Working through some things

The issue has reared its ugly head again so we're talking colourism. We explain why darker skinned women have the right to be angry, but why we also hope your faves still get their checks. But this discussion was wider and deeper. We revisited our first experiences of colourism, what it felt like to be the darkest in our family homes and why it is reductive to say colourism is just a black issue. Ultimately, we don't want any more black baby girls, whatever their shade to be deprived of the solidarity we all so desperately need from each other. This week, Izin was joined by the wonderful @KorkorKanor as Faizah had to focus on university work. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This time we're discussing all things studying in a global pandemic. From the challenges we've faced with sticking to a routine and concentrating to the things we've found helpful both emotionally and practically. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Will the nuclear family become obsolete? Why is there so much stigma around single mums? Why do some people want children so much that they are willing to do it alone? These are some of the questions we are grappling with in this weeks episode. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Can you be pro black and date outside your race and, have ever dated outside our race? And, what informs our dating choices? These are some of the questions we try to grapple with this week. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

As many if not all of you guys are aware we are currently living in a global pandemic lol. Currently like many other places, the UK is pretty much on lockdown. We are talking the pros and cons of quarantine life, how we are structuring our day as well as the first things we're going to do when this is over, whenever that will be lol. We hope everyone is safe and as well as can be expected in these trying times and that everyone is practising social distancing. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

With university drawing to a close for us we decided to have a chat about working in the corporate world versus the public sector. Can you really do any social good in the corporate world? And, what are some of the cons of working in the public sector? Tune in to see how we tackle these questions! Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Are we demotivated or are we just doing things that we dislike? Is there a difference between being demotivated versus procrastination? These are some of the questions we are tackling in this weeks episode. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

So lads by the end of the decade we'll be in our thirties, low key scary init. From career to family to love and relationships and possibly marriage too, we had a chat about what we want from this decade. We also visualised an ideal day in our lives. As always lots of laughter and bants. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

From choosing the right outfit to waiting for an Uber(after it has cancelled on you several times)after the motive is finished, we discuss our best and worse nights out. We also had a chat about our pet peeves and if we are getting too old for nights out on the town. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Who is entitled to citizenship? And, what role does privilege play if any? This weeks' topic was partly inspired by Izin's poem on the nuances of citizenship. We grapple with the question of whether citizenship ought to be taken away and, how the sacrifices our parents have made as first and second generation immigrants impact us. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Do the dead automatically get given the all clear? Does speaking about their wrongdoings really tarnish their legacy? Who gets the benefit of the doubt, who doesn't and how is this affected by privilege? These are all the questions we grapple with in this episode of Working Through Some Things. We were joined by the lovely Danielle aka @baithoeven (Twitter and Instagram handle) as a replacement this week. She's a brilliant writer with bylines at the Guardian, Grazia and Gal-dem to name just a few. Faizah has tonsillitis and is recovering, but she'll be back soon and I'm sure she sends her love. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we work through the tough questions, both personal and political. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Oppression comes in many different forms and impacts people in various ways. This week was kind of a thought experiment. We talked about what a day in our life would be like without oppression and discussed if it is possible for groups to co-exist without individuals dominating one another. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Does sharing online make us feel more connected or more isolated? How much is too much to share? And when is it ok to use that block button even though you love your friend to bits? Faizah reflects on whether she thinks she has shared too much on the podcast and Izin talk about whether its time to take some medication for her verbal diarrhoea. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This time we're discussing what it means to be a good ally. We talked about the difference of speaking over people and being an ally as well as recalling moments where someone has been a good ally to us and, times where we haven't been a good ally to others. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

We live in a society that promotes a consumerist culture. Everyday we buy and spend ps without necessarily thinking about its implications. This week we started off with some quick fire questions, talking the last things we have brought to the last thing we've repaired. We then had a chat about the ways we are trying to break up with consumerism and, how/why we use consumerism to validate ourselves. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

As we always say relationships/ situationships are a sticky one still. This time we're discussing if closure is really necessary. We attempted to define what closure actually means and if wanting closure is a selfish thing. Also we had a chat about if closure is invalid if you end up back with the same person. We are joined by a couple of special guests too! As always lots of laughter and fun. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This week we're discussing surviving life through the holidays, from balancing work and rest to navigating family dynamics during this period. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

As 2019 draws to a close, we reflect upon some of the highlights of the year, from travelling to academic/career achievements to special family moments. We also spoke about how 2019 has tested us and what we have learnt about our personalities. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

It is important to be introspective. Sometimes we must breakdown our feelings and emotions in the quest of understanding a little more about ourselves. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This time we're talking all things friendships. We discuss times where someone has been a good friend to us and, moments where we've been a bad friend to each other. We also had a chat about the difference between supporting and enabling our friends and, if neoliberal ideals have entered into our friendships. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

The short answer to this question is yes, lol. But, on a more serious note we discussed the best and worst things about adulting, to the moments when we realised the we were actually grown and, the things that have shocked us the most about adult life. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Failure is something we all face. It may pain us in our chest but it does teach us some valuable lessons. This week we're reminiscing on times where we've tried our best but it didn't work out, and reflecting on how we responded and eventually recovered. Also, we spoke about if it is healthy to consider the possibility of failure. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

It's fair to say that we live in a society where the money equates to power and choices. This time we're discussing this broad question of whether billionaires should exist where we explore the relationship between wealth and exploitation. We also spoke about how we would go about creating a society where people don't desire to hoard or accumulate money. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This time we decided to do something a bit different and just talk of the cuff about things we're working through this week. From our worries concerning life after graduation to dealing with the reemergence of guys from our past and the desire to have our own home but not wanting to pay rent lol. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Safety and security are a major key. Sometimes we don't realise how crucial they are until we feel threatened. After our home got burgled, we had a frank chat about how we've been coping and how powerlessness makes us feel unsafe. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

With Black History Month drawing to a close here in the UK, we decided to recall on some of our favourite songs and albums by Black artists of all different genres, from grime to reggae to hip hop to afro swing (just to name a few). We reminisced on some of the funny, pertinent and nostalgic memories we have associated with these songs from the incredibly talented and diverse range of Black artists. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Privilege. Often referred to or discussed from a negative perspective rather than being a statement of truth. This week we spoke about how we are privileged touching on this idea of cultural capital. Also, we had a chat about why conversations surrounding privilege are sometimes ineffective which led us to think of constructive ways that we can use our privilege on a day to day basis. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This week we're celebrating the diversity of Black British womanhood. From those Black British women who have impacted and inspired us to the most valuable lessons we have learned as Black women. We reflect on our experiences growing up as well as how British society can celebrate Black British women. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

With Black History month kicking off here in the UK, we recalled our earliest memories of commemorating the month with it being very telling in terms of the differences of our experiences. Also, we spoke about the best ways to celebrate Black History month from both a personal and institutional level, focusing on the workplace and education system. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

We live in a culture that is always chasing after the next big thing. Bigger. Better. Braver. This week we're thinking about whether that affects our ability to be grateful for the little things. We reflect on the things we've taken for granted. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Continuing on from last weeks theme of what do we owe each other, if anything at all, we discussed if unconditional love is feasible between romantic partners and if it is or can become a detriment, especially for women. We also spoke about love languages, what they are, and how they can help us in our different relationships from parent to child and within both platonic and romantic relationships. You can follow the lovely @KorkorKanor on Twitter who wrote our amazing questions this week x Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

What do we owe each other, if anything? In theory, we can all do exactly as we please but in reality, the betrayal we feel when people don't meet our expectations is real. It hurts. From the relationships between parents and children, siblings, life partners and even teachers and students - we take a look at the expectations we carry, why we carry them and whether or not we have the right to. You can follow the lovely @KorkorKanor on Twitter who wrote our amazing questions this week x Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

It’s calm and we move. Things often said as a sign that we’ve moved on although a situation may have pained us in our chest lol. This week, we spoke about situations where something has bothered us and we’ve acted like it didn’t. Also, we had a chat about times where we’ve had the courage to address things which have annoyed us. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

With our final year of uni quickly approaching we are reflecting on our biggest L's and our major W's thus far. We also had a chat about if uni is worth the money and the time and, if we could restart our university journey, would we do it all again. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Congrats to everyone who received their GCSE and A-Level results! This week we reminisced on our first results day (seems like a long time ago now lol) and, we discussed what it was like settling into both uni and college. Also, we spoke about our advice if you had a bad results day as well as some tips for starting college and uni. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Lads, adulting is a real something no one warned us lol. We're discussing the biggest changes from living at uni to moving back home and the possibilities of working abroad or moving to a different city. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Wow guys. Welcome to another episode of life is stepping on our necks lol. But seriously, this week we spoke about prioritising, organising and all of that other not very fun, but very necessary stuff. As standard, lots of laughs along the way. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This episode we recalled times where we've pushed through our frustrations and persevered and, situations where we have given up. We also touched upon how you decide if it's time to give up or persevere. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

It's a tough one still but it's something we all go through. We reflected on times where we have felt vulnerable and how we've tried to combat it. Also, we spoke about signs which show when someone else is feeling vulnerable. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This time we're talking money struggles over summer. We reflect upon our first summer jobs, and discuss enjoying summer without feeling guilty. We also give some advice on finding a summer job and preparing for internships. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Relationships and situationships are a sticky one still. We're discussing dealing with past baggage from previous relationships, guarding your heart after a rough breakup and the importance of vulnerability for a good relationship. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

It’s mad when you realise that emotional intelligence plays such a huge role from our relationships with family and friends to our interactions in the workplace. We discussed our understanding of emotional intelligence. Also, we spoke about the strengths and weaknesses of our personalities in relation to emotional intelligence. School of Life video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-J9BVBjK3o&t=374s Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Summertime is finally here! We are reminiscing on our best summer memories and our biggest summer L's. We also spoke about how planning is a major key to having a lit summer. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Self care is a major key and all that. Even Audre Lorde said this. We spoke about our favourite methods, why it works but also why it doesn't work sometimes. Also we spoke about whether self-care could be a collective thing, and whether it could be free. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

Turns out it's more than you might think. To help us break down what we need, and what we've got vs what we haven't, we used something called Maslow's Hierachy of Needs. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

It's hard init. We all know we're capable of being less than perfect but we find it hard to let go of anger when others betray us. We're working through it. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you would like to get in contact: @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

That green eyed monster. This conversation was a lot. We spoke about how to deal with feeling jealous, what to do when others are jealous of you and asked whether envy is inherently a bad thing. We also had a chat about the times we've been jealous of one another. Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. You can join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST on social media If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This time we're talking exams. We tell you about our biggest exam failures and successes, and all the study tips that we've refined from GCSE to university. We also give you some practical advice on what you can do if your grades don't bang. Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. You can join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST on social media If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

We all worry about what others think about us. It's natural. And although most of us know how unsettling it is to feel judged, we can't help but judge other people. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST on social media @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493

This week we're talking why we might need more discipline and what's stopping us from patterning up. Hold tight everyone dealing with exam pressure or struggling to find work-life balance. Join the conversation using the hashtag #WTST on social media @Izin_A on Twitter and Instagram @faizahmalaikah on Instagram Welcome to Working Through Some Things with Izin and Faizah. In this podcast, we put all our mess on the table and work through it, because we think too many people act like they have it all figured out and they are bloody liars. We laugh a lot and reflect a lot and we are still bad b's. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm GMT. If you'd like to speak to someone about an issue you're facing, try calling one of the numbers below: UK: 116 123 US:(877) 870-HOPE France: 0 800 858 858 Nigeria: +2348062106493 or +2348092106493