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This week, join our hosts as we discuss some of the most difficult relationship conversations out there, and chatting about our own experiences with each one. Join us as we chat finances, careers, and children/infertility. We discuss how to navigate these tricky topics in interpersonal relationships. 

This week, we're diving into a growing conversation of social media influencers and what their level of accountability should be when influencing their fans and audience.  We've seen a lot of influencer misconduct in the last few years as this job title has grown online, and are realizing more and more that there isn't really a code of conduct for what is ethical and what is not for those who carry the job position of "online influencer". More and more, it's us as a society who are choosing what is acceptable, and what isn't, when it comes to influencer conduct.  With three different standpoints, join us as we dig into this topic and share a bit of our experiences and opinions when it comes to observing and interacting with online influencers. 

We’re tackling the two things that many find themselves trying to juggle every day -- successful careers and healthy mental health practices.  We dig into what mental illness difficulties can mean for us when trying to ambitiously grow our careers, positive steps to include in everyday practice, and some tips and tricks to remember on this lifelong journey of discovery.  Join us for more laughs as we cut ourselves some professional slack, and Gillian & Jessica applaud Maggie for eating birthday cake for breakfast. #PostiveMentalHealthHacks 

Join our hosts for this week's episode centred around Netflix’s original true crime documentary, “American Murder: The Family Next Door”. This much-talked-about documentary details the disappearance and murder of Shanann Watts and her two daughters, Bella and Celeste.We break down the case, dive into the really unique and fantastic storytelling through social media posts and police cams, etc., and we detail the facts and important details that Netflix didn’t tell you about this case that you NEED to know. Enjoy!

We're back again with another Patreon Preview episode! This week, we're digging into the best advice we've ever been given by our therapists. The three of us are HUGE advocates for therapy in any recovery or mental health journey, and we're passing along the insights from professionals that have changed our lives for the better.From confronting our own toxic people-pleasing, to building a trauma-tool-kit in times of crisis, and every foundational mental health practice in between, we dive into a transparent and helpful conversation about some advice and tools (from professionals!) that you yourself might be able to implement for a better quality of life. Enjoy!

For the first episode of this New Year, Gillian interviews Acamea Deadwiler, author of the critically-aclaimed book, "Single That: Dispelling The Top 10 Myths Of The Single Woman" and writer for the Fearless She Wrote publication. 2020 has been a year for the books, and the COVID pandemic really did a number on our dating lives, extinguishing many opportunities to build intimate relationships. In this episode, Gillian & Acamea discuss the obstacles and judgement single women regularly encounter, the importance of valuing one's singlehood and autonomy, and the ways to set your dating life up for success in 2021. /// To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

Hello Fearless family! Holidays are made for rest and spending quality time with family, but this year is looking a little different. Many of us will not be able to see our families this holiday season, and this year of hardship is leaving us with many questions. This week, our Fearless hosts are taking a break from recording, and so we're republishing one of our favourite episodes of all time. This episode touches on some messages we all really need to hear and think about as we wrap up 2020, a year of struggle, confusion and societal conflict. Thank you for an incredible year of healing and growth together, and we will see you all in the New Year!

Happy Holidays from Fearless to you all -- this is our gift to you! For this bonus EXTRA special episode, Jessica is interviewing CEO Madison Campbell and CTO Liesel Vaidya of Leda Health, an organization committed to offering accessible support services to all survivors of sexual assault, as well as the innovation of their empowering “at-home rape kits”. Join these inspiring ladies as they talk social justice, what the recent presidential election means for sexual survivors moving forward, the biggest problems with how the health and justice system provides care for rape survivors and what it’s like being a female co-founding group of women for a for-profit company (spoiler alert: there’s a lot of sexism and misogyny involved!). You won't regret listening!

If you've been wondering what we're up to on the Fearless Patreon feed, here's your answer! We are SO excited to be giving a taste of what our monthly bonus episodes look like on Patreon. We’re digging into this gnawing question of: what the heck is the fascination of female virginity? From Rapper T.I. taking his daughter for yearly hymen checks, to bets made on Gillian’s virginity as a teen, to discussing Jess’ complex experience with sex education, we’re dissecting the history, danger and bizarre nature of society’s fascination with female virginity, and setting the record straight. Enjoy! /// Listen to more bonus episode on our Patreon feed: patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

There are few things worse than heartbreak. Whether you've been heartbroken by a romantic partner or a friend, we've all been there... so what are we to do with all of those messy, terrible feelings? How do we even begin to heal from something that feels impossible to get over? This week, our Fearless hosts discuss broken hearts and how to overcome that pain and thrive in your life again. From worst breakup stories to best tips for moving on, gather 'round for a hilariously honest episode.

This week, we're diving into a rather controversial topic -- the importance of including men in the #MeToo conversation. We'll be the first to admit that feminism today is failing men, transgender and non-binary survivors of sexual assault. At Fearless we're always actively working towards being part of the solution, rather than the problem. Join us as we chat about the background of #MeToo, dive into how toxic masculinity keeps male survivors even more silent (we touch on Johnny Depp and Terry Cruz), and what we need to be doing to SMASH the patriarchy for everyone's benefit. No survivor will be left behind on our watch. 

It's Spooky Season, y'all! For a pre-Halloween episode, we're having some fun with a horror story spin-off detailing the *scariest* stories from our dating histories. The world is a dumpster fire right now (as is ironically our past dating experiences), and we're here to make you all feel better with some laughter at OUR expense. We've sacrificed for your happiness and entertainment -- you're welcome and enjoy! /// To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

We live in a fast-paced world that is demanding we hustle every moment of every day... and our mental health is absolutely suffering for it. Productivity is like most things -- it's great in moderation. But when we take it too far? That's when it can get tricky, and we start legitimately putting our health at risk. Join our three workaholic hosts as they dissect what the role of healthy productivity looks like (spoiler: they're still actively figuring this one out!), and offer examples of what it takes to turn healthy productivity sour, pushing it into toxic territory. 

As a group of True Crime junkies, Jess, Maggie & Gillian dive into a satirical (but also painfully true) episode which outlines all the measures we as women take in everyday life to avoid being attacked, murdered and/or assaulted. Laugh with us as we go through practical self-defence advice that could save all of our lives one day, and cringe with us as we reflect on how truly awful and terrifying it can be living as a woman in our modern world (we laugh so that we don’t cry).  /// To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

Are you currently dating, or have you ever dated, a narcissist? Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very real, and it can cause a lifetime of harm in romantic relationships. In this episode, Gillian interviews the amazing Carrie Wynn, Fearless She Wrote writer and Relationship Coach. They dig into the red flags for identifying if you’re dating a narcissist (like love-bombing you at the start), how to safely leave a narcissistic abuser, and what to expect in the recovery journey following such a relationship. Gillian & Carrie get candid, transparent and honest as they cover this topic that many of us can resonate with, but is barely talked about. To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

Have you ever received self-care advice from a microwave? Well, in this episode, we do just that and take a page out of Gillian’s ancient microwave on how we can better care for our own mental and emotional health! Self-care is certainly a tricky thing to get the hang of (adulting is damn hard in general), but thankfully our Fearless co-hosts have therapists who have offered their professional advice as we dig further into this topic. We’re covering self-care when life gets tough, and we’re highlighting what self-care looks like when it’s more important than ever to recognize our own privilege. Let’s chat about how that privilege speaks into our own struggles as we attempt to navigate our broken and messy world. /// To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

Everyone has heard of the 'Friend Zone' -- but is it a valid concept? In this week's episode, we clarify what the Friend Zone actually is (here's looking at you, Jess!), we talk real-life examples of these kinds of encounters, and we dig deeper into the toxic and darker side of the Friend Zone that is barely ever talked about. PSA: Please forgive us for the quality of Gillian's mic for the first 20 mins of the podcast -- we're working overtime to figure out this new technology! /// To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

You know what’s really uncomfortable? Confronting someone you love about their toxic or harmful behavior. With an emphasis on the BLM movement this week, we’re asking the question: is it really just a “difference of opinion”, or something more fundamental like a disbelief that all people are entitled to basic human rights? Through chatting about our real-life experiences, we dissect how to cope with and handle these situations as an ally, while also protecting our own mental health along the way.

You guys asked for some lighter topics, and we’re delivering! The world can be a dark place sometimes, and we need laughs along the way to keep up our spirits. Thus, this week we’re talking about boobies and bras! Our Fearless co-hosts chat about “boob-prisons”, different types of breasts, and challenging ourselves to choose comfort over societal pressures. /// To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

Justin Bieber, Chris D’Elia & Ansel Elgort have recently been called out by alleged victims of sexual assault. As survivors, our Fearless co-hosts delve into social media’s role in amplifying #metoo voices, the power imbalance of famous people vs. fans, & why victims step forward years later. Plus, hear how Gillian’s husband reacts when she officially pre-accepts a coffee invite from Chris Hemsworth. /// To support us, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

Let's get to the bottom of this age-old question: is there a pre-created script for life, or are we all the masters of our own destiny? Maggie, Gillian and Jessica dissect the arguments for and against this philosophy, and use real-life examples to shed light on what the possible answer for this well-known saying could be. /// To support this podcast on Patreon, visit: https://www.patreon.com/fearlesscommunity

Have you ever been on a date and in the middle of casual conversation mentioned you're a *feminist*? Yeah, you can practically hear a pin drop in those moments. For this episode, Maggie, Jessica & Gillian are chatting about their experiences dating as feminists, and how their foundational beliefs for equality have caused a few obstacles on the way to finding love. Plenty of laughter guaranteed for this one!

There are fewer topics we're more passionate about than using storytelling in our healing and recovery journeys. This form of self-guided therapy has been revolutionary for many. From addressing our trauma in powerful ways to impacting lives with our vulnerable stories, join our co-hosts as they tell you exactly what to expect from this life-changing process. 

In history-making times of stay-at-home orders, the beauty industry is still busy at work. From magic products to "fix" all of our problems before quarantine lifts, to fitness influencers reminding us that "beach-body" weather is still on its way and we need to be prepared, we've all seen these toxic posts on social media around. Join Jessica, Maggie & Gillian as they dissect why this sort of messaging is problematic, and how we can shift the narrative in a healthier direction.

Join us in our premiere episode as we talk about encountering regular misogyny online, dissecting why some professional spaces are categorized more feminine vs. masculine, and how we as women can protect ourselves online while also building solid and successful online brands for ourselves.