Date Mates

Today’s episode is a wildly unique one because you’re gonna hear Ciaran talk a girl to a loud, screaming orgasm and explain exactly how he did it so you can do it too (assuming you're attracted to women!).Here you’ll learn:Why it’s essential to build a hot and sexy vibe over time to really drive her wild with lust. FYI, something women hate about guys is that too many of us rush to penetration without taking time to create a red hot mood first. You want her to be begging you to put it inside her.What women want and need from a man in bed and the mindset you need to give it to them better than anyone else.Why you need to embrace both your sexuality and hers in order for her to feel comfortable enough to unlock her inner sexual goddess. She must feel absolutely no judgement coming from you towards her.Why it’s important for the man to lead in the bedroom; how to do so powerfully, and what to do to her if you don’t know what to do.How girls feed off the energy you bring to the bedroom, which basically means that the emotions you’re feeling will be picked up on and felt by them too.How being insecure in the bedroom kills the mood and dries up girls’ vaginas like the Sahara Desert.Book a Breakthrough Session with Ciaran to fix your dating problemshttps://unstoppableconfidence.lpages.co/6-steps-consultation-signup/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's episode is all about slut shaming. Is it wrong for a woman to be openly sexual? Are Cardi B & girls who do Onlyfans complete whores and morally wrong?Have a listen to this episode & drop us a line on IG to let us know your thoughts.Our IGhttp://www.instagram.com/sex.lives.matter See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Episode 2 of Sex Lives Matter is here, and guess what? Today we're talking about professional athletes we'd like to do the nasty with, listening to some truly erotic sex confessions sent in by you guys, and discussing the theory that men are stronger, fitter, braver, sexier and more confident when they stop ejaculating for extended periods of time.Follow us on IG and send in your sex confessionshttp://www.instagram.com/sex.lives.matterBook your spot for Ciaran's weekly dating & sexual attraction advice webinar (Sunday @ 18:00 UK time)http://www.gameglobal.net/zoom See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In the first ever episode of Sex Lives Matter Ciaran and Eva spoke about the times they were propositioned and also looked at some of the humorous and shocking escapades sent in by the audience.Follow us on IG & send in your storieshttp://www.instagram.com/sex.lives.matterSign up for Ciaran's weekly dating & attraction tips webinarhttp://www.gameglobal.net/zoom See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

One thing that has to be said is that this episode definitely went sideways. It started out as a chat about something relatively sensible and respectable but really went sideways. :)Ciaran Callam - http://www.instagram.com/ciarancallamLidiaana - http://www.istagram.com/lidiaanamusic See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

With all the people we come across on dating apps, it's easy to forget that the 'losers' we're so quick to swipe left on are actually real people and not just pixels on our phone screens. It's also easy to forget that the profiles we're looking at aren't the actual people themselves and that we often swipe left on people who have bad profiles but would have rocked our worlds in person.Follow Ciaran on IG - http://www.instagram.com/ciarancallamFollow Liddy on IG - http://www.instagram.com/lidiaanamusic See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This title isn't clickbait in the least because Lidiaana has indeed gotten herself banned from Tinder for doing something the shouldn't have done! Want to know what she did so that you can avoid making the same mistakes in your dating life? Listen to this episode!DateMates is hosted by:Ciaran Callam - http://www.instagram.com/ciarancallamLidiaana - http://www.instagram.com/lidiaanamusic See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Everyone's heard the phrase honesty is the best policy but is that true? Is it best to be completely upfront about who you are, or is it best to hold back certain aspects of who you are to not offend the people you're dating? That's exactly what Ciaran Callam and Lidiaana discussed in this episode so have a listen and let us know what you think by hitting us up @ datematespodcast@gmail.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We're back! Date Mates took a slight hiatus over Christmas & the New Year as Ciaran moved into his new apartment and decorated but we're here and ready with a vengeance for the new year! Anyway, would you date someone with a child? If so, why? And if not, why not? It's a very contentious topic and while we spent this episode discussing our opinions on it, we'd love to hear yours.Date Mates podcast is hosted by Ciaran Callam and LidiaanaDatematespodcast@gmail.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

What are your major dating turn offs? The things that make you run a mile when you see them? Jealousy? Insecurity? Sexual timidity? Shyness? overconfidence? That's exactly what Ciaran & Lidiaana talk about in today's episode.http://www.instagram.com/datematespodcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's episode is a bit of a controversial one, but it's a necessary topic nonetheless, and basically it goes lie this. Is it OK to date outside the race? We live in a world where most people say it's fine to not look racist, but is it really? What are the problems you can face getting to know someone from a different culture? Is it worth it? Lidiaana and Ciaran give their opinions here! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Bit of a naughty/risque one today. In today's episode we spoke about what it's like when the person you like turns out to be nothing like you originally thought. When one way or another you've been catfished, either because they've lied about who they are, or you were just too blind to see it.And yeah; we also talk about women who sell their underwear and the men who buy them. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Pretty much everyone reading this has either friendzoned someone in the past or been friendzoned themselves, and that's what we're talking about in this week's episode. But why do people get friendzoned, and how can you get out of it? Give this episode a listen for answers to those questions and more See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ever been with somebody who dumped you out of the blue for what looked like no reason? Well we can't tell you why that happened but we can give you some clues to look out for so you can spot the signs that might point to it happening again in future. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Everyone's scared when it comes to dating, and we're always on the lookout for red flags when we meet new people. But which red flags are the most important to look out for? Which ones will cause you the most harm if they go unnoticed? Well that's what we looked at in this episode. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's episode asks the question of what women want from men, and what men want from women. As usual, we're honest, blunt, and a little bit cheeky. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Is it worth being in a long distance relationship, or are they just too much hassle? And how likely are they to succeed? We answer these questions and more in today's episode, and we also look at some of the reasons why it's silly to take romantic rejection to heart. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

As the title says, today's episode is about whether or not it ever makes sense to get back with your ex. We also ask give a practical tip for how you can feel confident enough to boldly approach that hot stranger standing at the bar, the bus stop, the squat rack, or dare we say it, even the train station platform! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Guten tag everybody! This is Liddy's last week in America so today's episode is another delightful fan Q&A for your sexy asses. Among the questions answered today are:How can you tell if a woman's ready to kiss you?Why will men not tell you that they only want sex?Should you date someone who isn't financially secure?Would Liddy ever have sex with someone she had no intention of dating? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

G'day listeners! My beautiful co-host Lidiaana is away conquering the US this week so in this episode I'll be personally answering a few of your fan questions including:Why do guys get ghosted even when dates went well?Is it really important to love yourself fully before getting into relationship?Why do men tell lies and pretend to be something they're not?One love!Ciaran See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hey, hey hey! In today's episode we answer the following questions from our listeners:What is flirting & how can you do it?How can a man be sexy without being creepy?Should a woman tell a man everything she wants commitment-wise on the first date?Should you have sex with an attractive coworker?Follow us on instagram - http://www.instagram.com/datematespodcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The title says it all. In today's episodes Ciaran and Lidiaana look at times when they've either been embarrassed by their partners of had people be embarrassed by them. They also look at some of the surefire ways you can tell if someone's embarrassed by you. This is a pretty deep and unflinching episode so if you'e someone that's put off by raw honesty and real talk, then click away and listen to something more tame. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

According to studies, premarital cohabitation has increased by a staggering amount in recent years. It's something loads of people are doing now but just when exactly is the right time to move in with your girlfriend/boyfriend? One month? Two? Six? A couple of years? We look at this question and also list reasons why men shouldn't be too scared to make physical moves on the women they date. As well as that, we also have listener feedback for episode 4, Why people ghost. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ever been ghosted out the blue by someone you were really into? Ever decided you were bored of someone and just decided to stop responding to them? And if you have, did you feel guilty or did you not care at all? In any event, today's episode is all about ghosting We look at the reasons why people ghost, how to un-ghost yourself, why women ghost more than men, and what happens when you randomly bump into the person who ghosted you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This episode looks at the most common reasons people gave for why they cheated on their partners and also asks the question of whether or not cheating is ever OK. Liddy takes a firm stance on this one, but Ciaran takes a more nuanced view. What's your opinion?Let us know by:Emailing: datematespodcast@gmail.comDMing www.instagram.com/datematespodcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ever been in one of those situations where you're just not really sure where the hell you stand with someone? Are you dating? In a relationship? Just seeing each other? You haven't got a clue what's going on or what the situation is and it's frustrating as all hell. Well we know exactly how you feel and that's exactly what today's episode is all about.We also have listener feedback for episode 1's topic 'Who pays for the first date?'Folllow us on IG - http://www.instagram.com/datematespodcastGot an opinion on this episode? Email us - datematespodcast@gmail.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A man & a woman are on their first date. Nerves are in the air, attraction is afoot, & chemistry is building. When the time comes to pay the bill, who pays?Follow us on IG - http://www.datematespodcast@gmail.comEmail us - datematespodcast@gmail.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.