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Hosted by a former traditionally monogamous couple of over a decade to now an openly married swinging couple, we explore the ethical, consensual, sexual non-monogamy lifestyle and talk through our own thoughts and opinions. Whether you're just starting out in this lifestyle or are a veteran, there's something here for everyone. Friendship is the goal, anything more is sextracurricular. Stop by and take a listen! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

James & Mirage


    • Jan 31, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 40m AVG DURATION
    • 22 EPISODES


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    Episode 20 - Insane in the Membrane (Living with Erectile Dysfunction)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 16:28


    In this episode, James shares his experience of living with psychological erectile dysfunction including lessons learned, how he deals with it when it comes up, and what his journey has been as he and Mirage have made new partners along the way. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! ⁠⁠ james@sextracurricular.com⁠⁠ / ⁠⁠mirage@sextracurricular.com⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠@sextracurriculr⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 19 - Joining the Illuminaughty - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2024 35:56


    In this episode, James and Mirage continue the spicy story of their first west coast sex party. Mirage describes what it was like to participate in her first fivesome as the center of attention and the many connections that came out of that experience. A HUGE thank you to @illuminaughtymembersclub for curating such a welcoming and safe environment. Go check them out! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! ⁠⁠james@sextracurricular.com⁠⁠ / ⁠⁠mirage@sextracurricular.com⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠@sextracurriculr⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/support

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    Episode 18 - Joining the Illuminaughty - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2024 37:07


    In this episode, James and Mirage talk about attending their first sex party on the west coast, the infamous “booty tower”, and the comfort they felt within minutes of diving head-first into a new environment. A HUGE thank you to @illuminaughtymembersclub for curating such a welcoming and safe environment. Go check them out! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! ⁠⁠james@sextracurricular.com⁠⁠ / ⁠⁠mirage@sextracurricular.com⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠@sextracurriculr⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠@sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/support

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    Let's Try This Again (Season 2 Kickoff)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2024 0:56


    James and Mirage are back and officially announcing the next season of The Sextracurricular Podcast. Stay tuned for more episodes! Song Credits: "New Beginnings" by Blurred Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! ⁠james@sextracurricular.com⁠ / ⁠mirage@sextracurricular.com⁠ Twitter: ⁠@sextracurriculr⁠ TikTok: ⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠ Instagram: ⁠@sextracurricularpodcast⁠ Facebook: ⁠@sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 17 - Polyamorous Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2022 52:08


    In this episode, James and Mirage share what they've learned as parents in this lifestyle and offer advice on how they make dating work with their busy schedules. They discuss what kind of parenting styles they were raised in, and what challenges they typically face. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricularpodcast Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 16 - Our First Couple - Part 4 (Aftermath)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2022 60:06


    In this bonus episode, James and Mirage discuss what happened after their first full swap experience. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricularpodcast Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 15 - Our First Couple - Part 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2022 49:25


    In this final episode of a three part series, James and Mirage talk about their first full swap experience with their first couple. You don't want to miss the spicy details! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 14 - Our First Couple - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2022 31:03


    In this second episode of a three part series, James and Mirage meet their first couple for a second date. They talk about what it felt like to have drinks, flirt, and play board games with a new set of friends. The anticipation of what would happen next is something you don't want to miss! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 13 - Our First Couple - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2022 40:24


    In this three-part series, James and Mirage talk about meeting their first couple four months after their first hotwife experience. As a newly swinging couple, they discuss the nerves of meeting an experienced couple and what it was like to learn about their dynamic. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 12 - Welcome To Hell (A Deconstruction Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2022 56:36


    In this episode, Mirage shares her upbringing in the Catholic church, her leap into Christianity, and the issues that lead to deconstructing from her faith and the modern Church. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 11 - John 16:33 (A Deconstruction Story) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2022 36:46


    James wraps up his deconstruction story and talks about where he's at spiritually. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 10 - John 16:33 (A Deconstruction Story) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2022 72:44


    In this two-part series, James describes his beginnings of faith, relationship with Mirage, and parenting. He talks about his loss of faith in the modern Church, humanity, and Christianity. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 9 - Love You Anyway (A Coming Out Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 42:15


    James and Mirage share their coming out experiences with trusted colleagues, co-workers, and friends along with the support and judgement that comes along with the territory. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 8 - Enough To Go Around (Exploring Polyamory)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2022 44:46


    In this episode, James and Mirage talk about how the lines of swinging and polyamory have been blurred as they continue to foster their new relationships. Mirage discusses how she's exploring her bisexuality and being fulfilled in a whole new way she never imagined. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 7 - The Slut Awakens

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2022 59:16


    In this episode, Mirage talks about how she became comfortable with creating adult content online. Having started with little to no exposure, she talks about how porn and masturbation provided much needed healing to overcome previous sexual trauma. James and Mirage discuss how their relationship with porn has changed over the years, and how enjoying porn together has facilitated growth in their relationship and their new lifestyle. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com Twitter: @sextracurriculr TikTok: @sextracurricular Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 6 - Hotwife To Swinging

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2022 41:48


    In this episode, James and Mirage discuss how their relationship changed from hotwife to swinging. Mirage talks about the mental obstacles and insecurities she overcame with the help of a few recommended resources. She also sheds light into her personal relationship with porn and masturbation. In addition, she talks about how this new lifestyle allowed her to understand more of herself and gain confidence to make adult content. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com mirage@sextracurricular.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 5 - Where Are We Now?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2022 27:52


    In this episode, James and Mirage update their listeners on what's changed since their first sexual encounter described in the previous episode. They both talk about the strengthening of their trust for each other, making adult content online, and briefly touch on what's new in their sex lives. James and Mirage also chat about how much fun they are having as a sexually open, swinging couple and the exciting times ahead! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com mirage@sextracurricular.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 4 - Our First Time (The Initiation) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 51:04


    This is the episode you have been waiting for where James and Mirage describe their first successful hotwife experience. You don't want to miss this! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com mirage@sextracurricular.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 3 - Our First Time (The Initiation) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 42:34


    In this episode, James and Mirage describe what it was like to finally meet someone in person along with all the feelings that came with the anticipation of their first successful hotwife experience. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com mirage@sextracurricular.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 2 - Red Light, Green Light

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 44:22


    How do you pursue opening up a relationship? In this episode, James and Mirage describe all the starts and stops that occurred as they embarked on finding another person to fulfill a fantasy. They talk about the first awkward encounter, signing up on dating apps, and the mental gymnastics that were required in order to make this idea into a reality. Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com mirage@sextracurricular.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Episode 1 - How It Started

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2022 40:36


    How does a traditional, former Evangelical Christian couple go from a monogamous foundation to branching out into new sexual territory? In this first episode, James and Mirage discuss how it all began and the steps they took towards exploring this new lifestyle together. James talks about how he had brought up the idea, how Mirage reacted, and how it unlocked a brand new set of conversations neither of them would have expected! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! james@sextracurricular.com mirage@sextracurricular.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

    Sextracurricular Podcast Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2022 0:36


    Preview of what our show is about --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sextra-curricular/support

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