 2024, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to partner banks where they earn the variable‭ APY. Promo terms and FDIC coverage conditions apply. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Timestamps 00:00:00 Mary-Frances O'Connor 00:02:22 Grief vs Grieving; Love & Bonding, Gone Yet Everlasting 00:07:42 Sponsors: Wealthfront & BetterHelp 00:10:29 Sudden vs Slow Death, Attachment, Reframing Relationship 00:14:52 Religion, Integrating the New Relationship 00:20:46 Yearning, Dopamine, Brain, Addiction 00:27:58 Culture & Grief Literacy; Protest, Despair & Hope, New Relationships 00:40:09 Sponsors: AG1 & Helix Sleep 00:43:21 Protest, Despair & Transmutation; Changing Attachment Hierarchy 00:52:04 Bereavement Support, Medical Risk 01:05:27 Culture, Alcohol & Death; Dying of a Broken Heart, Medical Risk 01:13:40 Sponsor: Function 01:15:28 Navigating Grief, Emotions & Body, Tool: Progressive Muscle Relaxation 01:23:57 Grief Stages; Permission & Coping, Judgment & Guilt; Lessons from Grief 01:35:44 Grieving Suicide, Rumination, Tool: Shifting Environment 01:47:24 Belief Systems, Religion & Grief 01:54:17 Afterlife, Contemplating Death 01:58:35 Tools: Contemplating Death; Life Celebration, Terror Management, Empathy 02:07:46 Mental Oscillation, Dual Model of Bereavement 02:14:00 Avoidance; Remembering a Loved One, Resilience; Getting Worse & Seeking Professional Help 02:22:15 Time Perception & End of Life, Motivation & Energy 02:30:01 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

'Cause I love you more than you could know And your heart, it grows every time it breaks I know that it might sound strange But I wish you pain  - “Wish You Pain” by Andy Grammar   Summary Every parent wants to keep their kids safe, but is it possible to keep them “too safe”?  In this podcast episode we dive into the overwhelming cult of safety-ism, which makes keeping your child from all pain and suffering an idol. Children are really “antifragile” - meaning that they need to have an appropriate amount of stress physically, mentally and emotionally to be able to become resilient.  Over-protecting and keeping kids from physical or emotional pain only makes them more anxious and risk-averse.  We have lots of examples of giving kids freedom, and the results aren't always what you think!  Like so much of parenting, you need to keep in mind the stage of development your child is in to be able to expose them to appropriate risks.  You don't let your 12 yr old wander down a dark alley, but you should let them go into the grocery store alone.  Listen in for some encouragement as well as tips and tricks to not keeping your kids safe, but making them strong!     Key Takeaways Do all you can to keep kids in Discover Mode.  Exploring is what kids do and it will keep them curious and confident. Don't keep them safe, make them strong. Children will get hurt, get sick, get disappointed, cry with frustration…. Because they are human!   Attachment to parents is key to give kids a secure base Fearful parenting keeps kids close too much and for too long Children need play-based childhood.    Couple Discussion Questions How were we raised?  Were we raised in a home that was in Discovery Mode or Defend Mode?  Assess our family right now in light of safety vs. appropriate risk.  How are our children being raised?  What can we do to improve our family's Discovery Mode for the long term benefit of our children?  

Shownotes The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner One of Dr. Tatkin's top ways to create safety for your partner The biggest mistake people make in modern dating Bio Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. Dr Tatkin is the author of In Each Other's Care, We Do, Wired for Love, Your Brain on Love, Relationship Rx, Wired for Dating, What Every Therapist Ought to Know, co-author of Love and War in Intimate Relationships and co-author of Baby Bomb. Dr. Tatkin received his early training in developmental self and object relations (Masterson Institute), Gestalt, psychodrama, and family systems theory. His private practice specialized for some time in treating adolescents and adults with personality disorders. More recently, his interests turned to psycho-neurobiological theories of human relationship and applying principles of early mother-infant attachment to adult romantic relationships. Dr. Tatkin was clinical director of Charter Hospital's intensive outpatient drug and alcohol program and is a former president of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Ventura County chapter.  He is a veteran member of Allan N. Schore's study group. He also trained in the Adult Attachment Interview by way of Mary Main and Erik Hesse's program through UC Berkeley. Timestamps 00:00:43 - Guest introduction 00:03:58 - The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning 00:06:00 - How to find compassion for an anxious or avoidant 00:09:59 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at ⁠LaylaMartin.com⁠ 00:11:49 - Layla describes an avoidant's experience as a baby 00:13:19 - Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles 00:16:17 - Attachment isn't personality, it's memory 00:21:49 - Plan for your devils, not your angels 00:25:43 - How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer 00:26:54 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠  00:33:32 - Dr. Tatkin's advice for the moments you see your partner as an enemy 00:37:27 - Discover ⁠MOOD™ Sex Magic⁠ 00:38:20 - What do you secretly put in front of your relationship? 00:45:48 - Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner 00:46:53 - How to learn to take care of your partner's nervous system 00:49:14 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with ⁠Obliss⁠ 00:50:50 - One of Dr. Tatkin's top ways to create safety for your partner 00:54:05 - Why apologizing can subconsciously feel like weakness 00:57:11 - Dr. Tatkin explains the details of “The Couple Bubble” 01:00:34 - What Dr. Tatkin sees that the happiest long term couples do 01:03:50 - Insecures don't believe there's such a thing as fairness and justice 01:05:44 - The biggest mistake people make in modern dating 01:08:07 - Dr. Tatkin celebrates his wife and his relationship 01:11:55 - Secure functioning is very hard but it's worth it 01:12:00 - Conclusion

This is a Grave Talks CLASSIC EPISODE! On a cool and windy day, Soula Vaitsis was just a young girl enjoying a simple moment at the park, swinging with a friend. But that moment quickly became a life-altering experience when an unseen force pulled their hair, and they turned to find a glowing woman in white hovering above them, with dark, empty sockets for eyes. That was just the beginning of Soula's long and terrifying journey with paranormal encounters. Over the years, she would come to realize that the entity was not a random ghost, but something far darker—an attachment that had been following her for years. In this classic episode of The Grave Talks, we dive into Soula's chilling story of living with an unseen force and how she finally found peace after years of terrifying encounters with spirits, demons, and dark energy. This is Part Two of our conversation. If you enjoy our interviews and conversations about "The Dead," why not listen ad-free? Become a Premium Supporter of The Grave Talks Through Apple Podcasts or Patreon (http://www.patreon.com/thegravetalks) There, you will get: Access to every episode of our show, AD-FREE! Access to every episode of our show before everyone else! Other EXCLUSIVE supporter perks and more 

This is a Grave Talks CLASSIC EPISODE! On a cool and windy day, Soula Vaitsis was just a young girl enjoying a simple moment at the park, swinging with a friend. But that moment quickly became a life-altering experience when an unseen force pulled their hair, and they turned to find a glowing woman in white hovering above them, with dark, empty sockets for eyes. That was just the beginning of Soula's long and terrifying journey with paranormal encounters. Over the years, she would come to realize that the entity was not a random ghost, but something far darker—an attachment that had been following her for years. In this classic episode of The Grave Talks, we dive into Soula's chilling story of living with an unseen force and how she finally found peace after years of terrifying encounters with spirits, demons, and dark energy. If you enjoy our interviews and conversations about "The Dead," why not listen ad-free? Become a Premium Supporter of The Grave Talks Through Apple Podcasts or Patreon (http://www.patreon.com/thegravetalks) There, you will get: Access to every episode of our show, AD-FREE! Access to every episode of our show before everyone else! Other EXCLUSIVE supporter perks and more!

Attachment styles: Internet BS or hardwired truth? Find out on Part 1 of 2 with Dr. Sarah Hensley!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.