Podcast appearances and mentions of Winifred M Reilly

Hello there my babies! Are you excited about the continuation of our discovering the Naked Truth: our relationship discord in your sex life episodes?!  Well, you are in for a treat because we will talk about two more kinds of people you may want to steer away from today. I am also sharing tips and tricks from my personal experience on how to deal with these kinds of partners.  I'll answer these common questions... Who are the ‘busy beavers'? How should I know if my partner is a ‘dick'? How can I close the gap between me and my ‘busy' partner? Why does my partner doesn't want to have sex with me? How can I break the bad behavior pattern? You will learn... Understanding the ‘busy beavers' How to determine whether your partners are ‘busy beavers' or ‘dicks' Closing the gap between you and your ‘busy' partner? The reason why your partner does not want to do it with you Breaking the pattern- why and how? Grab these takeaways... Using the term low libido is a label that can be damaging to a woman's sexiness. Sex drive is something that can change, whereas libido, can sound like an awful death sentence. Ask: What is up? Let that question sit, and then let it sit for a while. Fix yourself before you go fixing your partner. What you can do: Break the pattern. You may bring anything up and then he gets mad at you.  In these times, you need to break up the pattern a little bit.  Makeup sex can be exciting, but this cycle is just going to perpetuate then eventually get someone hurt.  Recommended Book:  It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with (Almost) No Help from My Spouse—and How You Can, Too a Book by Winifred M. Reilly Your next best steps... Come join me in The ME Spot Community! It's FREE & a great safe place to get your intimate questions answered by me directly, and to meet other marvelous members as well! http://TheMeSpotPodcast.com

This week Jules (@blackacrylic), Tobi (@jollofandmalt) and Nomsa @nomiefk) discuss World Cancer Day (2:00), Black Panther red carpet hype (4:17), @DavidMcQueen and @MadelineMcQueen’s new relationships podcast (8.30), Rihanna’s West African education initiative (9.25) and Somali girls not repping Africa at the Maleek Berry concert (10.57). The team also discuss Leslie Jones and the fear of dying alone (14:10), the politics of desire (17:34) colourism, dating and personal preference (28:58) and answer your questions on sex, dating and marriage (38:00) in time for Valentine’s Day! Topics include, telling your partner the sex is lame, love languages, friends with benefits, keeping your relationship fresh and so much more! Books - The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman - Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel - It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with (Almost) No Help from My Spouse by Winifred M. Reilly We would love to hear from you! Tweet us @Kipepeopod