Kipepeo Podcast

This week Jules (@blackacrylic), Tobi (@jollofandmalt) and Nomsa (@nomiefk) are joined by Junior Doctor and sexual health activist Dr. Annabel Sowemimo (@SoSowemimo). During the catch up Annabel introduces her recent project, “Decolonising Contraception” (@decolonisingcontra) and discusses her recent move back to London (1:00). Tobi shares insights from his latest read: “Sex and the Empire that is no more: Gender and the politic of Metaphor in Oyo Yoruba Religion” by J. Lorand Matory (3:20), Nomsa is celebrating a promotion at work (8:40) and Jules is doing a 10k charity run for #WorldAidsDay (13:30). The team share their views on the recent deportation of former rouge UBS trader Kweku Adobli (17:00). Would the punishment have been as severe for a British or EU citizen? Was Kweku in the sunken place? (18:50). They also discuss broader immigration issues, such as the British government financing a prison in Jamaica (25:30) and deportation centres in the UK. After a brief chat about Ariana Grande and blackfishing online (37:20), they talk abut the unexpected death of model and actress Kim Porter and why some doctors don’t believe black women (38:50). Confronting inequities in healthcare is a key part of Annabel’s work in the sexual health and she gives examples of the historical context that has lead to how people of colour engage with sexual health today (43:00) and much more! Read Annabel’s latest article on decolonising contraception here: http://gal-dem.com/we-cannot-be-complacent-about-black-women-and-hiv-decolonisingcontraception/ Sadly, Tobi and Nomsa are leaving the Kipepeo podcast and they close this episode with their favourite moments from the podcast and tell listeners why have decided to move on :( (01:17:00) Song of the week: Another Lover by VanJess Tweet us @kipepeopod!

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) are joined by Tomi Adeyemi, author of Children of blood and bone. Tomi shares highlights from meeting fans of her book in London (02:00), Jules is living her best life and recommends a bomb facial for darker skin in London (05:30), and Tobi levels up with a new job opportunity and talks celebrating African heritage (08:00). Tomi discusses growing up with Nigerian parents and being pushed to aspire for excellence (09:20), her statistical approach to success (14:00) and convincing her parents to support her pursuing a career as a writer (17:45). The team also explore everything they love about Children of blood and bone, including the inclusion of real traditional African deities and the readers’ reaction to Orisha (30:30), rediscovering African history and heritage (35:00), the importance of Zelie being desired and experiencing romantic love (37:00) and much more! Jules and Tobi end the show by giving their views on Arsenal player Mesut Ozil quitting the German national team after accusations of racism and islamophobia and the exhausting #goodimmigrant struggle (50:00). Song of the week: “Level up” by Ciara

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This week, Tobi (@jollofandmalt) realises that he is not ready for parenthood and is excited about the court cases happening worldwide coinciding with Pride month that show progress in LGBT rights (3:00). Nomsa (@nomiefk) shares a horror story about using the website booking.com (06:17) and Jules (@blackacrylic) is blown away by a festival at the Tate Britain Museum entitled "Queer Now" (11:41) where she learns about working class, queer British history from the performer Bird la Bird. Love Island mania is in the air! (19:30) The team discuss how the lack of diversity and subtle racism on the popular British TV show portrays a microcosm of dating in the UK through how its lone black female contestant, Samira, is being treated like a backup dancer (34:00). It was National Refugee day on the 20th of June and the team explores America separating families at its border (35:38) bringing focus to the fact that the vast majority of refugees globally are taken in by developing countries in Africa/the Middle East and remain undocumented. Special guest, the sultry voiced radio presenter and music artist @juneubi joins the team in the studio from Lagos, Nigeria for some banter (50:38). June shares how she created her brand(1:03:34) and shares her 5 top tips for those wanting to move (1:19:05). African Excellence: @RomeOriogun and his poetry on queer African love in the face of persecution that won the Brunel International Prize for Poetry in 2017 (https://brittlepaper.com/2016/06/metamophosis-romeo-oriogun-african-poetry/). Song of the Week: Nana by Mi Casa

Happy Pride Month to all our followers! We would love to hear from you, tweet us your thoughts @kipepeopod :) Nomsa (@nomiefk) is back and gives some insight on bottom of the pyramid problems in Kenya (01:00), Jules (@blackacrylic) shares thoughts on the 1 year anniversary of the Grenfell Tower fire (07:00) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) is happy-ing himself with overnight oats and Love Island (13:00). Following the deaths of Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain, the team discuss attitudes to suicide and mental health in African communities and the need for greater empathy and understanding (24:00). The team also share their views on Beyonce and Jay Z’s nude and intimate On the Run II Tour photos (47:45) and the recent US Supreme Court decision to back the baker who refused to make a wedding cake for a gay couple (55:00). Song of the week: ‘Confidence’ by Raye & Maleek Berry African excellence: @Youmi is an app that connects learner drivers and instructors instantly. Get in the driving seat with Youmi. Pre-register on www.youmidrive.co.uk

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) discuss Tobi’s current reading list (01:00), the Malian hero who was awarded French citizenship (05:00), other Africans hating on the podcast (07:24) and Diddy sharing Falz’s video for “This Is Nigeria” (09:40). This week also features special guests Claire (@clairemariam) and Charles (@cjmaechi) Onuoha. Claire is a women's health advocate and self-taught cook who recently published her first cookbook, “Full Time Living” https://www.clairemariam.com/books. She shares how she found her passion and purpose and is helping women eliminate painful, irregular periods by making changes to their diet and lifestyle (10:48). Claire also runs a forum on Facebook where women can share their worries, tips and testimonies on all things women's health and fertility https://m.facebook.com/groups/1966322196744149 Charles is a serial entrepreneur and joint owner of Prince of Peckham Pub https://princeofpeckham.co.uk/. He discusses making the transition into being your own boss, the challenges of entrepreneurship and building supportive communities and networks (40:30). Song of the week "This is Nigeria" by Falz Books "Full-Time Living" by Claire Mariam "Just Above My Head" by James Baldwin "The Body Keeps the Score: Mind, Brain and Body in the Transformation of Trauma" by D. Van de Kolk

Tobi (@jollofandmalt) and Jules (@blackacrylic) discuss their highlights from Prince Harry & Meghan Markle's #RoyalWedding Music "Ti mo feran ju" by Ebenezer Obey Enitan "If" by Davido "Today I will lift up my voice" by Agatha Moses

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) enjoy some Romanian vodka and discuss Tobi's recent travels to Nigeria and Romania (02:00), the recent wahala between Cardi B and Azealia Banks (09:55), the pending Royal Wedding of Oluwaharry and Oluwameghan (21:40) and Donald Glover's, “This Is America” (29:30). Tobi also shares a recent interview with Nigerian fashion designer Ian Audifferen of @tzarstudios (40:30). Ian recently showcased his unisex collection at Arise Fashion Week in Lagos. He shares the inspiration behind his designs, thoughts on the Nigerian fashion industry today and where he sees his personal brand in the future. Tobi also interviews founders of @yoyotinz (1:01:43). Essé (@thisnobeart) and Selorm (@fullish_art) are curating and promoting Hip Hop culture in Africa and are currently crowdfunding to bring the yoyotinz festival to Ghana. Song of the week: “Gidi boy” by Onome Books "There was a Country: A personal history of Biafra" by Chinua Achebe "Children of Blood and Bone" by Tomi Adeyemi

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Nomsa (@nomiefk) are joined by Oxford MBA candidate and financial literacy advocate Buhle Ndlovu (@beeinrsa). They discuss Bill Cosby finally being convicted of sexual assault (03:15), Freedom Day (04:30) and Zara ripping off a MaXhosa design by South African designer Laduma Ngxokolo (05:30). Kanye West in the sunken place (10:00) and the stigma of black conservative politics. Including Conservative MP Kwasi Kwarteng’s views on why he doesn’t need to represent ‘black’ issues. The also discuss the Windrush scandal, aggressive anti-immigration policies and the appointment of new Home Secretary (23:00). Bulhe shares tips on budgeting, saving and investing without burning yourself out (32:10). The team also discuss being open about money (and debt) in relationships (1:00:30), and managing expectations of family members so you can still achieve your financial goals (1:10:00). Tweet us @kipepeopod Song of the week: Kuliko Jana by Saudi Sol Articles British politician Kwasi Kwarten on why he doesn’t need to represent ‘black’ issues https://trueafrica.co/article/british-politician-kwasi-kwarteng-on-why-identity-politics-are-undemocratic/ Joan C Williams on Trump, elitism and the white working class https://www.ft.com/content/9d657fb8-3506-11e7-bce4-9023f8c0fd2e

This week Tobi (@jollofandmalt) shares his new skincare regiment (0:50) and a story about the need to protect your intellectual property (5:00). Jules (@blackacrylic) shouts out Julius Malema’s tribute to Winnie Mandela (Rest in Peace mama) and the #JuliusMalemaChallenge that followed (9:40). Nomsa (@nomiefk) visits the Maqdala 1868 exhibition at the Victoria & Albert (17:00) and is unimpressed by the museum offering to return the artefacts to Ethiopia on long-term loan. They debate the increasing murder rate in London (22:50), stop and search and how the future looks less than bright for disadvantaged communities in the capital. The team also share their thoughts on Moesha Boduong and getting a sugar daddy or mummy to supplement your lifestyle (49:00). This week's African excellence is Modupeola Fadugba. Modupe’s art explores cultural identity, social justice, within the socio-political landscape of Nigeria and our greater global economy. (1:03:30). Track of the week: Man down (feat. AlunaGeorge) by Shakka

This week Jules (@blackacrylic), Nomsa (@nomiefk) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) are back after the Easter break! Nomsa returns from Nairobi and shares her experience staying in Kenya’s oldest colonial hotel (3:50), Tobi spots Daniel Kaluuya at a London restaurant (11:00), and Jules visits the Vasa Museum in Stockholm (12:45). The team also discuss Naomi Campbell in Lagos living her best life at Lagos Fashion Week (20:40), the need to invest in the arts and give young creatives on the continent a platform. As well as Tyrone Hankerson Jr. and scammers portraying fake luxury lifestyles on social media (44:07) and Joanne the Scammer’s past life (56:04). They end this episode with shout out to African fashion brand “Friday Born Designs” for their work supporting disadvantaged youth in Ghana (1:02:30) http://www.fridayborndesigns.com/ Books: Brit(ish): On Race, Identity and Belonging by @AfuaHirsch Song of the week: Tonight by @Nonso_A Tweet us! @kipepeopod Email us! @kipepeopod@gmail.com

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Tobi (@jollfandmalt) are joined by co-founder of #BlackLivesMatter Patrisse Khan-Cullors. Patrisse discusses her journey into activism, self-care in adversity, the importance of #BlackLivesMatter being a female led movement that challenges patriarchy and homophobia and her new book, “When They Call You a Terrorist: A Black Lives Matter Memoir”.

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Nomsa (@nomiefk) celebrate Women’s month and Nomsa’s birthday (0:15). They discuss the President of South Africa’s recent announcement to transfer land from the country’s white minority to the black majority without compensation (5:25), more #BlackPanther (16:35), T’Challa vs. Killmonger, feminism in the film and the need to support and invest in our communities the way we have supported #BlackPanther. The team also discuss Anthony Joshua’s misogynistic comments about his niece and the need to rebuke gender norms (35:18), Monique accusing Netflix of gender bias, racial bias and the constant struggle for equal pay (40:08). They respond to a listeners question regarding the #genderpaygap (49:13) and share some do’s and don’t’s when negotiating for a pay rise. In celebration of Women’s Month the show ends with Danai’s Gurira’s powerful speech at ESSENCE Black Women In Hollywood Awards (1:12:00). Song of the week: Best Part (ft. H.E.R.) by Daniel Cesar We would love to hear from you! Tweet us @Kipepeopod

This week Jules (@blackacrylic), Nomsa (@nomiefk) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) discuss the resignation of Jacob Zuma (4:00), Tobi's trip to Liverpool (6:30) and the amazing, revolutionary, life-changing, perfect and beautiful #BLACKPANTHER (9:30) #WakandaForever. The team also discuss same-sex parenting as a response to the homophobic backlash against British diver Tom Daley announcing he and his husband are expecting a baby via surrogate (19:50), the lack of LGBTQ representation in #BlackPanther, internet haters and fawn over Lupita Nyong'o, Danai Gurira and the women of Wakanda (29:30). The final topic this week focuses on maintaining relationships with loved ones with mental health (37:40). The team share personal experiences with depression, challenging relationships, seeking help and prioritising self-care. We would love to hear from you! Tweet us @Kipepopod

This week Jules (@blackacrylic), Tobi (@jollofandmalt) and Nomsa @nomiefk) discuss World Cancer Day (2:00), Black Panther red carpet hype (4:17), @DavidMcQueen and @MadelineMcQueen’s new relationships podcast (8.30), Rihanna’s West African education initiative (9.25) and Somali girls not repping Africa at the Maleek Berry concert (10.57). The team also discuss Leslie Jones and the fear of dying alone (14:10), the politics of desire (17:34) colourism, dating and personal preference (28:58) and answer your questions on sex, dating and marriage (38:00) in time for Valentine’s Day! Topics include, telling your partner the sex is lame, love languages, friends with benefits, keeping your relationship fresh and so much more! Books - The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman - Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel - It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with (Almost) No Help from My Spouse by Winifred M. Reilly We would love to hear from you! Tweet us @Kipepeopod

This week Jules (@blackacrylic), Nomsa (@nomiefk) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) are joined by professional speaker, communications coach and diversity champion @DavidMcQueen. They discuss Eli Finkel’s book “The All-or-Nothing Marriage” (03:00), whether or not Africa is a shithole (8:14) and colourism and light-skinned privilege (23:15). David gives insight into his colourful career journey, listening to clues that can lead you to your purpose and how millennials can stand out from the crowd by going the extra mile (33:00). The team also discuss Aziz Ansari, #MeToo, #TimesUp, teaching boundaries (1:10:12) and much more! Song of the week: Trône by @Booba Tweet us @kipepeopod!

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) are joined by tarot reader, intuitive counsellor, PhD, writer and cultural theorist @leonanicholeblack. They kick off the first episode of 2018 discussing #Oprah’s formidable golden globe acceptance speech (3:30), #HM’s controversial monkey hoodie (6:45), colourism and @amaralanegraln on #LHHMiami (14:44), white people saying the N word (23:00) and Lewis Hamilton shaming his nephew for wearing a dress over the Christmas holidays (26:50). The team share their personal journeys in education, debate primary school privilege, the false promise of higher education and the need to be strategic on your entrepreneurial journey (34:20). Leona also gives insight into her journey from Pentecostal Christian to finding alternative ways to express her spirituality, performs a live tarot reading (55:00) and more! Tweet us @kipepeopod !

This week Jules (@blackacrylic), Nomsa (@nomiefk) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) shout out new listeners and everyone supporting @kipepeopod (01:55), Tobi gets taxed 52% and is shook (03:40), Jules’ boo moves to London (07:18), Alexandra Burke is slaying #StrictlyComeDancing (08:23) and Nomsa is changing lives in Uganda (14:30). The team also discuss Christmas plans and extortionate flights to Nigeria (19:30), smart saving v dumb saving (23:30), gifts for your boo, shooting your shot this Christmas (27:20), putting your best foot forward with the in-law’s (31:30), having sex when staying with in-laws or nah? (38:40), using the office Christmas party to bond with your colleagues (44:45), reviewing 2017: #Trump #Brexit #Grenfell #MeToo #FentyBeauty #HeartImmigration (50:00), New Year resolutions, how to get that glow up in 2018 (1:08:40) and more! Tweet us @kipepeopod !

Levels have changed this week as Kipepeo Podcast celebrate their 10th episode and the engagement of Prince Harry and Megan Markle (2:00). Jules (@blackacrylic), Nomsa (@nomiefk) & Tobi (@jollofandmalt) can't wait for Megan's mother to attend the #RoyalWedding (hopefully wearing dreadlocks) and for Harry & Megan to have royal babies with ginger afros. They also discuss Africa: Are Ugandan's genetically lazy?? (9.20), shout out to Rwanda for taking in refugees from Libya (18:00), who is paying Mugabe's severance package??? (20:00). The team also ask if African women are willing to marry down and what makes an ideal partner? (28:00), the tension of building wealth as an African millennial in the face of the expectation to often be your parents' retirement plan (52:00)and are joined by Eunice Baguma Ball (@eb_ball), founder of the Africa Technology Business Network who is changing the narrative of African women in tech (1:08:00). Eunice shares in journey of building a business leading up to the imminent release of her book (check it out at http://www.herfutureafrica.org/). Song of the week: Kwesta by Ngud' ft. Cassper Nyovest Tweet us @kipepeopod!

This week, Jules(@blackacrylic), Nomsa(@nomiefk)& Tobi (@jollofandmalt)celebrate Nomsa’s promotion and share some ideas on how you can get promoted too! (02:00). They also discuss how Tobi’s article on being mixed Romanian & Nigerian is changing lives: https://medium.com/@oluwatobiobi/so-where-are-you-really-from-19439c70df33(08:30), internalizing stereotypes(19:30), Biskit of #BkChatLDN being a snitch and a scammer(23:00, Bobrisky’s arrest and Nigerian’s playing with your life when they don’t f* with you (25:30). They also discuss praying, fasting and saving yourself for marriage (29:00), shame & guilt: the sex lives of African millennials (34:20), being a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets (42:55), what to do if you’re not getting oral sex in your relationship(45:30), FGM, patriarchy and disempowering of women as sexual beings(50:10), initiating sex as a woman (52:50) and if cheating is ever ok (01:09:00) plus so much more! Song of the week: 163 För Evigt by Cherrie (@Chxrrie) ft. Z.E Tweet us @kipepeopod!

This week Jules (@blackacrylic) and Tobi (@jollofandmalt) discuss growing up African & LGBTQ and the politics of desire (29:50 - 48:00) with Mikael Owunna (@mikaelowunna), photographer of #LimitlessAfricans. They also discuss anti-blackness amongst people of colour (3:00 - 6:35), the sexual harassment allegations against Kevin Spacey (8.27 - 11.30) and catch up on Mikael's experience travelling around Europe (11.31 - 20:27). As well as the tension amongst African-American and African communities (22.15 - 29:50), pegging, toxic masculinity (49:50 - 1:03:30) and so much more! Song of the week: Blinded by your grace by Stormzy ft. MNEK Tweet us @kipepeopod!

This week Jules, Tobi and a bottle of prossecco (instead of Nomsa) are joined by Munya Hoto (@its_hot_o) as they take a deep dive into the millennial mental health epidemic and the unravelling picture of widespread sexual abuse the Harvey Weinstein media storm is painting. 
They explore the power dynamics of rape culture, commemorate the 30th anniversary of the death of Thomas Sankara, the revolutionary leader of Burkina Faso, and Jules shares the details of her Christmas holiday fitness glow-up. They also have a moment of silence for the inspirational Angela Bassett who will be starring in the upcoming Black Panther movie. Join them Song of the week: Waitin’ by Kelela Tweet us @kipepeopod, @blackacrylic (Jules), @nomiefk (Nomsa), @jollofandmalt (Tobi)

This week Jules, Nomsa & Tobi discuss Nomsa being mistaken for Beyonce while travelling, the Vegas shooting and living in the age of radicalism and neo-nazis. They also discuss Theresa May crumbling before our eyes (P45 pranks and all), the legacy of Hugh Hefner, Tiwa Savage's shocking comments and creating balance in relationships because men can cook and clean too! They finish off with an in-depth discussion on endometriosis and nutrition (warning it gets a bit TMI and they say the word vagina a lot too). Tweet us @kipepeopod, @blackacrylic (Jules), @nomiefk (Nomsa), @jollofandmalt (Tobi) This podcast is brought to you by https://www.ziandluwa.com/ use KIPEPEO10 for 10% off at checkout.

This week Jules and Nomsa are joined by Barrister and BBC Broadcaster Hashi Mohamed, who shares his journey, from coming to the UK as an unaccompanied child refugee, to joining one of Britain's elite professions. They also discuss stereotypes, the resistance to black excellence, being called a coconut for speaking good English, how meaningful friendships can help you soar, getting a sugar daddy at university and so much more! Tweet us @kipepeopod, @blackacrylic (Jules), @nomiefk (Nomsa), @hm_hashi (Hashi) This podcast is brought to you by https://www.ziandluwa.com/

This week Jules, Nomsa & Tobi discuss boycotting L’Oreal. The Kenyan elections and how African politicians have 0 chill. The role of the Church in charity and social justice. Our disappointment in Joel Osteen and the prosperity gospel. As well as Eniola Aluko speaking out against bullying and racism on the England squad. We also revive gap-yah (because it’s too good to be forgotten) and share tips on how you can step up your online dating game. Tweet us @kipepeopod, @blackacrylic (Jules), @nomiefk (Nomsa), @jollofandmalt (Tobi) This podcast is brought to you by https://www.ziandluwa.com/

This week Jules & Nomsa meet Hannah Peaker, Chief of Staff of the Women's Equality Party (WEP)and discuss the gender pay gap & race, leaning in, championing gender parity at work and how the WEP are championing equality in the UK. Tweet us @kipepeopod, @blackacrylic (Jules), @nomiefk (Nomsa) This podcast is brought to you by https://www.ziandluwa.com/

This week we discuss Nomsa's hair being called aggressive at work, Charlottesville, Trump & white supremacy, running from the immigrant bus, why Theresa May is a snake, fat shaming and relationship expectations (the grass isn't greener on other side)! Tweet us @kipepeopod, @blackacrylic (Jules), @nomiefk (Nomsa), @jollofandmalt (Tobi) This podcast is brought to you by https://www.ziandluwa.com/

This week Jules, Nomsa & Tobi introduce themselves and discuss Amir Khan vs Anthony Joshua and if love is racist or nah. Tweet us @kipepeopod, @blackacrylic (Jules), @nomiefk (Nomsa), @jollofandmalt (Tobi) This podcast is brought to you by https://www.ziandluwa.com/